英语作文昨天晚上和父母吵架给他提建议

英语作文昨天晚上和父母吵架给他提建议
全文共6篇示例，供读者参考
篇1
Last Night's Argument with Mom and Dad
Hi! My name is Jamie and I'm 10 years old. Last night, I had a big argument with my mom and dad and it was really upsetting. I want to tell you all about what happened and give them some advice on how we can avoid fighting like that in the future.
It all started when I was supposed to be getting ready for bed at 8:30pm. I had finished my homework, taken a bath, and put on my pajamas. But instead of brushing my teeth and going to bed like I was supposed to, I snuck downstairs to play videogames instead. My favorite game right now is Monster Batalla 5 and I just couldn't resist trying to get to the next level.
Well, my parents must have heard the game sounds coming from the living room because the next thing I knew, my dad was standing right behind me with his arms crossed looking really mad. "Jamie! You're supposed to be in bed young lady. No more videogames tonight, give me that controller right now," he said
sternly. I knew I was in big trouble so I sadly handed him the controller.
That's when my mom came into the room looking just as upset. "Jamie, this is unacceptable behavior. You know the rules - bedtime is at 9:00 on school nights. No exceptions!" she scolded.
I hung my head down feeling really guilty and embarrassed for disobeying them.
But then I got defensive and yelled "It's not fair! All my friends get to stay up way later than 9:00 playing games. You're being too strict!" My dad's face turned even redder and he boomed "Don't you dare raise your voice at us young lady! You're going to bed right now with no videogames for a week as punishment."
At this point I was furious and started crying. "I hate you! You're the meanest parents ever! I wish I had different parents who were actually nice!" I shouted through my tears. I could tell I had really hurt their feelings but I was too upset to care at that moment.
My mom looked like she was going to cry too as she pointed upstairs and said in a shaky voice "Go to your room this instant young lady and don't come out until you can behave." I ran upstairs, flopped on my bed, and cried and cried. I could hear
them arguing with each other downstairs about what to do about my tantrum.
Eventually I must have cried myself to sleep because the next thing I knew, it was morning. I felt awful about how terribly I had treated my parents. They work so hard every day and make a lot of sacrifices to take care of me. They definitely didn't deserve to be yelled at and told they were the meanest parents ever. I knew I owed them a huge apology.
At breakfast, I went over to my mom and gave her a big hug. "Mom, Dad, I'm so sorry for the way I acted last night. It was wrong of me to disobey you, yell at you, and say such hurtful things. You're not mean parents at all - you're wonderful parents and you didn't deserve to be treated that way. I was just upset in the moment but that's no excuse. Can you please forgive me?" I said sincerely with my head down.
They both looked surprised but gave me a hug back. "Thank you for that apology Jamie, it means a lot," my dad said. "We know you're a good kid, you just made a mistake last night like we all do sometimes. But we were really disappointed in your behavior and disrespect towards us. You can't throw tantrums like that, it's not okay."
"You're right, I know, and it won't happen again," I promised. We all hugged again and I could tell they had forgiven me which made me feel so much better.
Even though that situation is resolved, I do have some advice for my parents that I think will help prevent big arguments like that from happening again in the future:
Maybe have a more reasonable bedtime on weekends and during school breaks, like 10pm or even 10:30pm. That way I don't feel as resentful and restricted when it comes to playing videogames or watching TV shows I enjoy. I'm older now so I think I can handle a later bedtime sometimes.
Give me a warning before it's time for bed, like "Ok Jamie, 30 more minutes until bedtime so start getting ready." That way I'm not engrossed in an activity and then abruptly told to stop. The warning gives me time to wrap things up.
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篇2
Title: What to Do When You Fight With Your Parents
Last night, I had a big argument with my mom and dad. It was really upsetting and I ended up crying in my room. I know
fights with parents happen sometimes, but they still feel terrible when you're in the middle of one. If you've ever been through something like this, I have some advice that might help.
First off, try to stay calm when the argument starts. I know that's really hard to do, especially when mom or dad is yelling or saying things that make you mad or sad. But if you can take some deep breaths and not yell back, it's less likely the fight will get completely out of control. Sometimes parents get caught up in the heat of the moment too. If you keep a level head, there's a better chance the whole thing won't blow up into a massive screaming match.
