关于事业和婚姻哪个重要的英语辩论作文

英语演讲与写作作业6 邵小潍
Homework: Many people in modern society find it hard to make decision, what should be given priority, marriage or career?
When it comes to what should be given priority, marriage or career, deferent people may have deferent opinions. Some may think that marriage is more important than career , they think family is the necessities. If they lose their job, they can find another though which may not as well-condition as before. But if they become a bachelor or a single, they may feel lonely and have a passive attitude toward their life. Even some young people may commit suicide when they break up with their girlfriend or boyfriend. However , some people are more rational than emotional. Though the marriage is very important thing in one’s life, but they think the career would be given priority. To some extent, career is the basic of marriage. Actually, few people in our modern society want to have a naked marriage, and as what the TV series shows, the naked marriage may have many problems in their future life. As we can see, without career and material wealth , marriage just like the castles in the air.
From my point of view, if we want to have a happiness life after marrying with someone, we must become more dependent and strong fist. Because when you marriage and even have a baby in the future, you and your husband or wife may face more problems than premarital. And I don’t think that becoming a full-time wife or full-time husband is a good chosen. Many may say that the child need to be took care of and the couple should be divided their labor. Actually ,this is a mislead thought, many child in our society are just come from single family and become successful in the future, they even just have one parent , they may bring up in dependent which is good to their future life. And if one become a full-time wife or husband, they may pay much attention to their husband or wife, which may give much pressure to them, which can cause many problems in their marriage.
What’s more, the family is just like an organic machine, they need
sources and material basic to make it operate well. So we need to give the priority to our career. You may say that happiness is not relate to the money or career ,if they love each other, they do not care about anything , the old proverb said that “For love ,I will sacrifice my life” , but you may forget the The following sentence “For freedom ,I will sacrifice my love”. Just imagine that if your full-time wife live without any career and she pay all her attention to you, she may become more sensitive and want to know what are you doing in every 5 minutes, what is your feeling of your marriage? Still feel it happiness? Actually not! Because you may think that you lose your freedom and this may bring much more quarrels.
I think the marriage should be build on the basic of career. If one have his or her own career, this may help they have more ability to be responsible for their family, they can have a positive attitude towards their life and do not become idle everyday. Just when they have a stable career, they may have a ability to think their marriage, they can think what they can bring to their children and their lover.
To sum up, the answer to this question is obvious, there is no doubt that the career should be given priority.
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