六个说谎小动作
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This gesture is a signal of doubt or uncertainty and is characteristic of the person who says,” I’m not sure I agree.” It is very noticeable when the verbal language contradicts it, for example, when the person says something like ,”I can understand how you feel” but the neck scratch lying gesture is used, it indicates he doesn’t.
Women are less likely to use the eye rub lying gesture; instead, they will use small, gentle touching motions just below the eye, because they either have been conditioned as girls to avoid making robust(粗鲁的,粗野的) gestures, or to avoid smudging make-up. They also avoid a listener’s gaze by looking away.
The mouth cover
Some people try to disguise the Mouth Cover lying gesture by giving a fake cough. When actors play gangsters(歹徒, 强盗) or criminals, they often use this gesture when discussing criminal activities with other gangsters or when being interrogated (审问,询问)by the police.
The collar pull
Desmond Morris(德斯蒙德 莫里 斯)was the first to discover that lies cause a tingling (tingle造成麻 刺的感觉,兴奋)sensation in the delicate(敏感的,灵敏的) facial and neck tissues, and a rub or scratch was required to satisfy it.
“Lying through your teeth ” is a commonly used phrase. It refers to a gesture cluster of clenched teeth and a false smile, combined with the gesture. This gesture is used by movie actors to portray insincerity and by “polite” cultures such as the British, who prefer not to tell you exactly what they’re thinking.
The nose touch
This is one of the most interesting lying gestures because of the real effect it has on the lying individual. Sometimes the Nose Touch lying gesture can be several quick rubs below the nose or it may be one quick, almost imperceptible(觉察不 到的,极细微的)nose touch. Women perform this gesture with smaller strokes (用手轻抚的动作)than men, perhaps to avoid smudging(弄脏) their make-up.
The ear grab
Imagine
you tell someone, “It only costs 900 pounds” and the person grabs their ear, looks away to the side and says, “It sounds like a good deal to me.” This is a symbolic attempt by the listener to “hear no evil(非礼 勿听)”; trying to block the words he is hearing by putting the hand around or over the ear or tugging at the earlobe.
• Increased blood pressure from the deceit causes sweat to form on the neck when the deceiver feels that you suspect he’s not telling the truth. When you see someone use this gesture, ask, ”Could you repeat that ,please?” This can cause the would-be deceiver to give the game away (露出马脚,泄露秘密)
Thr why people who are uncertain will scratch their neck, it presents a good explanation as to why some people use this gesture when they lie and suspect they have been caught out.
.It is the adult version of the HandsOver-Both-Ears gesture used by the child who wants to block out his parent’s reprimands(训斥).It can also be a signal that the person has heard enough or may want to speak.
Thank you for listening!
The eye rub
This gesture is the brain’s attempt to block out the deceit, doubt or distasteful thing it sees, or to avoid having to look at the face of the person who is being lied to. Men usually rub their eyes vigorously and if the lie is a real whopper(弥天大谎,庞然大物) they will often look away.
Six of the most common lying gestures(六种常见 的说谎的手势)
1. The mouth cover
It is one of the most obvious lying gestures. The hand covers the mouth as the brain subconsciously (潜意识地) instructs it to try to suppress the deceitful words that are being said. Sometimes it might only be several fingers over the mouth or even a closed fist, but its meaning remains the same.
The neck scratch
The index finger, usually of the writing hand scratches the side of the neck below the earlobe. Observations of this lying gesture reveal the person scratches an average of five times. Rarely is the number of scratches less than five and hardly ever more than five.