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Is There True Friendship between Male and Female?

In the dictionary, a friend is the one you know well and like. So, what does like mean? What's the difference b etween like and love? You said there is true friendship between men and women. In my opinion, for mos t people, I think, it's a beautiful lie.

First of all, male and female are born mutually attracted, especially when they are in heat, which our huma

n beings call it puberty. Human are animals. Though, under the pressure of our rational minds and moral stan dards, our emotional sexual compulsion is mercilessly repressed. Like the north and south pole, they have th e tendency to get closer. There's no continuing reputation without mutual attraction. Then, this kind of excite ment can not be securely controlled. Love makes people crazy, even more sex! A glass of wine, a hug, a dro p of tear, a word, or even a casual eyesight can totally smash the frail film into pieces. More sadly, people ar e easily slipped. Once these impulsions are released out of the ethical cage, he or she will become your love r. There's no friendship anymore.

When you treat him a true friend, whether he does so? For most people, these friendships have only two end ings. He is actually sexually attracted by you. This is the first ending. And the second one is he may have so me potential homosexual tendency.

Oscar Wilde-the famous litterateur of the Great Britain said:

Betweenmen and women,there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love bu t no friendship.

First, the concept of “friendship” is interpreted in a completely different way by men and women. Second, both stereotypes and taboos are firmly fixed in our consciousness. (In terms of nature) Friendship can give us something that we cannot get from our family.

Friendship is a kind of escape that is good for men and women alike.

“There’s always sex hiding away somewhere inside a friendly relationship between a man and a woman,” said Lilian Rubin, a sociologist. “A sexual undertone of friendship makes it especially attr active or even sensual. However, most men and women agree that sexual relations pose a real t hreat to their friendships because sex breeds a craving for possession, which can’t agree with the nature of friendship,” Rubin added. A good fr iend may turn into a lousy lover.