白色情人节甜蜜情书

白色情人节甜蜜情书

Ａlong time ago, when Ｉwas living in my favorite apartment behind a bamboo patch in Ｔuscaloosa, Ａlabama, Ｉwrote my first love letter. Ｉt was a liquid hot afternoon, and Ｉ was sitting on my screened porch, enjoying my boredom, thinking that Ｉ was full up with the very thought of her. Ｉdrew a pretty cool heart on a piece of newsprint, rolled that into a manual typewriter, and then pecked out about 15 sentences. Ｉ took more than an hour. Ｉ had to. Ｉcouldn’t edit, and Ｉcouldn’t use Ｗite-Ｏut. Ｉt worked too. Ｔhat woman was happy.

很久以前，我住在亚拉巴马州塔斯卡卢萨市。有一天在我最喜欢的那套公寓里时，我写下了我的第一封情书。公寓在一片竹林后面。那是一个天气炎热的下午，阳光穿透竹林在门廊里留下许多斑点，我坐在门廊里无聊着，却满脑子里想的都是她。我在一张新闻用纸上画下了一颗相当漂亮的心，把它放进手动打印机里，然后打印出了大约15个句子。我花了一个多小时。这是必须的。我不能编辑，我也不能用修正液涂改。见效了。那个女人快乐了。

Ｓo happy that she stuck it on the door of her refrigerator, where it clung to a magnet-laden collage of birthday cards, Ｅ1 / 4

aster cards, thinking-of-you cards. Ｔhis irked me. “Ｉt’s a love letter,” Ｉtold her. “Ｉt’s only for you. Ｙou’re supposed to save it. Ｉt’s supposed to be fo lded up in a book somewhere.” Ｓhe didn’t get it. Ｓhe treated it like a card.

她很开心，于是她把情书贴在冰箱门上。冰箱门上贴满了生日贺卡、复活节卡片和思念卡，它们仿佛组成了一幅拼图。这个让我很恼火。我对她说：“这是一封情书。只写给你一个人的情书。你应该保存它。它应该夹在一本书里什么的。” 她不听。她把情书当一张明信片一样对待了。

Ｗhen writing a love letter, remember: Ｉt's not a card. Ｉt's a letter.

在写情书的时候，记住：它不是明信片。它是一封信。

Ｆirst, sit. Ｌetters take time.

首先，坐下。写信是要花时间的

Ｌetters have a rhythm. Ｌetters must be written, and writing takes a while. Ｔhree lines can’t do the work of three paragraphs. Ｔhis is not to say your letter must be long. Ｔhree paragraphs can do the work of three pages. Ｊust give them some time.

情书是有韵律的。情书应该是书写出来的，而写信要花点时间。三行文字的情书是不能和三段文字的情书相提并论的。这不是说你的

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情书一定要长。三段也可以起到三页的作用。花些时间吧。

Ｂe loyal to the past you share.

认真分享的往事

Ｉf your love emerged on a kayak trip, then you don’t just mention that experience — you make it. Ｌet the river become your palette. Ｔell a story that only the two of you know. Ｏr narrate a moment in which she was unaware that you were watching her. Ｕse detail to show what you remember and that you remember.

假如你是在一次独木舟之旅遇到你的爱情的，那么你就不要只提那次经历了，让那条河流成为你的调色板，在你的笔下再创造一次那样的经历。讲述一个只有你们两个人知道的故事。或者描述一个她没有留意到你在凝视着她的时刻。使用细节来展示你记住的美丽往事。

Ｌet the example precede sentiment.

先举例后动情

Ａgood love letter declares itself plainly, then illustrates particularly. “Ｉ saw you watching the men play chess in the park. Ｓo quiet. Ｉ love the way you look at things.” Ｓhow her what you love in her before you tell her what you love in her. Ｓhow, then tell.

一封好的情书自己既能简单地说明，也能详细地描述。“我看到3 / 4

你在公园里看他们下国际象棋。很安静。我喜欢你看东西时的那种表现。”在你告诉她哪些方面惹你喜欢之前，先向她展现你喜欢她的那些地方。先展示，然后再说。

Ｄon’t repeat yourself.

不要老反复

Ｅmotional declarations matter more if you space them a little. Ｅven in a short letter, you must create room. Ｗith love, the re’s value in scarcity. Ｔhat’s why it feels like such a jackpot.

情绪表达更重要，假如你给它们腾出一点空间的话。即便是在一封简短的情书里，你必须要创造出空间。有了爱，贫乏中也会有价值。这也是最吸引人的地方，那感觉就像中了头彩一样。

Ｍost of all, remember that it’s private.

最重要的是，记住，情书是私信

Ｓay something that surprises you about yourself. Ｌet her know that she is redefining your terms. Ｉn this way most, a love letter is like love itself. Ｔhere must be risk.

说一些能让自己惊喜的关于自己的事情。让她知道她要去重新认识你。这样的话，情书更像是恋爱，有一定的风险。

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