How To Make A Woman Choose YOU Over Other Men

An “Interviews With Dating Gurus” Special Report…“How To Make AWoman Choose YOUOver Other Men”Tips From The “Steve Celeste”Monthly InterviewDavid DeAngelo©2005, All Rights Reserved./InterviewSeries“How To Make A Woman Choose YOU Over Other Men”I just had the pleasure of interviewing my friend Steve, who shared some fascinating secrets of making conversations with women great, getting your “inner game” handled FOR GOOD, and getting a woman to pick YOU over other men.Steve is what some people would call a “natural”… but in our interview he explained how any guy can achieve a high level of success with women by simply focusing on a few key things.I’ve put together this special “Hotsheet” for you to help you remember and act on those key points. Let’s get right into it… 1.Conquer Your FearsSteve made the point that many so-called “men” have a lot of growing up to do… because they aren’t conquering the situations that require them to “man up” and take charge of their lives.An example every man can relate to is the fear of approaching strangers… especially when it comes to attractive women.Steve was forced to conquer this fear when he set out to travel the world on his own. On the first day of his trip he found himself in Bangkok, Thailand with a BIG decision to make.If he didn’t conquer his fear of approaching strangers, he would be alone for the next several months.He was forced to “man up” and take charge… and by doing so he went on to have one of the greatest experiences of his life.You can do the same by making the decision right now to conquer your fear of approaching women.You may never have an experience that FORCES you to take charge of your life like Steve did… and that’s unfortunate.But YOU CAN make this happen for yourself.So let me ask you…When are YOU going to “man up”, conquer your fears, and start making things happen for yourself?No one else is going to do it for you, and your life is passing you by as we speak. Eliminate your fears, and along with them you will eliminate the future regrets you will have if you don’t take control now.Not only will doing this give you tremendous benefit in your life… it also automatically and dramatically will make you more attractive to women.The more experienced and attractive a woman is, the faster she can recognize a man who HAS gone through this… because she already met so many other men that have.And guess what?If you HAVEN’T, you don’t stand a chance with her.Think about it… she gets hit on 10 times a day… and she knows she’ll eventually find a guy who is man enough for her.So… save her the trouble, and do yourself a favor. Make that guy YOU.2.Find Out If She’s Right For You FASTIn our interview Steve talked about how in his younger days he would quickly “disqualify” a woman who wasn’t exactly what he was looking for.When Steve was still living with his parents, he didn’t feel comfortable bringing a woman over to his place…He wanted to find a woman who was single and lived on her own, so they would have a spot to hang out… without “interruptions”.To save time, he weaved this question into the very beginning of his conversations…He would first ask, “So, where are you from?” . . . followed up with “Who do you live with?”If she lived with her parents or her boyfriend, he politely excused himself and moved on. If she lived on her own or with roommates, he knew he had a “keeper”.While the example Steve shared was unique to his situation, YOU can do the very same thing to avoid wasting your time on women who aren’t what YOU are looking for… such as women who are “taken”.One of my favorite ways to do this is to ask a woman, “Are you single?” very early in the conversation… or even as a way to get it started.This gives me the information I need to know fast… and I know instantly whether to pursue the situation or move on.If there are certain personality traits you must have in a woman, think about how you could find out this information early on…If you want a woman who is athletic, ask her if she works out.If only want to date a woman who is a vegetarian, ask her about her favorite restaurants.If you are trying to avoid the “party-type” and you are looking for a “nice girl”, ask her how often she likes to go out.Doing this will not only save you a TON of time… it will also let a woman know you are SELECTIVE… which in turn will make her work harder to get your attention. Use it3.Become A “Natural”Steve made the point in our interview that there is no such thing as a true “natural”… because naturals make themselves so by cultivating qualities that are attractive to woman.And YOU can do the same.When Steve was 25 people considered him to be a “natural” because he dated a lot of women.What they failed to consider is that women found him attractive because of what he done with his life.At the time, Steve was a foreigner living in another country, spoke 4 languages, and was extremely well-traveled and educated.Now… think about how a woman would look at ANY man who possessed all of those things.Even if he wasn’t her “type” physically, she would have no choice but to admire and respect