中美文化差异英文版
示范课英语版中美文化差异
Taoism
Lao Zi
Buddhism
Shakyamuni
Confucianism
• Confucianism (儒家; pinyin: Rújiā) is a Chinese ethical and philosophical system developed from the teachings of Confucius (Kǒng Fūzǐ, lit. "Master Kong", Confucius 551–478 BC). • It is a complex system of moral, social, political, philosophical, and quasi-religious thought that has had tremendous influence on the culture and history of East Asia.
SINO---AMERICA CULTURAL DIFFERENCE
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中美文化差异英文版
02
CATALOGUE
Cultural Concepts in China and the US
In Chinese culture, there is a strong condition of respect and deferring to Elders, who are seen as repositories of wisdom and experience
American Cultural Concepts
Gift Giving Etiquette
When giving gifts in China, it is important to present them with both hands to show respect It is also customary to decline a gift once or two before accepting it
Chinese Cultural Concepts
Collectivism
Chinese culture emphasizes the importance of the group over the individual Harmony and cooperation within society are valued over personal achievements
03
CATALOGUE
Values and Beliefs
（完整版）中美文化差异英语作文
（完整版）中美⽂化差异英语作⽂Differences Between Chinese Culture and American CultureI have been living in China for twenty years. I was born in JiangSu province, and also grew up in there. My family members were from different parts of China. My mom’s hometown is at the Huabei plain which is the north side of The Yellow River. However, my father grew up in Nanjing, the famous city which locates beside the Yangzi River.Most of people in southern China are used to have rice as their daily main food resource, but northern China mostly has wheat. But no matter which part of China, meat is not the major food for us. Chinese people always believe that rice, wheat, vegetable, fruit are the best for our health. In contrast, meat would give more troubles to our health, for example, heart attack, high blood pressure, and etc.But people in America, mostly have meat as their food resource. The most important is that they mostly have beef, chicken, shrimp, turkey, instead of pork and lamb. In restaurants, you can easily find hamburger, steak, ribs with a little rice and a piece of bread. I believe that the food style gives American people much more energy than we have. They are much stronger than us. That is the fact!I have heard of an interesting story about Yao Ming, who is one of the famous NBA player right now. During his first season in NBA, millions of people are attracted by his height and his cute smile. However, he is not strong enough to play NBA game yet! He ever told the reporter that he likes to have soup that his mom makes for him. Soup could not help him, only steak, cheese, butter could make him stronger and gives him more energy. In order to increase his competition, he has to be used to American food style!“Custom is the great guide of human life”, wrote Scottish philosopher David Hume. Knowing the customs of a country is, in effect, a guide to understanding the soul of that country and its people. As a foreign language leaner, we should know the culture in our target language’s country. Only in this way, we can really learn the language well. People express their culture through traditions in food, clothing, recreation, and ceremonies; through the education system and institutions of learning, including museums and libraries; and through the arts, encompassing the visual, literary, and performing arts. As a result, we will talk about the differences from some aspects.First, I will mention the addressing. In China, we will put the family names before our given names, and then in order to express our politeness, we would like to add “sir” or “lady” or their title after the name. On contrast, in America, people would like to put their family names after their given names and first names and they will put Mr., Mrs., Miss, Ms, Dr. orProf. before their names. It is foremost and first for us to know these differences so that we won’t make misunderstandings. And then we will talk about time conceptions. In America, their living beat is quite fast, so they consider time is quite precious. So, when they accept an invitation, they would try their best not to be late, but they also don’t go early to the inviters’, as this is considered to be impolite, and it seems to disturb the inviters’ preparation. In China, we should also not be late for the inviters. However, in order to show our thanks and politeness, we would go to the inviters’ house to help them prepare the meals and then we will have a happy time together.To open a conversation, people in different countries have different ways. In China, when people meet their friends by chance, they will say.” Where are you going?” or “ have you eaten?” and then they will go on talking about other things. But if you do this in America, you will be misunderstood that you want to invite him or her. Americans would like to say,”beautiful day, isn’t it?”to open a conversation even sometimes it is raining. It is not because the Americans can predict the weather but for the sake of customs.Let me come to the aspect of eating. Chopsticks are used for all meals in China. Food is placed at the center of the table and may include more than one type of main dish to be eaten with rice. All the food will be shared by all the persons and won’t be divided into several helps. While in America, they would use forks and knives for their meals. Every person has his own dishes and they won’t share one dish together. They think this is quite hygienic and they will enjoy their meals comfortably. However, what they eat is not so healthy, because they would like to eat a lot of meat and something with high calorie. Maybe it is good for them to obtain more fibers and keep a healthy body.Finally, I would like to mention something about the difference in marriage. Besides the ceremony for marriage has obvious difference----Americans will hold it in a church, while Chinese will hold it in a hotel inviting their relatives and friends to have dinner----their marriage notion has quite a lot of differences, too.From all these aspects, we can think of many differences in values, such as the notion of social statues, collectivism and socialism, the treatments to children and so on. In fact, we cannot say which one is right, which one is wrong, as we all know Americans and Chinese are not in the same group, people on the opposite side of the globe can never achieve the thousandth part of the group on the other side of the globe. What we should do is to learn the difference, and then we canreally learn the difference well.。
中美文化差异英文版
1.美国人的自我意识和独立意识很强。
Self-awareness and independent consciousness of Americans are very strong.2.美国文化鼓励人民开拓创新，做一番前人未做过的、杰出超凡的事业。
In America, innovation often is encouraged and people often do something nobody has done.3.美国基础教育实践，注重创造的教学形式.American education based on practice, pay attention to teaching form of creation.4. 中国的家庭结构比较复杂，传统的幸福家庭是四代同堂。
China's family structure is more complex, the traditional happy family is four generations.5. 中国人的婚姻相对来说比较稳定。
这是因为中国人把婚姻当作一个严肃的道德问题，喜新厌旧，或是第三者插足都会被认为是极不道德的。
The Chinese marriage is relatively stable. Because Chinese people treat marriage as a serious moral problem, propensity or a third people involvement is considered highly unethical.6. 新中国虽已建立了六十年，但传统的君臣，父子等级观念在中国人的头脑中仍然根深蒂固。
The traditional manner, parent-child hierarchical remains entrenched in the Chinese mind.7. 主动帮助别人或接受别人帮助在西方常是令人难堪的事。
描写中美文化差异的大学英语作文
描写中美文化差异的大学英语作文English:One major cultural difference between China and the United States is the concept of individualism versus collectivism. In the US, individualism is highly valued, with emphasis placed on personal achievement and independence. People are encouraged to express their opinions and pursue their own goals. On the other hand, in China, collectivism is prominent, with a strong emphasis on family and community. Harmony and conformity are valued, and individuals are expected to prioritize the needs of the group over their own desires. This fundamental difference in cultural values can be seen in various aspects of life, including social interactions, decision-making processes, and attitudes towards authority.Chinese:中国和美国之间的一个主要文化差异是个人主义与集体主义的概念。
在美国，个人主义受到高度重视，强调个人成就和独立性。
人们被鼓励表达自己的观点并追求自己的目标。
中美文化差异,英语作文
中美文化差异,英语作文篇一：中西文化差异比较（英文）The difference between chinese and western cultureWith the rapidly challging word, people throughout the world have found it increasingly necessary to minimize the rate of misunderstanding due to miscommunication in their contacts with another. In the oast most human beings were born, lived, and died within a limited geoographical area, never encountering people of other cultural backgrounds. It might be said that technological advances have been most effective in creating the borderless word, the global community. As our world shrinks and its inhabitants become interdependent, people from remot cultures increasingly come into contact on a daily basis. It is no longer hard to find situations in which membes of ince isolared groups of people. Now these people may live thousands of miles away or right next door to each other. So all the people are faced with the challenge of understand this world. So when the east meet west, there are many problems. Some problems are listed as follows.First of all, the way of eating. All huaman beings havecertain basic needs. Our fundamental needs for things that keep us alive.This is the physioligical need. All individuals must eat in order to survive. But what people eat, when they eat, and the manners in which they eat are all patterned by culture. No society views everything in its environment that is edible and might provide nurishment as food. Americans eat oysters but not snail. The French eat snails but not locusts. The Jews eat fish but not pork. The Hindus eat pork but not beef. The Russiand eat beef but not snake. We all have ideas about what kinds of food are good to eat. We also have ideas about what kinds of food are bad to eat. As a result, people from one culture often think the food that people from another culture eat are disgusting or nauseating. Dislike is not the only reason why some culture will not eat a certain food. In some clture, certain foods are taboo. Sometimes the food taboos may be so strong thrat just the thought of eating forbidden foods can cause an indivdual to feel ill. We can also find culture difference in way of bring up children treating the early, greeting each other, saying and spending money before other people do in everyday, but in some English-speaking countries, people do not agree with us. We chinese may enjoy somethingthat is not usually consider as edible by the English-speaking people. Generally we perfer to have thing hot and much emphasis on the taste. We eat from one plate when we are eating with others, and we like to seat one by one, and in the shapeof a round. On the opposite, some English-speaking contries, most of the people like to seat in two rows, two people face to face. They have their own plate. On the aspect of table manners, there are many differences between chinese andEnglish-speaking people. For example, in some Englishi-speakingc ountries, Bread plates are to the left of the main plate, beverage glasses are to the right. Salad fork, knife and soup spoon are further from the main plate than the main course knife, fork and spoon. When eating bread rolls, break off a piece before buttering. Use the knife only to butter the bread, not to cut it. They should not start eating before your host does or instructs to do so. At larger meals, it is considered okay to start eating once others have been served. When finished, place