Unit 4 How to make a good impression

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HowtoMakeaGoodImpression

HowtoMakeaGoodImpression

HowtoMakeaGoodImpressionUnit 4 Section AHow to Make a Good ImpressionI : Warm- up exercise:Raising some questions concerning the text, making use of preview questions or make up questions to elicit the subject.II:框架与大意把握(一)汉语概述在与别人交流时,我们怎样学会给他人留下好的印象?第一,你应当记住你是个信息。

尽你所能发挥你的优良品质,比如你的外貌,能力,说话的速度,语调的抑扬顿挫,手势和表情等等。

其它方面还有:保持自我;用你的眼神;放松。

(二)英文提要How to make a good impression when we communicate with others? At first, always remember that you are the message. Therefore, try your best to use your good qualities, such as physical appearance, energy, rate of speech, pitch and tone of voice, gestures, expressions, etc. to be liked by others. Other keys include: be yourself, use your eyes and lighten up.(三)课文篇章结构展示Part One (paras. 1-2)Research presents that we make up our minds about people through unspoken communication within seven seconds of meeting them. But how can we impress others?Part Two (paras. 3-15)We can use four qualities to impress others: you are the message; be yourself; use your eyes and relax/ lighten up.III:语言点解析(一)词汇学习Impression n.(1)印象,效果(2)感觉,感想【经典例句】His first speech as president makes a strong impression on his audience.他当会长后的第一次演讲给听众留下了深刻的印象。

新视野英语一Unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression语言点

新视野英语一Unit 4 How  to Make a Good Impression语言点

3. Think about some of your most unforgettable meetings: an introduction to your future spouse, a job interview, an encounter with a stranger. (Line 5)
在最近的一次电话采访中,绝大多数被访的 大一新生告诉采访记者他们想家。
encounter: n. rare and formal meeting with someone that
happens by chance; vt. meet or have to deal with (sth. bad, esp. a danger or difficulty)
1) The third letter of complaint is not consistent with the first two.
第三封投诉信与前两封投诉信不尽一致。
2) Their performance did not go consistently with their promises.
10. You can always see people who take themselves too seriously. (Line 50)
take sb. or sth. seriously: believe someone or something important and should be given attention
“causing a chain of …, ranging from… to fear”: 现在分词短语 在句中作结果状语,表示我们表现感情的结果。其中 “ranging from…”引导的分词短语作 “reaction”的定语。 ① a chain of… : a sequence of ; a series of 一系列,一连串 ② range from…to…: occur from…to…

unit4 how to make a good impression

unit4 how to make a good impression

1. 概念,观念____
3.使用,应用____ 5. 态度,心态____
2. 指导,引导____
4.适应;把…联系起来____ 6. 信心,信赖____
7. 听起来,好像____ 8. 冲突,争论____ 9. 争论,争吵____ 10. 幽默,诙谐____
11.平静,平衡____ 12. 瘸子,跛子____ 13. 使协调____ 14. 尽管,不管____
3. range n. 范围 on a (wide)range of 在(大的)范围内; vt. (在一定范围内)变动,变化 range between A and B 在A和B之间变化或变动 4. focus v. 使(注意力等)集中 n. 中心,集中点 eg.---Please focus your mind on the following problems. 5. rate n. 速度,比率,率 at this rate 照此速度,照这样下去 eg.---We drove at a steady rate.
Important sentences
1. Consciously or unconsciously, we show our true feelings with our eyes, faces, bodies and attitudes, causing a chain of reactions, ranging from comfort to fear. (L2~4) 主干:…we show our true feelings…其中consciously or unconsciously为句子的状语,修饰整个句子; with our eyes, faces, bodies and attitudes为方式状语; causing a chain of…为结果状语,表示show our true feelings 所产 生的结果,而ranging from comfort to fear为伴随状语, 修饰reactions。 译文:无论是有意识还是无意识,我们都会用眼神,面部表 情,肢体动作和态度来表现我们的真实情感,从而使他人 产生从舒适到害怕的一连串反应。

UNIT4 MAKING A GOOD IMPRESSION

UNIT4 MAKING A GOOD IMPRESSION
希望3年大学生活之后我能变成熟。

Aggressive: angry, and behaving in a threatening way; ready to attack 好mote: vt.促进,推进; 提升,助长; 促销; 使(学生)升级; There is huge social pressure to promote women.
adv.非常,极;
Suddenly, in the moonlight, I saw the monster's awful face looking at me. 突然,在月光下我看见那个怪物的恐怖的脸正看着我。
1.3 Listening-in
1.Look at the answers quickly and guess what's the main idea of each conversation, including where,when, who , what and how. 2.Listen to the CD , find the right answer, and explain the sentences if necessary.
有巨大的社会压力要求提拔女性。
to be promoted:晋升,被提拔

stay positive:保持积极的态度;保持乐观
I'm choosing to stay positive today.
当然,我今天选择让自己保持积极乐观。

