无声告白英文详细简介及读后感Everything I Never Told You
功能对等理论下的小说翻译——以《无声告白》为例
文学评论·外国文学功能对等理论下的小说翻译——以《无声告白》为例潘潇 青岛科技大学摘 要：随着中西方文化的深入交融，人们对精神生活的不断追求，越来越多的人也开始青睐西方文学，本文以美国著名翻译家，尤金•奈达的功能对等理论为依据，对《无声告白》的汉译英版本进行分析研究，以论证功能对等理论对于图书翻译的重要意义。
关键词：奈达；翻译；无声告白；功能对等理论[中图分类号]：H315.9 [文献标识码]：A[文章编号]：1002-2139(2018)-12-139-01一、奈达的“对等功能”翻译理论“功能对等”翻译观首次出现在公众的视线是在1964年，奈达将这个新的名词发表在《翻译科学探索》一书中。
奈达认为，翻译是为以读者或者说言语接受者服务的，要评判一个译文的好与不好，首先要看读者对译文的翻译如何。
“功能对等”的灵活性很大，对此，奈达也承认对等的程度取决于原文和译文在文化上的差异性，差异越大，对等程度越低。
奈达还提出关于对等的两个层次: 最高层次的对等和最低层次的对等。
最高层次的对等是指译文的读者应该能够以与原文的读者相一致的方式理解原文并更进一步地欣赏原文，这是翻译工作者所追求的最高境界；所谓最低层次的对等，就是指译文读者能够想象到原文读者是如何欣赏原文。
绝对的对等固然少见，但翻译工作者仍应以追求对大程度的对等为目标，并要尽最大的可能忠实原文，尽量降低翻译中信息的流失奈达的功能。
奈达的功能对等理论对于小说译者具有重要的意义，译者需要足够的翻译理论基础，才能更好地理解原作，更准确的转达原文情感。
下面以《无声告白》为例，从词汇层面，句法层面和修辞层面，分析奈达的功能对等理论对小说翻译的指导意义。
1. 简要介绍《无声告白》《无声告白》是伍绮诗耗时六年写就的第一本长篇小说，故事编排精妙细致，文笔沉稳内敛，一经出版便广受好评。
此书反映了西方特有的文化现象，通过翻译，将其转化成中国的语言符号，并且让中国读者能够同样的感同身受书中的人物形象，离不开功能对等理论的指导。
无声告白读后感
无声告白读后感无声告白读后感(15篇)当仔细品读一部作品后，相信你一定有很多值得分享的收获，现在就让我们写一篇走心的读后感吧。
可能你现在毫无头绪吧，以下是小编帮大家整理的无声告白读后感，仅供参考，大家一起来看看吧。
无声告白读后感1《无声告白》这本书的英文名是< Everything I Never Told you>,真正是最切合每个人内心想法的。
詹姆斯，从来没有告诉过任何人，他内心的孤独，他被别人孤立的自卑感。
玛丽琳，从来没有告诉过别人，她想要成为一个与众不同的人，她想要成为一个女医生的愿望内斯，从来没有告诉过别人，他的愿望是想受到爸爸妈妈的关注，想告诉他们自己想从事航空事业。
汉娜，从来没有告诉过别人，她想受到家里人的关注，她想简简单单的`获得爸爸和妈妈的拥抱。
莉迪亚，从来没有告诉过别人，她不想当一个女医生，她不想出去和别的同学交朋友，甚至于她都不知道自己想做什么。
反观自己，在我们从小到大长大的过程中，总是会受到他人这样或那样的期待，很多都是以爱为名，但是有些时候这样的期待只是他们无法实现，而强加在我们身上的愿望。
也许我们完全的做自己不太可能，但是也一定要努力的去探寻自己的内心，知道自己内心真实的渴望，努力去靠近它。
人生苦短，我们终此一生，就是要摆脱他人的期待，找到真正的自己。
无声告白读后感2读完了还久久沉浸在故事里，在读完前一直很压抑，为莉迪亚感到惋惜！虽然作者每一章节都在不同的时间段跳动，但是读的很流畅，很有感。
故事虽然发生在美国，但父母对我们的期望又何尝不是这样呢？总想着给我们最好的，为我们提前铺好路，让我们成为她们理想中的样子。
仔细想想一切都是规划好的，一眼就可以看到底的人生还是很可怕的！不过值得庆幸的是自己父母还是比较尊重我的看法的。
书的封面写着“我们终此一生，就是要摆脱他人的`期待，找到真正的自己。
”这就是这本书想带给我们最主要的问题吧。
现在的我其实并不完全确定自己是否会特别热爱那个高考前一直想实现梦想，只有真正的到达下一个结点我才能决定是否继续或是向其他方向继续前进。
读书笔记：《无声告白》里的父母 英文
读书笔记：《无声告白》里的父母 (英文)Everything I Never Told You is a beautiful but poignant novel about a -year-old girl’s death and her mixed-race family as the only Chinese American family in a small town in Ohio in .It was Chinese American writer Celeste Ng’s debut novel, but has enjoyed great success in both the United States and China.On , it got 4, reviews; while in China, its Chinese translated edition received , reviews on , and , people reviewed it on .Readers in both nations have discussed one of the center themes in the novel -- that the young generation need to break free from the burden of parents’ expectations and find their own place. In this book review, however, I want to focus on the girl’s father James and her mother M arilyn.I will explore how they both fail in their life struggles and how they end up placing their burdens on their daughter, which causes her breakdown.When a young girl commits suicide, the first and most important question is: How has everything gone so wrong? The author asks this question in chapter two and answers immediately:How had it begun? Like everything: with mothers and fathers. Because of Lydia’s mother and father, because of her mother’s and father’s mothers and fathers. B ecause long ago, her mother had gone missing, and her father had brought her home. Because more than anything, her mother had wanted to stand out; because more than anything, her father had wanted to blend in. Because those things had been impossible. It occurs to me that here the author points out two problems: (1), that Marilyn thinks so highly of standing out that she might sacrifice anything else to achieve it, and James, contrastively but in some sense similarly, values most the ability to blend in and let the desire to blend in defeat other feelings and longings of his; (2), unfortunately, it has been impossible for both of them to fulfill their aspirations.Why these aspirations are so important for them, and why they turn out to be impossible to fulfill? We need to analyze the reasons from several aspects.First, when she was a young girl, Marilyn’s ambition to stand out is, in some sense, her protest against the rigid discrimination ideology of gender but her isolation makes her protest futile.She sees her mother’s insistence on abiding by the traditional role of a woman meaningless and ironic. Besides, her mother also obliges her to be a traditional woman as well. Marilyn is disappointed and angry with her mother. Moreover, when she marries a Chinese American man she loves, she again confronts her mother’s racism and gets even more disappointed and angry.Many times of confrontations with her mother push Marilyn to isolate herself from her mother, and her mother from Marilyn.People would think isolation is necessary and a sort of solution to conflicts. However, nobody is a lonely island in the world. The sexism and racism could only be changed through communications little by little.It seems that by ending relationship with her mother Marilyn gets her own life, however, actually she did nothing to change the attitudes of her mother. Sexism and racism remain in her mother’s mind. It is clear that Marilyn stilllives in an unfavorable, unmoved world and therefore her isolation is ineffective protest.Second, since a woman’s dream of becoming a doctor is really hard to fulfill at any time, even harder when she has to take care of her kids, she needs to reach out for help. But she doesn&#;t.Escaping her responsibilities as a mother to fulfill her dream to be a doctor is extremely unrealistic and doomed to hurt everyone in the family. It is not impossible if she gets understanding and support from her husband and kids, even from her mother, and make plausible arrangements together with them. Unfortunately, She treats her mother, who is a teacher and very adept in housekeeping and could possibly be her support and resource, as only enemy to escape from. Worse, she even won’t disclose her ambition to her h usband to win his support.Why? It seems she believes she either disowns her kids to go to medical school or she gives up her dream to take the role of keeping a house. She assumes that no one would support her, not her husband, or her mother, or her kids.To