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教孩子如何成为好人是父母的责任还是学校的责任 how to be good members of

教孩子如何成为好人是父母的责任还是学校的责任  how to be good members of

Some people think that parents should teach children how to be good members of society. Others, however, believe that school is the place to learn this.Discuss both views and give your opinion.Give reasons for your answer and include any relevant examples from your own knowledge or experience.Essay Answer 1:It is a widely held belief that parent should teach the children how to be good members of the society but there is a strong counter-argument amongst sections of people that school is the right place to teach children. However, I am ofthe opinion that this is a matter to be debated in light of several factors before any conclusion can be drawn.It is generally believed that parents should guide the children on how to deal with society. This is mainly because children will obey the words of parents rather than the teachers. In many books, we can see that the parents are the first teachers. Parents should teach basic qualities like respect, obedience, honesty. Parents should teach those qualities at an early age so that their children can imbibe these qualities into them. For instance, my uncle’sdaughter is just studying 5th class, but she respects the elderly people. Since their parents taught her the qualities which she must inculcate in her.The education starts at home and the things learned from early childhood become part of someone's personality and characteristics. Hence, the things kids learn from their parents have a lasting impression on people. So parents should be careful about teaching their kids the moral values and responsibilities to society. Children by nature mimic their family members and thus parents can teach their kids how to begood members of the society by performing their duties correctly. Most children obey their parents more than anyone else and the instructions the parents give thus have better chances to be obeyed by children. Not all parents can spend sufficient time with children because of their ever-increasing business outside of homes and for those students teachers play an important role. Some students listen to the teachers they like and follow their instructions like written laws. Thus teachers can contribute towards teaching the morality and responsibilities to the children.On the other hand, there are certain groups of people who vehemently contend that school is the right place to learn how to be good members of society. One of the reasons why this view is held is that nowadays children are not having sufficient time to spend with their parents because both of the parents might be employed or they may keep their child in a hostel. In school children will learn the education. The school must also include these qualities as a part of course structure so that the child may follow them.Thus, it is evident from all discussion that, both the arguments carry equal strength and significance and neither can be refuted outright.I personally subscribe to the proposition that, school is the right place to learn how to be good members of society.Sample Answer 2:As society has developed, different people have different opinions about how children should be taught the ways of living so that they can contribute their part and become good members of society. Some people think that parents should be leading from the front and some thinkthat schools are the best place to teach these rules to the children. However, I think that parents should consider this as their responsibility instead of relying on the school to do this job.Now let us discuss if parents do this job and become successful in carrying out this task. This will not only help their children to live a good life but also teach them the rules and provide them with the guideline how to behave with juniors, respect elders, deal with day to day matters, responding to difficult situations etc., which you cannot expect from the school to teach asschool is basically associated with academics. Although they will teach children how to become good members and play their roles in the society, the time, attention, sincerity, and dedication which I think that can be played by the parents only.Schools mostly teach academic lessons and punctuality to the students. They do not fully focus on moral values a child should learn and practice and in fact, they do not have sufficient scope to do so. Parents, on the other hand, have a good chance to do it. In many cases, the kids mimic the parents and thus the parents canmake some examples to teach their kids. The kids mostly look at the teacher as some outsiders who would teach them the academic lesson, not personal values. Parents spent much more time with children than the teachers do. Teachers sometimes do not know the personal choices of students and thus can’t ev aluate them perfectly. Not all teachers would take the responsibility to teach the students the responsibilities of a good member of society.Schools cannot replace the role and responsibility of parents because it deals with a large number of children and each and everychild has his/ her own state of mind, understanding level, thinking level and it is not possible for teachers to understand each and every child and teach him/her accordingly but the parents know their children by birth know his likes, dislikes, how he can understand etc. I would like to give my example that my parents always considered first their own role to teach me only academics lessons but also how to live life successfully as they have spent their lives and the mistakes that they have made should not be repeated by me.In the end, I would like to conclude that parents should be the leading this part of this job and should not expect this role from the school and time will tell that their efforts will not go in vain and will not only help their children but also coming generations.Essay Answer 3:In today’s world, socialism and being a member of society is a crucial value in our life. Contributing positively to society is a target for everyone. Some people see that directing children to participate and being a member of the society is something that should be ensuredby the parents’ duty, while another camp believes that it is a school’s task. Both sides of this debate will be analysed before drawing a conclusion.On the one hand, assigning parents to teach their children to be the good members of the society is supported by some people. For example, parents may teach their children and guide them to assist poor people by providing the food prepared by their parents. This example shows how parents may take the lead to guide their children to be positive and valued in society. Therefore, this idea is supported by many. Theparents are more close to the children and they can teach their kids the important aspects of being a good member of society. Most of the children mimic their parents’ activities and thus the parents have a greater role in setting good examples for their kids.On the other hand, many believe that school plays a golden rule in children life. For instance, a school may prepare a campaign to their students to clean certain areas in their city. Such an attitude gives children practical experience in contributing to society. Thus, many argue that it would be better to leave this to the school. Theteachers on behalf of the school have a big role to teach the students those responsibilities. Since students listen to their teachers’ suggestion and command, they are more likely to obey the things their teachers would teach. Finally, the curriculum and textbooks can include such topics to increase awareness among the students.In conclusion, the debate will always remain between both camps for assigning this responsibility. In my opinion, schools should take this task on their shoulders as the children spend most of their daytime there.Essay Answer 4:It is considered by some that parents should teach their children about the ways to be good and civilised members of society while others hold the opinion that these values should be taught by the school. However, in my opinion, I believe that parents and school both are equally important to instil moral values, among children, to be a good citizen.On one hand, parents are the first teachers, and home is the first school where children learn about life lessons. Educating children about love, empathy, kindness, and socially acceptablebehaviour is a must at home. In addition, children should be taught to help the needy members of the community because parents know their children well. Hence, they can teach their kids about social responsibilities effectively, which should not be ignored.On the other hand, school is the place where children are taught skills on various subjects that help to be self-reliant. When children gain education and various skills in school, it will help them in future to become self-dependent. This will also empower them to contribute towards society using their skills. For example, educatedchildren may help to teach alphabets and help to read and write, to illiterate members of the society. Thus, in my opinion, children should be taught to be socially responsible by parents as well as at school. When children get such education of skills, love, and kindness they can grow to become a helpful member of society.In conclusion, the most effective method to help children to become morally and socially responsible part of a society is to teach them at home and also at school.by - Vikas SingtanModel Answer 5:In ancient societies, all children did not have access to education and in some parents did not teach to their children how to act. They wanted them to grow up as fast as possible to leave the family nest and go to work to bring money at home. In this period, education was not the core of people interest.In our modern society, education has become one of the most important tools in countries development. Nowadays, this is not surprising to see a government spend millions of dollars in its educational programs such as creating schoolsor bringing technological materials. But today, one main question stays on hold. Is it school’s role to teach children how to be good members of society or it is parents role?First, we will focus on this question and conclude with my own opinion. First of all, we all know that a child spends his/her first three years at home with the family before to enter school. For these three years, the child is already able to learn many things such as language and how to act in a good way. From this moment parents have to teach him how to start speaking and acting in an appropriate way. As a result, onceat school, he will know using a good vocabulary and for example, that hitting others classmates is not a good thing to do. Also, once entered at school parents have to continue to teach their child what are the good manners to adopt. For example, if the teachers do not stop to repeat those bad words are banned and absolutely not nice to use and that once gets home, the children hear many of them from his/her parents. He will be completely lost and do not understand what is wrong and what is not. The school has been instituted to teach children how to grow up in a good way, develop their inspirations and start living in a community with other students.To conclude, I agree that school possesses an important role in children integration. A child is going to reproduce, mimic and repeat his parents' behaviour first. Sometimes he is even going to choose of his parents as models. Which little girl has never fallen in love with her father and tries to mimic him? I truly believe that school and family have to work together to allow to the child to get the best education.Model Essay Answer 6:We have been developing our personality throughout our entire life, yet the crucial time to mould our characteristic could happen at arather young age. Some believe it is our families that define who we will become while others argue that it is the school’s utmost responsibility to teach us morality and to give us guidance. In my own perception, I am more positive with the former. The family is the first environment that we immersed ourselves in ever since we were born. The behaviour our parents deliver and the value they convey certainly have a colossal impact on our personality. It is also a vital process for a parent to teach their child the righteous perspective toward society at the very beginning. It is like creating a masterpiece on a pure canvas before it is contaminated. Forpeople who believe that school should be the right place to educate students into obtaining the correct attitude of their lives and having the decent morality to become a good member of our society, they put their faith in the teachers. Teachers provide standard expectations that our society has for its members, offering knowledge and ideas with less bias and less possibility of deviation from the student. It is also essential for young children to meet other people, their classmates that are from various backgrounds, in order to help cultivate their ability to cherish and respect diversity. In conclusion, both points of views have their own dispute, yet for me,trying to build a child’s characteristic until they are already studying in schools seems to be a little too slow. Many values could have been buried deep in our mind. Thus, I believe it’s our family that should play the important role for this rather than the school afterwards.。

