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Marriage and Family

Marriage and Family

• However, the only child in the family can be spoiled, because of too much care from parents and even grandparents. • Sometimes he or she feels lonely without any sisters or brothers around in the family. • In the future, I think it’s up to parents, teachers and all the societies to do a good job in the training of only children.
The Only Child in the Family
• In fact, it is not easy for parents to bring up their children. I think it can be good being an only child because of your parents’ undivided love. They are always ready to help you. • If there is only one child in a family, it can be great deal easier for them to pay for education.
Marriage and Family
Love and Study
• Some people take it for granted that love is a kind of power. In their opinion ,love can promote students’ study. Besides, love can mature students’ mind. • However, others hold that love may hamper students’ concentrating on study. They think love will waste students’ precious time.

Marriage and Family life in CHina

Marriage and Family life in CHina

Marriage & Family life in ChinaIn ancient China, the constant occurrence of selecting someone's spouse when they are both still in moms' belly was much less of a phenomenon to shock at and much more of a regularity to comply with as marriage was generally thought of as a lifelong journey, and the selection of someone's accompanying soulmate can be so important a job that the final decision, in most cases, had to be in accordance with parents' willingness and standard.However, in today's freedom-and-democracy dominant times, thousands years' transformative evolutions and radical changes both in society and people 's thinking patterns have brought about a groundbreaking revolution aiming to shatter those unjustifiable traditions that might have deprived the happiness of thousands. Parents' once administrative orders turned out to be more constructive and consultative suggestions on your choice of a spouse, and you may genuinely be the master of your own happiness.But some deep-rooted traditions have also been passed down such as Chinese people's stereotyped thinking believing that a good marriage is based not only on the well-matched couple, but equal standings of two families as well, both financially and hierarchically. Y et in recent years, as the rampant worship towards money ravaged through the society at an uncontrollable speed, marriage, to seme extent, has been traded as a merchandise in exchange for dazzling wealth and respectful social status with a girls' real happiness staked on it. But it is undeniable a fact that there are some other people who still value the charismatic personality and personal morality such as honesty, integrity as well as uprightness.Meanwhile, other than the upheaval in people's principle and standard of choosing a ideal spouse, other changes on marriage are also right under way, such as family planning and management. It is estimated that people's marriageable age has undergone recurring chances of postponement in China as One Child Policy (which stipulates only one child is permitted) plays a part in it as well as the contribution made by people's tight schedule occupied by either their academic pursuit or greater social and financial pressure.Moreover, people are inclined to be more career-centered instead of family-centered especially for men, serving as the bread-winner and financial backbone of the family who bears the brunt of increasingly ferocious social competition for survival. Thus, the former obligation and duty of supporting the family equally shared by both woman and man tend to be broken and more often than not, it could be woman who makes a concession promising to stay at home and focusing on house-keeping and childcare, which is similar to the family pattern in ancient China while men till the land and women weave cloth. Therefore, clear-cut division on labor is once more adopted in most modern Chinese families.In the future, with the ever-deepening process of social transition and reform taking place in China, people's marriage pattern and family life might be continuously changed more or less. The tendency of naked marriage and flash marriage perhaps become anything but a commonplace which are now considered to be socially unacceptable. On the other hand, while international marriages more closely bind us together with the world and homosexual relationships subvert our traditional value of marriage, the size and scale of Chinese family are also very likely to be enlarged as the peak volume of population has reached, the number of population in China begin to go downhill, so ordinary Chinese people can probably free themselves from the shackle of Family Planing and regain their basic rights of child-bearing.。

Marriage and Family 婚姻与家庭

Marriage and Family  婚姻与家庭
In the successful film Taijiong, she often visited him, and even taked part in it.
Duty
Marriage is the doom of love.
Why?
Afraid of any commitments
Lack of confidence
Ponyo on the Cliff
I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you .
Leon
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Mathilda:Leon, I think I'm kinda falling in love with you. (Leon chokes on his milk) Mathilda: It's the first time for me, you know? Léon: (wiping himself off) How do you know it's love if you've never been in love before? Mathilda: 'Cause I feel it. Léon: Where? Mathilda: (stoking her stomach) In my stomach. It's all warm. I always had a knot there and now it's gone. Léon: Mathilda, I'm glad you don't have a stomachache any more. I don't think it means anything.

Marriage_and_Family_life_in_CHina

Marriage_and_Family_life_in_CHina

Marriage & Family life in ChinaIn ancient China, the constant occurrence of selecting someone's spouse when they are both still in moms' belly was much less of a phenomenon to shock at and much more of a regularity to comply with as marriage was generally thought of as a lifelong journey, and the selection of someone's accompanying soulmate can be so important a job that the final decision, in most cases, had to be in accordance with parents' willingness and standard. And the wife and the husband had never met before.However, in today's freedom-and-democracy dominant times, thousands years' transformative evolutions and radical changes both in society and people 's thinking patterns have brought about a groundbreaking revolution aiming to shatter those unjustifiable traditions that might have deprived the happiness of thousands. Parents' once administrative orders turned out to be more constructive and consultative suggestions on your choice of a spouse, and you may genuinely be the master of your own happiness.But some deep-rooted traditions have also been passed down such as Chinese people's stereotyped thinking believing that a good marriage is based not only on the well-matched couple, but equal standings of two families as well, both financially and hierarchically. Yet in recent years, as the rampant worship towards money ravaged through the society at an uncontrollable speed, marriage, to seme extent, has been traded as a merchandise in exchange for dazzling wealth and respectful social status with a girls' real happiness staked on it. But it is undeniable a fact that there are some other people who still value the charismatic personality and personal morality such as honesty, integrity as well as uprightness.Meanwhile, other than the upheaval in people's principle and standard of choosing a ideal spouse, other changes on marriage are also right under way, such as family planning and management. It is estimated that people's marriageable age has undergone recurring chances of postponement in China as One Child Policy (which stipulates only one child is permitted) plays a part in it as well as the contribution made by people's tight schedule occupied by either their academic pursuit or greater social and financial pressure.Moreover, people are inclined to be more career-centered instead of family-centered especially for men, serving as the bread-winner and financial backbone of the family who bears the brunt of increasingly ferocious social competition for survival. Thus, the former obligation and duty of supporting the family equally shared by both woman and man tend to be broken and more often than not, it could be woman who makes a concession promising to stay at home and focusing on house-keeping and childcare, which is similar to the family pattern in ancient China while men till the land and women weave cloth. Therefore, clear-cut division on labor is once more adopted in most modern Chinese families.In the future, with the ever-deepening process of social transition and reform taking place in China, people's marriage pattern and family life might be continuously changed more or less. The tendency of naked marriage and flash marriage perhaps become anything but a commonplace which are now considered to be socially unacceptable. On the other hand, while international marriages more closely bind us together with the world and homosexual relationships subvert our traditional value of marriage, the size and scale of Chinese family are also very likely to be enlarged as the peak volume of population has reached, the number of population in China begin to go downhill, so ordinary Chinese people can probably free themselves from the shackle of Family Planing and regain their basic rights of child-bearing./view/1a5eaffdf61fb7360b4c65a7.html。

