英语演讲:情Love范文
英语演讲稿《情Love》
英语演讲稿《情Love》Ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there have been myriads of diversifed inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mysteries of the universe. In fact, the human beings are so intelligent that we have solved almost all kinds of problems we have confronted with .However, nobody has ever made out what the word “love” really connotes, not even the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosophers can clarify the meaning of “love”, neither can they deal with the various affairs concerning love. Love is like a huge boundless net that shrouds us all in. We can neither break away from it nor escape from it. Like it or not, we are always entangled in it. It is an invisible net without any form, that shrouds in different people from different angels; It is a merciless net that upsets us or even tortures us to death. It is also a supreme net which almost no human can surpass. Even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can do nothing but show their helplessness in its face. Those who can breathe through the holes of the net should be regardedbeyond commonness and vulgarity. Love can bring us temporary comfort and happiness, but mostly they bring about annoyance and sufferings. Maybe this is the reason why many people have seen through the illusions of the mortal world. However it is not so easy to break away from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent net of love.Love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into three categories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. Not like Monkey King who jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mother's pregnancy of about nine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: parents, grand-parents, and grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers and sisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, we'll see no end. Family love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from our beloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. But how many of us are determined to contribute to our beloved one? And how many don't expect repayment and relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation to contribute to their beloved. The distance between relatives is different and so are their expectations. But since it's very difficult to know how much we should expect, a lot ofworries and distresses emerge.Parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or at least pay them frequent visits after they have got married. If the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and upset, and they'll even complain about their children, because they just can't understand why their children don't care about them after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring them up. Nevertheless, one's experience determines his ideology. Young children are naturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially when they have made their own friends, and got married, what they need most is independence and freedom, and parents sometimes might become their burden. Once there is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to communicate and this keeps them away from their parents. Objectively speaking, they need more independence in order to achieve success. In the present society, what the children want to have most is the economic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance. They would complain if your economic support is not up to their expectations. The love from uncles and aunties would naturally dwindle after they have had their own children. Only the love from grand-parents and grand parents-in-law is pure and demands no repayment, and they are also too old to wait for any repayment. As for the distant relatives, their love depends on their needs, just as the old saying goes “The poor have no friends even if they live in downtown while the rich have distant relatives even if they live in deep mountains”. Granny Liu, a distant kinsfolk, in ADream of the Red Mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy Jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. Liu might have run away without any traces if the Jia family had been a poor one. Another saying goes “Close neighbors are better than distant relatives.” The most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the TV series program Liu Laogen discloses. It is all right to stay poor together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will become estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. Family love is like a maze which we shouldn't go too far into it, otherwise, we'll surely get lost. Love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead you to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. Family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. Due to the differentexperiences and tastes, staying together temporarily can be entertaining, while living together for a long time can only be boring due to the lack of common interest and understanding. How can we communicate with each other without understanding? Parents have the duty to support the children who are not yet economically independent, and children have the responsibility to provide for the elderly parents who are lack of economic abilities to support themselves. Except these two kinds of duties which we must fulfill, other kinds of love become conventional formalities such as paying visit to the sick or the dead and giving presents to the newly-born etc..No love among relatives has become a normal phenomenon which needn't to be fussed about. What's worse is when love is contaminated by money. Sooner or later we will get hurt. The sooner we get out of this net of love, the more we can preserve beautiful memories.We are not living in vacuum, and the society is formed of various kinds of people. As long as we want to live, study, or work, we have to contact, communicate and cooperate with others. Those who enjoy common interests, mutual understanding, common undertakings and common benefitsbecome friends.Some friends are called fair-weather friends, because they are together just for entertaining themselves by eating, drinking, and gossiping. Once there's nothing to eat and drink, their friendship is finished. Some are spiritual friends who share common ambitions, pursuits and education. “They enjoy talking and laughing with the great talents and never make friends with the good-for-nothings”. The best examples would be Yu Boya and Zhong ziqi of the ancient times who are famous not only for their lofty music but mainly for their lofty characters and mutual understanding and appreciation. They cared very little about material wealth, so their friendship is known as “gentlemen's friendship as pure as water”. The third type of friendship belong to those who show their utter devotion to each other. They are ready not only to share weal and woe but also to die for each other, like the three brothers Liu, Guan and Zhang in the novel Romance of the Three Kingdoms. . We all wish to have this kind of friendship, but it's of great difficulty for the ordinary people to be as devoted as they were.Fraternal love or friendship is wide-ranged and flexible.Generally speaking, everyone is our friend, just as Chairman Mao says “Our friends are all over the world”. But transcend age, sex, nationality, state and economic conditions. To them the most important is common benefit, common interest and understanding. Friendship is formed during the course of studying, working and fighting. The battle companions who have survived many hazards usually enjoy long-lasting friendship.However, fraternal love is not stable. Being away for too a long time, losing all common benefits, friends will become estranged. Once their interest has changed, they no longer understand each other, and even this would harm friendship. At all times and in all countries, many close friends and battle companions who once worked together and fought together became enemies in the end. Quiet a few of the emperors in ancient China even killed those who had helped them found their dynasties. The Taiping Heavenly Kingdom would not have failed if it hadn't been for the contending and massacring among the those who first rose in rebellion at the beginning of the uprising. What else we need to pay attention to is that some friends, after being away from each other for too long a time, have lost so much of their originalcharacters that when meeting again, you will feel that you are still the same as you were, while they are no longer themselves. They may have the same feeling about you, so sometimes