Kramer vs. Kramer克莱默夫妇观后感2000字英文
克莱默夫妇 观后感
Feminism in Kramer VS Kramer克莱默夫妇观后感刘卉英创一班Kramer VS Kramer is Hollywood’s answer to contemporary questions of male parenting, the erosion of the family, and the women's movement. This film is, as they say, "heartwarming" and "believable" and the attention it received at the Oscars is no surprise——five Awards with Best Picture, Best Director, Best Adapted Screenplay, Best Actor, Best Supporting Actress in the fifty-second Oscar. It is indeed a well crafted, beautifully acted backlash movie.Rleased in 1979, when the Vietnam War came to an end, there was an another movie named Apocalypse Now failed the American, as it did’t confronted with the war. However, the appearance of Kramer VS Kramer, presenting the love and struggle in a family healed and comforted people at that age, made it a success. In the 1970s, a dramatic increase of divorce rate appears, accompany with the fevered feminist movement. Robert Benton’s low cost while attentive work reveals the social condition at that time. It is a introspection of family ties and enlightened people to face up to the equality of bisexual in the family.We can also use the film as a test case for the feminist analysis of the family. Joanna Kramer, left her husband Ted and her child Billy, in search of her self-fulfillment. Joanna is a woman who tried her best to portray an understanding wife and a loving mother. However after years repeated life she lost her life goal and consequently asked herself what is her real value. Before Ted back home at the very beginning, Joanna was still tramping at the edge of depressing, it’s hard for a woman to leave her family behind and to start with nothing. While she defeated fears and stepped forward. The film strongly portrayal of her subtly enlighten women to think over their social status and to win back the same rights as men have. This movie told mothers: Mother in exactly the way society defines or you will be denied any relationship to your child. Hide your oppression as a mother or you will end miserably. “Mommy it’s all or nothing”Woman need s to lean in.。
影评 克莱默夫妇 全英文 500字The Performance of Kramer vs
The Performance of Kramer vs. KramerKramer vs Kramer shows the audience the transformation of Mr. Kramer’s attitude towards his son and life after his depressed wife cruelly left the family and her baby boy—Billy, and sets an example of how to be a father for the audience, and lead the audience to the deep thought of marriage.`Why can this movie win the Oscars? I think not only because this movie revealed the increasing rate of one-parent marriage and the high rate of divorce in the 1970s’ America, but also because the actor had the highly-appreciated acting skills and appropriate outflowing of emotion. Additionally, the director’s professional shooting skill also plays an important in the success of this movie. Let me explain them in detail. Firstly, when we talk about acting arts, what come into our mind firstly is the expression of emotion. An appropriate expression of emotion will stimulate the sympathy of the audience.Our hero, Mr. Kramer whose real name is Dustin Hoffman is expert in expressing his emotion properly. His happiness of getting home to tell his wife the good news of getting promoted, his surprise of hearing Mrs. Kramer leaving them stoically, his nervousness of bringing bloody Billy to the emergency room, and his depression of knowing that he didn’t get the custody after he tried everything he could, were showed in the movie definitely, touching and moved.More coincidently, at that time Hoffman happened to experience the divorce in his real life. It was merciless to persuade a man who had just spilt with his wife to act a man who was going to break a marriage. Nevertheless, Hoffman did not choose to evade this character but to take it in. In this way he gained cure of divorce and got to know more about life and marriage. When he played the role, he must acquire some sympathy from it. He might recognize how to be a father, as he said in the court, it has to do with constancy; it has to do with patience; it has to do with listening and pretending to listen when you can't even listen any more. He might be cognizant of that in a marriage there must be one person to scarify himself to integrate the family. Actually he was more likely to play the role of Mr. Kramer and even more he has been beyond the Mr. Kramer-- he was playing himself. Perhaps that was the reason why he could accomplished therole so well and veritably.My favorite actor Justin Henry playing the role of Billy, gave the audience a good illustration of a sensitive and premature boy who owned a disintegrating family. He was so sensitive that he could be aware of the unusual relationship between his father and his father’s colleague. Moreover, he was premature enough to realize the reason why his mother suddenly abandoned him. Just as he asked in the movie, “that’s why mommy left, because I was bad”. I was eager to hand up to hug this golden-hair boy the moment poor Billy pleaded all the guilty on himself.Except of performers’ excellent acting skills, what was Commendable was the director’ skillfully movie art. Instead of the shooting style of sharp montage, he turned to apply the mild warm tone to this movie, which changed the New York’s coldness and bleak to warmth. Splicing method of the movie was also in accordance with classical style, soft and delicate. Moreover, the music is based on short smart guitar music, which belonged to unique playful and warm feeling in 70s.It is a really perfect, impeccable, the movie that you should never miss.。
克莱默夫妇电影影评
任何事情牵扯到男女权问题的时候，似乎都是一个雷池禁地。
人们暧昧着，躲闪着，选择沉默以对，或者避而不谈。
归根到底，这其实是一个人权的问题，实在值得我们去思考和探讨。
为什么不说是女权，因为一牵扯到女的时候，人们往往习惯性地把与之相对性别的男字放在对立的方向上作答。
长久以来，我们都希望在探讨人权问题时，男女两性是平等的。
而不是对立的。
但是很难。
这出于某些固有的价值体系和伦理道德模式的束缚。
男人认为女人应该怎样，女人认为男人应该如何。
于是在父系氏族社会的稳固下，受到性别压制的另一方才会有与之相对应的另一套价值体系形成和发展运动。
一个族群，如果只是因为女人会经历一个十月怀胎的过程就抹杀了女性的劳动与创造价值，就在分工上出现了排他性那是不公正的。
尽管我们的时代圈里，没有绝对的公正，只有合理的不公存在着。
影片《克莱默夫妇》拍摄时美国女权运动余波未散，该片受女权主义影响，反映的是一个受女权主义影响的主妇从离家到离婚与丈夫争夺儿子抚养权最后又为孩子而复归的故事，那是70年代美国后工业时期社会生活普遍存在的现象，人们在家庭日常与社会生活协调中失衡，迷茫进而导致婚姻破裂和家庭离散。
男人与女人在现实里的激战，从上古开始到当下，似乎永远都打不完。
我们的沙龙会里有一个同学提到《圣经》里上帝对夏娃的惩罚是不公的，因为上帝错误地认为夏娃诱使亚当吃下禁果的缘故。
这让我想起在创世纪的神话故事中，上帝用亚当的肋骨并以亚当为模型创造出了夏娃，从此亚当才有了同伴不感到孤单。
而偷食禁果的故事，最初是一条狡猾的蛇诱使了亚当。
蛇的意象是什么呢？大抵人们静思己心时，发现欲念频生的过程就如一条毒蛇在蛊惑心智。
在多数人的认知里，蛇是原罪的影像，我们尊重这个概念的定型及影射。
进而，出于理性的思考，人们想当然地认为夏娃是亚当的附属品。
因为亚当先于夏娃出世。
然而如果依据德谟克里特斯的原子论，则夏娃与亚当是共生的。
夏娃存于亚当的心上，是亚当心上的那根肋骨。
克莱默夫妇的影评或者观后感doc
