单亲母亲也喜欢性生活,爱和性才是完美

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Related: How I Learned About Sex: A lesson in what not to do 讲述：怎样学习性验 I'm a divorced, single mother. After I split with my ex, I was so broken down emotionally, sex was the last thing on my mind. I know some people (especially men) are able to jump out of their marriages into multiple beds, but I didn't. Because I couldn't. But eventually I did want to start having sex again, and so I

waited until the right

moment came along and had a perfectly bland textbook

one-night stand. And I'm so

happy it happened that way. His semi-hard whiskey dick provided exactly the

gentle nudge I needed to get back in the game. (He was lovely, the whole thing

lovely and very sweet really, but in hindsight I think he may have been married.

No ring though. Not my fault!)

我是个离婚的单身母亲。在我和前夫离婚后，我的情绪非常

低落，性是我脑子里唯一剩下的东西。我知道一些人（尤其

是男人）有婚外情，但我没有。因为我不能。但最终我想再

次开始性生活，所以我等待知道那个对的时刻到来一个完美

单调的一夜的停留。我乐于以这样的方式进行。他的半硬的

阴茎给我恰到好处轻柔的刺激，那正式我想得到的。（他是可爱的，整件事情都是甜蜜而富有爱意的，但是事后，我想

他可能已经结婚了。但没有看到他的戒指，不是我的错。）Anyway, the great

thing about co-parenting with an ex is that it allows you

both to have sexy

time. (With other people. Not with each other. That's

something you should never

do! Though I did think about it once. I asked my ex to have sex with me and he

said okay, but then we started talking and I made him cry about how he'd

mistreated me, and that was so much better than an orgasm.) A few weeks after I

popped my divorce cherry, I saw the opportunity for another one-nighter and took

advantage. Eventually I started dating someone, and though it didn't work out

long-term, we had so much sex. Makeup sex. Not the kind of sex you have after a

fight, the kind of sex you have after you haven't had that kind of sex for

years. The kind of sex that makes you happy to be alive. The kind of sex that

makes you want to let your kid have ice cream for breakfast. The kind of sex

where you're angry and crying and laughing all at the same time! (Oh, just me?

Okay.)

不管怎样，和前夫共同养育子女最棒的事是可以有迷人的性

感时间。（和其他人，不是和某人彼此。那是你从没做过的

事！虽然我只想过一次。我请求我的前夫和我做爱，他说好，但是后来我们开始谈话我谈到他不公的对待使他大叫，这比

性高潮更好。）离婚后的几个礼拜，我看到了另一个一夜情

的机会并抓住机会。最终我开始和人约会，即使这不是长期

有效，我们做了很多次。做爱，不是在争吵后的那种性，是

那种在你很多年都没发生过性后的那种。它是你感到愉悦和

活着的乐趣。这种性使你想让你的孩子用冰淇淋当早餐。这

种性使你在同一时间生气，狂叫，大笑。（好吧，这就是我吗？）

Related: 10 reasons he

still wants sex while you're pregnant

讲述：当你怀孕是他还要做爱的十个原因

Now that we've

stopped seeing each other, I don't know when I'll have sex again, and I don't

really care. I like sex as much or more than the next guy,

but I have to feel

comfortable with someone to have sex with them, so that means really random

one-nighters are out of the question. (And probably aren't