最新英语辩论：先成家后立业

Topic 11：Family or career, which should be settled down first?

正方一辩：AA 二辩：BB 三辩：CC

反方一辩：DD 二辩：EE 三辩：FF

CC：Hello everyone! We are of the opinion should marry before career matures and develops.

As a old proverb says, a man should get married when he is old enough, and so should a woman. What does marriage mean to a man? It means that he has his own family, his own home. He is not only his parents’ son, but also his wife’s husband, and even more, his kid’s father. He has more burdens on his shoulders. And of course, he has a cozy harbor, and a powerful backing. He is not single any longer; he is not lonely any longer. When he makes achievements outside, or when he encounters troubles outside; when he walks on air, or when he feels down… his family members would share with him in time. So, marriage is more important than career for a man. Surely, the above words are the same to a woman. FF：Hello everyone! We are of the opinion that we should marry after career matures and develops. First, establishing a family based on having a stable economic base. The establishment of the economic basis is basic premise of family established. So, no one will give up the sweet bread and choose the delicate and charming rose.

EE：Second, family need economic basis to undertake this huge responsibility. To establish a happy family, to love, children with

emotional, cultural education, all of these rely on relable basis, and China's welfare is not perfect yet, as the youth at the instant of the families bear the four old man endowment problem. Such a large family responsibility , how can youth with a no economic foundation to afford? DD：Thirdly, if we get married before starting a career, family will become the heavy burden of our career. And early marriage life will block the realization of the life value .

AA Con side mentioned just now that marriage maybe hinder your career, i want to say is ，Without a family, how could you keep all your mind on developing career?

DD:Examples shows that almost all of the Olympic champions start their careers before getting married,, for example table tennis queen Deng Yaping won the first Olympic gold medal in 1983, but it was not until 2004 when she formed her own family, Tian Liang and Yao Ming also have the similar experience. So not getting married will not affect one’s career, on the contrary,may promote his career’s development.

AA After all the cases you said are partially. I think the marriage gives

you stronger backup force.

EE Such is the case, marriage gives you warmth and force , but What would you do when domestic trivia influence your work?

BB It is well known that b ehind every man ,there is a great woman. It’s hard to avoid frustration ,while the woman will not only help you handle the problems you meet during you go all out with your work, but also give you hopeful, confidence and warmth . And these words are the same to a woman. It doesn’t mean there are no trifles in your life if you don’t get married. Instead, you will requicken and work harder and harder.

EE；Do you think so? well ,it depends.

CC Another way of looking at it ,I am sure you will agree .what I want to say is that Even when you have already met a dream lady who is willing to spend the rest of her life with you, not caring whether you are successful or not,why should you refuse her? How would you just let your love waiting for your success lonely all the time? If you work hard for a long time and eventually earned enough money, but can you make sure the right person is still the right one? Without spirit communication, hardly can you have the same language.

FF Money has nothing to do with communication, if as you said, all the