Take an instant liking to sb.: 一见钟情 love sb. at the first sight awful:adj.糟糕的; 可怕的; 非常的; 极坏的;
1.2 Possible difficult words and expressions

新视野第一册Unit Four How to Make a Good Impression

新视野第一册Unit Four  How to Make a Good Impression

Unit 4 How to Make a Good ImpressionI. Lead inIt takes just a quick glance, maybe three seconds, for someone to evaluate you when you meet for the first time. In this short time, the other person forms an opinion about you based on your appearance, your body language, your demeanor, your mannerisms, and how you are dressed.With every new encounter, you are evaluated and yet another person’s impression of you is formed. These first impression can be nearly impossible to reverse or undo, making these first encounters extremely important, for they set the tone for the all the relationships that follows.So, whether they are in your career or social life, it’s important to know howto create a good first impression. This article provides some useful tips to help you do this.Be on TimeSomeone you are meeting for the first time is not interested in your “good excuse” for running late. Plan to arrive a few minutes early. And allow flexibility for possible delays in traffic or taking a wrong turn. Arriving early is much better that arriving late, hands down, and is the first step in creating a great first impression.Be Yourself, Be at EaseIf you are feeling uncomfortable and on edge, this can make the other person ill at ease and that’s a sure way to create the wrong impression. If you are calm and confident, so the other person will feel more at ease, and so have a solid foundation for making that first impression a good one. See our section on relaxation techniques to find out how to calm that adrenaline!Present Yourself AppropriatelyOf course,physical appearance matters. The person you are meeting for the first time does not know you and your appearance is usually the first clue he or she has to go on. The key to a good impression is to present you appropriately.Start with the way you dress. What is the appropriate dress for the meeting or occasion? In a business setting, what is the appropriate business attire? Suit, blazer, casual? And ask yourself what the person you'll be meeting is likely to wear - if your contact is in advertising or the music industry, a pinstripe business suit may not strike the right note!For business and social meetings, appropriate dress also varies between countries and cultures, so it’s something that you should pay particular attention to when in an unfamiliar setting or country. Make sure you know the traditions and norms.Appropriate dressing and grooming help make a good first impression and also help you feel “the part”, and so feel more calm and confident. Add all of this up and you are well on your way to creating a good first impression.A Word about IndividualityThe good news is you can usually create a good impression without total conformity or losing your individuality. Yes, to make a good first impression you do need to “fit in” to some degree. But it all goes back to being appropriate for the situation. If in a business setting, wear appropriate business attire. If at a formal evening social event, wear appropriate evening attire. And express your individuality appropriately within that context.A Winning Smile!“Smile and the world smiles too.”* So there’s nothing like a smile to create a good first impression. A warm and confident smile will put both you and the other person at ease. So smiling is a winner when it comes to great first impressions. But don't go overboard with this - people who take this too far can seem insincere and smarmy, or can be seen to be "lightweights".Be Open and ConfidentWhen it comes to making the first impression, body language as well as appearance speaks much louder than words.Use your body language to project appropriate confidence and self-assurance. Stand tall, smile (of course), make eye contact, greet with a firm handshake. All of this will help you project confidence and encourage both you and the other person to feel better at ease.Small Talk Goes a Long Way…Conversations are based on verbal give and take. It may help you to prepare questions you have for the person you are meeting for the first time beforehand. Or, take a few minutes to learn something about the person you meet for the first time before you get together. For instance, does he play golf? Does she work with a local charitable foundation?Be PositiveYour attitude shows through in everything you do. Project a positive attitude, even in the face of criticism or in the case of nervousness. Strive to learn from your meeting and to contribute appropriately, maintaining an upbeat manner and a smile.Be Courteous and AttentiveIt goes without saying that good manners and polite, attentive and courteous behavior help make a good first impression. In fact, anything less can ruin the one chance you have at making that first impression. So be on your best behavior!One modern manner worth mentioning is “turn off your mobile phone”. What first impression will you create if you are already speaking to someone other than the person you are meeting for the first time? Your new acquaintance deserves 100% of your attention. Anything less and you’ll create a less than good first impression.From others’ success and failure in this aspect. If you find someone’s ideas and charm glow with the help of their gestures, for example, keep in mind where they come in; butwhen you find someone’s gestures add nothing but dullness to their speech, see to it that such a thing will not happen again to yours. And best of all, be sure to learn how to apply your skills of “eye contact and facial expressions” to where you show respect or liking for the views of others, and where you feel confidence in yourself.II. Text structure analysisThe passage is made up of 15 paragraphs, and, according to the pattern—“introduction-suggestion”—the author employs in his writing, it can be roughly divided into two parts.The author introduces the topic by listing and questioning.The author employs listing, exemplification and deduction to give a detailed explanation for the four secretsA. you are the message (para.3)1) physical appearance,2) energy,3) rate of speech,4) pitch and tone of voice,5) gestures,6) expression through the eyes,7) and the ability to hold the interest of othersB.Be yourself(1). It doesn’t work to try to impress others with your qualities such as striding into a room(2).The trick is to be consistently you, at your best. (Para.7)(3). Failure to be yourselfe your eyesMove your eyes comfortably; and smileD. lightening upIII. Detailed Study of the Text .Useful phrases and sentence structure1. Conscious a. noticing or realizing stheg. She was conscious of his guiltAwake and knowing what is happeningeg.He was badly hurt, but he was still consciouscon(with 带有)-sci(know 知道)-ous(的A.)常用词组be conscious of相关词语consciously consciousness近义词辨析Conscious 侧重内心的感知。

Unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression

Unit  4 How to Make a Good Impression

Part 2
Para. 3
Para. 4
Para. 4
statement
You are the message
a list of examples
physical apperance energy rate of speech pitch and tone of voice gestures expression through eyes
Tips
physical appearance, energy, rate of speech, pitch and tone of voice, gestures, …
You never get a second chance to make a first impression. Then, what can we do to make a good impression on others?
conclusion
When you were committed to what you were taling abut and so absorbed in the moment, you are making use of your own message.
Be yourself
Para. 6
failures to be yourself
Lighten up
Para. 12-13
Para.14
Para. 15
Put forward the advice
An example about how a person broke the stress of a very uncomfortable scene with humor.
instruction

新视野英语第一册U4笔记

新视野英语第一册U4笔记

新视野英语第一册U4笔记Unit4 Section A How to Make a Good Impression一、Main idea of the textWhen people want to make a good impression, the following advice can be of some help: you are the message; be yourself; use your eyes; and lighten up.二、Devices1. Listing (列举法)1)He gives his four pieces of advice on ―How to Make a GoodImpression‖by listing and expounding one after another:You are the message. (Para.3)Be yourself. (Para. 6)Use your eyes. (Para.10)Lighten up. (Para. 12)2) The writer supports his general statements very effectively through a list of examples, without having to go into details about them.Example 1: (His idea: We make up our minds about people within seven seconds of meeting them.)Think about some of your most unforgettable meetings: an introduction to your future spouse, a job interview, an encounter with a stranger. Focus on the first seven seconds. What did you feel and think? (L.5-6)2. Questioning(设问法)The writer presents and expounds his ideas by asking a list of questions, thus arousing an active echo in the reader’s mind, and then bringing the reader round to his ways of thinking.The Title:How to Make a Good ImpressionPart I:Focus on the first seven seconds. What did you feel andthink? How did you “read” the other per son? How do you think he read you? (Para. 2) Part II:Think of times when you know you made a good impression. What made you successful? (Para.5)Part II I:Take a good look at yourself. Do you say “I” too often? Are you usuallyfocused on your own problems? Do you complain frequently? If you answered yes to even one of these questions, you need to lighten up.(Para. 15)3. Exemplification (举例法)Exemplificati on is applied to make the author’s advice or opinion more authentic and persuasive. And it is employed in the second part of the article as follows:1)For 25 years I’ve worked with thousands who want to be successful. I’ve helped them make persuasive prese ntations, answer unfriendly questions, communicate more effectively. The secret has always been you are the message. (Para.3)4. Deduction (演绎法) (Para.6 – 11)三、Compatible Expressions1.对…的判断to make up one’s mind about sb. /sth.eg: It’s still premature to make up your mind about your future career.现在决定自己的未来职业为时尚早。

