从查理的巧克力工厂看如何教育孩子 英文

How to be a good parent
The poor Charlie and other four children visited the chocolate factory of Willy Wonka, this is what the Charlie and the Chocolate Factory saying about.
Mr.Wonka hide five gold paper in the Wonka chocolate’s wrapping paper, and the children of this world all had the chance to get the gold paper. If you got the gold paper you can visit the biggest chocolate factory—the chocolate factory of Willy Wonka, and one kid will get a grand prize. Charlie lived in a poor family, seven people live in a small, old, shabby house, but they lived together happily. And how about the other four children?
The first boy to get gold paper is Augustus Grupp. He is a fat boy, who eats candies all day. The greedy, stupid Augustus drunk lots of chocolate of the chocolate river, and he fell into the river. At last, the machines get him into the candy workshop.
The second child is Veruca Sault. Her family spoiled her, and she was arrogant. If her parents didn’t give her the things she wanted, she will cry and yell. In the nuts workshop, she tried to catch a squirrel that making nuts, but the squirrels dragged her into the dumping ground.
The third lucky child is Violet Beauregard, she likes to chew gums. Violet always wants to be the best, and she was very mean. At last, she swallowed a gum, and became a huge blueberry
The fourth child is a boy who named Mike Tavy. He always shows his clever, and he is very “brave”. His “brave”let him became a little people that look like the thumb.
And Charlie? He is the good boy of the five children. He is not mean, nor jealous, like to share with other. At last, he got the grand prize—the chocolate factory!
The children in the film are all have some problems except Charlie. This film asks us to think how to be a good parent. There are some suggestions:
Slow down.Babies and children live in a different time frame from adults' - usually a much slower one. Keep this in mind as you talk to your child, care for her and go about your day together.
2．Observe your child. You'll be amazed at how well you'll get to know your child by sitting back and watching. This focused awareness will help you better understand moods, abilities and temperament. Listening is important, too.
3．Stay optimistic. Optimism is contagious; so is negativity. Show your child through your behavior how to overcome minor setbacks. Children emulate their parents' attitudes and habits, so it will help if you have a positive outlook.
4．Accept and acknowledge your child's feelings and desires. Let her know it's OK if she feels sad, scared or angry. You can say, 'It looks like you're sad because your friend went home' or 'It seems that you're mad because I put the ball away.' 5．Tell your child your expectations. Children won't always comply right away, but they need to understand clearly what a parent expects: 'I want you to put on your sweater. We're going outside,' or 'I want your feet to stay off the couch.'
6．Set appropriate limits. Even when you acknowledge a feeling or desire, you must make a child aware of appropriate behavior and rules: 'I can see you're mad at your friend because he took the toy from you, but I won't let you hit him. Hitting is not something we do in our family. What else can you do?'
7．Wait. Let your child do as much as she can on her own - learn to walk, put on her socks, resolve conflicts with her friends. Anxiety or the desire to help often tempts parents to rush in and solve the problem for the child. A better response would be to wait and see what your child can manage on her own. She might surprise you.
8．Behave genuinely. Just as you accept your child's moods, though not always his behavior, it's OK to have a sad or angry thought yourself and express it appropriately: 'I'm really tired right now but I'm listening to you.' A parent's genuineness prepares a child for life.
9．Nurture yourself and your marriage.Make arrangements to have some guilt-free time to take care of your own needs. Plan a date with your partner and forget the kids for a while. You'll be a happier person and a better parent.
Do you want to be a good parent? Try to do your best to understand your children so that you can be a good parent.。