it's better not to meet each other again. As the Chinese proverb goes “friendship can not last for three years and flowers can not stay in blossom for three months”. It's not so easy to maintain real friendship which needs mutual understanding, tolerance and sacrifice. Any kinds of harsh treatment will damage friendship.Amatory love has been a mystery for ages. There's neither a criterion to judge nor a common rule to follow. Nobody can tell the exact reasons why love emerges. It is not always because of beauty (the ugly doorkeeper Quasimodo in The Hunchback of Notre Dame is loved by the beautiful Gypsy girl Esmeralda), nor kindness (Hitler also has his mistress), nor wisdom ( even the blockhead may sometimes marry a beautiful girl), nor strength (some love starts from sympathy). True love is like getting an electric shock, shaking our soul. It is a sweet dream, a kind of intoxication, indulgence, and endless passion.True love doesn't need a long time to grow up, to make clear the family tree of the other, neither does it needs the timeto look ahead and behind again and again. Love is not marriage, which usually starts from love, but doesn't always depend on love to maintain. Long-lasting marriage can eventually turn into a kind of family love, a kind of companionship which preserves the companion but loses the passion. Love is often an wink of the eye, or a smile that hints mutual understanding. In spite of the great distance between them, people may fall in love incidentally. Hence the saying “a distant marriage is tied up with a mysterious thread”. Love needs passion, and it can stand bumps and stumbles, ups and downs, complaints and blames. When it turns into a pool of water, especially dead water, without any billows or waves, it's time for it to die.Delicacies are tasty, but eating everyday can still make one lose appetite. Happiness is what everyone longs for, but too much happiness can spoil people who may not care about the happiness they already have. It's universal to live in happiness without knowing it. The same is true with love. Very few people can love the same person passionately all their lives. All love stories come to an end no matter how beautiful they are, which also demonstrate the changeability of love. What one has been chasing wildly mayturn into something one wants to get rid of desperately in the end. Besides, love is usually blind, especially those who fall in love at the first sight. At the very beginning, both try to demonstrate their beautiful side and cover up their Weakness. Fooled by the mysterious color of love, one often mistakes the weaknesses as merits. However, as time passes by, frequent contacts make one bored, and even merits become defects, and then the end of love is coming. What's more, there are the capricious men and women who never take love seriously, leaving the devoted ones suffering alone. The saying that the devoted is always abandoned by the heartless has almost become the truth of love affairs. What we can't neglect is that love may turn into hatred, and lovers may also become enemies. The best proof is the numerous divorces.Even though true love is hard to find nowadays, we still can see some true and infatuated boys and girls who readily give up their families, their parents, their studies, their careers and even their lives for love. They love so passionately, crazily and wildly that they hate anyone who is against their love, and may even harm or kill him if he insists on his objection.Love has magical power that can exploit people's potential abilities, bring people's positive factors into full play, and provide people with the courage to face trials and hardships, to go through life and death, and even to risk universal condemnation. Even in the ancient feudal society, some people were courageous enough to carry on clandestine love affairs. The examples in point were the courageous ones who dared to love the concubines of the emperors or the children of their foes. Love also has miraculous power which can startle the universe and move the gods by attracting the heavenly celestials coming down to earth ( The Love Story of the Cowboy and the Weaving Girl ), and by turning ghosts into human ( Strange Tales of Liao-zhai ). Love can transcend age and generation (Dr. Sun Yat-sen and Madam Song Qingling; Luxun and Xu Guangping). love can show contempt for all conventions and prejudices; love can heal wounds and cure diseases, and love can readjust people's state of mind. Of course, the result would be the opposite once it hurts.Great men yearn for true love even more than ordinary people. Since the ancient times, so many heroes couldn't help falling into the trap of love that the sex-trap has beenregarded as one of the 36 stratagems in military tactics. Fuchai, the king of the Wu State, couldn't be spared of this trap, and Generals Dongzhuo and Lubu fell deeply into it while Xiangyu, the King of the Western Chu State , bid farewell to his beloved concubine in tears. People may have to pay very high price, even their illustrious name for the love they long for even though it may last for only a very short time. Nonetheless no one can tear himself away from love. People often say that their earthly affinity is not yet finished, but in fact it is the love affinity that is the most difficult to finish.Love is shapeless and priceless. We can blame nobody when captured by it. Love can not be forced, nor can it be pretended. Sympathy is not love, neither is gratitude. Love must be generated from the heart, and expressed in actions. It can not be called love without passions and a deep longing from the bottom of the heart. There's no impassable gulf between family love and fraternal love. Some family love may turn into friendship. At the same time, natural barriers doesn't exist either between fraternal love and amatory love. Some friendship may develop into amatory love. The same is true with amatory love which may changeinto family love after a long time of mutual grinding and polishing.The closer the relationship, and the higher the expectations are, the more difficult it is to get along with each other. Family love, fraternal love and amatory love are three main human feelings. If handled well, they can bring us extreme happiness, while handled improperly, will bring us great sufferings.The present society is a world of dazzling money and dwindling human feeling contacts. Most people hold a snobbish attitude. They only make friends with people of wealth and of high social status. Just as Zhen Shiyen said in his expounding of the song “All Good Things Must End” in ADream of the Red Mansions “While men with gold and silver by the chest, turn beggars scorned by all and dispossessed”. Frankly speaking, however, if we regard money the first thing in whichever one of the three kinds of loves, it will depreciate and even become worthless. Love can not pretend, nor can it tolerate too much selfish motives. It is reported that an old man in Jiangsu Province left his million Yuan heritage to his young housekeeper instead of his own children, because his own children didn't take care of him while the young housekeeperaccompanied him through his last lonely and helpless years. Love is easily perceivable and perceptible. Flattery words may be cheatable, but true love and false feelings can easily be distinguished. If the people you love only know how to spend your money, you should be careful of them. Everyone can help you spend your money if you give them the chance. Never turn your love into the slave of money.Love should be selfless, and feelings should be sincere. We shouldn't judge our feelings according to the distance of the relationship. Everyone treasures love and nobody can fool himself or the others. AChinese saying goes: real heroes yearn even more for true love, and great men cherish tender love for their children.We are the saint on earth, and should treasure our love, but we should know how much is good and where to stop. Since there's no ever-lasting banquet, nor is there an endless love story, we should take the gains and losses of love with perfect composure. There's fragrant grass in every corner of the earth, and you can always find your love in this world. Translated by Zhang BaodanJune 20, 20XX中文人类几千年,有过许多的发明创造,有过许多的新奇发现,现在又在探索宇宙的奥秘,但始终搞不懂的就是一个“情”字。
英语演讲作文关于爱情
英语演讲作文关于爱情标题,Exploring the Depths of Love。