the knife and fork together at five o'clock with the fork on the left. It is considered rude to answer the telephone at the table. If need to take an urgent call, excuse self and go outside. Try to eat all the food you are served. But in China, the table manners are different. Chinesetraditionally eat rice from a small bowl held in the left hand. The rice bowl is raised to the mouth and the rice pushed into the mouth using the chopsticks. Some Chinese find it offensive to scoop rice from the bowl using a spoon. If rice is served on a plate, as is more common in the West, it is acceptable and more practical to eat it with a fork or spoon. The thumb must always beabove the edge of the bowl. The host should always make sure the guests drinks are sufficiently full. One should not pourfor ones self, but should offer to pour for a neighbor. When your drink is being poured, you should say "thank youand tap fingers on the table to show appreciation. When people wish to clink drinks together in the form of a cheer, it is important to observe that younger members should clink the edge of their drink below the edge of an elder to show respect.Secondly, the way of communication. Form birth to death, communication plays an integral part in our life. There are some language problems, including the different styles of using language such as direct, indirect; expansive, succinct; argumentative, conciliatory; instrumental, harmonnizing; and so on. These different styles can lead to wrong interpretations of intent and evaluation of insincerity, aggreeiveness,deviousness, or arrogance, among other. The misinterpretation nonverbal signs and symbols such as gestures, postures, and other body movements. It is a definite communication barrier. But it is possible to learn the meanings of these observable message,usually in informal rather ways. It is more difficultto understand the less obvious unspoken codes of the other cultures. Language, as the carrier of culture, is created during the process of human beings' productive labor and serves as the toolof communication to convey the message between people. However, it has been endowed with magic and power in particular language acts. As the old saying goes, troubles come out of the tongue. Superstitious people think that the language itself can bring about fortune or misfortune so that taboos to restrict the use of language are created. Anyone who violates them will get punishment, whereas those who faithfully obey the restrictions of language taboo will get protection. Furthermore, linguistic taboos change with the development of society .The paperfirstly analyzes the evolution of linguistic taboo. It is indicated in the paper that linguistic taboo exists in almost every aspect of peopl'es life and is a universal social phenomenon in China and Britain. Both Chinese and Englishcultures are in agreement about linguistic taboos such as pronunciation taboo, and vocabulary taboo. However, influenced by different cultural backgrounds, ideologies and the concepts of value, Chinese and English linguistic taboos also have differences, as is discussedi n the paper from the aspects of taboo subjects, taboo numbers and names. At last, this paper puts forward two effective ways of avoiding taboo, that is, using euphemism and having a good knowledge of the taboo culture. And this discussion would help English learners improve their ability of cross-cultural communication and achieve better communicational effects. For example, During the feudal times, people were not equal to the rulers and were suppressed by their superiors. The distinction between the upper and the lower classes was also reflected in the evaluation of the language used by them respectively. The words of upper class used were considered good and elegant while those used by the lower class were regarded as vulgar and indecent and should be avoided in the speech of ladies and gentlemen. In modern society, as a result of the development of science and technology, many natural phenomena are no longer mysterious. Human beings not only constantly improve their abilities to exploit the world where they are living throughtheir great wisdom and knowledge, but also make efforts to explore the extraterrestrial world. Science has much more say in today ' s society. Thereby, the superstitious elements in linguistic taboos decrease while those reflecting spiritual civilization increase.In short, by comparison, we can find that both Chinese and English communication reflect people's psychology for good will, for safety and fortune and pleasantness. The Chinese and English people restrict their words and deeds through taboos, trying to keep a harmonious relationship between human and nature, or between people and society. They are a reflection of people' s pursuit offreedom and equality.The most important, the different way of family structure, family values and family education. Family structure is the big difference between east and west, traditional chinese, amony many other Asians, repect their elders and feel a deep sense of duty toward them. Children repay their parents` sacrifices by being successful and supporting them in old age. This is accepted as a natural part of life in China. In contrast, taking care of aged parents is often viewed as a tremendous burden in the English-speakingc ountries, where aging andfamily support are not honored highly. In some English-speakingc ountries are still extrmely family-oriented. They are dedicated to helping their children and will sacrifice greatly for their children to get an edcuation. In turn, the children are devoted to their parents, who often live nearby. Grown children who go away and leave the country for the economic reasons typically send large parts of their salary home totheir parents and the rest of the family. Or in some Asia, any decisions or actions are done from family consideration, not individual desires. Peope`s behavior is judged on whether it brings shame or pride to the family. The children are trained to rely on their families, to honor elderly people, and to fear foreigners. And many of them think that their actions in this life will influencetheir status in the next life.The way of family edcation is also the different. We all know the family education is the elementary education for children. Many serious problems have appeared in our education system in recent years. Almost everyone has realized the importance of solving these problems and many people have presented a lot of valuable suggestions. There are many types of family education in the world and each of them shows distinctive features and isclosely responsive to its culture. And American family education is the most famous one among them. There are great differences in the concepts of education, methods of education and results of education between East family education and West family education. In some English-speaking countries,paren'tsaims are to train their children to have the ability of adapting to environmental variety and the ability of living independently. Based on this concept, most American parents emphasize more to train their children' s ability of independence once they are born. They generally believe that children' s growth must rely on their own experiences, because they think that children should form a self-supporting will and the capacity to live independently since their childhood. And the capacity comes from the training in the early age. The so-called training contains many aspects, such aswork, temper will, patience, the spirit of hard work, etc. However, the most fundamental training is the ability of adapting to hard conditions. Through the process of work, children will form the labor sense, learn some work skills and form a habit of labor. Besides, children can learn how to overcome difficulties, temper their willpower, develop their talents and skills, rich their knowledge, and form a habit ofhard work and thrifty by working in hard conditions. It is just in the unconsciously process that children will obtain the independent survivability and take the responsibilities for the society. Compared with some English-speakingc ountries, Chinese parents have a very different concept of children' s education. Some parents in China only care about whether the children have a promising future, a good job, a good life or not. Based on these expectations, the majority of parents feel that their responsibility for their children is to create as good conditions as possible they can so that the children will not worry about anything in the future. Chinese parents would like to provide everything what they can for their children in the process of children' s growth. In short, they would like to sacrifice anything if their children can live better with their help. Therefore, in the process of children' s growth, the most important thing the parents concerning is to developing their children' s intellect, except forcaring children' s daily life. In order to make their children have a good performance in study, become outstanding, or even become a famous person in the future, they would not let children do anything except studying. As for the childre'n s independence, civic awareness and their ability adapting to thesociety in the future, they consider little or not at all. From these aspects we can find the obvious differences of family education between America and China.When we faced with those difference between West and East, we should give some advice to solve these problems. According to the three big difference that pointed, we should find some way to deal with these problems.We can study other languages and learn to expect in nonvwebal forms and other cultural aspects. We can train ourselves to meet intercultural encounters with more attention to situation details. We can use an investigative approach rather than stereotypes and preconceptions. We can gradually expose ourselves to differences so that they become less threatening. We can even learn to lower our tension level when needed to advoid triggering defensive reactions. The overall goal should be to achieve intercultural communication competence.So the ideal solution to reduce the problems are to share knowledge with others in communication. This is why it is easiest to communicate with other members of the same group. This is why people so often gather together socially with others who are very much like them. Since intercultural communication is communication with members of differentcultual groups, and therefore, because we do not share knowledge, assumptions, values, and forms of discourse with them, we must expect there to be problems of interpretation. We must look for these problems, anticipate where they will arise out of our differences, and then plan our aommunications to be as effective as possible.However, we have to remember that, most of the time, the different ways that are the customs of dfferent cultures are neither right nor wrong. It is simply that different people do the same tings in different manners, even though we can not understand ,we should show the respect. I believe this is the best way to make our life become more comfortable and make the world more harmonious.