Kramer vs. KramerToday I watched a good movie Kramer vs. Kramer in our class, which I had watched it in my dormitory before. I loved this movie very much. Kramer vs. Kramer was a film about a divorced couple dealing with their family, career and child. The hero of Kramer vs. Kramer was Ted. The heroine was his wife Joanna. They had a lovely child named Billy. Kramer worked as an advertisement clerk in a company to support his family. He was very busy in his work and has little communication with his wife and son. Joanna was a housewife. She did n’t have a job and what she did everyday was to do the housework and took care of their son. Joanna once had a job, but after she got married, she quit her job. Without Kramer’s any care about her inner thought, Joanna felt very upset about her present life. One day, Joanna couldn’t stand her lifestyle any more. So, she turned Ted for help, but Ted refused to listen to her. Though she loved Billy very much, she leaved away alone. Since then, Ted’s life has fall into a mess suddenly. As he couldn’t deal well with both his career and his son, he was always blamed by his boss. Fortunately, his neighbor often came to help him. Through many things, the love between Ted and Billy was very deep and firm .One year later, Joanna came back and demanded to take her son away and Joanna won the right to breed her son in the court. But at last, Joanna gave the right back to Ted. I thought it was a happy ending.In this movie, there were some scenes that moved me most. Ted often took Billy out to play, but one day Billy fell off a jungle gym and had a severe accident. Ted picked up Billy and rushed to a nearby hospital. Here, we can see Ted’s anxieties of and worries about his son. In the court, Ted said, “I’d like to know......what law says a woman is a better parent simply by virtue of her sex? I’ve had time to think about what makes a good parent. It has to do with constancy. It has to do with patience......listening to him......or pretending to listen when you can't anymore. It has to do with love like she was saying. I don't know where it says a woman has a corner on that market......that a man has any less of those emotions than a woman. Billy has a home with me. I've made it the best I could. It's not perfect. I'm not a perfect parent. Sometimes I don't have enough patience and I forget that he's a little kid. But I'm there. We eat breakfast and he talks to me and then we go to school. At night we have dinner together and we talk and I read to him and.....And we built a life together and we love each other.” Here, we can see that through Ted’s hard efforts, he changed his idea and took good care of his son. And he acknowledged his mistakes when Joanna stayed with him. He loved his son very much and expressed indirectly that he didn’t wantto separate with his son. What’s more, we also could know that Ted became a good father from just only a family-provider.In our reality, people should have more communications with each other and solve the problems in time. We should also treat the right women’s and men’s correctly .It is unfair to say woman is a better parent merely because of her sex. A man also has the right to love his child and his emotion is no less than a woman’s. And women also have rights to work, to take the most use of their capabilities.。
克莱默夫妇长篇纯英文影评
Kramer vs KramerDetails of the movieKramer vs Kramer is a film about a divorced couple dealing with their family, career and child. It is a little like the film The Revolutionary Road. The hero of Kramer vs Kramer is Kramer. The heroine isJoanna. They have a lovely child named Billy. Kramer has a job as a clerk in a company to support his family. He is very busy in his work and has little communication with his wife and son. Joannais a housewife. She doesn’t have a job and what she does everyday is to do the housework and take his son care. WhileJoannaonce had a job and it was after she got married that she quit her job. Without Kramer’s little care about his inner thought. So Joanna feels very upset about her present life. Billy is a very clever and sensible child. When he realized the truth that his mother had gone, he tried his best to be a good boy.At last, Joanna can’t stand her lifestyle. What makes her disappointed is that when she turns Kramer for help, Kramer refuses to listen to her. She feels that there is something with her. Though she loves Billy very much, she leaves away alone. So Kramer has to take his responsibility of taking care of his son.At the very beginning of living with his son, they don’t get on well with each other. Kramer both have to work and take care of Billy. From the first scene he prepares breakfast for his son, he gives us an impression of an unqualified father. He knows little about his family. One night, Kramer does his work while Belly is playing his new plane. B ut he is only concentrated on his work and doesn’t take notice of Billy. It is because Billy turns the stuff over with careless. It spills in his father’s papers. And his father feels angry about it and asks Billy to go to bed. There is another scene that shows the bad relationship between them. On their dinner, Billy doesn’t like eating Salisbury steak, but his father doesn’t realize that he is just a child, Billy should be cajoled not only rebuke him. Feeling dissatisfied with his father, Billy stop eating to get chocolate chip ice cream, which makes his father upset. So Kramer throws him into his bed and locks him. At that time, Billy says to his father that he hate his. Kramer also says that he hate Billy too. Billy cries for a long a time and gradually gets to sleep. On this night, Billy asks his father is it because he was bad that his mother went away. Kramer tells Billy that it is because of himself ignoring of his mother’s real mind that drive his mother away. They start to have a communication with each other. From this night, they seem more harmony than before. And Kramer teaches his son how to ride a bike. Once, Billy falls off the jungle gym and hurts his face badly and takes several stitches. Billy behaved bravely. After this time, they really build a good relationship between them. Kramer gradually knows how to be a good father and how to take care of Billy.At the same time,Joannacomes back, she feels much better and more confident than before. She also gets a high salary job. She wants to take care of Billy. Obviously, Kramer doesn’t agree with her. So they decided to have a case about the raise of theirson. Unfortunately, because Kramer spends large of his time staying with his son, he doesn’t do well in his job, which makes his boss let him go. So he looses his job. Through he gets another job; it is a low -salary job. And it also leads to his failure in the case.At last, the judge goes for motherhood right down the line. Kramer looses. It is hard for him to accept the fact. What a surprisin g end it is! Joanna doesn’t take away Billy. The last scene of the film is that Joanna stands in the lift with her eyes holding tears. Many people thought that they would remarriage, but they didn’t, which is a little disappointing according to audience. But there is also some happiness that father can stay with his son forever.Comprehend for the movie："Kramer vs. Kramer" is the kind of movie which grows on you. It is so well made that you may not be aware at the time how much skill and artistry have gone into it.It is a whole bunch of other movies rolled into one, but it is not derivative. It is definitely singular. It covers old ground with integrity and a high degree of insight.It takes familiar people, familiar situations and then treats them with a mixture of intelligence and art rarely combined on the screen.The movie is about the breakup of a marriage, about two people who drifted apart without knowing it at the time, about their child who is caught in the crossfire, about their friends and--most of all--about characters who grow and change.It is that last aspect of "Kramer vs. Kramer" which make all the other aspects come together in something other than the soap opera the ingredients suggest.The film says much without preaching, is a product of our times without being trendy.Screenwriter-director Robert Benton has managed to strip away everything from the story except what really counts.Nestor Almendros' photography zeros in on people in a way to stress their isolation, their moods. The spare music, bits of Purcell and Vivaldi, add to the atmosphere. Most of all, "Kramer vs. Kramer" is blessed with one of the best casts ever assembled for a movie.Dustin Hoffman plays Ted Kramer, a successful ad agency executive with success-bent workaholic habits.Meryl Streep is Joanna, his wife, whose quiet desperation over her loss of identity and self worth have gone unnoticed by her husband.The movie opens on the isolated image of the sad faced mother saying good night and, as it turns out, goodbye as well to her sleeping son, Billy (Justin Henry).In spite of her action, some sympathy will be with her in the beginning because of her husband's unawareness, his we'll-talk-about-it-tomorrow attitude.