the traits he possessed and all he had accomplished.So remember this:Naturals are CREATED. And YOU can make yourself so.We are all born as children, we all have to learn how to socialize, deal with women, and make the most of our lives.So start by doing all you can to make yourself great in YOUR OWN eyes...That might mean working out and eating right, learning to play an instrument or learning a second language, taking a trip toa foreign country, or working with a charity to do some good in the world.When you do these things, women will notice. And as you take the steps to make your life great and improve yourself as a person, you’ll start to notice that your life---and especially your dating life---becomes EXPONENTIALLY better and more fulfilling.4.Learn From EverybodyIt can be hard to accept that you can learn from someone who isn’t as smart as you are… but the fact is that you need to get out there and learn from whomever you meet that “gets it” with women.I’ve found that a lot of the guys who are THE BEST with women aren’t of above-average intelligence… and I’m sure you’ll discover the same to be true…But don’t let that fool you into thinking that your intelligence isn’t a HUGE asset in learning this. When you watch these guys in the field, use your brain power to deconstruct the process of what these guys are doing, and make it yours.5.Be Your REAL SelfYou’ve heard it all your life.The phrase “be yourself” could easily be called the “universal” dating advice for men.Steve had a great way of explaining what women REALLY mean when they say this, and it is definitely worth repeating…What a woman wants is for you to be your REAL self… the person you are around your family and your buddies.Steve gave a great example I think we all can relate to…When you were a kid playing a game with friends and your mom would yell, “Come home for dinner”… of course you would say “I’m almost done with the game Mom… I’ll be there when I’m finished!”But then when you grow up and an attractive woman says, “Go to the bar and get me a drink” and you say “Right away dear!”Now let me ask you… is that “being yourself”?No way. You’re trying to win her approval by doing what she wants.This is how the average man acts around an attractive woman… and women see this “wussy” behavior as you trying to be someone you’re not…So remember… YOUR REAL SELF IS NOT A WUSS! So stop acting like one.6.Eliminate Your Inner TurmoilsSteve has an interesting theory on INNER game that you can use to figure out exactly what it is that is holding you back and defeat it FOR GOOD.Steve explained how “inner game” is all about getting rid of your “inner turmoils”… which includes anything that makes YOU unhappy in your life.The interesting thing about these turmoils is that they usually involve things that YOU KNOW you can change.If you could look take an “inner game X-Ray” of a guy who gets a lot of women, you would find that he hadn’t just “beat down” his inner turmoils… but that he had literally killed them.Here is Steve’s 3-step process that you can use to do the same:1.Identify them – The very first thing you need to do istake an honest look at the insecurities and problems youare facing in your life. I’ve found it helps to write themdown.2.Mask Them – The next step Steve suggests is to “fake ittill you make it” by MASKING your inner termoils so theydon’t effect you. For example, if you get nervous when it’stime to kiss a woman, “pretend” you are a strong,confident man, and act accordingly.3.Kill Them – The last step is the total annihilation ofyour worries and insecurities FOR GOOD. This can onlycome with long-term, consistent effort to beat the thingsthat are holding you back. If you make the effort thereWILL come a day when you wake up and don’t feel thosethings anymore… and that day can be very soon if you arewilling to put in the work to make it happen.7.Break Down The InteractionIn our interview Steve shared some advanced tactics that you can use to almost guarantee a great conversation every time you approach a woman…He explained how there are “3 Dances” going on in every interaction between a man and a woman… and how to use this subtle “behind the scenes” stuff to build attraction and sexual tension FAST.Here’s how it works:1. The Dance of EnergyWhen you first approach a woman, come in with a lot of energy. Speak loudly, and tell a funny story to get a laugh.Once you’re “in”, relax… lower your voice… and talk about some deeper subjects… such as your philosophies on life, your thoughts and dreams, and things you are passionate about.2. The Dance of Personal SpaceWhile you are talking with her step into her personal space just a bit to let her know you are there… then step back.It’s ok to move it a little further each time if it’s going well… but not too much. Your real goal here is to get her to move closer to YOU.3. The Dance of The Pursuer And The PursuedSteve explained how you must always be switching the roles of the “Pursued” and the “Pursuer” in an interaction with a woman to make things interesting.Steve suggests you first put your romantic agenda on the table by making a flirty comment or compliment that