what makes a good conversation作文

what makes a good conversation作文
Conversation is a major part of everyone's daily life. Without conversation, life would be as cold as a rock. More importantly, good conversation is the part that interests us most. In my opinion, there are three ways to make a good conversation. The first is to ask good questions, the second is to listen, and the last is to make eye contact.
To start a good conversation, we'd better prepare some questions. Good questions are like delicate appetizers, they make people feel comfortable and willing to try other dishes. Questions should be polite and not invasive, and we can show our courtesy and concern for others by asking them. For example, did you sleep well last night? Or what do you do in your spare time? Think twice before you ask someone a question.
The most important part of a conversation is listening. We should pay attention to what others are saying and put ourselves in their shoes, allowing the other person to be the protagonist of the conversation. It is also important to be patient during the process, to stay interested in what they are saying and to respond from time to time to show that you are listening carefully. Don't interrupt others when they are excited to share their ideas.
Third, we always say that the eyes are the windows to the soul. Proper eye contact is like a great ingredient to the main dish, making it more delicious. In conversation, we should look them in the eye with confidence and friendliness.
This will help us promote mutual understanding. But don't stare at them all the time or for too long.
This will make others feel uneasy and reluctant to continue the conversation.
I think a conversation is always an attempt by a person to convey to us something they want us to know, or even to convince us, and I think this is one reason why we have to be patient and listen.
All in all, remember these keys: good questions, patient listening and eye contact.。