How to Bridge Generation Gap (怎样面临代沟)
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80后－－“我字当头”
• “80后”小夫妻“闪 婚”“毕婚”成离婚高发 人群 • “80后”老公买错牛奶牌 子 小夫妻闹离婚 • “80后”年轻夫妻为逃避 刷洗买16口锅备用 • “80后”妈妈命令女儿喊 “姐姐” „„
“the generation after 90s” in China
90后：“非常6＋1”
How to Solve the Problem of the Generation Gap
What can we do to bridge the gap?
Don’t complain about our parents’ intrusion or disagreement because they have formed their habits and opinions for a long time, and it is hard for them to adapt themselves to the new and the different. When becoming a parent, don’t limit our child to our own circle, nor order our child to do whatever as we favor, because they are living in a different time.
留学（英美澳法加新六国）租房
• 最低价格： • √ 不论在任何城市，www.6apt.com确保为您提供最佳价 格。 • 无需支付任何预定中介费用： • √ www.6apt.com提供免费的海外学生公寓在线预订服务， 不收取任何费用。 • 预订安全可靠： • √ www.6apt.com学生公寓在线预订系统安全可靠，您的 支付信息和个人信息都被加密。我们以最高的标准来保护 您的隐私。
born between 1946 and the early 1960s hard-working anti-tradition no self-sacrifice high self-esteem high self-indulgence questioning everything
“the generation after 80s” in China
• • • • • • • • • 30年代 40年代 50年代 60年代 70年代 80年代 90年代 2000年代 2010年代 到延安去，到太行去，到敌人后方去; 到辽沈去，到平津去，到长江对岸去; 到农村去，到边疆去，到祖国最需要的地方去; 到山上去，到乡下去，到贫下中农当中去; 到城市去，到部队去，到能生活得好一些的地方去; 到大学去，到夜校去，到可以拿到文凭的地方去; 到美国去，到法加去，到一切不说中国话的地方去; 到国企去，到外企去，到年薪百万的地方去; 到党政机关去，到公务员队伍中去，到一辈子不失业 的地方去。
4. Practice listening and talking: talk with your family about what you see on TV, hear on the radio or see at the park or store. (Talk with your children about school and their friends.) 5. Respect children and use a courteous tone of voice. 6. Catch children and teens being good. Praise them for cooperating with you.
1. Teach children to listen... gently touch a child before you talk... say their name. 2. Speak in a quiet voice... whisper sometimes so children have to listen... they like this. 3. Look a child in the eyes so you can tell when they understand... bend or sit down... become the child’s size.
留学（英美澳法加新六国）租房
• www.6apt.com 留学公寓在线隶属于同维思 创网络科技（北京）有限责任公司。公司 总部位于国家级大学科技园 --- 中国人民大 学文化科技园。 • www.6apt.com 提供免费的海外学生公寓在 线预订服务,不收取任何手续费或中介费。 留学生直接向海外学生公寓支付费用, 无任 何中间环节。
Various Generations
Lost Generation: pessimistic; mentally blank; creative in literature
a group of American literary notables who lived in Paris and other parts of Europe, some after military service in the First World War . “Lost Generation” include authors and poets Hemingway, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Ezra Pound,, and John Dos Passos.
Why?
Different interests? Different idols? Different lifestyles? Different ways of communication? Different dreams? Different attitudes? ……
Different interests:
处在幻想中的一代;靠父母给钱享受 生活 1成多抽过烟喝过酒 近2成有两种以上化妆品 近3成能玩一种以上乐器 超过4成有4-6个要好朋友 近5成通过网络来了解新闻 近6成最欣赏崇拜影视类明星 近7成认为自己的生活充实而开心
“NEET”
NEET is an acronym for people currently “Not in Employment, Education or Training”. It was first used in the United Kingdom but its use has spread to other countries, including Japan, China and South Korea.
wenku.baidu.com
• • 公众媒体： 企业新闻 Facebook 人人网 Twitter 新浪微博
留学（英美澳法加新六国）租房
• 公众媒体： 企业新闻 Facebook 人人网 Twitter 新浪 微博 • 微信公众平台 • • 联系我们： • 中国: 400-078-3006, info@6apt.com • 邮编: 100872, 北京市海淀区, • 中关村大街甲59号, 人民大学文化大厦1206A室 • 英国: +44(0)114-2753836, info@6apt.com • 110 Provincial House, Solly Street, • Sheffield, S1 4BA, UK
How to Bridge the Gap
Generation Gap
Your Idol ???
Did your parents make the same remark ?
Did your grandpa show you the same dress ?
Change of the Trends
Silent Generation -- born from 1923 to 1933 They are cautious, unadventurous, unimaginative, withdrawn, silent and conformable.
Baby Boom Generation:
Set up A Happy Family and Enjoy A Happy Life!
Roller skating
Peking opera Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon
online games
Different idols or icons:
Different lifestyles:
Why?
Social background? Economic status? Living environment? National policy? ………
Questions about Generation Gap
1. Do you often make decisions by yourself? 2. Do your parents interfere with your affairs because of different ideas? 3. Do you sometimes feel difficult to communicate with elderly people, e.g. your parents, grand-parents, uncles, aunts etc.?