新视野大学生英语Unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression教案

新视野大学生英语Unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression教案

Unit 4 How to Make a Good ImpressionI.Aims and Requirements1、Students can remember the important words and phrases in the text.2、Students will know the ways to make a good impression.II.Important points:How to use the new words and the phrases in actual situations:impression,conscious,encounter,persuade,make up one’s mind, take…seriously,etc. III.Difficult points:The ways to make a good impression in actual situations.IV.Teaching method:Presentation——Practice——ProductionV.Teaching procedures:Part One: Lead-in1、Suppose you will attend a job interview tomorrow,what are the preparations will you make? (clothes; manner; appearance; eye contact; performance)——Dress formally;Keep polite;Keep a smile on your face;Keep sincere eye contact with all the judges. Confidence and Specialty.2、A good impression is very important to everybody, however,what we can do to make a good impression?Today, let’s learn something about this, it’s unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression.Part Two: Text StructurePart1----Paras.1~2Research shows we make up our minds about people through unspoken communication within seven seconds of meeting them.Part2----Paras.3~15Qualities that we can use to impress others:1)You are the message. (3~5)2) Be yourself. (6~9)3) Use your eyes.(10~11)4) Lighten up. (12~15)Detailed InformationPart1----Paras.1~2Research shows we make up our minds about people through unspoken communication within seven seconds of meeting them.Para. 1: What time do we make the most important impression on others?——the first seven seconds of meeting others.Para. 2: Examples to prove the points : Focus on the first seven seconds during an introduction to your future spouse,a job interview,etc.Part2----Paras.3~15Qualities that we can use to impress others:1)You are the message. (3~5)Para.3 You are the message.Para.4 A list of what your message is : physical appearance,energy,rate of speech,pitch and tone of voice,gesture,expression through the eyes,and the ability to hold the interest of others.Para.5 Conclusion: When you were committed to what you were talking about and so absorbed in the moment,you are making use of your own message.2) Be yourself. (6~9)Para.6 Be yourself. Against suggestions by many how-to books. It doesn’t work to try to impress others with your qualities such as striding into a room,greeting people with “power handshake”,etc.Para.7 The trick is to be consistently you,You should communicate with your whole being;and the tones of your voices and your gestures match your words.Para.8-9 Failure to be yourself: Public speakers often send mixed messages.They say that they are happy while they look angry,frightened or depressed. This will make the audience think that he’s not being honest.3) Use your eyes.(10~11)Para.10 Use your eyes. When you’re talking to others,always remember to look at them.Para.11 As you enter a room,move your eyes comfortably;then look straight at those in the room and smile. Smiling is important. It shows you are relaxed.4) Lighten up. (12~15)Para.12-13 Lighten up. The example is about how a person broke the stress of a very uncomfortable scene with humor.Para.14 The writer puts forward the advice: Lighten up. Those who fail to lighten up are either brooding or talking too much about themselves.Para15 Lightening up means to make others comfortable and make yourself appear comfortable. Then you would be able to make a good impression.[知识拓展] 生活中的礼仪:着装礼仪,走公路位置,走楼梯位置,汽车座次,国家领导人会议座次,餐桌座次。

新视野Unit4HowtoMakeaGoodImpression

新视野Unit4HowtoMakeaGoodImpression
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What are the keys to being the best person you can be?
Use your own message, use your eyes and lighten up.
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Introduction (Paras.1~2)
Research shows we make up our minds about people through unspoken communication within seven seconds of meeting people.
1) 艺术家聚精会神于自己的工作,以至于没有 听到来访者进了房间。
The artist was so absorbed in her work that she didn’t hear her visitor enter the room.
2) 她全神贯注阅读一本好书,以至于没有注意 到天都黑了。
She was so absorbed in reading the good book that she even didn’t notice it was completely dark outside.
1) 这个班级的学生年龄从17岁到20岁不等。
The ages of the students in this class _r_a_n_g_e_f_r_o_m_ 17 to 20.
2) 从给大学捐款到帮助老太太过 马路都是做好事。
A good deed may_r_a_n_g_e_f_r_o_m_ endowing a university to helping an old lady cross the street.
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What good qualities do you use if you want others to be with you and help you?