some extent it is true, from James’ response when she expresses she wants to work: “No. When I get tenure, we’llhave all the money we need,” and from the professor she wants to work for: “I had no idea you were actually serious about that. With your children and your husband and all.”It is understandable she is a lonely soldier in . She is inevitably overwhelmed and silenced by difficulties of clarifying misunderstanding and balancing study and family, never reaches out for help, escapes without explaining, and brings horrible harm to her children. I strongly argue at least some nonsupport is from misunderstanding and she could have tried to eliminate it or change it to understanding and support.As Iris Chang depicts in her The Chinese in America, given all the obstacles faced by Chinese Americans in the s, Bessie Jeong, one of the nation’s earliest Chinese American women physicians, approaches life with a mixture of natural optimism and resilience. She harbored no bitterness toward her tradition-bound family and even reconciled with her father. She had a wide circle of friends. She proved adept at managing a career along with a family.Although women like Bessie Jeong were rare, it is certain that women do have a choice, no matter how enormous the pressures are, to balance their career and family.Meanwhile, Marilyn’s husband, James, has also got a lot of things wrong. It seems to me that he bears an original sin, that is, his father came to American under a false name. “Everyone’s name was false”, the author writes, “Everyone hoped not to be found out and sent back. Everyone clustered together so they wouldn’t stand out.”On the one hand, James would blend in at any cost, including bending his head when his father was called to the classroom to mop up a spill and walking to and from school alone to pretend he had no connection with his Chinese parents; on the other hand, he considers Marilyn’s love as the symbol of “America herself” taking him in. He feels it is too good to be true. He fears that “she might suddenly realize her mistake and disappear from his life as suddenly as she had entered”. He overly indulges in this insecurity and gradually fixes it as the nature of his relationship with his wife.I could not say that he does not love his wife, but it is not love when he has no intention at all to learn about her bitterness toward her mother’s sexism and racism and her inner struggles as a woman who has a career ambition.His insecurity dominates his marriage and leads him tointerpret wrongly her behaviors many times. Without any confidence in Marilyn’s love, he believes she might leave him anytime. Finally, he commits adultery desperately in the crisis of his daughter’s death.It is undeniable that the discrimination against Chinese in America has been so demoralizing that it leads to a series of sins: false names, pretending having no connections with parents instead of honoring them, slapping his son for not trying to blend in, and even adultery.It also brings deep sorrow and heavy insecurity. James and his parents have been surrounded by the institutionalized discrimination wherever they go. No matter how hardworking they are, life is always oppressing. His father died soon after hi s mother died of cancer because “his father simply hadn’t wanted to live alone”.James never shared his life before he meets Marilyn because nearly everything about his parents is sad, because he fears that she would see him as “a scrawny outcast, feeding on scraps, reciting his lines and trying to pass. An imposter.”Being outcast, he dreads the word “different” and outbursts violently when his wife says she thought he wasdifferent: “You’ve never had people mock you to your face. You’ve never been treated like a stranger. You have no idea what it’s like, being different.” Years of being discriminated makes him lonely and vulnerable.In order to protect himself from the harsh situation, he has become insensitive to life. He is unable to build empathy with his wife. He could not even understand what she means by “different”.Yet it is not fact that James has no choice. In fact, he makes wrong choice by enduring the oppression silently and allowing shame, insecurity, and weakness to take overself-esteem and autonomy. He could have cared about his wife’s pain of giving up student life and career ambition. He could have supported his children’s wish to be themselves.But he chooses to ignore his wife’s needs, suppress his children’s interests, and coerce them to gain popularity among the whites. It tremendously hurts his family in all aspects.After his daughter dies, he further surrenders to discrimination by admitting his marrying a white girl was a mistake and they and their children would not fit in anywhere, as Marilyn’s mother suggested. “He had hung his head likea murderer, as if his blood were poison, as if he regretted that their daughter had ever existed.”The bitterness evokes both sympathy and anger from Marilyn. Unlike him, she is a fighter. She fights against humiliation from the men and against racism. When she realizes that her husband always expects that she would “regret” their marriage, she is disappointed that he doe not fight together with her.J ames’ life shows that to surrender to discrimination does not lead to happy life, it only results in bitterness. To fit in, especially to assimilate throughself-repression, could be destructive. For his kids, it hinders the development of their self-respect and critical thinking ability necessary to struggle effectively toward their empowerment.Lydia becomes more and more vulnerable during this process until she breaks down. She does not fall apart because she is not a white girl, instead, she could not bearself-repression any longer.As Marilyn mourns over the unfulfilled dream and wants her daughter to fight together with her to be exceptional, however, she oppresses her daughter, in some sense, toembrace what the girl has not wanted.The oppression from your mother who loves you is most unbearable, especially