Very Personal Questions
常见英语面试问题
常见英语面试问题（工作经验篇）English Interview Questions--WORKING EXPERIENCE●Tell me about your work experience in general terms.●大概介绍一下你的工作经历●Why did you leave these jobs you just mentioned?●为什么辞职？●What are some of the reasons for considering other employment at this time?●为什么在这个时候选择其他工作？●Tell me about some of your past achievements. / What contribution did you make to yourcurrent (previous) organization？●告诉我你过去的一些成绩。
/ 你对现在（之前的）工作有何贡献？●What is the biggest mistake you have made in your career?●在你职业生涯中，最大的错误是什么？●Will you describe your present duties & responsibilities? / What kind of work does theposition involve?●描述一下你现在工作的职责。
/ 具体涉及到什么样的工作。
●What are some things that frustrate you most in your present job?●你现在工作中让你最受打击的有哪些事情？●How would you describe your present/past supervisor?●描述一下你现在/之前的上级。
●Can you describe a difficult obstacle you've had to overcome? How did you handle it? /Give me an example of your initiative in a challenging situation.●描述一下你所客服的困难。
初一口语流利度提高单选30题
初一口语流利度提高单选30题1.Hello! I'm Lily. Nice to meet you!A.Hello! I'm Tom. Nice to meet you, too!B.Hi! I'm Lily. Glad to see you!C.Hello! My name is Lily. Nice to see you!答案：A。
本题考查日常打招呼及回应。
A 选项符合常见的打招呼回应方式，既介绍了自己又回应了对方的“Nice to meet you”。
B 选项虽然也在打招呼，但重复了对方的“I'm Lily”，不符合实际场景。
C 选项“Nice to see you”通常用于已经认识的人再次见面，不适合初次见面的场景。
2.Good morning!A.Good afternoon!B.Good evening!C.Good morning!答案：C。
本题考查不同时间段的问候语。
“Good morning”是早上的问候语，A 选项“Good afternoon”是下午的问候语，B 选项“Good evening”是晚上的问候语，只有C 选项符合题意。
3.What's your name?A.I'm fine.B.My name is Lucy.C.How are you?答案：B。
本题考查询问名字的回答。
A 选项“I'm fine”是回答“Howare you”的，C 选项“How are you”是询问身体状况的，只有B 选项正确回答了“What's your name”这个问题。
4.How are you?A.I'm fine, thank you.B.How do you do?C.What's your name?答案：A。
本题考查询问身体状况的回答。
A 选项“I'm fine, thank you”是常见的回答方式。
Unit 3【刷速度】(模块过关检测练)-九年级英语全一册单元模块满分必刷题(人教版)
2022-2023学年九年级英语全一册单元模块满分必刷题（人教版）Unit 3【刷速度】(模块过关检测练)时间：60分钟满分：100分一、单项选择（每题1分，共15分）1．He asked me we could go to Beijing to watch the game by plane.A．that B．if C．how D．what2．—Could you tell me _______ for the meeting yesterday?—Because the traffic was bad.A．why did you come late B．why you came lateC．why do you come late D．why you come late3．Everyone is quite _______ to have a _______ trip.A．pleased; pleasant B．pleasing; pleased C．pleasure; please D．pleasant; pleased4．Mike works hard on his English and _______.A．so Jim does.B．so is Jim C．so does Jim D．so Jim is5．Our teacher told us that light _______ faster than sound last term.A．travel B．traveled C．travels D．traveling6．It’s fun _______ with friends.A．going shopping B．to go shopping C．goes shopping D．went shopping7．You’d better _______ more time on your study.A．take B．spend C．cost D．pay8．I don’t think Tom will come here on time, _______?A．won’t he B．does he C．will he D．doesn’t he9．I really don’t know if Jim ________ tomorrow. If he ________, I’ll ask him to teach me how to play baseball.A．will come; will come B．will come; comes C．comes; will come D．comes; comes10．I’m interested in ________ you would like to marry him or not.A．that B．what C．whether D．when11．It’s only _______ walk from here.A．ten-minute B．ten minute C．ten minutes D．ten minute’s12．How much did the book _______?A．pay B．cost C．spend D．take13．I have to go home because I _______ for three hours.A．hung out B．have hung out C．hang out D．had hung out 14．—Could you tell me how to get to the nearest restroom?—The restroom is between the park and the library, _______ your right.A．for B．on C．in D．at15．In many countries, it is often _______ to ask very personal questions when you meet someone for the first time.A．polite B．polity C．politely D．impolite二、完形填空（每题1分，共10分）Dear Steve,How is it going? Thank you for sending me a ____16____. I really like the stamp on the postcard. It’s ____17____. I like it. Oh, I forgot to say sorry to you. Just now I didn’t answer your phone call. Ha ha, when you called me, I was taking a shower in the ____18____.Now I will tell you Cindy’s ____19____. Cindy lives at 16 Park Street. It’s very ____20____ to take the subway to Cindy’s house. Her house is across from the subway station. Of course, you can drive a car there. Near Cindy’s house, there’s an underground ____21____. But I ____22____ you to get there by subway. Taking a car can cost lots of money. Taking the subway is inexpensive. On the left of her house, there’s a small ____23____. From Monday to Friday, it’s ____24____. But on the weekend, you can see many people buy books there. On the right of her house is a fruit store. In it there are all kinds of fruits such as bananas, apples, oranges and ____25____. Before you visit Cindy, you should give her a call. Oh, I have to go! Mom needs my help.Yours,Jeff 16．A．staff B．speaker C．mail D．postcard 17．A．impolite B．fascinating C．nearby D．present18．A．classroom B．workroom C．bathroom D．restroom 19．A．address B．mall C．request D．direction20．A．polite B．convenient C．central D．eastern21．A．police office B．amusement park C．post office D．parking lot 22．A．pardon B．rush C．advise D．pass 23．A．supermarket B．bookstore C．park D．washroom 24．A．crowded B．uncrowded C．expensive D．inexpensive 25．A．grapes B．stamps C．corners D．courses三、阅读单选（每题2分，共30分）AAt table, the British people pay special attention to table manners. For example, they shouldn’t talk at table or beat tableware (餐具). They have a strict requirement on how to use knives and forks, while Americans seldom do so. They like fast and convenient food. American’s favorite food are hamburgers, fried chicken and pizza. These diets keep the American obesity rate high. But from the diet habits, it is not difficult for us to find that the American do everything vigorously (活泼地) and resolutely and do not spend too much on the trifles (琐事).There are also lots of different manners between Americans and Chinese, and some are totally even opposite. For Americans, when friends gather together, they do not like to talk about their salary (工资), age and marriage. They think they are their privacy (隐私) and they are more likely to keep their privacy. But in China, people like talking about them. In America, when people meet strangers, they prefer people to call their shortnames, because it would show how close they are. But in China, it is impolite to do that. In America, you will be hated if you say someone is old and do something special for them, because they think old people are useless in the world. For Chinese, old people are glad to hear that and you will be praised for doing things freely for old people. They like the sense of being respected.There are different manners in different countries. And we should follow them when we travel to other countries.26．According to the first paragraph, British people _____.A．often talk with each other at table B．always beat tableware at tableC．have high obesity rate D．are strict on how to use knives and forks27．What does the underlined word “resolutely” mean in Chinese?A．犹豫地B．果断地C．粗心地D．懒散地28．Americans don’t like to talk about _____ when they gather together.A．food B．marriage C．weather D．short names29．You will be _____ if you say someone is old in America.A．hated B．respected C．praised D．laughed30．Which of the following is TRUE according to the passage?A．British people like fast and convenient food.B．It is polite to call people’s short names in China.C．People are encouraged to do things freely for old people in America.D．Calling people’s short names shows how close they are in America.BIf you are planning a trip to France in the future, you should be careful with the roads you take because some of them may just disappear.The Passage du Gois (格伊斯通道) in France, which is a natural passage first discovered in 1701, connects the mainland of France and a small island called Noirmoutier (努瓦尔穆捷岛). It is about 4.2 kilometers in length. What has made the passage famous is that it periodically (周期性地) floods. Twice a day, it disappears under about four meters of water. The passage is accessible only during low tide which lasts about one hour. People can also drive on the passage half an hour before and after low tide.Driving on the passage may be dangerous. Some drivers are caught in the tide because they drive at the wrong time. Besides, as the passage is covered with water for most of the day, it is slippery all the time.To ensure the safety of drivers and tourists, signs are posted on both ends of the passage to tell people whether the passage is passable or not. There are also poles (柱子) set along the passage for people to climb up when they are trapped in the water. People are warned to drive slowly and make no stops on the passage. Also, they are not allowed to park on the passage.Many people visit the Passage du Gois every day. Some of them risk driving on it and others are just interested in watching it disappear underwater and emerge again.31．What has made the Passage du Gois famous?A．It is 4.2 kilometers in length.B．It floods twice a day.C．It is a natural passage.D．It was discovered earlier.32．People can pass across the passage _____.A．at high tide in the morning B．at low tide in the afternoonC．half an hour before and after low tide D．anytime when it is sunny33．Why is it dangerous to drive on the Passage du Gois?A．Because people like to play and swim in the water.B．Because drivers are not good at driving in the tide.C．Because there are too many cars and trucks on the road.D．Because it is slippery and people can be caught in the tide.34．The underlined word “emerge” in the last sentence means “_____”.A．sense B．appear C．produce D．overcome35．Which may be the best title for the article?A．A Trip to France B．Driving in the River C．Dangerous Poles D．The Passage du GoisCWhen two people meet, there are a lot of ways of greeting. The ways of greeting are not always the same in different countries.In America, two people usually greet each other with a handshake. It is a way to show respect to the other person. Athletes from opposite teams shake hands before a game for the same reason. However, most Americans don’t shake hands when they meet people they have already known well. When American friends met each other, they might only wave (挥手), or maybe just nod their heads.In New Zealand, there is a special way of greeting called “Hongi”. In the greeting, two people press their noses and foreheads (前额) together and close their eyes. This is an old tradition that comes from the Maori, who were the first people to live in New Zealand. Even today, many New Zealanders still press their foreheads when they meet.Kissing is sometimes used as a way to greet someone. In some countries, important people used to wear special rings. It was the custom for visitors to kiss these rings when they came for a meeting. In France, when people met, they sometimes kiss each other on the face.In Japan, people bow to each other every time they meet. Even family members bow to each other. Howlow to bow depends on how respected the other person is.Today, new ways of greeting are created all the time. People can do this with a quick “hi”, a handshake, or even a simple smile. The important thing is that the people they are greeting understand them.36．