篇二：中美文化对比（大学英语作文）Chinese Education Is SuperiorThe born of a baby is considered as a blessing to a family, while the family education will in turn leave a brand on the baby ' s future. I was born in a Chinese family with western education system. I 'mwell respected. I'm growing up without any fence. Butreflecting on my personal upbringing, I can tell you with certainty that Chinese Education is superior.Firstly, in a regulated Chinese family, the rules for family are the core of its education system, which could ensure children staying away from some bad habits. The rules Chua set up contributed to her children' s promising victory over long turn. But in my family, there is no such notion. At my formative year, I could stay up late enough to embrace the suise. Consequently, I always suffered from drowsiness at class. Worse still, my poor eyesight due to it has become a handicap to me. Therefore, Chinese strict rules are necessary, especially for a young child.Secondly, grade, nowadays, is an important scale to value a student's ability. Chua never allowed here children to get any grade less than an A. The pressure from the parent pushed her children to absorbedly focus on their study so that they could meet with her expectation. Gradually, her children would enjoy the privilege of mastering all the subjects. By way of contrast, when I failed in my exam, my parents feigned nonchalance about the result of the exam. No blame. No punishment. I still could read my comic book like a carefree girl. Taking their infinite tolerance for granted, I didn' t even feel sorry for my poor grades next time.Thirdly, it is common for me to complain about everything. Whythere is so much homework? Why I should take the exams? Why my efforts refuse to pay off? It seemed that I couldn' t bear the whole world. But Chua said No complain, which means herchildren must be decisive and independent enough to push their way through all the difficulties. Traditional Chinese education tells us you fight or you die. That is the essence of life.All in all, Chinese education is superior, because it equips children with armor before the war, which has been proved to be the best way to protect them from self-defeating in the battlefield.Words count：381Differences Between Chinese Culture and American CultureI have been living in China for twenty years. I was born in JiangSup rovince, and also grew up in there. My family members were from different parts of China. My mom 's hometown is at the Huabei plain which is the north side of The Yellow River. However, my father grew up in Nanjing, the famous city which locates beside the Yangzi River.Most of people in southern China are used to have rice astheir daily main food resource, but northern China mostly has wheat. But no matter which part of China, meat is not the majorfood for us.Chinese people always believe that rice, wheat, vegetable,fruit are the best for our health. In contrast, meat would give more troubles to our health, for example, heart attack, high blood pressure, and etc.But people in America, mostly have meat as their food resource. The most important is that they mostly have beef, chicken, shrimp, turkey, instead of pork and lamb. In restaurants, you can easily find hamburger, steak, ribs with a little rice and a piece of bread. I believe that the food style gives American people much more energy than we have. They are much stronger than us. That is the fact!I have heard of an interesting story about Yao Ming, who is one of the famous NBA player right now. During his first season in NBA, millions of people are attracted by his height and his cute smile. However, he is not strong enough to play NBA game yet! He ever told the reporter that he likes to have soup that his mom makes for him. Soup could not help him, only steak, cheese, butter could make him stronger and gives him more energy. In order to increase his competition, he has to be used to American food style!“ Custom is the great guide of human life” , wroteScottish philosopher David Hume. Knowing the customs of a country is, in effect, a guide to understanding the soul ofthat country and its people. As a foreign language leaner, we should know the culture in our target language' s country. Only in this way, we can really learn the language well.People express their culture through traditions in food, clothing, recreation, and ceremonies; through the education system and institutions of learning, including museums and libraries; and through the arts, encompassing the visual, literary, and performing arts. As a result, we will talk about the differences from some aspects.First, I will mention the addressing. In China, we will put the family names before our given names, and then in order to express our politeness, we would like to add “sir” or“ lady” or their title after the name. On contrast, in America, people would like to put their family names aftertheir given names and first names and they will put Mr., Mrs., Miss, Ms, Dr. orProf. before their names. It is foremost and first for us to know these differences so that we won't make misunderstandings.And then we will talk about time conceptions. In America, their living beat is quite fast, so they consider time is quiteprecious. So, when they accept an invitation, they would try their best not to be late, but they also don' t go early to the inviters', as this is considered to be impolite, and it seems to disturb the inviters'preparation. In China, we should also not be late for the inviters. However, in order to show our thanks and politeness, we would go to the inviters' house to help them prepare the meals and then we will have a happy time together.To open a conversation, people in different countries have different ways. In China, when people meet their friends by chance, they will say.” Where are you going?” or “ have you eaten?” and then they will go on talking about other things. But if you do this in America, you will be misunderstood that you want to invite him or her. Americans would like to say”, beautiful day, isn't it?” to open a conversation even sometimes it is raining. It is not because the Americans can predict the weather but for the sake of customs.Let me come to the aspect of eating. Chopsticksa re used for all meals in China. Food is placed at the center of the table and may include more than one type of main dish to be eatenwith rice. All the food will be shared by all the persons and won't be divided into several helps. While in America, theywould use forks and knives for their meals. Every person has his own dishes and they wo'nt share one dish together. They think this is quite hygienic and they will enjoy their meals comfortably. However, what they eat is not so healthy, because they would like to eat a lot of meat and something with high calorie. Maybe it is good for them to obtain more fibersand keep a healthy body.Finally, I would like to mention something about thedifference in marriage. Besides the ceremony for marriage has obvious difference Americans will hold it in a church, while Chinese willhold it in a hotel inviting their relatives and friends to have dinner - their marriage notion has quite a lot of differences, too.From all these aspects, we can think of many differences in values, such as the notion of social statues, collectivism and socialism, the treatments to children and so on. In fact, we cannot say which one is right, which one is wrong, as we all know Americans and Chinese are not in the same group, people on the opposite side of the globe can never achieve the thousandth part of the group on the other side of the globe. What we should do is to learn the difference, and then we can reallylearn the difference well.。
中美文化差异,英语作文
中美文化差异,英语作文篇一：中西文化差异比较(英文)The difference between chinese and western cultureWith the rapidly challging word, people throughout the world have found it increasingly necessary to minimize the rate of misunderstanding due to miscommunication in their contacts with another. In the oast most human beings were born, lived, and died within a limited geoographical area, never encountering people of other cultural backgrounds. It might be said that technological advances have been most effective in creating the borderless word, the global community. As our world shrinks and its inhabitants become interdependent, people from remot cultures increasingly come into contact on a daily basis. It is no longer hard to find situations in which membes of ince isolared groups of people. Now these people may live thousands of miles away or right next door to each other. So all the people are faced with the challenge of understand this world. So when the east meet west, there are many problems. Some problems are listed as follows.First of all, the way of eating. All huaman beings have certain basic needs. Our fundamental needs for things that keep us alive.This is the physioligical need. All individuals must eat in order to survive. But what people eat, when they eat, and the manners in which they eat are all patterned by culture. No society views everything in its environment that is edible and might provide nurishment as food. Americans eat oysters but not snail. The French eat snails but not locusts. The Jews eat fish but not pork. The Hindus eat pork but not beef. The Russiand eat beef but not snake. We all have ideas about what kinds of food are good to eat. We also have ideas about what kinds of food are bad to eat. As a result, people from one culture often think the food that people from another culture eat are disgusting or nauseating. Dislike is not the only reason why some culture will not eat a certain food. In some clture, certain foods are taboo. Sometimes the food taboos may be so strong thrat just the thought of eating forbidden foods can cause an indivdual to feel ill. We can also find culture difference in way of bring up children treating the early, greeting each other, saying and spending money before other people do in everyday, but in some English-speaking countries, people do not agree with us. We chinese may enjoy something that is not usually consider as edible by the English-speaking people. Generally we perfer to have thing hot and much emphasis on the taste. We eat from one plate when we are eating with others, and we like to seat one by one, and in the shapeof a round. On the opposite, some English-speaking contries, most of the people like to seat in two rows, two people face to face. They have their own plate. On the aspect of table manners, there are many differences between chinese and English-speaking people. For example, in some Englishi-speaking countries, Bread plates are to the left of the main plate, beverage glasses are to the right. Salad fork, knife and soup spoon are further from themain plate than the main course knife, fork and spoon. When eating bread rolls, break off a piece before buttering. Use the knife only to butter the bread, not to cut it. They should not start eating before your host does or instructs to do so. At larger meals, it is considered okay to start eating once others have been served. When finished, place the knife and fork together at five o’clock with the fork on the left. It is considered rude to answer the telephone at the table. If need to take an urgent call, excuse self and go outside. Try to eat all the food you are served. But in China, the table manners are different. Chinese traditionally eat rice from a small bowl held in the left hand. The rice bowl is raised to the mouth and the rice pushed into the mouth using the chopsticks. Some Chinese find it offensive to scoop rice from the bowl using a spoon. If rice is served on a plate, as is more common in the West, it is acceptable and more practical to eat it with a fork or spoon. The thumb must always beabove the edge of the bowl. The host should always make sure the guests drinks are sufficiently full. One should not pour for ones self, but should offer to pour for a neighbor. When your drink is being poured, you should say "thank youand tap fingers on the table to show appreciation. When people wish to clink drinks together in the form of a cheer, it is important to observe that younger members should clink the edge of their drink below the edge