when it is intertwined with strong fear that she might leave you like she did before.In their life, there is no discussion about the mother’s irresponsibility and th e child’s deep psychology damage caused by it. Marilyn does not think she needs her children’s forgiveness and understanding. But the fact is, both she and her children need to discuss equally what “exceptional” means and how they could be empowered to achieve success, like Marilyn finally discusses with James about theword“different” when she painfully discovers his adultery.How “different” has been different for the couple. To James, years of racial discrimination makes this word a humiliation in his entire life; to Marilyn, it is courage and ambition beneath the mundane life of housewife, “thoughts pinging the closed windows like a trapped bee”.Communication, even though it is a fight, enables them to understand each other for the first time and sympathize with each other to live a better life in the future. “For the rest of the summer, and for years after that, they will grope for the words that say what they mean: to Nath, to Hannah,to each other. There is so much they need to say.”It is the compassion toward each other that can save them from the terrible suffering of losing a child. And this compassion comes from constant, real communications. They have been silent, trying to forget about the past “with no looking back” to “start a new life together”, but silence only makes things worse, so do the incomplete messages. All the wrenches brought by discriminations need to be righted case by case, just like the world does not get better all of a sudden but slowly from person to person.Everything I Never Told You explores the example of a Chinese American family at the crisis of a daughter’s death. To make sense of how all has gone wrong, it goes back and forth in time, deep and subtly into everyone’s mind, and inside the problems of racism, sexism, family expectations, and misunderstandings. All the poignant details in the novel are saying that human beings, who almost are all suffering to different extents at different stages of life, need the compassion from each other to reconcile and rebuild a future together. And through full, equal communications can they understand what they really mean to let the compassion fallupon each other.。
Everything I Never Told You《无声告白》简析
Good afternoon everyone! I’m standing here to give my group’s presentation. The book we read is Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng. During the following time I will introduce this book from mainly 4 aspects and we will see what these four aspects are later. Introduction (author book)I guess almost all of you don’t know this author because I did not know her at all until we chose her book. I will tell you some specific information about her.Celeste Ng (Chinese Name: 伍綺詩) is an Chinese American writer and novelist. She has released many short stories that have been published in a variety of literary journals. Ng's first novel, Everything I Never Told You: A Novel, was released on June 26, 2014 and has won many awards such as Amazon Book of the year as wells as praise from critics. Celeste Ng's parents moved from Hong Kong, China in the late 60's. Her father was a physicist at NASA in the John H Glenn Research Center. Celeste’s mother was a chemist who taught at Cleveland State University. Ng studied English at Harvard. She then attended graduate school at University of Michigan where she earned her Master of Fine Arts in writing. (From Wikipedia)Main charactersJames Lee:Lydia’s father. Professor in Middlewood University. He is aChinese American, whose parents were the first generation immigrated to America. Growing up in a “racial discrimination” environment and always being totally different with everyone, he always tries to blend in them and be the same with them. Maybe that’s why he chose to marry Marilyn. This makes him coward and self-abased. He never faces the reality, on contrary, he always escapes from it.Marilyn: Lydia’s mother. A housewife. She is a white woman, growing up in a single parent family. Unlike James, she wants to be different all the time. And that is partly why she fights against gender inequality and fell in love with James. Because she didn’t realize her own dream, she pushes her wishes on her little daughter, Lydia, and gives her much pressure. She is very controlling and adventurous.Nathan: Lydia’s older brother. Nath is the first child of Marilyn and James. He holds on to his dream and finally makes it come true-enter Harvard to study astronantics. He is a quite sensitive boy and he is dissatisfied with his parents’ preference for Lydia. But at the same time, he likes her sister very much.Hannah: Lydia’s younger sister. Hannah is the youngest child but she is the most watchful one. She is always ignored by the whole family, so she longs for love and she is sensitive to love. She knows everything but she just keeps secrets for everyone.Jack: Lydia’s companion. Jack is the Lee’s neighbor. He pretends to bedandiacal but that’s only his way to hide himself and his feelings towards Nath. He is actually a kind and sensitive boy.Louisa: Assistant of Lydia’s father. She is a Chinese American. She is studying at graduate school. She has a crush on James and they have an affair for about 2 months after Lydia’s death.Causes of death:Family influence (life experience)1957James, the academically gifted child of Chinese immigrants spent his entire life yearning to belong and went on to become a university professor, where he met Marilyn in 1957 in a class he was teaching on American culture at Harvard. Meanwhile, Marilyn grew up disgusted by her homemaker mother and longed to become a doctor. When she met James and recognized the racist treatment he had been receiving, Marilyn immediately felt a kinship with him and the two began an affair. Discovering she was pregnant, she arranged for a quick marriage to James and was disgusted when her mother tried to stop the wedding after seeing that James was of Asian descent.