Love, an enigma that has captivated humanity since time immemorial, remains one of the most profound and complex emotions we experience as human beings. It transcends boundaries, defies logic, and enriches our lives in ways we often struggle to comprehend. Today, let us embark on a journey to explore the multifaceted nature of love, delving into its various dimensions and contemplating its significance in our lives.At its core, love is a deep and abiding connection between individuals, characterized by affection, care, and understanding. It manifests in myriad forms, from the tender embrace of a parent comforting a child to the passionate bond shared between romantic partners. Love knows no bounds of age, gender, or nationality; it is a universal language that speaks to the very essence of our humanity.In the realm of romantic love, we witness the intertwining of hearts and souls in a dance of intimacy and vulnerability. It is a journey of discovery, where two individuals embark on a shared path of growth, mutual support, and unwavering devotion. Through the highs and lows of life, love serves as a beacon of hope, guiding us through the darkness and illuminating our way forward.Yet, love is not without its challenges. The path to true connection is often fraught with obstacles, requiring patience, compromise, and a willingness to confront our own shortcomings. Miscommunication, jealousy, and conflicts may arise, testing the strength of our bonds and forcing us to confront difficult truths about ourselves and our relationships. And yet, it is through these trials that love is truly tested and strengthened, emerging triumphant in the face of adversity.Beyond the realm of romantic love, we find love in the bonds of friendship, the camaraderie of comrades-in-arms, and the selfless acts of kindness that define the humanspirit. It is the hand extended in times of need, the shoulder to lean on in moments of despair, and the laughter shared in times of joy. Love, in all its forms, has the power to heal, to uplift, and to inspire us to be the best versions of ourselves.As we navigate the complexities of modern life, it isall too easy to become disillusioned, to lose sight of the profound beauty that surrounds us. In a world plagued by division and strife, love serves as a potent antidote, bridging the gaps that separate us and reminding us of our shared humanity. It is through acts of love, both big and small, that we can create a brighter, more compassionate world for future generations to inherit.In conclusion, love is a force of unparalleled powerand significance in our lives. It is a source of strengthin times of weakness, a beacon of hope in times of darkness, and a guiding light that leads us home. As we continue our journey through life, let us cherish the love thatsurrounds us, nurture it with care and gratitude, and letit serve as a constant reminder of the beauty and wonder ofthe human experience.Love, in all its forms, is the true essence of what it means to be alive. Let us embrace it fully and without reservation, for in love, we find the true meaning of life itself.。
关于love的英语演讲
关于love的英语演讲Love, the Universal Language of HumanityLove, a simple four-letter word that holds immense power and significance in our lives. It is an emotion that transcends all barriers, languages, and cultures. Love is the driving force behind our actions, our relationships, and our very existence. Today, I stand before you to talk about love, its importance, and its impact on our lives.First and foremost, love is a fundamental human need. We are social beings, and our relationships with others are crucial to our well-being. Love is the glue that binds families, friends, and communities together. It is through love that we find solace, support, and a sense of belonging. Love provides us with the strength to face challenges, the comfort in times of distress, and the joy in moments of celebration.Love is not limited to romantic relationships; it encompasses all forms of love. The love between parents and children, siblings, friends, and even the love we have for our pets. It is a selfless, unconditional love that knows no boundaries. Love is about accepting others for who they are, flaws and all, and embracing them with open arms. Itis about kindness, compassion, and empathy.Moreover, love is the catalyst for personal growth and development. When we are loved, we feel valued and supported, and this enables us to flourish and reach our full potential. Love instills confidence, boosts self-esteem, and provides the motivation to strive for greatness. It is the driving force behind our dreams, ambitions, and aspirations. Love empowers us to overcome obstacles, face our fears, and push our limits.In a world filled with hatred, violence, and division, love is the antidote. It has the power to heal, unite, and bring about positive change. Love can bridge the gaps between different cultures, religions, and ideologies. It fosters understanding, tolerance, and respect. When we approach others with love and compassion, we create a world where differences are celebrated, and harmony prevails.Love is not always easy. It requires effort, compromise, and sacrifice. Love is about putting others before ourselves, and sometimes that means making tough choices. It means forgiving, even when we have been hurt, and finding the strength to move forward. Love is a continuous journey, filled with ups and downs, but the rewards it brings are immeasurable.In conclusion, love is the universal language of humanity. It is a force that has the power to transform lives, heal wounds, and bring joy to the darkest of days. Love is what makes us human, and it is what connects us all. Let us embrace love, nurture it, and share it with the world. For in the end, it is love that truly matters. Thank you.。
坚定爱情的小作文英文
坚定爱情的小作文英文英文:Love is a powerful and beautiful feeling that can withstand the test of time and overcome any obstacles. Itis a bond that is built on trust, understanding, and mutual respect. I believe in the power of love and I am firm in my conviction that love can conquer all.I have seen this in my own life, where my partner and I have faced many challenges together, but our love has always been the driving force that helps us overcome them. For example, when we were in a long-distance relationship, it was our unwavering love for each other that kept us going. We would often remind each other that "distance means so little when someone means so much", and that would give us the strength to continue our relationship despite the physical separation.Moreover, I have also witnessed the power of love inthe lives of my friends and family. I have seen couples go through difficult times, but their love for each other has always been the guiding light that leads them through the darkness. It is truly inspiring to see how love can bring people together and help them weather any storm.中文:爱情是一种强大而美丽的感情,可以经受时间的考验,克服任何障碍。
以love为题的英语演讲稿简短
以love为题的英语演讲稿简短Good morning/afternoon/evening, everyone. Today, I would like to talk about a topic that is universal and timeless: love. Love is a word that we hear and use almost every day. It is the emotion that connects us as human beings, the force that drives us to care for others, and the feeling that brings joy and happiness into our lives.Love can take many forms. We have love for our family, for our friends, for our partners, and even for our pets. It is a bond that transcends boundaries and brings people together. Love has the power to heal wounds, mend broken hearts, and bridge gaps between individuals.Love is not just a feeling; it is also an action. It is about showing kindness, compassion, and understanding towards others. Love is about putting someone else"s needs before our own and making sacrifices for their happiness. It is about supporting and being there for someone through the ups and downs of life. Love is also a source of strength. It gives us the courage to face challenges, to overcome obstacles, and to keep going when times get tough. Love gives us hope and motivates us to strive for a better world, where everyone is treated with respect and empathy.In a world that can sometimes seem chaotic and divided, love is the glue that holds us together. It reminds us of our shared humanity and the importance of kindness and empathy. Love has the power to break down walls, to build bridges, and to create a better future.So, let us all strive to spread love in our daily lives. Let us show compassion towards one another, lend a helping hand to those in need, and treat others with respect and understanding. Together, we can make a difference and create a world where love is the guiding force in everything we do. Thank you.。
分享我的爱情英语作文
分享我的爱情英语作文Title: A Journey of Love: My Story。
