网瘾青少年亲子关系研究

华中科技大学

硕士学位论文

网瘾青少年亲子关系研究

姓名：胡婷

申请学位级别：硕士

专业：社会学

指导教师：郝玉章

20090529

华中科技大学硕士学位论文

摘要

日前发布的二00五年《中国青少年网瘾数据报告》显示，目前中国网瘾青少年约占青少年网民总数的13.2%，另有约13%的青少年存在网瘾倾向。青少年网络成瘾已经成为备受关注的问题。

青少年沉迷网络的影响因素是多样化的，亲子关系是其中特别值得关注的一种影响因素。因为亲子关系能直接作用青少年个体的人格发展，直接影响青少年的情绪行为，导致亲子互动能直接且深刻地影响青少年网络行为。我国目前关于网瘾青少年这个特殊群体的亲子关系研究较为贫乏，深入探讨网瘾青少年亲子关系方面的研究具有重要的理论价值和实践意义。

本研究主要运用非结构式访谈和参与观察法，采取目的性抽样法，通过2009年2月到2009年3月对12到18岁这个年龄段的16个网瘾青少年或有网瘾倾向的青少年的访谈和观察获得第一手的定性材料，通过对这些定性材料的梳理和分析，笔者将网瘾青少年亲子关系分为暴力—报复型、专制—仇恨型、溺爱—散漫型和疏忽—冷漠型等四种类型，并从孩子和父母两个角度呈现网瘾青少年亲子关系存在亲子感情淡漠，亲子沟通少，亲子间的尊重和理解不够，亲子间相互不信任，父母对孩子教育期望值过高，部分家长信奉“鞭子下出孝子”的思想，亲子双方都存在个性缺陷等问题。

在完成对这些网瘾青少年亲子关系的静态考察后，笔者又从网瘾青少年身份形成和身份解除两个角度对网瘾青少年亲子关系进行了动态的分析，从早期亲子关系与初步触网、亲子对抗与逐步跌入网络黑洞、亲子矛盾激化与网瘾身份完全形成三个阶段来呈现并解释了亲子关系与网瘾青少年身份形成的内在逻辑关联，笔者认为不良亲子关系发展和恶化的过程也是网瘾青少年身份形成的过程；最后笔者又对网瘾青少年身份解除过程中亲子关系的新特点进行了分析，在研究的基础上笔者认为家长应学会将网瘾的子女建构成一个好孩子，给予他们爱与信任，与他们共同努力应对网络成瘾问题，这些努力都是网瘾青少年走出网瘾，解除网瘾身份的关键动因。

在本研究的最后，笔者在研究发现的基础上对网瘾青少年亲子冲突的根源，亲子关系在青少年网络成瘾中的心理学作用机制，青少年沉迷网络原因的多样化，网络时代亲子关系的新特点进行了讨论，希望这些讨论结果能启发后来研究者发现更多的研究目标。

关键词：青少年亲子关系网络成瘾身份形成身份解除

华中科技大学硕士学位论文

Abstract

"The China Youth Net Addiction Data Report（2005）" which released Recently shows that Chinese Internet addiction youth is about 13.2% of the total Internet users, while there are about 13% of young people is inclining to Internet Addiction. Youth Internet addiction has become a major problem.

Young people indulge in the network is involve a variety of factors, parent-child relationship is one of the factor which Worthy of the attention. Because Individual's personality development of young people is affect by the parent-child relationship directly. China’s current research on the parent-child relationship of the network of young people is poor, so depth study about the subject has important theoretical value and practical significance.

Non-structured interviews and Participant observation is used as main methods in this study, Purposeful sampling method is also be used. The firsthand materials are obtained by 16 addicted or inclining addicted young people who are interviewed and observed by the investigator. The Parent-child relationship of Internet Addiction Youth is classified into four types which are violence - the revenge type, autocratic - hatred type, spoil - faced type, neglect - cold type. There are many problems of Parent-child relationship are found by the investigator .Such as faint feeling between parent and child, less communication between parent and child, parents and children do not respect each other, parents and children do not trust each other, parents＇educational expectations of the children is too high, some parents believed in the "spoil the child under the whip," both Parents and children are have personality defects .

Dynamic analysis on the Parent-child relationship of Internet Addiction Youth is explored from two angles such as the formation of identity and the deconstruction of identity after the static study. The inherent logic associated of Parent-child relationship and Internet Addiction is rationale from three development processes such as early parent-child relationship and Initial contact network, parents —children locked in a