view on love

Love is a feeling. It is your affection toward someone or a group of individuals. Love is a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. Love exists between parents and children, man and woman, students and teachers, lovers, relatives, classmates, roommates, workmates and even strangers. There is a kind of love that can tightly connected two strangers together and they are willing to give everything to each other. That is the soul mate’s love.

There are many types of love, such as fatuous love, infatuated love,empty love, romantic love, companionate love and consummate love. We all seek true love or perfect love, but what is perfect love or what does love mean? Love is not writing a love letter to her (him), putting the head on his shoulder, making a date by bike or kissing in the corner. Is love a fallacy? Maybe sometimes love is a fallacy. Love is a prison and love is free. Love is sweet and love is bitter. The reason why there exists contradiction of love is that we hold different attitude towards love which changes love into two opposite driving forces. On the one hand, love makes people crazy, and lets people lose freedom. Over-dependence becomes a bondage.In this case, love is meaningless and hurts people deeply. On the other hand, love is not a fallacy. It is a positive felling between lovers.Love can make a person who feels upset regain confidence, which can help them live, study or work well. Love can drive loneliness away, and maybe giving love to somebody can save a life when he or she feels hopeless. Love makes people become more motivated, and lets one become more outstanding.

I quite agree with Liang's views on love. We need to give a holiday to love instead of having a holiday for love. Love needs freedom and time is the best preservative of love. True love must survive the test of time and space. Temporary separation makes gathering become more precious. It is also a good time to get to know each other better. Being inseparable always makes lovers very tired. Only to be yourself can make your lover understand you better.

Love is the greatest refreshment in life. Love is not only sweet words and honeyed phrases, but is the long-term mutual support in good and bad times. Love is care, understanding, communication, support and sharing. Love means reason, commitment, loyalty, obligations and responsibilities. Don't intent on what can be gained from love. Y ou should think about what you can do for love. If you do so, you can truly enjoy your sweet love.

Should people distinguish love from marriage? My answer is no. I insist love and marriage are inseparable. That is the attitude towards love. If you seek love just for fun, you cannot get a true love. You should spend time cultivating your love.With the accumulation of time and the increase of understanding, true love will emerge, and then it is time to get married. We should take love seriously as well as marriage. Faced with marriage, we should keep a tolerant attitude. Life is full of ups and downs. Complaint will only make things worse.Mutual trust, mutual understanding, and mutual support will make a better marriage.