成功人士正在做的事情

成功人士正在做的事情——12个成功锦囊他们会推掉所有不必要的无用工作；他们不断挑战极限，刺激自己学习；他们会创造直观的提醒方式，让自己时刻专注于长期目标。

悉心阅读本文阐述的12个成功锦囊，你一定会有所收获，但最重要的是，你得马上行动起来！维维克•拉杰在Quora上的回答他们总是以平静的心态迎接崭新的一天。

太多关于个人成功的书籍和课程，似乎将我们看作机器人，完全忽视了人类情感的巨大力量。

我们在一天开始的时候，情绪越平静，就越容易在全天保持平静的心态。

因为，如果我们在平静的状态中迎接崭新的一天，我们就很容易保持专注，完成该做的事情。

如果我们早上一醒来便面临铺天盖地的压力——电话铃声、电子邮件和短信提示音、火警警报等——你一整天都会处于被动响应的状态，而不是积极主动。

这意味着当你想去做那些推动你迈向成功的优先事务时，你却无法掌握主动权，你只是在被动应付别人塞给你的事情，根本没有考虑这些事情是否重要。

每天的第一个小时，尽量不要有太多变化。

值得信赖的晨间规划能够极其有效地帮助你找到自我控制的感觉，让你不会陷入被动反应的状态，进而可以减轻紧张与压力，使你更加警觉，更有能力做好自己的工作。

务必要记住，你以什么样的状态开始一天的工作，对你的总体工作效率有着巨大的影响。

他们会推掉所有不必要的无用工作。

有时候，我们都会想：“我们为什么不可能将所有事情做完？”答案其实非常简单：我们做了太多错误的事情。

许多研究发现，人们盲目地拿出更多时间去解决不断出现的各种事情，这导致他们从来都不可能完成更多工作。

相反，如果他们按照精心制定的计划，测量和跟踪关键优先事项与里程碑事件，工作效率反而会更高。

所以，如果你希望自己更加成功，减少压力，不要问如何提高做某件事的效率，首先要问的是“我真的有必要做这件事吗？”你能把某件事做好，并不意味着这件事该由你去完成。

我认为这正是大多数时间管理建议普遍存在的一个问题；工作效率大师们往往只关注如何快速把事情做完，但事实上，在人们快速完成的事务中，大多数根本没有必要去做。

仔细想想，这其实有些讽刺——一方面，我们在抱怨时间太少，另一方面我们在安排工作优先顺序的时候，又似乎有着用不完的时间。

因此，尽量专注于真正重要的事情，不要被其他琐事干扰。

他们会做完必须要做的事，在24小时以内！几乎每个人都在谈论这个问题，但成功人士会将其付诸行动。

我曾经说过，现在我还要再说一遍：你是否拥有高智商和量子物理学的博士学位并不重要，因为如果你不行动起来，你在现实世界中便无法改变任何事情或取得任何进步。

知与行之间有着巨大差异。

没有行动，知识和智慧便毫无用处。

就是这么简单。

成功人士知道，今天执行的一个好计划，比未来某天才能执行的完美计划更有价值。

他们不会等待“合适的时间”或“合适的日期”或“合适的（不可能的）环境”，因为他们知道这些反应都是源自于恐惧。

他们会立刻行动起来——因为只有这样，才会真正有所进步。

他们会逐渐将人生的困境变成优势。

许多最著名的小说、歌曲和发明都是受到了极度痛苦和伤心往事的启发。

因此，面对诸多挑战不要灰心，因为它们可能成为史诗巨作诞生的催化剂。

一个名为“创伤后成长”的心理学新兴领域认为，许多人可以利用他们所经历的艰辛和创伤，获得大幅度的创造力与智力发展。

研究人员发现，创伤尤其有助于人们发展人际关系、满足感、感恩、个人能力和随机应变能力。

我们可能将这个世界看作是一个安全或者其他类型的地方，一旦这种世界观破碎，我们将不得不重新树立对外界的观点。

我们突然有机会像新生儿一样，从崭新的角度来看待外面的世界。

而这种经历有利于个人成长和长期成功。

他们不断挑战极限，刺激自己学习。

当你挑战自身极限，走出之前的舒适区时，你才会学到更多。

当然，养成好的习惯很重要。

“心流”同样重要。

但这两种都不是最好的学习方式。

有时候，你需要挑战自己的能力极限。

这个过程会有些辛苦和不舒服。

但这正是人类大脑成长的方式。

只有走出舒适区，我们才会有所得。

你陷入挣扎时，正是你变得更强大和更聪明的时候。

你在非舒适区的时间越长，学习速度便越快。

效率极高的十分钟，也好过碌碌无为的一个小时。

在这种状态下，你可以提高自己的能力，不断挑战自身极限，犯错误，跌倒，从错误中学习，然后继续挑战更高的极限。

在面临艰难决定时，他们相信自己的直觉。

直觉是非常真实的，凡是聪明人都不应忽略它的作用，因为它源自我们潜意识深处，来源于你之前的生活经历。

如果所有人都告诉你“是”，但你的直觉却给出了相反的答案，其中肯定有充分的理由。

在面对艰难决策的时候，找出你可以找到的所有信息，让自己尽可能全面了解情况，然后让上天给予你的直觉做出决定。

成功人士知道，相信自己的直觉便等于相信真实的自我；你对真实的自我越信任，你便可以更好地控制实现目标与梦想的过程。

他们谨慎地专注于积极面。

肖恩•埃科尔在他的书《快乐竞争力》（The Happiness Advantage）中写道，最近一项科学研究发现，相比处在中性情绪状态的医生，在诊断之前调整为积极情绪的医生，始终能体会到知识能力的显著提高，使他们将准确诊断的时间缩短约20%。

