The price of shame
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taylorswift歌词大全Tim McGrawBut when you think: Tim McGraw, 当你想起《蒂姆麦格劳》I hope you think my favorite song 我希望你想起这首我最喜欢的歌The one we danced to all night long: 我们一整夜伴它起舞The moon like a spotlight on the lake 月光像湖泊上的聚光灯When you think happiness, 当你想起你的幸福I hope you think: "That little black dress" 我希望你想起“小巧的黑色衣服”Think of my head on your chest, 想起我的头靠在你的胸怀An' my old faded blue jeans 想起我那陈旧的褪色的牛仔裤When you think Tim McGraw, 当你想起《蒂姆麦格劳》I hope you think of me我希望你想起我September saw a month of tears, 9月是眼泪之月An' thankin' God that you weren't here, To see me like that 我感谢上帝你不在这儿看着我流泪But in a box beneath my bed, Is a letter that you never read, 但是在我床下的一个盒子里有一封你从未看过的信From three summers back It's hard not to find it all a little bitter sweet,An' lookin' back on all of that, it's nice to believe:三年前的那个夏季觉得它是个甜蜜苦涩的回忆回首这一切我欣然相信:When you think: Tim McGraw, 当你想起《蒂姆麦格劳》I hope you think my favorite song 我希望你想起这首我最喜欢的歌The one we danced to all night long: 我们一整夜伴它起舞The moon like a spotlight on the lake 月光像湖泊上的聚光灯When you think happiness, 当你想起你的幸福 I hope youthink: "That little black dress" 我希望你想起“小巧的黑色衣服”Think of my head on your chest, 想起我的头靠在你的胸怀An' my old faded blue jeans 想起我那陈旧的褪色的牛仔裤When you think Tim McGraw, I hope you think of me当你想起《蒂姆麦格劳》我希望你想起我And I'm back for the first time since then: 从那时起我回到了最初I'm standin' on your street, 我站在街道上 An' there's a letter left on your doorstep, 你家的门外有一封信An' the first thing that you'll read: 而这是你第一次读到的东西:Is: "When you think: Tim McGraw, 当你想起《蒂姆麦格劳》"I hope you think my favorite song" 我希望你想起这首我最喜欢的歌Some day you'll turn your radio on, 我们一整夜伴它起舞I hope it takes you back to that place 月光像湖泊上的聚光灯When you think happiness, 当你想起你的幸福 I hope you think: "That little black dress" 我希望你想起“小巧的黑色衣服”Think of my head on your chest, 想起我的头靠在你的胸怀An' my old faded blue jeans 想起我那陈旧的褪色的牛仔裤When you think Tim McGraw, I hope you think of me Oh, think of me, Mmmm当你想起《蒂姆麦格劳》我希望你想起我You said the way my blue eyes shined, 你说我的蓝眼睛的闪烁Put those Georgia stars to shame that night 让当晚所有格鲁吉亚的星星黯然失色 I said: "That's a lie" 我说:“这是一个谎言。
莱温斯基TED2015演讲稿The price of shame.
The price of shameYou're looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a decade. Obviously, that's changed, but only recently.It was several months ago that I gave my very first major public talk at the Forbes 30 Under 30 summit:1,500 brilliant people, all under the age of 30. That meant that in 1998, the oldest among the group were only 14, and the youngest, just four. I joked with them that some might only have heard of me from rap songs. Yes, I'm in rap songs. Almost 40 rap songs.But the night of my speech, a surprising thing happened. At the age of 41, I was hit on by a 27-year-old guy. I know, right? He was charming and I was flattered, and I declined. You know what his unsuccessful pickup line was? He could make me feel 22 again. I realized later that night, I'm probably the only person over 40 who does not want to be 22 again.At the age of 22, I fell in love with my boss, and at the age of 24, I learned the devastating consequences.Can I see a show of hands of anyone here who didn't make a mistake or do something they regretted at 22? Yep. That's what I thought. So like me, at 22, a few of you may have also taken wrong turns and fallen in love with the wrong person, maybe even your boss. Unlike me, though, your boss probably wasn't the president of the United States of America. Of course, life is full of surprises.Not a day goes by that I'm not reminded of my mistake, and I regret that mistake deeply.In 1998, after having been swept up into an improbable romance, I was then swept up into the eye of a political, legal and media maelstrom like we had never seen before. Remember, just a few years earlier,news was consumed from just three places: reading a newspaper or magazine, listening to the radio, or watching television. That was it. But that wasn't my fate. Instead, this scandal was brought to you by the digital revolution. That meant we could access all the information we wanted, when we wanted it, anytime, anywhere, and when the story broke in January 1998, it broke online. It was the first time the traditional news was usurped by the Internet for a major news story, a click that reverberated around the world.What that meant for me personally was that overnight I went from being a completely private figure to a publicly humiliated one worldwide. I was patient zero of losing a personal reputation on a global scale almost instantaneously.This rush to judgment, enabled by technology, led to mobs of virtual stone-throwers. Granted, it was before social media, but people could still comment online, email stories, and, of course, email cruel jokes. Newssources plastered photos of me all over to sell newspapers, banner ads online, and to keep people tuned to the TV. Do you recall a particular image of me, say, wearing a beret?Now, I admit I made mistakes, especially wearing that beret. But the attention and judgment that I received, not the story, but that I personally received, was unprecedented. I was branded as a tramp, tart, slut, whore, bimbo, and, of course, that woman. I was seen by many but actually known by few. And I get it: it was easy to forget that that woman was dimensional, had a soul, and was once unbroken.When this happened to me 17 years ago, there was no name for it. Now we call it cyberbullying and online harassment. Today, I want to share some of my experience with you, talk about how that experience has helped shape my cultural observations, and how I hope my past experience can lead to a change that results in less suffering for others.In 1998, I lost my reputation and my dignity. I lost almost everything, and I almost lost my life.Let me paint a picture for you. It is September of 1998. I'm sitting in a windowless office room inside the Office of the Independent Counsel underneath humming fluorescent lights. I'm listening to the sound of my voice, my voice on surreptitiously taped phone calls that a supposed friend had made the year before. I'm here because I've been legally required to personally authenticate all 20 hours of taped conversation. For the past eight months, the mysterious content of these tapes has hung like the Sword of Damocles over my head. I mean, who can remember what they said a year ago? Scared and mortified, I listen, listen as I prattle on about the flotsam and jetsam of the day; listen as I confess my love for the president, and, of course, my heartbreak; listen to my sometimes catty, sometimes churlish, sometimes silly self being cruel, unforgiving, uncouth; listen, deeply, deeply ashamed, to the worst version of myself,a self I don't even recognize.A few days later, the Starr Report is released to Congress, and all of those tapes and trans, those stolen words, form a part of it. That people can read the trans is horrific enough, but a few weeks later, the audio tapes are aired on TV, and significant portions made available online. The public humiliation was excruciating. Life was almost unbearable.This was not something that happened with regularity back then in 1998, and by this, I mean the stealing of people's private words, actions, conversations or photos, and then making them public -- public without consent, public without context, and public without compassion.Fast forward 12 years to 2010, and now social media has been born. The landscape has sadly become much more populated with instances like mine, whether or not someone actually make a mistake, and now it's for both public and private people. The consequences for some have become dire, very dire.I was on the phone with my mom in September of 2010, and we were talking about the news of a young college freshman from Rutgers University named Tyler Clementi. Sweet, sensitive, creative Tyler was secretly webcammed by his roommate while being intimate with another man. When the online world learned of this incident, the ridicule and cyberbullying ignited.A few days later, Tyler jumped from the George Washington Bridge to his death. He was 18.My mom was beside herself about what happened to Tyler and his family, and she was gutted with painin a way that I just couldn't quite understand, and then eventually I realized she was reliving 1998, reliving a time when she sat by my bed every night, reliving a time when she made me shower with the bathroom door open, and reliving a time when both of my parents feared that I would be humiliated to death,literally.Today, too many parents haven't had the chance to step in and rescue their loved ones. Too many have learned of their child's suffering and humiliation after it was too late. Tyler's tragic, senseless death was a turning point for me. It served to recontextualize my experiences, and I then began to