心灵的沟通 生命的对话——小学生辅导个案

心灵的沟通生命的对话——小学生辅导个案摘要：随着社会的发展，由于竞争的加剧，小学生们压力越来越大，面临越来越多的挑战。

本文以一个小学生辅导个案为例，介绍了家庭
辅导师如何通过灵魂和心灵的沟通，进行心理辅导，帮助小学生们应
对他们所面临的学习压力。

The development of the society puts increasing pressure and challenges on the students in primary school. Therefore, it is important for parents and teachers to provide help and advice for primary school students. This paper takes a primary school guidance case as an example to illustrate how a
family counsellor might communicate with the student’s soul and heart to provide psychological counselling, help them to cope with the pressure from study.
本案介绍了一名小学生王某某，他是一名留守儿童，由于父母长期在
外打工，他的生活处于贫困的状态，日常的活动也有所限制，因而导
致他学习成绩较低。

The case introduces a primary school student Wang. He is an island child
and because of his parents work away from home, he lives in a poor condition and his activities are limited. As a consequence, his academic performance is very low.
家庭辅导师首先应该就王某某家庭状态，生活习惯、学习压力、现金
条件以及家庭教育水平等进行深入的调查研究，从而了解王某某的具
体情况。

To help Wang, the family counsellor has to make an in-depth investigation on Wang's family status, living habits, study pressure, financial conditions and family education levels to understand his situation.
家庭辅导师要采取不同的方法接近王某某，和他进行灵魂的沟通，建立起互信，尊重他的私心，从而使他开放心胸，得以表达自身的内心情感。

The family counsellor should adopt different methods to approach Wang and to communicate with his soul. To build up mutual trust and respect his privacy, so that he can open up and express his inner feelings.
家庭辅导师还可以组织聚会和活动，创造一种轻松愉快的氛围，让小学生们能够放松心情，更好地表达自己的情感。

In addition, family counselling can also organize parties and activities to create a relaxed and happy atmosphere, so that primary school students can relax and express their feelings better.
随后，家庭辅导师要与王某某开展心灵的对话等，深入了解他的情绪情感，然后教导他减轻学习压力的技巧，如休息足够、合理安排学习时间、注重营养均衡等，并鼓励他利用休息时间做自己喜欢的事情，达到平衡心理的发展。

Then the family counsellor has to communicate with Wang's soul and mind to understand his emotions and feelings. They have to teach him strategies to reduce the study pressure, such as enough rest, reasonable time management, balanced nutrition, and to encourage him to use his leisure time to do the things he likes to achieve psychological balance.
家庭辅导师可以让王某某在有家庭压力的时候可以给自己一个安全的“空间”，在心理上可以宽慰自己，避免出现情绪的表达。

Besides, the family counsellor can create a safe “space” for Wang to comfort himself when there is family pressure. This can prevent his emotions from bursting out.
王某某也需自己尊重自己，及时发现并解决自己存在的心理问题，不断地丰富自己，体验丰富多采的生活，从而增强自己的生命力，提升学习成绩。

In addition, Wang should also respect himself, discover and solve his own psychological problems timely and enrich himself by experiencing a variety of lives to enhance his vitality and improve academic performance.
总结而言，家庭辅导师通过心灵沟通和心理调查，可以深入了解学生的发展情况，帮助学生轻松应对日常的学习压力，为学生的成长提供有价值的指导。

To sum up, family counselling can have deeper understanding of student's development by communicating soul to soul and psychological investigation, help student deal with study pressure in daily life and provide valuable guidance for the students' growth.。