新视野大学生英语Unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression教案

新视野大学生英语Unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression教案

Unit 4 How to Make a Good ImpressionI.Aims and Requirements1、Students can remember the important words and phrases in the text.2、Students will know the ways to make a good impression.II.Important points:How to use the new words and the phrases in actual situations:impression,conscious,encounter,persuade,make up one’s mind, take…seriously,etc. III.Difficult points:The ways to make a good impression in actual situations.IV.Teaching method:Presentation——Practice——ProductionV.Teaching procedures:Part One: Lead-in1、Suppose you will attend a job interview tomorrow,what are the preparations will you make? (clothes; manner; appearance; eye contact; performance)——Dress formally;Keep polite;Keep a smile on your face;Keep sincere eye contact with all the judges. Confidence and Specialty.2、A good impression is very important to everybody, however,what we can do to make a good impression?Today, let’s learn something about this, it’s unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression.Part Two: Text StructurePart1----Paras.1~2Research shows we make up our minds about people through unspoken communication within seven seconds of meeting them.Part2----Paras.3~15Qualities that we can use to impress others:1)You are the message. (3~5)2) Be yourself. (6~9)3) Use your eyes.(10~11)4) Lighten up. (12~15)Detailed InformationPart1----Paras.1~2Research shows we make up our minds about people through unspoken communication within seven seconds of meeting them.Para. 1: What time do we make the most important impression on others?——the first seven seconds of meeting others.Para. 2: Examples to prove the points : Focus on the first seven seconds during an introduction to your future spouse,a job interview,etc.Part2----Paras.3~15Qualities that we can use to impress others:1)You are the message. (3~5)Para.3 You are the message.Para.4 A list of what your message is : physical appearance,energy,rate of speech,pitch and tone of voice,gesture,expression through the eyes,and the ability to hold the interest of others.Para.5 Conclusion: When you were committed to what you were talking about and so absorbed in the moment,you are making use of your own message.2) Be yourself. (6~9)Para.6 Be yourself. Against suggestions by many how-to books. It doesn’t work to try to impress others with your qualities such as striding into a room,greeting people with “power handshake”,etc.Para.7 The trick is to be consistently you,You should communicate with your whole being;and the tones of your voices and your gestures match your words.Para.8-9 Failure to be yourself: Public speakers often send mixed messages.They say that they are happy while they look angry,frightened or depressed. This will make the audience think that he’s not being honest.3) Use your eyes.(10~11)Para.10 Use your eyes. When you’re talking to others,always remember to look at them.Para.11 As you enter a room,move your eyes comfortably;then look straight at those in the room and smile. Smiling is important. It shows you are relaxed.4) Lighten up. (12~15)Para.12-13 Lighten up. The example is about how a person broke the stress of a very uncomfortable scene with humor.Para.14 The writer puts forward the advice: Lighten up. Those who fail to lighten up are either brooding or talking too much about themselves.Para15 Lightening up means to make others comfortable and make yourself appear comfortable. Then you would be able to make a good impression.[知识拓展] 生活中的礼仪:着装礼仪,走公路位置,走楼梯位置,汽车座次,国家领导人会议座次,餐桌座次。

大学英语新视野第二版第一册Unit_4_How_to_make_a_good_impression

大学英语新视野第二版第一册Unit_4_How_to_make_a_good_impression

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impression • • brood • interview lighten up •Phrases conscious and • • encounter take … •Expressions consciously • focus seriously • persuasion • unconsciously make up • selfpersuasive one’s mind • Proper Names • conscious range from …• • presentation Ailes • to self• physical … • appearance • consciousness focus on • drive attitude • rate sb. • crazy reaction • pitch range • at one’s best • tone introduction • gesture • communicate • with spouse • absorb
Q: What’s your interest ?
Q: Talk about your shortcomings. Q: Do you like your school ?
Q: How about your teachers ?
Remember
Be Prepared
Know your strengths and skills. Be ready to talk about them if not directly asked. Know the job you are applying for. Research the company.
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Unit4 课前预习(短语及句型)unit 4

Unit4 课前预习(短语及句型)unit 4

Unit 4 How to Make a Good ImpressionPart I Topics for Discussion1. How do we show our true feelings during the first seven seconds when we meetsomeone?2. Do you think first impression is important?3. What are the other 3 suggestions the author gives?Be yourself; Use your eyes; Lighten up.4. What does the writer want to tell us?He wants to tell us how to make a good impression.5. How does he make clear his story?a paragraph of a statement supported by a list of examples.6. How do you make a first good impression when you are having an interview?Part II Try to find the English equivalents of Chinese for the following phrases from the textbook:Part III Translate the following sentences:Para. 11.给人留下印象to make/leave an impression on sb.一般说来,你给周围人留下的印象正是你整体形象的反映。

in general / the impression one leaves on sb. / one’s whole being / a mirror ofIn general, the impression you have left on people around is just a mirror of your wholebeing.2.形成对某人的判断to make up one’s mind about sb只凭外表看人过于草率。

大学英语:Unit4 How to Make a Good Impression

大学英语:Unit4 How to Make a Good Impression

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复合听写
How to make good use of your body language
导入
课文
小结
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As is known to all, your body language plays an important role in impressing others, but how? Your positive image can be achieved through the appropriate clothes you wear and the well-dressed hairstyle you keep. And the improvement of your image should be also focused on the way you stand, the way you approach others, and the way you display your abilities. Furthermore, it is better to learn lessons
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复合听写
How to make good use of your body language
导入
课文
小结
写作
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from others’ success and failure in this aspect. If you find someone’s ideas and charm glow with the help of their gestures, for example, keep in mind where they come in; but when you find someone’s gestures add nothing but dullness to their speech, see to it that such a thing will not happen again to yours. And best of all, be sure to learn how to apply your skills of “eye contact and facial expressions” to where you show respect or liking for the views of others, and where you feel confidence in yourself.

Unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression

Unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression

Unit 4Section A How to Make a GoodImpressionMake a strong first impression: six tips that really workWe have all heard this warning: “You never get a second chance to make a good impression.”Also, psychologists, writers, and seminar leaders caution that we only have from seven to seventeen seconds of interacting with strangers before they form an opinion of us. With this widely acknowledged pressure to “make our case” instantly, here are six tips for making your first impression a positive one. 1.The greatest way to make a positive first impression is to demonstrate immediately that the other person, not you, is the center of action and conversation. Illustrate that the spotlight is on you only, and you’ll miss opportunities for friendships, jobs, loverelationships, networking, and sales. Show that you are other-centered, and first-time acquaintances will be eager to see you again.2.Closely related: You’ll make a superb initial impression when you demonstrate good listening skills. Give positive verbal cues: “Hmm…interesting!”“Tell me more, please.”“What did you do next?”Just as actors benefit from prompts, your conversational partner will welcome your assistance in keeping the exchange going. Nonverbally, you show you’re a skilled listener by maintaining steady eye contact. Remember how you respond to the social gadabout who appears to be looking over your shoulder for the next person he wants to corner. Remember, and avoid that habit.e the name of a new acquaintance frequently.“Judy, I like that suggestion.”“Your vacation must have been exciting, Fred.”You show that you have paidattention from the start, catching the name during the introduction. Equally as important, you’ll make conversations more personal by including the listener’s name several times.4.Be careful with humor. Although a quip or two might serve as an icebreaker, stay away from remarks that could bring about adverse results. Because you don’t know a stranger’s sensitivities, casual joking might establish barriers you can’t overcome, either now or later.5.Appearance counts. Several years ago, a professional colleague offered to meet me for lunch. I decided against wearing a suit, opting for a sport coat and tie. When he showed up in shorts and sandals, the message he conveyed was: “Bill, meeting you is a rather ordinary experience, and doesn’t call for me to present a business-like appearance.”Not surprisingly, that was the last time I met with him. True, standards forappropriate dressing have changed greatly. Maybe the best advice I can share came from a participant in a seminar I conducted. She said, “I don’t dress for the job I have now, I dress for the job I want to have.”6.As a communication specialist, I have to point out that an individual’s speaking style impacts the first impression, maybe more than we wish.Listeners judge our intelligence, our cultural level, our education, even our leadership ability by the words we select --- and by how we say them.Keep these six tips in mind. They will reduce your fear of business and social encounters with unfamiliar faces. More positively, you’ll start enjoying success that you thought were beyond your reach. Visit /Mai nCats/ASKTHEEXPERT/answer14.htm to get more tips for making a good impression.Language Points1.Research shows me we make up our minds about people through unspoken …. of meeting them.seven seconds when we meet someone, we form our opinion about him or her through unspoken communication.make up one’s mind: make a decision e.g. I haven’t made up my mind where to go yet.At the age of 18 she made up her mind to become a doctor.2.Consciously or unconsciously, we show our true …. , ranging from comfort to fear.Whether we are aware or unaware of it, we use our eyes, faces, bodies, and attitudes to express our feelings. This causes a sequence of various responses such as comfort and fear.range v.: vary between certain limitse.g. There are 100 students whose ages range from 15 to 20.Their costs ranged between $40 and $60 a day.3.interview n. & v.e.g. He made a good impression on the employer during the interview.The interview was reported in all papers.I’ll be interviewing two candidates today and three others tomorrow.4.encounter n. & v.e.g. An encounter between you and him will not serve any good purpose.I encountered many difficulties when I first started the job.5.focus one.g. I tried to focus my mind on my study.Today our meeting focuses on the question of children’s rights.6.reade.g. read a dreamread drawingread men’s heartsread one’s hand7.You are the message.Your eyes, face, body, and attitudes --- all the things send information about you to others.8.I’ve helped them make persuasive presentations….I’ve helped them give convincing speeches….persuasive adj.: able to make other people do or believe somethinge.g. the persuasive power of advertisingHis argument was persuasive, but they still turned down his proposal.9.You were committed to what you were talking about and so absorbed in the moment you lost all self-consciousness.You were giving all your attention to what you were saying andyou were so interested in it that you lost all your worries about what you looked like, how you behaved, and what others thought of you.be committed to: be willing to work very hard at somethinge.g. He is committed to the cause of language teaching.He is committed to supporting the achievements of women in industry.be absorbed in: be lost in; be indulged in e.g. Time passes quickly when you are absorbed in reading a good book.10.Many how-to books advise you to stride into a room and impress others with your qualities.on how to make a good impression tellyou to walk into a room with quick,long steps and make others feeladmiration and respect for your goodqualities.how-to adj.: (informal) giving information on how to do a particular thinge.g. While fixing the plumbing, he was reading the how-to book.impress v.: make sb. feel admiration and respecte.g. Your mature outlook impresses me to no end.Have I impressed you yet with my super wit and charm?11.They instruct you to greet them with “power handshakes”and tell you to fix your eyes on the other person.They teach you to givepeople strong handshakeswhen you say hello to themand tell you to look at theother person.fix one’s eyes on: look at a thing orpersone.g. All the people fixed their eyes onme, which made me feel veryembarrassed.His eyes were fixed on the distantmountain.12.drive sb. crazy/made.g. The endless music is driving me crazy.I can’t wait to get exam results. All this waiting is driving me crazy.13.The trick is to be consistently you, atyour best.The secret is to keep your behavior, attitude, and good qualities all the time and perform as well as you are able to.consistent: always keeping to the same pattern or style; unchanginge.g. She is a consistent girl in her feeling.at one’s best: in one’s best statee.g. At her best, she’s a really first-class dancer.He was never at his best early in the morning.14.….addressing their garden club……making a speech at their garden club…address vt.: make a speeche.g. The President addressed the Congress to review the past year and announced plans for the next.The Education Secretary had toaddress a crowd of teacherswho were negative aboutthe new changes ineducation.15.They communicate with their whole being; the tones of their voices and their gestures match their words.They communicate not onlywith their speech but alsowith their eyes, faces,bodies, attitudes, etc.; thetones of their voices andtheir gestures are consistentwith their words.match v.: be suitable for a particularperson, thing, or situatione.g. Courses are designed to match thetraining requirements ofeach student.Investment in hospitals is needednow to match the futureneeds.16.Public speakers, however, often send mixed messages.Public speakers, however,often send confusingmessages, that is, whatthey say does not agreewith what they do.17.The audience always believe what they see over what they hear.what they see with theirown eyes rather thanwhat they hear, that is,seeing is believing. 18.He’s not being honest.He is, for the present time, not saying things honestly.e.g. You’re being very silly.He is being polite.19.Some people start to say something ….. they break eye contact and look out the window.Some people look at youwhen they begin to saysomething, but after sayingonly three words or so,they stop looking into youreyes and look at somethingoutside the window.contact n.e.g. When the two chemicals come into contact, they explode.She hates physical contact of any sort.The children lost contact with their families.20.relax v.:e.g. The music will help to relax you.I just want to sit down and relax.relaxed adj.e.g. He was lying in the sun looking relaxed and happy.21.I disagree. If I did agree, I certainly wouldn’t look at my feet or at the ceiling.I’d keep my eyes on the lion!’t agree (that entering a room full of people is like going intoa lion’s cage). Suppose I agreed withsuch a thought, I would not look atmy feet or at the ceiling but lookcarefully at the people in the room.22.Lighten up.Become more relaxed and less serious.lighten v.: make or become more cheerful; make or become less heavy or forceful, etc.e.g. Good music can lighten our spirits.My mood gradually lightened.She lightened her load by getting rid of half of the items in her backpack.After three days of heavy wind,the storm began to lighten.lighten up: (used to tell someone) not to be so serious about somethinge.g. Oh, lighten up! I was only joking!23.Then the chairman threw back his head and roared with laughter.the chairman moved his head back and laughed loudly.24.take …seriously: think somebody or something is important and should be given attentione.g. It’s no kidding. You need to take it seriously.You take everything too seriously!ually they are either brooding ortalking a great deal about themselves.Very often, they are either thinking or worrying a lot or talking a lot about themselves.26.You already have within you the powerto make a good impression, because nobody can be you as well as you can.You now have the power tomake a good impression,because nobody can useyour good qualities as wellas you can.New Horizon College English (BookI)Unit 3 Tell me about your friends.I.Lead-in1.Who is your best friend? What makes thisfriend so special?2.What does “A friend in need is a friendindeed” mean to you?3.Do you have any long distancefriendships? How do you maintain them?4.Have you ever quarreled with a friend?Why?5.Your friend is having trouble in class andasks to copy your work. What should you do?II.Listening Skills --- Understanding Times and Dateslazybones: a lazy personbarbecue: an outdoor party with food cooked on a metal framenuclear: of, relating to, or forming anucleus of an atomIII.Listening Inremind: cause to rememberbond: something that joins people together, such as a shared feelingshow up: come; be presentenrich: improve the quality of something by adding something to itoutlast: last longer thanLanguage and Culture Tipanswering machine: a device connected to a telephone. In the absence of the person, it answers calls automatically and can record messages. This term is American; in Britain it is called an answer phone.academically: concerning studying, especially in a college or university socially: relating to activities that you do with other peoplecope with: deal successfully withlocal: of or in a certain place, especially the place one lives inbarrier: something which blocks the way or interferesoverseas: across the sea; abroad; foreigntend: take care of or care fordate: if you are dating someone of the opposite sex, you go out regularly with themtake turns: do one after another in proper orderexpense: cost of moneyLanguage and Culture Tipswho just isn’t into writing letters: who doesn’t like writing letters very muche-mail is her thing: e-mail is something that is very important to her and she is good at。