look at the world of humiliation and bullying around me and see something different. In 1998, we had no way of knowing where this brave new technology called the Internet would take us. Since then, it has connected people in unimaginable ways, joining lost siblings, saving lives, launching revolutions, but the darkness, cyberbullying, and slut-shaming that I experienced had mushroomed. Every day online, people, especially young people who are not developmentally equipped to handle this, are so abused and humiliated that they can't imagine living to the next day, and some, tragically, don't, andthere's nothing virtual about that. ChildLine, a U.K. nonprofit that's focused on helping young people on various issues,released a staggering statistic late last year: From 2012 to 2013, there was an 87 percent increase in calls and emails related to cyberbullying. A meta-analysis done out of the Netherlands showed that for the first time, cyberbullying was leading to suicidal ideations more significantly than offline bullying. And you know what shocked me, although it shouldn't have, was other research last year that determined humiliation was a more intensely felt emotion than either happiness or even anger.Cruelty to others is nothing new, but online, technologically enhanced shaming isamplified, uncontained, and permanently accessible. The echo of embarrassment used to extend only as far as your family, village, school or community, but now it's the online community too. Millions of people, often anonymously, can stab you with their words, and that's a lot of pain, and there are no perimeters around how many people can publicly observe you and put you in a public stockade. There is a very personal price to public humiliation, and the growth of the Internet has jacked up that price.For nearly two decades now, we have slowly been sowing the seeds of shame and public humiliation in our cultural soil, both on- and offline. Gossip websites, paparazzi, reality programming, politics, news outlets and sometimes hackers all traffic in shame. It's led to desensitization and a permissive environment online which lends itself to trolling, invasion of privacy, and cyberbullying. This shift has created what Professor Nicolaus Mills calls a culture of humiliation. Consider a few prominent examples just from the past six months alone. Snapchat, the service which is used mainly by younger generationsand claims that its messages only have the lifespan of a few seconds. You can imagine the range of content that that gets. A third-party app which Snapchatters use to preserve the lifespan of the messages was hacked, and 100,000 personal conversations, photos, and videos were leaked online to now have a lifespan of forever. Jennifer Lawrence and several other actors had their iCloud accounts hacked, and private, intimate, nude photos were plastered across the Internet without their permission.One gossip website had over five million hits for this one story. And what about the Sony Pictures cyberhacking? The documents which received the most attention were private emails that had maximum public embarrassment value.But in this culture of humiliation, there is another kind of price tag attached to public shaming. The price does not measure the cost to the victim, which Tyler and too many others, notably women, minorities,and members of the LGBTQ community have paid, but the price measures the profit of those who prey on them. This invasion of others is a raw material, efficiently and ruthlessly mined, packaged and sold at a profit. A marketplace has emerged where public humiliation is a commodity and shame is an industry.How is the money made? Clicks. The more shame, the more clicks. The more clicks, the more advertising dollars. We're in a dangerous cycle. The more we click on this kind of gossip, the more numb we get to the human lives behind it, and the more numb we get, the more we click. All the while, someone is making money off of the back of someone else's suffering. With every click, we make a choice. The more we saturate our culture with public shaming, the more accepted it is,the more we will see behavior like cyberbullying, trolling, some forms of hacking, and online harassment. Why? Because they all have humiliation at their cores. This behavior is a symptom of the culture we've created. Just think about it.Changing behavior begins with evolving beliefs. We've seen that to be true with racism, homophobia, and plenty of other biases, today and in the past. As we've changed beliefs about same-sex marriage, more people have been offered equal freedoms. When we began valuing sustainability, more people began to recycle. So as far as our culture of humiliation goes, what we need is a cultural revolution. Public shaming as a blood sport has to stop, and it's time for an intervention on the Internet and in our culture.The shift begins with something simple, but it's not easy. We need to return to a long-held value of compassion -- compassion and empathy. Online, we've got a compassion deficit, an empathy crisis.Researcher Brené Brown said, and I quote, "Shame can't survive empathy." Shame cannot survive empathy. I've seen some very dark days in my life, and it was the compassion and empathy from my family, friends, professionals, and sometimes even strangers that saved me. Even empathy from one person can make a difference. The theory of minority influence, proposed by social psychologist Serge Moscovici, says that even in small numbers, when there's consistency over time, change can happen. In the online world, we can foster minority influence by becoming upstanders. To become an upstander means instead of bystander apathy, we can post a positive comment for someone or report a bullying situation. Trust me, compassionate comments help abate the negativity. We can also counteract the culture by supporting organizations that deal with these kinds of issues, like the Tyler Clementi Foundation in the U.S., In the U.K., there's Anti-Bullying Pro, and in Australia, there's Project Rockit.We talk a lot about our right to freedom of expression, but we need to talk more about our responsibility to freedom of expression. We all want to be heard, but let's acknowledge the difference between speaking up with intention and speaking up for attention. The Internet is the superhighway for the id, but online, showing empathy to others benefits us all and helps create a safer and better world. We need to communicate online with compassion, consume news with compassion, and click with compassion. Just imagine walking a mile in someone else's headline. I'd like to end on a personal note. In the past nine months, the question I've been asked the most is why. Why now? Why was I sticking my head above the parapet? You can read between the lines in thosequestions, and the answer has nothing to do with politics.The top note answer was and is because it's time: time to stop tip-toeing around my past; time to stop living a life of opprobrium; and time to take back my narrative. It's also not just about saving myself. Anyone who is suffering from shame and public humiliation needs to know one thing: You can survive it.I know it's hard. It may not be painless, quick or easy, but you can insist on a different ending to your story. Have compassion for yourself. We all deserve compassion, and to live both online and off in a more compassionate world.Thank you for listening.莫妮卡·莱温斯基主讲人:莫妮卡莱温斯基主题:耻辱的代价时间:2015年3月19日主办:Ted大会【编者按】17年前白宫性丑闻事件的当事人,前白宫实习生莫妮卡莱温斯基在沉默了十年之后,走上Ted大会的讲台,呼吁抵制网络欺凌。
从错误中学习LearningFromMistakes
从错误中学习Learning From Mistakes英语作文从错误中学习Learning From Mistakes英语作文(精选14篇)在学习、工作乃至生活中,大家都经常接触到作文吧,作文是从内部言语向外部言语的过渡,即从经过压缩的简要的、自己能明白的语言,向开展的、具有规范语法结构的、能为他人所理解的外部语言形式的转化。
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从错误中学习Learning From Mistakes英语作文篇1We all make mistakes which are inevitable. What makes mistakes worse is failure to correct your own mistakes. While making mistakes is good, repeating mistakes is definitely not. Apart from correcting your own mistakes, we should learn from the mistakes as well.错误不可避免,最糟糕的`是我们不纠正自己的错误。
制造错误有好处,重复错误就不一定是对的,除了要纠正我们的错误,我们也要从错误中学习。
You can only learn from you admit you have made one. As soon as you start blaming other people, you distance yourself from any possible lesson that could be learned from it. Admission of mistake, even if only privately to yourself, make learning possible by moving the focus away from blaming yourself and towards understanding. Wise people admit their mistakes easily. They know progress accelerates when they do. On the other hand, for many reasons admitting mistakes is difficult. This is why some people consider that people can learn nothing from mistakes. We are educated in school, in our families, or at work to feel guilty about failure and to do whatever we can to avoid mistakes. This sense of shame combined with the inevitability of setbacks when attempting difficult things explains why many people give up ontheir goals: they are not prepared for the mistakes and failures they will face on their way to what they want.你可以只从你已经承认的错误中学习,一旦你开始责备别人,你就会使自己远离那些可能从中学到东西的可能性。