If the argument has already turned into angry yelling from both sides, don't be afraid to take a break. Suggest that everyone go cool off for a little while before continuing the discussion. You could say something like "Mom, Dad, I think we all need a few minutes to calm down before we keep talking about this. Can I go to my room for a bit?" Getting some space can really help.
While you're taking that break, it's a good idea to think about your parents' point of view, even if you disagree with them. Maybe they're upset because they think you didn't follow an important rule, or because they feel you haven't been doing your chores or homework like you're supposed to. From their side,
they probably just want what's best for you. Trying to see where they're coming from can make it easier to discuss things in a calmer way.
At the same time, your feelings and perspective matter just as much. If your parents are being unreasonable or unfair, you have every right to explain your side respectfully. Maybe there was a miscommunication or misunderstanding. Maybe the rules don't make sense to you. Whatever it is, don't be afraid to share your point of view clearly when you all regroup.
If you have trouble getting your words out in the heat of the moment, it can help to write things down first before talking to your parents again. Get all your thoughts organized so you can explain yourself without getting flustered or forgetting key points. That prevents the argument from just going around in circles.
Most importantly, even if you're still mad, try your best to speak and listen with respect. Don't call your parents names or cut them off when they're talking. And if they end up saying something hurtful in the moment, walk away again if you need to instead of firing back insults. Keeping your cool is so important when tensions are high.
When you've all had a chance to share your sides in a calmer way, you'll probably need to work through a compromise. That might mean your parents re-evaluate some of the rules you disagreed with. Or it might mean you have to take on more responsibilities or face consequences. Either way, try to hear each other out and find a middle ground, even if no one gets everything they want. Meeting halfway shows your family can work through conflicts in a mature, loving way.
At the end of the day, keep this in mind - your parents really do love you, even if you disagree sometimes. They only want what's best, even if they go about it in a frustrating or angering way sometimes. You can be upset with their behavior without doubting their love. Disagreements are normal and okay as long as everybody is respectful in the end.
So if you get into it with mom and dad, don't panic. Fight fair, take breaks if you need them, hear each other out, and look for compromises. Even though arguments are no fun at all, they can bring a family closer if you handle them in a thoughtful, mature way. I know it's not easy, but it's worth it to work through conflicts in a peaceful, loving manner.
I'm still pretty upset about my fight last night, but I'm going to follow this advice myself. Wish me luck! Let me know if you
have any other tips for dealing with parental arguments. We're all in this together.
篇3
Last Night's Fight with My Parents
Last night, I had a huge argument with my mom and dad. It all started because I didn't want to go to bed at 8:30pm like I'm supposed to. I was in the middle of an awesome video game level and I begged to stay up just a little bit longer to finish it. But my parents said no way, it was already past my bedtime.
I got really mad and started yelling that the bedtime rule was stupid and unfair. I said all the other kids at school get to stay up way later playing games. My dad raised his voice too, saying they were the parents and I had to follow their rules in the house. We ended up shouting louder and louder until my little sister started crying from all the noise.
My mom finally unplugged the TV and dragged me kicking and screaming to my room. I slammed the door shut and cried on my bed feeling so angry at them. How could they be so mean and ruin my game time? It wasn't fair at all!
After a little while, there was a knock at the door. It was my dad. He sat down on my bed and said in a calm voice that he was sorry we all got so heated, but I needed to start listening better. He explained again that an early bedtime is important for kids my age to get enough sleep and be well-rested for school.
I stopped crying and actually listened this time. My dad made some good points. He said when I'm older, maybe in middle school, they'll let me stay up a little later as long as I'm responsible about it. But for now, while I'm still young, I need to follow their rules about bedtime.
I gave a sad little nod. As much as I hated to admit it, dad was right. We made up and promised to talk things out next time instead of yelling. Before leaving, my dad suggested I write down why I think my bedtime should be later and any compromise ideas. That way I can make my case to them in a calm discussion instead of a heated argument.
