What is love

What is love?
爱是怎样的？
Love is like butterfly,
爱就像蝴蝶，
The more you chase it,
你越是追逐它，
The more it eludes you.
它就越是躲避你。

But if you just let it fly,
但是如果你只是让它自己飞，
It will come to you when you least expect it.
在你对它没有任何期待的时候，它就会来到你身边。

Love can make you happy and often it hurts, but love＇s only special, when you give it to someone who＇s really worth it.
爱让你快乐同时又经常带给你伤害，但是爱的确是非常特别的东西，当你将它给予一个真正值得你爱的人。

So take your time and choose the best.
所以把握你自己的时间选择一个最好的。

To my friends who are ——NOTＳＯＳＩＮＧＬＥ
给我不孤单的朋友
Love isn’t about becoming somebody else＇s “perfect person”, it＇s about finding someone, who helps you become the best person you can be.
爱不是要变成别人的“完美的人”，它是找到一个人，可以帮助你变成你心目中最好的自己。

To my friends who are——PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
给我的花花公子/花花小姐朋友们
Never say “I love you” if you d on’t care.
永远不要说“我爱你”如果你根本不在意。

Never talk about feelings if they aren’t really there.
永远不要谈论感觉，如果它们根本不存在。

Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart.
永远不要去接触一个生命，如果你只是想伤他/她的心。

Never say you will if you don’t plan to start.
永远不要说你愿意，如果你从没打算开始。

Never look in the eye when all you do is lie.
永远不要去看那双眼睛，当你做的一切都是欺骗。

The cruelest thing is a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn’t intend to catch her fall——and it works both ways.
最残忍的事莫过于一个男人让一个女孩陷入爱中，但他并没打算爱她和她并行。

To my friends who are——MARRIED
给我已婚的朋友们
Love is not about “it＇s your fault”,
爱绝不是关于“它是你的过错”，
But “i＇m sorry”.
而是“我很抱歉”。

Not “where are you”,
不是“你在哪里”，
But “i＇m right here”.
而是“我就在这里”。

Not “how could you”,
不是“你如何去做”，
But “I understand”.
而是“我可以理解”。

Not “I wish you were”,
不是“我希望你是”，
But “i＇m thankful you are”.
而是“我感谢你是”。

To my friends who are——ENGAGED
给我已经订婚的朋友
The true measure of compatibility is not the year spent together,
真正相处的方法不是一直可以在一起，
But how good you are for each other.
而是在一起时你如何能做的更好。

To my friends who are——Heartbroken
给我心碎的朋友
Heartbreaks last as long as you want, and cut as deep as you allow then to go. 心碎就是只要你由着它发展，它就会一直带给你很深的伤害，那么就让它去吧。

The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
真正的挑战不是如何幸免于难，而是从伤害中学会什么。

To my friends who are——Naïve
给我天真的朋友
Now to be in love,
当你在爱中，
Fall but don’t stumble.
深爱但不是让它绊倒。

Be consistent but not too persistent,
和谐而不是永保坚固，
Share and never be unfair,
分享永远不要有不公平，
Understand and try not to demand and get hurt,
理解而不要求从不会受伤，
But never keep the pain.
但是永远不要持续痛苦。

To my friends who are——Possessive
给我拥有爱的朋友
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it＇s more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
当你知道你爱的人和你在一起不快乐，或许比你知道他和别人在一起很开心令你更加难过。

To my friends who are——Afraid to confess
给我的害怕承认爱的朋友
Love hurts when you break up with someone.
It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you.
当你和所爱的人说分手，比他/她和你说分手对你的伤害更大。

But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
但是爱给人最大的伤害是，你感觉你所爱的人根本没有办法爱你。

To my friends who are——Still holding on
给我的仍在痛苦中坚持的朋友
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love only to find out in the end that it was meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn’t worth it.
生命中很难过的一件事，就是当你和一个人相爱了很久，到最后才发现，原来他/她根本不值得你去爱。

If he isn’t worth it now he＇s not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now, let＇s go.
如果他现在不值得，以后也一样不值得，那么不管是1年还是10年，从现在就让他/她去。

To all my friends
给我所有的朋友们
My wish for you are a man/woman whose love is Honest, Strong, Nature-changing, Uplifting, Protective, Encouraging, Rewarding and unselfish. 我的祝福送给所以诚实，坚强，自然，不动摇，有道义，懂得保护，值得鼓励，值得奖励，不自私的男人和女人们。

As long as we have memories, yesterday remains,
只要我们对昨天还有记忆，
As long as we have hope tomorrow awaits,
只要我们对明天还有等待，
As long as we have friendship each day is never a waste. 只要我们每天还有友情就永远不算是浪费。

Friends are like stars,
朋友像星星，
You can＇t always see them,
你不能总是看见他们，
But you know they＇re there.
但是你知道他们一直在那里。

Have great hopes,
就有更大的希望，
And dare to go,
敢于去做，
All out for them.
为他们全力以赴。

Have great dreams,
就有更多的梦想，
And dare to live them,
敢于去实现他们，
Have great expectations,
就有更大的期待，
And believe in them.
坚信他们。

The true violence in the world is one tells to the other that you must belong to me since I love you.
这世界上真正的暴力是一个人告诉另一个人，你是属于我的因为我爱你。