跨文化交际实用教程unit6PPT课件

reluctance and lack of interest in talking simply
hurt her feelings.
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Case 3 Feeling left –out
In public, the norms of expressing one’s feelings and affections toward the opposite sex varies across culture. In Asia and some countries around the Mediterranean Sea, it is acceptable to have body contact between the same sex in public, but not between the opposite sexes, especially in front of the friends. Chen left because he felt awkward witnessing them hugging and kissing. This shows that Dick knows nothing about the natural response of the Chinese to certain behaviors. Similarly, Chen Liang’s behavior shows that he is also in the dark about American behaviors.
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• “别瞎说，我们只是好朋友而已。”听到这种台词，相必一大帮 人会带着一副原来如此的表情在心里说“且……”。
• 我只听过一句话“不要让你的女朋友有蓝颜知己，因为蓝着蓝着 你就绿了，不要让你的男朋友有红颜知己，因为红着红着你俩就 黄了”我觉得很对。
• 在幼儿园里存在，还有就是耄耋之年有，这中间的年龄段绝对是 挑战。
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2. Text Study
Please read Sex and Gender in your textbook from page 119 to 120 and answer the following questions. 1.What is sex? And what is gender?
无论红颜蓝颜，都是替补队员
理论上当然有，两个条件：长得足够难看，情商足够高。
据说90+的妹子认为存在的 90+的男人认为不存在 如果这个世界有鬼存在的话，我就会相信有红颜知己存在。 6
1. Lead-in
Case 1 I’ve not considered marriage yet.
How could you explain to Li Hua’s parents about
women and women doctors. • Man and woman are like two hedgehogs in
winter: too close, get hurt; too far away, get lonely and cold.
• Is it possible to get a confidante or confidant in reality?
Women think if they are talking withBiblioteka Baidueach other, then everything is going smoothly.
For Ben, Anna’s suggestion to talk about their
relationship is pointless. For Anna, Ben’s
misunderstanding conflict
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Case 2 Can we talk about us?
This shows a common type of clash in crossgender communication.
For women, their relationship is a popular topic, while for men, it is not a focus. Men use talk to solve problems rather than to enhance their relationship.
the relationship between Li Hua and John? How
could you explain to John Li Hua’s parents’
behavior?
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comment
• The case shows man and woman’s different attitudes toward their relationship, and the parents’ attitudes regarding children’s love and marriage in Chinese culture.
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• To John 6 months not lead to marriage • To Li Hua time to bring John to meet
parents • To Li Hua’s parents treat John as a
future son-in-law background marriage plans
Unit 6
Cross-Gender Communication
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Objectives
1. Learn the differences of sex and gender; 2. Learn the differences of feminine and
masculine communication cultures; 3. Learn to understand cross-gender
communication.
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Contents
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Lead-in
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Text Study
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Practice
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Summary
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Homework
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Expressions related to two genders
• Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. • There’re three types of human beings: men,