辩题《得而复失比求之不得更可悲》一辩稿

辩题《得而复失比求之不得更可悲》一辩
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英文回答：
I am the first speaker of the affirmative side, and I firmly believe that "it is sadder to lose what one has gained than to fail to obtain what one desires." There are several reasons to support my stance on this issue.
First and foremost, the feeling of losing something
that was once in your possession is incredibly disheartening. Take, for example, a student who has worked tirelessly to achieve top grades in school. After putting
in countless hours of studying and sacrificing leisure time, they finally achieve their goal of getting straight A's. However, due to unforeseen circumstances, their grades
begin to slip, and they end up losing the very thing they worked so hard to attain. This situation is undeniably more tragic than if the student had never achieved those high grades in the first place.
Moreover, the emotional attachment to something that is gained and then lost is much stronger than the longing for something one has never had. Imagine a person who falls deeply in love with someone, only to have that love torn away from them. The pain and heartache of losing that love are far greater than the yearning for love that has not yet been found.
In addition, the experience of loss often comes with a sense of regret and self-blame. When we fail to obtain something we desire, we may feel disappointed, but we can easily move on and try to find something else. However, when we lose something we have worked hard for, we are plagued by thoughts of "what if" and "if only." This self-inflicted emotional turmoil is far more distressing than the mere longing for something out of reach.
In conclusion, the sorrow and regret that come with losing something that was once in our grasp outweigh the disappointment of not obtaining what we desire. The emotional attachment and the sense of loss make it sadder
to lose what one has gained than to fail to obtain what one desires.
中文回答：
作为正方辩手，我坚信“得而复失比求之不得更可悲”。

有几个理由支持我的观点。

首先，失去曾经拥有的东西的感觉是令人沮丧的。

举个例子，一个学生为了在学校取得优异成绩而不懈努力。

经过无数个小时的学习和牺牲休闲时间，他终于实现了获得全A的目标。

然而，由于不可预见的情况，他的成绩开始下滑，最终失去了他曾经努力获得的东西。

这种情况无疑比学生一开始就没有取得高分更加悲惨。

此外，对于得到然后失去的东西的情感依恋要比对于从未拥有过的渴望更强烈。

想象一下，一个人深深地爱上了某人，却最终失去了那份爱。

失去那份爱的痛苦和心痛远比对爱的渴望更加强烈。

另外，失去的经历往往伴随着后悔和自责。

当我们未能得到自己渴望的东西时，我们可能会感到失望，但我们可以轻易地继续寻找其他东西。

然而，当我们失去我们努力获得的东西时，我们被“如果”和“要是”的想法所困扰。

这种自我造成的情感煎熬远比
对于一直得不到的渴望更加痛苦。

总之，失去曾经掌握的东西所带来的悲伤和后悔超过了未能得到自己渴望的东西所带来的失望。

情感依恋和失去感使得失去曾经拥有的东西比未能得到自己渴望的东西更加可悲。