哈佛有一个著名的理论（Harvardhasafamoustheory）

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Classic quotations:
Harvard has a famous Theory: the difference between people is spare time, and a person's fate is decided from 8 to 10 in the evening. 2 hours a night to read, study, think or participate in intentional speech, discussion, you will find that your life is changing, persist in a few years later, success will beckon to you.
Classic quotations two:
Regardless of your income, remember divided into five parts: investment planning to increase investment in the body, let the body always good; to increase social investment, expand your network; increase investment in learning, strengthen your self-confidence; increase investment in tourism, expand your horizons; increase in the future. Investment, increase your income. Plan and implement, and you'll find that your life is going to have a lot of surpluses.
Classic quotations three:
The past page, can not turn, do not turn over, turn over the dust, will lose their eyes. Some people can not say where good, but who can not replace those who never said before the separation of people, already scattered in the end of the world. Pick up your heart, go on, miss the flowers, you will reap the rain, miss this one, you will meet the next one.
Classic quotations four:
Can be misunderstood when a little smile, this is a kind of accomplishment; wronged when to calm smile, this is a kind of generosity; suffer when the happy smile, this is a kind of open-minded; helpless when philosophical smile, this is a state of distress; when to calm smile, this is a kind of atmosphere; contempt calm smile, this is a kind of self-confidence; lovelorn time to gently smile, this is a kind of free and easy.
Classic quotations five:
On the way of life, some can not escape, such as fate; some can not be changed, such as love; some are indelible, such as memory; some are difficult to shelve, such as love...... It is better to be brave than to withstand it passively; it is better to strike the wind and rain with the wings of birds than to live in silence, rather than to fight in silence...... The more difficult the road, the greater the resistance, the more risk, as long as the past, life will be more wonderful.
Classic quotations six:
You can't change the environment, but you can change yourself;
you can not change the facts, but you can change your attitude; you can't change the past, but you can change now; you cannot control others, but you can control yourself; you cannot predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today; you can't do everything well, but you can everything; you can not extend the length of life, but you can decide the width of life.
Classic quotations seven:
Charming woman: 1. Good at finding beauty in life. 2, develop the habit of reading. 3, have taste. 4. Make friends with thoughtful people. 5, away from the bubble idol drama. 6, learn patience and tolerance. 7, cultivate a healthy state of mind, pay attention to your body. 8, leave any man, will live very well. 9, have the motivation of financial management, learning investment management. 10, respect feelings, cherish fate.
Classic quotations eight:
The fool seeks happiness in the distance, and the wise man develops happiness beside himself. Every detail of life is filled with happiness, but whether you feel it or not. Happy people, every thing, every one of them, he could find happy factor to expand the happiness, inspired and influenced the people around.
Classic quotations nine:
Give yourself comfort [10 sweet words] 1, the most important is the heart of today; 2, don't give yourself too much; 3, intentions to do their own thing; 4, do not care about others
too much evaluation; 5, everyone has their own way of life; 6, love yourself embrace life;
7, do not blindly to please others; 8, will be 9, What is done cannot be undone.; may temporarily put troubles; 10, feel happiness is happiness.
Classic quotations ten:
There is no eternal fate, there is no eternal life, we can have, may be just ordinary life. However, because of you, life is completely different, no oath, without commitment, we only need to dream, to look for the media, confirmed the agreement on the Sansei stone, then pull his hand, don't hold, but never relax, to design their own love program, to the interpretation of a classic.
Classic quotations eleven:
We are tired, is always hovering between adhering to and giving up, indecisive. The reason why we worry, is that the memory is good, remember, should not remember, will stay in memory. The reason why we are suffering is too much pursuit. The reason why we are unhappy is that we care too much, not that we have too little, but we care too much.
Classic quotations twelve:
Men attract woman 10 characters: 1. 2. 3. 4. real deep mind dare 5. bearing 6. smart 7. humor 8. ahead of 9. romantic adventure.
10. women attracted 10 men: 1. gentle 2. understanding 3.
straight 4. conservation 5. dim 6. small movements 7. and 8. white skin 9. sexy dress 10. fragrance
Classic quotations thirteen:
True love is acceptance, not tolerance; it is support, not domination; it is sympathy, not questioning; true love, to say thank you also apologize. Be considerate and considerate. To admit or correct; the true love is not gazing at each other, but looking at the same direction. In fact, love is not looking for a perfect person. It's about learning to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.
Classic quotations fourteen:
There are always some people, you see him every day happy, and like a child, everyone admires him; in fact, you know: a second person also sad to shed tears for him, after a second before instantly filled with a bright smile. They have no ability to be alone. In the dead of night, they sit at the window and meditate the frustrations of the night. They are like sunflowers. They are always bright and sunny towards the sun, but they will be sad on the back where they can not be seen.
Classic quotations fifteen:
In life, some people come and go, some people querfufan, some people close at hand, some people in the world, some people passing, some people go the same way. Maybe at the end of a two road, a journey together, and a farewell at the next fork. In any case, will inevitably end of sad. Far away friends: perhaps
it is far away can not greet, but thank you once accompanied by peers.
Classic quotations sixteen:
Love is simple, because everyone says, "I love you, I will pay everything for you."!" Love is hard, because not many people have made their promises. If you really love a person, do not promise, you will love; if you do not love a person, once promised will betray.
Classic quotations seventeen:
What do you regret most? A magazine surveys a sample of people over the age of 60 in China: first, 75% regret that they didn't work hard when they were young, which led to nothing. Second: 70% of people regret choosing the wrong job when they are young. Third: 62% regretted the improper education of their children. Fourth: 57% of people regret not cherish their partners. Fifth: 49% of people regret not being kind to their bodies.