•Influence on Lydia:James always wants to be the same with others and Marilyn always wants to be different. That’s why theychoose each other as their partner. The environment where both of them grow up makes them the same kind of person, who doesn’t know how to communicate with and express love to each other . Therefore, they love Lydia but they expressed their love ina wrong way. They forced Lydia to obey their willing. James, Lydia’sfather, cannot blend into the white, therefore, he kept putting force on Lydia’s interpersonal skills, urge Lydia to blend in the white community which made Lydia stressful. Marilyn, Lydia’s mother, felt regretful stopping pursuit her dream to become a woman doctor, so she hoped that Lydia could continue her dream and become an excellent doctor, which brought greater pressure on Lydia. They both cannot set a good example for Lydia, they cannot teach Lydia how to love and be lovable. Growing up in sucha family environment, Lydia always got confused and miserable. 1966Marilyn intended to go back and continue her studies to become a doctor after her son, Nathan, was born, but after a second pregnancy with Lydia she remained a home-maker for eight years. After receiving news of her estranged mother's death, Marilyn returned to her childhood home to deal with her mother's things and had a crisis after realizing that she achieved the home-maker life her mother always desired for her. After briefly returning home, she abandons the family inorder to pursue her academic studies without leaving a note. James believes that she has left because he and the children are Asian and she no longer wants to deal with the societal pressure of being outsiders. Influence on Lydia: Marilyn’s missing changes Lydia’s characters. During the period of Marilyn’s missing, Lydia became extremely sensitive and she eagerly wanted her mother back. That was when she decided that she would do anything Marilyn wanted her to do. Every time her mother asked, she said yes, yes, yes.1966, summerMarilyn's absence lasts nine weeks, during which she realizes she is pregnant with a third child, Hannah. She returns home and realizes she will never have the will to abandon her children and pursue a career again. Instead she begins to encourage Lydia to become a doctor, aggressively training her in math and other sciences. During Marilyn's absence, James also began favoring Lydia and bullying Nath, whom James perceives is as friendless as James was in childhood. Nath becomes jealous of Lydia and one day pushes her into the lake even though she cannot swim. However, the ease with which she falls causes Nath to realize that Lydia is drowning under the weight of her parents expectations. He rescues her and the two become close.Influence on Lydia: 1. Marilyn pushes her wishes on Lydia and gave her much pressure after she is back. Lydia just does what she promisedbefore and she makes efforts to it, being a doctor. However, Lydia is not interested in that at all and we can say that she is always struggling in those classes. 2. Another point is that Nath pushes Lydia into the lake. This plays a vital role on why Lydia chooses to “walk into” the lake one night. Maybe she feels that only in the water can she relax and she won’t be afraid because Nath would rescue her.1977, SpringBy the time they are teenagers, Lydia begins buckling under the weight of her mother's expectations and cannot keep up with the advanced courses her mother encourages her to take. She also is sick of faking for her father that she has friends. She begins to hang out with Jack, her next door neighbor who Nath hates, who has a reputation for deflowering town girls. Meanwhile, Nath, who has spent the past few years being ignored by his parents, is accepted into Harvard. Lydia is scared of being abandoned by Nath and tears up his acceptance letters. When she is caught by Nath, a rift develops between Lydia and Nath. Lydia goes to Jack, hoping to sleep with him; however, Jack tells her he is gay and in love with her brother and his reputation as a Lothario is a lie. Returning home, Lydia is determined to reveal her shortcomings to her father and mother. Tracing back her unhappiness to the time her brother pushed her into the lake, Lydia goes there late at night intending to jump into the water and swim back to shore, but failed to do it, she gotdrowned and die.Influence on Lydia: 1. Nath is admitted to Harvard. This stimulates Lydia. On the one hand, she feels disappointed because she cant handle all those her study stuff; on the other hand, Nath’s leaving makes her feel lonely and she’s afraid to lose him. 2. Lydia is forced to have social contact with others. James always wants her to blend in. But Lydia don’t have any friend. And James makes her embarrassed in front of her classmates. 3. Jack’s frankness hurts her.Individual factor1.Lydia rejects to contact with others. She walls herself off. She is lonelyand sensitive. She hides everything in her heart. Everything needs a way out.2.She doesn’t know how to deal with pressure and difficulties correctly.3.She is quite tender. To some extent, she never grows up. She is alwaysthe “Lydia” who can’t walk out the shadow that Marilyn gets missing. Social factors1.Because of racial discrimination, Lydia can not blend in thoseschoolmates.2.Lydia has no friend. She can’t find a right way to relieve her feelingsand she finds nowhere to pour out.ConclusionFrom this novel, we can learn a lot. We can see that the environment ofa family is vital and that it can even decide a person’s personality and his future life. Parents should treat their children equally and encourage their children. Children should speak out their own dreams and cling to it. Others should not judge people just by their color of skin and appearance. All of us should make efforts to build a more fair society where there is no discrimination.（Hannah）:I know everything about you but all I want is that you can know me and love me.-----------Hannah （Lydia）:All I want to tell you is that I want to be who I really am and do what I really like to do.---------------Lydia （Nath）Nigh in the smooth ocean of sky floated dazzling majestic stars. There so far away is the place where my dream began. But mom, dad, you arenever willing to enjoy its beauty or understand me.---------------Nath （Marilyn）I’m sorry about what troubles I have put on you. Now I realize that everyone has everyone’s dream and I should encourage you to achieve it.--------------Marilyn。