莱温斯基TED演讲-中英对照
莱温斯基T E D演讲-中英对照(共18页)--本页仅作为文档封面,使用时请直接删除即可----内页可以根据需求调整合适字体及大小--The price of shame主讲人:莫妮卡莱温斯基主题:耻辱的代价You're looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a decade. Obvious ly, that's changed, but only recently.站在你们面前的是一个在大众面前沉默了十年之久的女人。
当然,现在情况不一样了,不过这只是最近发生的事。
It was several months ago that I gave my very first major public talk at t he Forbes 30 Under 30 summit:1,500 brilliant people, all under the age o f 30. That meant that in 1998, the oldest among the group were only 14, and theyoungest, just four. I joked with them that some might only have heard o f me from rap songs. Yes, I'm in rap songs. Almost 40 rap songs.几个月前,我在《福布斯》杂志举办的“30岁以下”峰会(Under 30 Summit)上发表了首次公开演讲。
现场1500位才华横溢的与会者都不到30岁。
这意味着1998年,他们中最年长的是14岁,而最年轻的只有4岁。
我跟他们开玩笑道,他们中有些人可能只在说唱歌曲里听到过我的名字。
是的,大约有40首说唱歌曲唱过我。
But the night of my speech, a surprising thing happened. At the age of 4 1, I was hit on by a 27-year-old guy. I know, right He was charming and I was flattered, and I declined. You know what his unsuccessful pickup line was He could make me fe el 22 again. I realized later that night, I'm probably the only person over 40 who does not want to be 22 again. 但是,在我演讲当晚,发生了一件令人吃惊的事——我作为一个41岁的女人,被一个27岁的男孩示爱。
经典英文电影台词之风月俏佳人
【剧情导读】⼀段另类的爱情故事。
堕⼊情的是⼀位商界巨⼦和⼀位下层妓⼥。
妓⼥维维安与爱德华邂逅街头,很快她成为了爱德华⾦钱下的情妇,维维安答应陪爱德华⼀个星期。
然⽽短暂的相聚使他们感到不能够离开彼此。
尽管是⼀段让⼈耻笑的情缘,但是爱德华最终摆脱了世俗的羁绊,驱车来到维维安的住处,向维维安求婚。
整个场⾯在浪漫的节拍中结束。
风⽉俏佳⼈(Pretty Woman)【⿍⼒星阵】导演:加⾥·马歇尔 (Marshall Garry)主演:李察德·基尔 (Gere Richard)朱丽娅·罗伯茨 (Roberts Julia)拉尔夫·贝拉⽶ (Bellamy Ralph)出品: 1990美国试⾦⽯影⽚公司【获奖奖项】荣获⾦球奖⾳乐和喜剧电影⼥主⾓(商业巨⼦爱德华在⽐华利⼭迷路了,他邂逅了妓⼥维维安。
维维安主动要求给理查德指路,于是他们⼀起到了酒店。
)精彩对⽩:Vivian: Hey sugar, are you looking for a date?维维安: 嘿,亲爱的,想找个伴吗?Edward: No! I want to find Beverly Hills, could you give me the directions?爱德华: 不是的,我想去⽐华利⼭,能告诉我怎么⾛吗?Vivian: Sure, five bucks.维维安: 可以,五美元。
******************************************************额外成就事实上,在美国⼝语中美元⽤ buck 代替dollar 更为常见。
*****************************************************Edward: That's ridiculous【荒谬的】!爱德华: 太荒谬了!Vivian: Price just went up to ten.维维安: 现在是⼗美元了。
莱温斯基:羞辱的代价
0:11 You're looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a decade. Obviously, that's changed, but only recently.0:22 It was several months ago that I gave my very first major public talk at the Forbes 30 Under 30 summit: 1,500 brilliant people, all under the age of 30. That meant that in 1998, the oldest among the group were only 14, and the youngest, just four. I joked with them that some might only have heard of me from rap songs. Yes, I'm in rap songs. Almost 40 rap songs. (Laughter)0:57 But the night of my speech, a surprising thing happened. At the age of 41, I was hit on by a 27-year-old guy. I know, right? He was charming and I was flattered, and I declined. You know what his unsuccessful pickup line was? He could make me feel 22 again. (Laughter) (Applause) I realized later that night, I'm probably the only person over 40 who does not want to be 22 again. (Laughter) (Applause)1:46 At the age of 22, I fell in love with my boss, and at the age of 24, I learned the devastating consequences.1:58 Can I see a show of hands of anyone here who didn't make a mistake or do something they regretted at 22? Yep. That's what I thought. So like me, at 22, a few of you may have also taken wrong turns and fallen in love with the wrong person, maybe even your boss. Unlike me, though, your boss probably wasn't the president of the United States of America. Of course, life is full of surprises.2:35 Not a day goes by that I'm not reminded of my mistake, and I regret that mistake deeply.2:44 In 1998, after having been swept up into an improbable romance, I was then swept up into the eye of a political, legal and media maelstrom like we had never seen before. Remember, just a few years earlier, news was consumed from just three places: reading a newspaper or magazine, listening to the radio, or watching television. That was it. But that wasn't my fate. Instead, this scandal was brought to you by the digital revolution. That meant we could access all the information we wanted, when we wanted it, anytime, anywhere, and when the story broke in January 1998, it broke online. It was the first time the traditional news was usurped by the Internet for a major news story, a click that reverberated around the world.3:51 What that meant for me personally was that overnight I went from being a completely private figure to a publicly humiliated one worldwide. I was patient zero of losing a personal reputation on a global scale almost instantaneously.4:14 This rush to judgment, enabled by technology, led to mobs of virtual stone-throwers. Granted, it was before social media, but people could still comment online, email stories, and, of course, email cruel jokes. News sources plastered photos of me all over to sell newspapers, banner ads online, and to keep people tuned to the TV. Do you recall a particular image of me, say, wearing a beret?4:52 Now, I admit I made mistakes, especially wearing that beret. But the attention and judgment that I received, not the story, but that I personally received, was unprecedented. I was branded as a tramp, tart, slut, whore, bimbo, and, of course, that woman. I was seen by many but actually known by few. And I get it: it was easy to forget that that woman was dimensional, had a soul, and was once unbroken.5:40 When this happened to me 17 years ago, there was no name for it. Now we call itcyberbullying and online harassment. Today, I want to share some of my experience with you, talk about how that experience has helped shape my cultural observations, and how I hope my past experience can lead to a change that results in less suffering for others.6:09 In 1998, I lost my reputation and my dignity. I lost almost everything, and I almost lost my life.6:23 Let me paint a picture for you. It is September of 1998. I'm sitting in a windowless office room inside the Office of the Independent Counsel underneath humming fluorescent lights. I'm listening to the sound of my voice, my voice on surreptitiously taped phone calls that a supposed friend had made the year before. I'm here because I've been legally required to personally authenticate all 20 hours of taped conversation. For the past eight months, the mysterious content of these tapes has hung like the Sword of Damocles over my head. I mean, who can remember what they said a year ago? Scared and mortified, I listen, listen as I prattle on about the flotsam and jetsam of the day; listen as I confess my love for the president, and, of course, my heartbreak; listen to my sometimes catty, sometimes churlish, sometimes silly self being cruel, unforgiving, uncouth; listen, deeply, deeply ashamed, to the worst version of myself, a self I don't even recognize.7:55 A few days later, the Starr Report is released to Congress, and all of those tapes and transcripts, those stolen words, form a part of it. That people can read the transcripts is horrific enough, but a few weeks later, the audio tapes are aired on TV, and significant portions made available online. The public humiliation was excruciating. Life was almost unbearable.8:31 This was not something that happened with regularity back then in 1998, and by this, I mean the stealing of people's private words, actions, conversations or photos, and then making them public -- public without consent, public without context, and public without compassion.8:57 Fast forward 12 years to 2010, and now social media has been born. The landscape has sadly become much more populated with instances like mine, whether or not someone actually make a mistake, and now it's for both public and private people. The consequences for some have become dire, very dire.9:24 I was on the phone with my mom in September of 2010, and we were talking about the news of a young college freshman from Rutgers University named Tyler Clementi. Sweet, sensitive, creative Tyler was secretly webcammed by his roommate while being intimate with another man. When the online world learned of this incident, the ridicule and cyberbullying ignited. A few days later, Tyler jumped from the George Washington Bridge to his death. He was 18.10:06 My mom was beside herself about what happened to Tyler and his family, and she was gutted with pain in a way that I just couldn't quite understand, and then eventually I realized she was reliving 1998, reliving a time when she sat by my bed every night, reliving a time when she made me shower with the bathroom