Love, a feeling that transcends boundaries and speaks a universal language, has been an integral part of my life's journey. It's a journey marked by moments of joy, challenges, and growth, all woven together by the threads of affection and commitment.My journey into love began unexpectedly, like a gentle breeze that gradually sweeps you off your feet. It was a chance encounter, a serendipitous moment when our paths crossed, and our hearts found resonance in each other's presence. From that moment onwards, our story unfolded, painting the canvas of our lives with vibrant hues of love and passion.The early days of our relationship were filled with excitement and discovery. We embarked on adventures together, exploring new places and creating cherishedmemories along the way. Every laugh shared, every whispered conversation, became a testament to the deepening bond between us.But as with any journey, there were obstacles to overcome. We faced moments of doubt and uncertainty, where the path ahead seemed daunting and unclear. Yet, it was during these times that our love shone brightest. We stood by each other's side, offering unwavering support and encouragement, knowing that together, we could weather any storm.Love, I've come to learn, is not just about the grand gestures or the fairy-tale moments. It's found in the everyday moments of kindness, understanding, and forgiveness. It's in the way we hold hands during difficult times, and the way we celebrate each other's successes with genuine joy.As our relationship blossomed, so did we as individuals. Love has a way of inspiring growth, of challenging us to become the best versions of ourselves. Through the ups anddowns, we learned valuable lessons about communication, compromise, and the importance of prioritizing each other's needs.Now, as I reflect on our journey together, I am filled with gratitude for the love that we share. It's a love that has stood the test of time, growing stronger with each passing day. And as we continue to walk hand in hand into the future, I am filled with hope and excitement for the adventures that await us.In the end, love is not just a destination; it's a journey—a journey that we embark on together, navigating the twists and turns with courage and conviction. And I wouldn't want to walk this path with anyone else but you, my love.So here's to us—to our love story that continues to unfold with each passing moment. May it be filled with laughter, joy, and an abundance of love that knows no bounds.。
关于love的英语演讲稿
关于love的英语演讲稿only mother love is true love .下面是小编整理的关于love的英语演讲稿,欢迎大家阅读!希望对大家有所帮助!篇一only mother love is true love .it's gives everybody everything in all his life ,when you are still a baby ,mother takes good care of you as much as possible. in your waking hour she always holds you in her arms. when you are ill, she stop her work right now to look after you day and night and forgets about herself. when you are growing up day by day, she feels very happy. when you are old enough to go to school, mother still looks after you all the time. on cold winter days, she always tells you to put on more clothes. she always stands in the window waiting for you back from school. when you are hurry to leave home for school for breakfast ,she feels worried about you at usually knows about your study and spends much money on your school things . when you do well at school . you will see the brightset smile on her face. mother is ailways ready to give everything she has to her children ,notto receive. what true love that is in the world !we will remember mother love forever friendship every one of us, rich or poor, should at least have one or two good friends. my friends will listen to me when i want to speak, will wipe my eyes when i cry, will take care of me when i am sick, and my friends will go together with me side by side through this journey of life. as students, we could share more time with our friends. the friendship in our young hearts is pure, fresh and si-mp-le. i often feel very lucky to have a lot of good friends. especially when i had justin as one of my best friends. justin was my english teacher from the usa.i met him in 1996 when i was a student who could only speak very little english. justin was a vivid young man with a bright smile on his face, and he always had his special way to make the claactive and attractive. he taught us english by telling stories, playing games, singing songs, and even dancing. i could still remember very clearly that one afternoon when we fin-ished our class, we went to some other classes to sing songs for them, just like what people do in the states on christmas eve. it was so interesting and unforgettable.justin was an excellent teacher, because he taught us not only how to study english well, but also the way to find out the beauty of the world and the way to be angels to others' lives. i know there was friendship and pure love in our hearts. facing this valuable emotion neither nationality nor age was important, the real importance lay in faith, under-standing, and care. justin is the best friend i have ever had, and i know i will cherish those days of staying together with him as the best part of my memory. friendship is a kind of treasure in our lives. it is actually like a bottle of wine, the longer it is kept, the sweeter it will be. it is also like a cup of tea. when we are thirsty, it will be our best choice, but when we have enough time to enjoy ourselves, it is also the most fragrant drink. however, in this fast-developing mo.篇二Do you know what is the most precious and everlasting thing in the world? Money? You may lose everything you have if you don't use money careful ?In one's long life youth is like a flash in the pan and no one in the world has the secret to keep his youth forever. Beautiful look? Many people pray that they canget hold of beauty, but it disappears far more quickly than they can imagine. And when they are in real trouble beauty itself feels helpless. A good job? As you grow older and your brain and hands can't work as fast as before. It will become other people's wealth.Then what is the most precious and everlasting thing in the world?When you are far away from your family and feel especially lonely, who will you think of? When you stand on the crossroad in your life and don't know which way to choose, who will you think of? When you encounter greater difficulties than ever and need other's encouragement, who will you think of? When you decide to make the greatest decision in your favorite course, which shed cheerful tears when see you get achievements? Whose wholehearted blessing will be always with you no matter how far you will go?Yes, its mother who you will always think of and it's mother's love that will be always be with you.I once heard a moving story about a mother. Two children were drawn into the flood and the situation was very dangerous. Their mother jumped into the waterwithout hesitation. But the mother couldn't swim at all. Jumping into the water means she might lose her life. But at that time she had no time to think about herself. She just wanted to try all means to save her children. Maybe her courage touched the God. The miracle happened. She finally succeeded in saving her both children. And she, of course, felt extremely exhausted.My friends, mother’s love is the greatest love. Mother’s love is the safest love. No matter you are happy or depressed, rich or poor, mother’s love will always stay with you.篇三Dear teacher and CLASSmates:I am very glad to make a speech here in this CLASS again! This time, I'd like to talk something about English.I love English. English language is now used everywhere in the world. It has become the most common language on Internet and for international trade. Learning English makes me confident and brings me great pleasure.When I was seven, my mother sent me to an English school. At there, I played games and sang English songswith other children . Then I discovered the beauty of the language, and began my colorful dream in the English world.Everyday, I read English following the tapes. Sometimes, I watch English cartoons.On the weekend, I often go to the English corner. By talking with different people there, I have made more and more friends as well as improved my oral English.I hope I can travel around the world someday. I want to go to America to visit Washington Monument, because the president Washington is my idol. Of course, I want to go to London too, because England is where English language developed. If I can ride my bike in Cambridge university, I will be very happy.I hope I can speak English with everyone in the world. I'll introduce China to them, such as the Great Wall, the Forbidden City and Anshan.I know, Rome was not built in a day. I believe that after continuous hard study, one day I can speak English very well.If you want to be loved, you should learn to love and be lovable. So I believe as I love English everyday ,it will love me too.。