《无声告白》：于无声处听惊雷
《无声告白》：于无声处听惊雷作者：陈榕来源：《新东方英语》2016年第01期伍绮诗（Celeste Ng）出生于美国宾夕法尼亚州的匹兹堡，父母是20世纪60年代到美国的香港移民。
她的中学时代是在俄亥俄州的谢克海兹度过的。
1998年，她考入哈佛大学，学习英语专业，毕业后又参加了密歇根大学的写作硕士班，从那时起开始职业文学创作。
她所撰写的短篇小说以及散文发表于各类文学期刊。
《无声告白》（Everything I Never Told You）是她的第一部长篇小说。
这部小说战胜了英国资深历史小说家希拉里·曼特尔和美国畅销小说家斯蒂芬·金的作品，获得了2014年亚马逊年度小说奖。
Excerpts1）There is so much more to do， so much yet to be mended. But for now， he2） thinks only of this， his daughter3）， here in his arms. He had forgotten what it was like to hold a child—to hold anyone—like that. How their weight sank into you， how they clung instinctively. How they trusted you. It is a long time before he is ready to let her go.And when Marilyn4） wakes and comes downstairs， just as the light is fading， this is what she finds： her husband cradling their youngest in a circle of lamplight， a tender look of calm on his face.“You’re home，” Marilyn says. All of them know it is a question.“I’m home，” James says， and Hannah rises on tiptoes， edging toward the door. She can feel the room is poised on the edge—of what，she’s not sure， but she does not want to destroy this beautiful， sensitive balance. Accustomed to being overlooked， she sidles toward her mother，ready to slip by unnoticed. Then Marilyn touches a gentle hand to her shoulder，and Hannah’s heels land on the floor with a surprised thump5）.“It’s all right，” Marilyn says. “Your father and I just need to talk.” Then—and Hannah flushes with delight—she kisses her on the head， right where the hair parts， and says，“We’ll see you in the morning.”Halfway up the steps， Hannah pauses. From downstairs， she hears only a low murmur of voices，but for once she does not creep back down to listen. We’ll see you in the morning， her mother had said， and she takes this as a promise. She tiptoes across the landing—past Nath6）’s room， where behind the closed door her brother lies in a dreamless sleep， the remnants of the whiskey slowly steaming from his pores；past Lydia’s room， which looks， in the dark， like nothing has changed， though nothing could be further from the truth； all the way up to her own room， where through the windows the lawn outside is just beginning to turn from inky blue to black. Her glow-in-the-dark clock reads just past eight， but it feels later， like the middle of the night，the darkness quiet and thick as a down comforter. She wraps that feeling around her. From up here，she can’t hear her parents talking. But it’s enough to know that they’re there.………………………………………Downstairs， Marilyn lingers in the doorway， one hand on the jamb7）. James tries to swallow， but something hard and sharp lodges in his throat， like a fishbone. Once he had been able to read his wife’s mood even from her back. By the tilt8） of her shoulders， by the shifting of her weight from left foot to right，he would have known what she was thinking. But it’s been a long time since he looked at her carefully， and now， even face-to-face， all he can see are the faint wrinkles at the corners of her eyes， the faint wrinkles where her blouse has been crushed， then straightened.“I thought you’d gone，” she says at last.When James’s voice squeezes around the sharp thing in his throat， it comes out thin and scratched. “I thought you had.”And for the moment， this is everything they need to say.Some things they will never discuss： James will never talk to Louisa9） again， and he will be ashamed of this for as long as he lives. Later， slowly， they will piece together other things that have never been said. He will show her the coroner10）’s report； she will press the cookbook into his hands. How long it will be before he speaks to his son without flint11） in his voice； how long it will be before Nath no longer flinches12） when his father speaks. For the rest of the summer， and for years after that， they will grope for the words that say what they mean： to Nath， to Hannah，to each other. There is so much they need to say.In this moment of silence，something touches James’s hand， so light he can barely feel it. A moth， he thinks. The sleeve of his shirt. But when he looks down，he sees Marilyn’s fingers curled over his， the merest curve as they squeeze. He has almost forgotten what it felt like， to touch her. To be forgiven even just this much. He bows his head and rests it on the back of her hand，overwhelmed with gratitude at having one more day.作品赏析在小说《无声告白》中，李先生一家人的人生在1977年5月3日彻底改变了。
2023年《无声告白》读书笔记15篇
2023年《无声告白》读书笔记15篇《无声告白》读书笔记1"我们终此一生，就是要摆脱他人的期待，找到真正的自己。
"目录翻后的一页，写着"献给我的家人",以为是作者通过文字来表达心里对家人的真挚爱意。
没想到开篇第一章竟是个死亡通告——玛丽琳与詹姆斯最器重的女儿莉迪亚突然一个微笑离去。
孩子永远是最像父母的。
莉迪亚的出走与她的母亲如出一辙，在一个平静的时间，不作再见，就消失在众人眼里。
可玛丽琳是幸运的，她安全地回到家中，拥抱温暖。
莉迪亚却在寒冷的水中被鱼虾吞食。
我是同情莉迪亚的。
作为读者，我站在上帝的角度，倾听着他们心中的声音，感受着他们对自己人生的愤怒与不安，理解他们因此而采取的行动。
但眼睛不会泄密，家人不懂彼此真正的诉求，大家默默应许，过着happyending的平静生活，但所有人的背后都是鲜血淋淋的。
来自下层阶级的父亲，詹姆斯。
他一生都在追求本地人的认同，极力想要摆脱黑头发黄皮肤的"中国佬"的标签;玛丽琳是位很普通的美国女孩，她讨厌自己母亲对她的教导:女人一定要成为最会打理家事的贤妻良母。
因此她不甘平庸，要与男人们一争高下。
两个人都想改变，在一间公寓里，他们恩爱缠绵，互诉心意，以为彼此是拯救自己的天使。
可时间告诉他们，这也许不是个好想法。
所以玛丽琳与詹姆斯把期待对方的心情压在女儿莉迪亚身上。
会搬重物的骆驼也是需要休息的。
莉迪亚却是一刻不歇，尽力回应父母的目光。
这种关系形成了一个闭环。
内斯与汉娜无法参与其中，得不到父母的注视。
彼此之间的信任与依赖随着这样的联系变得稀薄。
家庭失衡。
所有人的内心动摇，言语之外的自己蠢蠢欲动。
乌云笼罩在莉迪亚一家，雷电打在莉迪亚心上。
家门口的码头，在夜晚，异常吸引人。
我不想认为莉迪亚是自杀。
在描述中，能感觉出来莉迪亚的放下，及对过往的总结，也看到她对新生活的向往。
她投身于湖中，这个曾经落水的码头，她盼望着自己的重生与转变，想好明日的见面，但浪漫理想主义者往往忽于现实，莉迪亚最终没能挣脱水的束缚。
《无声告白》读后感
《无声告白》读后感《无声告白》读后感(14篇)读完一本名著以后，大家心中一定有很多感想，让我们好好写份读后感，把你的收获和感想记录下来吧。
那么你会写读后感吗？以下是小编整理的《无声告白》读后感，希望对大家有所帮助。
《无声告白》读后感1今天我用了5个小时的时间，看完了这本由华裔人伍绮诗写的小说，据说这个书在20xx年在亚马逊名列第一。
这本书的背景是1977年的美国，写的是华人在美国的被人歧视与不公平的对待了。
但她并没有正面写这样的问题，而是通过人物的生活侧面说明了这样的问题了。