The underlined part “the same reason” refers to ________.A．showing love B．showing respect C．thanking each other D．introducing each other 37．We can learn from the third paragraph that________.A．it’s impolite to press one’s nose in New ZealandB．Hongi is a kind of traditional food in New ZealandC．the Maori used to be an old village in New ZealandD．Hongi is an old tradition in New Zealand38．How low does one Japanese bow to the other?A．It depends on how respected the other person is.B．It depends on how old the other person is.C．It depends on how successful the other person is.D．It depends on how tall the other person is.39．Which of the following is NOT true according to the passage?A．It’s OK to just nod heads when American friends meet.B．Family members in Japan do not bow to each other.C．In some countries, rings were once used for kissing.D．The ways of greeting are changing over time.40．The passage mainly talks about ________.A．different ways of greetingB．how to be a polite personC．how to show respect to othersD．ways of saying hello in different languages四、补全对话7选5（每题2分，共10分）Mike: Jane, you’re back. Welcome back to school. I missed you.Jane: I missed you, too.Mike: How was your trip to Beijing?Jane: ___41___ I spent four days in Beijing. Every day I did something different.Mike: ___42___Jane: Well, the first day I went to the Great Wall.Mike: ___43___Jane: No, I had no time to buy anything. But the next day the weather was so bad that I went shopping and bought some Chinese paintings.Mike: Was the weather better the third day?Jane: ___44___Mike: Did you go anywhere else?Jane: Yes, I did. ___45___ I bought a gift from the museum for you.Mike: Thank you.A．Did you buy anything there?B．I spent the whole day there.C．I went to the Palace Museum.D．It was great.E．Beijing is so big that I almost got lost.F．Yes, it was much better.G．What places did you visit?五、用所给单词的正确形式填空（每题1分，共10分）46．Why not __________ (ask) the teachers for help?47．Don’t speak to __________ (strange). It’s very dangerous.48．Do you know how __________ (go) to the bookstore?49．My uncle lives on the __________ (twelve) floor.50．Look! There is a cat __________ (climb) the tree.51．It’s important __________ (learn) how to use the right languages in different situations.52．The sick man spends about half an hour __________ (swim) every afternoon.53．It’s __________ (polite) to shout at the old people.54．Summer vacation __________ (normal) starts in early July.55．What’s __________ (popular) drink in the world?六、语法填空（每题1分，共10分）“Thank you” is widely used in a modern society. It is a very good manner. You should say “Thank you” __56__ (whenever) others help you or say something kind to you. For example, when someone opens the door for you, when someone says you have done your work __57__ (good), when someone says you have bought a nice shirt, or __58__ (you) city is very beautiful, you should say “Thank you”．“Thank you” is used not only between friends, but also between parents and children, brothers and sisters, husbands and __59__ (wife)．“Excuse me” is another short __60__ (politely) usage. We use it as the same as “Thank you”．When you hear someone say so behind you, you'd better __61__ (get) to know that somebody wants to walk past you without __62__ (touch) you. It __63__ (be) polite to interrupt(打断)others while they are talking. If you want to have a word with one of them, please say “Excuse me” __64__ (one), and then begin to talk. You should also do so when you want ___65___ (cough)or make any unpleasant noise before others. Let's say “Thank you” and “Excuse me” in the right situation.七、看图作文（共15分）66．假如你校有几位来自美国的交换生，他们打算周末步行去翠湖公园。
高考英语口语考试题目
高考英语口语考试题目高考英语口语考试通常包括两个部分，一是考察学生的口语交流能力，二是考察学生的议论能力。
以下是一套可能出现的高考英语口语考试题目示例，供考生参考。
Part 1: Personal Questions (个人问题)1. Introduce yourself briefly and talk about your hobbies.2. Discuss your favorite holiday destination and explain why you like it.3. Describe your best friend and share some interesting things you have done together.4. Talk about a memorable experience in your life and explain why it is important to you.5. Describe your favorite fictional character from a movie or book and explain why you like him/her.Part 2: Opinion Questions (观点问题)1. Do you think it is important for students to learn a second language? Why or why not?2. What are the advantages and disadvantages of studying abroad?3. Should schools ban the use of mobile phones during class? Why or why not?4. What measures should be taken to protect the environment? Give your opinions and examples.5. Do you believe that money can buy happiness? Give your reasons and examples.Part 3: Situation Questions (情境问题)1. You have been selected to organize a school event. Discuss the event, including the theme, activities, and expected outcomes.2. Imagine you are a tour guide. Introduce a famous tourist attraction in your country and provide information about its history, significance, and must-see spots.3. You are participating in a debate competition. Present arguments for and against the statement "School uniforms should be mandatory for all students."4. You are attending a job interview. Describe your strengths and explain why you would be a valuable asset to the company.5. You have witnessed a conflict between your friends. Give advice on how to resolve the conflict peacefully and maintain their friendship.Part 4: Creative Questions (创造性问题)1. Invent a new device that would make people's lives easier. Describe the device and explain how it works.2. If you could travel back in time, which historical event would you like to witness and why?3. Create a story using the following words: adventure, secret, and treasure.4. Design a poster to promote a healthy lifestyle. Include images and slogans to attract people's attention.5. If you were the president of your country, what policies would you implement to improve education?以上是一些可能出现的高考英语口语考试题目示例，希望对考生进行备考有所帮助。
英语自我介绍提问模板
英语自我介绍提问模板英文回答：Self-Introduction Question Template:Personal Information.What is your name? (My name is [name].)。
Where are you from? (I am from [place].)。
How old are you? (I am [age] years old.)。
What is your nationality? (I am a [nationality].)。
Education.What is your highest level of education? (I have a [degree] in [field] from [university].)。
What are your academic interests? (I am interested in [topics].)。
What are your career aspirations? (I aspire to work in [industry] as a [profession].)。
Skills and Abilities.What are your technical skills? (I am proficient in [skills].)。
What are your soft skills? (I possess [soft skills].)。
What are your strengths and weaknesses? (My strengths include [strengths], while my weaknesses include [weaknesses].)。
Hobbies and Interests.What are your hobbies? (I enjoy [hobbies].)。
M1P4 Reading and Vocabulary, Reading Practice & Writing
7 Work in groups. Discuss these questions
and give reasons for your answers. 1. Is small talk important in your society?
2. Is it as important as “real” conversation? 3. Do you think small talk is more or less important in English than in your language?
4 personal characteristics/ appearance awkward, cautious, mature, messy, outspoken 5 a physical state pregnant 6 a meal brunch
6 Answer the questions, pay attention
Words Preview as a consequence 因此，结果 systematic adj.非偶然的，经常的 coincidence n.巧合 customer n.顾客，客户 mature adj.成熟的 awkward adj.尴尬的 tease v.戏弄，嘲弄 typist n.打字员 contradict v.反驳
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clerk haircut anyhow modest brunch anniversary hostess interrupt n.职员，办事员 n.发型，发式 adv.无论如何 adj.谦虚的，谦逊的 n.早午餐 n.周年纪念日 n.女主人 v.打断
Warm up
Words Preview define (be) aware of take the lead graciously show off v.解释，给……下定义 知道 带头，领先 adv.优雅地 炫耀
英语作业
英语五月四日练习实战练习（试题分析几日后给出）One day when Jamie came home after school, his mother had on her worry face. He knew she was thinking of 1 . “It’s bad out there. Black clouds are coming from the sea,” Jamie said.“ Yes. I'm thinking of those fishing boats at se a,” she said.At that moment 2 went out. Jamie and his mother were in the dark.“The coastline will be in the dark,” Jamie’s mother said. She got more worried . 3 always come in threes. I broke my best glasses this morning, and my sister has the cold.“Now, don’t worry, mum. They’re right.” They’re 4 to come through this all right.But Jamie really worried about those fishing boats himself. The fishing boats would 5 the cove(海湾) in the dark.Jamie took flares and rushed into the wind. There was a cliff by the sea. He started to climb. He 6 himself up hand over hand. At last he reached the top.He 7 three times. On the fourth try he fired off one of the flares. It rose and cut into the black sky in bright light. Then he saw an answering flare up at sea. Jamie fired off two more. He saw another answering flare up, then another, then another. The answering flares from the fishing boats showed they 8 the entrance to the cove but then changed course and were 9 sailing into the cove. They were almost home.Jamie helped 10 the fishermen of the village.1．A. the wind B. the clouds C. the rain D. the weather2．A. Jamie B. his mother C. the fire D. the lights3．A. Messages B. Accidents C. Troubles D. questions4．A. sure B. lucky C. safe D. ready5．A. lose B. miss C. leave D. forget6．A. pushed B. pulled C. carried D. climbed7．A. made B. tried C. failed D. finished8．A. were at B. had found C. had passed by D. were going into9．A. now B. then C. once D. again10．A. answer B. save C. find out D. look for答案：D、D、C、A、B、B、C、C、A、B。
当代商务英语听说教程学生用书1 Book 1 U14
C. Language check
Task Two： Talking about likes F： Do you like your job? M： I like my _w_o_r_k in accounts very much. I’m
crazy about numbers. F： What is the a_d_v_a_n_t_a_g_e_ of your job? M： The advantage of my job is the flexible
2） Bert has a regular exercise program.