对于家庭和婚姻的看法英语作文

对于家庭和婚姻的看法英语作文

对于家庭和婚姻的看法英语作文Title: Perspectives on Family and MarriageFamily and marriage stand at the core of human society, shaping our identities, values, and the fabric of our communities. These institutions are not static constructs but rather dynamic entities that evolve with the times, reflecting the changing social norms and individual aspirations.Family, in its essence, is a unit of love and support, a safe haven where we learn, grow, and find solace. It is the first social circle we encounter, shaping our understanding of the world and our roles within it. The dynamics of a family are intricate, encompassing the interactions between parents, children, and extended relatives. Each member contributes to the overall well-being of the family, creating a unique and often complex web of relationships.Marriage, on the other hand, is a formal and legal union between two individuals, often with the intention of establishing a shared life and possibly raising childrentogether. It represents a commitment to each other's happiness, growth, and fulfillment. In traditional societies, marriage was often viewed as a union between two families, with economic and social considerations playing a significant role. However, in modern times, the focus has shifted towards personal compatibility, emotional connection, and mutual respect.The evolution of family and marriage reflects the changing social landscape. With the advent of feminism and the rise of individualism, roles within the family have become more fluid. Women are now actively participating in the workforce, often sharing the financial responsibilities with their partners. This shift has led to a reevaluation of gender roles and expectations within marriage and family life.Moreover, the rise of technology and globalization has further altered our perspectives on family and marriage. With increased communication and connectivity, families are now more dispersed geographically, yet still able to maintain close ties through digital means. This has led to a greater acceptance of diverse family structures,including blended families, single-parent households, and same-sex partnerships.However, the evolving nature of family and marriage also poses challenges. The increasing pressure to conform to societal norms and expectations can lead to stress and dissatisfaction. The rise of individualism can sometimes overshadow the collective well-being of the family. Furthermore, the complexities of modern life, such as career demands, financial pressures, and personal challenges, can strain even the strongest of relationships. In conclusion, family and marriage are fundamental institutions that shape our lives and communities. They are dynamic and evolving, reflecting the changing social norms and individual aspirations of our times. While they bring joy and fulfillment, they also present challenges that require constant effort and commitment. It is important to remember that family and marriage are not just about legal or societal obligations, but rather about the emotional connections and mutual support that bind us together. By fostering these connections and maintaining open and honestcommunication, we can create healthy and fulfilling families that stand the test of time.。

Unit 4 婚姻与家庭

Unit 4 婚姻与家庭
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The founder of Crazy English, known for his high-energy intensive language classes, has been accused of beating his wife. Rumors about Li Yang circulated on the Internet after a woman, believed to be his American wife Kim Lee, posted photographs on a Sina Weibo microblog showing injuries she alleged were caused by Li.
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From “passive marriage(被动婚姻 )” to “free love(自由恋 爱)” .. From the “love match(速配爱情)” to the “DINK family”( family”(丁克家族) .. ) From the “3S lady( lady(剩女)” pop into “I dominate my life( )” life(我 的生活我主宰)" ... Marriage is marked with their own brand of the times . New China was founded 60 years after the storm, the Chin es people's concept of marriage has undergone enormous ch anges.