2010年12月大学英语四级考试真题和答案及解析

2010年12月大学英语四级考试真题和答案及解析

2010年12月大学英语四级考试真题和答案及解析月大学英语四级考试真题和答案及解析Part I Writing (30 minutes) Directions :For For this this this part, part, part, you you you are are are allowed allowed allowed 30 30 30 minutes minutes minutes to to to write write write a a a short short essay essay entitled entitled entitled How How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent? You should write at least 150 words following the outline given below. 1. 目前不少父母为孩子包办一切目前不少父母为孩子包办一切2. 为了让孩子独立, 父母应该……How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent? . . . Part II Reading Comprehension(Skimming and Scanning) (15 minutes) Directions: In this part, you will have 15 minutes to go over the passage quickly and answer the questions on Answer Sheet 1. For questions 1-7, choose the best answer from the four choices marked marked [A], [A], [A], [B], [B], [B], [C] and [C] and [D]. [D]. For For For questions questions questions 8-10, 8-10, 8-10, complete complete complete the the the sentences sentences sentences with with with the the the information information given in the passage. A Grassroots Remedy Most of us spend our lives seeking the natural world. To this end, we walk the dog, play golf, go go fishing, fishing, fishing, sit sit sit in in in the the the garden, garden, garden, drink drink drink outside outside outside rather rather rather than than than inside inside inside the the the pub, pub, pub, have have have a a a picnic, picnic, picnic, live live live in in in the the suburbs, go to the seaside, buy a weekend place in the country. The most popular leisure activity in Britain is going for a walk. And when joggers (慢跑者) jog, they don ’t run the streets. Every one of them instinctively heads to the park or the river. It is my profound belief that not only do we all need nature, but we all seek nature, whether we know we are doing so or not. But But despite despite despite this, this, our our children children children are are are growing growing growing up up up nature-deprived nature-deprived nature-deprived ((丧失). ). I I I spent spent spent my my my boyhood boyhood climbing trees on Streatham Common, South London. These days, children are robbed of these ancient ancient freedoms, freedoms, freedoms, due due to to problems problems problems like like like crime, crime, crime, traffic, traffic, traffic, the the the loss loss loss of of of the the the open open open spaces and spaces and odd odd new new perceptions about what is best for children, that is to say, things that can be bought, rather than things that can be found. The truth is to be found elsewhere. A study in the US: families had moved to better housing and and the the the children children children were were were assessed assessed assessed for for for ADHD ADHD —attention attention deficit deficit deficit hyperactivity hyperactivity hyperactivity disorder disorder disorder ((多动症). Those whose accommodation had more natural views showed an improvement of 19%; those who had the same improvement in material surroundings but no nice view improved just 4%. A A study study study in in in Sweden Sweden Sweden indicated indicated indicated that that that kindergarten kindergarten kindergarten children children children who who who could could could play play play in in in a a a natural natural environment environment had had had less less less illness illness illness and and and greater greater greater physical physical physical ability ability ability than than than children children children used used used only only only to to to a a a normal normal playground. playground. A A A US US US study study study suggested suggested suggested that that that when when when a a a school school school gave gave gave children children children access access access to to to a a a natural natural environment, academic levels were raised across the entire school. Another study found that children play differently in a natural environment. In playgrounds, children create a hierarchy (等级) based on physical abilities, with the tough ones taking the lead. But when a grassy area was planted with bushes, the children got much more into fantasy play, and the social hierarchy was now based on imagination and creativity. Most Most bullying bullying bullying ((恃强凌弱) ) is is is found found found in in in schools schools schools where where where there there there is is is a a a tarmac tarmac tarmac ((柏油碎石) playground; the least bullying is in a natural area that the children are encouraged to explore. This reminds me unpleasantly of Sunnyhill School in Streatham, with its harsh tarmac, where I used to hang about in corners fantasising about wildlife. But children are frequently discouraged from involvement with natural spaces, for health and safety reasons, for fear that they might get dirty or that they might cause damage. So, instead, the damage is done to the children themselves: not to their bodies but to their souls. One of the great problems of modern childhood is ADHD, now increasingly and expensively treated treated with with with drugs. drugs. drugs. Y et Y et one one one study study study after after after another another another indicates indicates indicates that that that contact contact contact with with with nature nature nature gives gives gives huge huge benefits to ADHD children. However, we spend money on drugs rather than on green places. The life of old people is measurably better when they have access to nature. The increasing emphasis for the growing population of old people is in quality rather than quantity of years. And study after study finds that a garden is the single most important thing in finding that quality. In wider and more more difficult difficult areas areas of of life, there is is evidence evidence to indicate indicate that that natural surroundings improve all kinds of things. Even problems with crime and aggressive behaviour are reduced when there is contact with the natural world. Dr William Bird, researcher from the Royal Society for the Protection of Birds, states in his study, “A natural environment can reduce violent behaviour because its restorative process helps reduce anger and impulsive behaviour.” Wild places need encouraging for this reason, no matter how small their contribution. e W e tend tend tend to to to look look look on on on nature nature nature conservation conservation conservation as as as some some some kind kind kind of of of favour favour favour that that that human human human beings beings beings are are granting to the natural world. The error here is far too deep: not only do humans need nature for themselves, themselves, but but but the the the very very very idea idea idea that that that humanity humanity humanity and and and the the the natural natural natural world world world are are are separable separable separable things things things is is profoundly damaging. Human beings are a species of mammals (哺乳动物). For seven million years they lived on the planet as part of nature. Our ancestral selves miss the natural world and long for contact with non-human life. Anyone who has patted a dog, stroked a cat, sat under a tree with a pint of beer, given given or or or received received received a a a bunch bunch bunch of of of flowers flowers flowers or or or chosen chosen chosen to to to walk walk walk through through through the the the park park park on on on a a a nice nice nice day, day, understands that. We need the wild world. It is essential to our well-being, our health, our happiness. Without the wild world we are not more but less civilised. Without other living things around us we are less than human. Five ways to find harmony with the natural world Walk: Walk: Break Break Break the the the rhythm rhythm rhythm of of permanently permanently being being being under under under a a a roof. roof. roof. Get Get Get off off off a a a stop earlier, stop earlier, make make a a circuit of the park at lunchtime, walk the child to and from school, get a dog, feel yourself moving in moving air, look, listen, absorb. Sit: Take a moment, every now and then, to be still in an open space. In the garden, anywhere that ’s not in the office, anywhere out of the house, away from the routine. Sit under a tree, look at water, feel refreshed, ever so slightly renewed. Drink: Drink: The The The best best best way way way to to to enjoy enjoy enjoy the the the natural natural natural world world world is is is by by by yourself; yourself; yourself; the the the second second second best best best way way way is is is in in company. Take a drink outside with a good person, a good gathering: talk with the sun and the wind with birdsong for background. Learn: Learn: Expand Expand Expand your your your boundaries. boundaries. boundaries. Learn Learn Learn five five five species species species of of of bird, bird, bird, five five five butterflies, butterflies, butterflies, five five five trees, trees, trees, five five bird songs. That way, you see and hear more: and your mind responds gratefully to the greater amount of wildness in your life. Travel: Travel: The The The places places places you you you always always always wanted wanted wanted to to to visit: visit: visit: by by by the the the seaside, seaside, seaside, in in in the the the country, country, country, in in in the the the hills. hills. Take a weekend break, a day-trip, get out there and do it: for the scenery, for the way through the woods, woods, for for for the the the birds, birds, birds, for for for the the the bees. bees. bees. Go Go Go somewhere somewhere somewhere special special special and and and bring bring bring specialness specialness specialness home. home. home. It It It lasts lasts forever, after all. 上作答。

1012 How Should Parents Help Children to Be independent

1012 How Should Parents Help Children to Be independent

1012 How Should Parents Help Children to be Independent?---“1+1”方案文章拓展1.目前不少父母为孩子包办一切2.为了让孩子独立,父母应该The early years of the 21st century have experienced an increasing prevalent phenomenon, namely, parents consider everything and make all the arrangements for their children, which leaves their children less chances to grow independently and do harm to their growing process. (For example, parents offer delic ious food and beautiful clothes as their children like, they even send their children to schools and clean their dormitories.)The situation being so serious, it is high time that parents took effective measures to help their children to be more independent. To start with, parents should give children more chances to experience the world and solve problems around them to the best of their own ability, which is bound to exert a far-reaching influence on children themselves to enhance the capacity of overcoming difficulties.In addition, parents should offer enough assistance when their children need some instructions and advices. In this way, they can solve problems in a better and more effective way when they face the same problems next time, which will surely breed a profound impact on children’s ability of handling troubles on their own.From what has been discussed above, I strongly believe that parents should help their children stand alone by instructing them in a proper way rather than planning and considering everything for them. (It is children who decide their future and fate, so it would be beneficial for them to live independently. Besides the parents’ help, we, the children ourselves, should manage our own daily stuff, such as washing or cooking, and the school or society should set up more courses and camps for children to cultivate their capability to be more independent.)。

如何处理好父母何孩子之间的关系英语作文

如何处理好父母何孩子之间的关系英语作文

如何处理好父母何孩子之间的关系英语作文How to Handle the Relationship Between Parents and ChildrenThe relationship between parents and children is one of the most important relationships in a person’s life. It plays a significant role in shaping the personality, values, and beliefs of an individual. However, maintaining a healthy and harmonious relationship between parents and children can be a challenging task. In this article, we will discuss some effective ways to handle this relationship and promote understanding and communication between parents and children.First and foremost, communication is key in any relationship, including the one between parents and children. It is crucial to have open and honest communication with each other. Parents should listen to their children’s thoughts and feelings without judgment and express their own thoughts and feelings in a respectful manner. By having regular conversations and discussions, parents and children can better understand each other’s perspectives, resolve conflicts, and strengthen their bond.Secondly, it is important for parents to set boundaries and establish rules in the household. Children need structure and discipline to feel secure and develop a sense of responsibility. However, the rules should be reasonable, age-appropriate, and explained to children in a clear and positive manner. Parents should also be consistent in enforcing the rules and provide guidance and support when the rules are broken.Thirdly, parents should show love and affection towards their children. Expressing love through words, gestures, and actions can help build a strong emotional connection between parents and children. Parents should also praise their children for their achievements, encourage them to pursue their interests and goals, and provide emotional support during challenging times. By showing love and support, parents can help boost their children’s self-esteem and confidence.Moreover, parents should lead by example and be role models for their children. Children learn by observing their parents’ behavior, attitudes, and values. Therefore, pare nts should demonstrate positive qualities such as honesty, integrity, respect, and empathy. By embodying these qualities, parents can instill good values and morals in their children and inspire them to become responsible and compassionate individuals.In addition, spending quality time together as a family is essential for building a strong relationship between parents and children. Family activities such as going for a walk, playing games, cooking together, or watching a movie can create lasting memories and strengthen the bond between parents and children. It is important to make time for each other despite busy schedules and commitments.Lastly, it is important for parents and children to respect each other’s differences and individuality. Every person is unique with their own thoughts, feelings, and perspectives. Parents should acknowledge and accept their children for who they are, support their interests and passions, and provide guidance and encouragement as they navigate through life. Childre n, on the other hand, should respect their parents’ opinions, decisions, and boundaries, and show gratitude for their love and support.In conclusion, the relationship between parents and children is a precious and valuable bond that requires effort, understanding, and patience from both parties. By following these tips and strategies, parents and children can develop a healthy and positive relationship that fosters mutual respect, trust, and love. Ultimately, a strong relationship between parentsand children can lead to a happy and fulfilling life for both parties.。

大学英语四级范文(超详细讲解!)

大学英语四级范文(超详细讲解!)

1.Directions: For this part, you are allowed 30 minutes to write a short essay on the topic of Recreational Activities. You should write at least 120 words following the outline given below.1.娱乐活动多种多样2.娱乐活动可能使人们受益,也可能有危害性3.作为大学生,我的看法Recreational ActivitiesThe twenty-first centuryhas brought with it anunprecedentedvariety of recreational activities. They rangefromtraditional outdoor activities such as playing ball games toall kinds of online ones.Some people think those various recreational activities brought by modern technology are great and necessary becausethey can help people relax from hard work and study and broadenpeople’horizon. However, some people think that too manyrecreational activities may have a bad effect on people’s lives.Some people may not resist some temptations and indulgethemselves in those activities, such as the online games. At lastthey are lured away from their studies, work and interpersonalrelationships.In my opinion, we should pay more attention to the advantages of various recreational activities and make the most ofthem to enrich our lives and broaden the scope of knowledge.When it comes to those time-consuming and less meaningfulactivities, I think to stay away from them is a wise decision.2.Directions: For this part, you are allowed 30 minutes to write a short essay on the topic of Due Attention Should Be Given to Spelling. You should write at least 120 words following the outline given below.1.如今不少学生在英语学习中不重视拼写2.出现这种现象的原因是……3.为改变这种状况,我认为……Due Attention Should Be Given to SpellingQuite a few students now neglect spelling in English study.Take the simple word “trouble” for example. Only a few studentscan spell “trouble”without trouble—others may spell it astruble, touble or something else.For various reasons, spelling is now becoming a neglected art.First of all, many students don’t care about spelling. Somesay they’re going to have a secretary when they get a job, and heor she will correct their spelling. Second, most word processorsand email programs come with a built-in spell checker, whichdiscourages students to spell well. Last but not least, teachersdon’t appear to be overly concerned about students’spellingerrors.To change this situation, I think both students and teachers should make effort. On one hand, students should give spellingdue attention. It’s necessary that they change the way they seespelling and avoid relying too much on computers or somebodyelse. On the other hand, to make better spellers of the students,every teacher, especially the one who teaches English, should beconcerned about students’ poor spelling.3.Directions: For this part, you are allowed 30 minutes to write a short essay entitled How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent? You should write at least 120 words following the outline given below.1.目前不少父母为孩子包办一切2.为了让孩子独立,父母应该……How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent?Nowadays someparents tend to take on everythingconcerned with their children. Most of them do this out of love, hoping they can craft the perfect childhood for their kids and give their children the best possible shot at success in life. Unfortunately, it doesn’t help children to become self-reliant.To help their children develop independence, here are some tips for parents. First, give children increasing responsibility. Teach children that they are important contributors to the family, and give them age-appropriate chores. Second, encourage kids to try things themselves first. If they try, and don’t know how to complete a task, offer them help, but teach them how to do the task rather than doing it for them. Third, teach kids to solve their own disputes. Encourage children to work out issues themselves, and to approach parents only if someone is in danger or the problem is very difficult to deal with.There is no single way to help children become independent. However, as long as parents follow the advice mentioned above, it’s not hard to raise children to become independent adults.Directions: For this part, you are allowed 30 minutes to write a short essay entitled Online Shopping. You should write at least 120 words following the outline given below.1.现在网上购物已成为一种时尚2.网上购物有很多好处,但也有不少问题3.我的建议Online ShoppingShopping on the Internet is becoming a fashion in many cities due to the rapid development of the Internet technology. It isespecially popular among college students and white-collars.The advantage of shopping online is obvious: it can save some time for those busy with their work or study. Within a fewclicks, they can get whatever they want without stepping out ofthe room. Still, online shopping has some disadvantages. First, itis less reliable and trustworthy compared with face-to-faceshopping. Second, it fails to offer the fun of bargaining.There is no doubt that outline shopping is a very convenient way and has become an irresistible trend in our society.It’s urgent that the relative laws should be regulated inaccordance with the rapid growth of online shopping. Only inthis way can people enjoy the fun and convenience of onlineshopping without the concern of being cheated.5.Directions: For this part, you are allowed 30 miutes to write a short essay entitled On Excessive Packaging following the outline given below. Your should write at least 120 words but no more than 180 words.1.目前许多商品存在过度包装的现象2.出现这一现象的原因3.我对这一现象的看法和建议On Excessive PackagingNowadays many commodities are packaged excessively.It is very common that a very small item is wrapped in a very bigand luxury box. Take the moon cake as an example. EveryMid-Autumn Day, we can see various delicate packaging boxes inwhich there are only a few small moon cakes. Obviously,excessive packaging has become very popular in our daily life.Then what are responsible for this phenomenon?, many manufactures package the goods asluxuriously to raise the prices of some common Secondly , many customers think that delicately packaged superior to those with plain packaging, which further From my point of view , delicate packaging, to some extent , means good quality, but excessive packaging is not onlywasteful but also unfriendly to the environment. Therefore, on the one hand , I suggest the laws on packaging be perfected to restrict excessive packaging. On the other hand , as responsible customers, we should first consider the quality, not the packaging. This, I believe , can combat the further expansion of excessive packaging.。