3） Bert plays football once a week.
4） Sonia says that Bert should have a walk before going to bed.
True √
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False
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heavy workload. F： What is the disadvantage of your job? M： The disadvantage of my job is that I have
to start e_a_r_ly_ and finish late. Also I _h_a_te_ the secretarial work. It is quite routine and really boring.
Unit 14
How do you spend your day
Part 1 Practical Listening & Speaking A. Word study
Work with your partner to fill in the blanks using the words on the left column. Listen and check your answers, and then follow the recording.
关于问别人问题的作文英语
关于问别人问题的作文英语英文回答：When it comes to asking questions, it is important to approach the task with respect and curiosity. Here are afew tips on how to ask questions effectively:1. Be clear and concise. When you ask a question, make sure that it is clear and easy to understand. Avoid using jargon or technical terms that the other person may not be familiar with.2. Be polite and respectful. Always start by addressing the person you are asking the question to with a polite greeting. Use appropriate language and tone, and be mindful of the person's culture and background.3. Avoid asking personal questions. Unless you are very close to the person, it is generally best to avoid asking personal questions. This includes questions about their age,relationship status, or finances.4. Be open to feedback. When you ask a question, be open to receiving feedback. The person you are asking may not have the answer, or they may have a different perspective than you do. Be willing to listen to their thoughts and ideas.5. Say thank you. Always thank the person for taking the time to answer your question. This shows that you appreciate their help.中文回答：如何有效地向他人提问。
Reading Practice
Language Points
1.When someone talks, everyone is expected to listen, no matter how dull the person’s speaking maybe. 当一个人发表见解时，不管他说的多么无聊， 其他人都必须洗耳恭听。 expect sb. to do 期待某人做 汤姆正期待着他父亲回来。 Tom is expecting his father to come back.
3. No, it is acceptable to talk about your feelings. 4. No, Americans will not usually mind being asked personal questions. 5. No, Americans always talk about weather. 6. No, you cannot talk about people’s age or how much money they earn.
5. Make sure you don’t talk about the weather or give compliments. 6. You can talk about people’s age and their income.
Reading Practice-3 Reading Activity-3
listens and waits for a turn to speak everyone _______________________________.
2. Americans are happy to talk about family and it’s best to avoid sensitive personal interests, but______________________ topics like religion and politics ____________________________.
人教版英语八年级下unit 8课件 Period 2
II. 请根据括号中所给要求完成下列句子, 每空一词(含缩写)。 1. What about buying a scarf for your grandmother? (改为同义句) ____ ____ ____ buy a scarf for your Why don’t you grandmother? 2. This watch is expensive. (改为同义句) This watch is ______ ______. not cheap 3. Joe got the bike on his tenth birthday. (对划线部分提问) get When did ______ ______ Joe ______ the bike?
4. Yesterday I got a letter from my sister. (改为同义句) from Yesterday I _______ a letter ______ my received sister. 5. Sam is a smart boy. (改为感叹句) What a smart ______ __ ___ boy Sam is!
scarf
bicycle
calendar
camera
flowers
CD
photo album
stuffed dog
CD
calendar
mobile phone
watch
flowers
photo album
scarf
football
1a What do you think of these gifts? Write each gift under one or more of the words in the chart. Add other gifts to each column. scarf tennis balls dictionary CD camera bicycle
托福考试题型介绍
托福考试题型介绍托福考试是国际英语语言测试系统简称TOEFL（Test of English as a Foreign Language）的英文音译。
它是世界上最具影响力的英语水平考试之一，被广泛认可和接受。
托福考试分为四个部分：阅读、听力、口语和写作。
每个部分都有不同的题型和要求，下面将逐一介绍。
一、阅读部分（Reading）阅读部分主要考察考生的阅读理解和词汇运用能力。
常见的阅读题型包括：1. 主旨题（Main Idea Questions）：要求考生找出文章的中心思想或主旨。
2. 细节题（Detail Questions）：要求考生根据文章内容找出与题目相关的具体细节。
3. 推理题（Inference Questions）：要求考生根据文章进行推理，推断出某些细节或事实。
4. 词汇题（Vocabulary Questions）：要求考生根据上下文理解词汇的含义。
二、听力部分（Listening）听力部分主要考察考生的听力理解和笔记能力。
常见的听力题型包括：1. 主旨题（Main Idea Questions）：要求考生根据听力内容找出主要思想或主旨。
2. 细节题（Detail Questions）：要求考生根据听力内容找出与问题相关的具体细节。
3. 推理题（Inference Questions）：要求考生根据听力材料进行推理，推断出某些细节或事实。
4. 笔记题（Note-Taking Questions）：要求考生根据听力内容中的关键信息进行笔记，然后回答问题。
三、口语部分（Speaking）口语部分主要考察考生的口语表达和思维组织能力。
常见的口语题型包括：1. 个人陈述题（Personal Preference Questions）：要求考生就个人喜好、习惯或观点进行陈述和讨论。
2. 看图题（Integrated Speaking Tasks）：要求考生根据所给的图片进行描述和分析。
3. 听力反馈题（Integrated Speaking Tasks）：要求考生根据所听到的对话或短文进行回答和反馈。
外研版英语选修六Module1课文
外研版英语选修六课文Module 1Module 1 Small Talk IntroductionRead the dictionary definitions of small talk and answer the questions.1.Which definitions make small talk sound like a positivething?2.Which definitions refer to places where small talk mighttake place?3.Why is it a problem if someone has no small talk?4.What do you think is the Chinese for "small talk"?small talk informal conversation about thingsthat are not importantMacmillan English Dictionary small talk light conversation that people make at social occasions about unimportant things: We stood around making small talk.Collins Cobuild English Language Dictionarysmall talk polite friendly conversation about unimportant subjectsLongman Dictionary of Contemporary English small talk conversation about ordinary or unimportant matters, usually at a social event: He has no small talk (i.e. he is not good at talking to people about ordinary or unimportant things).Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary Look at the conversation topics below and answer the questions. careers; cars; examinations; film stars; music; politics; sport; travel; weather; food1.I f you talk about these topics, isthe conversation serious or small talk?2.W hich of the topics do you liketalking about with your friends?3.W hich of them do you talk about with your parents?4.W hich of them do you talk about with your teacher?5.W hich of them do you never talk about?Vocabulary and ReadingComplete the sentences with the correct forms of the words in the box.damage; encourage; impress; prepare; recognise1.T2.H3.Dto do better.4.Mmore homework!5.Aschool.Read the passage and decide what kind of book it is from. Choose from this list.The text is from ____.a book to help you prepare for a speaking examinationa business coursean English teaching booka book which tells you what to do at social eventsHow Good Are Your Social Skills?Have you ever crossed the road to to someone you recognise? to a party and talk to every guest? Do you want to but to talk to people you don't know? And the idea of being at a social event in another country? Don't worry—we can help you!You needn't worry about situations like these if you have good social skills. And they are easy to learn. People with good social skills communicate well and know how to have a conversation. It helps if you do a little planning.Here are a few ideas to help you.Learn how to do small talkis very important and prepares you for more conversations. ! Have some low-risk ready. For example:a recent news story—not too , e.g. a story about afilm star or sports starthings to tell people about your studiesyou can ask people's opinions about—music, sport, films, etc.topics that you would avoid if you were talking to strangers—and avoid talking about them! That way, youdon't !Develop your listening skillsListening is a skill which most people , but communication is a two-way process—it involves speaking AND listening. Always remember—you won't impress people if you talk too much. Here are some ideas to make you a better listener:Do ...show that you are listening by using encouraging noises and gestures—smiling, nodding, saying "uh-huh" and"OK", etc.keep good eye contactuse positiveask for more information to show your interestDon't ...look at your watchthe person who's talking to youchange the subjectfinish other people's sentences for themAlways remember the words of Benjamin Disraeli, British Prime Minister in the nineteenth century: "Talk to a man about himself, and he will speak to you for hours!"Learn the rulesIf you go to a social occasion in another country, remember that can be different. In some countries, for example, you have to arrive on time at a party; in other countries, you don't need to. , you need to know how long you should stay, and when you have to leave. Some hosts expect flowers or a small gift, but in other places, you can take things, but you needn't if you don't want to. Remember also that in some countries, you mustn't take flowers of a colour, because they're unlucky. In most places, you don't have to take a gift to a party—but first!Answer the questions.1.According to the article, should people plan what they're going to say at parties?2.What do people think about those who talk too much?3.Describe two things you shouldn't do in a conversation.4.Why is it a good idea to nod and smile when the other person is talking?5.What does the quotation from Benjamin Disraeli tell you about people?Complete the sentences with the correct forms of the words in the box.sigh; yawn; nod; avoid; lack; smile1.personal questions.2.meet people from other countries.3.head in agreement.4.I think the man I spoke to was tired—5.6.my hand.Look at the phrases from the passage and answer the questions.1.If you can talk confidently, does this mean that you are worried about talking topeople?2.What kind of advance planning could you do before going to a party in a foreigncountry?3.Can you give an example of a low-risk conversation opener if you were talking to afriend of your parents', for example?4.What encouraging noises and gestures can you make when you're having a conversation inChinese?5.What is an example of positive body language?6.Are social rules the same in every country?Discuss your answers to the questions.1.Which of the ideas in the reading passage do you think are useful in your society?2.Are there any conversation techniques that you think you will use in the future?3.Which of the listening skills are you good at?4.Which of the social skills do you need to improve?5.What are some of the usual small talk topics in China?FunctionRead the pairs of sentences and answer the questions.1.Y ou must arrive on time at a party.You have to arrive on time at a party.2.Y ou mustn't take yellow flowers for the host.You don't have to take yellow flowers for the host.3.Y ou don't have to take a gift.You don't need to take a gift.1. Which of the following is true about the first pair ofsentences?The first one is an obligation, the second one is asuggestion.They both indicate an obligation.They are only suggestions about what to do.2. Which of the following is true about the second pair of sentences?The first one indicates that something is against the law.They mean the same thing.The first one is an