>From there on the film becomes the story of a growing father-son relationship. In a series of short, sometimes funny, often poignant scenes, the two learn to cope with life and with each other.There is a gradual transition from awkwardness to harmony, from independence tomutual dependence. Ted Kramer changes from ad man to father, and as priorities shift, his career goes down the drain.There are wonderful father-son scenes-- confrontation, fun and sadness.One particularly moving moment occurs when the father assures his son that the boy's mother did not leave because of dislike for the boy, but that it was his, the father's fault.When Joanna Kramer re-enters the movie two-thirds of the way through to claim her son, sympathy will have shifted entirely to the father.The ensuing court battle has its moments of nastiness, but there are indications -- a look, a half phrase -- of a lingering affection and respect if not love.Benton presents it as a no-win situation, inflicts no one with a villain label.The ending may seem contrived, an attempt to make everyone happy. But it is also an ending which goes full circle with its image of sadness and frustration.Hoffman has never been better. All the nuances are there--cockiness, anger, worry, determination, sadness --without giving the impression of overacting.Meryl Streep, in a brief role, once again shows what a skillful actress can do. There are few performers who can express pain and joy with a look, a glance the way she can.Jane Alexander is perfect as the neighbor with affection for both parties. Howard Duff as the attorney manages to let you know that he's a high priced lawyer even before he mentions his fee.But it is young Justin Henry who Is the miracle of the movie. His mood, his actions and reactions, his laughter, his tears are right for every scene. He gives the impression that the camera was eavesdropping on real life.It's possible that "Kramer vs. Kramer" will evoke reactions colored by the sex and/or experiences of each particular viewer.But I can think of no other of the growing group of movies about marital relationships which treats each of the parties with greater objectivity, with fewer attempts at setting up a good vs. evil situation.。
Kramer vs. Kramer克莱默夫妇观后感2000字英文
Kramer vs. KramerThis is no doubt that a successful film. It released in 1979. And received the 1980 Academy Award for best film, best director and best actor and best supporting actress. This is a movie about family and marriage.Lonely wife decided to leave her busy husband. Husband began to learn how to take care of the child. 18 months later, the wife returned. She wants to regain Billy. In the climax of the story, the couple on the court in order to compete the custody of the child.I think the good role is the vey important reason that this film cans successes. Three very simple, but make up a touching story.Joanna Kramer is an ordinary housewife, but she did not want to do ordinary things. She decided to leave home, because she felt she could not stay in that family. She is a very unhappy woman. In her mind, she only has one way. I don’t know it is right or wrong, but I think Joanna must have been a long-term consideration that such a difficult decision. Joanna is a tragic figure, as she is still a brave person. After years of married life, she felt stifled and lonely. She did not want to just focus on the family life; she wants freedom and hard work. So she chose to leave, to find a new different life. The end of the movie, she finally succeeded. Yes, she was successful at work, but in the family, she failed. For the failed marriage and escape is not the solution. In my opinion, she left her husband is right, but she should not left her child. Billy was still in elementary school, he needs his mother. Even how much you are not happy, this is between you andyour husband do, nothing to do with the children. He should grow up carefree. A tragic marriage only brings harm, especially for children, and themselves.Ted seems to always busy and no time to listen to his wife. He work day and night, and thought a successful career, more money is the best gift to his family. But he did not know what the real need of his wife is. He didn’t even know the reason that his wife left him. He did not know where she was going, and did not know when she will come back. In addition to the family, he did not know his wife. This explains why Joanna to leave him. I think ted is also a tragic figure. He is not love his wife and son, he wanted to give them a better life, but does not know what they need is.But all things have a change after his wife left. Ted starts working as a mother. He began to care about his child.The beginning of things is always difficult. At the beginning, he did not know how to cook breakfast; he does not know what grade his son; he lack the patience; his cooking is too hard to eat; he and son because the food fight.Ted started to accept the fact that his wife will not come back; and also started to learn how to be a responsible father. He is no longer the day and night workaholic, he became a qualified father. To the child, he does every effort: he tells the bedtime story to Billy; he put the blanket to Billy; he began to learn how to tell the reason to Billy; he took part in Family Day events; he taught Billy ride; because the meet with teacher, he walked out on a client during a majorpresentation; because Billy was sick, he missed a deadline on theMid-Atlantic account and causing his company a great deal of embarrassment and considerable financial liability.In the movie, there are two impressive events to me. The first is Billy injured, Ted holding him ran to find the hospital. Ted is the most nervous man. He has waited at Billy’s side. The second in the end, the lawsuit with Joanna, the unfortunate unemployed Ted needs to compete for custody, he had to make compromises, he relying in 24 hours to accept a work that can’t match his actual capacity.Finally, when the courts award custody of Joanna, Ted is still looking for the last ghost of a chance. He wants to fight. But the lawyer told him, Billy must appear in court. He gave up. Because of he did not want to hurt the child.Ted becomes a real father. He is the father of the most extraordinary in life. He told us:Women can have careers and ambitions, men can also have a motherly love. He is a brave, strong and gentle father. He is not tall and not special. He even will angry if you are too noisy, and he will make mistakes in a lot of things. But he loves you so much. This is one of the most important loves of the world.The third one is Billy. There is no doubt