door open, and reliving a time when both of my parents feared that I would be humiliated to death, literally.10:47 Today, too many parents haven't had the chance to step in and rescue their loved ones. Too many have learned of their child's suffering and humiliation after it was too late. Tyler's tragic, senseless death was a turning point for me. It served to recontextualize my experiences, and I then began to look at the world of humiliation and bullying around meand see something different. In 1998, we had no way of knowing where this brave new technology called the Internet would take us. Since then, it has connected people in unimaginable ways, joining lost siblings, saving lives, launching revolutions, but the darkness, cyberbullying, and slut-shaming that I experienced had mushroomed. Every day online, people, especially young people who are not developmentally equipped to handle this, are so abused and humiliated that they can't imagine living to the next day, and some, tragically, don't, and there's nothing virtual about that. ChildLine, a U.K. nonprofit that's focused on helping young people on various issues, released a staggering statistic late last year: From 2012 to 2013, there was an 87 percent increase in calls and emails related to cyberbullying. A meta-analysis done out of the Netherlands showed that for the first time, cyberbullying was leading to suicidal ideations more significantly than offline bullying. And you know what shocked me, although it shouldn't have, was other research last year that determined humiliation was a more intensely felt emotion than either happiness or even anger.12:55 Cruelty to others is nothing new, but online, technologically enhanced shaming is amplified, uncontained, and permanently accessible. The echo of embarrassment used to extend only as far as your family, village, school or community, but now it's the online community too. Millions of people, often anonymously, can stab you with their words, and that's a lot of pain, and there are no perimeters around how many people can publicly observe you and put you in a public stockade. There is a very personal price to public humiliation, and the growth of the Internet has jacked up that price.13:50 For nearly two decades now, we have slowly been sowing the seeds of shame and public humiliation in our cultural soil, both on- and offline. Gossip websites, paparazzi, reality programming, politics, news outlets and sometimes hackers all traffic in shame. It's led to desensitization and a permissive environment online which lends itself to trolling, invasion of privacy, and cyberbullying. This shift has created what Professor Nicolaus Mills calls a culture of humiliation. Consider a few prominent examples just from the past six months alone. Snapchat, the service which is used mainly by younger generations and claims that its messages only have the lifespan of a few seconds. You can imagine the range of content that that gets. A third-party app which Snapchatters use to preserve the lifespan of the messages was hacked, and 100,000 personal conversations, photos, and videos were leaked online to now have a lifespan of forever. Jennifer Lawrence and several other actors had their iCloud accounts hacked, and private, intimate, nude photos were plastered across the Internet without their permission. One gossip website had over five million hits for this one story. And what about the Sony Pictures cyberhacking? The documents which received the most attention were private emails that had maximum public embarrassment value.15:38 But in this culture of humiliation, there is another kind of price tag attached to public shaming. The price does not measure the cost to the victim, which Tyler and too many others, notably women, minorities, and members of the LGBTQ community have paid, but the price measures the profit of those who prey on them. This invasion of others is a raw material, efficiently and ruthlessly mined, packaged and sold at a profit. A marketplace has emerged where public humiliation is a commodity and shame is an industry. How is the money made? Clicks. The more shame, the more clicks. The more clicks, the more advertising dollars. We're in a dangerous cycle. The more we click on this kind of gossip, the more numb we get to the human lives behind it, and the more numb we get, the more weclick. All the while, someone is making money off of the back of someone else's suffering. With every click, we make a choice. The more we saturate our culture with public shaming, the more accepted it is, the more we will see behavior like cyberbullying, trolling, some forms of hacking, and online harassment. Why? Because they all have humiliation at their cores. This behavior is a symptom of the culture we've created. Just think about it.17:30 Changing behavior begins with evolving beliefs. We've seen that to be true with racism, homophobia, and plenty of other biases, today and in the past. As we've changed beliefs about same-sex marriage, more people have been offered equal freedoms. When we began valuing sustainability, more people began to recycle. So as far as our culture of humiliation goes, what we need is a cultural revolution. Public shaming as a blood sport has to stop, and it's time for an intervention on the Internet and in our culture.18:10 The shift begins with something simple, but it's not easy. We need to return to a long-held value of compassion -- compassion and empathy. Online, we've got a compassion deficit, an empathy crisis.18:28 Researcher Brené Brown said, and I quote, "Shame can't survive empathy." Shame cannot survive empathy. I've seen some very dark days in my life, and it was the compassion and empathy from my family, friends, professionals, and sometimes even strangers that saved me. Even empathy from one person can make a difference. The theory of minority influence, proposed by social psychologist Serge Moscovici, says that even in small numbers, when there's consistency over time, change can happen. In the online world, we can foster minority influence by becoming upstanders. To become an upstander means instead of bystander apathy, we can post a positive comment for someone or report a bullying situation. Trust me, compassionate comments help abate the negativity. We can also counteract the culture by supporting organizations that deal with these kinds of issues, like the Tyler Clementi Foundation in the U.S., In the U.K., there's Anti-Bullying Pro, and in Australia, there's Project Rockit.19:51 We talk a lot about our right to freedom of expression, but we need to talk more about our responsibility to freedom of expression. We all want to be heard, but let's acknowledge the difference between speaking up with intention and speaking up for attention. The Internet is the superhighway for the id, but online, showing empathy to others benefits us all and helps create a safer and better world. We need to communicate online with compassion, consume news with compassion, and click with compassion. Just imagine walking a mile in someone else's headline. I'd like to end on a personal note. In the past nine months, the question I've been asked the most is why. Why now? Why was I sticking my head above the parapet? You can read between the lines in those questions, and the answer has nothing to do with politics. The top note answer was and is because it's time: time to stop tip-toeing around my past; time to stop living a life of opprobrium; and time to take back my narrative. 21:17 It's also not just about saving myself. Anyone who is suffering from shame and public humiliation needs to know one thing: You can survive it. I know it's hard. It may not be painless, quick or easy, but you can insist on a different ending to your story. Have compassion for yourself. We all deserve compassion, and to live both online and off in a more compassionate world.21:54 Thank you for listening.21:57 (Applause)。
常用介词搭配
常用介词搭配(除不及物动词的宾语固定搭配):Above: above all 尤其是,最重要的是;above praise 赞美不尽;above reproach 无可厚非;above the average 超过一般水平;above one’s head 不可理解;above one’s income (means) 入不敷出;above suspicion 无可怀疑;above criticism 无可指责;above price 价值连城;be above oneself 兴高采烈。
After: after all 毕竟,到底;one after another 接二连三;year after year 年年岁岁;bus after bus 一辆接一辆;day after day 日复一日;page after page 一页又一页的;wave after wave 一波又一波的;time after time 一次又一次的。