of an elder to show respect.Secondly, the way of communication. Form birth to death, communication plays an integral part in our life. There are some language problems, including the different styles of using language such as direct, indirect; expansive, succinct; argumentative, conciliatory; instrumental, harmonnizing; and so on. These different styles can lead to wrong interpretations of intent and evaluation of insincerity, aggreeiveness, deviousness, or arrogance, among other. The misinterpretation nonverbal signs and symbols such as gestures, postures, and other body movements. It is a definite communication barrier. But it is possible to learn the meanings of these observable message,usually in informal rather ways. It is more difficult to understand the less obvious unspoken codes of the other cultures. Language, as the carrier of culture, is created during the process of human beings’productive labor and serves as the toolof communication to convey the message between people. However, it has been endowed with magic and power in particular language acts. As the old saying goes, troubles come out of the tongue. Superstitious people think that the language itself can bring about fortune or misfortune so that taboos to restrict the use of language are created. Anyone who violates them will get punishment, whereasthose who faithfully obey the restrictions of language taboo will get protection. Furthermore, linguistic taboos change with the development of society .The paper firstly analyzes the evolution of linguistic taboo. It is indicated in the paper that linguistic taboo exists in almost every aspect of people’s life and is a universal social phenomenon in China and Britain. Both Chinese andEnglish cultures are in agreement about linguistic taboos such as pronunciation taboo, and vocabulary taboo. However, influenced by different cultural backgrounds, ideologies and the concepts of value, Chinese and English linguistic taboos also have differences, as is discussed in the paper from the aspects of taboo subjects, taboo numbers and names. At last, this paper puts forward two effective ways of avoiding taboo, that is, using euphemism and having a good knowledge of the taboo culture. And this discussion would help English learners improve their ability of cross-culturalcommunication and achieve better communicational effects. For example, During the feudal times, people were not equal to the rulers and were suppressed by their superiors. The distinction between the upper and the lower classes was also reflected in the evaluation of the language used by them respectively. The words of upper class used were considered good and elegant while those used by the lower class were regarded as vulgar and indecent and should be avoided in the speech of ladies and gentlemen. In modern society, as a result of the development of science and technology, many natural phenomena are no longer mysterious. Human beings not only constantly improve their abilities to exploit the world where they are living through their great wisdom and knowledge, but also make efforts to explore the extraterrestrial world. Science has much more say in today’s society. Thereby, the superstitious elements in linguistic taboos decrease while those reflecting spiritual civilization increase.In short, by comparison, we can find that both Chinese and English communication reflect people’s psychology for good will, for safety and fortune and pleasantness. The Chinese and English people restrict their words and deeds through taboos, trying to keep a harmonious relationship between human and nature, or between people and society. They are a reflection of people’s pursuit offreedom and equality.The most important, the different way of family structure, family values and family education. Family structure is the big difference between east and west, traditional chinese, amony many other Asians, repect their elders and feel a deep sense of duty toward them. Children repay their parents` sacrifices by being successful and supporting them in old age. This is accepted as a natural part of life in China. In contrast, taking care of aged parents is often viewed as a tremendous burden in the English-speaking countries, where aging and family support are not honored highly. In some English-speaking countries are still extrmely family-oriented. They are dedicated to helping their children and will sacrifice greatly for their children to get an edcuation. In turn, the children are devoted to their parents, who often live nearby. Grown children who go away and leave the country for the economic reasons typically send large parts of their salary home to their parents and the rest of the family. Or in some Asia, any decisions or actions are done from family consideration, not individual desires. Peope`s behavior is judged on whether itbrings shame or pride to the family. The children are trained to rely on their families, to honor elderly people, and to fear foreigners. And many of them think that their actions in this life will influencetheir status in the next life.The way of family edcation is also the different. We all know the family education is the elementary education for children. Many serious problems have appeared in our education system in recent years. Almost everyone has realized the importance of solving these problems and many people have presented a lot of valuable suggestions. There are many types of family education in the world and each of them shows distinctive features and is closely responsive to its culture. And American family education is the most famous one among them. There are great differences in the concepts of education, methods of education and results of education between East family education and West family education. In some English-speaking countries, parents’aims are to train their children to have the ability of adapting to environmental variety and the ability of living independently. Based on this concept, most American parents emphasize more to train their children’s ability of independence once they are born. They generally believe that children’s growth must rely on their own experiences, because they think that children should form a self-supporting will and the capacity to live independently since their childhood. And the capacity comes from the training in the early age. The so-called training contains many aspects, such aswork, temper will, patience, the spirit of hard work, etc. However, the most fundamental training is the ability of adapting to hard conditions. Through the process of work, children will form the labor sense, learn some work skills and form a habit of labor. Besides, children can learn how to overcome difficulties, temper their willpower, develop their talents and skills, rich their knowledge, and form a habit of hard work and thrifty by working in hard conditions. It is just in the unconsciously process that children will obtain the independent survivability and take the responsibilities for the society. Compared with some English-speaking countries, Chinese parents have a very different concept of children’s education. Some parents in China only care about whether the children have a promising future, a good job, a good life or not. Based on these expectations, the majority of parents feel that their responsibility for their children is to create as good conditions as possible they can so that the children will not worry about anything in the future. Chinese parents would like to provide everything what they can for their children in the process of children’s growth. In short, they would like to sacrifice anything if their children can live better with their help. Therefore, in the process of children’s growth, the most important thing the parents concerning is to developing their children’s intellect, except forcaring children’s daily life. In order to make their children have a good performance in study, become outstanding, or even become a famous person in the future, they would not let children do anything except studying. As for the children’s independence, civic awareness and their ability adapting to thesociety in the future, they consider little or not at all. From these aspects we can find the obvious differences of family education between America and China.When we faced with those difference between West and East, we should give some advice to solve these problems. According to the three big difference that pointed, we should find some way to deal with these problems.We can study other languages and learn to expect in nonvwebal forms and other cultural aspects. We can train ourselves to meet intercultural encounters with more attention to situation details. We can use an investigative approach rather than stereotypes and preconceptions. We can gradually expose ourselves to differences so that they become less threatening. We can even learn to lower our tension level when needed to advoid triggering defensive reactions. The overall goal should be to achieve intercultural communication competence.So the ideal solution to reduce the problems are to shareknowledge with others in communication. This is why it is easiest to communicate with other members of the same group. This is why people so often gather together socially with others who are very much like them. Since intercultural communication is communication with members of different cultual groups, and therefore, because we do not share knowledge, assumptions, values, and forms of discourse with them, we must expect there to be problems of interpretation. We must look for these problems, anticipate where they will arise out of our differences, and then plan our aommunications to be as effective as possible. However, we have to remember that, most of the time, the different ways that are the customs of dfferent cultures are neither right nor wrong. It is simply that different people do the same tings in different manners, even though we can not understand ,we should show the respect. I believe this is the best way to make our life become more comfortable and make the world more harmonious.