研究人员随后对其他职业进行的研究发现，乐观的销售人员业绩比悲观的同行超出50%。

在数学考试之前感觉高兴的学生，考试成绩显著高于处在中性情绪的同学。

因此，我们的情绪似乎只有在积极的状态下才会发挥最佳的效果，而不是处于消极或中性状态之下。

当然，这并不是说成功人士从来不心烦，但如果你能谨慎地接受和释放负面情绪，而不是深陷其中，你便可以显著提高生活中各方面的效率。

花更少的心思去考虑如何解决你的问题，花更多的心思考虑如何管理自己的心态。

始终保持积极心态。

他们创造直观的提醒方式，让自己时刻专注于长期目标。

你想减肥，但当你累了的时候，你很容易找到合理的借口，让锻炼以及合理饮食从明天再开始。

你想要建立一家盈利的公司，但当你陷入日常琐事的时候，你很容易倾向于做自己熟悉的事情，而不是公司成长需要你去做的事情。

你想要培养最亲密的关系，但当你忙碌的时候，你很容易找到理由说自己真的需要解决客户的提案。

美好的事物不会轻易得来，当事情变得棘手，我们往往会选择捷径——即便这会将我们带往错误的方向。

为了避免这种情况发生，成功人士制作了直观的提醒方式，将他们从缺乏判断力的冲动边缘拉回到正常轨道。

我们的一位朋友在过去五年还清了约10万美元债务，他在电脑显示器上贴了一张信用卡余额；它可以不断提醒自己需要偿还的债务。

另外一位朋友将自己比现在胖90磅的照片贴在冰箱上，提醒自己不能再成为那样的人。

还有一个人在桌子里装满家人的照片，一方面因为他喜欢不时翻看这些照片，另一方面，当工作变得棘手的时候，这些照片可以提醒他，他在为谁努力工作。

你在什么时候最有可能屈服于内心的冲动，脱离实现终极目标的道路？找出这样的时刻，然后用可视化的提醒方式来打断这种冲动，让你在实现目标的道路上继续走下去。

他们会写日记。

奥普拉写日记。

阿姆写日记。

J•K•罗琳也写日记。

成功人士都会跟踪他们的进度，制定目标，反思自己的错误并从中总结经验教训。

他们通常会将这些工作放在一本笔记本当中。

在生活当中，如果你想去某个地方，你需要一张地图，这本笔记便是你成功路上的地图。

你可以记录自己今天做了什么，你打算实现什么目标，你犯过什么错误等等。

你可以在这里自我反思，可以记录重要的想法，还可以跟踪你已经实现和计划实现的目标。

日记是对普通大众极为有效，但未必得到最充分利用的工具之一。

他们会为自己找一位言传身教，答疑解惑的导师。

不论你想实现什么目标，都不可能只靠自己去完成。

从书本中学习是一个艰难的过程。

有时候，互联网让我们很难区分真相与谎言。

你需要有一位前辈来告诉你一些窍门——他可以是你的良师益友或教练。

10,000个小时的勤奋练习可以让你成为专家，但是什么让你将10,000个小时投入到某件事情上？那就是一两位优秀的导师。

如果你研究过足够成功的人的生活，你会发现，在所有领域最优秀的人——运动员、音乐家、创业者、艺术家等——都有非凡的导师、教练或榜样，他们让练习这件事变得很有价值，充满意义。

有时候，仅仅通过观察导师也能带来奇迹。

我们在观察一个想要学习的榜样时，我们十分清楚自己想要成为什么样的人，这时候你便会爆发出惊人的积极性。

人类天生愿意进行社交，当我们希望加入一个高高在上的精英圈子的时候，这种想法便会推动我们实现了不起的成就。

“看，他们做到了。

我也能做到！”虽然这听起来有些过于简单，但拿出时间研究优秀的人，将是你为自己做的最有价值的一件事。

他们欢迎真诚的反馈与批评。

亚里士多德说过，“要免受批评，就别说话，别做事，别成器。

”这是一种戏谑的说法。

如果你因为说话、做事或思考一些不同寻常的事情而遭到批评，这是好事。

这意味着你在最近的某个时刻对某件事表明了立场。

而这是成功很重要的一部分。

追随成功人士的脚步，学会如何有效处理批评。

对于充满恶意的负面批评，你应该在收到之后进行评估，然后将其抛到脑后，而对于建设性意见，你应该在评估之后采取行动。

向你重视的人——那些曾经有过与你类似遭遇的人——寻求反馈。

记住，要以亲切的态度接受反馈；这样，你周围的人在未来才更有可能给你提供支持和诚实的见解。

他们会控制自己的骄傲。

最后但并非最不重要的一条……承认自己错了，说声抱歉。

深知自己不可能无所不知。

树立一个伟大的梦想。

承认自己的成功也要归功于其他人。

不时嘲弄自己。

在有必要的时候寻求帮助。

经历错误和失败。

心甘情愿地再次尝试。

这个世界上不存在永恒的职业或绝对真理。

我们都在摸索着前进。

向每个人学习，保持谦逊，不要忘记享受在路上的美好时光。

这正是成功人士会做的事情。

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