obligation, the second oneindicates a lack of obligation.3. Which of the following is true about the third pair ofsentences?The second one is an obligation, the first one isn't.They mean the same thing.The first one is an obligation, the second one isn't. Write three rules for a social event in your country.If you go to a social event in my country,1.y ou have to ____.2.y ou don't have to ____.3.y ou mustn't ____.4.Look at the two sentences and decide which explanation iscorrect.1. We all know each other. We don't need to worry aboutsmall talk. This means ____.it isn't necessary to worry about itunfortunately we worry about it2. The party is informal. You needn't wear a tie. Thismeans ____.we must not wear a tiewe can wear a tie if we chooseComplete the sentences with verbs to express obligation or lack of obligation.1.SIt's unlucky!2.D3.Iprizes have been given.5.Yvery pleased if you do.Reading and ListeningRead and match the conversations with the places. There is one extra place.at a summer school; during a job interview; in a business meeting; on a boatA:Wonderful, aren't they?B:Er ... I'm sorry?A:The cliffs.B:Oh, yes, they are. A:Been here before? B:Pardon?A:So ... you wrote in your application form that you're interested in mountains.B:Yes.A:Have you ever climbed a mountain?B:No.A:Have you ever read any books about mountain-climbing? B:No.A:When did you arrive?B:Yesterday.A:Nice journey?B:Very nice.A:Did the immigration people ask to see your visa?B:I didn't need to get a visa.A:Really? Why not?B:Because I was born here.A:Oh yes, of course!Answer the questions about the conversations.1.D o you think the conversations are between people whoknow each other? Give reasons for your answers.2.W hich of the conversations would you call small talk?3.W hat do you think about the answers in the interview?a.The answers show that the interviewee isinterested in the job.b.The answers are too short.c.The answers are impolite.Listen to the whole of the first conversation and answer the questions.1.D o the people both speak English as a first language?2.W hy did the woman have problems understanding what theman was saying?3.H ow did the man help her to understand him better?4.Listen and check. Choose the correct endings to the linesfrom the conversation.1. Sorry, I couldn't ____.hear what you saidunderstand what you said2. I didn't ____.like what you saidcatch what you said3. Could you ____?repeat what you saidexplain what you said4. You needn't have ____.spoken to mespoken so slowly5. I just needed a few seconds ____.to get used to your voiceto understand your voiceGrammarRead the sentence from the listening passage and answer the questions.You needn't have spoken so slowly.1. Who said this?the touristthe English person2. Why did she say it? Choose one of these possible reasons.The other person was speaking too quickly.The other person was speaking too slowly.The other person was speaking slowly and it wasn'tnecessary.Rewrite these sentences using needn't have done.1.I t wasn't necessary for you to bring some flowers!You needn't have brought some flowers.2.T hank you for tidying the room—but it wasn'tnecessary.3.There was no need for you to buy the box of chocolates.4.Why did you go to school? It's Sunday!5.T hank you for bringing the book to show me, but Ialready have it.Read the sentence and decide which endings are possible.I didn't need to buy a gift for my host family ____.so I didn't get onebecause I already had oneso I bought oneso I took it back and got a refundComplete the sentences using didn't need to or needn't have done.Example:It was an informal party so I didn't need to wear (wear) a suit.1.W e brought some food to the party but there was too2.Mthe speech for him.3.The office had already opened when we arrived so we4.I got to the party at 6 p.m. but there was no one5.I told the host all about my home town and then heReading and WritingRead the email.Hi! How are you? I hope you and your family are well.I have a favour to ask. Next week, I'm going to a reception at the Chinese Embassy here in London and I'm really looking forward to it. I'm going to meet some senior high school students and their teachers. The only problem is that I'm not very good at small talk with people I don't know—I'm always worried about saying the wrong thing or making people feel bored.I need to know what I can talk about with the Chinese people that I meet. I wonder if you would be kind enough to answer these questions.Here in England, there are certain questions that you shouldn't really ask people that you don't know—"How old are you?" for example, and "How much do you earn?" Are there any questions that you shouldn't ask people in China?What sort of things do Chinese teenagers like talking about? Sport? Music? Films? And what sort of things do they find boring? Politics? The weather?Looking forward to your reply.AlexWrite a reply. Answer the main questions and offer other advice. Use some of the following sentences to start and finish your email.Very nice to hear from you.Thank you for your interesting email.How are you? It's a long time since I heard from you.I hope this information has been useful.Best of luck at the Chinese Embassy.Looking forward to hearing from you again soon. Reading and VocabularyYou're going to read a story about a saleswoman. Discuss what kind of small talk you need as a salesperson.The Wrong Kind of Small TalkEsther Greenbaum was a for a of machines and business supplies. But she was also the most in the world—well, Westchester County, at least. Her was "Every time I open my mouth, I ."Esther Greenbaum's major was that she had a complete of . No, that's not quite true. She had , but it was the wrong kind. In fact, she had never learnt the basic rules of socialcommunication, and , she made mistakes every time she opened her mouth. either that she wasn't a very good .One day during a meeting, Esther was introduced to an important , a woman."Nice to meet you," she said. "How old are you?" The looked ."Forty? Forty-five?" said Esther. "You look much older. And your friend ... she's older than you, but she looks much younger!"On another occasion, Esther teased a , "Hey! When's your baby due?"The went red and contradicted Esther. "Actually, I'm not ," she said."Oh, sorry," said Esther without any . "Just putting on a little weight, huh?"Esther was never about other people's feelings. One of her acquaintances, a salesman in the , was going through a very and was very depressed. She tried to cheer him up."Forget her! She was a complete . No one liked her anyway."Much of the time, Esther said the first thing to come into her head. One day at work, a came into the office with a new hairstyle."Nice ," said Esther. "How much did it cost?"The woman replied, "I'd rather not say."Esther replied, "Well, , either you paid too much or you paid too little."She met a very famous writer once. "Hey, what a !" she said. "You're writing a book and I'm reading one!"The trouble with Esther was she said what she thought, and didn't think about what she said. A young man was trying to be about his new job many miles away."I guess the company chose me so they'd get some peace in the office," he smiled."No, I guess they chose you to discourage you from spending your whole career with us," Esther replied sweetly.Once, Esther went to a party to meet some old school friends on the of their graduation. She greeted the ."Do you remember that guy you were dating? What happened to him?" she asked. "You know, the ugly one."At that moment, a man came up and stood by her friend. "Esther, I'd like you to meet my husband," she said. "Charles, this is ..."Esther interrupted her, "Hey, so you married him!"Read the passage and answer the questions.1.W hat did Esther often do when she spoke to others?2.W hat do you think are "the basic rules of socialcommunication"?3.W hy did the customer look awkward when she was askedhow old she was?4.H ow did the typist contradict Esther?5.W hat was wrong about Esther's advice to the salesman?6.W hat did Esther think of the clerk's haircut?7.W hy did the young man think the company gave him a newjob miles away?8.W hat did Esther think of her old school friend'shusband?Read the passage and find:1.t hree things you can say when you make small talk2.t wo things you should not say3.o ne way of replying to questions which you don't wishto answer4.The style of this passage is meant to be humourous andexaggerated.Example:You look much older. And your friend, she's older than you, but she looks much younger!5.Look for more examples of humour and exaggeration in thepassage.Look at the new words in the box.absence; acquaintance; anniversary; apology; awkward; brunch; cautious; clerk; customer; fax; firm; fool; haircut; hostess; human being; interrupt; mature; messy; motto; outspoken; pregnant; saleswoman; shortcoming; tease; typistFind words for:1.a2.p3.t4.p5.a6.aNote: Not all the words fit these categories.Answer the questions about the words in the box.absence; acquaintance; anniversary; apology; awkward; brunch; cautious; clerk; customer; fax; firm; fool; haircut; hostess; human being; interrupt; mature; messy; motto; outspoken; pregnant; saleswoman; shortcoming; tease; typist1.W hen is the next important anniversary in your life?2.D o people ever tease you?3.C an you think of a personal motto?4.W hen was the last apology you have given or received?5.W hat are you cautious about?6.D o you know anyone who is outspoken?Discuss the questions and give reasons for your answers.1.I s small talk important in your society?2.I s it as important as "real" conversation?3.D o you think small talk is more or less important inEnglish than in your language?Reading PracticeLook at the title of the passage and the words in the box. Choose five words and guess what the writer uses them to say.argument; compliment; conversation; curious; disagreement; dull; embarrassment; factual; genuine; hospitable; lively; relationship; sensitive; secretive; silence; spy; topic; violate; wealthMaking Friends in the USAIn the USA, conversation is less lively than in many other cultures, where everyone talks at the same time. When someone talks, everyone is expected to listen, no matter how dull the person's speaking may be.If you're not sure what to talk about, you can ask what people do. We're defined by our jobs and we're usually happy to talk about them, unless you're a spy!Some people say that Americans talk about their feelings more than Asians, but are more about matters. You can safely ask questions about families, where you come from, leisure interests,as well as the latest movies. We're interested in people's ethnic background too. But it's best to avoid politics, religion and other sensitive topics.A highly personal