表白我爱你的作文英语
表白我爱你的作文英语Title: A Declaration of Love。
In the realm of emotions, where words often falter in their attempt to capture the depth of feeling, there exists a sentiment that transcends language barriers and resonates with the purest essence of the human soul. It is withinthis ethereal space that I find myself compelled to express the profound affection that resides within the depths of my heart.To the one who holds the key to my innermost thoughts and emotions, I extend this humble offering of words as a testament to the love that binds us together. From the moment our paths first crossed, a spark ignited within me, illuminating the darkness and filling my world with the radiance of your presence.With each passing day, my admiration for you has blossomed into an unwavering devotion, rooted in the soilof admiration and nourished by the gentle rain of your kindness and understanding. Your laughter is a melody that dances upon the winds, echoing through the chambers of my soul and bringing warmth to even the coldest of nights.In your eyes, I see reflections of a future filled with endless possibilities, where we walk hand in hand, navigating life's journey together. Your strength is my pillar of support, your wisdom my guiding light, and your love the anchor that keeps me grounded amidst the turbulence of life's storms.Though mere words may seem inadequate to convey the depth of my feelings, I offer them to you as tokens of my affection, woven together in the tapestry of sincerity and honesty. For in this moment, as the world fades into insignificance and all that remains is the echo of our beating hearts, I am reminded of the timeless truth that love knows no bounds.So let these words serve as a beacon of hope, shining brightly in the darkness and illuminating the path thatleads to the sanctuary of your heart. For it is there, in the embrace of your love, that I find solace and fulfillment beyond measure.In conclusion, my beloved, know that my love for you knows no bounds, transcending the barriers of time and space to unite our souls in a bond that is eternal. With every breath I take, with every beat of my heart, I am yours, now and forevermore.Yours faithfully,。
有关爱情的作文英文
有关爱情的作文英文英文:Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that can bring both joy and pain. It is the feeling of deepaffection and attachment towards someone, and it can manifest in many different ways. For me, love is something that cannot be fully explained or understood, but it is something that can be felt deeply.In my experience, love is not just about the romantic aspect, but also about the love between family and friends. The love between parents and children, siblings, and close friends can be just as strong and meaningful as romantic love. For example, my relationship with my best friend is one of the most important and valuable relationships in my life. We have been through so much together and our love and support for each other has only grown stronger over time.However, romantic love is also an important aspect of love. It is the feeling of being deeply in love with someone, and it can bring intense happiness and fulfillment. But it can also bring heartbreak and pain if the love isnot reciprocated or if the relationship ends. I have experienced both the joy and pain of romantic love, and it has taught me that love is not always easy, but it isalways worth it.中文:爱情是一种复杂而多面的情感,既能带来喜悦,也能带来痛苦。
介绍爱情的英文作文
介绍爱情的英文作文英文:Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that can manifest itself in many different ways. At its core, loveis a deep and intense feeling of affection and connection to another person. It can be romantic love, platonic love, familial love, or even love for a pet or hobby.Romantic love, in particular, is often portrayed as the pinnacle of love in popular culture. It is characterized by intense passion, desire, and a deep emotional connection to another person. People often describe feeling "head over heels" in love, or being "smitten" with someone. Romantic love can be both exhilarating and terrifying, as it involves opening oneself up to vulnerability and the possibility of heartbreak.However, love is not always easy or straightforward. It can be messy, complicated, and painful. Relationships canbe fraught with misunderstandings, disagreements, and hurt feelings. Love requires effort, compromise, and awillingness to work through difficulties together.Despite the challenges, love is ultimately a powerful force that can bring immense joy and fulfillment to our lives. It can inspire us to be better versions of ourselves, to take risks, and to pursue our dreams. It can alsoprovide a sense of security, comfort, and belonging.中文:爱情是一种复杂多面的情感,可以表现出许多不同的方式。
关于love的英语演讲稿
关于love的英语演讲稿篇一:关于LOVE的英语演讲稿篇一:love演讲稿some times i am a little regret not trying love during university life. no matter love will be succeeded or not. love is a kind of feeling. when i want to touch love i always tell myself to be rational. i am a poor guy, i am a little afraid of getting hurt, and also i do not know where is my future, whether we shall be together or not. maybe there are too many reasons for me to not approach love. it was funny. some people maybe think i am a timid person toward love. i do not agree. maybe i am too careful about love. also i am a person who is easy to change my own feeling. i am easy to like a girl and then another girl. i hope i will not do something wrong to let somebody and myself get hurt.during university one girl has showed love to me, also it was the first time a girl asked me to be her boyfriend. i think it is ridiculous, but i thank her appreciation. we only know each other for less than amonth. i do not believe love at first sight. you do not understand each other and you gather together maybe the result will be bitter. one person has said people do not know each other they want to know each so they get married, after they understand each other, they break up.感恩节英语作文:earthquake love thanksgiving地震·爱·感恩人性之爱,同胞之爱,在和时间赛跑。
情感爱情小作文英文
情感爱情小作文英文英文:Love is a complicated emotion that can bring both happiness and pain. When it comes to romantic love, it can be even more intense and overwhelming. As for me, I have experienced both the joys and sorrows of love.On the one hand, being in love can make you feel like you're on top of the world. The feeling of being wanted and loved by someone is indescribable. It's like you have a constant source of happiness that you can tap into whenever you need it. I remember when I first fell in love, I felt like I was walking on air. Every little thing my partner did made me feel giddy with excitement, and I couldn't wait to spend every moment with them.On the other hand, love can also bring immense pain. When a relationship ends, it can feel like your world is falling apart. The sadness and heartbreak can be all-consuming, and it can take a long time to heal. I've been through a few breakups in my life, and each one has been incredibly difficult. It's like a part of you is missing, and you have to learn how to live without it.中文:爱是一种复杂的情感,既能带来幸福,也能带来痛苦。
关于love的英语作文
关于love的英语作文Love is a powerful emotion that transcends boundaries and connects people from all walks of life. It is a universal language that can be expressed in various forms and experienced in different ways. In this essay, I will explore the concept of love and its significance in our lives.Love can be defined as a deep affection or care for someone or something. It is not limited to romantic relationships but extends to friendships, family bonds, and even love for oneself. Love is a complex emotion that encompasses feelings of warmth, compassion, and understanding.One of the most common forms of love is romantic love. It is the intense feeling of attraction and affection between two individuals. Romantic love can be experienced at different stages of life and can bring immense joy and happiness. It is characterized by a desire to be close tothe person we love, to share our lives with them, and to support and care for them.Love is also evident in the relationships we have with our family members. The love between parents and children is unconditional and selfless. Parents sacrifice their own needs and desires for the well-being of their children. Similarly, siblings share a special bond that is built on love, trust, and support.Friendship is another form of love that is based on mutual affection and trust. Friends are the ones who stand by us through thick and thin, offering support, understanding, and companionship. The love we have for