篇二：中美文化对比(大学英语作文)Chinese Education Is SuperiorThe born of a baby is considered as a blessing to a family, while the family education will in turn leave a brand on the baby’s future. I was born in a Chinese family with western education system. I’mwell respected. I’m growing up without any fence. But reflecting on my personal upbringing, I can tell you with certainty that Chinese Education is superior.Firstly, in a regulated Chinese family, the rules for family are the core of its education system, which could ensure children staying away from some bad habits. The rules Chua set up contributed to her children’s promising victory over long turn. But in my family, there is no such notion. At my formative year, I could stay up late enough to embrace the suise. Consequently, I always suffered from drowsiness at class. Worse still, my poor eyesight due to it has become a handicap to me. Therefore, Chinese strict rules are necessary, especially for a young child.Secondly, grade, nowadays, is an important scale to value a student’s ability. Chua never allowed here children to get any grade less than an A. The pressure from the parent pushed her children to absorbedly focus on their study so that they could meet withher expectation. Gradually, her children would enjoy the privilege of mastering all the subjects. By way of contrast, when I failed in my exam, my parents feigned nonchalance about the result of the exam. No blame. No punishment. I still could read my comic book like a carefree girl. Taking their infinite tolerance for granted, I didn’t even feel sorry for my poor grades next time.Thirdly, it is common for me to complain about everything. Why there is so much homework? Why I should take the exams? Why my efforts refuse to pay off? It seemed that I couldn’t bear the whole world. But Chua said No complain, which means her children must be decisive and independent enough to push their way through all the difficulties. Traditional Chinese education tells us you fight or you die. That is the essence of life.All in all, Chinese education is superior, because it equips children with armor before the war, which has been proved to be the best way to protect them from self-defeating in the battlefield.Words count：381篇三：中美文化差异英语作文Differences Between Chinese Culture and American CultureI have been living in China for twenty years. I was born in JiangSu province, and also grew up in there. My family members were from different parts of China. My mom’s hometown is at the Huabei plain which is the north side of The Yellow River. However, my father grew up in Nanjing, the famous city which locates beside the Yangzi River.Most of people in southern China are used to have rice as their daily main food resource, but northern China mostly has wheat. But no matter which part of China, meat is not the major food for us.Chinese people always believe that rice, wheat, vegetable, fruit are the best for our health. In contrast, meat would give more troubles to our health, for example, heart attack, high blood pressure, and etc.But people in America, mostly have meat as their food resource. The most important is that they mostly have beef, chicken, shrimp, turkey, instead of pork and lamb. In restaurants, you can easily find hamburger, steak, ribs with a little rice and a piece of bread. I believe that the food style gives American people much more energy than we have. They are much stronger than us. That is the fact!I have heard of an interesting story about Yao Ming, who is one of the famous NBA player right now. During his first season in NBA, millions of people are attracted by his height and his cute smile. However, he is not strong enough to play NBA game yet! He ever told the reporter that he likes to have soup that his mom makes for him. Soup could not help him, only steak, cheese, butter could make him stronger and gives him more energy. In order to increase his competition, he has to be used to American food style!“Custom is the great guide of human life”, wrote Scottish philosopher David Hume. Knowing the customs of a country is, in effect, a guide to understanding the soul of that country and itspeople. As a foreign language leaner, we should know the culture in our target language’s country. Only in this way, we can really learn the language well.People express their culture through traditions in food, clothing, recreation, and ceremonies; through the education system and institutions of learning, including museums and libraries; and through the arts, encompassing the visual, literary, and performing arts. As a result, we will talk about the differences from some aspects.First, I will mention the addressing. In China, we will put the family names before our given names, and then in order to express our politeness, we would like to add “sir”or “lady”or their title after the name. On contrast, in America, people would like to put their family names after their given names and first names and they will put Mr., Mrs., Miss, Ms, Dr. orProf. before their names. It is foremost and first for us to know these differences so that we won’t make misunderstandings.And then we will talk about time conceptions. In America, their living beat is quite fast, so they consider time is quite precious. So, when they accept an invitation, they would try their best not to be late, but they also don’t go early to the inviters’, as this is considered to be impolite, and it seems to disturb the inviters’preparation. In China, we should also not be late for the inviters. However, in order to show our thanks and politeness, we would go to the inviters’house to help them prepare the meals and then we will have a happy time together.To open a conversation, people in different countries have different ways. In China, when people meet their friends by chance, they will say.”Where are you going?”or “have you eaten?”and then they will go on talking about other things. But if you do this in America, you will be misunderstood that you want to invite him or her. Americans would like to say,”beautiful day, isn’t it?”to open a conversation even sometimes it is raining. It is not because the Americans can predict the weather but for the sake of customs.Let me come to the aspect of eating. Chopsticks are used for all meals in China. Food is placed at the center of the table and may include more than one type of main dish to be eaten with rice. All the food will be shared by all the persons and won’t be divided into several helps. While in America, they would use forks and knives for their meals. Every person has his own dishes and they won’t share one dish together. They think this is quite hygienic and they will enjoy their meals comfortably. However, what they eat is not so healthy, because they would like to eat a lot of meat and something with high calorie. Maybe it is good for them to obtain more fibersand keep a healthy body.Finally, I would like to mention something about the difference in marriage. Besides the ceremony for marriage has obvious difference----Americans will hold it in a church, while Chinese will hold it in a hotel inviting their relatives and friends to have dinner----their marriage notion has quite a lot of differences, too. From all these aspects, we can think of many differences in values, such as the notion of social statues, collectivism and socialism, the treatments to children and so on. In fact, we cannot say which one is right, which one is wrong, as we all know Americans and Chinese are not in the same group, people on the opposite side of the globe can never achieve the thousandth part of the group on the other side of the globe. What we should do is to learn the difference, and then we can really learn the difference well.。
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The Cultural Differences Between Chinese and American1. The Vision of Self（自我的视野）o Unlike Americans, the Chines tend not to value individuality. The view of oneself is based on a group, whether in family or government. The United States promotesself-reliance and individuality and places a great deal of emphasis on freedom.Chinese sees suffering humility as virtue and a true test of life, whereas in the UnitedStates one who faces humility is considered weak.o与美国不同，中国没有价值的个性。
认为自己是以一组，无论是在家庭或政府。
美国促进自力更生和个性，着重于自由。
中国人看重痛苦谦卑的生活是美德的，真正的生活，而在美国面临谦卑是懦弱的。
Family and Friendso In Chinese culture, the family plays an extremely important role in everyday life.Children are expected to learn their knowledge and respect from their family eldersand respect their wisdom. When it comes to friendships, Chinese culture placesemphasis on a small and close group of friends obligated to help one another in timesof need. In the United States, children learn the importance of independence fromtheir families and he ability to survive on their own. Many American children learn torespect those who have achieved success and wealth. An individual's circle of friendsin the United States is more of a "collection"; the more friends an American has, themore successful he tends to feel. American culture places less value than Chineseculture on friendships.在中国文化中，家庭在日常生活中起着极其重要的作用。
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Sino-AmericanCultureDifference（中美文化差异）Sino-American Cultural Differences（中美文化差异）1. Americans don’t spit in restaurants or on the floors indoor even on the sidewalk. If you must spit, spit into a trash can.2. No pushing. When waiting in line, don’t push your way to the front. Wait in an orderly fashion.3. While eating, chew your food with your mouth closed.4. Don’t take things out of your mouth and put them on the table. If you have to take some food out of your mouth put it in your napkin.5. Don’t litter. L ittering may incur a fine of up to 40,000RMB. This includes anything, even candy wrappers.6. American names are GIVEN NAME then FAMILY NAME. Americans will introduce themselves by their first names, such as “Tom Edison”is called“Tom”.7. Don’t ask people about their salary without asking if its OK first.8. Don’t tell people they are fat people.9. Pointing is considered rude, don’t point.10. Don’t ask older women their age.11. Don’t make negative statements about racial minor ities. All people in America are equal. Americans are Americans regardless of skin color.12. All drinks will be served cold, including water. Boiled water is not common, but you can drink the water right from the tap.13. Don’t interrupt a person spea king.14. You can ask people or their parents what they do for a living (What job do they do?)15. Don’t talk in movie theaters.16. Americans need more personal body space than Chinese.17. Touching an American person while talking to them makes them very uncomfortable. Keep your hands to yourself until you get to know them.18. When same sex individuals hold hands, Americans think this is very strange. There is a lot of Homophobia in America.19. At streetlights wait for the light to change before crossing the street.20. It is very important for you to ask questions during class.。
中美文化差异外文文献
中美文化差异外文文献Below are some references to foreign literature on cultural differences between China and the United States:1. Bond, M. H. (1988). The Psychology of the Chinese People. Oxford University Press.2. Hu, S., & Rau, P. (2004). Communication patterns in Chinese and American cultures. In H. D. Orel & U. D. Teichler (Eds.), Student mobility and narrative in Europe: The new strangers (pp. 87-100). Sense Publishers.3. Nisbett, R. E. (2003). The geography of thought: How Asians and Westerners think differently... and why. Simon and Schuster.4. Yang, K. S. (1981). Social orientation and individual modernity among Chinese students: A case in Taiwan. Journal of Social Psychology, 115(2), 185-191.5. Chen, C. (1995). The influence of Confucianism on organizational behavior and management practices in China. Journal of Management Development, 14(5), 47-55.6. Kim, Y. Y. (2001). Becoming interculturally competent through education and training. In D. Landis, J. M. Bennett, & M. J. Bennett (Eds.), Handbook of intercultural training (3rd ed., pp. 71-88). SAGE Publications.7. Gudykunst, W. B., & Kim, Y. Y. (2004). Communicating with strangers: An approach to intercultural communication. McGraw-Hill.8. Hofstede, G., & Hofstede, G. J. (2005). Cultures and organizations: Software of the mind. McGraw-Hill.9. Liu, X. (2004). Comparative cultural values between Chinese and Americans: An exploration based on Hofstede's dimensions. Cross Cultural Management: An International Journal, 11(2), 30-49.10. Zhu, Y. (2006). Studying Chinese cultural differences: A review and proposed research agenda. Journal of International Consumer Marketing, 18(3), 69-81.。
中美文化差异 英文版
Chinese people like to drink tea
Americans like to drink coffee
If you are in China, it is not rare to see that a crowd of people throng in the supermarket, trying to get service first. People in China do line up, the scholar said in a humorous tone, but they prefer to line up at a horizontal way.
In China, when people meet ,In order to express friendly they will shake hands with each other
In American，embrace instead of shaking hands
Dining tools
Chinese use chopsticks Americans use fork and knife.
lucky number
chinese lucky number means dead
USA lucky number; God use seven days to made the world,and created Adam. Removed Adam‘s seventh rib made Eve. 7 means sunday.
