如何有效地使用肢体语言

面部表情、眼神、头部的运动、手势以及身体的姿态等这些肢体语言可以完成很
多口头语言无法完成的沟通任务。

那么，如何恰当地运用肢体语言呢？
How to use body Ianguage effectively
如何#效地&用（体语言
江苏泰州市姜堰区罗塘高级中学钱盈盈
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5. disingenuous /l dlsln l d3enju's/ adj.不真诚的
6. bilateral /[balbt'r'l/ adj.双边的；双方的
7. intimidating /ln%tlmldeltl(/ adj.吓人的；令人
胆怯的
1. gaze /gelz/ n.凝视；注视
2. spine /spain/ n.脊柱;脊椎
3. parallel /'p ^rolel/ adj.平行的
4. vibes /valbz/ n.情绪；气氛
Body language is an important part of being an effective communicator. You can make a positive impression on other people when you learn to use good body
language. Here are some effective tips.
Get in the right mindset
One of the easiest ways to ensure friendly body language is to go into a room with friendly intentions. "Before meeting someone, imagine that you really like
the person,# said Elena Ledoux. "Then when you start the meeting, try to find reasons why you sincerely like him or her. This leads to a friendly gaze , relaxed
body posture, and more smiling. ” When you make someone feel special, he or she is more likely to go the extra mile for you in the future.
Perfect your posture
The foundation of good body language is great posture. Straighten your spine , relax your shoul ­
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ders and keep your chin parallel to the floor.You'll also want to keep your arms in a position that doesn't close off your chest."Keep your body open or unblocked,"said John P.Garrison,a psycholo­gist and body language expert."We tend to cover our chests when we feel anxious or threatened so when they're open,we're seen as honest."
Flash#smile
Everyone knows that smiling gives off positive vibes and shows people you're open to conversa­tion.But not just any smile will do;in fact,a disingenuous one could wind up backfiring."Honest emotions are bilateral,"said Garrison."That means they show up on both sides of the face.So make sure if you are going to smile,that it is a full and genuine one.A smile on one side of the face is un­consciously interpreted as contempt,so a quick grin or an attempted polite one-sided smile is not a good idea.”
Make eye contact
Strong eye contact is key to appearing friendly and confident."Looking someone in the eyes is too intimidating,"body language expert Lillian Glass said."Instead,look at the total face for one second."Obviously,you should also avoid looking around the room or checking your phone.
Shake on it
A firm handshake makes a strong first impression.Reach out a hand vertically and meet the oth­er person in the middle."Don't attempt to dominate nor be submissive in your hand positioning,"said Mark Anderson,director of training and development at Anderson Investigative Associates."Move your hand straight forward and with some measure of firmness.This is not the time for dead fish hands,and if your hands are sweaty,wipe it off."
Use hand gestures
Once you've started your conversation,you'll want to let your body move naturally."Because we freeze when we feel threatened,minimal body movement can be seen as attempting to be dishonest or deceitful,"said Garrison."Research shows that people who speak with more hand gestures are be­lieved to be more honest than those who do not use their hands when they talk."
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Apart from the tips for effective body language mentioned in the text,can you find more ways to use body language properly?
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I.热词积累15.indifferent冷漠的动作类肢体语言d温和的
1.greet迎接；和....打招呼17.subjective主观的
2.approach接近18.objective客观的
3.defend保护；保卫19.neutral中立的
4.grin露齿笑；咧嘴笑20.ambiguous的
5.frown皱眉21.negative的
6.hug拥抱22.positive观的
7.yawn打哈欠23.supportive的
8.bow鞠躬24.approving意的
9.shake hands握手25.opposed反的
10.interpret把...理解为；诠释肢体
11.perceive察觉到；将....理解为 1.head头
12.stare凝视 2.face
13.react回应 3.cheek
14.weep哭泣 4.eye眼睛
15.doubt怀疑 5.nose
16.nod点头 6.eyebrow眉毛
17.bend屈身7.tooth牙齿
18.touch触碰8.mouth嘴巴
肢体语言的心理或情感效应9.ear耳朵
1.angry生气的10.chin巴
2.confident自信的11.elbow
3.confused困惑的12.hand手
4.embarrassed尴尬的13.thumb
5.curious好奇的14.forefinger
6.interested感兴趣的15.middle finger中
7.puzzled迷惑的16.ring finger
8.disgusted厌恶的；反感的17.little finger
9.excited兴奋的18.leg
10.enthusiastic热情的19.knee
11.satisfied/content满意的20.foot
12.sensitive敏感的肢体语言
13.worried/concerned忧虑的 municate
14.scared/frightened害怕的 2.express/convey
52...悅簇蓋hi
3.relieve缓解
4.imply暗$
5.replace代替
6.strengthen力口强
7.distinguish区分
8.make inferences推断
n.美句背诵
1.With so many cultural differences between
people,it is lucky to have some similarities in body language.人与人之间有这么多的文化差异，但幸运的是,人们的肢体语言有一些相似之处。