our friends is often characterized by loyalty, honesty, and a shared sense of humor.Self-love is equally important in our lives. It is the ability to appreciate and accept ourselves for who we are. Self-love is not about being selfish or narcissistic but about recognizing our own worth and taking care of our physical, emotional, and mental well-being. When we loveourselves, we are better equipped to love and care for others.Love has a profound impact on our overall well-being. It has been scientifically proven that love and affection release hormones such as oxytocin, which promote feelings of happiness and reduce stress. Love also enhances our sense of belonging and connection, providing us with a support system that helps us navigate through life's challenges.Furthermore, love has the power to inspire and motivate us. When we love someone or something, we are willing to go the extra mile to make them happy or to achieve our goals. Love gives us the strength and determination to overcome obstacles and pursue our dreams.In conclusion, love is a fundamental aspect of ourlives that brings joy, happiness, and fulfillment. Itexists in various forms, including romantic love, love for family, friendships, and self-love. Love has the power to heal, inspire, and connect us with others. It is auniversal language that transcends boundaries and enriches our lives. Embracing love and expressing it in our actions and words can lead to a more compassionate and fulfilling life.。
英文爱情故事 作文
英文爱情故事作文英文:Love is a complex emotion that can bring both joy and pain. My own experience with love has been a rollercoaster ride, full of ups and downs.There was a time when I was head over heels in love with someone. We had a deep connection and I felt like we were meant to be together. But then, things started to change. We began to argue more and more, and it seemed like we couldn't agree on anything. Eventually, we decided to go our separate ways.It was a painful experience, but I learned a lot from it. I realized that love is not just about passion and chemistry. It's also about communication, compromise, and understanding. Without those things, even the strongest love can crumble.But even though that relationship didn't work out, I haven't given up on love. I believe that there is someone out there for me, someone who will love me for who I am and who I can love in return. And when I find that person, I know that it will be worth all of the heartache and pain that I've experienced in the past.中文:爱是一种复杂的情感,既能带来喜悦,也能带来痛苦。
英文小作文范文关于爱情
英文小作文范文关于爱情英文:Love is a complex emotion that can bring both joy and pain. It is a feeling that can make us feel alive and complete, but it can also leave us feeling vulnerable and exposed. Love can take many forms, from the passionate and intense love of a romantic relationship to the unconditional love of a parent for their child.For me, love is about finding someone who accepts mefor who I am, flaws and all. It's about being able to be myself around that person and feeling comfortable enough to share my deepest thoughts and feelings. Love is also about supporting each other through the ups and downs of life, and being there for each other no matter what.One of my favorite love idioms is "love is blind." This means that when we are in love, we often overlook the flaws and shortcomings of our partner. We see them through rose-colored glasses and are willing to forgive them for almost anything. This can be both a blessing and a curse, as itcan lead to us staying in unhealthy relationships for too long.Another love idiom that I like is "actions speak louder than words." This means that it's not enough to just say "I love you" we need to show our love through our actions.This can be as simple as doing something thoughtful for our partner, or as big as making sacrifices for their happiness.Overall, love is a beautiful and complex emotion that can bring us both happiness and heartache. But when we find the right person and build a strong, healthy relationship,it can be one of the most rewarding experiences of our lives.中文:爱情是一种复杂的情感,既能带来快乐,也能带来痛苦。
英语演讲稿情Love英语演讲
英语演讲稿情Love英语演讲Ladies and gentlemen, esteemed guests, and fellow classmates,Today, I stand before you to talk about a topic that is close to my heart - love. Love is a universal language, transcending borders and cultures. It is an emotion that brings people together, connects souls, and creates harmony. Love is the foundation of our relationships, our society, and our very existence.Love can be found in various forms - the love between parents and children, the love between friends, and of course, romantic love. Regardless of the form, love is a powerful force that has the ability to heal, inspire, and transform lives.When we experience love, it fills our hearts with joy and happiness. It gives us a sense of purpose and fulfillment. Love encourages us to become better versions of ourselves, to strive for greatness, and to overcome challenges. Love is the fuel that drives us forward, giving us the strength and determination to pursue our dreams.In a world that is filled with chaos and conflict, love is the antidote. Love has the power to bridge divides, to bring people together, and to create understanding. Love teaches us compassion, empathy, and forgiveness. It breaks down barriers and unites us as one human family.But love is not always easy. It requires effort, sacrifice, and commitment. Love is a journey, filled with ups and downs, triumphs and failures. Love requires trust, honesty, and vulnerability. It is a beautiful, yet fragile, emotion that must be cherished and nurtured.In a society that often prioritizes material possessions and achievements, love reminds us of what truly matters. Love reminds us of the importance of human connection, of kindness, and of the simple pleasures in life. Love reminds us that we are all interconnected, that our actions and choices have an impact on others.So, let us embrace love in all its forms. Let us cherish the love we receive and reciprocate it with all our heart. Let us spread love to those who need it the most. Let us strive to create a world where love triumphs over hate, where understanding triumphs over ignorance, and where compassion triumphs over indifference.In conclusion, love is a gift that we must cherish and treasure. It is the driving force that propels us forward and gives meaning to our lives. Let us celebrate love and let it guide us on our journey towards a happier, more compassionate world.Thank you.。
关于爱的英语演讲稿带翻译(精选多篇)
关于爱的英语演讲稿带翻译(精选多篇)演讲稿一:Love is All We NeedLadies and Gentlemen,It is a great pleasure to be here today to talk to you about one of the most important things in life, love.Love is a universal language that transcends all barriers. It is the one thing that connects us all, regardless of our race, gender, age, or culture. Love is what makes us human.Love is not just about romantic relationships. It is also about the love we have for our family, friends, and even strangers. Love is the force that drives us to help those in need, to care for the sick, and to protect the weak.Love is selfless. It is not about what we can get, but what we can give. Love is not a transaction, it is a feeling. Love does not seek recognition or reward. It is its own reward.Love is powerful. It has the ability to heal wounds, bridge gaps, and bring people together. Love can conquer hatred, injustice, and even war. Love is the only thing that can truly change the world.In a world that can be harsh and unforgiving, love is the antidote. It is the light that shines in the darkness, the hope that gives us strength, and the glue that binds us together.So, let us remember to love each other. Let us be kind,compassionate, and understanding. Let us put aside our differences and embrace our common humanity. Because, at the end of the day, love is all we need.Thank you.各位女士们先生们,今天我很高兴能够在这里向你们谈论生命中最重要的事情之一:爱。
情侣深情告白小作文英文
情侣深情告白小作文英文英文:My love, I want to express my feelings for you today. You are the sunshine in my life, and I cannot imagineliving without you. From the moment I met you, I knew that you were the one for me. You make me feel complete, and I am so grateful to have you in my life.I love the way you make me laugh, and the way you always know just what to say to make me feel better. You are my rock, my support system, and my best friend. I cannot imagine going through life without you by my side.I promise to always be there for you, through thick and thin. I promise to love you unconditionally, and to support you in all of your dreams and aspirations. You are the love of my life, and I am so lucky to have you.中文:亲爱的,今天我想向你表达我的感情。
你是我生命中的阳光,我无法想象没有你的生活。