conversation can take place after a very short period of knowing someone, but this doesn't mean that you're close friends, or the relationship is very deep. But a lot of people are very friendly and , and the famous invitation "If you're ever in Minneapolis / San Diego / Poughkeepsie, do call by and see us!" is never made without a desire to meet again.But while few Americans will worry about the questions you may ask, particularly if you clearly show you're aware of cultural differences, they may hesitate before they ask you similar questions. In fact, it's a sign that they don't wish to your private life. So, many Americans will talk about safe topics because they don't dare to be too curious or personal, but will happily talk about more private matters if you .Generally we dislike arguments, and we avoid topics which lead to disagreement. It's easy to return to discussing the weather: "Do you like the USA? How do you like the weather?" or making compliments: "What lovely flowers and what a beautiful vase!""That's a fabulous dress you're wearing." You should accept compliments and say "Thank you!"There are a couple of dangerous topics of conversation: age and money. Age is not treated as something very special, unless someone is very old: "Isn't she wonderful for her age!" and there are no special rules or signs of extra respect for elderly people. Anyway, Americans always want to look younger than they really are, so don't expect an accurate !Income is a very private matter, and you'd do well to avoid asking how much people earn, although some people may not only be open about it, but their wealth. We don't ask how much things cost, either.But what we don't like is silence, and almost anything is better than the embarrassment of a quiet party and silent guests. Read the advice on small talk. Is it true for you?1.Y ou can ask about families, what people do and like,etc.2.I t's OK to talk about religion and politics.3.Y ou shouldn't talk about your feelings.4.D on't ask personal questions.5.M ake sure you don't talk about the weather or givecompliments.6.Y ou can talk about people's age and their income.7.Choose the correct answers.1. When a dull person talks, you should ____.not ask personal questionsask questionschange the topic of conversationlisten2. It's always OK to talk to Americans about ____.age and moneytheir workreligion and politicstheir private life3. When Americans make an invitation to visit, ____.they genuinely want to see you againthey don't really mean itThey want to find out more about youyou should accept it4. The best way to talk about personal things is to ____.discuss the weathertalk about your own private life firsttalk about your jobask them how old they are5. It's best to avoid ____.spiespersonal questionssilencedull peopleComplete the sentences in your own words.1.C onversation is less lively in the USA becauseeveryone ____.2.A mericans are happy to talk about family and personalinterests, but ____.3.I f you show you're aware of cultural differences, ____.4.Y ou shouldn't ask how old people are because ____.5.A lthough some people like to show off their wealth,____.Cultural CornerRead the passage and answer the questions.1.H ow does the AAA model work?2.I s the AAA model a good idea while making small talkwith someone you don't know in China?The AAAIt is estimated that 80% of all conversation in English is small talk. A very important function of small talk is to establish a relationship between people who don't know each other very well, or don't know each other at all.Psychologists say that the most successful formula for small talk between people like this is the AAA model. AAA = answer, add and ask. This is how it works.Imagine a situation where two strangers are talking to each other after someone they both know has left the room, or the café or party, etc. The first person asks a question:A:Do you live near here?The second person replies by answering the question, adding some extra information and then asking another question:B:(Answer) Yes, I do. (Add) In an apartment on Brown Street. (Ask) Do you live nearby too?The first person does the same, answer, add and ask:A:(Answer) No, I live in Bristol. (Add) I'm just visiting London. (Ask) Have you lived here long?B:(Answer) Not so long. (Add) I moved here three years ago. (Ask) What's the purpose of your visit to London?The speakers may have difficulty at first, but they soon realise that the important thing is that they are saying something. By continuing with the AAA model, the conversation continues. Because the thing they both want to avoid is an embarrassing silence.The conversation can continue in this way for a long time. However, something can happen that completely changes the atmosphere.B:Why do you live in Bristol?A:I'm studying there. History. Are you a student?B:Yes. And I know some people who are studying at Bristol. Do you know a girl called Helen Brown?A:Helen Brown!! Yes! She's one of my best friends! How do you know her?B:She's my cousin.At this point, the AAA model stops. Because they used this very useful social technique, they found something they have in common at last.。
中国人与英国人的性格
Losing Face and Keeping One’s Word in China面子的问题The Chinese are very conscious of face. Face is essentially respect in a community and is a crucial underpinning of society. Loss of that respect threatens the relations of individuals with almost everyone in his or her world and is hard to get back once lost, and thus must be avoided at all costs.Face is called "mianzi" in mandarin, which can also be translated to mean “dignity, prestige and reputation.” It has been said that "face is more important than truth or justice." Losing face is often people's worst fear. Chinese go out of their way to be polite and accommodating, to maintain dignity in a variety of situations and avoid disputes, conflicts and embarrassment in their pursuit to avoid losing face.face 在中文里面是面子的意思。
中国人觉得面子比什么都重要。
面试坐姿礼仪英语
面试坐姿礼仪英语几轮下来，职场面试者发现与面试官交谈，特别是与多位面试官交谈时，会有莫名的紧张感。
于是坐立不安，手脚不听使唤，无法专心答复面试官的问话，导致整场面试糟糕透了。
这些举动肯定都被面试官看在眼里，结果可想而知。
以下是面试坐姿礼仪英语，欢送阅读。
One, job interview position position1. Sitting and sitting position. If the interviewer makes you sit down, you don't have to say, "sit down." Keep an air of decency. Don't make any noise when you are seated. During the interview, the body should not be moved at will, the hands should not be redundant, the legs should notshake repeatedly, these are the performance of lack of breeding and arrogance. Because some people are nervous, unconsciously by hand touch hair, ears, cover their mouthto speak, even though you are careless, but the interviewer may be so, don't think you talk attentively, will doubt the truth of your words.2. Different gender, the etiquette requirements for the interview are different. When a man is seated, his feet should be at least a fist at a distance between his knees, and his hands can be placed on top of his or her knees. If he is wearing a formal suit, he should unbutton his jacket.3. When a woman enters her seat, her legs are closedand she is inclined to one side, her feet may be slightlydifferent, if the legs are tilted to the left, the right foot is left behind her left foot. If the legs are tilted to the right, the left foot is placed on the right foot. In this way the other side looks at the feet from the front, the legs are a little bit, the leg lines are longer, also appears rather elegant. If a woman is wearing a dress, she should sit at the hem of her seat before she enters the seat. After sitting down, she will sit upright, with a straight head and a straight head. After sitting, the body usually oupies 2/3 of the seat, two palms facing down, naturally placed on two legs, two legs naturally put, two knees together, face with a smile to maintain natural relaxation.Interview conversation, distance etiquetteJob interviewers enter the interview room and get used to leaning on the chair. Because the interviewer was very cordial, the interviewer slowly became more easily and began to tell his yearning for this job, when it es to exciting place, will involuntarily lean closer together. Looking at the excited speaker and spittle interviewee, the interviewer seems embarrassed, and the interviewer has been disrespectful.In order to municate with others, is the purpose of talking to do talking happily, besides should pay attention to the content of the talk, also should pay attention tokeep a certain distance with the examiner, so as to let the other side to hear and understand. Western European countries from the perspective of health research, when people speak, can produce about 170 droplets, can wave 1 meter far, as far as 1.2 meters, the cough can discharge 460 droplets, as far as can spit out nine meters, let alone a sneeze can produce how many germs. That is to say, it is also polite to keep talking at a proper distance.Keep your distance properEtiquette says that it is clearly rude to say that you are too far away from each other and that you will be mistaken for your reluctance to be friendly and close to him. But if you get too close to a conversation, you'll aidentally splash your face on someone else's face, whichis the most awkward. Therefore, in terms of etiquette, it is most appropriate to keep one or two personal distance with the examiner. In doing so, they both make each other feel intimate and at the same time maintain a certain "social distance", which is also the most fortable in people's subjective feelings.It's more effective to keep a distanceIn a job interview, people as a whole image, the two sides talk to convey information, not only on language, but also rely on body language to play charm, such as hand movements, changes in facial expressions. Aesthetics tellsus that distance produces beauty. The explanation is that distance can play a role in the conversation. Choose the best position and the best distance to play better.The interview conversation, whether from a health point of view or from the perspective of civility to consider, should keep a certain distance with people, so that is good for everybody's health, is good for both sides. If you suddenly want to sneeze and clear your throat, turn around and "act". It's best to take out a handkerchief or napkinto cover your mouth and apologize to get the interviewer3. Be polite and leave politeAfter the interview is over, be polite to get up. The most important thing for standing up is to be steady, quiet, natural, and never make any noise. The seat usually enters the seat on the left, and can be withdrawn from the left when standing up. Normally we sit chair, it has the special provision of attendance, entered the room sat by the left, standing also want to stand on the left side of