最新新视野Unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression

最新新视野Unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression

U41.impress sb with sth2.impression n.3.have/make a good impression on sbwith/by sthMaking a good impression on friends is important.4.conscious adj.He seems to be conscious of the danger.conscious lyun consciously conscious ness5.reaction n.a quick reaction to sb/sthreact to sb/sth6.range v.7.self-introduction v. introduce8. spouse9. interview interviewer intervieweevt.不期而遇;遭遇;对抗Every day of our lives,we encounter stresses of one kind or another. 我们在每天的生活中会面临这样或那样的压力。

Renata wrote him that she had encountered her long-estranged father.雷娜塔写信告诉他说她碰到了分离多年的父亲。

11. focusvt.& vi.(使)集中,n.焦点;影象的清晰度;(活动、注意力、兴趣等的)中心He is currently focusing on assessmentand development.他目前在关注评估和发展。

Today he was able to focus his message exclusively on the economy.今天他得以将主题全部集中在经济方面。

Her children are the main focus of her life.孩子们是她生活的重心。

unit 4 How to Make a Good Impression

unit 4  How to Make a Good Impression

Match:
be suitable for a particular person, thing, or situation 和...相一致,和...相配 Does this shirt match these trousers? 这件衬衫和裤子相配吗? We need to buy some chairs to match our dining table. 我们应买些与餐桌相配的椅子。
absorbed
: adj. so interested in sth. that one does not notice anything else 专注的; 全神贯注的 absorbed. 那个孩子似乎完全被吸引住了。 He was so absorbed in watching the children playing game that he forgot to buy vinegar.
contact :1. [U] a state in which two people or things touch each other 接触 The disease is spread by contact with animals. 这种疾病通过与动物的接触传播。 His fingers were briefly in contact with the ball. 他的手指触摸了一下球。 2. [U] communication with a person, organization, etc. 联系;交往 I‘ve lost contact with most of my schoolmates. 我已与我大多数校友失去了联系。 We stay in contact by email.
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Unit 4_给学生

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consistent
a consistent approach to the problem a consistent style
the consistent, unswerving support of family.
match
The doors were painted blue to match the walls. On occasion his inner thoughts and his outer actions
encounter
≈come across
At the beginning of their journey, they encountered an English couple.
encounter an old friend in the theatre It was the closest encounter with death I have ever had.
conscious
I was not conscious of having made a mistake. He became acutely conscious of having failed his
parents. I was vaguely conscious that I was being watched. unconscious 无意识 They found him lying unconscious on the floor She is unconscious of the effect she has on people. n. consciousness subconsciousness 潜意识
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1. 不管是有意识还是无意识,人们往往用眼神、 面部表情、形体动作和态度表露真情,从而使 他人产生包括从舒适到害怕的一连串反应。 2. 想想你与一个陌生人的偶遇,把注意力集中在 最初的七秒钟。你当时有何感想,你是如何 " 解读" 解读"他的呢? 3.当时你全身心地投入到了自己正在谈论的事情 3.当时你全身心地投入到了自己正在谈论的事情 中,是那么专注,以至于完全没有感觉到害羞。 4. 演说家常常传递着混合不清的信息,但听众总 是相信亲眼所见胜于耳闻。 5. 如果你想要给人留下好印象,其决窍在于始终 如一地保持自我,你最佳的自我。
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爸爸帮助我保持了平衡。 爸爸帮助我保持了平衡。 他腿瘸的厉害,个子很矮。 他腿瘸的厉害,个子很矮。 你按你的速度走,我跟着你。 你按你的速度走,我跟着你。 现在回想起来我感到十分惊叹, 现在回想起来我感到十分惊叹,一个成年 人需要多大的勇气才能经受如此的屈辱和 压力! 压力! 有一次在一个沙滩聚会上发生了一场殴斗, 有一次在一个沙滩聚会上发生了一场殴斗, 人人都挥拳上阵,互相推撞。 人人都挥拳上阵,互相推撞。 第二天,人们跟他开玩笑说, 第二天,人们跟他开玩笑说,第一次听到 拳击手在开打之前,就有人要求他服输。 拳击hat does ‘unspoken communication’ communication’ (Paragraph 1)? 1) 2. Explain what this subtitle means -You are the message. (Paragraph 3)
3. What does how-to books advise you to howdo in order to make a good impression? 4. What does the writer think of these suggestions? What is the trick to impress others according to him? 5. Explain the italicized parts: --They communicate with their whole --They being. (Paragraph 7) --Public speakers often send mixed --Public messages. (Paragraph 8)
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