从我遇见你的那一刻起,我就知道你就是我的那个人。
你让我感到完整,我非常感激有你在我的生命中。
我喜欢你让我笑的方式,喜欢你总是知道该说什么来让我感觉更好的方式。
描写爱情的英文作文
描写爱情的英文作文英文:Love is a complex and beautiful emotion that can bring both joy and pain. It can be expressed in many different ways, through words, actions, and even silence. For me,love is about acceptance, understanding, and support.Love is about accepting someone for who they are, flaws and all. It's about seeing the beauty in theirimperfections and loving them anyway. It's about understanding their quirks and idiosyncrasies, and embracing them as part of who they are. And it's about supporting them, through both the good times and the bad.One of the most important aspects of love is communication. Being able to express your feelings and thoughts openly and honestly is crucial in any relationship. It's important to be able to listen to your partner as well, and to try to understand where they're coming from.Love is also about compromise. No two people are exactly the same, and disagreements are inevitable. But being able to find a middle ground and reach a solution that works for both parties is key to a healthy relationship.Ultimately, love is about trust. Trusting that your partner has your best interests at heart, and that they will always be there for you. Trusting that they will support you through thick and thin, and that they will never judge you for your mistakes.中文:爱是一种复杂而美丽的情感,可以带来欢乐和痛苦。
关于爱情的作文英文
关于爱情的作文英文Sure, I can help you with that. Writing about love can be both challenging and rewarding. Here's a draft to get you started:Love: The Essence of LifeLove is the purest, most profound emotion known to humanity. It transcends boundaries, defies logic, and binds us together in ways nothing else can. Whether it's the love between partners, family members, or friends, its impact is undeniable.At its core, love is about acceptance and understanding. It's about embracing each other's flaws and celebrating our differences. It's about being there for someone, through thick and thin, and sharing life's joys and sorrows together.Love manifests itself in countless ways - a gentle touch, a reassuring smile, a heartfelt conversation. It's in the little things we do for each other, the sacrifices we make, andthe moments we cherish forever.Yet, love is not always easy. It requires patience, compromise, and sometimes forgiveness. It challenges us to grow, to learn, and to become better versions of ourselves. But in the end, it's worth it, for love brings meaning to our lives like nothing else can.In a world often filled with chaos and uncertainty, love is our anchor, our refuge. It gives us hope, inspires us to keep going, and reminds us of the beauty that exists in the world.So let us embrace love in all its forms, cherish it, nurture it, and let it guide us on our journey through life. For in the end, love is not just an emotion - it is the very essence of our existence.Feel free to tailor this draft to fit the specific tone and style of your article. Let me know if you need further assistance or have any specific points you'd like to include!。
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英语演讲:情Love范文Eversincethedawningofthehistoryofmankind,therehavebeenmyriadsofdiversifedinventions,discoveries,andevenexplorationsofthemysteriesoftheuniverse.Infact,thehumanbeingsaresointelligentthatwehavesolvedalmostallkindsofproblem swehaveconfrontedwith.However,nobodyhasevermadeoutwhattheword“love”reallyconnotes,noteventhemostfamouspeoplesuchasgreatpoliticians,saintsandphilosopherscanclarifythemeaningof“love”,neithercantheydealwiththevariousaffairsconcerninglove.Loveislikeahuge boundlessnetthatshroudsusallin.Wecanneitherbreakawayfromitnorescapefr omit.Likeitornot,wearealwaysentangledinit.Itisaninvisiblenetwithoutanyform,thatshroudsindifferentpeoplefromdifferentangels;Itisamercilessnetthatupsetsusoreventorturesustodeath.Itisalsoasupremenetwhichalmostnohuman cansurpass.Eveniftheyareheroes,emperors,wisemenorsaints,theycandonothingbutshowtheirhelplessnessinitsface.Thosewhocanbreathet hroughtheholesofthenetshouldberegardedbeyondcommonnessandvulgarity.Lo vecanbringustemporarycomfortandhappiness,butmostlytheybringaboutannoyanceandsufferings.Maybethisisthereasonwhy manypeoplehaveseenthroughtheillusionsofthemortalworld.Howeveritisnots oeasytobreakawayfromthisboundless,ever-existingandindifferentnetoflove.Loveisvariedandchangeable,butroughlyitcanbedividedintothreecategories:familylove,fraternalloveandamatorylove.NotlikeMonkeyKingwhojumpedoutoftherocks,wewereallbornaftermotherspregnancyofaboutninemonths,hencewehavecountlessrelativeswithoutanychoice:parents,grand-parents,andgrand-parents-in-law,unclesandaunties,brothersandsisters,etc.andoncelookingatthegenealogicaltree,wellseenoend.Familyloveiswhateveryonelongsfor,butthewarmthandsupportfromourbelovedonesarewhateveryoneyearnsforthemo st.Buthowmanyofusaredeterminedtocontributetoourbelovedone?Andhowmanyd ontexpectrepaymentandrelaxed.conscienceeveniftheyhavethedesireandprep arationtocontributetotheirbeloved.Thedistancebetweenrelativesisdiffer entandsoaretheirexpectations.Butsinceitsverydifficulttoknowhowmuchwes houldexpect,alotofworriesanddistressesemerge.Parentsalwaysexpecttheirchildrentoshowtheirfilialobedience,oratleastpaythemfrequentvisitsaftertheyhavegotmarried.Ifthechildrenfa iltodothis,theyfeelhurtandupset,andtheyllevencomplainabouttheirchildren,becausetheyjustcantunderstandwhytheirchildrendontcareaboutthemafterwh attheyhavedoneforthechildrenforsomanyyearstobringthemup.Nevertheless,onesexperiencedetermineshisideology.Youngchildrenarenaturallyattachedtotheirparents,butwhentheygrowup,speciallywhentheyhavemadetheirownfriends,andgotmarried,whattheyneedmostisindependenceandfreedom,andparentssometimesmightbecometheirburden.Oncethereisgenerationgap,itbecomesmoredifficulttocommunicateandthiskeepsthemawayfromtheirparen ts.Objectivelyspeaking,theyneedmoreindependenceinordertoachievesuccess.Inthepresentsociety,whatthechildrenwanttohavemostistheeconomicsupportfromtheirparents,nottheirmoralsupportorguidance.Theywouldcomplainifyoureconomicsupport isnotuptotheirexpectations.Thelovefromunclesandauntieswouldnaturallyd windleaftertheyhavehadtheirownchildren.Onlythelovefromgrand-parentsan dgrandparents-in-lawispureanddemandsnorepayment,andtheyarealsotoooldtowaitforanyrepayment.Asforthedistantrelatives,theirlovedependsontheirneeds,justastheoldsayinggoes “Thepoorhavenofriendseveniftheyliveindowntownwhiletherichhavedistantrelativeseveniftheyliveindeepmountains”.GrannyLiu,adistantkinsfolk,inADreamoftheRedMansions,claimskinshipwiththewealthyJiafamily,thinkingthatshemaybenefitfromitinsomeways.Liumighthaverunawaywithouta nytracesiftheJiafamilyhadbeenapoorone.Anothersayinggoes “Closeneighborsarebetterthandistantrelatives.”Themostdifficultistomanagetherelativeswhendoingbusinesstogether,justaswhattheTVseriesprogramLiuLaogendiscloses.Itisallrighttostaypoor together,butassoonasthebusinessgrowsprosperous,thegroupwillbecomeestrangedandevendissolvebecauseoftheunfairdistribut ion.Familyloveislikeamazewhichweshouldntgotoofarintoit,otherwise,wellsurelygetlost.Loveisabilateralmatterandunilaterallovecanonlyleady outonowhereinspiteofyourgoodintentions.Familyloveis,sometimes,likeanarrangedmarriage,leavingnochoicestoyou.Duetothedifferentexperiencesandtastes,stayingtogethertemporarilycanbeentertaining,whilelivingtogetherforalongtimecanonlybeboringduetothelackofcommonint erestandunderstanding.Howcanwecommunicatewitheachotherwithoutundersta nding?Parentshavethedutytosupportthechildrenwhoarenotyeteconomicallyi ndependent,andchildrenhavetheresponsibilitytoprovidefortheelderlyparentswhoarela ckofeconomicabilitiestosupportthemselves.Exceptthesetwokindsofdutiesw hichwemustfulfill,otherkindsoflovebecomeconventionalformalitiessuchaspayingvisittothesi ckorthedeadandgivingpresentstothenewly-bornetc..Noloveamongrelativeshasbecomeanormalphenomenonwhichneednttobefussedab out.Whatsworseiswhenloveiscontaminatedbymoney.Soonerorlaterwewillgeth urt.Thesoonerwegetoutofthisnetoflove,themorewecanpreservebeautifulmemories.Wearenotlivinginvacuum,andthesocietyisformedofvariouskindsofpeople.Aslongaswewanttolive,study,orwork,wehavetocontact,communicateandcooperatewithothers.Thosewhoenjoycommoninterests,mutualunderstanding,commonundertakingsandcommonbenefitsbecomefriends. 51页12345Somefriendsarecalledfair-weatherfriends,becausetheyaretogetherjustforentertainingthemselvesbyeating,drinking,andgossiping.Oncetheresnothingtoeatanddrink,theirfriendshipisfinished.Somearespiritualfriendswhosharecommonambiti ons,pursuitsandeducation.