雅思基础口语2 Marriage and Family

雅思基础口语2 Marriage and Family

雅思基础口语2 Marriage and Family这一话题,考官主要询问考生的家庭的一般状况,如家庭人口、人员组成、从事的职业等。

有时候考官会问一些涉及家庭的教主观的问题,如对家庭结构的变化的看法;有的则涉及一些有关婚姻的问题,但是比较少。

单词学习:Be engaged; engagement 订婚Free marriage 自由婚姻Arranged marriage 包办婚姻Marriage registration 结婚登记Marriage certificate 结婚证书Wedding ceremony 婚礼Wedding dress 婚纱Wedding feast 婚宴、喜酒Wedding ring 婚戒Wedding gift 贺礼Lady of honour 女伴Dowry ['daʊ(ə)rɪ] 嫁妆Honeymoon 蜜月Spouse [spaʊz] 配偶Remarriage 再婚Cohabitation [kəʊ,hæbɪ'teɪʃən]/living together 同居Bride 新娘Bridegroom 新郎fiancee未婚妻fiancé未婚夫Bridesmaid 伴娘Best man 伴郎Marital status 婚姻状况Married 已婚To be divorced; to be a divorcee 离婚Divorce rate 离婚率To be separated; to live in separation 分居Grandparents 祖父母grandfather grandmotherStepfather 继父stepmother 继母Foster father 养父foster mother 养母Adopted daughter/son 养子/女Sister in law 嫂子,姑姑Brother in law 大伯小数姐夫妹夫Extended family 大家庭Nuclear family 小家庭DINK family 丁克家庭Immediate family 直系亲属Retired 退休的Close-knit 亲密关系的Overpopulation 人口过剩Family tree 家谱To bridge/narrow/eliminate the generation gap 消除代沟To be a bread winner of the family 养家糊口的人To make ends meet 收支平衡To live on pension/social welfare 靠养老金、社会福利生活Birth control/one-child policy 计划生育政策Q1. Can you tell me sth about your marriage/marital ['mærɪt(ə)l] status?思路:结婚时间+家乡举办的婚礼+很大的reception邀请了很多人I have been married for about …years. We got married in my hometown, where we have large reception for our relatives and friends.Q2. Can you tell me what happens at a wedding?思路1:点睛句varies from+ 接新娘+吃饭思路2:5W: 时间(早上)+地点(新娘家)+人物+做什么(接人+吃饭)+意义Well, it varies from place to place and from time to time. But usually a wedding begins early in the morning. The bridegroom, together with some of his relatives and friends, has to pick up the bride and her family from her home with beautifully decorated cars. Then the families and friends will usually have a banquet together. It is widely believed as the most meaningful moment in one’s life.Q3. How has people’s attitude towards wedding ceremonies changed in China?思路1:以前一切从简为了省钱+现在生活水平提高了花费多了I think people have really changed their attitude towards wedding ceremonies. As time goes on, people have paid so much attention to how the wedding can be presented. But 30 years ago, even 10 years ago, people would like to have a simple wedding so that they could save the money for future family expenditure. Nowadays, wedding can be extremely fanciful and extravagant.They would hire luxury cars, invite as many guests as possible, and get the most expensive reception dinner. Well, it’s certainly understandable that with the improvement of people’s living standards, they can afford all these.Q4. Could you tell me sth about your family? Do you live in big or small family? Yes. I have a small happy/harmonious [hɑː'məʊnɪəs] family. My wife works as a nurse in the local hospital and I have two pretty daughters, one 15, one 10, go to school every day.Yes, I’m the only child of the family and I’m still single, so I live together with my parents who have just retired.Q5. In what situation will one change his family name?思路1:迷信+罪犯思路2: 明星+伟人Well, a person may change his name for his belief in superstition. When he is in trouble, he may consult some fortune tellers to find a way out of the trouble. In this case he is likely to change his name for the sake of good fortune. Another possible reason that I can think of is that a criminal may which to change his name for illegal reasons.Q7. Do you prefer a big family or a small one? Why?思路1:小家庭:计划生育+生活压力思路2:大家庭:喜欢孩子+关心和责任I prefer to have a small family, the so-called nuclear family. For one thing, it’s the state policy that one couple should only have one child, no more. For another, the working pressure makes it difficult to bring up more children.I prefer to have a big family. Firstly, I like children a lot. I believe my child is the continuation of my life, as well as the crystal of our love. Moreover, with more children, I feel that I treat my family more seriously knowing that I have someone to care for, or a sacred responsibility to take.Q8. How has family structure changed in the recent decades in China?思路:大变小的原因:计划生育+工作变动Well, family structure in China has changed a lot, generally from big to small. You see, we used to have extended family with a few generations living together. But as time goes on and people need to move with jobs, combined with the influences of one-child policy, small families are more common in today’s society.Q9. Do you think couples should share the housework or should the wife take the main responsibility?Since couples should be equal in the family, they should also share the housework. But it is understandable that when one is particularly busy, the other may do more.Q10. Who makes most of the decisions in your family, your mother or your father? Why?My mother makes most of the decisions about trivial matters. But when it comes to important decisions, both of them will discuss and exchange ideas and make decisions together.Q11. Are there many rules for children in China?There’re some but not so many. For example, children should respect the seniors and have good manners. But I suppose children all over the world do this.Q12. Who is the person that has influenced you most in your family?Definitely my father/mother. He/She was very strict with me but always so helpful. Whenever I had any problem in my study, he/she would help me.He/She is so hardworking and understanding. Although we lived a simple life, we lived in happiness and harmony due to his/her diligence, independence and optimism.I learn from him/her to be optimistic and independent.。

American’s Marriage and Family

American’s Marriage and Family

Individual Freedom and Equality in the Family
--- Americans view the family In contrast to many other cultures, the primary responsibility of the American family member is not to advance the family as a group, either socially or economically. Neither is it to bring honor to the family name. Along with the American emphasis on individual freedom, the belief in equality has had a strong effect on the family.
The traditional family and the ቤተ መጻሕፍቲ ባይዱodern family
• In the 1950s, the majority of • Today, however, the American households were the reality is much classic traditional family --- a different. Only 25% husband, wife and two children. of American families The father was the are traditional. The “breadwinner”(the one who majority of American earned money to support the households consist family) and the mother was he “homemaker”(the one who took of Perhaps most care of the children, managed the surprising, 25% of household, and did not work American live alone. outside the home ).

Unit1FamilyandMarriage

Unit1FamilyandMarriage

Unit1FamilyandMarriage背景知识DefinitionMarriage is a social union or legal contract between people that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged in a variety of ways, depending on the culture or subculture in which it is found. Such a union, often formalized via a wedding ceremony, may also be called matrimony.PolygynyChinese:一夫多妻Is a form of marriage in which a man has two or more wives at the same time. Usually one wife is the “queen wife” who is accorded a h igher status than the other wives and has some authority over the other wives.The history of polygynyIn IndiaIt was known to have been practiced during ancient times In the Hebrew BibleIt was a permitted practiceIn the United StatesIt was allowed in the early history of LDS ChurchIn the United StatesAchild has more than one motherChild betrothalsChinese:娃娃亲a child's parents arrange a marriage with the parents of a child from another family Arranged marriageChinese:包办婚姻is one in which someone other than the couple getting married makes the selection of the persons to be wed, meanwhile curtailing or avoiding the process of courtship. Information of arranged marriageTo some extent, they don't know each other before the matrimony.Arranged marriage is a tradition handed down through many generations. Today, arranged marriage is largely practiced in South Asia (India, Pakistan, and Bangladesh), Africa, the Middle East, and Southeast Asia and East Asia.Priests or religious leaders as well as relatives or family friends play a major role in matchmaking.Free marriageChinese:自由婚姻You have the liberty to love and wedlock can go even without loveThe freedom of marriage and divorce freedom make up the complete meaning of free marriageFlash marriageChinese: 闪婚Or blitz marriageIs the English translation of a Chinese term that originated in the early 21st centuryto describe a marriage between partners who wed after knowing one another for less than 7 months?Hidden marriageChinese:隐婚Hidden marriage is that who have fulfilled the legal procedures of the marriage, but don’t declare his "married" status to the public. Many married men and women in the cityconceal their marital status, and go out without a ring in their ring fingers, like a noble single going in and out all kinds of places.Naked marriageChinese:裸婚Doing without a ring, apartment and car, is becoming more acceptable to young people who want to get married sooner rather than later.Reading to Develop Your Ideasby Song JiangqinUnit 1 Family and MarriageSection One Pre-reading1. Background Information2. Appreciation of the famous sayingsNo matterhe is a king or an ordinary person, the lucky stone is who can obtain happiness in family.无论他是国王还是普通人,最幸运的人是能在自己家里获得幸福的人。

