英语短文-爱情保鲜剂：对你的伴侣说这十句话

英语短文爱情保鲜剂：对你的伴侣说这十句话1. “I miss you.”“If conversation was the lyrics, laughter was the music, making time spent together a melody that could be replayed over and over without getting stale.”– Nicholas SparksTelling your partner you miss them through a simple text or email will make them feel needed, wanted, and appreciated. If you’re home with the kids while your partner is at work, send them a group family photo with a message like, “We can’t wait for you to get home!”2. “How was your day?”“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”– J.K. RowlingResist the temptation to go on a tirade about how terrible your day was as soon as you walk in the door. Thisisn’t to say you can’t rant and rave about a bad day, but doing so without consideration of your partner’s life is self-centered.3. “Do you remember that time we ______?”“Falling in love and having a relationship are two different things.”– Keanu ReevesRelationships have a way of losing that magical “spark” as the months and years go by. Reminding your partner of your most cherished memories together—like your first vacation together, or that one time you got busted making out in a mall elevator—will help you remember why your relationship is so special in the first place.4. “How can I help?”“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”– Steve MaraboliIf you’ve ever panicked in the morning because you’re running late to work and can’t find your keys, you know there are few things more stressful than losing something at an inopportune time. Lighten your partner’s load by asking them how you can help when they appear stressed out or overburdened.5. “What do you think?”“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”– Catherine Gilbert Murdock Your relationship shouldn’t be a dictatorship, but rather a democracy. Ask your partner how they feel about all decisions big and small, from where to visit for summer vacation, to your children’s education.6. “You’re so gorgeous/handsome/hot.”“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.”– Leo BuscagliaIf you don’t compliment your partner, how can you expect them to feel wanted or appreciated? Tell them all about their strong-suits by saying things like:Physical –“I love it when you smile, because you have the cutest dimples.”Attitude –“I love how patient/thoughtful/kind/confident you are, because that makes me feel ______..”Attire –“I can’t stop checking out your butt in those jeans” or “Hello, tiger… you look quite GQ in thatsuit today!”7. “Let’s meet in the middle.”“Compromise is the best and cheapest lawyer.”–Robert Louis StevensonIt’s easy to become convinced that you’re 100% right during a nasty fight, but please resist the urge to be stubborn. Thinking your partner is wrong about something isn’t an excuse to discount how they feel. Let go of your need to be right and work together as a team.8. “I’m sorry. You’re right.”“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”– Nicholas SparksMaking a mistake is okay (within reason) as long as you’re humble enough to say you’re sorry and accept personal responsibility. Refusing to admit your mistakes, however, could turn what would have been a small squabble into an eternal dispute that destroys trust.9. “Please” and “Thank you”“Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough”– Oprah WinfreyTell me which one you’d rather hear from your partner:Take the dog outside.Hey honey, could you please take the dog outside? I’m tied up with the laundry right now, so I’d really appreciate it. Thanks!Big difference, am I right?10. “I love you.”“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”– Lao Tzu No matter how long you’ve known a person, I can promise that those 3 words will never lose meaning.1.“我想你了””如果我们的谈话是抒情诗，笑声是音乐，那么就让我们一起度过的时间化作一首歌曲，一遍又一遍地播放也不会厌倦。

”--尼古拉斯.斯帕克斯即使用简短的信息或是邮件告诉你的伴侣你很想念对方，这也会让另一半觉得自己是被需要和欣赏的，会有人在意的。

当你回到家和孩子们在一起，而另一半还在工作时，那就给对方发一张家人的合影吧，并告诉她(他)：“我们已经等不及你早点回家了!”2.“你今天过得好么?”“冷漠和忽视往往比坦诚的厌恶更加伤人”--J.K.罗琳当你回到家时，不要急于去和你的伴侣去无休止地诉说你今天过得有多么糟糕。