social etiquette 社交礼仪

France
• 一般说来，男士之间，主要 是边握手边打招呼。 关系比较好的女士之间，或 男女间，就主要采取贴面礼 或亲吻礼 • Generally speaking, men mainly is to shake hands and say "hello". • The way between lady, or between men and women with good relationship mainly adopt bijous or kissing.
A . Daytime Wedding
a. Women guests : street-length afternoon or cocktail dresses （常礼服） with gloves，head coverings are optional（随意的）. Colors are preferable（更合适的） to black or white
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Handshaking etiquette
• A woman offers her hand first • An older person initiates a handshake with a younger one • The more important person ,or the one to whom someone is being introduced, is the first to offer his or her hand
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Everyday manners Western table manners wedding ceremony Inviting manners
Part 1
Everyday
Manners
Greetings
Shaking Hands
Making Introductions
Greetings
But except family members and close friends, Americans usually don't give out wholesale hugs .
美国人喜欢说的是：
• - How are you doing？ - I'm doing good. • How's everything going? What's up?
• 毛利人碰鼻子来打招呼，次数越多，时间 越久，表示越亲密。 • Maori greeting is to touch the noses ,the more the number and the longer, the more intimate.
• Australian offten shake hands to say hello. • 澳大利人打招呼是握手。
• Indonesian's friends is to press down a chest to say hello each other with the right hand, to ordinary people then to shake hands.
• 印尼人熟人是用右手按住胸口互相问好， wk.baidu.com一般人则以握手问好。
•Psychologist’s research showed that first impression can keep seven years, and it’s hard to change once it is fomed.
There is no second chance for you.
• 非洲通行的打招呼方式--举起右手， 手掌向著对方，目的是表示“我的 手并没有握石头。”它是在表示： “没有武器。”是友好的象徵。 • the way of greeting for African is to raise his right hand, palm toward each other, the purpose is to say "my hand did not hold stone." and "no weapons." That is a symbol of friendship
World Hello Day
• Every year, November 21 is World Hello Day. The objective is to say hello to ten people on the day. By greeting others, the message is for world leaders to use communication rather than using force to settle conflicts. • 世界问候日”（World Hello Day）开始于1973年11月 21日，为促进埃及和以色列之间的和平（当时正值第四 次中东战争期间），来自澳大利亚的姆可马克与米切尔 兄弟两人，自费印刷了大量有关问候的宣传材料寄给世 界各国政府首脑及世界知名人士，向他们阐述设立“世 界问候日”的重要意义，扩大“世界问候日”的影响， 第一个“世界问候日”诞生。
What are the rules for making introductions ?
The rules of making introductions
• A man is always introduced to a woman • A young person is always introduced to an older person • A less important person is always introduced to a more important person
Don’t make any sound when you eat during the meal At table ,you should try to speak quietly and smile a lot,but do not laugh all the time Don’t hold your cookers when you do some gestures. If your cooker drop on the floor ,don’t pick it up yourself.call the waiter to do it for you and change another one.
•You can use your hand to eat chicken.
•You eat only from your plate.
Table manners change over time. They follow the fashion of the day . Besides,table manners are only important at formal dinner parties.If you're not sure what to do ,you can always follow your hosts.Although good manners always make you look good,you do not need to worry about all these rules while having dinner with your friends or families .
•Open the napkin and put it on your lap before eating. • You should use the fork with your left hand and the knife with your right hand.
• Don’t drink too much! •Talk to the people beside you, but don’t speak too loudly.
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This is a world owning two minutes, you just have a minute show them who you are, the other minute you should try to let them like you. —Robert pound
• “Hello ! Good morning!” • look at each other and nod head • Wave your hands with a warm smile
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朝鲜人打招呼行鞠躬礼，表示尊敬和谢意。 Koreans greeting is a bow to express respect and gratitude.
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drinks
Western tableware
Western tableware
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Wash you hands before each meal. Knife and spoon are placed to the right of the plate. The fork is on the left.
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Part 3 . Wedding Ceremony
Ceremonial Attire (礼服）
Present A Gift
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Social Etiquette
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I don‘t like those who does not pay attention to the etiquette. I believe the others have the same opinion. ——Jack Welch.
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Everyday manners Western table manners wedding ceremony Inviting manners
Western table manners
Serving order Western tableware Tips
Serving order
• 马来西亚打招呼是 两人双手交窝，双 手微触额头一下， 双手微触胸前一下。 • Malaysia, the two people hands hand over to hold for a while . the hands are tiny to touch forehead and the chest for a while.
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泰国人打招呼男士双手在额前，女士双手 在胸前。 • Thai , the male place hands in front head, female place hands on the chest to greet each other.
• 日本人以脱帽子鞠躬来打招呼，稍微低头， 眼睛向下。 • the Japanese hat off in order to say hello, slightly bowed and eyes down.
对于美国人而言，女性们可 • For Americans， 能会在见面时彼此紧抱一下 Women may be tightly hug to each 以示友好；而且在某些上流 other when they 社交圈里，轻吻对方的面颊 meet ; And in some upper-class social 是很普遍的礼节。但除了对 circle, kiss each other on the cheek is 家人与好友外，美国人通常 a common courtesy. 不会经常随便拥抱他人.