Unit 4 Marriage and Family

Unit 4 Marriage and Family

Perspective:
ThirdThird-person omniscient point of view
Analysis
What’ What’s the reaction of Mrs. Mallard on hearing the bad news? What kind of life did she live? Why did she go away to her room alone? What does the open window symbolize? What did he see outside the window?
Hyperbole(exaggeration) Hyperbole(exaggeration): Para.3 When the storm of grief had spent itself… itself… Oxymoron (conjoining contradictory terms as in ‘deafening silence’ ): silence’ Para. 11 She did not stop to ask if it were or were not a monstrous joy… joy…
Concise Powerful Acute & sensitive
Symbols
Door: a social barrier which separated her own world and the others’ patriarchal society, others’ separated convention, tradition and freedom, separated reality and ideal. Window: The world outside the window represents the free world she dreamed of.

Marriage and Family

Marriage and Family

Marriage and Family1.How to maintain a happy marriage according to you?2.What do you think are the reasons for a rising divorce rate?3.How to bridge the gap between generations and what is your ideal parent-child relationship?1.Mutual [ˈmjutʃuəl] understanding is the sucsess of marriage。

because love in most case is romantic and the lover only see the bright side ,but the marriage invovles more vulgar [ˈvʌlɡɚ] things. During the daily life, you not only discover his or her bright side,you may also be find sometimes he or she offensive to you.There are some important factors,Have the same hobby. Have enough time to stay together . Taking care of children together to bring them up. Have great admiration from partner, and take care of each other. warmth, romance, love are impotent to the marriage life especially for women. Talk and communicate well, when we talk,we should have enough patience.[ˈpeʃəns] Be honest. It ‘s very important for marriage. Lies will destroy marriage sooner or later.Respect and love their spouse’s parents and families and can take care old them together.说相互理解是婚姻的sucsess。

英语作文有关家庭婚姻的模板

英语作文有关家庭婚姻的模板

英语作文有关家庭婚姻的模板Title: The Importance of Family and Marriage。

Family and marriage are two of the most important aspects of our lives. They provide us with love, support, and a sense of belonging. In this essay, we will explore the significance of family and marriage, and how they contribute to our overall well-being.First and foremost, family and marriage provide us with a sense of security and stability. When we have a loving and supportive family, we feel safe and protected. This sense of security allows us to thrive and pursue our goals with confidence. In a healthy marriage, partners provide emotional support and encouragement to each other, creating a stable and nurturing environment for themselves and their children.Furthermore, family and marriage are important for our emotional well-being. Studies have shown that individuals who come from loving and supportive families are more likely to have higher self-esteem and better mental health. Similarly, being in a happy and fulfilling marriage can significantly improve our overall happiness and life satisfaction. The emotional support and companionship provided by family and marriage are essential for our well-being.In addition, family and marriage play a crucial role in shaping our values and beliefs. Our family is often the first place where we learn about love, respect, and empathy. The dynamics within our family and the example set by our parents greatly influence our own attitudes and behaviors in relationships. Similarly, a healthy marriage serves as a model for children, teaching them about commitment, communication, and compromise.Moreover, family and marriage are important for the development of children. Children who grow up in a loving and supportive family environment are more likely to excel in school, have better social skills, and develop into well-adjusted adults. Similarly, children who witness a healthy and loving marriage between their parents are more likely to form healthy relationships of their own in the future.It is important to note that family and marriage require effort and commitment to maintain. Building a strong and loving family and marriage takes time, patience, and dedication. It requires open communication, mutual respect, and the willingness to work through challenges together. However, the rewards of a strong family and marriage are immeasurable.In conclusion, family and marriage are essential for our well-being and happiness. They provide us with a sense of security, emotional support, and a foundation for our values and beliefs. Additionally, they play a crucial role in the development of children. It is important to prioritize and nurture our family and marriage, as they are the cornerstones of a fulfilling and meaningful life.。