主人翁是一个华人小孩，他的父母通过欺骗的手段到了美国，就为了他能接受比较好的教育，因为他父母的亲戚说了如果去工作，小孩可以在他工作的学校里上学的，他的父母为了他咬牙就上了。
他去考试的时候就知道了了，其实学校是不想要招他的，但他有备而来，对他给出的考核都答对了，所以没有办法接受了他。
但整个学校只有他一个不是白人，所以他很孤独，又由于性格不开朗，他没有任何朋友，但他为了父母还是一直读书，成绩也不错的。
这样一直到他在哈佛读完了研究生，他在学校担任助教，他遇见了一个非常大胆的美国女学生，那个学生因为喜欢与众不同，所以一眼就喜欢上了他。
他们很快陷入了爱恋中，跟她在一起，他第一次觉得自己不是这个世界外的人了。
他一直对自己的身份非常的忌讳，他害怕有天女学生会离开他。
就像哈佛说好了要录取他做讲师的，结果却请了一个白人。
在女生大三的时候，他们有了第一个孩子，结婚提上案了。
可是女生的母亲却极力的反对他们的结婚，理由是种族不同，以后小孩会受到歧视的，但他们还是结婚了，结婚后的她的母亲跟她断绝了来往，女生也无限期的中断了学习。
这样在8年的时间里，他们先生了一个男孩，后来又生了一个女孩，他们的生活平静甜蜜，男主角非常的满意现在的生活，因为他有了自己的世界了。
直到一个电话打破了他们的平静，他的妻子的母亲去世了。
他的妻子去处理她母亲的身后事，在收拾东西的时候，她忽然觉得自己再也不能这样下去了，她该有自己的梦想，该继续自己以前的梦想，做一个医生的梦想。
《无声告白》读后感14篇
《无声告白》读后感14篇千万不要等到没机会了才深感遗憾。
亲情，永远是人生中重要的一部分。
在当时那个华裔处于被蔑视的时代背景下，詹姆斯和玛丽琳的结合使得整个家庭由于血缘继承、孩子的容貌类似父亲而必将承受被社会歧视。
正是由于出身就成为当地人眼中的“异类”，深受歧视之苦，詹姆斯便要做一个普通不张扬的人，极度渴望能融入大环境、融入人群中，他期待的是“自己扎入人群中，别人根本找不岀，他只需要平淡无奇”，这种态度也同时体现在他的婚姻和家庭生活中。
与之恰恰相反的是，玛丽琳却是一个狂热追求“个性展示、与众不同”的人，詹姆斯由于种族外表差异而导致的“与常人不同”，这一点正是玛丽琳最初被其深深吸引的根本原因。
认真阅读完本书，你就会明白造成莉迪亚人生悲剧的原因不仅仅在于与生俱来无法摆脱的种族血缘，更多的是在于父母对她的过度期望。
在如今的教育问题中，父母对子女过度的爱造成悲剧已经日益引发人们的思考。
其中一种爱就是常常被视为天经地义的过度之爱，即父母对孩子的过度期望。
这种情况通常是因为父母自身的理想未曾实现而深感遗憾，便在无意识中将这种期望转嫁到了子女身上。
父母爱孩子，应学会尊重孩子，而非全凭自己的期待为由代替孩子作选择；孩子爱父母，应理解父母的一片苦心，同时也要学会敢于说出自己内心的真实想法。
良好的沟通才能搭建起通向彼此心灵的桥梁。
在教育孩子这点上，我对自己其实是颇感失望的，我有时只关注孩子的“外在表现”，而非“完善内里”，这是很可怕的现象，就像一颗看似饱满美味多汁的百香果，一切开里面是干枯的，我想我一定要认真多读点书，好好改正缺点，给孩子正确的指引方向。
莉迪亚还小的时候，母亲玛丽琳的离家岀走给了她很大的影响，那种极度的不安全感在心中埋下了种子，这也为后续故事的发展做了铺垫。
在父母眼中，莉迪亚是个成绩不错懂事听话的孩子，他是父母眼中的骄傲，是家庭关注的焦点，但过度的关注却无形当中给了她难以承受的压力。
莉迪亚的哥哥是她精神上的支柱，妹妹汉娜则是“可有可无”的感觉，似乎找不到自己的存在感。
无声告白原版微盘
无声告白原版微盘无声告口原版微盘无声告白经典语录英文版《无声告白》读后感这本叫《无声告白》的小说，出自一位美籍华裔女作家之笔，扉页上的她很年轻，也很漂亮，很难想象如此深刻、如此刺痛灵魂的故事是这位优雅、温婉的女士所作。
小说探索了身份危机、人生成就、种族、性别、家庭以及个人道路。
写的是成为“异类”的那种负担与压力，这种负担与压力，通常会摧毁一个人，而不是塑造一个人。
同时山于詹姆斯的儿子性格软弱，这也让詹姆斯想起了年轻的自己，眼前的孩子似乎就是过去的自己。
他讨厌过去的自己，自然也不喜欢现在的儿子。
当他儿子告诉他他的梦想是去外太空，当宇航员的那一刻，他不知觉得打了孩子一巴掌，把他和孩子的牵绊打碎了。
因此詹姆斯觉得莉迪亚很像年轻的玛丽琳，那么合群、惹人喜爱，因此他把自己全部的关爱给了莉迪亚，因为内心的自己多么向往自己年轻时可以像莉迪亚这样。
莉迪亚山于害怕母亲再度离开家，让家庭支离破碎。
害怕父亲每天对自己失望的表情。
因此她选择了妥协。
虽然说自己会听从莉迪亚的想法，她只是给她建议，但每次LI前都带着强烈期待，也许她自己没有注意，但孩子全看到了心里，因此她只能每次用好的好的来回答。
以至于让妈妈认为她就是想要与众不同、就是想要当医生。
为了不让爸爸失望，她在没有任何朋友的情况下，选择拨打语言助手，自己则假装是在和好朋友聊天。
家庭和事业本身就无法分隔开，一旦产生它们势必会交融在一起。
任何企图把家庭和生活分开的手段都是徒劳，因为梦想再大也逃不过人心。
我记得毕业后不久面试了口鹭芳洲艺术基地的销售岗位，后来得知它主要是个性化婚礼策划的，而且老板和他的老婆在一起工作，他老婆是他的助手，她已经有了培养孩子的根本是培养孩子健全的人格。
这一切的基础是承认孩子是一个脱离父母的、独立的个体。
他属于自己的世界，有自己的梦想和性格。
他不是承载我们未完成的梦想的器皿。
而我们要做的只是在孩子实现自己梦想的道路上提供成年人的帮助，知道孩子的兴趣和天赋，把枯燥的事情用孩子感兴趣的形式表现出来，比如他喜欢动物不喜欢英语，用动物组成英语字母的形式或许有帮助。
《无声告白》读后感
《无声告白》读后感《无声告白》读后感精选15篇读完某一作品后，你心中有什么感想呢？需要写一篇读后感好好地作记录了。
是不是无从下笔、没有头绪？以下是小编收集整理的《无声告白》读后感，仅供参考，希望能够帮助到大家。
《无声告白》读后感1这本书讲的故事很简单，就是一个小女孩落入湖中死后，她的家人对此展开的一系列的回忆与反思。
插叙倒叙穿插其中。
对于此书真正想表达的东西，我看得不是很透彻，但是给我感触很深的有三点。
第一，父母们没有实现的梦想，不能强行塞给下一代，他们只顾着在孩子身上找回当初那个年轻的自己，那些自己未实现的梦想，并没真正的问过孩子喜不喜欢，愿不愿意，强大的压力压在孩子身上，让孩子忍耐着负重前行，只会适得其反。
第二，父母不能总看重和关注孩子的学业，成绩，也应该关注孩子的社交和课余的生活，引导和帮助孩子更好的学会与他人相处，学会结交朋友，不至于感到那么孤单，不至于一个人默默承受内心的煎熬与痛苦。
第三，父母应该学会聆听，聆听家中每个孩子的内心想法，无论他们是否优秀，都应该抽出时间与孩子一起分享成功的快乐与失败的痛苦，哪怕只是一次成绩的进步，不要让孩子觉得父母不关注自己，久而久之，他们就习惯了不与父母进行沟通交流，父母再也无法进入孩子的.内心深处。
与此同时，这本书也涉及到一部分对华人的歧视，混血黑发蓝眼睛女主与周围黄头发的美国同学存在差异，与周围环境格格不入，在学校没有朋友，女主的哥哥内斯，也是黑发，学游泳时被周围的小伙伴嘲笑，在游泳课后被同学捉弄，这让其父亲想到了自己年少时的遭遇，感同身受。
而女主的死也让她的白人母亲和华人父亲反思了他们遭到反对的婚姻是否正确？最近刚看过的一部电影《我的名字叫可汗》中宗教信仰的歧视，给生活在美国的穆斯林教徒khan一家人带来了永远的悲伤与痛苦，影片中女主在失去自己的孩子之后，也开始质疑自己与穆斯林教徒的khan的婚姻是否正确，怀疑正是khan 这个后缀，这个穆斯林的代表，让自己失去了心爱的孩子。
2021年《无声告白》读后感
It will be more beneficial to treat your competitors as rivals rather than enemies.同学互助一起进步（页眉可删）《无声告白》读后感《无声告白》读后感1在看《无声广告》之前，我从未想过一个通俗家庭也会有这么多机密，压抑和阴霾。
现实了局糊口并不是片子，平平油腻的日子没那么多矛盾和辩说。
可是，在异族通婚的大背景下，李家一家人之间似乎不息存在着各类不满与辩说，虽然他们确确实实地深爱着互相。
在我看来，这么多辩说甚至末了莉迪亚的自尽，追根溯源到末了都是：他们都无法对家人率直。
詹姆斯作为一家之主，却怯懦而懦弱，面临女儿的衰亡，他虽肉痛万分，但仍不时辰刻担忧举动特别——他拦阻内斯诘责杰克，喝道“通通交给差人来查询拜候！”，差人奉告他们查询拜候成效，他只是连声称是，“是的，好的，没有问题”。
末了，妻子在庞大的愤慨下，呵斥他什么都不敢做，只晓得“向差人磕头”！听到这句话，詹姆斯不息以来懦弱的自傲终于奔溃，他仿佛又看到四十年前的他，阿谁不敢高声说话生怕别人创造他是黉舍干净工儿子的小少年，在妻子的诘责和女儿的衰亡双重打击下，他来到了他的助教路易莎的怀抱——她同样是名中国人。
到这一刻，他才清醒地熟悉到，他与四十年前的本身没什么不合，他是中国人，不是白人。
他不息全力融入美国社会，向大多数人看齐，他向妻子掩蔽了本身的身世，他从哈佛毕业……他毛骨悚然地糊口着，但面临妻子的诘责时，这些全力像衣服被一层层剥下，他赤裸着在白昼里行走，仿佛他就是片子里戴着尖帽子，颔首哈腰的中国小工，羞耻而为难。
而这些，他从未对妻子说过。
太太玛丽琳是个家庭主妇，她曾是詹姆斯的门生，怀抱着伟大的大夫胡想，却终极由于孩子和家庭搁浅。
可是她不甘愿宁可，不甘愿宁可像她母亲那样一辈子在厨房烘焙饼干终极却什么都没留下。
她奋起招架，狠心分开家庭，却不想再次怀孕，她的胡想现实了局仍是没有实现。
无声告白读后感英文
无声告白读后感英文Reading "Everything I Never Told You" was a powerful and deeply emotional experience. It's a story that captures the complexities of family dynamics, the pressures of expectations, and the struggle for identity.The characters are so real and relatable, each with their own flaws and secrets. I felt a strong connection to the protagonist, Lydia, as I watched her struggle to live up to the expectations of her parents. Her internal turmoil and desperation were palpable.The writing is beautiful and haunting. The author captures the nuances of human emotion so expertly, from the smallest details of daily life to the profound realizations of self-discovery. It's a testament to the power of words.One of the most striking aspects of the novel is how it explores the themes of cultural identity and assimilation. The characters' struggle to find their place in a societythat often doesn't fully accept them is heartbreaking. It's a reminder of the importance of understanding and embracing our differences.Overall, "Everything I Never Told You" is a thought-provoking read that stays with you long after you've turned the last page. It's a book that makes you question your own assumptions and values, and it leaves you with a deeper understanding of the complexities of human relationships.。
无声的告白英文读后感作文