英语作文十篇四级范文

英语作文十篇四级范文

1)Due Attention Should Be Given to Spelling1.如今不少学生在英语学习中不重视拼写2.出现这种现象的原因3.我认为……(措施)Nowadays fewer and fewer students pay attention to their word-spelling. According to a recent survey, there is a dramatic increase in the number of students who can only imitate the pronunciation of a word but be incapable of spelling it. In this essay I will discuss the factors of this phenomenon and offer my own view on itThere are a number of factors can be accountable for this situation. One of the most common factors is that fewer and fewer students need to write English essays. Besides, the goal of most students to learn English is to speak it and pass the examination which means they just need to select the similar words according to the listening materials and passages. Perhaps the most contributing factor is the wide use of electronic devices such as e-dictionaries and computers and students no longer need to correct the words by themselves.As far as I’m concerned, I firmly argue that we need to attach great im portance to word-spelling. To the students, they should write English as much as they can. Meanwhile, to the teachers, the dictations should be reinforced in the class2) 1、许多人喜欢看cctv 春节晚会;2、但有的人认为应该取消;3、你的看法It has been a hot topic for a long time whether the CCTV Spring Festival Gala should be cancelled or not. Many people advocate that CCTV Spring Festival Gala offers a wonderful opportunity to celebrate this traditional festival, for the Chinese all over the world can share the same happiness and excitement brought by the TV program. In addition, many performances are very impressive, and some can even positively affect our life value.However, every coin has two sides. Some people hold that CCTV Spring Festival Gala should be cancelled. One of the most significant reasons may be that this form of celebration force people to spend the eve more passively. What’s more, a great proportion of the programs are not attractive enough.As to me, my favor goes to the former opinion, because spring CCTV Spring Festival Gala gives us another option to celebrate this important moment. But it is really essential to improve the quality of the programs. And I hope some better forms of celebration will be created in the near future.3)建设绿色校园-2009年12月英语四级作文范文 Create a green campus1.建设绿色校园十分重要2.绿色校园不仅指绿色环境3.为了建设绿色校园我们应该……范文:Create a Green CampusIt is of great importance to make and maintain a green campus in our university or college. Obviously, a growing number of people are beginning to realize that it is our duty to do that in the present days, since the concept of “a green world” has become the focus of the society.The idea of “a green campus” is beyond a green environment. To begin with, the development on the campus is to be sustainable and recyclable. Some of the authorities’ budget should be on how to reduce of the waste. What’s more, we’d better be aware of the seriousness of pollution around us. Thus the idea of environmental protection may become a common occurrence in our daily life.It is necessary that effective actions should be taken to protect our campus from waste and pollution, and hence these activities are to play an increasingly important role in our day-to-day life. Certainly, there is little doubt that further consideration must be paid to our green campuses.4)Free admission to museum1.越来越多的博物馆免费开放的目的是什么?2.也会带来一些问题3.你的看法Nowadays, an increasing number of museums are open to the public with free admission. The reason for it lies in the fact that the government has been attaching great importance to provide more opportunities for citizens to explore and get access to the knowledge world。

2010年12月英语四级真题及答案

2010年12月英语四级真题及答案

完型填空:翻译87.___________________(为了确保他参加会议),I called him up in advance.88.The significant museum________________(据说建成于)about a hundred years ago.89.There would be no life on earth ____________________ (没有地球独特的环境)。

90.______________________________(给游客印象最深的)was the friendliness and warmth of the local people.91.They requested that ___________________________ (我借的书还回图书馆) by next Friday.参考答案:作文There is no denying the fact that independence plays an increasingly important part in our daily life and we can’t help asking such a question: how should parents help children to be independent?To begin with, it is imperative that parents provide opportunities to children and allow them to participate in the social games which contribute to the independence of the children. What’s more, under the excessive care and protection of parents, these children are lack of the ability to overcome the difficulties that abound in their real life. Therefore, it’s a must for parents to cultivate the independence which helps their children easily conquer and frustration and depression.To conclude, it's essential for us to dispose of the problem ofchildren’s independence timely and effectively. Parents should help children develop strong independence and the abilities needed in the future. Only in this way can they be ready to confront any challenges in the society of fierce competition. .快速阅读:1.A) People instinctively seek nature in different ways.2.D) Things that are purchased.3.B) More access to nature makes children less likely to fall ill.4.D) are less likely to be involved in bullying5.B) Provide more green spaces for them.6.B) They enjoy a life of better quality.7.C) access to nature contributes to the reduction of violence8.separable things9.the wild world10.harmony听力:短对话Q11.M: Oh my god! The heat is simply unbearable here! I wish we’d gone to the beach instead.W: Wow, with the museums and restaurants in Washington, I’d be happy here no matter whatthe temperature.Q: What does the woman mean?Q12.M: How’s the new job going?W: Well, I’m learning a lot of new things, but I wish the director would give me some feedback.Q: What does the woman want to know?Q13W: Can you help me work out a physical training program John?M: Sure, but whatever you do, be careful not to overdo it. Last time I had two weeks worth of weightlifting in three days and I hurt myself.Q: What does the man suggest the woman do?Q14M: I have an elderly mother and I’m worried about her going on a plane. Is there any risk?W: Not if her heart is all right. If she has a heart condition, I’d recommend against it.Q: What does the man want to know about his mother?Q15.M: Why didn’t you stop when we first signaled you at the crossroads?W: Sorry, I was just a bit absent-minded. Anyway, do we have to pay a fine?Q: What do we learn from the conversation?Q16.M: I’m no expert, but that noise in your refrigerator doesn’t sound right. Maybe you should have it fixed.W: You’re right. And I suppose I’ve put it off long enough.Q: What will the woman probably do?Q17.M: I did extremely well on the sale of my downtown apartment. Now I have enough money to buy that piece of land I’ve had my eye on. and build a house on it.W: Congratulations! Does that mean you will be moving soon?Q: What do we learn about the man from the conversation?Q18.W: My hand still hurts from the fall on the ice yesterday. I wonder if I broke something.M: I’m no doctor. But it’s not black and blue or anything. Maybe you just need to rest it for a few days.Q: What do we learn about the woman from the conversation?长对话(19~21)M: Mrs. Dawson, thanks very much for coming down to the station. I just like to go over some of the things that you told police officer Parmer at the bank.W: All right.M: Well, could you describe the man who robbed the bank for this report that we’re filling out here? Now, anything at all that you can remember would be extremely helpful to us.W: Well, just, I can only remember basically what I said before.M: That’s all right.W: The man was tall, six foot, and he had dark hair, and he had moustache.M: Very good. All right, did he have any other distinguishing marks?W: Um, no, none that I can remember.M: Do you remember how old he was by any chance?W: Well, I guess around 30, maybe younger, give or take a few years.M: Mm, all right. Do you remember anything about what he was wearing?W: Yes, yes, he had on a dark sweater, a solid color.M: OK. Um, anything else that strikes you at the moment?W: I remember he was wearing a light shirt under the sweater. Yes, yes.M: All right. Mrs. Dawson, I really appreciate what you’ve been through today. I’m just going to ask you to look at some photographs before you leave if you don’t mind. It won’t take very long. Can you do that for me?W: Oh, of course.M: Would you like to step this way with me, please?W: OK, sure.M: Thank you.Questions 19 to 21 are based on the conversation you have just heard.19. What do we learn about the woman?20. What did the suspect look like?21. What did the man finally asked the woman to do?长对话(22~25)W: Good morning, I’m calling about the job that was in the paper last night.M: Well, could you tell me your name?W: Candider Forsett.M: Oh yes. What exactly is it that interests you about the job?W: Well, I thought it was just right for me.M: Really? Um…Could you tell me a little about yourself?W: Yes. I’m 23. I’ve been working abroad.M: Where exactly have you been working?W: In Geneva.M: Oh, Geneva. And what were you doing there?W: Secretarial work. Previous to that, I was at university.M: Which university was that?W: The University of Manchester. I’ve got a degree in English.M: You said you’ve been working in Geneva. Do you have any special reason for wanting to come back?W: I thought it would be nice to be near to the family.M: I see, and how do you see yourself developing in this job?W: Well, I’m ambitious. I do hope that my career as a secretary will lead me eventually into management.M: I see. You have foreign languages?W: French and Italian.M: Well, I think the best thing for you to do is do reply a writing to the advertisement.W: Can’t I arrange for an interview now?M: Well, I’m afraid we must wait until all the applications are in, in writing, and we’ll then decide on the short list. If you are on the short list, of course we should see you.W: Oh, I see.M: I look forward to receiving your application in writing in a day or two.W: Oh, yes, yes, certainly.M: Ok, thank you very much. Goodbye.W: Thank you. Goodbye.Questions 22 to 25 are based on the conversation you have just heard.22. How did the woman get to know about the job vacancy?23. Why did the woman find the job appealing?24. What had the woman been doing in Geneva?25. What was the woman asked to do in the end?Section BPassage OneOne of the greatest heartbreaks for fire fighters occurs when they fail to rescue a child from a burning building because the child, frightened by smoke and noise, hides under a bed or in a closet and is later found dead. Saddest of all is when children catch a glimpse of the masked fire fighter but hide because they think they have seen a monster. To prevent such tragedies, fire fighter Eric Velez gives talks to children in his community, explaining that they should never hide during a fire. He displays fire fighters’ equipment, including t he oxygen mask, which he encourages his listeners to play with and put on. “If you see us,” V elez tells them, “don’t hide! We are not monsters. We have come to rescue you.” Velez gives his presentations in English and Spanish. Growing up in San Francisco, he learnt Spanish from his immigrant parents. Velez and other fire fighters throughout North America, who give similar presentations, will never know how many lives they save through their talks. But it’s a fact that informative speaking saves lives. For example, several months after listening to an informative speech, Pete Gentry in North Carolina rescued his brother who is choking on food, by using the method taught by student speaker, Julie Paris. In addition to saving lives, informative speakers help people learn new skills, solve problems and acquire fascinating facts about the exciting world in which they live.26 Why do some children trapped in a burning building hide from masked fire fighters?27 What does the passage tell us about fire fighter Eric Velez?28 What do we learn about Pete Gentry?29 What message is the speaker trying to convey?Passage TwoSome people want to make and save a lot of money in order to retire early. I see people pursuing higher paying and increasingly demanding careers to accomplish this goal. They make many personal sacrifices in exchange for income today. The problem is that tomorrow might not come. Even if it all goes according to plan, will you know how to be happy when you are not working if you spend your entire life making money? More importantly, who will be around for you to share your leisure time with? At the other extreme are people who live only for today. Why bother saving when I might not be here tomorrow, they argue. The danger of this approach is that tomorrow may come after all. And most people don't want to spend all their tomorrows working for a living. The earlier neglect of saving, however, makes it difficult not to work when you are older. You maybe surprise to hear me say that if you must pick an extreme I think it's better to pick the spend-all approach. As long as you don't mind continuing to work, assuming your health allows, you should be OK. At least, you are making use of your money, and hopefully deriving value and pleasure from it. Postponing doing what you love and being with people you love until retirement can be a mistake. It may never come. Retirement can be a great time for some people. For others, it is a time of boredom, loneliness and poor health.30 Why do some people pursue higher paying but demanding careers?31 What is the danger facing people who live only for today?32 What does the speaker seem to advocate?Passage ThreeImagine that someone in your neighborhood broke the law, and the judge put the whole neighborhood under suspicion. How fair will that be? Well, it happens everyday to high schoolers. Just because some students have stolen things in shops, all of us are treated like thieves. Even though I’d never steal.Store employees looked at me like I’m some kind of hardened criminal. For example, during one lunch period, my friend Denny and I went to the Graben Gore Restaurant to have a hot dog. We arrived to find a line of students waiting outside. A new sign in t he window told the story. “No more than two students at a time”. After 15 minutes, we finally got in. But the store manger laid the evil eye on us. I asked him about the new sign, and he said, “You kids are stealing too much stuff.” You kids? Too much stuff? We were not only assumed to be thieves, but brilliant, greedy thieves. The most annoying thing though, is the way employees watched my friends and me. It’s horrible.Once, at a drug store, I was looking around and found a guy standing on a large box, stocking the shelves. He was watching my hands, more than he was watching his own. I showed him that my hands were empty. He got down off his box and rushed off, as if he was going to get the store manger. How crazy is that!33. What does the speaker find to be unfair?34. What measure did the Graben Gore Restaurant take to stop stealing?35. What happened in a drug store that greatly annoyed the speaker?Section CWriting keeps us in touch with other people. We write to communicate with relatives and friends. We write to preserve our family histories so our children and grandchildren can learn and appreciate their heritage. With computers and Internet connections in so many households, colleges, and businesses, people are e-mailing friends and relatives all the time -- or talking to them in writing in online chat rooms. It is cheaper than calling long distance, and a lot more convenient than waiting until Sunday for the telephone rates to drop. Students are e-mailing their professors to receive and discuss their classroom assignments and to submit them. They are e-mailing classmates to discuss and collaborate on homework. They are also sharing information about concerts and sports events, as well as jokes and their philosophies of life.Despite the growing importance of computers, however, there will always be a place and need for the personal letter. A hand-written note to a friend or a family member is the best way to communicate important thoughts. No matter what the content of the message, its real point is, "I want you to know that I care about you." This writing practice brings rewards that can’t be seen in bank accounts, but only in the success of human relationships听力选择题答案11.C)She enjoys staying in Washington.12.C)The director’s opinion of her work.13.D)Avoid excessive physical training.14.C)Whether she can travel by air.15.B)The woman violated traffic regulations.16.B)Have someone repair the refrigerator.17.A)He can finally do what he has dreamed of.18.B)She got hurt in an accident yesterday.19.A)She was a witness to the crime.20.B)A tall man with dark hair and a moustache.21.D)Identify the suspects for pictures.22.C)By reading a newspaper ad.23.A)She would work close to her family.24.B)Working as a secretary.25.A)Send in a written application as soon as possible.26.D)They mistake the firefighters for monsters.27.A)He often teaches children what to do during a fire.28.D)He saved the life of his brother choking on food.29.D)Informative speeches can save lives.30.C)To make money for early retirement.31.A)They may have to continue to work in old age32.B)Making wise use of your time.(待定)33.C)Innocent people being suspected groundlessly.34.D)Allowing only two students to enter at a time.35.B)He was closely watched.36. preserve37. appreciate38. households39. chat40. convenient41. rates42. receive43. submit44. They are also sharing information about concerts and sports events, as well as jokes and their philosophies of life.45. A hand-written note to a friend or a family member is the best way to communicate important thoughts.46. This writing practice brings rewards that can’t be seen in bank accounts Section A 选词填空47. M) raised48. L) psychological49. E) contributions50. A) abilities51. B) achieve52. N) smart53. I) extent54. J) indicates55. G) essentially56. H) eventuallySection B57.few…university58.attracts…59.her…interests60.exploit…61.Increase…62.marriage…illness63.marriage…health64.the…married65.they…need66.To…完形填空67. D came out68. C less69. D by70. A almost71. B developed72. C growth73. B lead74. A pressure75. B services76. B into77. C driven78. C wealth79. C unless80. D expand81. C at82. C common83. A major84. D trend85. C but86. B possibilities翻译87. To ensure that he can attend the meeting88. is said to have been built89. without the distinct environment of the earth90. What impressed the tourists most91. I return the book to the library。