Communication Tips for Parents and Kids
Good communication helps children and parents to develop confidence, feelings of self-worth, and good relationships with others. Try these tips:
• “80后”小夫妻“闪 婚”“毕婚”成离婚高发 人群 • “80后”老公买错牛奶牌 子 小夫妻闹离婚 • “80后”年轻夫妻为逃避 刷洗买16口锅备用 • “80后”妈妈命令女儿喊 “姐姐” „„
“the generation after 90s” in China
90后：“非常6＋1”
How to Solve the Problem of the Generation Gap
What can we do to bridge the gap?
Don’t complain about our parents’ intrusion or disagreement because they have formed their habits and opinions for a long time, and it is hard for them to adapt themselves to the new and the different. When becoming a parent, don’t limit our child to our own circle, nor order our child to do whatever as we favor, because they are living in a different time.
留学（英美澳法加新六国）租房
• 最低价格： • √ 不论在任何城市，www.6apt.com确保为您提供最佳价 格。 • 无需支付任何预定中介费用： • √ www.6apt.com提供免费的海外学生公寓在线预订服务， 不收取任何费用。 • 预订安全可靠： • √ www.6apt.com学生公寓在线预订系统安全可靠，您的 支付信息和个人信息都被加密。我们以最高的标准来保护 您的隐私。
born between 1946 and the early 1960s hard-working anti-tradition no self-sacrifice high self-esteem high self-indulgence questioning everything
“the generation after 80s” in China
• • • • • • • • • 30年代 40年代 50年代 60年代 70年代 80年代 90年代 2000年代 2010年代 到延安去，到太行去，到敌人后方去; 到辽沈去，到平津去，到长江对岸去; 到农村去，到边疆去，到祖国最需要的地方去; 到山上去，到乡下去，到贫下中农当中去; 到城市去，到部队去，到能生活得好一些的地方去; 到大学去，到夜校去，到可以拿到文凭的地方去; 到美国去，到法加去，到一切不说中国话的地方去; 到国企去，到外企去，到年薪百万的地方去; 到党政机关去，到公务员队伍中去，到一辈子不失业 的地方去。
4. Practice listening and talking: talk with your family about what you see on TV, hear on the radio or see at the park or store. (Talk with your children about school and their friends.) 5. Respect children and use a courteous tone of voice. 6. Catch children and teens being good. Praise them for cooperating with you.
1. Teach children to listen... gently touch a child before you talk... say their name. 2. Speak in a quiet voice... whisper sometimes so children have to listen... they like this. 3. Look a child in the eyes so you can tell when they understand... bend or sit down... become the child’s size.
留学（英美澳法加新六国）租房
• www.6apt.com 留学公寓在线隶属于同维思 创网络科技（北京）有限责任公司。公司 总部位于国家级大学科技园 --- 中国人民大 学文化科技园。 • www.6apt.com 提供免费的海外学生公寓在 线预订服务,不收取任何手续费或中介费。 留学生直接向海外学生公寓支付费用, 无任 何中间环节。
Various Generations
Lost Generation: pessimistic; mentally blank; creative in literature
a group of American literary notables who lived in Paris and other parts of Europe, some after military service in the First World War . “Lost Generation” include authors and poets Hemingway, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Ezra Pound,, and John Dos Passos.
Why?
Different interests? Different idols? Different lifestyles? Different ways of communication? Different dreams? Different attitudes? ……
Different interests:
处在幻想中的一代;靠父母给钱享受 生活 1成多抽过烟喝过酒 近2成有两种以上化妆品 近3成能玩一种以上乐器 超过4成有4-6个要好朋友 近5成通过网络来了解新闻 近6成最欣赏崇拜影视类明星 近7成认为自己的生活充实而开心
“NEET”
NEET is an acronym for people currently “Not in Employment, Education or Training”. It was first used in the United Kingdom but its use has spread to other countries, including Japan, China and South Korea.
wenku.baidu.com
• • 公众媒体： 企业新闻 Facebook 人人网 Twitter 新浪微博
留学（英美澳法加新六国）租房
• 公众媒体： 企业新闻 Facebook 人人网 Twitter 新浪 微博 • 微信公众平台 • • 联系我们： • 中国: 400-078-3006, info@6apt.com • 邮编: 100872, 北京市海淀区, • 中关村大街甲59号, 人民大学文化大厦1206A室 • 英国: +44(0)114-2753836, info@6apt.com • 110 Provincial House, Solly Street, • Sheffield, S1 4BA, UK
How to Bridge the Gap
Generation Gap
Your Idol ???
Did your parents make the same remark ?
Did your grandpa show you the same dress ?
Change of the Trends
Silent Generation -- born from 1923 to 1933 They are cautious, unadventurous, unimaginative, withdrawn, silent and conformable.
Baby Boom Generation:
Set up A Happy Family and Enjoy A Happy Life!
Roller skating
Peking opera Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon
online games
Different idols or icons:
Different lifestyles:
Why?
Social background? Economic status? Living environment? National policy? ………
Questions about Generation Gap
1. Do you often make decisions by yourself? 2. Do your parents interfere with your affairs because of different ideas? 3. Do you sometimes feel difficult to communicate with elderly people, e.g. your parents, grand-parents, uncles, aunts etc.?
Communication Tips for Parents and Kids
Good communication helps children and parents to develop confidence, feelings of self-worth, and good relationships with others. Try these tips: