大学生不应该谈恋爱(中英文)

我们大部分还是学生，没有收入，学费都是父母亲提供的。一个没有经济基础的人，一个连自己生存问题都解决不了的人又有什么资格去谈情说爱，靠父母的钱去谈情说爱，这和吃喝玩乐有什么区别。诚然，爱情是不能以金钱来衡量的，但没有金钱你如何来维持一段感情，友情尚且不可，何况爱情。可见金钱在爱情中的重要性。对于大学生还处于求学的阶段，消费还不能自给，还想着谈情说爱。当然，谈恋爱的大学生中也有成功的，但毕竟是极少数。你在大学里读书承载着父母的对你的巨大期望，你应该将这种期望转化为前进的动力。如果你把过多的时间放在谈恋爱上就是一种不负责任，不仅仅是对父母的不负责，也是对自己的不负责。竞争日益激烈，就业形势越来越差。大学生要想找到工作，必须要有不可替代的核心竞争力，而这种竞争力的塑造主要是在大学里。心理学家经测定证明，20-24 岁是人的一生中学习的最佳年龄段，既是一个人智能发展的全盛时期，又是为未来事业打基础的关键时期，三四年的大学生活是短暂而宝贵的，年轻的大学生们切莫把黄金时间消磨在卿卿我我之中，而应立志奋发成才，待到功成名就时，天涯何处无芳草。大学生每年的死亡率是 1.97% ，而九成是自杀，七成是因情而轻生，这个比例远高于社会上因情自杀的比率，这我就想问，能说大学生承受得了爱的压力吗？我们上大学的主要目的还是学习。大学谈恋爱的潮流，浪费金钱精力时间。也许，初恋者不赞同我的意见，但是过来人不会否定我的说法。爱情是一种情感。既然是情感便不能压抑，问题是已经没有人因为爱所以爱了，需谨慎地考虑其它因素。

Most of our students, no income, tuition is provided by the parents. A no economic basis, a company's own survival can not solve the problem what people eligible to be concerned with love and romance, depend on their parents for money to be concerned with love and romance, and what is the difference between the idle away in seeking pleasure. Indeed, love is not measured in terms of money, but without money you how to maintain a sense of affection, friendship and love have not. Visible in the importance of money in love. The students still in study stage, consumer also cannot self-sufficient, also think of be concerned with love and romance. Of course, the university students fall in love was successful, but after all, is one of the very few. You will study in the University bearing his parents for your great expectations, you should take it into forward momentum expectation. If you spend too much time on fall in love is a kind of responsibility, not only for the parent is not responsible for, is also not responsible for their own. The increasingly fierce competition, the employment situation is getting worse. College student to find a job, must have an irreplaceable core competitiveness, the competitiveness is mainly in the university. Psychologists prove by determination of 20-24 years, human life is the best age, is a personal development for Smart 's heyday, but also for the future career playing the crucial period of the foundation, three or four years of university life is short and precious, young college students do not prime time spent in whispers of love, and should be determined become hard, to achieve success and win recognition, plenty of fish in the sea. College Students' annual mortality rate is 1.97%, while the nine is a Dutch act, 70% for passion and suicide, this ratio is much higher than the social situation as the ratio of the Dutch act, I would like to ask, can say the students bear love pressure? Our main purpose is to study at university. The trend of University fall in love, waste of money, energy and time. Maybe, love does not agree with my opinion, but did not deny me. Love is a feeling. Since it is the emotion will not suppress, the problem is no one love because of love, need to carefully consider other factors.

两个人恋爱，时间上肯定就会要相互的牺牲一下；肯定是会分散自己的一部分的精力；肯定大多数的同学来讲，和大家在一起共处的时间就会减少，有很多锻炼自己能力的机会都