that he is a very important role in this movie.Billy is a naughty child but also sensible.He was only seven years old. Between the parents in the end, he does not know what happened. Just one night, his mother left him. Only father take care ofhim. His father is very stupid; father did not know how to cook French toast; father’s hand always is sweaty; father always ferocious.But after the letter, he knows his mother never will come back. Although he want as brave as a real man, he still miss his mother. He remembered the brand that his mother likes; he likes the team that from mother’s hometown; he misses his mother’s gentleness. He misses his mommy so much. He does not even know why his mother to leave. Because of he was bad? Or like his father said, only because his father?But the mother has not been back. He could only wait, been waiting for. Because he was just a child, all this is that he can not be changed.In this case, he could only increasingly dependent on his father. Father assumed the responsibility of the mother. His father became an indispensable part of life.This is an opportunity for father and son closer. He loved his father. In fact, he loved his parents. Although they did not live together.Roles are very important in the movie, lines are the same, I was impressed with some lines in the movie.“How much courage does it take to walk out on your kid?”This sentence is Ted asked Joanna’s friend Marguerite. Marguerite said that Joanna is very unhappy and it took a lot of courage to walk out the door. So Ted asks this question to Marguerite. She can’t answer it.As a mother, the child is extremely important. Even if you are not satisfied with the family, you do not need to leave the children.Children need mothers. Ted can not understand Joanna’s mind, and perhaps this is the reason they can not live together.What is the main reason that Joanna must leave? Lonely? Heavy housework? The snub of your husband? Or the desire for freedom? Maybe all of them."Daddy, you've really lost a lot of weight.” "And it's all gone to your nose."This sentence is from a joke that Ted told. He said Billy noticed Ted have lost weight.During that time, Ted had to work and had to take care of Billy. Life is composed of these small details.“She didn’t leave because of you. She left because of me.”After the argument, Billy asked Ted the reason that Joanna left.After long thought, Ted knows the reason. He always imposes his own ideas to Joanna, while ignoring her real mind. He kept trying to make Joanna be a certain kind of wife that I thought she was supposed to be. But she just wasn’t like that. And Joanna wants to talk to him, but he is so busy that can’t listen.“Don’t let the bedbugs bite.”I think this is a very important word in the film.At the beginning of the film, Joanna say goodnight to Billy, and said, “Don’t let the bedbugs bite.” And in the middle of the film, Billy said the word to Ted after the argument that for the ice cream. It’s a word for love. Joanna wanted to leave Billy, but she still loves him. Billy can not understand the pressure of his father at the beginning;and then he understands.“I came here to take my son home.” “And I realized he already is home.”Joanna won that case. And she got the custody. But she did not take him. She was moved for the word that Ted said in the court. Children need stable life. And they need love. A real family is loved to keep going.In fact, all are for the kids. Joanna would like to paint the walls in the new home of the clouds, ted no appeal. They all just want to give children a good environment to reduce the harm from children parents divorced.This is love.The film received numerous awards. I think the reason is not only because the very good actor, director and actress. This movie has deep meaning.This film also reflected the problems for American middle class in 70’s. At the time, family and career has more and more conflict. More and more couples have conflicts and even divorce. This caused great harm to the child. Thus, in the film after release, many Americans are emotionally. It reflects the reality of the matter, it teaches people how to face and solve this problem. It helps people learn how to care for children, and in the child's perspective to solve the problem.At this stage are also facing this problem. Along with economic development, family and career have more and more problems. Rising divorce rate and increasing the number of single-parent families, so westarted can not care about this issue.In this film, we can see the sorrow of single-parent families, and we can feel the harm to children from divorced parents. Don’t hurt the children. They are the ties of family.The film also reflects the feminist issues.At that time, more and more American family women can not stand the life that without pursuit and meaning. They are brave to leave the family, to pursue the true meaning of life. This is the awakening of feminist consciousness.And this film also helped people to feel what true love is. I think love is the final theme of the film.Men pursue their cause, and women pursue self-awakening. They are more or less done wrong. But family and love forgive them. Love is the most important part of one’s life. In this film, Billy is the representative of love. Children love you, and he needs you.From this movie, young people will think of their parents; middle-aged people will think of their children. Everyone can find their lives in this movie. I guess this is the reason that the film won the Oscar.In fact, very common theme of the film, the story is very simple. But it is indeed a successful movie. It lets us see love in ordinary life.Film is very light, life is very heavy. Each person's life is different, but there are still common. Film is to show that the bright spot to you. In fact, most people moving are the most ordinary things.Even if your wife left you; even if your husband does not always go home; even if you lose a job; even if you want to start a new life. Please believe that you have love, everything will be fine.Movies giveus hope; and let us also learn how to face life.Marriage is not a game; the child is not a toy. Life is very ordinary, but it has the deepest love.。
克莱默夫妇观后感
《克莱默夫妇观后感》一早就听说了克莱默夫妇的光辉历史，当年的五项奥斯卡大奖令许多影片难以望其项背，但是作为年轻人，很少会对反映社会现状的家庭剧感兴趣。
初看这部影片，是奔着这对夫妇去的，但是看完之后发现，情节十分普通：两夫妇离婚之后在争夺孩子抚养权的时候，一家三口如何改变自己，重新面对生活。
女主角出场甚少，最多的出场是在影片开始：梅丽尔·斯特里普，用短短的五分钟，把一个尚未成熟的母亲——乔安娜被丈夫泰德抢了行李而不敢纠缠，无奈流泪而去的形象表现得淋漓尽致，镜头视野清晰，细节细腻，简单易懂，不拖泥带水。
其实，很多观众都会觉得这部电影用《克莱默父子》作为片名更为合适，导演故意把克莱默父子作为单一的视角来叙述整个故事，如此，便减少夫妻离异后冗长的情绪描写，导演让女主角消失，为的就是突出父子之间缺少爱，而后从父子之间的相处入手，父子两人的生活从开始的乌烟瘴气到后来的平淡温馨，从开始的争执到后来的欢笑，而每一次争吵都是以比利要找妈咪结束，每一次感情却在睡前的倾诉中升华。
一次次的争吵之后，彼此最终感受到来两人之间埋藏在心底深深的爱。
其中那段比利抱着冰激凌对着泰德挑衅，由此引发了两人之间最激烈的冲突，也完成了两人彼此内心最深的了解。
比利哭着问爸爸是不是因为自己的不乖而导致了妈妈的离开，这是每一个经历过父母离婚的孩子都会有的想法，泰德看到了这一幕终于放下心防，轻声诉说着深藏在内心深处的自责。
之后争夺抚养权的事情还是闹上了法庭，影片的高潮出现在庭审辩论阶段，对话很精彩，感情的抒发也很到位，男女主角许多没有说出的话在这一刻也都喷涌而出。
影片花费20分钟的时间刻画这一过程，夫妻之间没有争吵，一切伤害的话都出现在法庭上，很巧妙，很讽刺，也很值得思考。
主题还是夫妻双方，有了沟通，就有了一切。
因为生活因为时间，我们彼此都不再在乎对方的感受，生活不只是爱,更多的牵绊，更多的繁琐让我们无暇顾及对方，让我们觉得爱在慢慢消逝,终于崩溃的时候，一切无可挽回。
克莱默夫妇观后感
克莱默夫妇观后感今天，我看了一部叫做《克莱默夫妇》的电影。
这是一部感人至深的电影，让我反思了很多东西。
影片讲述了一个叫做约翰和琳达的夫妇生活中的故事。
他们原本是两个互相独立的人，但随着年龄的增长，他们的生活开始出现了一些危机。
约翰的记忆开始退化，他患上了阿尔茨海默症。
琳达开始照顾他，这个过程中，他们的关系也变得更加亲密。
电影真实地描绘了阿尔茨海默症患者和他们家庭成员的生活。
我认为电影通过这种方式告诉我们，一定要珍惜自己的生命和时间，因为时间是无法回来的。
同时，我们也要珍惜身边的人和他们对我们的爱。
约翰的病痛虽然很痛苦，但最让他感到痛苦的事情是他无法记住身边的人，他不再是那个可以照顾家庭的约翰。
这样的痛苦感是所有人都不希望经历的。
电影中，琳达一直在照顾约翰，这是一种真正的关爱和牺牲。