At: affected at 感动;at the sight of 看到;at (one’s) ease 在安乐中,放心;at the thought of 想到;at liberty 闲暇,自在,随意;at large 自由自在;at one’s height 酒酣;at bay 陷入绝境;at the zenith 在高峰状态;at anchor 停泊;at an end 结束;at a loss 迷惑,茫然;at fault 迷惑;at one’s will 随意;at (one’s) command 依…的命令;at random 随便的;at intervals 时时;at one’s mercy 任人支配;at dusk 黄昏;at length 详细的;at least 至少;at half price 半价;moved at 感动;at the news (sound) of 听到;at (one’s) leisure 在闲暇时;at a drought 一口气;at peace 和平,心情平静;at home 安适;at stake 在危险中;at one’s wit’s end 智穷才尽;at one’s convenience 在…方便时;at a standstill 停顿;at rest 休息,静止;at sea 茫然;at sixs and sevens 混乱;at one’s beck and call 任人支配;at one’s discretion 随…之意;at one’s disposal 任人支配;at one’s summons 听凭使唤;at the expense of 以…为代价;at one’s service 任人使用;at hand 不远,在身边;at the risk of 冒险;at any rate 至少;at most 至多;at a cost 亏本;at one stroke (blow) 一下子;at full speed 以全速;at a trot 快步;at the risk of 冒…的风险;at cost 照原价;at all events 不管怎样;at a bargain 廉价;at the earliest (latest) 最早(迟);at a profit 获利;at the point of 就要。
2016-2017学年高中英语 Unit 10 Money Period Two课堂讲义 北师大版必
Period Two Lesson 2 The Right PriceⅠ.单词检测1.bargain n.& vi.便宜货;讨价还价2.cash n.现金3.product n.产品;出品produce vt.& vi.生产;创作production n.成果;生产;作品4.scarf n.围巾,头巾,披巾5.enthusiastic adj.热情的,很感兴趣的enthusiastically adv.热心地;满腔热情地enthusiasm n.热心,热忱,热情6.ashamed adj.羞耻的,惭愧的shame n.羞愧,憾事7.firm adj.坚定的;稳固的8.aggressive adj.好斗的,挑衅的;有进取心的9.clothing n.衣服clothes n.(复数)衣服10.annoy vt.使烦恼,打搅annoyed adj.恼怒的;生气的annoying adj.使生气的;令人烦恼的11.salesman n.男售货员;男推销员12.boot n.长筒靴boots (复数)长筒靴13.comment vi & vt.评论Ⅱ.短语检测1.take off扣除,减去;脱掉;起飞2.be ashamed to do……羞于做……3.comment on 对……做出评论4.in cash 用现金something that is of very good value非常有价值的东西1.bargain n.&vi.便宜货;讨价还价(1)(原句)Which of the following do most British people bargain for?大部分英国人会就下列哪件物品讨价还价?(2)The car was a bargain at that price.那辆车的价格真便宜。
[归纳拓展](3)We have made a bargain with them over the price of the car.我们已经就汽车的价格和他们达成了协议。
莱温斯基 演讲
华尔街之狼台词英文
华尔街之狼台词英文【篇一:华尔街之狼台词英文】精彩语句:1. it’s our markup for our services.这是对我们工作的报酬。
2. does that ring a bell?想起来了吗?3. i was selling garbage to garbage men and making cash hand over fist.我能把垃圾卖给垃圾工,财源滚滚而来。
4. i don’t want to get personal, but theyre okay?别怪我打探私事,他们都正常吧?5. you cold-called me.你突然给我打电话,而我根本不认识你。
6. this is the mary lou, which is really the shoe that put me on the map.这是玛丽露,就是这双鞋子让我红起来的。
7. he wants me to rat on myself?他想要我出卖我自己?8. were you trying to take a stab at wall street?你当时试图进入华尔街?9. in the ballpark?大概多少?10. in that particular trade, and it was one trade, north of half a million dollars.那次交易,光说这笔交易,五十万美元以上。
11. the same gentleman that told me you tried to get your broker’s license also told me that you are a straight arrow.那位告诉我你要考经纪人执照的先生还告诉我,你是个很规矩的人。
12. sometimes i wonder if you let money get the best of you.有时候我想,你是不是让钱蒙蔽了头脑。
06 完形填空之周围环境2(解析版)-2021年高考英语一轮复习题型集训之完形填空
2021年高考英语题型集训之完形填空06周围环境21When I was a boy there were no smart phones or computers. Still, I never felt 1 . The fields, hills and woodlands around my home were the perfect playground. I can remember once hiking to a nearby 2 and walking slowly around it. At the back of it I was amazed to find an old dirt road that I had never seen before. It was full of muddy tyre tracks and deep woods bordered it on both sides, but 3 it still seemed like a fine adventure.I 4 on and on for what seemed like hours. I was sure my guardian angel was 5 In my ears to turn around and 6 back home but I was 7 and even a bit stupid, so I walked on. There was still neither a car nor a house 8 . My legs were getting tired. I noticed that the sun was starting to go down and I grew 9 . I didn’t want to end up 10 on this road in the dark of night, and I was worried that it would be dark 11 I could make my way back to the lake again.I continued to walk on with the fear growing inside of me. My heart was 12 faster and my legs were aching more seriously than before. When I 13 one last corner and saw a house that I 14 . I jumped up and down and laughed out loud. I knew the way home! It was still over a mile away, but my 15 felt like feathers. I 16 into the house with a big smile just in time for dinner. Then I ended my adventure with a good night’s sleep.I remembered this recently when I saw a sign, 17 , “All roads lead home”. This is true. I also remembered a sage (圣人) compared life to a journey. Are we going to make this life a 18 trip or are we going to make the life a terrible one? It 19 our own choice.All roads no matter how they twist and turn, can 20 us home in our hearts. May you always walk your path with love! May you always help your fellow travelers along the way!1.A.delighted B.bored C.addicted D.embarrassed2.A.farmhouse B.highway C.forest ke3.A.exploring B.appreciating C.introducing D.seeking4.A.drove B.flew C.walked D.rode5.A.whispering B.singing C.waving D.scolding6.A.head nd C.pace D.wander7.A.disappointed B.stubborn C.desperate D.confused8.A.in order B.in space C.in need D.in sight9.A.curious B.scared C.ashamed D.embarrassed10.A.exposed B.injured C.trapped D.worried11.A.though B.if C.when D.before12.A.blocking B.sinking C.beating D.dancing13.A.turned B.searched C.checked D.examined14.A.imagined B.recognized C.overlooked D.painted15.A.arms B.hands C.head D.legs16.A.flooded B.danced C.dragged D.dived17.A.writing B.noticing C.saying D.printing18.A.joyful B.stressful C.casual plex19.A.keeps on B.concentrates on C.decides on D.depends on20.A.fly B.push C.take D.transform2Which is more important when designing a building: beauty or function?At the start of the twentieth century, Louise Sullivan, one of the creators of modern architecture, said that ‘form follows function’. ‘Functionalism’ is used to describe the idea behind architect which primarily focuses on the 1 of a building. However, many people 2 this and feel that beauty is a more important factor in architectural design. In the modern world, it seems that most architects 3 both ideas: aiming to create buildings which are both functional and beautiful.The reason for creating a building in the first place is clearly very important. 4 , When building an airport terminal, you need to think of the 5 of passengers as well as planes. Passengers want to get to their plane as quickly as they can, and planes need to be parked in the most efficient way possible. As such, many airport terminals have a circular shape with satellite areas. Each type of building has a different function and hence a different 6 .7 , however, is also clearly important when constructing a building. Living or working in a ugly place creates a(n) 8 and uninspiring environment. 9 , an attractive building can make people feel happier and increase their motivation to work.There is also a wider responsibility to society which architects have to consider. Beautiful, well-constructed buildings are a 10 of a civilized society and reflect well on the business or reputation of the owner. Ugly public buildings, however, can project a negative image of the organization.In theory, there seems to be no reason why architecture cannot be both functional and beautiful. Yet 11 , this can cause problems. The Modern International style of the 1920s and 1930s, an example of which is the Guggenheim Museum in New York, was supposed to combine beauty with function. Many consider the museum’s white spiral ramp beautiful, but there have been 12 that it is impractical, as it is difficult to stand back to view the art. Also, the ramp is so narrow that it can become 13 . It seems that even this celebrated design has 14 with functionality.If architects focus only on function, building may be cold, ugly and uninteresting. On the other hand, if they focus only on making it look beautiful, the building may be completelyimpractical. Therefore, 15 these two ideas are necessary to create the perfect piece of architecture.1.A.budget B.punctuality C.purpose D.structure2.A.react to B.cope with C.disagree with D.suffer from3.A.share bine C.offer D.process4.A.As a result B.In addition C.For example D.On the contrary5.A.chances B.packages C.customs D.needs6.A.price B.form C.origin D.position7.A.Emphasis B.Convenience C.Beauty D.V agueness8.A.fatal B.brutal C.specific D.depressing9.A.In contrast B.Similarly C.On one hand D.Step by step10.A.variety B.potential C.symbol D.worship11.A.in case B.in all C.in practice D.in totalplaints B.attitudes C.coincidence D.demonstrations13.A.excessive B.overcrowded C.intentional D.evident14.A.objections B.hesitations C.problems D.challenges15.A.blending B.recollecting C.classifying D.enduring3Getting out of my car one evening, I met my neighbor Theresa. “Mrs. Taylor is in 1 again,” she said. I had last 2 Mrs. Taylor before Christmas when I took her a loaf of bread. Taylor and I had been neighbors for 17years. And she had a dog which greeted everyone, making people 3 . We all loved him.Most of my 4 with Mrs. Taylor were by accident— casual visits by the mailbox; quiet talks at the funeral home where we went to 5 a common friend.After I moved here with our four 6 kids, the quiet neighborhood was gone. We had little in common with the mostly elderly people, 7 they welcomed us warmly. Over the years they 8 us quite a lot. They 9 our kids when our car was out of order, and fed the cat when we were away. We have enjoyed the comfort of