subtly lets her know you are interested. This put HER into the role of the “Pursued”, and YOU into the role of the “Pursuer”.The next step is to switch the roles around. A great way to do it is by misinterpreting something she says as her trying to “pick you up”.For example, if she asked you where you live, you could accuse her of trying to find out your address so she can start stalking you.Keep switching the roles back and forth and the tension and attraction will build up fast. It’s a lot of fun, and women love it.8.Build Routines From Your ExperiencesSteve made the point that people are accustomed to having the same, word-for-word conversations all the time… and sharedsome interesting ways to use this to your advantage when talking with women.The first step is to think about the questions YOU are asked all of the time, and come up with GREAT answers.For example, Steve noticed that women often ask him where he is from because he has an accent.He used to simply say, “Australia”… but now he says, “You American girls are all the same… first you ask where I’m from, then you compliment me on my accent, then you want to by me a drink… and before I know it you’ll want to take me home to show me your stereo”.Nice.There is NO reason to have lame, boring answers to questions you here every single day. Get them good, and women will notice… because you’ll stand out from all of the other guys who say the same old things.I hope you enjoyed listening to this interview as much as I enjoyed recording it. Steve shared some killer techniques and advice… and here’s got a lot more where that came from…I highly recommend you head over to his website at and pick up a copy of his eBook. I’ve read it, and it’s good stuff.Now, get ready… because I have some exciting news for you…Every once in a while I meet a woman who is really tuned in to the dynamics of male/female attraction… and can give us men some unique insights and strategies into the dating game that we would NEVER figure out on our own.The great news is that I recently met TWO of these amazing women… and I had the chance to interview BOTH of them on separate occasions.And… I’ve decided to pack BOTH of these interviews together and make next month a special “DOUBLE BONUS MONTH” in your “Interviews With Dating Gurus” seriesThe first woman you’ll hear from is known as "The Sex Diva", and "The Sexpert"... and has been the resident sexual expert at THREE very popular men's magazines for nearly 10 years (including Penthouse!).In our “wild” interview, you’ll learn everything from brand new sexual positions that women love... to new ways to bring women to orgasm, ways to project your sexuality and make women notice you... and even some KILLER "dating" strategies you can use to get yourself to the bedroom in the first place.Here are just a few of the other powerful secrets you’ll learn:-How to get a woman to discuss her SEXUAL FANTASIES (And most importantly... how to make her want to carry them out with YOU).-The easy once-a-day-exercise that charges your hormones and gives you a "SEXUAL GLOW" that women notice.-A LOT of guys get first dates, but not many get #2. Here's how to stand above the other guys she is dating so that YOU are the only one she even thinks of seeing again.-A subtle way to let a woman know you're a MASTER in the bedroom. (This is the BEST way to do this without scaring her off).-A "tell all" sign that a woman will sleep with you FAST.-An in-depth discussion of "R" and "X" rated techniques that will make you a lover that she will NEVER forget.The next amazingly insightful woman you will hear from specializes in the areas of DATING and RELATIONSHIPS.She teaches men the secrets women WISH guys knew... but don't know how to tell them.She's a professional Dating Coach, and works with women as well... so she gets to hear "the inside dirt" on a daily basis.In this interview, she shares DOZENS of little "tricks" that you can learn FAST and start using IMMEDIATELY to make women see you in a whole new way.Here are just a few of the brand new techniques you’ll learn:-A 6-word phrase that is a DEAD GIVEAWAY that a woman wants to sleep with you. (If only women knew! Enjoy this before it hits Cosmo...).-3 questions you can ask a woman that get her to recognize when she is dating a loser and see YOU as the one she has to have. -"Wuss Leaks" - The body language mistakes that lead a woman to believe you aren't man enough for her.-The exact amount of time you should hold eye contact with a woman if you want her to see you as SEXY and SECURE. (This one's important--Hold it too long and she'll think you're a "creep").-An exercise to eliminate deadly pre-programmed "wussy" reactions that might "sneak out" and ruin your game.-A little-known way to "read" a woman's eyes and know EXACTLY whether or not she is into you. (This is a biological reaction that women can't hide... you'll use it with every woman you meet from now on).-And much, much more…These 2 interviews will be in your mailbox soon… get ready to take some serious notes!And I’ll talk to you again soon.Your Friend,David D.P.S. 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