英语 2014年4月24日

When studying foreign speech, don’t forget about body language, says Anne Merritt.学习外国语言时，别忘了身体语言，语言学作家安妮·梅里特讲到。

Something as simple as a smile can display friendliness in one culture, embarrassment in another, impatience in a third. Even silence means different things in different places.有些动作，简单如一个微笑，可以在第一种文化中表示友好，第二种中表示尴尬，第三种中表示不耐烦。

甚至沉默在不同的地方也有不同的意味。

Language learners will put a lot of time (and money) into mastering the vocabulary and structure of a foreign language without ever considering these non-linguistic parts of communication.语言学习者投资了大量的时间（和金钱）去掌握一门外语的词汇和语法结构，却从来没有考虑过这些在沟通过程中和语言学无关的方面。

To help you master these significant parts of communication –or simply avoid making an embarrassing faux pas –here are four non-verbal traits that vary from culture to culture...为了帮助大家掌握这些交流中的重要方面——或者只是简单地避免失态——以下是四种在多个国家文化中各不相同的身体语言……Gestures手势When trying to communicate through a language barrier, it’s natural to use gestures as a way of illustrating your point. We assume it’s helpful, since our words are b eing visually reinforced. Hand motions are, however, culturally relative, and the wrong gesture can inadvertently lead to confusion or offence.尝试战胜语言障碍交流的时候，自然而然地就会用手势作为一种描述自己观点的方式。

我们认为这会有所帮助，因为这样一来我们说的话会在视觉上得以强调。

然而，手势和文化相关，错误地使用手势会在无意中带来交流中的困惑或冒犯。

The thumbs-up sign is equivalent to the middle finger in Greece and Sardinia. Tapping your finger to your temple is a gesture to show memory in North America, but suggests insanity in Russia. Even nodding yes or shaking one’s head no can be misunderstood abroad. The yes-no gestures are reversed in countries like Bulgaria and Albania. In Turkey, “no”is gestured by nodding the head up and back.在希腊和撒丁岛，竖大拇指等同于竖中指。

用手指敲太阳穴，在北美表示记忆，在俄罗斯则表示精神错乱，甚至连点头肯定或者摇头否定在国外也可以被误解。

这个肯定和否定的方式在诸如保加利亚和阿尔巴尼亚这样的国家是反着的。

在土耳其，否定是通过上下点头表示的。

It’s not just the individual gestures that can cause miscommunication, but the rate of gesturing. Some societies, like Italy and Spain, are known for talking with their hands. Others are more reserved with body movement as a form of politeness. In parts of East Asia, gesturing is considered boorish behaviour, and would be rude in a professional setting.不仅是这些单个的手势可以造成错误传达，还有手势的使用程度。

在有些国家，像意大利和西班牙，人们以用手势交谈著称。

其他国家在使用身体语言方面则更加保守以表示礼貌。

在有些东亚地区，使用手势被认为是粗鲁的行为，而且在职业场合中会很无礼。

Silence沉默Though it can feel like a void in communication, silence can be very meaningful in different cultural contexts. Western cultures, especially North America and the UK, tend to view silence as problematic. In our interactions at work, school, or with friends, silence is uncomfortable. It is often perceived as a sign of inattentiveness or disinterest.尽管沉默感觉上是交流的空缺，它却可以在不同的文化背景中充满含义。

西方文化中，尤其在北美和英国，倾向于将沉默看做有疑问的。

平时在工作，学校以及和朋友的交流互动中，沉默是让人不舒服的。

它通常被当作不在意或者不感兴趣的表现。

In other cultures, however, silence is not viewed as a negative circumstance. In China, silence can be used to show agreement and receptiveness. In many aboriginal cultures, a question will be answered only after a period of contemplative silence. In Japan, silence from women can be considered an expression of femininity.Though the North American/European instinct may be to fill the silence, this can be cross-culturally perceived as pushy and arrogant.然而，在其他文化中，沉默却不是负面的反应。

在中国，沉默可以用来表示认同和接受。

在许多土著文化中，一个问题提出后，只有在沉默中思考之后，才会有人回答。

在日本，女性的沉默被看作是女性气质的展现。

尽管北美/欧洲人的直接反应是去填补沉默的空缺，这在其他文化中却会被认为是爱出风头或者自大的表现。

Touch身体接触Britain, along with much of Northern Europe and the Far East, is classed as a “non-contact” culture, in which there’s very little physical contact in people’s daily interactions. Even accidentally brushing someone’s arm is grounds for an apology. B y comparison, in the high-contact cultures of the Middle East, Latin America, and southern Europe, physical touch is a big part of socialising.英国以及大多数北欧和远东国家，被归为“没有身体接触”的文化，因为人们的日常互动中几乎没有身体接触。

甚至不小心擦到别人的手臂也必须要道歉。

与之形成对比的，是中东，拉丁美洲和南欧等这些人与人之间有着频繁身体接触的国家——身体接触是社交活动中的很大一部分。

What’s more, there are different standards for who touches whom and where. In much of th e Arab world, men hold hands and kiss each other in greeting, but would never do the same with a woman. In Thailand and Laos, it is taboo to touch anyone’s head, even c hildren.此外，关于谁和谁接触以及接触哪个部位都有不同的标准。

在大多数阿拉伯世界，男性之间会在问候的时候握手并亲对方，但绝不会对女性做同样的事情。

在泰国和老挝，触摸任何人的头部，甚至小孩子，都是禁忌。

In South Korea, elders can touch younger people with force when trying to get through a crowd, but younger people can’t do the same. Naturally, these different standards of contact can lead to misunderstanding. An Argentinian may see a Scandinavian as cold and aloof, while the Scandinavian may see the Argentinian as pushy and presumptuous.在南韩，年长者想要穿过人群时可以使些力气去碰触年轻人，但是年轻人不能这样做。