婚姻与家庭 译本

婚姻与家庭  译本

我想恩我喜欢它I’m gonna sort of…Ah…I love it这样比较放松谢谢大家我喜欢这样的氛围That’s very relaxing, thank you. I appreciate it我想知道的不仅仅是我们学到了什么,I want to know not just what we’ve learn ed,还包括学习的过程.but how have we learned it.我们要怎样学习这门课程How would we study this?那么人们最先提出的问题就是Well, the first question that people ask?如果我想回放这个if I want to turn the visual see back,就按这里turn down the thing here.好就是这样Ok, it works.人们怎样开展这项工作呢How do people do this work?你们知道关系学家的需要做哪些工作吗You know? What does it mean to be a scientist of relationships?如果在生活和工作中我们都是专业的关系学家会怎么样呢How might we all be scientists of relationships in our own lives and in profession? 所以我们要来谈谈So we’ll talk about….我们花费了很长时间讨论我们应该怎样开展这项工作we spent a lot of time talking about like how do we do this work.我将从人际关系这一方面说起I’ll be starting with something like relationships我在想如果遇到一些令人讨厌的情况我们该怎么做例如有人说I wonder what we are doing in something that irritates me is people say,你会听到记者们说哦爱情你们怎么去研究它呢you hear journalists say” oh, love. How do you study that?”你没法研究它You know, you can’t study that.实际上不是大家可以研究爱情我已经研究了近二十年了Yes, you can. I’ve been studying it for almost twenty years.我可以肯定你们也能够研究它I assure you can do it.最后在这十周课程快要结束之前我希望你们能够告诉我答案And then finally I’d like to be informed at the end of ten weeks.在从现在算起的十周内我们将会讨论有很多关于人际关系的问题Ten weeks from now, there are a lot of issues about relationships.它们非常具有争议性人们总在讨论这些问题They are highly controversial and people talk a lot about them.专家和评论家Pundits and editorialists甚至是我们的家人在假日聚会时都会谈论and our own family members at holiday dinners will say,我跟你讲一下人际关系的事吧”I’ll tell you a thing or two about relationships.”我并不是想让你们都知道这些事情Well, not that I want you to be knowing at all anything,但我想让你们至少都知道的是But I’d like at least you have in your own head,不论你愿不愿意说whether you choose to speak up or not to say你们碰巧知道一些关于这些事件的数据I happen to know there are some data that bear on these issues.是的And there are.大多数的时候这些是研究当代疑难问题的数据Most of times there are data, research that bear on the complicated issues of the day. 我希望你们能提前想到这些数据的相关内容I’d like you to have a sense ahead, a sense of what the data look s like.这样你们就会提前知晓So that you can be informed.多数时候你可以形成自己的观点A lot of times, you are still, I mean, you can form your opinion,但至少你知道数据是什么but at least you know what the data are.这就是我们这门学科所要研究的事That’s what we’re gonna do in this course.所以在我们真正要为这些目标奋斗之前So before we really get into some of these goals,我也应该要意识到我们研究的是什么we should probably have a good idea of what we are talking about.所以我之前说我们是在讨论人与人的亲密关系So I’ve said that we are talking about或者说讨论人与人的亲密关系到底是什么intimate relationships or what on earth is an intimate relationship.我们希望有所收获比最高法院对色情文学的定义更精准We want to do better than the supreme court’s definition of pornography, which is, 我不记得那个定义但是一看到它我就能想起来well, I can’t de fine it but I know it when I see it.我们想要做得更好不想说不We wanna do better. We won’t say no.一些关于人际关系的东西There is something about relationship.可以变为亲密关系的东西There is something that makes these things an intimate relationship并且从此稳固下来and to pin this thing down.好的,我们宏观来看Well, let’s start broad.谈谈什么是人际关系Let’s start by saying wha t is a relationship?现在曾经上过我的社会心理学课的同学们Now, for those of you who took social psychology with me in the past,接下来的十五分钟是复习时间the next fifteen minutes are so a bit of review.请集中注意力因为你们都已经学过了所以会觉得很轻松So pay attention but you also feel smart because you already know this,什么是人际关系what’s a relationship?怎么判断两个人是有关系的How do you know the two people are in a relationship?如果我看到两个人坐在一起If two people sit next to each other, I’m looking at th em.我不能确定他们是否有关系I can’t tell if they are in a relationship or not.什么才能使两个人有关系呢What makes two people in a relationship?有谁能回答吗没有Any guesses? No?好的你叫什么名字玛瑞莎Now there we go, what’s your name? Ma risa.相互依赖是的多么好的一个答案Interdependence. Yeah! What a damn good guess!玛瑞莎我不想让你为难但是我还是想问你什么是相互依赖Mari sa I’m not going to put you on the spot but I’m gonna to ask what is interdependence?好的我不为难你Well I won’t put you on the spot所以玛瑞莎认为定义两个人两个家畜So what Marisa suggests is that we define our relationship between two people,或者宇宙中的两个物体的关系是取决于他们相互依赖的程度two farm animals or two bodies in space as a function of their degree of interdependence. 什么是相互依赖What is interdependence?相互依赖是在一定程度上互相影响对方行为Interdependence is the quality of affecting each other’s outcomes.我们处在互相依赖的环境中We are in a state of interdependence,我的行为一定程度上影响着你们的行为to the extent that my actions affect your outcomes与此同时你们的行为同样影响着我and at the same time your actions affect my outcomes.这正是相互依赖的定义That’s the definition of interdependence.人们彼此都有这样相互影响的能力The mutual ability of affecting each other’s outcomes当有了相互依赖互相关系也就产生了Where interdependence exists, then a relationship exists.也许你会问是不是我们现在就处于关系之中So you might ask: are we in a relationship right now?是的我们的确处于关系中Yes, we are.你以前不知道但是这就是真的You didn’t know. It’s totally true.大家感觉怎么样How’s going?我们正处于一种关系之中We are in a relationship right now.为什么因为我的行为影响着你们Why? Because my actions affect your outcomes,你们感觉无聊或有趣Your outcomes of being bored or interested,或在想在离开这间教室之后我要马上放弃这门课程being thinkin g I’m ganna drop this as soon as I get out of this room.或又想我想要学习这门课程Or no. I want to take this尽管它与互相交流的关系不大even though it doesn’t turn out to be that much about human communication,我所选择的行为影响你们的决定my behavior, what I choose to do, affect your outcomes你们的行为同样影响这我的And your behavior affects mine.如果我问一个问题If I ask a question,你想举手回答为课堂贡献你的想法这影响着我的下个行为you decide to raise your hand and to contribute to class, that affects my outcomes 如果你不想回答它也会有所影响if you decide not to, if affects my outcomes, too.我们是绝对相互依赖的我们正影响着对方We are absolutely interdependent, we are affecting each other.那你和学校其他同学呢Ok, what about you and another UCLA student?你们也相互依赖吗Are you interdependent with other UCLA students?是的因为你可以在学校里把车停在别人也想停的车位上Yes, because you can choose to park on campus,或者你报名参加一个有人数限制的课程or take a spot that someone else might take or sign up for a limited course因此另一个人或许就没法参加这个课程and then someone else doesn’t get to take that course.如果这个学科是根据个人表现来评分的If this class grades on a curve which isn’t,那么你的成绩就会影响其他同学的成绩then your grades will affect other people’s grades.你们都处于相互依赖之中You are all interdependent,我们都和学校里的其他人相互依赖着we are all interdependent with everyone else on this campus.如果你想宏观地定义相互依赖well, I mean if you’re gonna define interdependence that broadly,也许我们和地球上的每一个人都相互依赖着maybe we are interdependent with everyone on the planet.在此定义下通过全球变暖的过程当我开着车时By that definition, through global warming right I’m driving my SUV,一个澳大利亚人就会有一个酷热的夏日和多雨的寒冬that means someone in Australia has hot summer and rainy winter.就是这样Yes, that’s right.这就是相互依赖的定义This definition of interdependence says,某种意义上我们影响着地球上每个人的行动to the extent, we affect each other’s outcomes on the planet earth.我们与这个星球上的每一个人相互依赖着We are all interdependent with everyone else on the planet earth.你们明白了吗这就是相互依赖You get it? So that’s what interdependence is all about.现在我们已经将人际关系的范围缩小到So we’ve narrowed the field of what a relationship is to the thing我们和地球上其他人之间的东西that exists between us and every other human on the earth.好现在我们需要更具体一些Ok but now we want to get more specific.你会想说You wanna say,我们与地球上所有其他人之间的关系well if all those relationship are all we have with everyone else on the planet.