“Theyenjoytalkingandlaughingwiththegreattalentsandnevermakefriendswi ththegood-for-nothings”.ThebestexampleswouldbeYuBoyaandZhongziqiofth eancienttimeswhoarefamousnotonlyfortheirloftymusicbutmainlyfortheirlo ftycharactersandmutualunderstandingandappreciation.Theycaredverylittl eaboutmaterialwealth,sotheirfriendshipisknownas“gentlemensfriendshipaspureaswater”.Thethirdtypeoffriendshipbelongt othosewhoshowtheirutterdevotiontoeachother.Theyarereadynotonlytoshare wealandwoebutalsotodieforeachother,likethethreebrothersLiu,GuanandZhanginthenovelRomanceoftheThreeKingdoms..Weallwishtohavethisk indoffriendship,butitsofgreatdifficultyfortheordinarypeopletobeasdevotedastheywere.Fraternalloveorfriendshipiswide-rangedandflexible.Generallyspeaking,everyoneisourfriend,justasChairmanMaosays “Ourfriendsareallovertheworld”.Buttranscendage,sex,nationality,stateandeconomicconditions.Tothemthemostimportantiscommonbenefit,commoninterestandunderstanding.Friendshipisformedduringthecourseofstu dying,workingandfighting.Thebattlecompanionswhohavesurvivedmanyhazardsusual lyenjoylong-lastingfriendship.However,fraternalloveisnotstable.Beingawayfortooalongtime,losingallcommonbenefits,friendswillbecomeestranged.Oncetheirinteresthaschanged,theynolongerunderstandeachother,andeventhiswouldharmfriendship.Atalltimesandinallcountries,manyclosefriendsandbattlecompanionswhoonceworkedtogetherandfoughttoge therbecameenemiesintheend.QuietafewoftheemperorsinancientChinaevenkil ledthosewhohadhelpedthemfoundtheirdynasties.TheTaipingHeavenlyKingdom wouldnothavefailedifithadntbeenforthecontendingandmassacringamongthet hosewhofirstroseinrebellionatthebeginningoftheuprising.Whatelseweneed topayattentiontoisthatsomefriends,afterbeingawayfromeachotherfortoolongatime,havelostsomuchoftheiroriginalcharactersthatwhenmeetingagain,youwillfeelthatyouarestillthesameasyouwere,whiletheyarenolongerthemselves.Theymayhavethesamefeelingaboutyou,sosometimesitsbetternottomeeteachotheragain.AstheChineseproverbgoes “friendshipcannotlastforthreeyearsandflowerscannotstayinblossomforth reemonths”.Itsnotsoeasytomaintainrealfriendshipwhichneedsmutualunder standing,toleranceandsacrifice.Anykindsofharshtreatmentwilldamagefriendship.Amatorylovehasbeenamysteryforages.Theresneitheracriteriontojudgenorac ommonruletofollow.Nobodycantelltheexactreasonswhyloveemerges.Itisnota lwaysbecauseofbeauty(theuglydoorkeeperQuasimodoinTheHunchbackofNotreD ameislovedbythebeautifulGypsygirlEsmeralda),norkindness(Hitleralsohashismistress),norwisdom(eventheblockheadmaysometimesmarryabeautifulgirl),norstrength(somelovestartsfromsympathy).Trueloveislikegettinganelectr icshock,shakingoursoul.Itisasweetdream,akindofintoxication,indulgence,andendlesspassion.Truelovedoesntneedalongtimetogrowup,tomakeclearthefamilytreeoftheother,neitherdoesitneedsthetimetolookaheadandbehindagainandagain.Loveisnotm arriage,whichusuallystartsfromlove,butdoesntalwaysdependonlovetomaintain.Long-lastingmarriagecaneventual lyturnintoakindoffamilylove,akindofcompanionshipwhichpreservesthecompanionbutlosesthepassion.Love isoftenanwinkoftheeye,orasmilethathintsmutualunderstanding.Inspiteofthegreatdistancebetween them,peoplemayfallinloveincidentally.Hencethesaying “adistantmarriageistiedupwithamysteriousthread”.Loveneedspassion,anditcanstandbumpsandstumbles,upsanddowns,complaintsandblames.Whenitturnsintoapoolofwater,especiallydeadwater,withoutanybillowsorwaves,itstimeforittodie.Delicaciesaretasty,buteatingeverydaycanstillmakeoneloseappetite.Happinessiswhateveryonel ongsfor,buttoomuchhappinesscanspoilpeoplewhomaynotcareaboutthehappinesstheyal readyhave.Itsuniversaltoliveinhappinesswithoutknowingit.Thesameistrue withlove.Veryfewpeoplecanlovethesamepersonpassionatelyalltheirlives.A lllovestoriescometoanendnomatterhowbeautifultheyare,whichalsodemonstratethechangeabilityoflove.Whatonehasbeenchasingwildl ymayturnintosomethingonewantstogetridofdesperatelyintheend.Besides,loveisusuallyblind,especiallythosewhofallinloveatthefirstsight.Attheverybeginning,bothtrytodemonstratetheirbeautifulsideandcoveruptheirWeakness.Fooledb ythemysteriouscoloroflove,oneoftenmistakestheweaknessesasmerits.However,astimepassesby,frequentcontactsmakeonebored,andevenmeritsbecomedefects,andthentheendofloveiscoming.Whatsmore,therearethecapriciousmenandwomenwhonevertakeloveseriously,leavingthedevotedonessufferingalone.Thesayingthatthedevotedisalwaysab andonedbytheheartlesshasalmostbecomethetruthofloveaffairs.Whatwecantn eglectisthatlovemayturnintohatred,andloversmayalsobecomeenemies.Thebestproofisthenumerousdivorces.Eventhoughtrueloveishardtofindnowadays,westillcanseesometrueandinfatuatedboysandgirlswhoreadilygiveuptheirfa milies,theirparents,theirstudies,theircareersandeventheirlivesforlove.Theylovesopassionately,crazilyandwildlythattheyhateanyonewhoisagainsttheirlove,andmayevenharmorkillhimifheinsistsonhisobjection.52页12345Lovehasmagicalpowerthatcanexploitpeoplespotentialabilities,bringpeoplespositivefactorsintofullplay,andprovidepeoplewiththecouragetofacetrialsandhardships,togothroughlifeanddeath,andeventoriskuniversalcondemnation.Evenintheancientfeudalsociety,somepeoplewerecourageousenoughtocarryonclandestineloveaffairs.Theexam plesinpointwerethecourageousoneswhodaredtolovetheconcubinesoftheemper orsorthechildrenoftheirfoes.Lovealsohasmiraculouspowerwhichcanstartle theuniverseandmovethegodsbyattractingtheheavenlycelestialscomingdownt oearth(TheLoveStoryoftheCowboyandtheWeavingGirl),andbyturningghostsintohuman(StrangeTalesofLiao-zhai).Lovecantranscend ageandgeneration(Dr.SunYat-senandMadamSongQingling;LuxunandXuGuangpin g).lovecanshowcontemptforallconventionsandprejudices;lovecanhealwound sandcurediseases,andlovecanreadjustpeoplesstateofmind.Ofcourse,theresultwouldbetheoppositeonceithurts.Greatmenyearnfortrueloveevenmorethanordinarypeople.Sincetheancienttim es,somanyheroescouldnthelpfallingintothetrapoflovethatthesex-traphasbeenregardedasoneofthe36stratagemsinmilitarytactics.Fuchai,thekingoftheWuState,couldntbesparedofthistrap,andGeneralsDongzhuoandLubufelldeeplyintoitwhileXiangyu,theKingoftheWesternChuState,bidfarewelltohisbelovedconcubineintears.Peoplemayhavetopayveryhighpri ce,eventheirillustriousnameforthelovetheylongforeventhoughitmaylastforon lyaveryshorttime.Nonethelessnoonecantearhimselfawayfromlove.Peopleoft ensaythattheirearthlyaffinityisnotyetfinished,butinfactitistheloveaffinitythatisthemostdifficulttofinish.Loveisshapelessandpriceless.Wecanblamenobodywhencapturedbyit.Lovecann otbeforced,norcanitbepretended.Sympathyisnotlove,neitherisgratitude.Lovemustbegeneratedfromtheheart,andexpressedinactions.Itcannotbecalledlovewithoutpassionsandadeeplongingfromthebottomoftheheart.Theresnoimpassablegulfbetweenfamilyloveand fraternallove.Somefamilylovemayturnintofriendship.Atthesametime,naturalbarriersdoesntexisteitherbetweenfraternalloveandamatorylove.So mefriendshipmaydevelopintoamatorylove.Thesameistruewithamatorylovewhi chmaychangeintofamilyloveafteralongtimeofmutualgrindingandpolishing.T heclosertherelationship,andthehighertheexpectationsare,themoredifficultitistogetalongwitheachother.Familylove,fraternalloveandamatorylovearethreemainhumanfeelings.Ifhandledwell,theycanbringusextremehappiness,whilehandledimproperly,willbringusgreatsufferings.Thepresentsocietyisaworldofdazzlingmoneyanddwindlinghumanfeelingconta cts.Mostpeopleholdasnobbishattitude.Theyonlymakefriendswithpeopleofwe althandofhighsocialstatus.JustasZhenShiyensaidinhisexpoundingoftheson g“AllGoodThingsMustEnd”inADreamoftheRedMansions“Whilemenwithgoldandsilverbythechest,turnbeggarsscornedbyallanddispossessed”.Franklyspeaking,however,ifweregardmoneythefirstthinginwhicheveroneofthethreekindsofloves,itwilldepreciateandevenbecomeworthless.Lovecannotpretend,norcanittoleratetoomuchselfishmotives.ItisreportedthatanoldmaninJiang suProvincelefthismillionYuanheritagetohisyounghousekeeperinsteadofhis ownchildren,becausehisownchildrendidnttakecareofhimwhiletheyounghousekeeperaccomp aniedhimthroughhislastlonelyandhelplessyears.Loveiseasilyperceivableandperceptible.Flatterywordsmaybecheatable,buttrueloveandfalsefeelingscaneasilybedistinguished.Ifthepeopleyoulov eonlyknowhowtospendyourmoney,youshouldbecarefulofthem.Everyonecanhelpyouspendyourmoneyifyougivethe mthechance.Neverturnyourloveintotheslaveofmoney.Loveshouldbeselfless,andfeelingsshouldbesincere.Weshouldntjudgeourfeelingsaccordingtothedi stanceoftherelationship.Everyonetreasuresloveandnobodycanfoolhimselfo rtheothers.AChinesesayinggoes:realheroesyearnevenmorefortruelove,andgreatmencherishtenderlovefortheirchildren.Wearethesaintonearth,andshouldtreasureourlove,butweshouldknowhowmuchisgoodandwheretostop.Sincetheresnoever-lastingb anquet,noristhereanendlesslovestory,weshouldtakethegainsandlossesoflovewithperfectcomposure.Theresfragran tgrassineverycorneroftheearth,andyoucanalwaysfindyourloveinthisworld. TranslatedbyZhangBaodanJune20,~中文人类几千年,有过许多的发明创造,有过许多的新奇发现,现在又在探索宇宙的奥秘,但始终搞不懂的就是一个“情”字。