Unit Four Love and Marriage
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Relationships between matching couples were less in danger of breaking apart, thus providing a stable environment for bringing up offspring, said the scientists.
Part II: Para. 4-7 Part III. Para. 8-12 Task: Go through the whole text to get the main idea of each part.
Part I:
Love is essential for human survival.
Proverbs on Love and Marriage(4)
1. Romantic love is a lightning bolt. Married love is an electric current.
2. Marriage is a mirror in which one sees a reflection of oneself. 3. Similarly in marriage: when love is mutual, joy bubbles over onto all of life; when it is not, nothing is untouched by sadness. 4. In a good marriage one is continuously in love, regardless of anger, hurt, or the longing to be free. The trick is to be aware of it.
"From the public's perspective, our results suggest that individuals seeking stable long-term relationships should not seek the highest quality partner available, but should simply look for partners who are similar to themselves."
12?健康的恋爱关系不管它们是有性的或是无性的比如对家人的爱都反映了关怀亲密和忠诚的平衡
Unit Four
Love and Marr and Marriage(1)
Proverbs 15:17 A bowl of vegetables with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate. (NLT) Proverbs 17:9 Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends. (NLT)
Secret of long-term love
by: Peter Buston and Stephen Emlen
Both sexes are more likely to be drawn to individuals who not only look like them, but have equivalent wealth and status and share the same attitudes towards family commitment and fidelity. Marriages between such similar people stand the best chance of success, say researchers at Cornell University in New York.
Proverbs on Love and Marriage(2)
1 Corinthians 13:1-8a and 13 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
About Love And Romantic Love By: Michael Grayson Conner, Psy.D
Romantic love offers us the possibility of self-discovery through deep contact with another. Fascination, attraction, or passion may be born "at first sight". But love requires curiosity, patience, acceptance and seeing people for who they truly are. This usually takes time.
1. The family is … 2. Children deprived of love … 3. Research shows the quality of care.. 4. Love for oneself is … 5. Social scientists describe selflove … 6. People who don’t like themselves …
About Love And Romantic Love By: Michael Grayson Conner, Psy.D
Romantic love is based on shared sight and is shaped by happiness. Immature love is based on shared blindness, and is merely a fortress against pain.
Text:
Love and Loving Relationships
Marriages and Families: Changes, Choices, and Constraints by Nijole V. Benokraitis
Text Structure
Part I: Paras 1—3
Proverbs on Love and Marriage(5)
5. In
time, one may resent the permanence of one's spouse almost as much as one relies on it.
6. The hatred in a divorce is directly proportional to the love in the marriage, since only a strong hatred can sever a strong love and set the wounded free. 7. Marriage is a bulwark against time. For time is the measure of change, and in marriage two vow never to change.
Advice for you:
If you are going to fall in love, try to make your relationship one that generates great spiritual creativity, and one that is mutually enriching.
Proverbs on Love and Marriage(3)
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not selfseeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love is mostly tender and quiet. Love is a light that allows people to see things that are not seen by others.
Romantic love is a deep emotional, sexual and spiritual recognition and regard for the value of another person and relationship.
8. Love, like the air, is often taken for granted. But a happily married couple both knows that they need love and are grateful to have it.
About Love And Romantic Love By: Michael Grayson Conner, Psy.D
The study on romantic love:
"Romantic love is an addiction," said study author Helen E. Fisher, a biological anthropologist at Rutgers University who studies love. "It’s a very powerfully wonderful addiction when things are going well and a perfectly horrible addiction when things are going poorly," she said.
Human mate choice in western society seems to be based on a preference for long-term partners who are similar to one's perception of self across a number of evolutionarily relevant categories of traits."
Advice for you:
True love should be a transformative process that amplifies our capacity to cherish not just one person but all people. It can make us stronger, lift us higher and deepen us as individuals.
Part II: Para. 4-7 Part III. Para. 8-12 Task: Go through the whole text to get the main idea of each part.
Part I:
Love is essential for human survival.
Proverbs on Love and Marriage(4)
1. Romantic love is a lightning bolt. Married love is an electric current.
2. Marriage is a mirror in which one sees a reflection of oneself. 3. Similarly in marriage: when love is mutual, joy bubbles over onto all of life; when it is not, nothing is untouched by sadness. 4. In a good marriage one is continuously in love, regardless of anger, hurt, or the longing to be free. The trick is to be aware of it.
"From the public's perspective, our results suggest that individuals seeking stable long-term relationships should not seek the highest quality partner available, but should simply look for partners who are similar to themselves."
12?健康的恋爱关系不管它们是有性的或是无性的比如对家人的爱都反映了关怀亲密和忠诚的平衡
Unit Four
Love and Marr and Marriage(1)
Proverbs 15:17 A bowl of vegetables with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate. (NLT) Proverbs 17:9 Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends. (NLT)
Secret of long-term love
by: Peter Buston and Stephen Emlen
Both sexes are more likely to be drawn to individuals who not only look like them, but have equivalent wealth and status and share the same attitudes towards family commitment and fidelity. Marriages between such similar people stand the best chance of success, say researchers at Cornell University in New York.
Proverbs on Love and Marriage(2)
1 Corinthians 13:1-8a and 13 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
About Love And Romantic Love By: Michael Grayson Conner, Psy.D
Romantic love offers us the possibility of self-discovery through deep contact with another. Fascination, attraction, or passion may be born "at first sight". But love requires curiosity, patience, acceptance and seeing people for who they truly are. This usually takes time.
1. The family is … 2. Children deprived of love … 3. Research shows the quality of care.. 4. Love for oneself is … 5. Social scientists describe selflove … 6. People who don’t like themselves …
About Love And Romantic Love By: Michael Grayson Conner, Psy.D
Romantic love is based on shared sight and is shaped by happiness. Immature love is based on shared blindness, and is merely a fortress against pain.
Text:
Love and Loving Relationships
Marriages and Families: Changes, Choices, and Constraints by Nijole V. Benokraitis
Text Structure
Part I: Paras 1—3
Proverbs on Love and Marriage(5)
5. In
time, one may resent the permanence of one's spouse almost as much as one relies on it.
6. The hatred in a divorce is directly proportional to the love in the marriage, since only a strong hatred can sever a strong love and set the wounded free. 7. Marriage is a bulwark against time. For time is the measure of change, and in marriage two vow never to change.
Advice for you:
If you are going to fall in love, try to make your relationship one that generates great spiritual creativity, and one that is mutually enriching.
Proverbs on Love and Marriage(3)
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not selfseeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love is mostly tender and quiet. Love is a light that allows people to see things that are not seen by others.
Romantic love is a deep emotional, sexual and spiritual recognition and regard for the value of another person and relationship.
8. Love, like the air, is often taken for granted. But a happily married couple both knows that they need love and are grateful to have it.
About Love And Romantic Love By: Michael Grayson Conner, Psy.D
The study on romantic love:
"Romantic love is an addiction," said study author Helen E. Fisher, a biological anthropologist at Rutgers University who studies love. "It’s a very powerfully wonderful addiction when things are going well and a perfectly horrible addiction when things are going poorly," she said.
Human mate choice in western society seems to be based on a preference for long-term partners who are similar to one's perception of self across a number of evolutionarily relevant categories of traits."
Advice for you:
True love should be a transformative process that amplifies our capacity to cherish not just one person but all people. It can make us stronger, lift us higher and deepen us as individuals.