我对这门学科中讲述的所有关系感兴趣What I’m interested in this course in all those relationships.我们只处于一种特别的关系之中We are just in a particular kind of relationship.但是在定义这个关系之前我想说But before we define that kind of relationship, we wanna say,怎样将人际关系划分成不同的程度呢well what are the different dimensions along which relationships can vary?有一群专门研究这个问题的人他们概括出5种基本的人际关系And a couple of guys who have been thinking about this came up with five pretty basic ones. 但这些只是大概描绘出人际关系轮廓的方法But these are ways of mapping the landscape of relationships,是组织地球上所有人际关系的方法ways of organizing all the relationships on the planet earth.这会对我们有所帮助因为所有关系已经组织好了That’s gonna be good for us because once we have them all organized,我们就可以好的we will be able to set…ok,在这个图的一部分中,我们所关心的那部分This is the part of the landscape, the section of map that we care about.相互依赖程度决定于联系的频率So one dimension of interdependence is frequency of contact.所以尽管你与一个居住在澳大利亚的人相互依赖So although you are interdependent with a person living in Australia除非你有特殊的原因与一个澳大利亚人联系unless you have particular reason to contact Australia你和他联系的概率非常低几乎为0you frequency of contact is very low, possibly zero.你与那个人的的直接联系为0You have zero direct contact with that person.但是与你每天都见到的人But the other people in your life you see everyday,也许是你的室友你的爱人你的另一半maybe your roommates, maybe your romantic partner, maybe your spouse,你可以将世上所有的关系分类Well, you can imagine ranking all the relationships in the world以两个人日常联系的频率来划分in terms of the frequency which the two people contact each other from daily,每天联系每分钟联系或从不联系from minute to minute, to never.但是这些都是根据关系变化来区分的But that’s something only dimension al ong which relationships vary.另一个方法就是联系的持久性Another would be duration of contact简言之就是这个联系持续了多长的时间In another words, how long does a particular level of contact last.所以你会想我们之间现有的关系So you want to imagine in this relationship our relationship that we have right now,大多数联系的频率是一周两次for many of us, the frequency of contract is twice a week,与此同时这个联系的持久性是10周and for many of us ,the duration of contract will be ten weeks.我很想在那之后听见你们的消息但是你们再不会联系我Oh, I’d love to hear from you afterwards, but you’ll never c all.没关系这也算一种人际关系So that’s ok, so that’s a kind of relationship.我们有一个每周两次可以持续十周的联系But we have a ten-week relationship of twice weekly contact.但是我与我姐姐的联系会持续一辈子But my relationship with my sister will last our whole life.我们很可能会一直保持下去We probably will continue last.回想在你的人生中与某些人有过一段时间的联系最终中断了Imagine people in your life that you had relationship for a period of time, then it stopped. 还有一些人你和他们从来没有联系And other people in your life you had relationship with for no time,另一些人像你的家人他们与你的一生都有着联系other people in your life you had relationship with your entire life like family members. 你可以想象怎样给所有与你相关的联系分类So you can imagine ranking all the relationships you’ve ever had根据特定的联系持续时间how long a particular level of contact lasted.想象这些关系都各不相同Imagine those relationships are very in a diversity of different interactions因为我们与不同的人相互影响的程度不同that we share with particular other persons.在我们现有的关系中So again in this relationship that we have right now,如果你们就是来到课堂然后下课离开If all you do is to come to class and leave class,相互影响的作用就很单一the nature of our interaction is not very diverse.主要就是我说你们听Most involves you listening me talking.相反我和我妻子的关系就十分多样化In contrast, our relationship with my spouse is quite diverse.我们一起做各种各样的事We do a lot of different things together.我们处理家务一起度假做很多有趣的事We do chore, we have fun, we got vacations, lots of interesting things.再想想你自己的生活你有一起学习的朋友Imagine in your own life, you got friends that you study with一起吃饭的朋友一起聚会聊天的朋友给予你支持的朋友and cook with and go partying with and communicate with, and you got support with.同时你有一些最近才有的关系像你的牙医And you have other people like your dentist that you basically just sort of recently visit. 所以我们可以按照这样的标准来划分人际关系So again we can rank relationships on these dimensions.影响的方向Direction of influence.它的意思是在一些人际关系中有的人对另一个人的影响会大些What that means is in some relationships one person has a much bigger affects但是反之亦然on the other person than vice versa.设想在一些关系中Some imagine that in some relationships,比如我和奥斯卡最佳女主角Like , for example, my relationships with the Academy Award茱莉亚.罗伯茨Wining actress Julia Roberts.这并不是双向的因而在这种关系中It’s not very bidirectional. So within the relationship她对我的影响是她拍的那些电影Because she affects me by making movies and being以及她在荧幕上迷人的风姿而我对她的影响extremely charming on screen and I affect her要么是我买票去看她的电影by either buying ticket to the movies要么就是我不去看这就是我对她的影响or staying away that she is affected by that.然而事实是她的行为But the truth is that her behavior影响到我的程度远远超过我对她产生的影响affects me a lot more than my behavior affects her.相反我与我妻子的关系In contrast, my relationship with my wife更加具有双向性is much more mutual.她这天过得很糟糕我也不会好到哪去She has a bad day, I have a bad day,或者当我这天过得很好她也不会坏到哪去If I have a good day, she has a good day.我们更加能够影响彼此的生活We are much more able to affect each other’s lives.或许这就是为什么我娶了我的妻子而不是那位奥斯卡演员了It’s probably why I married my wife not Julia.至此你可以给人际关系做一个排列And again you can rank relationships.想象你的人际关系网Imagine all the relationships, like your relationship with你与好莱坞的明星们的关系除非你碰巧认识某位明星whatever Hollywood celebrities unless you happen to know要不那种关系就是单向的that person is very uni-directional.坦白讲我们现在的关系就是一个单向的关系Our relationship right now is fairly uni-directional.也就是说我现在对你们的影响Frankly, I have a bigger influence on you that right now比你们任何一个对我的影响要大than any one of you have on me.这样很好若不是那样Although it’s good because you could probably你们可能要和我打一架take me into the fight.不过当然在座各位与And of course your relationship with your friends你们朋友的关系更具有双向性is probably more bidirectional.进而你们可以想象我们这里谈到的And then you could imagine the final dimension你对别人的最终影响程度that we talk about your strength of influence.一些人比如你会Some people, like your ability因为你对全球变暖的影响to affect global warming experience而影响到一个居住在澳大利亚的人of a person living in Australia, it exists,那种概率的确存在不过可能性非常非常地小but it’s very, very, very, very small.相反In contrast,你对你好朋友的影响your ability to affect your best friend’s则会非常强outcomes is very strong.我对我女儿的影响My ability to affect my daughter’s非常非常的强outcomes is incredibly strong.比如我对女儿说If I want I can just say,宝贝我们要搬阿拉斯加去“Hi, honey, we are moving into Alaska.”她肯定会和我一起She’d have to come with me.当然我们不会那样做But we are not gonna do that..但是我要说的是你But the point is that you can imagine想象在不同的人际关系中different relationships vary in所呈现的不同的影响程度how strong the influence is.你可以在这五个方面想象So you can imagine with this five dimensions.把它勾勒出来如果你能够Drawing it, if you upper understand进一步懂得这五个五维地图five dimensional map, which is the所有的关系在这个地图里都有对应的位置total possible space in which all relationships must fall. 任何一个关系在这些维度中Any relationships could be given sort of a point都可以依序占据一个点along any of these dimensions.我的问题是So my question to you is我真心想了解亲密的关系I really want to understand close relationships.这种在人们生活中最重要的关系The important relationships in people’s lives.这种让人们活下去的关系The relationships that really make people live.这种关系Well, where on the map,在五维地图的哪个位置Where in the dimensional space would the relationships be? 我们应该怎样描述它呢How do we characterize them?三年前有本书叫《亲密关系》Well, three years back in a book called Close Relationships, 一位名叫哈罗德.凯利的已故教授a UCLA professor who is now passed away,曾任职于加州大学洛杉矶分校but his name is Harold Kelley.哈罗德.