在现代社会中，我们往往更加注重物质财富和自我实现。
但这部电影让我想起了亲情和爱情，这些东西要比物质财富更加珍贵。
我们往往忽略了身边的爱，但在关键时刻，这就是温暖我们内心的东西。
另外，电影中还有些细节让我十分感动。
比如说，当约翰开始在街上走失时，琳达到处去找他。
而当她终于找到他时，她用手给他照相，告诉他这是他们的家。
这一幕让我更加深刻地感受到了这对夫妇的深情。
总的来说，电影中的情节丰富，表现手法细腻，可以让人们深入思考很多。
生命是无价的，时间也是一样。
我们应该给自己的人生留下美好的回忆，同时也要关心身边的人，珍惜他们的存在。
这样才能真正活在当下，活出自己最好的人生。
【影视随感】是一种对抗，也是一种平衡——《克莱默夫妇》
【影视随感】是一种对抗，也是一种平衡——《克莱默夫妇》电影越看越老了，这部《克莱默夫妇》是1979年的作品，大咖达斯汀霍夫曼和梅丽尔斯特里普主演。
都是实力派。
以前听到“中年危机”这个词，觉得就是矫情。
是《Shall we dance》里理查基尔演的“中年男人都过着平静而绝望的生活”的那种无病呻吟。
他的生活已经足够的好，大牌律师，大house，儿女双全，爱他的妻子……妥妥的中产，他只是觉得生活不再有激情，厌倦了这种一成不变，而实际上他也已经失去从头再来的勇气。
所以才有点丧。
他需要的是生活的调味品，并不想要重组秩序。
这不是矫情是什么呢？什么中年危机，不过是内心的欲望太多。
但是，克莱默先生的中年危机确实猝不及防。
事业刚有起色妻子却提出离婚并毅然离家出走，留下一脸蒙圈的泰德。
生活也乱成了一团糟，又要上班又要带娃，虽然艰难但慢慢地，他与儿子的生活渐渐稳定和谐，感情也日渐深厚。
但工作就没那么幸运了，人的精力总是有限的，顾此失彼，因为儿子高烧他错过了与客户公司的约谈，使公司遭受了巨大的损失，在与妻子的监护权案开庭前几天他被老板开除了。
更是雪上加霜。
据说拍这部电影时，达斯汀霍夫曼正在经历离婚，他本不想接这部戏的，看了剧本以后他决定接，也许是为了自我救赎。
在这部电影里，我看到三观相同的重要性，即使泰德与妻子沟通很好，只要不改变，他们还是不会幸福。
当儿子问爸爸：“妈妈为什么离开？是因为我不听话她才离开的吗？”这真的让人心痛，所有的孩子都会这样以为，以为爸妈吵架或者家庭变故都是因为自己不乖不好，所以会有愧疚感。
其实不是这样，大人并不总是正确，不，大人经常犯错，还不自知。
克莱默先生回答的很好啊，他说：“不，不是你的错。
我不知道这样解释你能不能懂，爸爸一心想要妈妈做贤妻良母，她其实不想过这样的日子，但爸爸也一直没有时间听她说话，我一心忙着事业，以为我开心她就开心了。
但不是这样，妈妈除了当妈妈，她还想做她想做的其他事情。
妈妈早就想走了，但是她爱你，她非常爱你，她才没走，不是因为爸爸，是因为爱你。
《克莱默夫妇》观后感
克莱默夫妇观后感影片讲述的故事很普通，一心扑在工作上的达斯汀·霍夫曼对家庭妇女梅丽尔·斯特里普关心不够，导致她抛夫弃子愤而出走。
霍夫曼只能一个人带儿子，在经历了种种混乱生活之后两人的生活刚刚步上正轨，而霍夫曼因为要带孩子经常耽误工作，被公司炒了鱿鱼。
此时经历了心理治疗并找到了工作的斯特里普突然出现，并为了要回孩子的监护权而将霍夫曼告上法庭。
虽然霍夫曼败诉，但斯特里普终于意识到父子情深，决定不再硬把孩子带走。
《克莱默夫妇》以情动人，反映出七十年代美国出现的单亲家庭以及由此引起的种种问题，题材严肃但处理不失幽默笔触，上映后，立即就在欧美各国引起了热烈的反响，并获得了五项奥斯卡大奖。
影片之所以能取得如此大的成功，其重要原因之一就在于它的题材和主题深刻地触及了社会现实，从而具有了发人深思的艺术效果。
影片反映了美国社会中一个相当普遍的问题：家庭婚姻问题。
之前的美国家庭伦理电影所大肆宣扬的女主角的品德都来自于女性的自我意识对家庭、社会的服从，宣扬着男权主义的道德规范。
而在影片拍摄的时代，女性解放的社会背景使所谓的“美国梦”模式看起来专制且虚伪。
也许，影片真正的成功在于它所反映的社会问题：女权主义的感召下，美国千千万万家庭妇女走向社会，追求自身价值引起的家庭问题。
个人的理想、事业与家庭生活之间的矛盾导致了夫妇冲突和家庭离异的悲剧。
这在当时的美国具有深厚的现实基础。
同时影片还涉及到了西方社会中的一个十分敏感的问题：妇女解放问题。
在影片的深层含义上，导演对男女两性的关系如何调整、如何实现以及妇女应如何保卫自己的独立个性和追求生活意义等问题作了深入的探讨，这也是影片的意义之所在。
在我看来，《克莱默夫妇》为鼓吹女权主义运动所做的的工作甚至更加重要。
影片正面刻画的是以霍夫曼为代表的中产阶级男人的问题：婚姻的七年之痒、工作和家庭的关系、父子关系等等，而隐含的叙述则是以斯特里普为代表的千千万万美国家庭妇女们在女权主义感召下，走出家庭而去寻找自我的意义。
克莱默夫妇 英文影评
"Kramer vs. Kramer" is the kind of movie which grows on you. It is so well made that you may not be aware at the time how much skill and artistry have gone into it.It is a whole bunch of other movies rolled into one, but it is not derivative. It is definitely singular. It covers old ground with integrity and a high degree of insight.It takes familiar people, familiar situations and then treats them with a mixture of intelligence and art rarely combined on the screen.The movie is about the breakup of a marriage, about two people who drifted apart without knowing it at the time, about their child who is caught in the crossfire, about their friends and--most of all--about characters who grow and change.It is that last aspect of "Kramer vs. Kramer" which make all the other aspects come together in something other than the soap opera the ingredients suggest.The film says much without preaching, is a product of our times without being trendy.Screenwriter-director Robert Benton has managed to strip away everything from the story except what really counts.Nestor Almendros' photography zeros in on people in a way to stress their isolation, their moods. The spare music, bits of Purcell and Vivaldi, add to the atmosphere.Most of all, "Kramer vs. Kramer" is blessed with one of the best casts ever assembled for a movie.Dustin Hoffman plays Ted Kramer, a successful ad agency executive with success-bent workaholic habits.Meryl Streep is Joanna, his wife, whose quiet desperation over her loss of identity and self worth have gone unnoticed by her husband.The movie opens on the isolated image of the sad faced mother saying good night and, as it turns out, goodbye as well to her sleeping son, Billy (Justin Henry).In spite of her action, some sympathy will be with her in the beginning because of her husband's unawareness, his we'll-talk-about-it-tomorrow attitude.>From there on the film becomes the story of a growing father-son relationship. In a series of short, sometimes funny, often poignant scenes, the two learn to cope with life and with each other.There is a gradual transition from awkwardness to harmony, from independence to mutual dependence. Ted Kramer changes from ad man to father, and as priorities shift, his career goes down the drain.There are wonderful father-son scenes-- confrontation, fun and sadness.One particularly moving moment occurs when the father assures his son that the boy's mother did not leave because of dislike for the boy, butthat it was his, the father's fault.When Joanna Kramer re-enters the movie two-thirds of the way through to claim her son, sympathy will have shifted entirely to the father. The ensuing court battle has its moments of nastiness, but there are indications -- a look, a half phrase -- of a lingering affection and respect if not love.Benton presents it as a no-win situation, inflicts no one with a villain label.The ending may seem contrived, an attempt to make everyone happy. But it is also an ending which goes full circle with its image of sadness and frustration.Hoffman has never been better. All the nuances are there--cockiness, anger, worry, determination, sadness --without giving the impression of overacting.Meryl Streep, in a brief role, once again shows what a skillful actress can do. There are few performers who can express pain and joy with a look, a glance the way she can.Jane Alexander is perfect as the neighbor with affection for both parties. Howard Duff as the attorney manages to let you know that he's a high priced lawyer even before he mentions his fee.But it is young Justin Henry who Is the miracle of the movie. His mood, his actions and reactions, his laughter, his tears are right for every scene.He gives the impression that the camera was eavesdropping on real life. It's possible that "Kramer vs. Kramer" will evoke reactions colored by the sex and/or experiences of each particular viewer.But I can think of no other of the growing group of movies about marital relationships which treats each of the parties with greater objectivity, with fewer attempts at setting up a good vs. evil situation.。
电影《克莱默夫妇》观后感
电影《克莱默夫妇》观后感受够了快速而又乏善可陈的生活节奏，若偶尔能欣赏到一部简单却能激荡心灵的电影便会让人得到精神上的宽慰和灵魂深处的释放。
当我看完《克莱默夫妇》这部电影的时候，我深知它有让我宽慰和释放的魅力。
影片《克莱默夫妇》的故事情节并不复杂，它讲述了一个度过七年之痒的美国普通夫妇的感情生活．男主人公泰德是一家公司的高级职员，在激烈竞争的美国社会里，他辛苦地为了维持这个家疲于奔命，却忽视了妻子的感情．在他职务晋升之际，妻子乔安娜却要离他而去．留下了年幼的儿子。
妻子的出走，对一向自信的泰德是个沉重的打击．面对天真的儿子和繁琐而陌生的家务事他乱了方寸,束手无策克莱默先生不得不开始又当爹，又当妈的生活。
在这段日子里，克莱默先生克服了生活与工作上的种种麻烦，父子俩越来越亲密，互相依赖。
一年半后，事业有成的太太回到纽约，昔日夫妻开始了一场夺子大战。
法庭上的抚养权争夺战，律师们之间为达目的的唇枪舌剑，刀刀见血。
当泰德的律师严厉的质问乔安娜“你人生中最重要最长久的婚姻关系是失败的，是不是？”，乔安娜泪流满面，而看着前妻的泰德向她示意着“不”。
婚姻的结束，并不代表这对爱人有多失败，反而使他们，在法庭上，通过那些尖锐的问题，进一步的理解彼此，理解彼此对于贝利的爱，是如此真实而深刻。
虽然妻子乔安娜回来为争夺儿子的抚养权和泰德打了一场官司，并赢了官司，可在影片的结尾她为泰德父子的真情所感动又准备放弃抚养权．影片并没提示克莱默夫妇能否重新牵手，而是把这一空间遐想留给了观众，意味悠远。
我们总是需要站在故事的环境和时代去体会，才能感知作品的真谛。
无论东西方的文化背景有着怎样地千差万别,但所有的离婚对孩子的伤害无疑是最大的。
影片反映了现实社会中一个相当普遍的问题：婚姻与个人的理想之间的矛盾。
影片涉及到了一个十分敏感的问题：女人就要相夫教子？就要为家庭牺牲自己的追求？女人如何保卫自己的独立个性，如何追求生活意义？男人如何发展自己的事业又兼顾家庭呢？《克莱默夫妇》让我们不得不去思考这些问题。
克莱默夫妇观后感(英文)