living with these friendly people.Robert Frost had a neighbor who 10 that “good fences make good neighbors”. However, Frost thought 11 . He believed there' s something “that doesn’t love a wall”. I12 with him. I believe “something” he talked about lives inside of me, too.I want to 13 the walls of loneliness that go up when I slip 14 into my garage for fear of disturbing some people. And I 15 to take the fastest route to my back porch(门廊). It's quicker than meandering (蜿蜒) through the yard. 16 , it leaves little room for 17 . But as a child, I would sit on the porch with my mother and wave to neighbors out for an evening walk or drive.Mrs. Taylor didn't 18 her latest cancer. So again I walked into the funeral home to say good-bye to a neighbor. I remembered the barking dog and the chats by the mailbox. I was in 19 for the loss of her. Now there is a new family moving into Mrs. Taylor’s place. I see children’s toys in the yard. It’s time to take a(n) 20 around. I want to find the past experience.1.A.hospital B.school C.court D.prison2.A.trained B.seen C.forgiven D.hurt3.A.scared B.annoyed C.cheerful D.careful4.A.negotiations B.appointments C.quarrels D.conversations5.A.remember B.congratulate C.save D.consult6.A.shy B.modest C.noisy zy7.A.and B.but C.or D.so8.A.helped B.appreciated C.admired D.missed9.A.brought up B.believed in C.appealed to D.picked up10.A.doubted B.replied C.insisted D.warned11.A.carefully B.wrongly C.differently D.perfectly12.A.agree B.argue C.team D.meet13.A.climb up B.prevent from C.seek for D.break down14.A.eventually B.quietly C.suddenly D.happily15.A.permit B.decide C.refuse D.tend16.A.However B.Therefore C.Moreover D.Instead17.A.reflection munication C.progress D.conflict18.A.fear B.treat C.ignore D.survive19.A.anger B.hope C.sadness D.shame20.A.rest B.walk C.trip D.exam4Shortly after moving into a new neighborhood in 2002, I noticed my neighbors all had the same 1 : drive into the driveway, use a remote control to open the garage door, and drive in with the door closing behind them. Everyone had a lawn (草坪) service, which meant 2 worked in their yards. I didn't know even one of my 3 . My neighborhood needed a 4 .The next Christmas season, it was time to be that change. I sent invitations to each 5 on my street 6 the neighbors to my home for a Christmas cookie party. 7 , they all came bringing freshly baked 8 .It was a 9 evening getting to know one another. We discovered we all felt the same way — we needed to 10 . By the end of the evening, someone offered to 11 the cookie exchange the following Christmas. The cookie exchange became an annual tradition.In 2016,I was invited to work with the 12 on a community awareness program. We 13 monthly in a local park, but the cold months were coming. Someone asked, “ 14 can we meet during the winter?”“My house is always open,” I volunteered cheerfully.An officer sitting behind me said 15 , “Great! How about Thanksgiving dinner?”“I am agreeing to host the meeting only,” I said, 16 that idea.As I drove home, the 17 of the officer kept playing in my head. By the time I pulled into my garage, I decided that I would provide 18 for the officers who kept my family safe during the holiday.I didn't intend to ask my neighbors for 19 . But then my next-door neighbor 20 to buy the turkey. Others came to offer salads, side dishes, and desserts.It started with a simple idea years ago in the form of a simple invitation.1.A.idea B.habit C.question D.chance2.A.nobody B.somebody C.anybody D.everybody3.A.neighbors B.teachers C.colleagues D.relatives4.A.party B.festival C.change D.ceremony5.A.shop B.school C.park D.house6.A.calling B.paying C.inviting D.leading7.A.Instead B.However C.Besides D.Otherwise8.A.turkeys B.chicken C.bread D.cookies9.A.lonely B.strange C.traditional D.happy10.A.connect B.succeed C.think D.agree11.A.join B.host C.leave D.enjoy12.A.doctors B.teachers C.police D.workers13.A.played B.started C.gathered D.exercised14.A.When B.How C.Why D.Where15.A.agreeably B.seriously C.jokingly D.independently16.A.refusing B.considering C.testing D.discussing17.A.photos B.movies C.words D.guns18.A.care B.energy C.water D.dinner19.A.advice B.help C.money D.respect20.A.forgot B.volunteered C.pretended D.accepted5When Katherine and her daughter drove past Katherine's beloved old home, she would say, "I'd like to have that house back." On her 90th birthday, that wish came true.All Katherine wanted for her 90th birthday was to 1 childhood home. Her daughter, Emily wasn't so 2 for the idea. And, as the old saying goes, you can 3 really go home again However, the mom and daughter often drove from their 4 town to pass Katherine's beloved old home.One day, as Emily visited her local craft store, inspiration 5 her: Her mother could have her house back—in replica(复制品) 6 . Emily connected with Ray Meyers, a local retired dentist with a 7 for woodworking. Ray took precise measurements and 8 details with the help of the current homeowners.The replica home and the amazing story behind it deserved a special 9 . Emily arranged a surprise party at which the replica and Katherine would be 10 , But keeping Katherine in the 11 was a painful task."Ray would ask me questions about the house," Emily says of the planning 12 ." I couldn't 13 everything because the last time I was inside was when I was a teenager. I would 14 mother and start a conversation where I would say, ' Oh, by the way, do you remember...' and ask her something about the house. She would give details from her memory about the 15 and the color. She would tell me 16 what something looked like or where it was in the house. "On the very day, Emily went to 17 Katherine to her house. "When we went inside, I was just 18 ," Katherine says. "There was a house load of people singing Happy Birthday to me." Emily presented Katherine with the carefully 19 replica home."The moment I opened the present, I just couldn't believe it,” Katherine says." I have 20 memories of that house. I have had several family dinners where we eat around it. I now turn on the tiny lights within it. It's so pretty. " For Katherine, it turned out that it is possible to go home again.1.A.access B.decorate C.build D.own2.A.eager B.fit C.prepared D.good3.A.generally B.sometimes C.frequently D.never4.A.primary B.temporary C.current D.permanent5.A.overcame B.struck C.failed D.amazed6.A.appearance B.pattern C.outline D.form7.A.basis B.preference C.talent D.hungermented B.recorded mitted pared9.A.mention B.analysis C.research D.inspection10.A.congratulated B.appreciated C.exhibited D.honored11.A.back B.shadows C.clouds D.dark12.A.expectation B.process C.advance D.destination13.A.remember B.do C.make D.bring14.A.chat with B.stick with C.deal with D.hold with15.A.management B.equipment C.arrangement D.measurement16.A.briefly B.partly C.exactly D.wrongly17.A.fetch B.join C.welcome D.receive18.A.embarrassed B.shocked C.inspired D.confused19.A.sorted B.wrapped C.folded D.stored20.A.recent B.distant C.fond D.collective答案与解析【答案】BDACA ABDBC DCABD BCADC【解析】这是一篇记叙文。
奥斯卡电影佳句摘抄大全
奥斯卡电影佳句摘抄大全1. Can't you see I have you Chump? Get me some viskey! 难道没看出来我把你当成傻瓜吗?给我倒点威士忌!出处:1936年影片《歌舞大王齐格飞》(The Great Ziegfeld) 2. Sometimes you're so beautiful it just gags me.有时候你确实很漂亮,但那只能让我觉得恶心。
出处:1938年影片《浮生若梦》(You Can't Take It with You) 3. Frankly, my dear, I don't give a *.坦率地说,亲爱的,我一点也不在乎!出处:1939年影片《乱世佳人》(Gone with the Wind)4. I'll get you my pretty... and your little dog too!我会抓到你,我的宝贝,还有你的小狗!出处:1939年影片《绿野仙踪》(The Wizard of Oz)5. I'm asking you to marry me, you little fool.我在向你求婚,你这个小傻瓜。
出处:1940年影片《蝴蝶梦》(Rebecca)6. Rosebud.玫瑰花蕾。
出处:1941年影片《公民凯恩》(Citizen Kane)7. ...Here's looking at you, kid.孩子,就看你的了。
出处:1943年影片《卡萨布兰卡/北非谍影》(Casablanca)8. A golf course is nothing but a poolroom moved outdoors.不,高尔夫球场不过是一个会动的户外台球室罢了,除此之外,它什么也不是。
出处:1944年影片《与我同行》(Going My Way)9. One's too many an' a hundred's not enough.一个人太过多余,一个丈夫又远远不够!出处:1945年影片《失去的周未》(The Lost Weekend)10. I've seen nothing, I should have stayed at home and found out what was really going on.我什么也没有看到。
Shameless经典台词
《Shameless》S2E2:Like a baby deer lost in the forest, and life is like the hunter.I don't make it a habit of hanging around women that don’t have interest in being with me. 《Shameless》S3E2:Sometimes when people love each other very much, they need time apart, so when come back together, their love is even stronger.That in an all-time low, even for you, Frank.《Shameless》S3E7:The best thing about mistakes is,we get to correct them.《Shameless》S3E8 :“Turning tricks" is an euphemism for prostitution.变戏法是卖身的委婉说法。
In her day, your great aunt was a legendary pole smoker.Could unlock her jaw like a Burmese python.她当年可是吹箫界的传奇,嘴巴可以像蟒蛇一样张开。
《Shameless》S3E9:I’m a pauper,and somehow I got the king’s disease.我是个穷光蛋,却得了国王病。