In contrast, Americans always line up, no matter in a big bank or a small grocery store. And they take it for granted. Lining up has long since become part of their life that they scarcely doubt it or grow impatient while doing it.
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中美文化差异（CultureDifference）中美文化差异(Culture Difference):种族National raceThe whole question of the changing role of Blacks in American society as been the subject of newspaper articles around the world so frequently that visitors to the United States do not know what to expect when they arrive. They may be surprised when they see that Blacks and Whites work side by side in offices , factories , and schools across the country . The majority of Blacks in the United States, however, live in and around only a small number of American cities.Many dark-skinned visitors arrive in the United States fearing personal attack or expecting various degrees of racial prejudice. Some forms of discrimination still exist ,unfortunately, especially in the areas of the housing , schools , and jobs . The school equality is still more a dream than a reality. There are still too many areas of the country where Black Americans do not enjoy the same full opportunities as White Americans . However, the vast majority of American s are working, studying, and sharing public places together. This was not true even a few years ago in some parts of the country, but progress is steadily being made. You will be able to observe the improvement in race relations as soon as your plane lands . You will see it in the airport, in public buses and trains , in theaters , restaurants , rest room, in sops and libraries , in offices and factories . Close personal friendships between Blacks andWhites , full trust and social relationships are still not common , except in certain areas,However, even in this - the slowest area of progress-there has been change , especiallyamong young people.文化差异(Culture Difference):财富与特权Wealth and PrivilegeOwning cars , large houses , or swimming pools mean different things in different cultures and may confuse a visitor to the United States . In many nations , only the rich have such things as cars and swimming pools ; the poor have very little.By contrast, this is not true in the United States . The cost of certain things that only the rich can afford in other countries is relatively low. This means that laborers , farmers , and people who are not usually regarded as rich nevertheless have many possessions tat only the rich have in other nations . Understandably a visitor may assume that all Americans who own cars are as rich as people in his own country who own cars . Actually , this is not the cases; secretaries, university students , factory workers or farmers can and do buy cars and many other "expensive " things . Generally , they pay for these possessions gradually , during a period of many months , or even years , so that the cost each most is not too high in relation to their monthly wages .文化差异(Culture Difference):个人的进步Personal ProgressIn many parts of the world , personal influence is essential in achieving success. This is not true in the United States, where success usually results from hard work , education, skill, and personal initiative , America is truly a"do-it-yourself" society ; success is not dependent on family origins or the help of an influential person . Personal progress is the result of individual effort.Because effort and initiative are so important in America ,there are many customs that may be different from those practiced in other countries. For example , it is not considered dishonorable to quit a job, even if you have had it for only a short time . Moving from job-to -job , or "job-hopping ", as it is called , is quite acceptable in the United States. Frequently , the opportunity to change jobs offers workers a chance to move up to a better position. Americans like to move from place to place trying new jobs, meeting new people and living in different parts of the country. "Job-hopping" also gives employers a chance to benefit from the new ideas and skills that different people bring to their jobs even if such people are employed for only a short time.文化差异(Culture Difference):真实还是礼貌？Truth or Courtesy ?Just as the degree of individual freedom that exists in America seems loose and therefore uncomfortable to many visitors . In many countries , people will tell you what they think you want to here , whether or not itis true. To them , this is the polite thing to do. To Americans it is considered confusing -even dishonest -to avoid telling the true facts. even if avoiding the truth is done only to be polite . It is helpful to remember that different cultures consider some matters more important than others . Wit Americans , however, trust and truth are most important. One of the worst tings that can be said about someone in America is that " you cannot trust him"Considering such differences in values among the many cultures of the world, it is natural that misunderstandings [1] will occur. "How far is it to the next town?" an American asks a man standing by the edge of a road. In some countries , because theman realizes the traveler is tired and eager to reach the next village, he will politely say , ' Just down the road ". He thinks this is more encouraging, gentler, and therefore the answer the traveler wants to hear. So the American drives alone for many more hours before he comes to the village. The traveler is angry, feeling "tricked". He thinks that the man has purposely lied to him because he must have know quite will well what the distance was.If a visitor to the United States asked an American standing at the edge of a road how far the next town was, the American would think it dishonest if he said it was near when he knew it was really 24 miles away. Although he, too, would be sympathetic with the tired traveler , he would say, "You have a long way to go yet ; it is at least 24 miles more. " Thetraveler might be disappointed , but he would know what to expect, and there would be no misunderstanding.文化差异(Culture Difference):美国社会正在改变American Society is ChangingIn many nations , everyday activities are done in a planned , orderly manner. For example , formal relationships among people may be determined according to customs and habits that have existed for a long time . People visiting an informal country , such as the United States , may find that the American belief in personal initiative or freedom (including the freedom to disagree with those in authority ), and the whole economic system is quits confusing and uncontrolled . To some visitors such freedoms are too "loose" and too disorganized to be comfortable.Today , the United States is experiencing great change in every part of society ;therefore life in America may indeed seem confused . Social attitudes are being questioned . Americans arewondering: "Is there any morality ?""Why has the nation never given all of its citizens full opportunity ?""What courses should be taught in school?""What is the role of women in society ? "As visitors , you will notice that some Americans are beginning to leave the cities and make their homes in small cities and towns where life is quieter and slower . Political beliefs are changing . The kinds of skills needed by workers today differ from those in demand several years ago.文化差异(Culture Difference):权威AuthorityIn many countries , authority is seldom , if ever, questioned , either because it is highly respected , or because it is feared . Sometimes , too, Because rank has been important in certain societies for a long time, people have been trained never to question those in authority .. For example , children are not expected to question their teachers in school .It may be considered improper for young businessmen to suggest ideas that differ from those of older, more experienced members of the business.In other countries, including America, children are trained to question and search for answers . When a child asks a question, he will often be told to go to the library and find the answer for himself. By the time students reach the age of 14 or 15, they may be developing exciting new ideas in all fields of science and the arts . To encourage such creativity [1] , there are many national prizes offered to students , every year for their scientific discoveries and artistic accomplishments.This interest in questioning and searching may be considered by some people as bad for young people's manners , that young people lack respect for authority . This impression may be createdwhen visitors notice young Americans asking questions and arguing with older people . However , this is because many Americans have a different attitudetoward authority than may exist in other areas of the world . In a work or business situation, ideas are freely and openly discussed and argued. It is important to remember tat it is the person's ideas that are being questioned, not the individual himself..The two are quite separate. The purpose of the searching , questioning , and arguing is to find the facts in a particular situation, and therefore a solution, so that the work of the business can progress in the most effective manner possible.As was mentioned earlier, you may notice the some questioning in social conversations . Although some individuals may think that Americans are rude because of their direct manner with people, they are merely trying to learn more about your ideas.文化差异(Culture Difference):Table Manners: a Cultural DifferenceFor many Westerners, the Chinese dinner table is terra incognita([拉]未发现的地域). There are no forks or knives for the Westerners to use. The Chinese host makes great, sweeping（大范围的）arm movements that go over large sections of the table passing over both food and friends alike. The scene is fantastic （非常好的）, but it leaves many foreigners at a loss（让……迷惑）for what to do. In most Western restaurants and homes there are rules about how to talk, eat and sit that are highly restrictive（受限制的）, and they create an atmosphere（气氛）that is completely different from what we find here in China. In my childhoodhome, dinner was enjoyed with hushed(压低声音的) voices,and the topics open for discussion were very much restricted. We were not allowed to bring up anything that was potentially unappetizing（倒胃口的）; body functions（上洗手间）, bugs, murder and mayhem（使人肢体伤残的行为）in general were all strictly forbidden topics. If I had to leave the table to use the toilet, I had to verbally excuse myself without mentioning what it was that I was going to do. "May I be excused, please?I need to wash my hands." I would say.My mother would say, "Sure." My father would often play a joke on us by saying, "Your hands don't look dirty to me!"As for eating, we did it quietly. No eating noises were allowed.Everything must be done as quietly as possible. Therefore, we had to eat with our mouths closed. To make a "smacking" noise was, perhaps, the worst offence possible. While drinking soup or coffee or wine "slurping"（咕嘟咕嘟地喝）was also forbidden. If any sound whatever was created by our intake of food or beverage（饮料）, it constituted（构成）bad manners! With that in mind, it was, of course, unthinkable to speak with one's mouth full of food, so speaking only occurred（发生）before or after one had taken in food and swallowed（吞咽）it.How one sits at the table is also prescribed（被规定的）. One is to sit up straight with the recessive（非主导的，隐性的）hand (usually the left) in one's lap holding a napkin（餐巾）while the dominant hand (usually theright) holds the fork or spoon. The only time one is allowed to have both hands on the table is when one is using a knife to cut something, but as soon as the cutting is done, the recessive hand goes back to the lap. Also, elbows（肘）are not allowed on the table. Therefore, one props（撑着）the arm against the edge of the table just below the elbow. One should never reach for（伸手拿）any food on the table; one should ask someone sitting near it to give it to you. "Would you please pass the potatoes?" "May I trouble you for the salt?" These are phrases that you are likely to hear on any given night of the week at a family dinner.When a guest comes from the West to enjoy a meal with you, it would be a good idea for you to explain to your guest what will happen at dinner and to find out if a fork would be easier to use than chopsticks（筷子）. In my time in China, I have come to enjoy Chinese table manners far more than those prescribed by my own culture, but for many it is impossible to adjust（适应）. The best policy is to ask your guest questions to find out what he or she is comfortable with.