I am deeply impressed by the movie Kramer vs. Kramer with its plots. Furthermore, it perfectly reflects the present family conflicts which do exist nowadays.Men are used to be considered as the bread hunter of each family. By the same token to Ted. Ted received a big customer, if he succeed ,the boss would add his shares of the company and promote him as the next creative director. However, Success can not stop the failure of marriage . He was just such a hard working person that he couldn't realize his family conflicts had been so serious that his wife decided to leave him as well as her beloved son. Through trial and error, he finally could build a life together with his son Billy. What's more, the stereotypes of our society have forced us to think that man is naturally not a better parent than woman. But we can see that, Ted had proved that was wrong, and he eventually found that the loving relationship between Billy and him would be unshakable and eternal.Joanna was the symbol to all of the housewives. Her behaviors had best demonstrated a woman's protest for being neglected as a person with no right to live an independent life. After Leaving a year, She came back to compete for his son's custody. So the couple had to go to court . Finally, Joanna won. However, she gave up custody of the children. Because she had seen that her husband is no longer the only know to make money workaholic. Being a good parent, it has to do withconstancy, patience, listening, confidence as well as love. His husband Ted made it. In the end, She chose to give up. Sometimes, give up is more. Nowadays, many wives no longer spend all their time in housekeeping as well as baby sitting. Not only would they struggle to find their own identity in the society, but also build their career lives.In my poor opinion, all the family members should talk to confide what have happened and what they think in their mind, which is a best way to maintain our family relationship.。
克莱默夫妇英语作文
克莱默夫妇英语作文Title: The Kramer's Journey: A Tale of Love, Trials, and Triumphs。
In the bustling city of New York, amidst the cacophony of urban life, there exists a couple whose story is nothing short of extraordinary. The Kramers, John and Emily, embody resilience, love, and the unwavering spirit to overcomelife's challenges.Their journey began like many others, with dreams as vast as the endless skyline of their city. John, a determined young man with a passion for finance, and Emily, an aspiring artist with a heart full of creativity, met serendipitously in a crowded coffee shop in downtown Manhattan. Sparks flew, conversations flowed, and soon they found themselves inseparable.As they embarked on their journey together, life threw its curveballs their way. Financial setbacks, careeruncertainties, and personal struggles tested their bond,but each obstacle only strengthened their resolve to stand by each other's side.John, with his keen intellect and relentless work ethic, climbed the corporate ladder, navigating the cutthroatworld of Wall Street with determination and integrity. Meanwhile, Emily poured her soul into her art, using her paintings as a canvas to express her deepest emotions and connect with the world around her.Their love was a beacon of hope in the face of adversity, a reminder that together they could weather any storm. Through job losses, health scares, and family crises, they remained each other's rock, offering unwaveringsupport and unwavering love.But their greatest challenge came unexpectedly when Emily was diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disease. Overnight, their world was turned upside down as they grappled with the uncertainty of her health and thedaunting reality of medical bills piling up.Yet, in the face of adversity, the Kramers refused to succumb to despair. Instead, they rallied together, drawing strength from their love and resilience. John becameEmily's unwavering caregiver, attending every doctor's appointment, researching treatments, and providing a shoulder to lean on when the weight of illness became too much to bear.Emily, in turn, found solace in her art, channeling her pain and fear onto the canvas, transforming her struggles into a source of beauty and inspiration. Her paintings, once a form of self-expression, now became a beacon of hope for others facing similar battles, reminding them that even in the darkest of times, there is light to be found.Together, they faced each day with courage and grace, refusing to let illness define their lives. And slowly, but surely, Emily's health began to improve, her strength returning with each passing day.Today, as they stand hand in hand, gazing out at thecity skyline that has witnessed their journey, the Kramers are a testament to the power of love, resilience, and unwavering determination. They are proof that no matter how daunting the road may seem, with love as their compass, they can conquer any obstacle that comes their way.In the end, theirs is not just a story of love, but of triumph over adversity, a reminder that even in the darkest of times, there is always hope for a brighter tomorrow.。
克莱默夫妇(Kramer VS. Kramer)影评
A man has as much emotion as a woman does---Appreciation of Kramer VS. Kramer□Ken LeungI have watched this movie, Kramer vs. Kramer, for three times and sincerely speaking I like it. It so happens that the love between Ted and his son touches me the most. Some reviewers say that Ted and his son, Billy, are wonderful together as these two characters trying to deal with a life without their wife and mother and their relationship is the cornerstone of the film and one that people will envy. It is true that the love between Ted and Billy is so deep that Ted felt the happiness to be a father and tried very hard to be a good one. Though Ted had to give the custody of Billy to his wife at last, it did not mean that his love for Billy was less than his ex-wife, J oanna’s. What I want to express is that a man has as much emotion as a woman does.I am not in favor of feminism because it seems radical to me. I acknowledge that discrimination and inequality to women do exist in modern society and I strongly support tha t women’s rights should be protected. However, things should never be over-exaggerated. Obviously, this movie talks about something of women’s rights, and Joanna has nothing to blame for. But I do have much more sympathy on Ted because of the love he shows as a father.Ted is an ambitious and hardworking advertising man. He is so busy that he fails to communicate with his wife and thus making his wife, Joanna, very unhappy. When Joanna could not stand the role as a complete household wife and do not love Ted any more, she determines to leave Ted and their son. Ted tries to keep her but fails. After that Ted has to look after his son by himself. He does not know how to cook and do shopping at first, but later he becomes familiar with these chores. Ted and his son gradually develop a very close relationship during this period. Through this movie, there are quite a few examples to show Ted’s love of his son, Billy.When Billy did not follow Ted’s order and started to ice cream, Ted became angry and threw Billy to his bed and they had a quarrel. But late in the evening, Ted came into Billy’s room. The father and the son forgive each other and theirrelationship was deepened. From this part we can see that Ted sometimes may be strict to Billy, but he loves Billy de eply. Father’s love does not like mothers. Robert Hayden once wrote in his short poem Those Winter Sundays that “Sundays too my father got up early; and put his clothes on in the blue-black cold; then with cracked hands that ached; from labor in the weekday weather made; banked fires blaze. No one ever thanked him. I'd wake and hear the cold splintering, breaking. When