I'm the fluffer and they’re the happy ending?我负责前戏,他们负责嘿咻是吧?Sometimes when you’re feeling really bad, if you make yourself look better on the outside, it can start to make you feel better on the inside. My mom calls it,”Taking it from the outside in.”有时,当你感觉很糟的时候,如果把外表打扮起来,很快心里也会跟着好起来。
Handout of Book4 Unit1 for__ teachers
Words Study for Unit One1. worshipvt. to admire and love someone very much 崇拜;敬重;仰慕e.g. 我们都要有崇拜的英雄,无论他们是运动员、电影明星还是政治家。
We all want heroes to worship, now matter what they are, sportsmen, film stars, or politicians.翻译:我小时候崇拜我哥哥。
As a child, I worshipped my older brother.n. admiration and respect shown to or felt for sb or sthe.g. 她注视着那电影明星,眼睛里充满着仰慕。
She gazed at the movie star with worship in her eyes.翻译:你对青少年崇拜偶像有什么看法?What is your opinion on youth’s worshipping idols/ idol worship?词形变化:worshipper n. 崇拜者2. exploit vt.(1) to use something well in order to gain as much from it as possible 利用,开发e.g. 我们需要确保尽可能充分地利用资源。
We need to make sure that we exploit our resources as fully as possible.(2) to use selfishly or for one’s own profit 自私地利用,用以自肥,剥削e.g. 这家公司无耻地剥削工人。
The firm exploits its workers disgracefully.翻译:世界经济体制剥削发展中国家,从而有利于发达国家。
六级翻译常用99个词汇
1. at the thought of一想到…2. as a whole (=in general) 就整体而论3. at will 随心所欲4. (be) abundant in(be rich in; be well supplied with) 富于,富有5. access(to) (不可数名词) 能接近,进入,了解6. by accident(=by chance, accidentally)偶然地,意外. Without accident(=safely) 安全地,7. of one’s own accord(=without being asked; willingly; freely)自愿地,主动地8. in accord with 与…一致. out of one’s accord with 同…。
不一致9. with one accord (=with everybody agreeing)一致地10. in accordance with (=in agreement with) 依照,根据11. on one’s own account-为了某人的缘故,为了某人自己的利益;(=at one’s own risk) 自行负责;(=by oneself)依靠自己12. take…into account(=consider)把..。
考虑进去13. give sb. an account of 说明,解释(理由)14. account for (=give an explanation or reason for) 解释,说明。
15. on account of (=because of) 由于,因为。
16. on no account(=in no case, for no reason)绝不要,无论如何不要(放句首时句子要倒装)17. accuse…of…(=charge…with; blame sb. for sth. ; blame sth. on sb. ; complain about) 指控,控告18. be accustomed to (=be in the habit of, be used to)习惯于。
莱温斯基TED演讲稿
莱温斯基TED演讲稿主讲人:莫妮卡莱温斯基主题:羞辱的代价(The price of shame)莱温斯基TED演讲稿陈述了网络语言欺凌受害者的苦楚,这里从莱温斯基22岁的时候担任白宫实习生开始,因为她爱上了她的老板,也就是克林顿总统,然之莱温斯基被贴上了丑恶的标签,这次站在TED演讲上表达了她的想法,以下是中英文两种版本。
莱温斯基TED演讲稿站在你们面前的这个女性曾在公众面前沉默了十年。
显然,现在不一样了,不过这只是最近的事。
几个月前在福布斯“30位30岁以下创业者”峰会上,我首次公开发表演讲,峰会上有1500位杰出人士,全部不到30岁。
这就意味着在1998年,其中最年长的人也只有14岁,最年轻的则只有4岁。
我同他们开玩笑,有些人似乎只是从说唱音乐中听过我的名字。
没错,说唱音乐唱过我,几乎有40首这样的说唱音乐。
在我演讲当晚意外的事情发生了,作为一个41岁的女性,竟然有一个27岁的小伙子勾搭我。
我知道,难以相信吧?他很有魅力,说了不少奉承的话,结果我拒绝了。
知道他的搭讪不成功在哪吗?他说他能让我感到又回到了22岁……那天晚上我意识到,40岁时不想回到22岁的人或许就只有我了。
22岁时,我爱上了我的老板,在24岁那年,我明白了其毁灭性的后果。
能否请大家举手告诉我,如果你觉得自己22岁时没有犯过错,没有做过让自己后悔的事,请举手?同我想的一样,和我一样,22岁那年,你们中的一些人大概也犯过错,爱上过错误的人,或许也正是你的老板。
不过和我不同,你的老板八成不是美国总统。
当然,生活充满了意外。
每一天我都被提醒这个错误,我每天都在深深后悔。
1998年在卷入一段不可能的爱情之后,我被卷入政治、法律和媒体的漩涡中心,一场前所未见的漩涡。
记得吧,就在几年前,新闻只有三个来源:读报刊杂志、听收音机和看电视,就这些了。
但我的命并没这么好,这起丑闻通过数字革命被公之于众。
数字革命意味着我们能获取所有想要的信息,不管何时何地。
男人和女人分别必看的十大电影(共20部)
男人和女人分别必看的十大电影(共20部)一《美国往事》课程:人生《美国往事》包含了一个男人在这个世界上所能遇到的一切。
友情、爱情、想、责任、冲突。
它更像是一场让人不愿醒来的梦,当面条躺在床上,在温暖的灯光和的迷离的电话铃声中回到那些逝去了的岁月,这场梦便开始了,直到最后的面条终于露出笑容,我们才回到自己的人生,去继续那些不尽的故事。
什么帮派,什么仇杀,原来都不重要,印象中只有一个毛躁的少年,偷看一个美丽女孩儿跳舞;只有一个负罪的兄弟,每天早早地上床睡觉;只有一个白发苍苍的老人,面对背叛了的友谊,语调平和,不动声色。
《美国往事》带着你作了一个三小时四十五分钟的梦。
人生如梦,这也许是惟一的感受。
二《辛德勒的名单》课程:责任所谓责任,就是未必做得成却必须去做的事。
对于辛德勒来说,救助落难的犹太人是作为一个真正的人的责任。
而把那段历史搬上银幕,则是斯皮尔伯格作为一个犹太艺术家的责任。
《辛德勒的名单》包含着对受难者的祭奠,对拯救者的敬意,和对光明一定到来的信念。
在影片放映后的一片赞誉声中,斯皮尔伯格平静地把影片的全部收益捐给了美国的纳粹大屠杀纪念馆。
三《肖申克的救赎》课程:信念“有一种鸟儿是永远也关不住的,因为它的每片羽翼上都沾满了自由的光辉。
”一个人能够在十五年痛苦的牢狱生活里,不放弃对自由的向往,这是一种怎样的精神力量?所以他成功了,成功夺回了自由。
《肖申克的救赎》中有这样一句话:体制化是这样一种东西,一开始你排斥它,后来你习惯它,直到最后你离不开它。
想想看,我们的身体已经有多大一部分被体制化了?四《现代启示录》课程:痛苦战争是一种秩序的破坏,世界上最可悲最痛苦的事莫过于战争,最痛苦的战争电影莫过于《现代启示录》。
《现代启示录》讲的是人性的倒退,秩序的破坏。
但文明的进程却没有人能够阻挡。
越战期间,美军情报官员威尔德上尉奉命“毫不留情”地除掉库尔兹上校,一个叛逃美国军人。
接到命令后,威尔德率领小分队,乘小艇逆河而上,冒险深入柬埔寨。
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You're looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a decade.It was several months agothat I gave my very first major public talkat the Forbes 30 Under 30 summit:1,500 brilliant people, all under the age of 30.That meant that in 1998,the oldest among the group were only 14,and the youngest, just four.I joked with them that some might only have heard of mefrom rap songs.Yes, I'm in rapsongs.Almost 40 rap songs. (Laughter)But the night of my speech, a surprising thing happened.At the age of 41, I was hit on by a 27-year-old guy.I know, right?He was charming and I was flattered,and I declined.You know what his unsuccessful pickup line was?He could make me feel 22 again.(Laughter) (Applause)I realized later that night, I'm probably the only person over 40who does not want to be 22 again.(Laughter)(Applause)At the age of 22, I fell in love with my boss,and at the age of 24,I learned the devastating consequences.Can I see a show of hands of anyone herewho didn't make a mistake or do something they regretted at 22?Yep. That's what I thought.So like me, at 22, a few of you may have also taken wrong turnsand fallen in love with the wrong person,maybe even your boss.Unlike me, though, your bossprobably wasn't the president of the United States of America.Of course, life is full of surprises.Not a day goes by that I'm not reminded of my mistake,and I regret that mistake deeply.In 1998, after having been swept up into an improbable romance,I was then swept up into the eye of a political, legal and media maelstromlike we had never seenbefore.Remember, just a few years earlier,news was consumed from just three places:reading a newspaper or magazine,listening to the radio,or watching television.That was it.But that wasn't my fate.Instead, this scandal was brought to youby the digital revolution.That meant we could access all the information we wanted,when we wanted it, anytime, anywhere,and when the story broke in January 1998,it broke online.It was the first time the traditional newswas usurped by the Internet for a major news story,a click that reverberated around the world.What that meant for me personallywas that overnight I went from being a completely private figureto a publicly humiliated one worldwide.I was patient zero of losing a personal reputationon a global scale almost instantaneously.This rush to judgment, enabled by technology,led to mobs of virtualstone-throwers.Granted, it was before social media,but people could still comment online,email stories, and, of course, email cruel jokes.News sources plastered photos of me all overto sell newspapers, banner ads online,and to keep people tuned to the TV.Do you recall a particular image of me,say, wearing a beret?Now, I admit I made mistakes,especially wearing that beret.But the attention and judgment that I received, not the story,but that I personally received, was unprecedented.I was branded as a tramp,tart, slut, whore, bimbo,and, of course, that woman.I was seen by manybut actually known by few.And I get it: it was easy to forgetthat that woman was dimensional,had a soul, and was once unbroken.When this happened to me 17 years ago, there was no name for it.Now we call it cyberbullying and online harassment.Today, I want to share some of my experience with you,talk about how that experience has helped shape my cultural observations,andhow I hope my past experience can lead to a change that resultsin less suffering for others.In 1998, I lost my reputation and my dignity.I lost almost everything,and I almost lost my life.Let me paint a picture for you.It is September of 1998.I'm sitting in a windowless office roominside the Office of the Independent Counselunderneath humming fluorescent lights.I'm listening to the sound of my voice,my voice on surreptitiously taped phone callsthat a supposed friend had made the year before.I'm here because I've been legally requiredto personally authenticate all 20 hours of taped conversation.For the past eight months, the mysterious content of these tapeshas hung like the Sword of Damocles over my head.I mean, who can remember what they said a year ago?Scared and mortified, I listen,listen as I prattle on about the flotsam and jetsam of the day;listen as I confess my love for the president,and, of course, my heartbreak;listen to my sometimes catty, sometimes churlish, sometimes silly selfbeing cruel, unforgiving, uncouth;listen, deeply, deeply ashamed,to the worst version of myself,a self I don't even recognize.A few days later, the Starr Report is released to Congress,and all of those tapes and transcripts, those stolen words, form a part of it.That people can read the transcripts is horrific enough,but a few weeks later,the audio tapes are aired on TV,and significant portions made available online.The public humiliation was excruciating.Life was almost unbearable.This was not something that happened with regularity back then in 1998,and by this, I mean the stealing of people's private words, actions,conversations or photos,and