凯利是一位非常智慧的社会心理学家And Harold Kelley was a brilliant social psychologist在社会学问题上提出了许多自己的见解Who gave a lot of thought of these social issues.他和他的同事们说道And he and his colleagues said, well, if those are the ways 若这些所有的关系可以呈变化的形态那么that all relationships can vary, then a close relationship亲密关系就是is gonna be one of强烈的频繁的多样的相互依赖的strong, frequent, diverse interdependence that会持续相当长的一段时间lasts over a considerable period of time.在我的这门课上That the words in this course,我们不需要在意这些事we don’t care all about this, we don’t care我们不需要在意你和牙医的关系the relationship in you and your dentist,我们不会讨论we are not gonna talk about你和某澳大利亚人的关系the relationship you and somebody in Australia除非你和他虽然分居两地依然有很多的联系unless you are in a long distance relationship.我们要讨论的是你的亲密关系We are gonna talk your close relationships.那些对你有很大影响的人The people that have a strong influence on you.那些你经常见到并有很多互动的人The people that you see a lot and you should interact a lot. 那些和你做许多不同事情的人The people that you do a lot of different things with.而不是你的牙医不是我们我们不在这个讨论范围中Not your dentist, not us, we are already off the table now, 是那种持续了很长时间的关系and once it lasted a considerable period of time.什么样的关系符合这种定义呢What kind of relationships fit this definition?亲密关系恋爱关系Intimate relations? Love relationships?你的另一半你的男朋友Your spouse, your boyfriend,或是你的女朋友你的搭档是的Your girlfriend, your partner? Yes,但这些不是全部But that’s not all. This is actually这样的定义跟我们要在这门课上a little bit broader than what we are讨论的东西相比太宽泛了talking about in this course.什么样的关系符合中定义What kind of relationships fit in this definition?什么朋友的确是家庭What? Friends? Absolutely. Family?是的如果你喜欢这样定义绝对可以的Yeah, if you like.Yeah ,absolutely your family.许多人和他们的父母Most people are in this kind of都有这种关系Relationship with their parents,或者他们的兄弟姐妹是的or their siblings, absolutely.在这么课中Well, in this course,我们不会讨论过多关于家庭关系的方面we will not be talking much about family relationships. 我们也不会讨论过多朋友关系We will not be talking much about friendships.这门课是关于亲密关系的This is a course about intimate relationships.注意我的问题So, my question to you is家庭关系或友情与亲密关系两者之间有什么不同What’s the difference?现在我们来缩小它的范围Now we are narrowing it down.我们是以这个星球上上所以的关系开始的We started with all the relationships因而我们要把它范围缩小on the planet earth. We wanna narrow.我们只想讨论最接近的We just want the close ones.现在我说不不不Now I’m saying no no no.我们不仅仅想要最接近的关系We don’t even just want the close ones,我们只想要讨论亲密关系We only want the intimate ones.什么是亲密What is intimacy?什么将一个关系变成亲密关系的What makes the relationship an intimate relationship?亲密关系与你和你的兄弟姐妹What is the difference between your intimate relationships 以及家庭的不同是什么and your relationships with your sibling and family在这个国家which in this state,什么不能成为亲密关系should not be intimate.(haha…) (笑声)区分他们的界限是什么Where is the dividing line?好的你叫什么名字Yes, What’s your name?卢克--Luc.卢克Luc.(选择是什么你是说选择人)(What is chosen? You mean choose the people)(你不能选择你的家庭成员)(You don’t choose your family members)但是你能够选择你的朋友对吗But you choose your friends?是的--Right.所以这还不够So that’s not good enough.感谢你的回答但是这不是关键I appreciate the contribution, but it doesn’t work.你可以选择你的朋友You can choose your friends,你与朋友的关系和亲密关系还是And yet, there’s a difference between your friends有区别的and your intimate.就像我喜欢你和我真的喜欢你一样You know, “I like you” and “I really like you”.两者还是有区别的There is a difference there.你叫什么名字What’s your name?海蒂---Heidi.海蒂Heidi.(这得看这种关系对你大脑里(It depends on if the relationship effects on化学物质的影响)your brain chemistry)嗯这个说法很有意思你认为这种关系影响了大脑的化学物质Ehh, that’s interesting. It effects on your brain chemistry?所以处在亲密关系中So the idea of being in an intimate relationship你大脑里的化学物质比你的友谊对你的影响要大得多Affects your brain chemistry more than a friendship.海蒂我相信你说的这是一个相当有趣的说法I believe you Heidi. That’s a very interesting idea.所以海蒂认为我们对亲密关系的So Heidi says that we respond生理反应不同于我们对physiologically differently to our intimate relationships朋友关系的反应than to our friendships.的确你叫什么名字Absolutely. What’s your name?大卫---David.大卫David.(或许是某种性的东西)(Probably some sort of sexual something.)某种性地东西Some sort of sexual something.不错大卫的确是这样的That’s not bad. David. Absolutely.我们的亲密关系是有关某种Our intimate relationship have some kind of性的指示sexual charge.现在是重点的地方了让我们来讨论看看Now, that’s probably big part of it. Let’s talk about that.你有朋友你有比朋友关系更近一步的相处对象So you have friends, and you have more than friends.是什么让关系超出了朋友界限大卫说是性是性吗What makes more than friends? David says is, is it sex?一定要有性行为才能Do you actually have to be having sex让关系变得亲密吗to make something intimate relationship?不很显然不是No, clearly not.因为你们可以有这种亲密关系与性行为无关Because you can have intimate relationship that is n’t sexual;.你们可以有结婚多年的You can have husbands and wives丈夫或者是妻子having been married for many, many years.而性确是遥远的模糊的记忆And sex is a distant hazing memory.你任然可以认为And you can still imagine that they他们有着亲密关系have an intimate relationship.至少有一件我们What makes it intimate is at least关心的事来促成这种亲密one thing that we care about an intimate relationship 那就是一种的性is the potential for sex.有一种性的指示参与进来There is some kind of sexual charge involved.至少是某种性的可能性Some kind of sexual potential, at least.还有吗有其它的意见吗What else? Was there other suggestion?有人要补充的吗Other people has something to add?你叫什么名字What’s your name?哈尼---Honey哈尼嗯(与亲爱的同音)能拼一下你的名字吗Honey. Like? Spell it..(H-O-N-E-Y)(H-O-N-E-Y.)告诉我你的答案Ok.(吸引力)(Attraction)吸引力但是我们也被朋友们吸引Attraction. But we are attracted to our friends.你所谓的通过吸引是什么意思What do you mean by attraction?有什么区别吗是什么让我和What’s the different? What makes the attraction to亲密搭档之间的关系our intimate partners different from不同于我认为我的朋友是一个很有吸引力的人how I find my friend is an appealing person?你们有其它的想法吗什么都行Do you have any answer to that? Anything?什么What?(性吸引)(Sexual)是的性吸引所以我们又回到了讨论性的地方It’s sexual, so we back to the sexual thing.我喜欢我的朋友们I like my friends.我喜欢我的亲密搭档But with my intimate partners I like them并且我们之间有一种性的指示同时这种指示并and there are sexual charges while不存在与我和我的朋友们之间丹有什么补充的吗there isn’t with my friends. Dan?(具有侵略性的渴望)(Intrusive longs )具有侵略性的渴望不错但回答得很好Intrusive longs. That’s not bad, Dan. That’s pretty good.所以我对我朋友们的想法So the idea of being that with my friends,我不喜欢躺下来思考I don’t like lying by thinking.猜测我的朋友们现在有没有想我I wonder what my friends is thinking about me right now.我觉得我的朋友喜欢我我从来不会这样I wonder if my friend likes me. I don’t ever go like.我不会发狂似的说“啊我不能停止思念我的朋友”“Ah! I can’t stop thinking about my friend.”(笑声)(hahaha…)回答地很好你叫什么名字That’s good. What’s your name?---维尔特---Waiet维尔特Waiet.(亲密搭档的关系很特别)(Intimate partners are special)特别很好Special. That’s not bad.你所谓的特别是什么意思举个例子What do you mean by special? How about this?如果我的朋友有另外的一群朋友我完全没意见I am perfectly ok if my friends have other friends.但是我希望我的妻子只有一个丈夫But I prefer that my wife just has one husband.下面让我们来看看幻灯片So let’s get to a slide on this.看看是否能够从中得出什么结论Let’s see if we can summarize some of this.为什么说它能分辨出亲密关系So why it says it recognizing an intimate relationship?搭档是特别且唯一的The partner is special and unique.所以说你要是有很多You know what, even if you are in开放的关系那么祝你好运an open relationship and good luck to you if you are.在这种开放的关系中你对每个伴侣都会有一个感觉There is still a sense that each part in the open relationship, lets say 假设你有五个伴侣每一个都很特别You have five, each of one is special即使你在纽约网络有限电视Even if you have multiple lives的连续剧《大爱》中过着多样的生活on the HBO TV show Big Love.你仍然会感觉到You still have the idea that each one is special.每一个伴侣都是不同的。

