Module_1_Small_Talk 所有内容

◆0% necessity: We don't have to pay to get in. We have not got to see the boss after all. We needn't stay late. i.e. We needn't stay late but we can if we want to.
body language yawn sigh look away from social rules in addition find out opportunity
身体语言，肢体语言 v.打哈欠 v.叹气，叹息 把目光从……移开 社交规则 除此之外，另外 了解，找到（信息） n.机会
Words and Expressions
1 Complete the sentences with the
correct form of the words in the box. damage encourage impress prepare recognise
1 The singer was really good! She _________ impressed me a lot! 2 He had an accident and damaged ________ his bicycle. 3 Don’t shout at the children. You should encourage _________ them to do better. prepare for your 4 Make sure you _______ English examination. Do more homework! 5 At the party, I _________ recognised a boy who used to attend my school.
• 你是否想结交更多的盆友但又缺乏与陌生人交谈的信心？
• 3. Be prepared! Have some low-risk conversation openers ready. • 有备无患！准备好几句不太会出错的开场 白。 • have /get/make sth. ready做好准备：
• 你帮我安顿孩子睡觉好吗？ • Will you help me to get the child ready for bed?
obligation application leave out
n.责任，义务 n.申请 遗漏，漏掉
Words and Expressions
immigration
n.移民
visa
refund tidy reception embassy
n.签证
n.退款
v.使……整洁，整理
n.欢迎会，招待会 n.使馆
Fast-reading
• Read the passage and decide what kind of book it is from.P2
A. an English teaching book B. a business course C. a book which tells you what to do at social event D. a book to help you prepare for a speaking examination
• The general idea:
• This passage is about social skills. It tells us how to have a conversation and how to do small talk and when we go to a social occasion, we should pay attention to social rules in different countries.
•3 I said that we don’t have enough opportunity to speak English and he ______ nodded his head in agreement. •4 I think the man I spoke to was tired- he _______ yawned a lot. •5 He looked very sad when I asked him about his home. He sighed _____ when he answered me. •6 I felt very welcome when I arrived at the party. The host ______ smiled at me and shook my hand.
Careful Reading
The main idea of each paragraph:
• Part 1 (Paras.1-2) Introduction to the body of the passage by asking questions • Part 2 (Para.3) How to do small talk • Part 3 (Paras.4-6) Dos and don’ts while listening • Part 4 (Paras.7-8) The social rules
3 Read the passage again and answer
the questions. P3 • 1 According to the article, should people plan what they’re going to say at parties? • Yes. • 2 What do people think about those who talk too much? • They are not impressive.给人深刻印象的,
• 4.That way, you don’t damage your confidence. • 那样你的自信心就不会被伤害了。 • 5.Listening is a skill which most people lack, but communication is a two-way process —it involves speaking AND listening. • 倾听是大多数人所缺乏的技巧，而交流是双向的 过程---它包括说和听两个方面。 • 6. In addition, you need to know how long you should stay, and when you have to leave. • 另外，你需要知道该呆多久，还有该在何时离开。
感人的, 令人难忘的
•3 Describe two things you shouldn’t do in a conversation. 描述 •Look at your watch; yawn ( sigh, look away, change the subject, finish other people’s sentences). •4 Why is it a good idea to nod and smile when the other person is talking? •To show that your are listening. 引言 •5 What does the quotation from Benjamin Disraele tell you about people? •People like talking about themselves.
责任；义务
Talking about obligation or lack of obligation
1.must v. have (got) to
2.don't have to = have not got to =needn't
◆100% necessity: You must leave straight away. You have (got) to leave straight away. must v. have (got) to doctor to patient: You've got to stop smoking. patient to themselves: I must stop smoking.
• This time I can’t avoid seeing her. • 很难避犯错误。 • It is difficult to avoid making mistakes.
• 2. Do you want to make more friends but lack the confidence to talk to people you don’t know?
function
n.功能
Words and Expressions successful formula imagine adj.成功的 n.法则，原则 v.想象 n.目的 n.情形，情况 v.道歉
purpose
circumstance apologize
What is “obligation” ?
• 7.Remember also that in some countries, you mustn’t take flowers of a certain colour, because they’re unlucky. • 还有，要记住在有的国家你不能带某种颜色的 鲜花，因为那是不吉利的。 • a certain 某种（不确定）的 • 由于某种原因他在会上一语不发。 • He didn’t say anything at the meeting for a certain reason.
You have to arrive on time at a party. Which of the following is true? • a) They both indicate an obligation. • b) They are only suggestions about what to do. • c) The first one is an obligation, the second one is a suggestion.
Words Preview
small talk
闲谈，聊天
adj.非正式的,轻 松友好的 adj.严肃的
informal
serious
Words Preview
confidently make friends lack (be) nervous about advance think of nod adv.自信地 交朋友，建立友谊 v.缺乏，缺少 对……焦虑不安 adj.预先的，在前的 想起，回忆起 v.点头
◆obligation: 3.You ought to call your mother. You should call your mother.
---We use mustn't to say an action is forbidden
P4
1 a. You must arrive on time at a party.
sentences
• 1.Have you ever crossed the road to avoid talking to someone you recognise? • 你是否做过这样的事情：看见认识的人以后，
故意过马路以避免与其说话？ • avoid doing sthΒιβλιοθήκη Baidu避免干某事 • 这次我不能不见她。
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Complete the sentences.P3A4 sigh yawn nod avoid lack smile
• 1 When I meet strangers, I don’t like to talk about myself, so I _____ avoid answering personal questions. • 2 There are very few foreign visitors lack the to my town, so we ____ opportunity to meet people from other countries.