So if I could pass along any advice to other kids who fight with their parents, I'd say a few things:
Listen to your parents' reasons first, even if you don't like their rules. There's usually a good explanation if you hear them out.
If you disagree, ask calmly to discuss it instead of starting a shouting match right away. Getting all worked up never helps.
Write down your thoughts clearly so you can state your case in a mature way without forgetting points in the heat of the moment.
Be open to compromise. Maybe you can work out a little later bedtime but only on certain nights or if all your homework is done early.
Don't hold onto anger after settling a disagreement. Hug it out and move on as friends.
Fights with parents are never fun. But if you communicate better, you'll argument less overal. My dad gave me a chance to explain myself, and I'll do the same for them from now on. Staying calm and compromising makes things easier on the whole family.
I'm hoping tonight's bedtime goes smoother now that we've all learned how to talk it out. Keeping that video game controller out of my clenched fists should also help! Just kidding...well, sort of. Baby steps, right?
篇4
Dear Mom and Dad,
Last night we had a big argument and it really upset me. I know you both love me very much, but sometimes the way we disagree and raise our voices at each other makes me feel sad and confused. I'm writing this letter to you in the hope that we can find a better way to communicate and resolve conflicts as a family.
First of all, I want you to know that even though I'm just a kid, I understand that grown-ups have a lot of stress and responsibilities. You both work hard to provide for our family and make sure we have everything we need. I know that running a household, taking care of me and my siblings, and dealing with all the other demands of life can be really overwhelming at times. It's okay to feel frustrated or angry sometimes – those are normal human emotions.
What's important, though, is how we express and manage those negative feelings. When we start yelling and saying hurtful things to each other, it creates an environment of tension, fear, and resentment in our home. That's not healthy for any of us, especially for kids like me who are still learning how to handle emotions and resolve conflicts in a constructive way.
I think it would really help if we could all try to communicate more calmly and respectfully, even when we're feeling upset or disagreeing about something. It's okay to take a break and give each other some space to cool off if emotions are running high. But once we've all had a chance to calm down, we should come back together and talk things through in a patient, understanding way.
It might also be helpful to establish some family rules or guidelines for how we handle disagreements and conflicts. For example, maybe we could have a rule that says "no yelling or name-calling" during arguments. Or maybe we could agree that if someone needs a break from the discussion, they can use a special code word or signal to indicate that without being judged or criticized.
Another suggestion is to try to focus on solving the problem at hand, rather than attacking each other's character or bringing up past grievances. It's easy to get sidetracked and start dredging up old issues when we're in the heat of an argument, but that rarely leads anywhere productive. If we can stay focused on the current issue we're disagreeing about and work together to find a fair, reasonable solution, that would go a long way toward reducing conflicts in our home.
I also think it's important for all of us – you, me, my siblings –to take responsibility for our own words, actions, and behavior during disagreements. Nobody's perfect, and we all make mistakes sometimes. But if we can own up to our mistakes, sincerely apologize when we're in the wrong, and make an effort to do better next time, that could really strengthen the bonds of love, trust, and respect in our family.
Lastly, I want to remind you that even though I'm just a little kid, I'm a member of this family too. My thoughts, feelings, and opinions deserve to be heard and considered, even if you don't always agree with me. I promise to do my best to listen to you and try to see things from your perspective as parents. In return, I hope you'll make an effort to understand where I'm coming from and why I feel the way I do about certain issues or situations. Working together and really listening to each other is the key to resolving conflicts in a healthy, positive way.
I love you both so much, and I hate seeing our family divided by anger, resentment, and hurt feelings. I know we can do better. With open communication, mutual understanding and respect, and a genuine desire to find peaceful resolutions, I believe we can create a happier, more harmonious home environment for all of us.
Thank you for taking the time to read this letter and consider my suggestions. I'm looking forward to working together to make our family even stronger and more loving than it already is.
Your loving child,
[Your Name]
篇5
Title: A Big Fight with Mom and Dad
Last night I had a huge argument with my parents and it was really bad. I'll tell you what happened, and then give you some tips on what to do if you ever fight with your parents like that.