无声的告白英文读后感作文The feeling of love is so powerful and yet so delicate. It can make us feel alive, but it can also leave us vulnerable. "Silent Confessions" by Japanese author Kanae Hazuki beautifully captures the complexity of love and the struggles that come with it.The story revolves around the lives of two high school students, Shoya and Chika, who are both dealing with their own personal issues. As they navigate through the ups and downs of their relationship, they learn about the importance of communication and understanding.What I love most about this book is its raw and honest portrayal of love. It doesn't sugarcoat the challenges that come with it, but it also celebrates the beauty of it. The characters feel so real and relatable, and their emotions are depicted in such a raw and authentic way.The book also delves into the theme of self-discoveryand personal growth. Both Shoya and Chika undergo significant changes throughout the story, and it'sinspiring to see how they learn to confront their fears and insecurities.The writing style is simple yet profound, and it really allows the emotions to shine through. The author has a way of capturing the essence of love and all its complexities, and it's impossible not to be moved by the story.Overall, "Silent Confessions" is a poignant andthought-provoking read that will stay with you long after you've finished it. It's a reminder that love is abeautiful mess, and that sometimes, the most powerful confessions are the ones left unspoken.。
无声告白的英文读后感
无声告白的英文读后感Silent Confession is a touching and heartwarming story that explores the themes of love, friendship, and the power of communication. The novel follows the lives of two main characters, Lily and Jack, who are both struggling with their own personal demons and insecurities. Through a series of events, they are brought together and form a deep and meaningful connection that ultimately helps them both find healing and redemption.One of the most compelling aspects of the novel is the way in which the author portrays the characters' internal struggles and emotions. Lily, in particular, is a complex and multi-dimensional character who is dealing with the aftermath of a traumatic event in her past. Her journey towards healing is both heartbreaking and inspiring, and the reader can't help but empathize with her as she navigates through her pain and begins to open up to the possibility of love and happiness.Similarly, Jack is also a deeply troubled character who is dealing with his own set of issues. His struggle with addiction and self-doubt is portrayed with raw and emotional honesty, and the reader can't help but root for him as he begins to confront his demons and take steps towards a better future.The relationship that develops between Lily and Jack is beautifully written and incredibly moving. Their interactions are filled with moments of tenderness, vulnerability, and genuine understanding, and it's impossible not to be swept up in the depth of their connection. The author does an excellent job of capturing the complexities of human relationships and the ways in which they can both heal and hurt us.Another aspect of the novel that I found particularly compelling was the way in which the author explores the theme of communication. Both Lily and Jack have been deeply scarred by their past experiences, and as a result, they struggle to express their feelings and open up to others. However, as they begin to trust each other and share theirinnermost thoughts and emotions, they both experience a profound sense of liberation and healing. This serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of honest and open communication in our relationships and the ways in which it can help us overcome our personal struggles.Overall, Silent Confession is a beautifully written and emotionally resonant novel that delves deep into the complexities of human emotion and the power of love and connection. The characters are richly drawn and the storyis filled with moments of both heartache and hope. It's a novel that will stay with me long after I've finished reading it, and I highly recommend it to anyone looking for a moving and thought-provoking read.。
无声的告白英文读后感作文
无声的告白英文读后感作文The book "Silent Confession" is so touching and heart-wrenching. It really made me think about the power of unspoken emotions and the weight of unexpressed feelings. It's amazing how the author captured the complexity of human emotions without using a single word.The story is so beautifully crafted, and it really resonated with me on a deep level. I found myself empathizing with the characters and their struggles, and it made me reflect on my own experiences with love and loss. The way the author conveyed the emotions through silence and actions was incredibly powerful.I was struck by the rawness and vulnerability of the characters, and how they were able to communicate so much without saying a word. It made me realize the importance of paying attention to non-verbal cues and understanding the unspoken language of emotions.The book left me with a sense of longing and contemplation. It made me appreciate the beauty of silence and the depth of unspoken emotions. It reminded me that sometimes, words are not enough to convey the depth of our feelings, and that there is a certain beauty in the unspoken.Overall, "Silent Confession" is a thought-provoking and poignant read that will stay with me for a long time. It's a reminder of the power of silence and the complexity of human emotions. It's a book that speaks volumes without saying a word.。
2024年《无声告白》读后感
《无声告白》读后感《无声告白》读后感 1（约1024字）我们终此一生，就是要摆脱他人的期待，找到真正的自己。
詹姆斯，玛莉莎，莉迪亚，内斯，汉娜，还有杰克。
这些人的性格，情绪，情感，在这本小说中一览无遗。
在美国鹤立鸡群的中国人，詹姆斯一直试图融入美国这个大熔炉，让自己显得平常一些。
这些内心的渴望，通过对孩子的教育显露出来，是那么强烈，而孩子的遭遇，却显得他的期望那么脆弱无助。
一直都渴望与众不同的美国女生玛莉莎，梦想是突破女性以家庭为主的观念，同男生一样平等地受人爱戴，做一名医生。
可是，被詹姆斯吸引，放弃了梦想，嫁作人妇，归于平淡。
被父母捧在手心的莉迪亚，承受着父母巨大的期待，压抑着自己的个性，终于在内斯离开，发现自己喜欢的杰克竟然爱着内斯后，找到了事情到这个地步的原因，精神崩溃，从船上踏了出去，沉在了湖底。
而内斯，在莉迪亚被万般宠爱下，所期待的不过是父母平等的爱，和对莉迪亚的重压减少一些。
在发现无法改变家庭的这种关系时，他奋发图强，考进了哈佛，却又在追寻自由之时，失去了陪伴自己的妹妹。
汉娜，这个怯懦的敏感的却又洞悉一切的小女儿，一直都知道发生了什么，却总是躲在不引人注意的地方，怕打扰了这些幸福抑或悲伤。
她是一个完全被忽略的孩子，在受关注后不知所措，只会如家人所期待的那样，做出该有的反应。
一直努力的让自己不受注意，却在别人给予关注后不知所措，假装毫不在意。
其实，内心早已波涛汹涌。
是心太穷了吗？这本小说是一个女孩自杀引起的的一系列事情，同时引发了一系列思考和家人的反思。
原生家庭对孩子的影响伴随其一生。
父母的一举一动，不知道怎么样就会伤害到孩子。
爱是枷锁，是负担，如果这爱是父母将自己未完成的心愿强加在孩子身上。
学会尊重他人，无论对方是自己父母还是孩子，更不论其他人了。
将对方当做一个完全的个体，尊重对方的行为，并且以一个同样的个体去理解对方。
尤其是对自己爱的人。
这是我学到的最重要的一课。
尊重他人，且对自己坦诚。
无声告白 Everything I Never Told You英语读书报告