父母如何帮助孩子做家庭作业 How parents helping with homework 英语

父母如何帮助孩子做家庭作业 How parents helping with homework 英语

How parents helping with homework can build a better future for their kidsWhat is the issue which lowers students’ interest in homework as they grow up? Have you ever given a thought? One of the reasons is that the parents helping with homework often get over-immersed in their kids’work. This extra interest of parents often backfires and impacts their kids overall performance.So, all parents out there, if you are facing relevant issues, stick to this article and know how much help will actually help.Things that parents helping with homework should not do“While helping my chi ld with homework I realized that I am doing it all myself”. This is what a parent shared and asked how not to do this. If you also often find yourself doing your kid’s homework then stay connected as I will tell you how to provide healthy help without solving everything yourself.There is a very thin line between guiding students and doing their work. If you are doing even a small portion of the homework, then you are not helping your kid in any way. What you are doing can surely be called a “disservice” b ut not “help”.Almost every parent around me is focused on their kid’s study routine. After having a long day at the workplace, they still manage to discuss (mostly argue) about the assignments andhomework. Now, after observing a lot of relevant study results I can assure that an overly-immersed parent is not a good thing for a kid. The reason is that such parents tackle most of the issues themselves and students stop worrying about their own work. At a time when your kids are in need of being independent, your parental interest makes them dependent. Here is something that all parents helping with homework need to understand.Don’t sit beside while your kid is doing homework and answer all the questions along with correcting the errorsWhen you keep on hovering on him you are giving him a feeling that your presence is mandatory. Kids feel that they can not do their homework without constant support.Don’t keep on nagging if your kid is not studying until they don’t sit on their study table.Learning responsibility is a cornerstone of education, but you cannot teach her by nagging. If a kid is not studying on-time a whining parent can not make the situation better.Don’t push to study one night before a testIf you are habitual of forcing kids to study the whole syllabus one night before the test, quit this habit as soon as you can. The human brain never does magic and your kid is no exception. You should not expect her to grab the best grades with overnight preparation.Don’t stay in the room to listen to a co nstant whining about tough or boring homework“This problem is super-tough”, “I can’t do math” etc. are common statements by students. Many parents helping students with homework complaints that their kid whins a lot. Don’t be there to listen to such whins. Just leave your child alone, if she will not have someone who can hear the problems, she will steadily strive to find the solution. Students often find out useful online assignment help as well.Don’t work on school homework, assignment or project until the end is perfectTeachers assign projects, assignments and homework to students so that they can apply the knowledge they have gained in class. When students see that parents and homework are going well together, they don’t take the lead. As a parent, yo u may want to wow your kid’steacher but try your best to not to stay extra-involved if you really want to make homework easier for her.How parents doing kids homework can actually helpNow, you have read the don’ts for all the parents helping with homewo rk, so, it’s time to know what you can do to replace the above listed “don’ts”Do stay around your studying kid while completing your regular chores instead of sitting next to him.To make your kid feel confident, stay busy in your work. If you will not be there to correct every mistake in a minute, he will try to solve iton his own. You can definitely point out the mistakes, but don’t make it obvious for him to rely on you as an ultimate correcting guide. When he asks you something you can provide hints. This way you can prove to be the best homework helper.Do make a strict yet sorted daily routine which reduces or removes wastage of time. Make him follow a no-nonsense routine.Try to put him in a flexible yet strict schedule for all major tasks. Your kid also needs time to freshen up and you should respect that space. Other than this, make sure that kids don’t waste their time unnecessarily. Set up a routine for her and make sure that she follows it every day. If you want you can ask her to use timemanagement tools like Evernote to keep a track of things.If your child is turning into a social media buff you need to go one step further. Motivate her to cut out the distractions until the homework is done. There is nothing bad in saying “you can’t use your phone without completing the homework”. Trust me it will bring better results. You can tell her to use apps like StayFocused for this purpose.Do introduce time management skills to your young ones, tell them to prepare for an upcoming task a few days prior to it.Instead of expecting your kid to learn everything a night before tests and exams, push him to prepare early. Don’t be harsh while teachingtime-management because scolding will not do any good to them. Try to explain things in a convincing way. For doing so you can go for printed calendars. They work very well to remind about deadlines, your kid will have a visual appearance of upcoming tests and this will push him to work better. Also, you can recommend 2DO so that it becomes easy to remember things for him.Do move away from a whining kid and later on provide homework help.If your kid is complaining that a homework topic is too hard to handle or she is bent upon hating some specific subjects, try to ignore that whining. It does not mean that you should not help her with homework issues, all I am suggesting is to leave her alone for a while. When kids don’t findsomeone to listen and argue with them over academic issues, they ultimately work on finding solutions.Once your young one stops whining and gets into the working mode, come to her rescue. You can actually guide her with subjects and specific questions. For example, if she says math is beyond her understanding, you can provide her easy ways to understand math.Do let your young one take the lead of school projects, assignment and homework.Imagine your kid makes a project after putting a lot of effort, she gets no help from you and still manage to score well. Is there anything which can beat the happiness she will have afterwards? No, Right? So, let her explore things on her own.If she needs homework help online then guide her with better options.The best way to be like ideal parents helping with homework is to provide valuable suggestions when she finishes the work. Provide specific feedback and not something generic. Try to be descriptive while addressing her errors.Parents helping with homework in a positive way always motivate and encourage kids to perform better. Try to be an ideal helper.Useful tips that parents helping with homework should knowGet in touch with teachersThis is the best thing you can do to help your child. Meet the teachers at particular intervals. Share what are the issues your kid is facing in understanding specific topics or subjects. Also, ask for a detailed performance report of your kid so that you can know the points where he has improved and where he needs to work hard. The interaction of parents and teacher always plays a crucial role in children’s development.Give them time to relax!Parents helping with homework focus on the academic life of students to a great length. You may also be an aware parent, but are you a doting mother or father as well? If you think you are lacking somewhere then let you and your kid relax. Don’t let yourself move towards helicop ter parenting at all. It can bring completely negativeresults. Play with your child, tell him that assignments can be solved in a hassle-free way. Ask whether he needs help or not. By doing such things, you can be a real support to your kid.Don’t let the m take the stress!It has been observed by multiple studies on student behaviour that unaccomplished tasks and tough topics cause stress. Try to figure out whether your child is going through anxiety or tension just because some concepts are hard to handle. If you see any signs of anxiety and low confidence, try to fill the gap. You can bring some cool yet useful brainstorming apps to kids so that they can enjoy learning. In case your kid has already reached a stage of depression, don’t hesitate to walk tow ards counselling.Be a guiding friend!The best parents helping with homework guide their kids in a calm way. They explain mistakes and provide ways to avoid them. For doing so, you don’t need to work hard. Just check the assignment solutions or homework solutions of your child on a regular basis and discuss the errors with him. These things make students more aware and attentive while doing their homework.Remember you are not a school teacherI have seen that parents helping with homework often turns out to be a teacher. There is nothing bad in being in so, but the issue is that you will teach her in the way you were taught once. Due to the psychological understanding, you willnaturally teach her like your teacher. Parents don’t even realize that they are teaching kids in a method which is completely alien to them because study patterns evolve with time. Try to help them as per the current study schedule. Having regular interaction with teachers will let you know about it. If you find it tough to do, you can simply rely on online homework help websites as well.Appreciate your kidThis is something you should never miss. There are some things that your kid can get only from you and self-confidence is one of them. The kind of enthusiasm and self-reliance your appreciation can give him is rare to find. Appreciate his efforts and you will see a huge positive change in his urge to perform better. Allthe parents helping with homework should understand that it matters a lot.Why parents helping with homework has become a regular affair?I have seen some parents confused whether they are doing right or not. For all such people, I have curated a few major reasons why your help is needed by kids and how it is beneficial for them.As the academic life grows kids get back home with more homework, and they often need guidance. So, if you find your kid shouting for your assistance, go ahead and help. It’s completely fine if you guide your children on issues which they are not able to comprehend. There are a lot of good helpers online to solveyour kid’s homework related issues. But, if you can manage to take out some time to help them with their study nothing can beat that personal support.Here are some reasons why you should help children with homework:Some times students are over-burdened with academic tasks and it becomes tough for them to handle it all alone.Parental support in education is extremely vital for students. In the initial years of learning, you should definitely be a helping hand and a cheerleader for your kid.There can be few subjects or topics which can be hard to understand for your kids. Their schoolteacher cannot be there to provide help at home, so you should be there.However, you can also rely on professional homework experts for this if you are having a super-busy schedule. It is okay if you cannot provide a full-fledged help to your children for a while but make sure you ask their issues and try to solve them.It is very obvious and natural that you would jump in to help if you see your kid struggling and you should. Just make sure you don’t end up in doing all the homework yourself as it makes kids heavily dependent on parents helping with homework.。