It all started at dinnertime. My mom made broccoli again, which is one of my least favorite foods. I really don't like the taste and texture. When she put it on my plate, I made a yucky face without even thinking about it.
"Michael, don't make that face about the broccoli," my mom scolded. "You need to eat your vegetables."
"But Mom, I hate broccoli! It's so gross," I complained. "Can't I just have a bigger helping of mashed potatoes instead?"
"No, you may not. A growing boy needs a balanced diet with plenty of vegetables," she insisted firmly. "Now eat your broccoli."
I grudgingly took a bite, but immediately spit it back out onto my plate. "Blehh! See, I told you I don't like it!"
That's when my dad stepped in, his voice getting louder. "Michael! You do notspit food out at the table, that is incredibly rude. What has gotten into you?"
I felt my face getting hot with anger and embarrassment. "Well if Mom didn't make such disgusting food, I wouldn't have to spit it out!" I shouted back.
Mom gasped in shock. "Do not speak to me that way, young man! You are being extremely disrespectful."
The yelling kept escalating from there. My parents were furious that I had an attitude and wouldn't eat my vegetables. I was mad that they wouldn't listen to me about how much I dislike broccoli. We were all screaming and saying hurtful things we didn't really mean.
Eventually my dad ordered me to go to my room, saying I had to stay there until I could behave properly. I stomped away,
slamming the door behind me. I stayed in there crying angrily for what felt like hours.
Looking back, I feel really bad about how I acted and wish I could have handled it better. Even though I was frustrated, I shouldn't have raised my voice, made rude comments, or been so defiant towards my parents who were just trying to ensure I ate nutritiously. I made the situation much worse than it needed to be.
If you ever get into a big fight with your parents like that, here is my advice based on what I learned:
Take a deep breath before responding when you start feeling angry or upset. Don't just blurt out the first thing you're thinking.
Use respectful language and an even, calm tone when stating your perspective. Say things like "I understand you want me to eat vegetables, but I really struggle with broccoli's flavor. Could we compromise somehow?"
Listen to your parents' point of view as well, instead of just arguing against it. They likely have good reasons for their rules or expectations.
If the discussion starts raising voices, ask for a short break before things escalate further. Separate for a few minutes to cool off.
Be willing to compromise instead of demanding to get your way entirely. Maybe you can agree to eat just a few bites of the vegetable you dislike along with ones you prefer.
If you do act out by saying mean comments, slamming doors, etc., admit you were wrong later and apologize sincerely. We all make mistakes in the heat of the moment.
Remember that your parents love you and are trying to raise you properly, even if it doesn't always feel that way in a tense situation. They likely feel just as bad about the fight as you do.
Family arguments are going to happen sometimes, but it's important to fight fair and be willing to see the other person's perspective. With calm communication and compromise, you can usually resolve conflicts much more quickly and peacefully. I know I'll definitely try harder to do that next time I disagree with my parents about something. Getting along is important!
篇6
Last Night's Big Fight
Yesterday was just a regular day. I went to school, played at recess, and did my homework after I got home. But then at dinner, everything went wrong.
Mom made my favorite meal - spaghetti and meatballs. I was really hungry so I started shoveling it into my mouth as fast as I could. Mom told me to slow down and use my manners, but I was too focused on the delicious food.
"Jackson, didn't you hear me? Slow down and eat properly," Mom said in a stern voice.
I tried to mumble "Okay" with my mouth full of spaghetti, but it just came out as a garbled mess. Mom gave me a really frustrated look.
"Jackson Lewis Clark! Don't talk with your mouth full, that's disgusting," she scolded. "Honestly, where are your manners?"
I felt my face get really hot with embarrassment. I didn't mean to be rude, I just really liked the spaghetti! I swallowed hard and looked down at my plate.
Dad tried to deflate the tension. "Now, now, he's just a hungry kid. No need to get so worked up over it."
But Mom wasn't having it. "No, Michael, this isn't okay.
We've talked to him about mealtime manners over and over. At this rate, he's never going to learn!"
I felt tears welling up in my eyes, but I blinked them away. I'm too old to cry over something so little. Though it didn't feel so little in that moment.