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Marriage and Family
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Marriage relation .in marriage, relationships we expected to learn a number of things including the sacrifice. couple must make with respect to such thing as careers, finances and children, our initial impressions were that couple must be willing to make these sacrifice in order to have a long and fulfilling relationship with their spouse.
Many sweetheart pass long time exchange, they can chop and understand other one, so sometimes they can quarrel, but over a period of time, they can understand the other part, Because ,over a period of time communication, they can tolerant the other part and they have love, love is everything.
In our discussion on premarital sex we both agreed at it was fine as long as it was done responsibly meaning with the use of contraceptive. Family from the most important part of an individual’s like any kind of tension the family ties tead to depression and sorrow. Due to constantly to prove oneself, individuals hardly get time, to spend with their family members. This leads to gap in communication and eventual fight, this is
where the counseling experts can help solve rarious emotional conflicts within the family.
Responsible is very important in family, have a common question, when asked about their opinion of career and family , people always respond differently, some people demit more important to pursue their career, while there are always other people who argue that family should be the number one in one’s life. For this problem, I think responsible very important. Because if he or she think family is one, one is all, in order to this family, he can do everything and balance career and family. If he don’t like family he always say I’m very busy and I don’t have any time to do it for family. So I think first people must have responsible to family, second people need love family and must have the opinion “one is all”, the one is family ,have one well-know saying , the family is one of nature’s masterpieces.
Long long ago, I hear a well-knowing says that the house of every one is to him as his castle and fortress. A number of programs are offered by different, family marriage counseling centers to suit every need. Family marriage counselors offer individual therapy as well as specialized group therapy. In a word, I want all shall be well, jack shall have jill, every family have a particular happiness.。

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