文化差异(Culture Difference):社会SocietyThe United States, like other countries has its rich and poor people , its rich and poor neighborhoods.Americans love --- and many are themselves living examples of ---the "self-made man. "You will hear this expression often. But forevery person who is successful. They are usually better educated tan their parents and therefore more likely to have good, well paying jobs.In addition to the fact that the United States includes people whose families originally came from many other parts of the world , Americans move across the nation in great numbers. One study reported that one of every five families in the United States moves every three years. This continuous mixing of people into new communities is an important observation to consider when trying to understand the meaning of class in America. We have already discussed the questioning, "do-it -yourself" Americanpersonality that is another important consideration.In many countries, a man's social class is determined at birth . That is , his social class or position is shared with his family , his wider group of relatives . In the United States , position in society is , to a large degree, personal rather than related to family or group.Before World War Two, family ties were more important America than they are now. Uncles, aunts grandparents , and children vacationed together, spent holidays together, and saw much of each other. But as the American economy developed more rapidly after the war, social customs began to change. With the rapidly growing economy, there were new employment opportunities, many of them in scientific fields. These opportunities were often located in other parts of the country. The younger members of many families who were will educated began tomove away from the towns where their families lived to tale these new jobs. As these young people became successful, they often moved into a new social stratum [1], consisting of others who, like themselves, moved away from home to follow job opportunities.These same changes are already happening in most new countries around the world. Today, a man who can read or fix a machine may become the new leader of his community in place of an older person. Often young people can better understand the new sciences and modern skills ; as these young people learn and advance , their wages rise and they become increasingly successful.Frequently, it is just one member of a family that becomes very successful. Other members continue working at theiraverage jobs and salaries, without much chance of becoming as successful as the son or daughter. When this happens, people sometimes become separated from their family. Many return to visit, but others move away never to return to their relatives and old friends.To many people, success means having more power than one possessed before. It can be won through skill, knowledge , leadership, or sometimes just by hard work .In America, "success" has normally bee accompanied by an increase in wealth. As a result, an individual 's social position is determined both by a person's job and by the kinds of possessions he owns .As we said , however, young people are in the process of developing different values and different ways to measure success.[1] stratum n. [地] 地层, [生](组织的)层, 社会阶层。
(完整版)中美文化差异英语作文
Differences Between Chinese Culture and American CultureI have been living in China for twenty years. I was born in JiangSu province, and also grew up in there. My family members were from different parts of China. My mom’s hometown is at the Huabei plain which is the north side of The Yellow River. However, my father grew up in Nanjing, the famous city which locates beside the Yangzi River.Most of people in southern China are used to have rice as their daily main food resource, but northern China mostly has wheat. But no matter which part of China, meat is not the major food for us. Chinese people always believe that rice, wheat, vegetable, fruit are the best for our health. In contrast, meat would give more troubles to our health, for example, heart attack, high blood pressure, and etc.But people in America, mostly have meat as their food resource. The most important is that they mostly have beef, chicken, shrimp, turkey, instead of pork and lamb. In restaurants, you can easily find hamburger, steak, ribs with a little rice and a piece of bread. I believe that the food style gives American people much more energy than we have. They are much stronger than us. That is the fact!I have heard of an interesting story about Yao Ming, who is one of the famous NBA player right now. During his first season in NBA, millions of people are attracted by his height and his cute smile. However, he is not strong enough to play NBA game yet! He ever told the reporter that he likes to have soup that his mom makes for him. Soup could not help him, only steak, cheese, butter could make him stronger and gives him more energy. In order to increase his competition, he has to be used to American food style!“Custom is the great guide of human life”, wrote Scottish philosopher David Hume. Knowing the customs of a country is, in effect, a guide to understanding the soul of that country and its people. As a foreign language leaner, we should know the culture in our target language’s country. Only in this way, we can really learn the language well. People express their culture through traditions in food, clothing, recreation, and ceremonies; through the education system and institutions of learning, including museums and libraries; and through the arts, encompassing the visual, literary, and performing arts. As a result, we will talk about the differences from some aspects.First, I will mention the addressing. In China, we will put the family names before our given names, and then in order to express our politeness, we would like to add “sir” or “lady” or their title after the name. On contrast, in America, people would like to put their family names after their given names and first names and they will put Mr., Mrs., Miss, Ms, Dr. orProf. before their names. It is foremost and first for us to know these differences so that we won’t make misunderstandings.And then we will talk about time conceptions. In America, their living beat is quite fast, so they consider time is quite precious. So, when they accept an invitation, they would try their best not to be late, but they also don’t go early to the inviters’, as this is considered to be impolite, and it seems to disturb the inviters’ preparation. In China, we should also not be late for the inviters. However, in order to show our thanks and politeness, we would go to the inviters’ house to help them prepare the meals and then we will have a happy time together.To open a conversation, people in different countries have different ways. In China, when people meet their friends by chance, they will say.” Where are you going?” or “ have you eaten?” and then they will go on talking about other things. But if you do this in America, you will be misunderstood that you want to invite him or her. Americans would like to say,”beautiful day, isn’t it?”to open a conversation even sometimes it is raining. It is not because the Americans can predict the weather but for the sake of customs.Let me come to the aspect of eating. Chopsticks are used for all meals in China. Food is placed at the center of the table and may include more than one type of main dish to be eaten with rice. All the food will be shared by all the persons and won’t be divided into several helps. While in America, they would use forks and knives for their meals. Every person has his own dishes and they won’t share one dish together. They think this is quite hygienic and they will enjoy their meals comfortably. However, what they eat is not so healthy, because they would like to eat a lot of meat and something with high calorie. Maybe it is good for them to obtain more fibers and keep a healthy body.Finally, I would like to mention something about the difference in marriage. Besides the ceremony for marriage has obvious difference----Americans will hold it in a church, while Chinese will hold it in a hotel inviting their relatives and friends to have dinner----their marriage notion has quite a lot of differences, too.From all these aspects, we can think of many differences in values, such as the notion of social statues, collectivism and socialism, the treatments to children and so on. In fact, we cannot say which one is right, which one is wrong, as we all know Americans and Chinese are not in the same group, people on the opposite side of the globe can never achieve the thousandth part of the group on the other side of the globe. What we should do is to learn the difference, and then we can really learn the difference well.。
中美文化的差异英语作文
中美文化的差异英语作文China and the United States, two of the world's most influential nations, boast rich and diverse cultures that have been shaped by their unique histories, philosophies, and social norms. While both cultures have their own merits, understanding the differences between them can foster greater mutual respect and cooperation. This essay will explore the distinctive cultural differences between China and the United States in terms of social interactions, family values, education, and work ethics.Social InteractionsIn China, social harmony is highly valued, and interactions are often characterized by a sense of formality and respect for hierarchy. The concept of "mianzi" (face) is crucial, where individuals strive to maintain a positive social reputation. In contrast, American culture encourages direct communication and individualism. Americans tend to be more open and expressive, valuing personal freedom and the right to express one's opinions openly.Family ValuesThe family unit plays a central role in both cultures, but the dynamics differ significantly. Chinese culture places a strong emphasis on filial piety, where respect for elders and ancestors is paramount. The family structure is oftenextended, with multiple generations living together or in close proximity. In the United States, the nuclear family is more common, and there is a greater emphasis on individual achievements and independence from an early age.EducationEducation is a cornerstone in both China and the U.S., but the approach to learning and the role of education in society differ. Chinese education is often more structured and exam-oriented, with a strong focus on rote memorization and academic excellence. The U.S. educational system, while also valuing academic success, tends to encourage critical thinking, creativity, and a more holistic approach to learning.Work EthicsWorkplace culture reflects the broader cultural values of each nation. In China, there is a strong emphasis on loyalty to the company and the importance of maintaining relationships, or "guanxi," with colleagues and clients. The American workplace, on the other hand, often prioritizes efficiency, competition, and personal initiative. Americans are encouraged to seek advancement and change, which can lead to more job mobility.ConclusionThe cultural differences between China and the United States are vast and multifaceted. Recognizing these differences isnot to suggest that one culture is superior to the other, but rather to highlight the unique characteristics that make each culture distinct. As the world becomes increasingly interconnected, understanding and appreciating these differences can lead to more effective communication and collaboration on the global stage.In conclusion, while both cultures share common goals such as social stability, family unity, educational excellence, and professional success, the means by which they achieve these goals are influenced by their cultural heritage. Embracing these differences can lead to a more nuanced and respectful international dialogue.。