thenmaking them public --public without consent,public without context,and public without compassion.Fast forward 12 years to 2010,and now social media has been born.The landscape has sadly become much more populated with instances like mine,whether or not someone actually make a mistake,and now it's for both public and private people.The consequences for some have become dire, very dire.I was on the phone with my momin September of 2010,and we were talking about the newsof a young college freshman from Rutgers Universitynamed Tyler Clementi.Sweet, sensitive, creative Tylerwas secretly webcammed by his roommatewhile being intimate with another man.When the online world learned of this incident,the ridicule and cyberbullying ignited.A few days later,Tyler jumped from the George Washington Bridgeto his death.He was 18.My mom was beside herself about what happened to Tyler and his family,and she was gutted with painin a way that I just couldn't quite understand,and then eventually I realizedshe was reliving 1998,reliving a time when she sat by my bed everynight,reliving a time when she made me shower with the bathroom door open,and reliving a time when both of my parents fearedthat I would be humiliated todeath,literally.Today, too many parentshaven't had the chance to step in and rescue their loved ones.Too many have learned of their child's suffering and humiliationafter it was too late.Tyler's tragic, senseless death was a turning point for me.It served to recontextualize my experiences,and I then began to look at the world of humiliation and bullying around meand see something different.In 1998, we had no way of knowingwhere this brave new technologycalled the Internet would take us.Since then, it has connected people in unimaginable ways,joining lost siblings,saving lives, launching revolutions,but the darkness, cyberbullying, and slut-shaming that I experiencedhad mushroomed.Every day online, people, especially young peoplewho are not developmentally equipped to handle this,are so abused and humiliatedthat they can't imagine living to the next day,and some, tragically, don't,and there's nothing virtual about that.ChildLine, a U.K. nonprofit that's focused on helping young people on various issues,released a staggering statistic late last year:From 2012 to 2013,there was an 87 percent increasein calls and emails related to cyberbullying.A meta-analysis done out of the Netherlandsshowed that for the first time,cyberbullying was leading to suicidal ideationsmore significantly than offline bullying.And you know what shocked me, although it shouldn't have,was other research last year that determined humiliationwas a more intensely felt emotionthan either happiness or even anger. Cruelty to others is nothing new,but online, technologically enhanced shaming is amplified,uncontained, and permanently accessible.The echo of embarrassment used to extend only as far as your family, village,school or community,but now it's the online community lions of people, often anonymously,can stab you with their words, and that's a lot of pain,and there are no perimeters around how many peoplecan publicly observe youand put you in a public stockade.There is a very personal priceto public humiliation,and the growth of the Internet has jacked up that price.For nearly two decades now,we have slowly been sowing the seeds of shame and public humiliationin our cultural soil, both on- and offline.Gossip websites, paparazzi, reality programming, politics,news outlets and sometimes hackers all traffic in shame.It's led to desensitization and a permissive environment onlinewhich lends itself to trolling,invasion of privacy, and cyberbullying.This shift has created what Professor Nicolaus Mills callsa culture of humiliation.Consider a few prominent examples just from the past six months alone.Snapchat, the service which is used mainly by younger generationsand claims that its messages only have the lifespanof a few seconds.You can imagine the range of content that that gets.A third-party app which Snapchatters use to preserve the lifespanof the messages was hacked,and 100,000 personal conversations, photos, and videos were leaked onlineto now have a lifespan of forever.Jennifer Lawrence and several other actors had their iCloud accounts hacked,and private, intimate, nude photos were plastered across the Internetwithout their permission.One gossip website had over five million hitsfor this one story.And what about the Sony Pictures cyberhacking?The documents which received the most attentionwere private emails that had maximum public embarrassment value.But in this culture of humiliation,there is another kind of price tag attached to public shaming.The price does not measure the cost to the victim,which Tyler and too many others,notably women, minorities,and members of the LGBTQ community have paid,but the price measures the profit of those who prey on them.This invasion of others is a raw material,efficiently and ruthlessly mined, packaged and sold at a profit.A marketplace has emerged where public humiliation is a commodityand shame is an industry.How is the money made?Clicks.The more shame, the more clicks.The more clicks, the more advertising dollars.We're in a dangerous cycle.The more we click on this kind of gossip,the more numb we get to the human lives behind it,and the more numb we get, the more we click.All the while, someone is making moneyoff of the back of someone else's suffering.With every click, we make a choice.The more we saturate our culture with public shaming,the more accepted it is,the more we will see behaviorlike cyberbullying,trolling, some forms of hacking,and online harassment.Why? Because they all have humiliation at their cores.This behavior is a symptom of the culture we've created.Just think about it.Changing behavior begins with evolving beliefs.We've seen that to be true with racism, homophobia,and plenty of other biases, today and in the past.As we've changed beliefs about same-sex marriage,more people have been offered equal freedoms.When we began valuing sustainability,more people began to recycle.So as far as our culture of humiliation goes,what we need is a cultural revolution.Public shaming as a blood sport has to stop,and it's time for an intervention on the Internet and in our culture.The shift begins with something simple, but it's not easy.We need to return to along-held value of compassion -- compassion and empathy.Online, we've got a compassion deficit,an empathy crisis.Researcher Brené Brown said, and I quote,"Shame can't survive empathy."Shame cannot survive empathy.I've seen some very dark days in my life,and it was the compassion and empathy from my family, friends, professionals,and sometimes even strangers that saved me.Even empathy from one person can make a difference.The theory of minority influence,proposed by social psychologist Serge Moscovici,says that even in small numbers,when there's consistency over time,change can happen.In the online world, we can foster minority influenceby becoming upstanders.To become an upstander means instead of bystander apathy,we can post a positive comment for someone or report a bullying situation.Trust me, compassionate comments help abate the negativity.We can also counteract the culture by supporting organizationsthat dealwith these kinds of issues,like the Tyler Clementi Foundation in the U.S.,In the U.K., there's Anti-Bullying Pro,and in Australia, there's Project Rockit.We talk a lot about our right to freedom of expression,but we need to talk more aboutour responsibility to freedom of expression.We all want to be heard,but let's acknowledge the difference between speaking up with intentionand speaking up for attention.The Internet is the superhighway for the id,but online, showing empathy to othersbenefits us all and helps create a safer and better world.We need to communicate online with compassion,consume news with compassion,and click with compassion.Just imagine walking a mile in someone else's headline.I'd like to end on a personal note.In the past nine months,the question I've been asked the most is why.Why now? Why was I sticking my head above the parapet?You can read between the lines in those questions,and the answer has nothing to do with politics.The top note answer was and is because it's time:time to stop tip-toeing around my past;time to stop living a life of opprobrium;and time to take back my narrative.It's also not just about saving myself.Anyone who is suffering from shame and public humiliationneeds to know one thing:You can survive it.I know it's hard.It may not be painless, quick or easy,but you can insist on a different ending to your story.Have compassion for yourself.We all deserve compassion,and to live both online and off in a more compassionate world.Thank you for listening.。