Book report of Everything I Never Told You The novel is about an American family that a couple who didn’t become what they wanted to be in their young for a variety of reasons, put all of hope on their daughter. The daughter named Lydia was afraid that her mother would disappear again, her father would crumble, and the whole family would collapse once more, so she did everything her parents wanted, tried her best to become what they wanted her to be. However, that’s not what Lydia wanted.One day, Lydia made a new set of promises. She wanted to tell her parents: enough. Waiting till that time, she would do what she wanted. She wanted to prove that she could get rid of her mother's control by overcoming her fear of the lake. She went to the center of the lake as the beginning of her new life, but to drown unexpectedly at that time.In a manner of speaking, it was her family that pushed her to death. Because of Lydia’s mother and father, because her mother had wanted to stand out, and her father had wanted to blend in.The daughter believed that the reason her mother used to leave and hated this family was that she had not done well enough, so she secretly vowed to satisfy all his mother's wishes. Every time her mother said Do you want—? she had said yes. She just wanted her happy.Parents thought that Lydia was a perfect child, clever and sensible. Parents saw her as the only hope in their miserable life, but these affection and expectation have forced her to death. Her parents only wanted her to quickly become their dream daughter, but didn’t know that this so-called love wasn’t what Lydia wanted at all. At the same time, when parents put all the expectation on Lydia, her brother and sister became neglected children.Parents often use their own expectation of children to plan their children’s lives, the protagonist used her death to tell her family, also tell us, only when we learn to communicate equally, think of everyone in the family as an independent individual, home can really bring everyone love and warmth.As a saying goes, the child is the continuation of the life of parents. But many parents think that they can plan the whole life of their children. That's not right. Parents often tend to devote all their lives to their children. Parents do love their children. However, they shouldn’t let children continue their own life, but let them really live out of their own.True love is not a compromise with our parents, but even if our parents don't understand us, we still communicate patiently with them and don’t give up the possibility of letting us understand each other.。
《无声告白》读后感
《无声告白》读后感《无声告白》读后感15篇认真读完一本著作后，想必你一定有很多值得分享的心得，是时候静下心来好好写写读后感了。
那么如何写读后感才能更有感染力呢？下面是小编收集整理的《无声告白》读后感，欢迎大家借鉴与参考，希望对大家有所帮助。
《无声告白》读后感1我读了这本书后，有很多感触，这本书回忆了一个混血女孩离开人世前一家人的生活，讲述了她离开人世后一家人发生的事，这本书也揭示了种族问题、性别歧视、上一代对下一代的影响、社会对家庭和个人的影响、家人之间的相处和沟通等问题。
在这个生活在美国的家庭中，父亲詹姆斯是中国人，詹姆斯儿时随着谋生的父母到了美国，从小就感受到了别人对他与对其他人的不同，他处处怕别人知道他的不同，处处想和别人一样。
母亲玛丽琳是美国人，玛丽琳由她母亲一人抚养长大，被她母亲教育最重要的是管理好丈夫、孩子、房子，于是放弃了继续深造，成为医生的机会，她听到女医生便会有惊讶的反应。
当玛丽琳嫁给詹姆斯的时候，她母亲认为她不对，她应该嫁给一个和她“更像”的人，她和詹姆斯“不像”。
我认为，如果玛丽琳听了她母亲的话，或许后来就不会有她女儿莉迪亚的悲剧，她儿女的生活就不会有那么多无奈和困扰，她的家庭就不会发生那么多的事，但根源在于种族问题。
詹姆斯和玛丽琳的大女儿莉迪亚没有朋友，因为她和别人“不一样”，玛丽琳把自己未实现的愿望寄托于大女儿，希望她成为一名医生。
莉迪亚在家人面前假装自己有朋友，对妈妈的要求无条件服从，因为她爱妈妈，希望妈妈开心，而不是因为爱科学，不是因为想成为一名医生。
玛丽琳却没有发现年少的女儿内心背负了这么多，同时，她还忽视了小女儿汉娜和儿子内斯，这三个孩子的内心都发生了问题，在他们这样一个特殊的家庭中，悲剧就发生了。
当莉迪亚永远消失在他们的生活中的时候，在他们受尽煎熬后，才渐渐发现了一些东西，想挽回一些东西，可是，有的却再也回不来了。
终于，玛丽琳知道了自己应该早早地关注莉迪亚真实的想法，应该给另外两个孩子多一些关注，应该更坦诚地和丈夫交流。
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Everything I Never Told You
《无声告白》
Class 1
Zhang Yaqi
PPT英文部分为本人撰写或翻译，如有错误或不到位之处，请谅解。
CONTENTS
目录
1 About the author
作者简介
2 Introduction 作品简介
3 Plot outline 故事梗概
She attended Harvard University and e arned an MFA from the University of Mich igan,where she won the Hop wood Award.
Her fiction and essays have appeared i n One story ,TriQuarterly ,Bellevue Literar y Review，and elsewhere,and she is the r ecipient of the Puchcart Prize.
你们的时间很有限, 所以不要将他们浪费在重复其他人的生活上。 不要被教条束缚,那意味着你和其他人思考的结果一起生活。不要被 其他人喧嚣的观点掩盖你真正的内心的声音。还有最重要的是, 你 要有勇气去听从你直觉和心灵的指示——它们在某种程度上知道你 想要成为什么样子，所有其他的事情都是次要的。
----Steve Jobs
地位
The path of life
人生道路
Achievement
个人成就
Identity crisis
身份危机
. . . . ..
3
Plot outline
故事梗概
So begins this exquisite novel about a Chinese American f amily living in 1970s small-town Ohio. Lydia is the favorite child of Marilyn and James Lee, and her parents are deter mined that she will fulfill the dreams they were unable to pursue. But when Lydia’s body is found in the local lake,Ly dia's parents, James and Marilyn are horrified with their d aughter's death.
She lives in Camቤተ መጻሕፍቲ ባይዱridge,Massachusetts, with her husband and son .
2
Introduction
作品简介
LOREM IPSUM DOLOR
Everything I Never Told You
英文版
无声告白 中文版
Background & Awards
The novel is widely acclaimed after its publication.
THE YORK TIMES BEST SELLER
BEST BOOK OF AMAZON 2014
WINNER OF ALEX AWARD
Gender
性别
Family
家庭
Race
种族
Status
4 Quotation
经典语句
5 Personal feelings 个人感受
1
About the author
作者简介
Celeste Ng 伍绮诗
Celeste Ng grew up in Pennsylvania and Ohio,in a family of scientists.She is the sec ond generation of immigrants from Hongk ong.
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else' s life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with t he results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And mo st important, have the courage to follow your heart and i ntuition. They somehow already know what you truly wa nt to become. Everything else is secondary.
这部精美的小说讲述了70年代在美国俄亥俄一个小镇生活的一个家 庭的生活。Lydia是父母最喜欢的孩子，她的父母认定她会完成他 们曾经未能实现的追求。但是当Lydia的尸体在当地的湖中被发现 时，她的父母都对此事表示十分的震惊。
As the police investigate what happened, her parents both discover that contrary to their belief that Lydia was popular and doing well in school, s he was actually a loner with almost no friends and that her grades had s everely slipped,and everything is different from what they thought befor e.The death of their child forces James and Marilyn to reflect back on th eir lives， the delicate balancing act that has been keeping the Lee famil y together is destroyed, tumbling them into chaos.
Everything I Never Told You is the first nov el written by Celeste Ng with six years ,the sto ry is ingeniously and carefully arranged ,and th e writing style of which is calm and implicit.