"Well maybe if you didn't work such insane hours, you'd actually be around to enforce those manners more often," Dad retorted, his voice getting louder.
Uh oh. Now they were fighting about Dad's job again. This was bad. Anytime his work came up, the claws came out.
"Oh, don't you dare start with that again!" Mom yelled. "You know I have to work those hours to support this family while you chase your little pipe dream!"
Dad slammed his fist on the table, making my plate jump. "It is not a pipe dream! I'm going to make it as a writer, you'll see!"
They continued yelling back and forth like that, bringing up the same old arguments about Dad quitting his office job to try writing full-time. I've heard it all before so many times. Their words started blurring together in my mind as I zoned out.
Eventually, I guess Dad decided he had enough because he abruptly stood up from the table, still glaring at Mom. "I can't do this anymore tonight. I'm going out."
He grabbed his jacket and stormed out the front door, slamming it shut behind him. Mom and I were left sitting there in an awful, tense silence.
I stared down at my half-eaten plate of spaghetti, now congealed and cold. I had lost my appetite, which was saying something for a nine-year-old boy.
Mom sighed shakily and pinched the bridge of her nose. "Well, Jackson, there's no point in letting the rest of this food go to waste. Are you going to finish your plate?"
I shook my head wordlessly. A couple stray tears spilled down my cheeks, which I hastily brushed away.
"Oh, honey..." Mom's face fell, and she came to pull me into a hug. "I'm so sorry you had to see that. Your dad and I shouldn't have gotten so upset, especially over something as silly as manners."
She rubbed my back soothingly as I just nodded into her shoulder. We sat there holding each other for a while.
Eventually Mom pulled away and took both my hands in hers. Her eyes were a little misty too. "Jackson, please know that even though Dad and I fight sometimes, we still love each other. And we love you more than anything in this whole world."
I managed a small smile at that. "I know. I love you guys too."
"Good." Mom squeezed my hands. "Now, why don't you go on upstairs and get ready for bed? I'll take care of the kitchen."
After brushing my teeth and putting on my pajamas, I climbed into bed and stared up at the glow-in-the-dark star stickers on my ceiling, thinking about the fight.
My parents had been fighting a lot more ever since Dad quit his job to pursue writing full-time. I knew it was his dream, but it made Mom really stressed and anxious about money. I didn't like seeing them yell at each other like that. It was scary.
As I mentally re-played the night's events, I realized they could both use some advice for handling disagreements better. So here's what I would tell Mom and Dad:
Dear Mom and Dad,
I know last night was really heated, and I didn't like seeing you two go back and forth like that. It's obvious you still care a
lot about each other, which is why the fights are so intense. But screaming and name-calling isn't the answer.
For Mom - I know you're worried about Dad's writing not panning out financially. That's a totally fair concern! But getting aggressive and belittling his goals isn't productive. Maybe you could compromise by having Dad pick up a part-time job or cut back on spending for a little while, just to take the pressure off? That way he can still chase his dreams but you'll have a financial safety net. Also, please don't assume you work harder just because you have an office job and Dad stays home. Writing a book is really difficult!
For Dad - I get that you're passionate about your writing, but you can't just bury your head in the sand when Mom has legitimate worries about money. Try to hear her out and reassure her, instead of automatically going on the defensive. Also, maybe warn us when you need to exit an argument, instead of just storming out of the house? That was scary, not knowing where you went.
For both of you - set a good example for me by arguing fairly and respectfully. No screaming, cursing, insulting, or storming out. If things get too heated, take a break and come back to it later when you've calmed down. And try not to dredge
up the same old arguments every time - meet each disagreement with a fresh perspective.
I know when you got married, you promised to love and cherish each other through anything. And you've kept that promise so far, even when times got tough. I believe you can get through this rough patch too! Just make an effort to communicate better and meet each other halfway.
Most of all, never forget how much you mean to me and how grateful I am to have you both as parents. I don't like seeing you fight, but I understand you're only human and all relationships hit bumps sometimes. As long as you still love each other at the end of the day, that's what matters most.
I love you guys so, so much. Let's all try to argue a little less from now on, okay?
Love,
Jackson。