the chair, be it sat or stood up and don't make any noise at all.Job guidance: be careful when hiring an interviewerSome people say that Chinese panies are recruiting and training of human resource management is well done, most of the problems can be recruitment and training, up to now,the candidate's interview still is the enterprise human resources management a very important content inrecruitment, because can't pletely by a person to apply for material and the written record will be able to make clear and aurate judgment. Intuitive impression of theinterviewer and the interview and can be adjusted aording to situation assessment on the interviewer's direction and content will help to a person for a more plete andimpartial evaluation, to fully guarantee the effect of corporate recruiters.For job interviews, there is a lot of emotion when it es to interviewing employees or managers who are often interviewers. The employee regrets that taking part in alot of business interviews will often have some very "weird" things happen, obviously better than the other person, but the final admission is someone else. And managers to sigh with emotion: why every time finally from a lot of candidates in the selection of eligible there are always a few even through the probation period must be eliminated, at the same time, also in the trance think of those who didn't pass the interview candidates moresuitable candidate has not been excavated.This shows that there is a problem in hiring and interviewing. Aording to my years of working in HR practice and providing HR management consulting and training for enterprises, I have summarized some of these problems.An unprofessional interviewer's question isunstructuredThe most problems that our during the interview process are the obvious manifestation of the lack ofprofessionalism in the recruitment and interviewing staff.(I) repeat the questionRepeat questions are mon in the process of initial interview and re-examination. The examiners may not knowthe initial test well, and it is easy to ask the same questions as the first interview. , of course, these problems must be examiners are concerned about the problems, such as personal study, work, work performance, work before leaving reason, to apply for the understanding of the pany, etc., but this clearly goes against the real meaning of the second interview, which further deeply evaluate candidates. Wasted valuable time on both sides, the interview to make the examiner check applicant is more important is time nervous, candidates can reveal itself in response to the problems in specialty in the interest of time had to be ina hurry, so as to effect the second-round exam.(2) missing important informationMany corporate interview questions do not have rigorous and meticulous preparation, but show a great arbitrariness. So, when you ask a question, it often happens. Interviewers often pester candidates actually less important questions,candidates are repeatedly explain, waste a great deal of time and energy, but ignores the more important content and information, and affect the overall understanding of the candidates.(3) to raise a non-issueThe casualness of the interview is also reflected in questions that have nothing to do with the interview. Some of the questions even involve the applicant's personal privacy, which can be awkward for both parties. Because of the interviewers' professional range, educational level and prehensive quality, such as: "why did you get divorced?" "Why aren't you married? Such questions have oasionally ourred, and the interviewer has been happy with his words.(4) uncertainty of the problemAgain, the question posed by the interviewer is not certain, and such faults our frequently in my work. Interviewers often ask only questions about the candidate's past work experience, while different job candidates have different working experiences. Examines different people with different questions, such as using different formats of a ruler to measure the height of different people, at last the result of the interview also can't again aording to the enterprise standard to do the same choice, so it is easy to cause unfair to the candidates.2. The halo effect that the interviewer cannot avoidJob interview basic standardization and quantification, and many times interview results basically prehensive literacy has much to do with the interviewer, but many interviewers first could not overe their own many human weaknesses.(1) the interviewer's own preferenceIt is also the most difficult thing to avoid in job interviews in many panies for the interviewer to evaluate people aording to their preferences. For example, an interviewer is very interested in a degree, and he must be very interested in the high school calendar. Before the interview begins, the lower one is sure to lose one point. Or another interviewer is a market, a person of origin, often a bit of favor to the articulate person, while ignoring the characteristics and requirements of the current employer.(2) preoupationA preconceived idea is that the interviewer has a more fixed impression of the applicant at the beginning of the interview. This impression is hard to change in a short time. For example: the interviewer's first impression of the applicant is honest and friendly, so if I found the candidate's first lie, will think is honest or excessive tension, is forgivable. And if the interviewer's first impression of the applicant is flattering and hypocritical,so if I found the candidate's first lie, will think ishabit or intentional, is unforgivable.(3) cover the surface with a pointInterviewers often make an overall judgment on themerits of a candidate. For example, when a candidate shows great software development skills during the hiring of a project leader, the interviewer may mistake him as theright person for the project development manager. But in fact, it is more important to have team coordination and project management skills, not just software development capabilities, to be responsible for project development.3. The interviewer did not record or record theinterview in timeIt is necessary to make proper and timely recordsduring the interview process. But many in the process ofthe interview, the interviewer is just in the candidate's interview progress made a general review on the nature of the overall record, usually only a few pen, is simply nothing to write, even remember in my mind, such as all the same after the interview again. Such practices when applicants less problem is not very big, but at the same time to interview a few same job applicants, theinterviewer often can only to the first and the last one is impressive, and the impression of other candidates is fuzzy. After the interview, only the vague impression in theinterviewer's mind and a few simple general ments, to classify the applicant, the decision to make a choice, obviously, is not aurate and aurate. At the same time, itis not conducive to post-mortem supervision and summary interview results.4. Ignore job applicants' motivationThe study of motivation is an important part of the job interview that has not been aurately designed. Many interviewers focus their energies on examining the applicant's professional knowledge, business skills and performance, while not caring about the employee's motivation.If a candidate is applying for a job only for a living guarantee, he will try to conform to the interviewer's preferences and hide his preferences and values. At the same time is more serious is that if you don't have good employees work motivation will lack of initiative to work and often in a negative state, this negative working condition will bee an obstacle to the management, assessment, incentives. Good work motivation is to their own development needs (including constantly learning and practice, improve their knowledge level) and apply for the position of enterprises need to be in harmony are an organic whole mon development intention, including identification of the corporate culture, values anddevelopment direction and appreciated and live in harmony and enterprise staff and mon progress of the prepared). Firstly, employees should like this job, and secondly, they like the pany, so we can think his motivation is good. Of course, encouraging good work motivation isn't about erasing the material needs of employees for life support, but rather about which is more important. Employees who only pursue material interests must not be good employees, especially in today's increasingly advanced knowledge economy.5. The behavior of the interviewer causes the applicant to be dissatisfiedThe questions asked by the interviewer are not level, the interview time is not observed, the interview is not uniform and so on. The interview process is not only a process of choosing a candidate, but also the process of selecting a pany. Even if the pany is looking for a candidate, the applicant may not necessarily value the enterprise. Applicants will have a deeper understanding of the pany during the interview process. The interview schedule, the environment of the interview and the quality of the interviewer will give the applicant an overall impression of the pany, which directly influences the applicant's understanding of the enterprise.6. The experience of the interviewerAs the enterprise standard of choose and employ persons, the interview process, the uncertainty of the interviewer, hire the importance of the result of the interview, etc., most of the time a lot of interviewers often rely on past experience to applicant's judgment and evaluation, much a few minutes to the end of the interview, a lot of the interviewer also smug, think oneself is very great, in fact, this is very irresponsible behavior to applicant and enterprise.This is precisely because of the human resource management recruitment interview method these fatal weaknesses and mistakes make the job interview a piece of chicken in the enterprise recruitment appraisal. No, no, no. But every time the result of the interview is only for applicants of a probably understanding, so we have tofurther investigate during the probation period, leading to the pany's new employees trial cost increase, also make the pany into a lower productivity, important customer loss,the disclosure of risk. At the same time, the lowefficiency recruitment will further affect the pany's human resource management construction and operation, and reduce the level of human resource development.Therefore, sincerely hope that all enterprises, all the workers to keep in mind that human resource management: the enterprise all work from the beginning of the recruitment,to do a good job of recruiting panies first, to find really suitable for the enterprise, is the foundation of allwork! .Job application guide: interview strategy: plan 8 minds You got the interview! Great! Don't waste it.I've interviewed thousands of candidates, and I've been interviewing for entry-level internships and senior managers. About three-quarters of these people make somelow-level mistakes.Of course, I might still choose them. Experts at warn applicants not to let the other person underestimate your abilities and talents because of a bad interview.Here are eight ways to help you perform perfectly in an interview:Make you seem trustworthy. There is no doubt about the importance of this. Making a good first impression and building a good relationship with the interviewer is thekey to a suessful job interview. What you need to do is smile, make eye contact, show your enthusiasm, sit on the front of the chair, and call the interviewer... Be yourself, but remember to be your best. We all want to be able towork with people we like and also like us.。