How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent

How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent

How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent?1.目前不少父母为孩子包办一切2.为了让孩子独立,父母应该……3.结论expectationToday in China, many families have only one child. So the children are usually doted upon by all family members. Gradually some of them get used to depending on their parents and family members, as a result they lack the ability to face their lives by themselves.There are some ways to help children to be independent. First, they should have a chance to see the world around him individually. They willunderstand that there are various people and competitions in their lives, and learn to find his right position in the society only by individual efforts. Second, parents should help develop children's communication. They should arrange some chances for children to play together with other children. In intercourse or even conflict with their peers, they can learn how to cooperate or compromise instead of in easy environment. Thirdly, parents can ask their children make decisions together, which can challenge their ability to deal with problems. A child should be praised when he is successful or encouraged when he fails.To be independent is vital for the children, because no parents can go with their children for the whole life. Only an independent person can live and enjoy a full and meaningful life. / Only anindependent person can enjoy his life and at the same time make contribution to this lovely world.。

大学英语四级考试经典真题

大学英语四级考试经典真题

大学英语四级考试经典考题Part I WritingDirections:For this part, you are allowed 30 minutes to write a short essay entitled How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent? You should write at least 150 words following the outline given below.1. 目前不少父母为孩子包办一切2. 为了让孩子独立, 父母应该……How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent?...Part II Reading Comprehension(Skimming and Scanning) (15 minutes)Directions: In this part, you will have 15 minutes to go over the passage quickly and answer the questions on Answer Sheet 1. For questions 1-7, choose the best answer from the four choices marked [A], [B], [C] and [D]. For questions 8-10, complete the sentences with the information given in the passage.A Grassroots RemedyMost of us spend our lives seeking the natural world. To this end, we walk the dog, play golf, go fishing, sit in the garden, drink outside rather than inside the pub, have a picnic, live in the suburbs, go to the seaside, buy a weekend place in the country. The most popular leisure activity in Britain is going for a walk. And when joggers (慢跑者) jog, they don’t run the streets. Every one of them instinctively heads to the pa rk or the river. It is my profound belief that not only do we all need nature, but we all seek nature, whether we know we are doing so or not.But despite this, our children are growing up nature-deprived (丧失). I spent my boyhood climbing trees on Streatham Common, South London. These days, children are robbed of these ancient freedoms, due to problems like crime, traffic, the loss of the open spaces and odd new perceptions about what is best for children, that is to say, things that can be bought, rather than things that can be found.The truth is to be found elsewhere. A study in the US: families had moved to better housing and the children were assessed for ADHD—attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (多动症). Those whose accommodation had more natural views showed an improvement of 19%; those who had the same improvement in material surroundings but no nice view improved just 4%.A study in Sweden indicated that kindergarten children who could play in a natural environment had less illness and greater physical ability than children used only to a normal playground. A US study suggested that when a school gave children access to a natural environment, academic levels were raised across the entire school.Another study found that children play differently in a natural environment. In playgrounds, children create a hierarchy (等级) based on physical abilities, with the tough ones taking the lead. But when a grassy area was planted with bushes, the children got much more into fantasy play, and the social hierarchy was now based on imagination and creativity.Most bullying (恃强凌弱) is found in schools where there is a tarmac (柏油碎石) playground; the least bullying is in a natural area that the children are encouraged to explore. This reminds me unpleasantly of Sunnyhill School in Streatham, with its harsh tarmac, where I used to hang about in corners fantasising about wildlife.But children are frequently discouraged from involvement with natural spaces, for health and safety reasons, for fear that they might get dirty or that they might cause damage. So, instead, the damage is done to the children themselves: not to their bodies but to their souls.One of the great problems of modern childhood is ADHD, now increasingly and expensively treated with drugs. Yet one study after another indicates that contact with nature gives huge benefits to ADHD children. However, we spend money on drugs rather than on green places.The life of old people is measurably better when they have access to nature. The increasing emphasis for the growing population of old people is in quality rather than quantity of years. And study after study finds that a garden is the single most important thing in finding that quality.In wider and more difficult areas of life, there is evidence to indicate that natural surroundings improve all kinds of things. Even problems with crime and aggressive behaviour are reduced when there is contact with the natural world.Dr William Bird, researcher from the Royal Society for the Protection of Birds, states in his study, “A natural environment can reduce violent behaviour because its restorative process helps reduce anger and impulsive behaviour.” Wild places need encouraging for this reason, no matter how small their contribution.We tend to look on nature conservation as some kind of favour that human beings are granting to the natural world. The error here is far too deep: not only do humans need nature for themselves, but the very idea that humanity and the natural world are separable things is profoundly damaging.Human beings are a species of mammals (哺乳动物). For seven million years they lived on the planet as part of nature. Our ancestral selves miss the natural world and long for contact with non-human life. Anyone who has patted a dog, stroked a cat, sat under a tree with a pint of beer, given or received a bunch of flowers or chosen to walk through the park on a nice day, understands that.We need the wild world. It is essential to our well-being, our health, our happiness. Without the wild world we are not more but less civilised. Without other living things around us we are less than human.Five ways to find harmony with the natural worldWalk: Break the rhythm of permanently being under a roof. Get off a stop earlier, make a circuit of the park at lunchtime, walk the child to and from school, get a dog, feel yourself moving in moving air, look, listen, absorb.Sit: Take a moment, every now and then, to be still in an open space. In the garden, anywhere that’s not in the office, a nywhere out of the house, away from the routine. Sit under a tree, look at water, feel refreshed, ever so slightly renewed.Drink: The best way to enjoy the natural world is by yourself; the second best way is in company. Take a drink outside with a good person, a good gathering: talk with the sun and the wind with birdsong for background.Learn: Expand your boundaries. Learn five species of bird, five butterflies, five trees, five bird songs. That way, you see and hear more: and your mind responds gratefully to the greater amount of wildness in your life.Travel: The places you always wanted to visit: by the seaside, in the country, in the hills. Take a weekend break, a day-trip, get out there and do it: for the scenery, for the way through the woods, for the birds, for the bees. Go somewhere special and bring specialness home. It lasts forever, after all.注意:此部分试题请在答题卡1上作答。

让孩子做家务的好处英语作文80词左右

让孩子做家务的好处英语作文80词左右

让孩子做家务的好处英语作文80词左右全文共3篇示例,供读者参考篇1There are many benefits to having children help with household chores. Not only does it teach them valuable life skills, but it also helps to instill a sense of responsibility and independence in them. Here are some of the reasons why parents should encourage their children to do chores:1. Responsibility: By giving children chores to do, parents are teaching them to take responsibility for their own actions and contributions to the family. This can help them develop a sense of accountability and ownership.2. Independence: When children are tasked with completing chores on their own, they are learning to be independent and self-sufficient. They are also learning to work through tasks and challenges on their own, which can boost their confidence and self-esteem.3. Collaboration: Having children participate in household chores can also foster a sense of teamwork and collaboration within the family. Children learn that everyone needs tocontribute to the household in order for it to run smoothly, and this can help strengthen family bonds.4. Life skills: By doing chores, children are learning important life skills such as organization, time management, and problem-solving. These skills will serve them well as they grow older and become more independent.Overall, encouraging children to do chores can have a positive impact on their development and help them become responsible, independent, and capable individuals. It is a valuable way for parents to teach their children important life lessons and prepare them for adulthood.篇2There are many benefits to involving children in household chores. Not only does it teach them important life skills, but it also helps them develop a sense of responsibility and independence.One of the main advantages of having children do chores is that it teaches them valuable life skills. By helping out around the house, children learn how to clean, organize, and care for their living space. These skills are essential for independent living and will serve them well as they grow older.Furthermore, doing chores helps children develop a sense of responsibility. When children are assigned specific tasks, they learn the importance of taking care of their belongings and contributing to the well-being of the family. This sense of responsibility can help children develop a strong work ethic and set them up for success later in life.In addition, involving children in household chores can help them develop independence. By giving children tasks to complete on their own, parents help them build confidence and self-reliance. This can be especially beneficial for children who struggle with independence or responsibility.Overall, there are numerous benefits to having children do chores. Not only does it teach them important life skills, but it also helps them develop a sense of responsibility and independence. Parents should encourage their children to participate in household chores to help them grow and thrive.篇3Teaching children to do household chores is beneficial in many ways. First of all, it teaches them responsibility and the importance of contributing to the family. By participating inhousehold tasks, children learn to take care of their own living environment and develop a sense of pride in helping out.Secondly, doing chores helps children develop important life skills such as organization, time management, andproblem-solving. They learn how to prioritize tasks, set goals, and work through challenges to achieve those goals. These skills will be valuable to them throughout their lives in both personal and professional settings.Furthermore, involving children in household chores teaches them valuable lessons about teamwork and cooperation. They learn how to communicate effectively with others, delegate tasks, and work together towards a common goal. These skills are essential for building strong relationships and functioning well in a social setting.Lastly, doing chores can also help children develop a strong work ethic. When they see the results of their hard work and the positive impact it has on their family, they learn the value of perseverance and determination. This will help them succeed in school, work, and other areas of their lives.In conclusion, teaching children to do household chores has numerous benefits for their personal growth and development. It instills important values, teaches essential life skills, promotesteamwork and cooperation, and helps build a strong work ethic. So, parents should encourage their children to participate in household tasks and help them learn these valuable lessons.。