the rooms were warm，he'd call; and slowly I would rise and dress; fearing the chronic angers of that house; Speaking indifferently to him; who had driven out the cold; and polished my good shoes as well. What did I know，what did I know; of love's austere and lonely offices”.From this poem we can see that father’s love is not always certain and easy to be understood by the kids. However, it is out of sk eptical. Ted’s love of Billy is father’s love, but it is no less than Joanna’s.Ted often takes Billy out to play, but one day Billy falls off a jungle gym and has a severe accident. Ted picks up Billy and runs to a nearby hospital. In the movie, we can se e Ted’s anxieties of and worries about his son. When Joanna comes back and wants Billy back, Ted refuses to give him up, so they decided to go to court. At the same time, Ted was fired by his boss, thus putting him at disadvantage in court. Ted gets right into action and finally found a job before the opening of the court. Ted tried so hard to find a job and fight for the custody of his son because he loves Billy and did not want to separate with him.“I’d like to know......what law says a woman is a better parent simply by virtue of her sex? I’ve had time to think about what makes a good parent. It has to do with constancy. It has to do with patience......listening to him......or pretending to listen when you can't anymore. It has to do with love like she was saying. I don't know where it says a woman has a corner on that market......that a man has any less of those emotions than a woman. Billy has a home with me. I've made it the best I could. It's not perfect. I'm not a perfect parent. Sometimes I don't have enough patience and I forget that he's a little kid. But I'm there. We eat breakfast and he talks to me and then we go to school. At night we have dinner together and we talk and I read to him and.....And we built a life together and we love each other.”This is what Ted Kramer states in the court. I think this statement represents the father’s deep love of his son and viewers can not help sympathizing toward Ted. We get to know that Ted become a good father from just only a family-provider. Just like what Ted argued, it is unfair to say woman is a better parent merely because of her sex.A man also has the right to love his son and his emotion is no less than a woman’s.。
《克莱默夫妇》观后感
《克莱默夫妇》观后感第一篇：《克莱默夫妇》观后感《克莱默夫妇》观后感——婚姻之我见《克莱默夫妇》的影片分类属于一部亲情片、爱情片，但是我更喜欢把它归为社会片一类。
第52届奥斯卡的大赢家囊获了5项桂冠，可谓是红极一时，当然那个年代离我们90后来说可算是遥远的，现在把老片重看并不会减退影片本身的价值，反而会给年轻人更多的思考空间。
我喜欢看社会片，能反应社会某一方面特点的影片，因为人生存在社会之中，不可能做到所谓的出世势必会受社会影响，与其让社会给强加给你社会价值还不如自己主动去了解这个社会的价值是什么？言归正传，克莱默夫妇讲述了由于父母对于家庭和孩子有着不同的价值观，导致了母亲乔安娜的离开，父亲不得不独自照顾幼子，在这期间父亲和孩子之间的情感愈加深厚，而与此同时母亲回来希望将孩子带走，最后父亲与母亲因为孩子监护权的问题对簿公堂，母亲胜诉，但是母亲最终还是放弃了监护权。
在电影中有几处是值得我们思考的，第一，夫妻双方对于家庭的不同价值取向，在电影中父亲在婚后承担着家庭的重担，维持整个家庭的生计，母亲是一名全职太太，原本看似没有问题，但是问题的症结在于，母亲并不愿意做一名全职太太，她有她自己宏大的职业构想，她作为一名全职太太完全是因为迁就家庭，由此夫妻之间就产生一系列后续问题。
其实在我看来，婚姻的前提之一就是“求同存异”若不能找到共同点，并且处理好不同点，婚姻将很难维持长久，结婚前双方应该对于婚后家庭生活和各自职业选择有明确的沟通和交流，但是其中一方的妥协几乎是必然的，问题在于妥协的一方是愿意的，而且重要的是真的愿意这么做，婚姻是双方的，一加一并不都等于二，可能大于二也可能小于零。
良好的沟通是家庭成员紧密联系的前提，才能使家庭的最大效应得到发挥。
第二，如果第一点是影片中反应出的负面影响的话，那么显然第二点是正面的是积极的，影片中当母亲离开了这个家庭，父亲之后便身兼二角，又是母亲又是父亲，甚至因为忙碌的工作和家庭关系并未处理好而丢掉了原本的工作，但是在这过程中父爱的伟大得以彰显，其实当母亲离开父亲完全可以不承担母亲的职责，继续做他的“父亲”一心工作养家，孩子可以交给父母、保姆或者让其自立，但是主人公没有采取上述的行为，他决心亲自带孩子，并且给与他和其他孩子相同的家庭之爱。
克莱默夫妇读后感
克莱默夫妇读后感导读: 克莱默夫妇读后感（一）昨晚观看《克莱默夫妇》，是因为《正面管教》第四章给我的推荐。
获奥斯卡多项奖项。
乔安娜全职妈妈，在带孩子的过程中觉得失去了自己，心情抑郁，丈夫泰德工作繁忙，对孩子和妻子淡漠，没有关注关心。
让妻子乔安娜抑郁不得解脱。
乔安娜觉得自己心情糟透了，甚至有心理疾病的趋向，便万般不舍的离开了孩子比利离开了丈夫泰德，离开了结婚生活了八年的家，去寻找自己。
丈夫泰德从此既当爹又当妈，刚开始，照顾孩子，完全没有套路，不懂打鸡蛋、不懂拿锅铲、不懂和孩子相处而发出我恨你的怒吼，送孩子去幼儿园行色匆匆对孩子幼儿生活没有一点儿的了解。
因为要照顾孩子，多次迟到，甚至把公司的大客户弄丢，让公司蒙受损失。
继而遭到公司的资遣解雇。
渐渐的，泰德这个既当爹又当妈的爸爸貌似带孩子娴熟了很多。
而且成熟了很多，当孩子为了得到繁忙的老爸的关注，不良行为发生了，果汁弄湿了文件，惹爸爸生气，更惹比利失去归属感和价值感，从而怒吼我狠你，爬行动物脑的爸爸也报之以我也狠你。
双方进入报复循环（正面管教里拿此部电影做案例）。
但第二天早上醒来，父子俩非常冷静的一番对话，让人很感动。
互相以尊重对方尊重事实的谈话，让父子关系有了明显的改观。
早上起来，各自小便后，比利帮忙准备早餐，自己像个大人一样跟爸爸一起坐下吃早餐看书。
俨然是个很了不起的7岁小大人。
面对妈妈的相片，对比利说当别人跟你说对不起时不要计较，不要让对方难过。
念妈妈的信给比利听，虽然身边没有妈妈，让比利心中有妈妈。
比例玩耍受伤后，要缝针，嘴中不断要求爸爸陪伴。
泰德也跟医生争取了缝针时候一定陪着比利的身边。
陪伴的力量。
乔安娜，去进行了心里治疗，回到纽约，觉得自己状态变好了，决定争取孩子的监护权。
夫妻对簿公堂。
法庭上原告妻子的一番话，让泰德意识到了自己过往对家庭的忽视对妻子的忽视，觉得是自己的过错。
同时法庭上的泰德也道出了自己对孩子的爱不亚于母亲，没有哪个权威的机构组织规定表明母亲一定比父亲更爱孩子。
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Kramer vs. KramerThis is no doubt that a successful film. It released in 1979. And received the 1980 Academy Award for best film, best director and best actor and best supporting actress. This is a movie about family and marriage.Lonely wife decided to leave her busy husband. Husband began to learn how to take care of the child. 18 months later, the wife returned. She wants to regain Billy. In the climax of the story, the couple on the court in order to compete the custody of the child.I think the good role is the vey important reason that this film cans successes. Three very simple, but make up a touching story.Joanna Kramer is an ordinary housewife, but she did not want to do ordinary things. She decided to leave home, because she felt she could not stay in that family. She is a very unhappy woman. In her mind, she only has one way. I don’t know it is right or wrong, but I think Joanna must have been a long-term consideration that such a difficult decision. Joanna is a tragic figure, as she is still a brave person. After years of married life, she felt stifled and lonely. She did not want to just focus on the family life; she wants freedom and hard work. So she chose to leave, to find a new different life. The end of the movie, she finally succeeded. Yes, she was successful at work, but in the family, she failed. For the failed marriage and escape is not the solution. In my opinion, she left her husband is right, but she should not left her child. Billy was still in elementary school, he needs his mother. Even how much you are not happy, this is between you andyour husband do, nothing to do with the children. He should grow up carefree. A tragic marriage only brings harm, especially for children, and themselves.Ted seems to always busy and no time to listen to his wife. He work day and night, and thought a successful career, more money is the best gift to his family. But he did not know what the real need of his wife is. He didn’t even know the reason that his wife left him. He did not know where she was going, and did not know when she will come back. In addition to the family, he did not know his wife. This explains why Joanna to leave him. I think ted is also a tragic figure. He is not love his wife and son, he wanted to give them a better life, but does not know what they need is.But all things have a change after his wife left. Ted starts working as a mother. He began to care about his child.The beginning of things is always difficult. At the beginning, he did not know how to cook breakfast; he does not know what grade his son; he lack the patience; his cooking is too hard to eat; he and son because the food fight.Ted started to accept the fact that his wife will not come back; and also started to learn how to be a responsible father. He is no longer the day and night workaholic, he became a qualified father. To the child, he does every effort: he tells the bedtime story to Billy; he put the blanket to Billy; he began to learn how to tell the reason to Billy; he took part in Family Day events; he taught Billy ride; because the meet with teacher, he walked out on a client during a majorpresentation; because Billy was sick, he missed