2.Making a fist and shaking it means that
someone is angry and threatening another person.L摇晃它意味着某人生气且正在威胁另一个人。

3.Body language is the non-verbal way of com­
munication that we use to reveal our true feelings and emotions.肢体语言是我们用来表达真实感受和情绪的非语言的交流方式。

4.Being aware of negative body language of
others can allow you to pick up on unspoken issues.注意别人的消极的肢体语言可以让你意识到隐含的问题。

5.There's a common perception that people who
touch their faces while answering questions are being dishonest.人们普遍认为，在回答问题的人是不诚实的。

6.Try to hold the other person's gaze for a few
seconds.This will show that you're sincere and engaged.But,avoid turning it into a star­ing match!可以试着与对方的光交流。

这会让你看起来非常真诚和投入。

但是，不要把它变成一场盯人的比赛！7.Truth reveals itself more clearly through our
action than it does through our words.实
动远比话语示真理。

8.The body says what words cannot.体
达出语言表达的东西。

9.A single look can convey so much.一个表情
达很多信息。

10.When it comes to using the eyes as non­
verbal communication,eye contact immedi­ately comes to your mind.用
非语言交的，交流会刻浮现在你的脑海中。

11.All animals use body language to organize
and run their private and social lives.有会用肢体语言来和它们的私生活和社会生活。

12.Body language may be the determining fac­
tor in a job interview.肢体语言可能是求职面试中的决定性因素。

读后创写
你是，你在的一场以“body language”为主题的演讲比赛。

请你一,:
1.肢体语言的；
2.肢体语言在有差异性；
3.学习肢体语言的必要性。

注意:
1.150；
2.开头和，不计入总词数；
3.可以适当增加，以使行文连贯& Ladies and gentlemen,
It's m.great honor to be here and give a speech titled"The importance of body lan-即哪'•______________________________
That's ai.Thank you for listening.
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•悦读斋
哈里王子的特殊手势
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l.C 2.A 3.1
拿包方式背后的秘密
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1.cautious/careful
2.confident
3.position
4.well-organized
5.shy
6.protection
7.shaking off
世界各地的肢体语言
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1.B
2.C
3.D
巧妙识别说谎者
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1.B
2.A
3.D
肢体语言的重要性
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1.D
2.B
3.C
如何有效地使用肢体语言Reading Check
Any answer is possible.
主题应用•语库构建
!.读后创写
Ladies and gentlemen,
It's m.great honor to be here and give a speech titled"The importance of n­guage".As we all know,words aren't humans' only means of communication.Gestures,facial expressions,body movements,postures and intonations can all convey messages.They are almost more important than verbal language!
To begin with,paying attention to some­one's body language can help us know when someone is not telling us the whole truth.An­other important function of body language is to express our feelings about what we are dis­cussing.Besides,body language may be the determining factor in a job interview.By un­derstanding body language more effectively, we can decrease our chances of being misun­derstood.However,there are so many cultural differences between people that we may find it hard to interpret body language around the world.Therefore,it is important and necessary that we learn to use and discern body lan­guage more effectively to become a high-quality communicator.
That's all.Thank you for listening.
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1.good
2.purpose
3.waste
4.because
5.school
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