如何在父母孩子之间建立健康的关系英语作文

如何在父母孩子之间建立健康的关系英语作文

如何在父母孩子之间建立健康的关系英语作文全文共3篇示例,供读者参考篇1How to Build a Healthy Relationship Between Parents and ChildrenBuilding a healthy relationship between parents and children is essential for a happy and harmonious family life. It is important for parents to establish a strong bond with their children based on trust, respect, and understanding. In this article, we will discuss some practical ways to foster a positive relationship between parents and their children.First and foremost, communication is key in building a healthy relationship. Parents should make an effort to listen to their children and actively engage in conversation with them. This will help children feel valued and heard, and it will also strengthen the bond between parents and children. Encouraging open communication will allow parents to better understand their children's thoughts and feelings, and it will help children feel comfortable sharing their concerns and emotions with their parents.In addition to communication, spending quality time together is also important in strengthening the relationship between parents and children. Parents should make an effort to engage in activities that their children enjoy, whether it be playing sports, cooking together, or simply spending time outdoors. This will help parents and children bond over shared experiences and create lasting memories that will strengthen their relationship.Furthermore, it is important for parents to set boundaries and expectations for their children. By establishing clear rules and consequences, parents can help children understand what is expected of them and how to behave appropriately. Consistency is key in enforcing rules, and parents should strive to be firm yet fair when disciplining their children.Moreover, showing love and affection is crucial in building a healthy relationship between parents and children. Parents should express their love and appreciation for their children regularly, whether it be through words of affirmation, hugs, or acts of kindness. This will help children feel secure and loved, and it will strengthen the emotional bond between parents and children.Lastly, it is important for parents to lead by example and demonstrate positive values and behaviors for their children to emulate. Parents should strive to be good role models for their children by exhibiting honesty, kindness, and respect in their interactions with others. By demonstrating these values, parents can instill important virtues in their children and help them develop into responsible and caring individuals.In conclusion, building a healthy relationship between parents and children requires effort, communication, and love. By fostering open communication, spending quality time together, setting boundaries, showing love and affection, and leading by example, parents can strengthen the bond with their children and create a happy and harmonious family life. Remember, a strong parent-child relationship is the foundation for a successful and fulfilling family life.篇2Building a healthy relationship between parents and children is essential for the overall well-being and development of the family. This relationship plays a crucial role in shaping the children's emotional, social, and psychological growth. Here are some tips on how to establish a healthy relationship between parents and children:1. Communication: Communication is key to building a strong parent-child relationship. Parents should create an open and honest environment where children feel comfortable expressing their thoughts, feelings, and concerns. Regular communication can help parents understand their children's needs and perspectives, while also allowing children to seek guidance and support from their parents.2. Respect: Respect is a fundamental aspect of any healthy relationship. Parents should treat their children with respect, listen to their opinions, and validate their feelings. Likewise, children should respect their parents' authority, rules, and boundaries. Mutual respect fosters trust and understanding between parents and children, laying the foundation for a positive relationship.3. Quality time: Spending quality time together is crucial for bonding and strengthening the parent-child relationship. Parents should make an effort to engage in activities that their children enjoy, such as playing sports, reading books, or cooking together. Quality time allows parents and children to connect on a deeper level, build memories, and create a sense of togetherness.4. Set boundaries: Setting clear and consistent boundaries is important for establishing a healthy relationship between parents and children. Parents should communicate their expectations, rules, and consequences to their children in a respectful manner. Setting boundaries helps children understand limits, develop self-discipline, and learn the importance of respect and responsibility.5. Encouragement and support: Parents play a crucial role in supporting and encouraging their children to achieve their goals and dreams. Parents should praise their children's efforts, accomplishments, and progress, while also offering guidance, encouragement, and emotional support during challenging times. Positive reinforcement boosts children's self-esteem, confidence, and motivation to excel in various aspects of life.6. Conflict resolution: Conflicts and disagreements are inevitable in any relationship, including between parents and children. Parents should approach conflicts with a calm and understanding mindset, listen to their children's perspectives, and work together to find a solution that is acceptable to both parties. Conflict resolution teaches children valuable skills in communication, negotiation, and problem-solving, while also strengthening the parent-child bond.In conclusion, building a healthy relationship between parents and children requires effort, understanding, and patience from both parties. By following these tips and fostering a positive environment based on trust, respect, communication, and support, parents and children can create a strong and loving bond that will last a lifetime. A healthy parent-child relationship lays the foundation for children to grow into confident, resilient, and emotionally secure individuals who can navigate life's challenges with grace and strength.篇3Building a healthy relationship between parents and children is essential for the well-being and happiness of all family members. It is important to establish good communication, mutual respect, and understanding in order to maintain a strong bond between parents and their children. In this essay, we will discuss some tips on how to build a healthy relationship between parents and children.Firstly, communication plays a vital role in building a healthy relationship between parents and children. Parents should create a supportive and open environment where children feel comfortable expressing their feelings and thoughts. Encourage open and honest communication, and listen attentively to whatyour children have to say. Avoid being judgmental or dismissive of their feelings, and try to understand their perspective.Secondly, mutual respect is crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship between parents and children. Parents should treat their children with respect and kindness, and set a good example for them to follow. Show appreciation for your children’s efforts and achievements, and acknowledge their feelings and opinions. Respect your children’s boundaries and allow them to make their own decisions whenever possible.Thirdly, understanding is key to building a strong relationship between parents and children. Try to put yourself in your children’s shoes and empathize with their struggles and challenges. Show empathy and compassion towards your children, and be patient and supportive when they face difficulties. Avoid criticizing or berating them, and instead offer guidance and encouragement.In addition, spending quality time together is important for strengthening the bond between parents and children. Make an effort to engage in activities and hobbies that both parents and children enjoy, and create happy memories together. Plan regular family outings or movie nights, and use this time to bond and connect with each other. Show interest in your children’sinterests and aspirations, and support them in pursuing their passions.Lastly, setting boundaries and maintaining discipline is necessary for a healthy relationship between parents and children. Establish clear rules and expectations for behavior, and enforce consequences when necessary. Be consistent in your discipline and avoid being overly lenient or harsh. Use positive reinforcement to encourage good behavior, and communicate openly with your children about the reasons behind your rules.In conclusion, building a healthy relationship between parents and children requires effort, patience, and understanding from both parties. By fostering good communication, mutual respect, and empathy, parents can create a nurturing environment where children feel loved, valued, and supported. By spending quality time together, setting boundaries, and maintaining discipline, parents can establish a strong bond with their children that will last a lifetime. Remember that building a healthy relationship takes time and perseverance, but the rewards are well worth the effort.。

父母与孩子如何相处英语作文

父母与孩子如何相处英语作文

父母与孩子如何相处英语作文英文回答:Parents and children are connected by an unbreakable bond. However, as children grow and develop, the nature of their relationship with their parents also changes. To maintain a healthy parent-child relationship, it is important to foster open communication, mutual respect, and support.From a young age, children need to feel heard and understood by their parents. This means listening to them attentively, without interrupting or dismissing their thoughts and feelings. Parents should also be willing to share their own experiences and perspectives, in a way that is age-appropriate and respectful of their child's individuality.As children enter adolescence, they naturally begin to assert their independence and develop their own identities.This can be a challenging time for parents, who may feel like they are losing control. However, it is important to remember that adolescence is a normal part of growing up. Parents should support their children's independence, while also setting clear boundaries and expectations.Open communication is essential for navigating the challenges of adolescence. Parents should encourage their children to talk to them about anything that is on their mind, no matter how difficult it may be. This includes topics such as sex, drugs, and peer pressure. By providing a safe and supportive environment, parents can help their children make healthy choices and avoid risky behaviors.Mutual respect is another key ingredient in a healthy parent-child relationship. Parents should respect their children's opinions and decisions, even if they do not agree with them. Children, in turn, should respect their parents' authority and the rules that they set.Support is essential for children of all ages. Parents should be there for their children through both the goodtimes and the bad. They should provide encouragement and guidance, and help their children to develop the skills and confidence they need to succeed in life.Of course, no relationship is perfect. Parents and children will inevitably have disagreements from time to time. However, it is important to remember that these disagreements should not damage the overall health of the relationship. Parents and children should learn to resolve conflicts peacefully, through open communication and compromise.By fostering open communication, mutual respect, and support, parents and children can build strong and lasting relationships that will benefit them both throughout their lives.中文回答:父母与孩子之间的关系是牢不可破的。

目前不少父母为孩子包办一切英语作文

目前不少父母为孩子包办一切英语作文

关于父母为孩子包办一切的英语作文作文1:Parents do everything for their childrenNowadays, many parents do everything for their children. They cook for their children, wash their clothes for them, and even make all the choices for their children. Children do nothing but listen to their parents' decisions, so as to help their children to be independent.Parents should first follow the advice given below and let their children do some housework, such as washing dishes and cleaning the room, which will not cost too much More time, but they are suitable for children to learn to live independently. Second, give children the opportunity to manage their families as family members. Children should know how to manage their families.Parents should teach them such skills. Children can learn the necessary ability to live independently. The most important thing is to give children freedom and let them choose for themselves.Only in this way can children grow up healthily.中文翻译:现在,许多父母为孩子做一切,他们为孩子做饭,为孩子洗衣服,甚至为孩子做所有的选择父母做的一切,孩子除了听从父母的决定之外什么也不做,以帮助孩子独立,家长首先应该按照下面给出的建议,让孩子做一些家务,比如洗碗、打扫房间这些工作不会花太多时间,但它们适合孩子学习独立生活第二,给孩子作为家庭成员管理家庭的机会,孩子应该懂得如何管理家庭,父母应该这样教他们这样的技能,孩子可以学会独立生活的必要能力,最重要的是,给孩子自由,让他们自己选择,只有这样,孩子才能健康成长。

2010年12月大学英语四级作文题目及标准范文:为了孩子独立,父母应该

2010年12月大学英语四级作文题目及标准范文:为了孩子独立,父母应该

Personally, I believe that -------------(我的解决方法). Consequently, I’m confident that a bright future is awaiting us because --------------(带来的好处)。
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Nowadays, there’s an increasing number of household in China that has an only one child. Most of parents Love and care for children so much that children has less chances to deal with problems by themselves. Consequently, children get used to depending on their parents in everything and lack of ability to solve problems independently, which is bad for their growing.
For the future of the next generation, more efforts should be made by parents to help their children to be independent. The fundamental one is to cultivate the awareness, namely, the importance and necessity of being independent, which is supposed to begin from childhood. Children should be taught that no one can be stronger and more helpful than themselves in this world。

家长如何让孩子独立英语作文.doc

家长如何让孩子独立英语作文.doc

家长如何让孩子独立英语作文家长如何让孩子独立英语作文篇1How Should Parents Help Children to Be IndependentAs is seen by us all ,more and more Chinese children s independencereduced . Most Chinese parents dote on their children , which makes childrendepend on their parents too much . They can t do something easy bythemselves , such as washing clothes , shopping If parents keep doing like this , their children won t be independent and can t succeed in doing somethingby themselves . How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent? In my opinion , the most important thing is that parents must change their thoughts . Only by letting children try to everything by themselves can they help their children form a good habit .Second , I want to introduce a good way of education . That is making the children know that no pains , no gains .It is obvious that all of parents love their children , but they can give love in another way . Children will not get benefit if they don t show their love to parents . This way , I think , is good for children s growth .All in all , the way of most parents education should change . As a saying goes : the flowers in greenhouse will never be bright . Just open your hand , let children fly in the sky !家长如何让孩子独立英语作文篇2In our country, the only-one child policy has made more and more parents pay so much attention to their children that they would like to replace their children to do everything, including study, work and even marriage. This notion has given to many problems forchildren s grow-ups. Therefore, our parents should learn to help their children to be independent.在我国,由于计划生育政策使越来越多的家长更加的重视他们的孩子,以至于他们愿意为他们的孩子做任何事情,包括学习,工作,甚至婚姻。

