北京大学出版社《跨文化交际》unit7_Cross-gender_communication(跨性别交际)
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play house; jump rope
Football; Basketball;
Interactions with other people such as peers, teachers…
Learn from medias, books, history, culture…
• Mother-daughter interaction: same sex
• A survey has been conducted to ask the same questions to males and females: “If you had a car, what would be the first thing you like to do with it?” Most females’ answers were like this: “If I had a car, the first thing I prefer to do would be taking a ride. While most males answer more or less like this: “If I had a car, I would check the engine first.” or :” If I had a car, I would consider if I could clean it every Saturday.”
Men are from Mars， Women are from Venus.
---John Gray
The styles men and women use to communicate have been described as
debate vs. vs. relate rapport cooperative
report
competitive
vs.
Men: direct 1. often seek straightforward solutions to problems and useful advice. 2. compete to prove themselves better informed about current affairs, travel, sport, etc. Women: indirect 1. try to establish and reinforce intimacy relationships by discussing problems and showing concern and empathy. 2. talk to each other they reveal a lot about their private lives.
more aggressive
Who is
more intelligent
women men No differences
more decisive
better at listening more emotional more self-centered better able to do many things at one time
2
3
Cross-gender Communication
Think about it
• Brainstorming: What are the other differences between males and females, apart from the biological differences?
Offer solutions
Establish their status in a group
Women
indirect Ask more questions, support more and agree more
Talk to reach agreement, show their understanding or sympathy
昨天，今天，明天
• 白云: 我十分想见赵忠祥。 • 黑土: 来前的火车票谁给报了。
Think about it
• What jobs are supposed to be taken by males?
• What are the best jobs for females?
Think about it
Independent; reserved
Define self independent of others
different ways men and women communicate in
Body language Facial expression Speech patterns
Behavior
Daughter can observe and learn directly from Mother. Females can develop their gender identities from imitating their mothers.
define self in relation to others Cooperative; sensitive
Establish and maintain or reinforce harmonious relationship
Roots of gender differences
Males and females are inborn different from each other. Family communication, particularly between mothers and children/parental influence Recreational interaction among children
Unit 7
cross-gender communication
Unit Goals
1
To understand the differences between male and female in communication To learn effective cross-gender communication principle To learn useful words and expressions about cross-gender communication and improve language skills
• Sex refers to the biological differences between males and females. • it’s static and can’t be changed.
• Katoey/Shemale 泰国人妖
• Gender concerns the psychological, social and cultural differences between males and females. • It’s more dynamic and can be constructed in the life. • 它属于文化范畴，是人们以生理为基础，受心理、 社会、文化影响的社会化结果。它是通过交际习 得。 • Boylish, tomboy假小子, sissy娘娘腔, gay, lesbian
A Gender Survey
Who is
more aware of what is going on around them more compassionate more willing to take risks more logical or rational
women men No differences
Body language
Men
Women
They take up more physical space They take up less physical when sitting or standing, with arms space, sitting with arms and and legs stretched out away from legs toward their body. their body. They gesture away from the body. They are not as sensitive to the communication cues of others. They gesture forward the body. They have greater sensitivity and acuity toward other people’s nonverbal communication cues.
Confide; Share and express feelings
• Mother-son interaction: different sex
• Son cannot imitate Mother;
• Son has to develop a gender identity by differentiating from the mother and establish selfhood.
CGC
Cross-gender communication is a form of intercultural communication. It occurs when there is a communication between people from different sex.
What are the differences between sex and gender?
Differences in communication styles
Men
Direct Interrupt more, swear more and argue more
Talk to express authority and confidence Value power and competency
Who can do better?
Art Language Music Geography Chemistry History P.E. Math
• How would you spend your free time on weekends. • Here are some of the items to
• It’s always women who cook for the whole family, but taking cooking as a career, it is
always the man who could do more
successfully. Why?
When women are depressed， they either eat or go shopping； men invade another country. 女人郁闷了就大吃一顿或者大买特买；男人郁闷了 就侵略别的国家。 ---Elayne Boosler When men and women agree, it is only in their conclusion; their reasons are always different. ---George Santayana
choose:
•
• • • • • • • •
A. sleeping
B. playing football or basketball C. playing PC games D. playing cards with friends E. reviewing the lessons F. going shopping G. reading romance novels H. chatting on the internet I. washing clothes
sex and gender
sex
gender
Male man
Female woman
masculine
Feminine
The interaction between man and woman would be like communication between people from different planets.
