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这没什么It's okay to be afraid of the things we don't understand.对我们未知的事物感到恐惧这没什么It's okay to feel anxious when things aren't working our way.在事情不如我们所愿时感到担忧这没什么It's okay to feel lonely... even when you're with other people.和许多人在一起时仍觉得孤独这没什么It's okay to feel unfulfilledbecause you know something is missing(even if you're not sure what it is).因为知道错过了什么（即使你不确定到底是什么）而感到不满足这没什么It's okay to think and worry and cry.会思考，会担忧，会哭泣这没什么It's okay to do whatever you have to do,去做你必须做的事情这没什么but just remember, too, 但要记住that eventually you're going toadjust to the changes life brings your way,你终须适应生活带给你的种种变数and you'll realize that 你会明白it's okay to love again and laugh again,重新再爱一次，再笑一回这没什么and it's okay to get to the point wherethe life you liveis full and satisfying and good to 努力争取充实的，有益自己的生活这没什么you...and it will be that way 你的生活就会是那个样子因为是你让这一切发生的because you made itthat way.It's okay to be afraidof the things we don't understand.It's okay to feel anxiouswhen things aren't working our way.It's okay to feel lonely...even when you're with other people.It's okay to feel unfulfilledbecause you know something is missing(even if you're not sure what it is).It's okay to think and worry and cry.It's okay to dowhatever you have to do,but just remember, too,that eventually you're going toadjust to the changes life brings your way,and you'll realize thatit's okay to love again and laugh again,and it's okay to get to the point wherethe life you liveis full and satisfying and good to you...and it will be that waybecause you made it that way.引言To the boy who broke my献给曾伤过我心的男孩heart,to my mom who tried to warnme,献给曾试着劝告我的母亲to Jimmy Cricket for keeping me company along the way,献给一直陪伴着我的那只会说话的蟋蟀and most importantly, to my girlfriends who always brought the map and who were crazy enough to come along for the ride.更重要的是，献给一直在我身边，为我指明路向并热情地始终伴随我前行的女友们To the boy who broke my heart,to my mom who tried to warn me,to Jimmy Cricket for keeping me company along the way,and most importantly, to my girlfriends who always brought the map and who were crazy enough to come along for the ride.懂得感激Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire.当不能得到想要的全部东西时，你要懂得感激If you did, what would there be to look forward to?如果你都得到了，那还有什么东西让你期待？Be thankful when you don't know something,当不明白某些事情时，你要懂得感激for it gives you theopportunity to learn.因为它给予了你学习的机会。

Be thankful for the面对困境时，你要懂得感激difficult times.During those times yougrow.因为你会因此而成长。

Be thankful for your limitations,面对自己的缺点时，你要懂得感激because they give youopportunities for improvement.因为它们给了你改进的机会。

Be thankful for each new challenge, 面对每个新的挑战时，你要懂得感激because it will build your strength and character.因为它们会锻炼你的意志和品格。

Be thankful for your mistakes.面对自己的错误时，你要懂得感激They will teach you valuable lessons.因为它们会让你得到宝贵的教训。

Be thankful when you're tired and weary,当你感到疲惫和厌倦时，你要懂得感激because it means you're made an effort.因为它们说明你已经作出了努力。

It's easy to be thankful for the good things.对好的事情懂得感激，这很容易A life of rich fulfillmentcomes to those who丰盈的人生只会降临在are also thankful for thesetbacks.那些懂得感激挫折的人身上Gratitude can turn anegative into a positive.感激能将消极变积极Find a way to be thankfulfor your troubles,学会对自己的烦恼感激，然后它们就会变成你的祝福。

and they can becomeyour blessings.Author Unknown 无名氏Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire.If you did, what would there be to look forward to?Be thankful when you don't know something,for it gives you the opportunity to learn.Be thankful for the difficult times.During those times you grow.Be thankful for your limitations,because they give you opportunities for improvement.Be thankful for each new challenge,because it will build your strength and character.Be thankful for your mistakes.They will teach you valuable lessons.Be thankful when you're tired and weary,because it means you're made an effort.It's easy to be thankful for the good things.A life of rich fulfillment comes to those whoare also thankful for the setbacks.Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive.Find a way to be thankful for your troubles,and they can become your blessings.Author Unknown突然单身You can see it in his 你能从他的眼中觉察一切。

eyes. You can tell in his mannerisms, the way he touches his face uncomfortably with one hand and shifts his weight from right to left, left to right. If he chooses the easy way out, to hide his apprehension behind a telephone line, then you can hear it in the way his voice quivers a little bit when saying hello. And then there is that brief silence as he struggles to find the words he rehearsed over and over again the night before. The words that in this moment hold the strength to break a heart into a thousand pieces, the power to bring a grown woman to sob like a child who has just skinned her knee. 从他的行为举止里你能看得出来。