问题的困扰英语作文
问题的困扰英语作文Title: Overcoming the Perplexity of Questions。
In the journey of life, we often encounter perplexing questions that seem to challenge our very existence. These questions can range from philosophical ponderings about the meaning of life to practical dilemmas about our career choices or personal relationships. However, it is how we confront and overcome these perplexities that define our character and shape our destiny.One of the most common perplexities that people face is the search for meaning and purpose in life. From ancient philosophers to modern-day thinkers, humans have grappled with questions such as "Why are we here?" and "What is the meaning of life?" These questions can be daunting, leading many to feel lost or directionless. However, it isprecisely through introspection and self-discovery that we can begin to unravel the mysteries of existence.For some, religion provides solace and answers tolife's big questions. Belief in a higher power or divine purpose can offer a sense of comfort and guidance in timesof uncertainty. Others may find meaning through personal relationships, creative pursuits, or acts of service to others. Ultimately, the search for meaning is a deeply personal journey, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer.Another perplexity that many face is the challenge of making difficult decisions that will shape their future. Whether it's choosing a career path, deciding where to live, or committing to a long-term relationship, life is full of tough choices. In these moments, it's natural to feel overwhelmed and unsure of which direction to take. However, by carefully weighing the pros and cons, seeking advicefrom trusted mentors, and following our intuition, we can navigate through life's uncertainties with confidence and clarity.Moreover, interpersonal relationships often presenttheir own set of perplexities. From navigating conflictswith loved ones to deciphering the complexities of humanemotions, building and maintaining healthy relationships requires patience, empathy, and communication. It's important to remember that no relationship is perfect, and disagreements are a natural part of human interaction. By approaching conflicts with an open mind and a willingness to compromise, we can strengthen our connections with others and foster deeper, more meaningful bonds.In conclusion, life is full of perplexing questions that can leave us feeling uncertain and confused. However, it is through introspection, self-discovery, and a willingness to confront life's uncertainties head-on that we can find meaning, make difficult decisions, and build fulfilling relationships. By embracing the journey of self-discovery and learning from our experiences, we can overcome the perplexities of life and emerge stronger, wiser, and more resilient than ever before.。
商务英语-社交
Social Conversation SkillsI am Joe.Let’s work together to improve your English skills. China is my home now.I am here to help yousucceed.Conversation in an ElevatorQ1: Which floor are you getting off at?A1: I am going to the 24th.Q2: Oh. I know the company there. SDI, right?A2: Yes. I work there. This elevator is slow.Q3: How’s the environment there?A3: Not bad. But we are too busy most of the time. You know, long hours and low pay.Q4: If you guys ever need a Flash consultant, let me know. Here’s my card. I can help you.A4: Ok, thanks. But we have a lot of good programmers. See you around.Making ArrangementsQ1: How does Tuesday suit you?A1: Tuesday suits me very well.Q2: How is next Wednesday for you?A2: Next Wednesday is fine for me.Q2: How about coming this Thursday?A3: This Thursday works for me.Q4: When is the best time for you?A4: I prefer a meeting in the afternoon.Q5: Do you want to meet in the same place? A5: Yes. Same time, same place as before.Q6: How about this time the following Monday?A6: That’s perfect. See you then.Q7: Are you free the day after tomorrow?A7: I’m afraid I’m busy then.Q8: Is your calendar open for lunch this coming Thursday?A8: I’m sorry but I can’t make it then.Q9: Are we still on for lunch tomorrow?A9: Oh. I’ve got an appointment at 1pm tomorrow. There isn’t enough time. Could we make it the following day?Q9: Can we meet for lunch to discuss the proposal? A9: That will be great. I’ll buy.Q10: How about Ten o’clock?A10: Ten o’clock is great.Q11: Is Ten o’clock OK for you?A11: I’d like to meet you at ten thirty.Q12: Should I make arrangements for you to take this business trip?A12: Go ahead, I’m obligated to have this trip.Q13: Do you need reservations for the trip?A13: I’m afraid I can’t make the trip. I’ve got to attend a meeting.Showing Somebody AroundQ1: Would you like to come this way?A1: OK. What is that room next door to the reception?Q2: That’s where the photocopier is.A2: I see. That’s good to know. I need to make a few copies before the meeting.Q3: Do you want to do that now?A3a: Um, not yet. Where is the restroom?Q3a: Down that hall to the left. Opposite the General Manager’s office.Q4: As we go around the corner, on the right is the sales department.A4: Oh, I see.Q5: At the end of the corridor is the marketing department.A5: That’s our department. My new home.Q6: Is there anything else you’d like to know?A6: Just one thing, where is the conference room? Q7: Oh, yes. It’s just opposite the reception office. Would you like to check it out?A7: Sure . Let’s have a look.Practice your questioning skills…Rephrase the following closed questions to make them open-ended:1.Are you feeling tired now?2.Isn’t today a nice day?3.Was the last activity useful?4.Is there anything bothering you?5.So everything is fine, then?Conversation DO'S:Look at the person or people you are talking to. If you haven't met before, introduce yourself and ask their name.Use a person's name when talking to them.Ask questions when you don't understand something.Stick to the subject.Say nice things about people and praise those who deserve it.It's fine to disagree, but disagree politely.Conversation DON'TS:Don't fidget, look elsewhere, or wander off while someone else is talking.Don't listen in on conversations that you aren't part of.Don't interrupt when someone else is talking.Don't whisper in front of another person.Don't whine, tattletale, brag, or say meanthings about others.Don't ask very personal questions.Don't point or stare.Don't argue about things that aren't important.Conversation ExercisesHow would you start a conversation with her?Apartment Huntinginterested intwo bedroom apartmenttake a seatwill be with you in a moment match your needsask you a few questionshave availableprice rangesomewhere betweenspecific location in mindclose to the subwaywhen would like to on the first of the month are there any particular definitely like to havenot that importantwould be nicefit your preferenceslike to seeif you choosewill be responsiblecredit reportone step at a timethen decideBill is looking for a new apartment. He just moved to a new city in order to start working at a big company. He is at a Rental Agency in the new city. Study and remember these phrases for the following conversation:Apartment HuntingAgent: Hi! Welcome to Rental Property Management. How may I help you?Bill: Hi, yes. I'm ____________ renting a_______________________.Agent: Okay. If you ___________, one of ourrental agents _________________________.Bill: Thank you.interested in two bedroom apartment take a seat will be with you in a moment Complete the conversation by using the previous phrases.Don’t be afraid to think of alternate phrases.Associate: Hi, my name is Ann Smith. Bill: Hi, I'm Bill Harrington.Ann: Hi, Mr. Harrington. So that we will be ableto _________________ better, I would like to ______________________ before I show youwhat we ________________. First, what____________ are you interested in?Bill: _________________ $1800-2000 a month. Ann: Okay. Do you have a______________________?Bill: Well, I would like to live somewhere nearthe company. Or at least _________________.match your needs ask you a few questions have available Somewhere between specific location in mind close to the subway price rangeAnn: And _____________________ move in? Bill: On the ______________________.Ann: Okay. ______________________amenities which you would like to have? For example, a dishwasher, a balcony, aswimming pool or central air conditioning?Bill: I would ___________________ adishwasher, and with summers like these,central air! A balcony is _________________.Oh, yes, and two bathrooms ______________.Ann: Okay. Here are photos of the apartmentswe have available which ________________.when would you like toon the first of the month definitely like to have not that important would be nice fit your preferences Are there any particularBill: Thank you. This one on Lexington Road looks nice. I would ___________ it. And the one on Main Street also.Ann: Sure. Let me get the keys and we will go look at them. _____________ to rent one of them, we will need a security deposit of $1500.Bill: What about utilities?Ann: You _________________ for all the utilities. If your ____________ looks OK, you can sign a lease today, if you like. Bill: Well. Let’s take it __________________. First I look at the apartments, and ___________.will be responsible If you choose like to see one step at a time credit report then decideIntroduction to a New EmployeeQ1: Good morning! I am Mike Hua, the General Manager here.A1: Yes. I have heard a lot about you from the other employees.Q2: Has someone showed you around the company? Have you seen your desk?A2: They gave me a tour and showed me my office space. It is great to be here.Q3: Good. Welcome aboard! I hope you will like working here. We have a good team.A3: Thanks. I will do my best.Requesting FavorsQ1: I’ve got a favor to ask you. Could you finish this report for me?A1: No problem. But you’ll owe me big time.