Football; Basketball;
Interactions with other people such as peers, teachers…
Learn from medias, books, history, culture…
• Mother-daughter interaction: same sex
• A survey has been conducted to ask the same questions to males and females: “If you had a car, what would be the first thing you like to do with it?” Most females’ answers were like this: “If I had a car, the first thing I prefer to do would be taking a ride. While most males answer more or less like this: “If I had a car, I would check the engine first.” or :” If I had a car, I would consider if I could clean it every Saturday.”
Men are from Mars， Women are from Venus.
---John Gray
The styles men and women use to communicate have been described as
debate vs. vs. relate rapport cooperative
report
competitive
vs.
Men: direct 1. often seek straightforward solutions to problems and useful advice. 2. compete to prove themselves better informed about current affairs, travel, sport, etc. Women: indirect 1. try to establish and reinforce intimacy relationships by discussing problems and showing concern and empathy. 2. talk to each other they reveal a lot about their private lives.
more aggressive
Who is
more intelligent
women men No differences
more decisive
better at listening more emotional more self-centered better able to do many things at one time
2
3
Cross-gender Communication
Think about it
• Brainstorming: What are the other differences between males and females, apart from the biological differences?
Offer solutions
Establish their status in a group
Women
indirect Ask more questions, support more and agree more
Talk to reach agreement, show their understanding or sympathy
昨天，今天，明天
• 白云: 我十分想见赵忠祥。 • 黑土: 来前的火车票谁给报了。
Think about it
• What jobs are supposed to be taken by males?
• What are the best jobs for females?
Think about it
Independent; reserved
Define self independent of others
different ways men and women communicate in
Body language Facial expression Speech patterns
Behavior
Daughter can observe and learn directly from Mother. Females can develop their gender identities from imitating their mothers.
define self in relation to others Cooperative; sensitive
Establish and maintain or reinforce harmonious relationship
Roots of gender differences
Males and females are inborn different from each other. Family communication, particularly between mothers and children/parental influence Recreational interaction among children
Unit 7
cross-gender communication
Unit Goals
1
To understand the differences between male and female in communication To learn effective cross-gender communication principle To learn useful words and expressions about cross-gender communication and improve language skills
• Sex refers to the biological differences between males and females. • it’s static and can’t be changed.
• Katoey/Shemale 泰国人妖
• Gender concerns the psychological, social and cultural differences between males and females. • It’s more dynamic and can be constructed in the life. • 它属于文化范畴，是人们以生理为基础，受心理、 社会、文化影响的社会化结果。它是通过交际习 得。 • Boylish, tomboy假小子, sissy娘娘腔, gay, lesbian
A Gender Survey
Who is
more aware of what is going on around them more compassionate more willing to take risks more logical or rational
women men No differences
Body language
Men
Women
They take up more physical space They take up less physical when sitting or standing, with arms space, sitting with arms and and legs stretched out away from legs toward their body. their body. They gesture away from the body. They are not as sensitive to the communication cues of others. They gesture forward the body. They have greater sensitivity and acuity toward other people’s nonverbal communication cues.
Confide; Share and express feelings
• Mother-son interaction: different sex
• Son cannot imitate Mother;
• Son has to develop a gender identity by differentiating from the mother and establish selfhood.
CGC
Cross-gender communication is a form of intercultural communication. It occurs when there is a communication between people from different sex.
What are the differences between sex and gender?
Differences in communication styles
Men
Direct Interrupt more, swear more and argue more
Talk to express authority and confidence Value power and competency
Who can do better?
Art Language Music Geography Chemistry History P.E. Math
• How would you spend your free time on weekends. • Here are some of the items to
• It’s always women who cook for the whole family, but taking cooking as a career, it is
always the man who could do more
successfully. Why?
When women are depressed， they either eat or go shopping； men invade another country. 女人郁闷了就大吃一顿或者大买特买；男人郁闷了 就侵略别的国家。 ---Elayne Boosler When men and women agree, it is only in their conclusion; their reasons are always different. ---George Santayana
choose:
•
• • • • • • • •
A. sleeping
B. playing football or basketball C. playing PC games D. playing cards with friends E. reviewing the lessons F. going shopping G. reading romance novels H. chatting on the internet I. washing clothes
sex and gender
sex
gender
Male man
Female woman
masculine
Feminine
The interaction between man and woman would be like communication between people from different planets.