a deadline on theMid-Atlantic account and causing his company a great deal of embarrassment and considerable financial liability.In the movie, there are two impressive events to me. The first is Billy injured, Ted holding him ran to find the hospital. Ted is the most nervous man. He has waited at Billy’s side. The second in the end, the lawsuit with Joanna, the unfortunate unemployed Ted needs to compete for custody, he had to make compromises, he relying in 24 hours to accept a work that can’t match his actual capacity.Finally, when the courts award custody of Joanna, Ted is still looking for the last ghost of a chance. He wants to fight. But the lawyer told him, Billy must appear in court. He gave up. Because of he did not want to hurt the child.Ted becomes a real father. He is the father of the most extraordinary in life. He told us:Women can have careers and ambitions, men can also have a motherly love. He is a brave, strong and gentle father. He is not tall and not special. He even will angry if you are too noisy, and he will make mistakes in a lot of things. But he loves you so much. This is one of the most important loves of the world.The third one is Billy. There is no doubt that he is a very important role in this movie.Billy is a naughty child but also sensible.He was only seven years old. Between the parents in the end, he does not know what happened. Just one night, his mother left him. Only father take care ofhim. His father is very stupid; father did not know how to cook French toast; father’s hand always is sweaty; father always ferocious.But after the letter, he knows his mother never will come back. Although he want as brave as a real man, he still miss his mother. He remembered the brand that his mother likes; he likes the team that from mother’s hometown; he misses his mother’s gentleness. He misses his mommy so much. He does not even know why his mother to leave. Because of he was bad? Or like his father said, only because his father?But the mother has not been back. He could only wait, been waiting for. Because he was just a child, all this is that he can not be changed.In this case, he could only increasingly dependent on his father. Father assumed the responsibility of the mother. His father became an indispensable part of life.This is an opportunity for father and son closer. He loved his father. In fact, he loved his parents. Although they did not live together.Roles are very important in the movie, lines are the same, I was impressed with some lines in the movie.“How much courage does it take to walk out on your kid?”This sentence is Ted asked Joanna’s friend Marguerite. Marguerite said that Joanna is very unhappy and it took a lot of courage to walk out the door. So Ted asks this question to Marguerite. She can’t answer it.As a mother, the child is extremely important. Even if you are not satisfied with the family, you do not need to leave the children.Children need mothers. Ted can not understand Joanna’s mind, and perhaps this is the reason they can not live together.What is the main reason that Joanna must leave? Lonely? Heavy housework? The snub of your husband? Or the desire for freedom? Maybe all of them."Daddy, you've really lost a lot of weight.” "And it's all gone to your nose."This sentence is from a joke that Ted told. He said Billy noticed Ted have lost weight.During that time, Ted had to work and had to take care of Billy. Life is composed of these small details.“She didn’t leave because of you. She left because of me.”After the argument, Billy asked Ted the reason that Joanna left.After long thought, Ted knows the reason. He always imposes his own ideas to Joanna, while ignoring her real mind. He kept trying to make Joanna be a certain kind of wife that I thought she was supposed to be. But she just wasn’t like that. And Joanna wants to talk to him, but he is so busy that can’t listen.“Don’t let the bedbugs bite.”I think this is a very important word in the film.At the beginning of the film, Joanna say goodnight to Billy, and said, “Don’t let the bedbugs bite.” And in the middle of the film, Billy said the word to Ted after the argument that for the ice cream. It’s a word for love. Joanna wanted to leave Billy, but she still loves him. Billy can not understand the pressure of his father at the beginning;and then he understands.“I came here to take my son home.” “And I realized he already is home.”Joanna won that case. And she got the custody. But she did not take him. She was moved for the word that Ted said in the court. Children need stable life. And they need love. A real family is loved to keep going.In fact, all are for the kids. Joanna would like to paint the walls in the new home of the clouds, ted no appeal. They all just want to give children a good environment to reduce the harm from children parents divorced.This is love.The film received numerous awards. I think the reason is not only because the very good actor, director and actress. This movie has deep meaning.This film also reflected the problems for American middle class in 70’s. At the time, family and career has more and more conflict. More and more couples have conflicts and even divorce. This caused great harm to the child. Thus, in the film after release, many Americans are emotionally. It reflects the reality of the matter, it teaches people how to face and solve this problem. It helps people learn how to care for children, and in the child's perspective to solve the problem.At this stage are also facing this problem. Along with economic development, family and career have more and more problems. Rising divorce rate and increasing the number of single-parent families, so westarted can not care about this issue.In this film, we can see the sorrow of single-parent families, and we can feel the harm to children from divorced parents. Don’t hurt the children. They are the ties of family.The film also reflects the feminist issues.At that time, more and more American family women can not stand the life that without pursuit and meaning. They are brave to leave the family, to pursue the true meaning of life. This is the awakening of feminist consciousness.And this film also helped people to feel what true love is. I think love is the final theme of the film.Men pursue their cause, and women pursue self-awakening. They are more or less done wrong. But family and love forgive them. Love is the most important part of one’s life. In this film, Billy is the representative of love. Children love you, and he needs you.From this movie, young people will think of their parents; middle-aged people will think of their children. Everyone can find their lives in this movie. I guess this is the reason that the film won the Oscar.In fact, very common theme of the film, the story is very simple. But it is indeed a successful movie. It lets us see love in ordinary life.Film is very light, life is very heavy. Each person's life is different, but there are still common. Film is to show that the bright spot to you. In fact, most people moving are the most ordinary things.Even if your wife left you; even if your husband does not always go home; even if you lose a job; even if you want to start a new life. Please believe that you have love, everything will be fine.Movies giveus hope; and let us also learn how to face life.Marriage is not a game; the child is not a toy. Life is very ordinary, but it has the deepest love.。