作文范文(how should parents help children to be indepent)

作文范文(how should parents help children to be indepent)

How Should Parents Help Children to Be Independent?1. 目前不少父母为孩子包办一切2. 为了让孩子独立,父母应该……14分These days many parents tend to make all decisions for their children for fear that they might do something wrong. The parents’ purpose is quite clear: to protect t heir kids from possible failures. But this practice turns out to make their children increasingly dependent on them.For their children’s future development, parents should help them to be independent. The earlier they take measures to do so, the more benefit their children will get. Parents should first teach their children how to make plan, an indispensable skill for their future survival. Parents should also give their children more freedom, a must to children’s independence. If the children only f ollow rules set by their parents, they will never gain the sense of independence. Most importantly, parents should be open to different ideas from their children. If children feel that their ideas are well listened to and respected, they will become more confident.To sum up, parents should provide their children with plan-making skill, freedom and respect. In this way, children will grow more independent.11 分Nowadays, many parents do everything for their children. They cook meals and wash clothes for their children. And they even make all the choices for their children. Everything has done by the parents and the children will do nothing but following the par ents’ decisions.In order to help children to be independent, parents should follow the suggestions given below. First, let children do some housework , such as washing dishes and cleaning rooms. These works will not take too much time, but they are suitable for children to learn to live independently. Second, give the chance to manage the family to children. As a family member, child should know how to manage the family. And the parents should teach them this kind of skills. In this way, children can learn the necessary abilities to live on their own. And most important, give more freedom to children and let them make their own choice. Only in this way can children grow up healthily.8 分Nowdays, many parents do everything for their children. There are many reasons for parents to do that. The first one is that they love their children and want them live better. The second one is that they think they would do everything better than their children. All these things makes the children don’t know how to l ive without parents. They don’t know how to be independent.What the parents do have a really bad affect to their children. So they should try another way. They should teach their children how to do things insteadof doing things for them. Then, they should let the children know that they would leave one day and children must live by themselves. So the children have to learn to live alone when it is not too late. Next parents should put it into practice. They may creat more chance for children to live alone when children are young.If parents do well in these ways, their children will surely know how to be independent.5 分Recent years, a topic of how should parents help children to be independent, which has aroused widely public attention. As far as I am concerned that is right in a sense, which parents do every things for their children. Because of the children is par ents’s all things. However, I am favor of parents should help children to be independent as soon as possible.How should parents help children to be independent. In my opinion, parents should believe their children first. parents should be certain with their children can recognize the true or fault and right or wrong of something. Secondly, parents had best to let their children to relize the responsity of himself and the family. In addition, parents also need to connect with their children and know about what children is doing recently.By doing so, children may make mistake even lost their way and so on. However, don’t worried, parents. Your children must be succeed from their experience.2分In the world, how many people is very happy? Because they are has parents, friends, teachers and so on. They are takes much love for them. So they are very happy.In present, parents are doing much more anything for their childrens. Including anything in the home. For example, their clothes, their dinner, their friends and so on. In the school, their parents takes them for school by car, by bike and on foot. For their children safe. Today’s children don’t do anything except their parents.For children alone in the world. For children doing anything alone in the world. Parents makes do exchange themself.Parents aren’t do anything for their children. They can do something by themself. They can with their friends to go to school, to buy something in the story and so on parents should not upset. Allow their childrens doing themself.Parents should do anything for their childrens, but doesn’t do all the things for their childrens.。

家庭教育对孩子成长的重要性英语作文

家庭教育对孩子成长的重要性英语作文

家庭教育对孩子成长的重要性英语作文全文共6篇示例,供读者参考篇1Family education is very important for children's growth. It plays a crucial role in shaping children's character, values, and behavior. Parents are the first teachers of their children, and they have a great influence on their development.First of all, family education provides children with a solid foundation of moral values. Parents teach their children the difference between right and wrong, and instill in them a sense of responsibility, honesty, and respect. These values guide children in their interactions with others and help them make good decisions in life.Moreover, family education helps children develop important life skills. Parents teach their children essential skills such as communication, problem-solving, and decision-making. These skills are crucial for children to succeed in school, work, and relationships.In addition, family education promotes a sense of belonging and security in children. When children feel loved, supported,and understood by their parents, they develop a strong sense of self-worth and confidence. This enables them to face challenges and setbacks with resilience and determination.Furthermore, family education fosters a positive relationship between parents and children. When parents spend quality time with their children, listen to their concerns, and offer guidance and support, they build a strong bond of trust and love. This bond is essential for children to thrive and grow into happy, well-adjusted individuals.In conclusion, family education is essential for children's growth and development. It provides them with a strong foundation of moral values, life skills, and emotional support. Parents play a crucial role in shaping their children's future, and their influence is irreplaceable. Therefore, it is important for parents to prioritize family education and instill in their children the values and skills they need to succeed in life.篇2Title: The Importance of Family Education for Children's GrowthHey everyone! Today, I want to talk to you about something super important - family education! Family education is like asuper power that parents have to help us grow up to be super awesome individuals.First of all, family education helps us learn the difference between right and wrong. Our parents teach us about values like honesty, kindness, and respect. They show us how to treat others with love and understanding. This is super important because it helps us become good people who make the world a better place.Secondly, family education helps us develop important life skills. Our parents teach us how to tie our shoes, brush our teeth, and even do our homework. They encourage us to try new things and learn from our mistakes. This helps us become independent and confident individuals who can take on any challenge.Furthermore, family education builds a strong bond between parents and children. When our parents spend time with us, listen to our thoughts and feelings, and support us no matter what, it helps us feel loved and secure. This bond of trust and love is super important for our emotional well-being and helps us grow up to be happy and successful individuals.In conclusion, family education is like a super important ingredient in the recipe of our lives. It helps us learn important values, develop essential life skills, and build a strong bond withour parents. So, let's always listen to our parents, learn from their wisdom, and grow up to be the best versions of ourselves!篇3Family education is very important for children's growth. It helps us to learn good habits, values and social skills. Parents are our first teachers and they play a crucial role in shaping our characters.First of all, parents teach us basic life skills such as how to eat, dress, and use the toilet. Without family education, we would not be able to survive in the world. Parents also teach us to be polite, respectful and kind to others. They show us how to share, cooperate and communicate with people around us. These social skills are very important for us to make friends and build relationships.Secondly, family education helps us to develop good values and attitudes. Parents teach us to be honest, hardworking and responsible. They instill in us the importance of education, health, and personal growth. They guide us to make the right choices and decisions in life. Without family education, we would not have a moral compass to guide us through life's challenges.Furthermore, family education provides us with emotional support and stability. Parents are always there for us when we need help, comfort or advice. They create a loving and caring environment for us to grow and thrive. They give us the confidence and security to explore the world and pursue our dreams.In conclusion, family education is essential for children's growth and development. It teaches us important life skills, values and social skills. It provides us with emotional support and stability. Without family education, we would not be able to become happy, healthy and successful individuals. Let's appreciate and cherish our families for their love, guidance and support.篇4Family education is very important for children's growth. Our parents are our first teachers and they play a crucial role in shaping our personalities and values.First of all, family education provides a strong foundation for children's learning. Parents are the ones who introduce us to the world and teach us the basic skills such as reading, writing, andmathematics. They also instill in us the importance of education and motivate us to strive for success in school.Secondly, family education helps to build strong moral values in children. In the family, we learn about honesty, kindness, respect, and responsibility through the actions and teachings of our parents. These values shape our character and guide us to make the right choices in life.Moreover, family education is essential for the emotional development of children. Parents provide love, support, and nurturing environment that help children feel secure and confident. Through positive interactions with family members, children learn to express their emotions, handle conflicts, and build strong relationships with others.In addition, family education plays a crucial role in teaching children life skills. From basic daily tasks such as cooking, cleaning, and managing money, to more complex skills such as decision-making, problem-solving, and time management, parents are the ones who guide and help children develop the skills they need to become independent and responsible adults.In conclusion, family education is vital for children's growth and development. It lays the foundation for learning, shapes our values and character, nurtures our emotional well-being, andequips us with the skills needed to navigate through life. As children, we should cherish the love and guidance from our parents, and as parents, we should take our role as educators seriously and provide our children with the best possible upbringing.篇5Family education is really important for children to grow up. My mom and dad always tell me that they love me and want me to be a good person. They teach me how to be kind, honest, and hardworking. They also help me with my homework and read bedtime stories to me every night.With good family education, I learn to respect others and treat them with kindness. My parents always set a good example for me by being polite and helpful to others. They also teach me how to communicate and solve problems peacefully. I know that I can always count on my family for support and guidance.Family education also helps me to develop good habits and skills. My mom teaches me how to clean up after myself and take care of my belongings. My dad helps me to learn new things and improve my abilities. They also encourage me to try new things and never give up when facing challenges.In conclusion, family education is the foundation for children to grow up well. With the love and guidance from my family, I know that I can become a responsible and successful person in the future. I am grateful for my family and all the things they do for me.篇6Family education is very important for children's growth. Children learn a lot from their parents and family members. They learn how to behave, talk, and interact with others. Family education teaches children values, manners, and skills that will help them become successful adults.Parents play a crucial role in a child's education. They are the first teachers a child has and they are responsible for setting a good example. Parents should teach their children to be kind, respectful, honest, and hardworking. They should encourage their children to do well in school and help them with their homework. Parents should spend quality time with their children, listen to them, and show them love and support.Family education helps children develop important life skills. Children learn how to communicate effectively, solve problems, and build relationships with others. They also learn how tomanage their emotions, set goals, and make decisions. These skills are essential for success in school, work, and life.Family education also plays a key role in shaping a child's character. Children learn values such as honesty, integrity, and compassion from their parents. They learn to be responsible, resilient, and self-disciplined. These qualities will help children become responsible adults who contribute positively to society.In conclusion, family education is crucial for children's growth and development. Parents should take an active role in educating their children and provide them with love, guidance, and support. By investing in family education, parents can help their children become happy, successful, and responsible individuals.。