Classic quotations eighteen:
[ten] the scheming person do not be too simple and modest, always leave room to disguise themselves leeway, then do not say never say hard into the event the mature but not sophisticated, mentality well take live not tired, understand Fangyuan Road: fine,
Things that are not afraid of things but no less than two Etiquette: etiquette and gift the person next to friends,
occasionally floating anti knife "snob" to find a reliable partner and put down the face to life in the arena.
Classic quotations nineteen:
In the journey of life, there are always people coming, some people continue to leave. When the new name becomes the old name, when the old name becomes obscure, it is the end of a story and the beginning of another story. Constantly meet and stagger, finally understand: people around only accompany their way through or near or far, but not with his life; with your own name and those or clear or fuzzy name moved.
Classic quotations twenty:
From now on, be smart. Don't ask people whether they want you or not If you want to love or you will naturally say to you, but speak out from your mouth, others will be proud and do not care about you. Don't care too much about people, care about something, let nature take its course, because the world is like this: we often have no value in front of the things we care most about.
Classic quotations twenty-one:
A man's achievements are not measured by money, but by how many people have you treated kindly and how many people miss you in your life. Business books, records of income and expenditure, subtraction, it is profitable. The life of the books, records of love and love is the achievement of the two together.
Senior high school:
I: mother, no money, RBI money.
Mom: how much?
Me: 500
Dad: give it to 800. Girls pay more money. Watch out for your health.
I: that my class, to give me money.
Second days, account more than 1000 fast, mother secretly said to me, just in high school that day, dad said, can't let me than the city girl poor.
Freshman：
Me: Mum, I'm homesick.
Mom: when will you come back?
Dad: you're short of money, dad.
Me: No, not accustomed to, is homesick.
Mom and Dad: Well, have a holiday, come back early, buy a ticket earlier, and watch out for your health.
Dad later told me, after the phone call, mom cried, not blame
my dad, then allowed me to choose the unfamiliar city of Nanjing.
Sophomore：
Mom: you haven't called for a long time. What are you busy with?
Me: there are so many things, no time.
Dad: your mother missed you. She was alone at home.
I know, busy recently, have time to play again.
At the age of sophomore, my mother checked out the high blood pressure. Once a person attacked, it was dangerous. Since then, no matter where he was, no matter how busy he was, he called two times a day, and I knew he had graduated.
Junior：
Dad: when is the bus coming back to pick you up?.
Me: No, stay in Haimen today, and then eat at home.
Mom: I made a table dish, and why don't you come back?.
I rarely go home to get together with my classmates.
Mom: you hardly ever come home. We only saw you half a year ago.
Finally, home, the meal time has passed, hungry, refrigerator
full of dishes, almost never moved, mom said, you're not, your dad drink no mind.
Senior：
Me: Mum, Nanjing is too bitter. I want to go home.
Mom: go home, rest, afford.
Dad: go home, your father can work, even you can not afford, I mix white.
At that time, looking for work everywhere, their words, let me very ambitious ran home to hide for a lot of days.
Just work:
Mom: I've been busy lately. Have you eaten?.
I'm busy. I didn't get started. I ate some noodles.
Mom: you can't just eat noodles, you have to have nutrition, even if you eat something outside.
Me: Yeah, I know.
New year home, the courtyard drying N dry, sausage, home N more pickled fish. Mom said, "these don't bother God, you can burn directly.",
It's much better than noodles. Her hand in winter is cracking,
the bacon, are used carefully yards good salt.
Resign to Yantai:
Mom: it's been more than 10 days. Why don't you call me?.
Me: roaming, expensive.
Mom: is it fun over there? Did anyone bully you?
I: No, they told me, Yantai fun, very cool.
Mom: better at home than anybody else.
Me: ah, I'll call you back.
Dad said, that night mom did not fall asleep, always said, big daughter became a different family, the previous six months can be seen once, and then do not know a few years to see.
Changed jobs:
Me: Mom, come to Nanjing. I'm rich now.
Mom: how much money do you have? It's so expensive outside, save it.
Me: I really have money, you have to live somewhere.
Mom: I have to take care of your dad.
Dad is inseparable from my mother, I know, mom is always a hard work life.
Now：
Me: Mom, have you eaten?
Mom: eat it.
Me: what do you eat?
Mom: it's much better. It's better than what you eat.
Me: so what are you doing?
Mom: playing cards. What's the matter? It's okay.
A phone call every day, just a few words, so that mom was bored. The day before yesterday, the business trip, not a day to call home, yesterday hit back, just ringing, Mom answered, asked frozen, did not eat, ask tired? I thought there was a phone call every day, and there was not much to say, but she was waiting for my call.
Every time you go home, there are always some dishes you like.
Every time they chat, they always ask, eat, do not wear, not tired, and we rarely or never asked.
They have today is the day, you can't disobey from mean what one says. But now they're all listening to you, and everything
you say is right. Because they were old, they started looking for dependence, and they had only us in their lives.
Make a phone call, three minutes is really not that hard to squeeze out. You can spend one hour a day with your loved ones, and give them three minutes. Ask what you're busy today, ask what you eat and write today, just as they asked us, and they're not as bored as we are.
This log is turned from your friends, just beginning to see just feel a bit like, see a little later suddenly felt very uncomfortable, there is a feeling of want to cry, I think, probably has been like this, we can pay a lot of friends, lovers, can we forget the pain we care about most of our people is always mom and Dad, can we then capricious, rebellious, deception, so many do not hurt their sensible things, but they do not blame us, or are we as a baby, this is only my parents!
The tree is quiet, but the wind is not enough
Mom, how's it going? How's the family? How's the work? How's your health? How's your mood?
Mom, I missed you...。