☺Q2: Another thing I’d like you to do is finish this report.A2: OK. I’ll do it later. When do you need it?Q3: Would you mind opening the door for me (formal)?A3: Not at all. You have your hands full.Q4: Can you bring me a fresh cup of coffee?A4: I’m not your slave. Get it yourself.Q5: Would you mind if I borrowed your laptop (formal)?A5: I’m sorry, I’ve got to use it myself.Q6: I was wondering If you’d mind (formal) lending me your car.A6: I’m afraid I can’t. I have to drive to the airport this afternoon.Q7: Would you like talk to him about his behavior at work? He seems to have an attitude problem lately.A7: I noticed that too. I’ll try to pick his brain.Offering to helpQ1: Can I give you a hand?A1: Yes, please. Thanks a lot.Q2: Would you like a hand with the report?A2: No thanks. I think I can manage it myself.Q3: Shall I call them for you?A3: That’s very kind of you, but I prefer to do it myself.Q4: Would you like me to call Canada for you?A4: I think I’d better do that myself because I really should talk to them directly.Q5: If you need any help, just let me know.A5: I will. But I don’t want to bother you.Asking AdviceQ1: I would like to ask for your advice on how I can stop him from harassing me.A1: Warn him that you will report him.Q2a: What would you do if you were me?A2a: You’d better tell him as soon as possible.Q2b: What would you do in my position?A2b: You should consider avoiding him.Q3: What do you think I should do to improve?A3: If I were you, I’d think twice about it.Q4: Do you have any suggestions for me?A4: It might be a good idea to ask for help.Breaking Bad News and ApologizingQ1: Hello, Mr. Lee, I’m sorry to trouble you but there is a problem.A1: Yes, what seems to be the problem?Q2: I’m afraid I have some rather bad news for you.A2: Oh my, what happened?Q3: I’m very sorry about this but I have to tell you something you won’t like to hear.A3: Really? What’s the matter?Q4: I’m sorry this happened. Can you give me another chance?A4: Don’t worry. It really doesn’t matter.Q5: I’d like to apologize for this.A5: It’s OK. But I hope it won’t happen again.Q6: I’ll certainly make sure it won’t happen again. I was careless.A6 : It’s all right. Just be more careful next time.Q7: It was my fault. Can you accept my apology? A7: Apology accepted. These things happen. But you should buy me lunch to make it up to me. ☺Expressing AngerQ1: What’s wrong with you today?A1: That guy really irritates me! He’s so annoying! Something needs to be done.Q2: What is your excuse for this behavior?A2: I’m furious with him! I can’t take it! You have no idea what a jerk he is!Q3: Take it easy. Can you calm down?A3: She is getting on my nerves! She is out of her mind! Her nonsense makes me sick!Q4: What’s all this about?A4: Don’t look at me like that! I have had enough of this! Leave me alone! OK?ComplimentsQ1a: Your last translation was great.A1a: Do you think so? Thanks. I worked hard.Q1b: It shows. Keep up the good work.A1b: I always do my best. I’m a perfectionist.Q2: The customer is happy. Well done.A2: Good. But don’t give me all the credit.Q3: You deserve a raise after the last project.A3: Oh? Maybe. But I doubt that I will get one.Q4: I really appreciate your effort and ability.A4: Then reward me with something that I can put in the bank.Entertaining the ClientQ1: What do you like to do for fun?A1: I like going to bars and clubs.Q2: Oh? It seems that a lot of foreigners like to do that when they come to China.A2: Sure. Shenzhen is an exciting city.Q3: May I suggest that you try something more healthy? How about some tennis after dinner?A3: Well. Maybe that is a good idea. I don’t get enough exercise these days.Q4: Are you hungry? Let me treat you to dinner.A4: OK. I am starving. The plane food was bad.Office RomanceQ1: Hey Jen, would you like to go to dinner with me Friday night?A1: I don't know. You know what they say about office romances.Q2: No. I don't. What do they say?A2: They say you shouldn't mix love and work.Q3: That's silly. What we do on our own time is nobody else's business. Right?A3: You've got a point. But I once dated one of my supervisors. Then when the relationship went bad,he fired me.Q4: Well.. That wasn’t my fault. Was it?A4: No. But I don’t want to repeat the mistake.Q5: Why don’t you consider giving me a chance?A5: But I don't want an inter-office relationship to affect my productivity.Q6: Come on. I need some company. OK?A7: Company? I heard you have asked all the girls in the office to go out with you.Q7: What can I say? I’m a passionate guy.A8: Well, I hope you can find something else to be passionate about.Q8: OK, I get the message. Do you have any sisters? A8: In your dreams. Now if you don't mind, I've got some work to do.Expressing BoredomQ1: Aren’t you sick and tired of this meeting?A1: Sure. It is really boring. I can’t stand it much longer.Q2: Do you understand what he is saying?A2: No. His lecture is enough to put anyone to sleep.Q3: Why does he keep repeating the same things over and over?A3: Who knows? He’s like a broken record.Q4: Yep. Just the same old story.A4: To be frank, I can’t wait to get out of here.Nervousness and StressQ1: What’s wrong with you today? Your mind seems to be somewhere else.A1: I’ve been under a lot of stress lately.Q2: Do you need to unwind? Chill out. Ok?A1: Yes. I really need a break. Everything is getting on my nerves.Q3: What are you going to say to him?A3: I don’t know. I’m really nervous about it.Q4: What happened to you this morning? I was worried sick when you didn’t show up?A4: I felt burned out and wanted to skip work.Expressing GratitudeQ1: Is there anything else I can do?A1: No. You have done enough already.Q2: Can we say goodbye? I must leave now.A2: Thanks for everything. I am so grateful for what you have done for me.Q3: Are you aware that you made a mistake?A3: Oh my, I didn’t notice. Thanks for letting me know. I’ll watch out for that in the future.Q4: How do you feel about your promotion?A4: I owe it all to you. You were the one that encouraged me when I needed it most.。
外研选修六Module 1 making friends in the USA
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Listen Ethnic Family
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Movie Politics Religion Sensitive topic Private/personal life
Leisure interests
Where you come from Making compliment Weather Invitation
3. When Americans make an invitation to visit, ____. c a. they don’t really mean it b. they want to find out more about you c. they genuinely want to see you again d. you should accept it
However, when you’ve realized the cultural differences, many Americans will not care about what you ask, but they will think twice before asking you such questions.
• But a lot of people are very friendly and hospitable, and the famous invitation” If you’re ever in Minneapolis/ San Diego/ Poughkeepsie, do call by and see us! ”is never made without a genuine desire to meet again.
Module 1 Small Talk
跨文化交际实训课件Chapter-2
Language and culture 语言和文化
I. Verbal Communication 言语交际
High-context and Low-context language
高语境和低语境语言
High Context Less verbally explicit communication, less written/formal information More internalized understandings of what is communicated Multiple cross-cutting ties and intersections with others Long term relationships Strong boundaries- who is accepted as belonging vs. who is considered an "outsider" Knowledge is situational, relational. Decisions and activities focus around personal face-to-face relationships, often around a central person who has authority. Examples: Small religious congregations, a party with friends, family gatherings, expensive gourmet restaurants and neighborhood restaurants with a regular clientele, undergraduate on-campus friendships, regular pick-up games, hosting a friend in your home overnight.
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Very Personal Questions
If we had met you five years ago and then met you again today, how would we say that you have changed? Include specific examples that characterize your development. (Sloan)
In thirty to forty years, when you reflect back on your life, what criteria will you use when judging if you have been successful? What are the main achievements/events that you hope will have taken place? (Anderson)
Please provide us with a summary of your personal and family background. Include information about where you grew up, your parents’occupations, your siblings, and perhaps a highlight or special memory from your youth. (Anderson)
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Each of us has been influenced by the people, events, and situations
occurring in our lives. How have these influences shaped who you are today? (Stanford)
What seminal influences or experiences, broadly defined (a book, teacher, friend, relative, sojourn, hobby, and so forth), have especially contributed to your personal development? What correlation, if any, does your personal development have to your professional goals? (Berkeley)
Describe yourself and the significant events that have shaped you. (Michigan)
All essay questions, as we have already mentioned, are a way for the admissions committee to learn more about you personally. The getting personal questions just ask more directly than others. They give you a direct opportunity to speak for yourself. They can be tricky, though, because they are often extremely open-ended.
Be selective. You cannot include every detail about yourself, so you have to pick wisely. Some applicants want to tell everything, fearful that they will leave out a crucial detail on which their acceptance, and future, could hinge. Do not give in to this temptation. Instead, focus on one or
two significant qualities or characteristics that give the admissions committee genuine insight into you.
Many of the questions in this category are worded creatively or ask you to use your imagination. This is intended to get you to loosen up and be yourself. If the question takes you off guard, let it-it means the committee is looking for an unguarded answer. This makes many applicants uncomfortable. They try to present themselves objectively but end up distancing themselves from the subject matter with overly long words and a dry, academic tone. This is a grave mistake since the whole point of this essay is to reveal something about yourself. Therefore, put your heart into this essay.
This category does not have one standard question-every school asks it in a different way. Although each school’s question will differ from the next, most of the personal questions still fit into one of three categories: personal development, personal goals, or personal background and influence.。