耶鲁大学心理学导论――爱情LovePPT课件
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So …
• Intimacy+Passion+Commitment=Love
• What do you have if you only have one out of three or two out of three?
• No Intimacy+No Passion+No Commitment=No Love
• Robert Sternberg’s Definition of love: • Love is made up of three components:
intimacy, passion, and commitment
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Intimacy
• Intimacy is the feeling of closeness, of connectedness with someone, of bonding. Operationally, you could think of intimacy as you share secrets, you share information with this person that you don't share with anybody else.
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Caution: The Experiments Mentioned
• Androcentric--male-dominated, malecentered
• Heterosexual
• Usually, the participants are men and usually the targets are women in these experiments.
• the decision that one is in a love relationship, the willingness to label it as such, and a commitment to maintain that relationship at least for some period of time. Sternberg would argue it's not love if you don't call it love and if you don't have some desire to
PSYC-110: INTRODUCTION TO PSYCHOLOGY
Lecture 9 - Evolution, Emotion, by ProfaesnsdorRP1ee4tae, r2sS0oa0nl7o:]veLyo) v[Feebruary
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Professor Paul Bloom
• an active scientist
Love(It's a whirlwind courtship. It's a Hollywood romance. It might lead to a shotgun wedding. ) • On the other hand, if you have all three, intimacy, passion, commitment, this is “consummate love“(完 美的爱) .
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"Two Out of Three Ain't Bad"
• Intimacy+Passion+No Commitment=Romantic Love • Intimacy+No Passion+Commitment=Companionate
Love (This is your best friend.) • No Intimacy+Passion+Commitment=Fatuous
• Intimacy+No Passion+No Commitment=Typical Friendship
• No Intimacy+Passion+No Commitment=Infatuation （迷恋infatuated love=Love at First Sight）
• No Intimacy+No Passion+Commitment=Empty Love （ in societies where marriages are arranged；in
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Passion
• You can think of it as physical attraction or sex. And Sternberg argues that this is a required component of a love relationship.
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Commitment
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What makes people find each other attractive?
• What makes them want to be intimate? What makes them physically desirable to each other? What might lead to a commitment, a decision to make a commitment to make the relationship last?
• the founder and developer of the idea of emotional intelligence
• an active and extremely well-known teacher at Yale College: He taught at one point, the largest course ever in Yale College – a course on
• Ethically not acceptable today
• Do you think these experiments generalized to other kinds of dyadic relationships?
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Definition of Love
• Most experiments talked about really focused on ATTRACTION than LOVEwho finds each other of romantic ip into a love relationship.
So …
• Intimacy+Passion+Commitment=Love
• What do you have if you only have one out of three or two out of three?
• No Intimacy+No Passion+No Commitment=No Love
• Robert Sternberg’s Definition of love: • Love is made up of three components:
intimacy, passion, and commitment
4
Intimacy
• Intimacy is the feeling of closeness, of connectedness with someone, of bonding. Operationally, you could think of intimacy as you share secrets, you share information with this person that you don't share with anybody else.
2
Caution: The Experiments Mentioned
• Androcentric--male-dominated, malecentered
• Heterosexual
• Usually, the participants are men and usually the targets are women in these experiments.
• the decision that one is in a love relationship, the willingness to label it as such, and a commitment to maintain that relationship at least for some period of time. Sternberg would argue it's not love if you don't call it love and if you don't have some desire to
PSYC-110: INTRODUCTION TO PSYCHOLOGY
Lecture 9 - Evolution, Emotion, by ProfaesnsdorRP1ee4tae, r2sS0oa0nl7o:]veLyo) v[Feebruary
1
Professor Paul Bloom
• an active scientist
Love(It's a whirlwind courtship. It's a Hollywood romance. It might lead to a shotgun wedding. ) • On the other hand, if you have all three, intimacy, passion, commitment, this is “consummate love“(完 美的爱) .
8
"Two Out of Three Ain't Bad"
• Intimacy+Passion+No Commitment=Romantic Love • Intimacy+No Passion+Commitment=Companionate
Love (This is your best friend.) • No Intimacy+Passion+Commitment=Fatuous
• Intimacy+No Passion+No Commitment=Typical Friendship
• No Intimacy+Passion+No Commitment=Infatuation （迷恋infatuated love=Love at First Sight）
• No Intimacy+No Passion+Commitment=Empty Love （ in societies where marriages are arranged；in
5
Passion
• You can think of it as physical attraction or sex. And Sternberg argues that this is a required component of a love relationship.
6
Commitment
9
What makes people find each other attractive?
• What makes them want to be intimate? What makes them physically desirable to each other? What might lead to a commitment, a decision to make a commitment to make the relationship last?
• the founder and developer of the idea of emotional intelligence
• an active and extremely well-known teacher at Yale College: He taught at one point, the largest course ever in Yale College – a course on
• Ethically not acceptable today
• Do you think these experiments generalized to other kinds of dyadic relationships?
3
Definition of Love
• Most experiments talked about really focused on ATTRACTION than LOVEwho finds each other of romantic ip into a love relationship.