父母是否应该给孩子的选择自由英语作文

父母是否应该给孩子的选择自由英语作文

父母是否应该给孩子的选择自由英语作文全文共3篇示例,供读者参考篇1Should Parents Give Their Children Freedom of Choice?As a high school student, I've spent a lot of time thinking about the role of parents and how much freedom they should give their children. It's a complex issue without any easy answers, but after weighing the pros and cons, I've formed my own perspective.On one side of the debate, there's an argument that parents need to strictly guide and control their children's decisions to ensure they stay on the right path. The reasoning is that children lack the wisdom, maturity, and life experience to make good choices for themselves. Left entirely to their own devices, the argument goes, kids will inevitably make poor decisions that could have long-lasting negative consequences on their lives. Parents are supposed to be the wise guardians steering their offspring in the proper direction.I can understand this line of thinking. Children's brains are still developing and they can be impulsive, short-sighted, andprone to risky behaviors if not reined in. We've all known those peers who went way off the rails due to lack of parental guidance. There are certainly cases where strict parental control is warranted to protect children from harmful paths like teenage pregnancies, drug addictions, criminal activities, etc. Caring parents don't want to see their kids throw away their potential futures through careless mistakes.On the other hand, the counterargument is that children need ample freedom to explore, express themselves, follow their passions, and learn decision-making skills through real experience. Overly authoritarian parenting can breed resentment, rebellion, lack of self-confidence, and stunted emotional growth. Kids who are micromanaged and stripped of autonomy may become depressed, anxious, aimless adults incapable of charting their own course. Finding the right balance between nurturing independence and providing guidance is key.From my perspective as a young adult on the cusp of leaving the nest, I've come to believe that parents should progressively loosen the reins and afford more choice to their children as they mature and demonstrate readiness. Appropriate freedom should be earned through developing critical thinking skills, emotionalintelligence, and responsible behavior. But complete free rein with zero parental input is unwise, in my opinion.For example, I think grade school kids should have limited choices confined to lower-stakes matters like picking extracurricular activities, controlling portions of their allowance spending, selecting some household chores, determining certain elements of their personal style/fashion, and so on. Weighing these types of low-risk decisions helps build decision-making muscles. But the big life-shaping choices should still be firmly directed by parents leveraging their greater wisdom and perspective.As students transition into their mid-to-late teens, I believe greater autonomy is merited in realms like choice of friends, part-time jobs, high school coursework/academic paths, driving privileges, timing/planning of major milestones like getting a learner's permit or applying to colleges and so forth. Though still overseen by parents, this increased self-determinism reflects the reality that teens are on the verge of adulthood and need experience running their own lives.By the time kids reach the latter years of high school at ages 17-18, in an ideal parent-child relationship (which sadly not everyone has), I think students who have demonstrated maturityshould be afforded tremendous latitude in the really major decisions that will shape their life journeys after secondary school. This includes determining working or going to college, picking majors, deciding on careers, managing personal finances, and generally charting their own paths into young adulthood. Parents should still provide input and mentorship as needed, but allow for the primacy of their children's own reasoned choices about their futures.Of course, every situation is unique based on the individuals involved and no one-size-fits-all prescription will work for every family. There are absolutely cases where parents need to curtail choice more due to concerning behaviors like substance abuse, untreated mental health struggles, toxic friend circles, criminal conduct, and so on. Safety has to come first in extreme high-risk situations where children could severely jeopardize their wellbeing through poor personal decisions based on impaired judgement.But in the majority of cases with psychologically healthy kids and a nurturing family dynamic, I believe a gradual increasing of personal decision-making choice as teens demonstrate greater maturity and preparedness for independence is the ideal approach. Striking the right balance between protecting childrenfrom potentially disastrous mistakes while also nurturing their autonomy is an eternal tightrope walk all parents must navigate based on the specific situations and individuals involved. Too much control breeds rebellion and resentment, while too little guidance can enable self-destructive choices. Constant communication, emotional attunement, and making decisions together as a family unit is ultimately the healthiest path.Parenting styles exist on a spectrum, and there are pros and cons to both authoritarian micromanagement as well as a completely hands-off approach. As a soon-to-be adult looking back on my upbringing, I've come to appreciate how my own parents gradually afforded me more choice and self-direction as I displayed greater responsibility and decision-making capabilities. It wasn't a perfect process, and there were certainly times I felt I deserved more autonomy sooner. But ultimately, I'm grateful for how they sought to protect me until I had the tools to independently navigate life's myriad choices, while respecting my personal agency as I demonstrated readiness. Achieving that nuanced balance is the goal all parents should aspire to.篇2Should Parents Give Their Children Freedom of Choice?As a student, I've been pondering this deep question lately –should parents allow their children full freedom to make their own choices, or is it better for parents to guide children's decisions? There are valid arguments on both sides, and it's a complex issue with no simple answer.On one hand, having freedom of choice is empowering and can help foster independence, self-confidence, and critical thinking skills in children from a young age. If parents make all the decisions for their kids, those kids may become overly dependent and lack problem-solving abilities. They may rebel against parental authority rather than learning to make responsible choices. Allowing reasonable freedoms, withage-appropriate limits, gives children practice thinking for themselves and learning from their own mistakes in a supportive environment.Additionally, every child is a unique individual with their own interests, strengths, and personalities. Parents can't possibly know what will make each child happiest and most fulfilled in life. By giving children agency over certain decisions that affect them, like extracurricular activities or course selections, parents open up opportunities tailored to their kids' needs. Autonomy permits kids to explore their passions instead of being forced down apredetermined path. It teaches self-motivation and drivesself-actualization.However, the flip side is that children often lack the life experience, wisdom, and developed decision-making capacity to make reliably good choices in their own best interests, especially at very young ages. Their brains are still growing and they can be impulsive, short-sighted, and easily influenced by peer pressure or fleeting whims. If given full freedom with no guidance, they may make choices that could be detrimental to their health, education, or future prospects out of ignorance or immaturity.There's also the argument that parents have critically important responsibilities – to protect, nurture, and equip their children to ultimately become healthy, productive members of society. Limits and enforced boundaries provide a sense of security, stability, and structure that allows kids to thrive. Parental guidance drawing from greater knowledge and life lessons steers children away from serious mistakes. Too much premature freedom could essentially be a form of neglect.My personal opinion is that the ideal approach lies in finding a balanced middle ground. Parents shouldn't be authoritarian dictators, but nor should they be entirely hands-off. The degreeof freedom should depend on the child's age and be increased gradually to instill self-discipline.In the earliest years, parents should establish basic rules, routines, and expectations for their children to ensure proper care and development of good habits. As kids grow, parents can loosen the reins by allowing more minor choices – for instance, what clothes to wear, which snacks to eat, how to spend free time, etc. Giving a young child unlimited, unsupervised freedom would be irresponsible and ill-advised.As the child enters the pre-teen and teen years, parents can progressively allow increased autonomy over more consequential matters like course selections, extracurriculars, certain expenditures, curfews, etc. But they should still provide advice, guidance, and vetoes for potentially dangerous, illegal, or seriously unwise decisions their children may want to make due to lack of foresight.Clear, age-appropriate boundaries with reasonable freedoms within those boundaries seems ideal. An open dialogue between parents and children is key, where parents explain the reasoning behind their rules, and kids feel heard and part of the decision-making process. This fosters mutual understanding and respect.Ultimately, by late teens and college-age, most children should have ample freedom to make larger life decisions for themselves while still receiving input and emotional support from parents. Parents must pull back at some point and have faith that they've raised their children with the proper values, wisdom, and strength of character to take ownership over their own lives.It's a tricky balance to strike, but one that caring parents must continuously work toward – nurturing their children's independence and decision-making abilities while providing the guidance and limits needed for their children's safety and wellbeing at each stage of development. With open communication, trust, and an incremental approach, parents can prepare their kids to make positive, well-informed choices as self-actualized adults.篇3Should Parents Give Their Children Freedom of Choice?As a teenager, I often find myself struggling with the boundaries set by my parents. On one hand, I crave independence and the freedom to make my own choices. But on the other hand, I understand that my parents' rules andrestrictions come from a place of love and concern for mywell-being. This tension between parental control and personal autonomy is a universal experience shared by young people everywhere. The question of how much freedom parents should grant their children is a complex and nuanced one, with valid arguments on both sides.Those who advocate for giving children more freedom of choice often point to the importance of fostering independence, self-reliance, and decision-making skills from an early age. By allowing children to make their own choices, even if those choices sometimes lead to mistakes or failures, they argue that parents are better preparing their offspring for the realities of adulthood. In the real world, there is no safety net – we must all learn to live with the consequences of our actions. Giving children the space to exercise their autonomy in a safe, supportive environment can help them develop resilience, problem-solving abilities, and a sense of personal responsibility.Furthermore, proponents of this approach suggest that overly strict parenting can be stifling to a child's personal growth and self-expression. If children are constantly told what to do, what to think, and how to behave, they may struggle to develop their own unique identities and find their true passions in life. Bygranting them more freedom of choice, parents allow their children to explore their interests, discover their talents, and ultimately forge their own paths.On the flip side, those who favor a more restrictive parenting style argue that children, especially young children, lack the maturity and life experience necessary to make wise decisions consistently. Without proper guidance and boundaries, children may make choices that put their health, safety, or future prospects at risk. Parents, with their greater wisdom and life experience, have a responsibility to steer their children away from potentially harmful or unwise choices.Defenders of this perspective often cite the well-known phenomenon of teenage rebellion as evidence that too much freedom can backfire. When adolescents feel overly constrained or controlled by their parents, they may rebel by engaging in risky or destructive behaviors as a way of asserting their independence. By maintaining reasonable limits and expectations, parents can help their children navigate the turbulent waters of adolescence more safely.Personally, I believe that the ideal approach lies somewhere in the middle – a balanced blend of freedom and structure, autonomy and guidance. As a young person, I deeply value theopportunities I have to make my own choices and explore my interests. However, I also recognize the value of my parents' wisdom and experience, and I appreciate the boundaries they set to keep me safe and on track.Perhaps the solution is a gradual increase in freedom and responsibility as children mature and demonstrate their readiness for greater independence. When I was a young child, my parents' rules and restrictions were more rigid, as they sought to protect me from potential harm and instill important values and life skills. As I grew older and proved my ability to make responsible choices, they gradually loosened the reins, allowing me more autonomy in areas like choosing extracurricular activities, managing my time, and making decisions about my future.This incremental approach not only fosters independence and decision-making skills, but it also teaches children the important lesson that freedom and responsibility go hand in hand. With greater freedom comes greater accountability for one's choices and their consequences.Ultimately, I believe that the key to successful parenting lies in striking the right balance between freedom and guidance, tailored to the unique needs and maturity level of each individualchild. Too much control can stifle personal growth and breed resentment, while too much freedom can leave children adrift and vulnerable.By maintaining open lines of communication, respecting their children's emerging autonomy, and providing a supportive framework of love and wisdom, parents can help their offspring navigate the challenging journey from childhood to adulthood. And by granting increasing levels of freedom and responsibility as their children demonstrate readiness, parents can equip them with the skills and resilience necessary to thrive as independent, self-sufficient adults.In the end, the goal of parenting should be to raise children who are not only capable of making their own choices, but who also possess the judgment and integrity to make wise ones. It is a delicate balance, but one that is essential for nurturing happy, healthy, and successful human beings.。

父母应该让孩子合理使用手机英语作文

父母应该让孩子合理使用手机英语作文

父母应该让孩子合理使用手机英语作文Parents Should Encourage Kids to Use Phones ReasonablyIn this digital age, smartphones have become an indispensable part of our daily lives. For children, they are not only tools for communication and entertainment but also important educational resources. However, excessive use of phones can have negative impacts on children's physical and mental health. Hence, parents should play a crucial role in helping kids use phones in a reasonable way.First and foremost, parents should set a good example for their children. Children often mimic the behavior of their parents, so if parents spend too much time on their phones, children are likely to do the same. Parents should limit their own screen time and show that there are other ways to spend quality time with family and friends. By doing so, parents can instill healthy phone habits in their children.Secondly, parents should establish clear rules and boundaries for phone usage. Children should be informed about the negative effects of excessive phone use, such as eye strain, sleep disturbances, and social withdrawal. Parents can set limits on screen time, restrict the use of phones during meal times andbedtime, and encourage children to engage in outdoor activities and hobbies. By creating a balance between phone usage and other activities, parents can help children develop a healthy relationship with technology.Moreover, parents should monitor and supervise their children's phone activities. It is important for parents to be aware of what apps their children are using, who they are communicating with, and how much time they are spending on their phones. Parents can use parental control features to restrict access to inappropriate content and set time limits on phone usage. By staying involved in their children's digital lives, parents can ensure that their children are using phones in a safe and responsible manner.In addition, parents should have open and honest conversations with their children about the risks and benefits of using phones. Children should be educated about cyberbullying, online predators, and the importance of protecting their personal information. Parents should encourage their children to speak up if they encounter any problems online and provide them with guidance on how to deal with online threats. By fostering good communication with their children, parents canhelp them navigate the digital world with confidence and resilience.In conclusion, while smartphones can offer many benefits to children, it is important for parents to guide them in using phones responsibly. By setting a positive example, establishing clear rules, monitoring phone activities, and having open conversations, parents can help their children develop healthy phone habits. With the right guidance and support, children can enjoy the benefits of technology while maintaining a balanced and fulfilling life.。

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