中美文化的差异英语作文
When comparing the cultures of China and the United States,one can observe a myriad of differences that stem from their distinct histories,philosophies,and social structures.Here are some key aspects where these cultural differences manifest:munication Styles:Chinese culture tends to be more indirect in communication, often relying on nonverbal cues and context to convey meaning.American culture,on the other hand,is known for its direct and explicit communication style,where people are encouraged to express their thoughts and opinions openly.2.Family Values:In China,the family unit is highly valued,with a strong emphasis on respect for elders and maintaining family harmony.The concept of filial piety is deeply ingrained.In contrast,American culture places a significant emphasis on individualism, with younger generations often encouraged to become independent at an early age.cation:Chinese education is traditionally more focused on rote learning and academic achievement,with a competitive environment that values high test scores.The American education system is more holistic,emphasizing creativity,critical thinking,anda variety of learning experiences beyond academics.4.Work Ethic:The Chinese work culture is often characterized by long hours and a strong dedication to work,with a hierarchical structure that demands respect for authority. The American work culture tends to value worklife balance and encourages innovation and initiative from all levels of the workforce.5.Social Hierarchy:Chinese society has a more pronounced social hierarchy,with respect for authority figures deeply rooted in the culture.American society is more egalitarian,with a belief in the equality of all individuals regardless of their social status.6.Food Culture:Chinese cuisine is diverse and regional,with an emphasis on the balance of flavors and the use of various cooking techniques.American cuisine is known for its diversity as well,influenced by immigrants from around the world,but also characterized by convenience and portion sizes.7.Religion and Spirituality:China has a mix of religious beliefs,including Buddhism, Taoism,and Confucianism,which often coexist and influence each other.The United States is predominantly Christian,but it is also home to a wide range of religious beliefs and practices,reflecting its diverse population.8.Public Behavior:In public spaces,Chinese people might be more reserved,with less physical contact and a preference for maintaining personal space.Americans aregenerally more open to public displays of affection and physical contact among friends.9.Holidays and Festivals:Chinese festivals are deeply rooted in tradition and often have specific rituals and customs,such as the Lunar New Year and the MidAutumn Festival. American holidays are a mix of religious,national,and cultural celebrations,such as Thanksgiving,Independence Day,and Christmas.10.Attitude Towards Time:Chinese culture tends to have a longterm perspective on time, valuing patience and the gradual unfolding of events.American culture is often characterized by a focus on efficiency and a preference for immediate results. Understanding these cultural differences is crucial for effective communication and collaboration between people from China and the United States.It also enriches the global community by celebrating the diversity of human experiences and perspectives.。
中美文化差异英语作文
中美文化差异英语作文In the vast tapestry of global cultures, the United States and China stand out as two of the most influential and distinct. While both nations have made significant contributions to the world, their cultural practices and societal norms often differ in profound ways. This essay aims to explore the cultural differences between China and the United States, focusing on aspects such as family values, education, communication styles, and business practices.Family ValuesThe family unit is central to both Chinese and American cultures, but the emphasis and expression of family values can vary. In China, the concept of filial piety is deeply ingrained, with a strong emphasis on respecting and caringfor one's elders. Multi-generational households are common, and family decisions often involve collective input. In contrast, American families tend to prioritize individualism and independence from a younger age, with children encouraged to make their own decisions and be self-reliant.EducationEducation is highly valued in both countries, but the approach to learning and the educational system itself can be quite different. Chinese education often focuses on rote memorization, discipline, and strict adherence to acurriculum, with a strong emphasis on academic achievement and exams. The American education system, on the other hand, tends to encourage critical thinking, creativity, and a more flexible approach to learning, with an emphasis on developing well-rounded individuals.Communication StylesCommunication is a key aspect where cultural differences are evident. Chinese communication often relies on subtlety and non-verbal cues, with a preference for indirect expression to maintain harmony. Saving face is a critical concept, and confrontation is generally avoided. Americans, in comparison, are often more direct and open in their communication, valuing honesty and straightforwardness even if it leads to conflict.Business PracticesThe business environment reflects cultural differences as well. In China, relationships, or 'guanxi,' are crucial in business dealings. Building trust and personal connections often precedes any formal business transactions. The American business culture is more focused on efficiency, contracts, and the bottom line, with a preference for clear agreements and quick decision-making.Celebrations and FestivalsFestivals and celebrations also offer a window into cultural differences. Chinese festivals like the Spring Festival(Chinese New Year) and the Mid-Autumn Festival are steeped in tradition, with family reunions, specific foods, and cultural practices playing a central role. American holidays such as Thanksgiving and the Fourth of July are also family-oriented but often involve a more casual gathering with a focus on food, parades, and fireworks.In conclusion, while both China and the United States share certain universal human values, their cultural expressions and practices are shaped by their unique histories and philosophies. Understanding these differences is not only fascinating but also essential for fostering mutual respect and successful cross-cultural interactions.。
中美文化的差异英语作文
When comparing the cultural differences between China and the United States,one can observe a myriad of distinctions that stem from their unique histories,philosophies, and societal values.Here are some key areas where these differences are particularly pronounced:nguage and Communication:The Chinese language,with its tonal nature and complex characters,is vastly different from munication styles also differ, with Chinese culture often valuing indirectness and harmony,while American culture tends to favor directness and assertiveness.2.Family Values:Family is central to Chinese culture,with a strong emphasis on respect for elders and family hierarchy.In contrast,American culture tends to prioritize individualism and personal achievement,often leading to a more nuclear family structure.cation:Education is highly valued in both cultures,but the approach differs. Chinese education is often more focused on rote learning and academic achievement, with a competitive atmosphere.American education,on the other hand,tends to emphasize creativity,critical thinking,and a more relaxed learning environment.4.Work Ethic:The Chinese work culture is known for its long hours and dedication, often with less emphasis on worklife balance.In the U.S.,there is a stronger focus on efficiency and a balance between work and personal life,although this can vary widely across industries.5.Social Hierarchy:Chinese society has a more defined social hierarchy,with respect for authority and status being important.American society is more egalitarian,with a belief in the potential for social mobility and less emphasis on formal titles and status.6.Religion and Philosophy:While China has a mix of religious beliefs including Buddhism,Taoism,and Confucianism,the influence of these philosophies is often more about ethics and social conduct rather than religious practice.The U.S.is predominantly Christian,with a wide variety of denominations and a strong tradition of religious freedom.7.Food Culture:Chinese cuisine is diverse and regional,with an emphasis on the balance of flavors and the use of fresh ingredients.American cuisine is a melting pot of different cultures,with a focus on convenience and variety,often with larger portion sizes.8.Attitude Towards Time:Chinese culture has a more longterm perspective,with patience and planning for the future being valued.American culture tends to be morefocused on immediate results and quick decisionmaking.9.Public Spaces and Behavior:In China,public spaces are often more crowded and noise levels can be higher,reflecting a different attitude towards personal space.In the U.S., there is generally a greater emphasis on personal space and quieter public behavior. 10.Healthcare and Wellness:China has a more traditional approach to healthcare,with a mix of Western and traditional Chinese medicine.The U.S.has a more advanced and technologically driven healthcare system,with a focus on specialized care. Understanding these cultural differences is crucial for effective communication and collaboration between people from China and the United States.It also provides a rich context for appreciating the diversity and complexity of human societies.。
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1.美国人的自我意识和独立意识很强。
Self-awareness and independent consciousness of Americans are very strong.2.美国文化鼓励人民开拓创新，做一番前人未做过的、杰出超凡的事业。
In America, innovation often is encouraged and people often do something nobody has done. 3.美国基础教育实践，注重创造的教学形式.American education based on practice, pay attention to teaching form of creation.4. 中国的家庭结构比较复杂，传统的幸福家庭是四代同堂。
China's family structure is more complex, the traditional happy family is four generations.5. 中国人的婚姻相对来说比较稳定。
这是因为中国人把婚姻当作一个严肃的道德问题，喜新厌旧，或是第三者插足都会被认为是极不道德的。
The Chinese marriage is relatively stable. Because Chinese people treat marriage as a serious moral problem, propensity or a third people involvement is considered highly unethical.6. 新中国虽已建立了六十年，但传统的君臣，父子等级观念在中国人的头脑中仍然根深蒂固。
The traditional manner, parent-child hierarchical remains entrenched in the Chinese mind.7. 主动帮助别人或接受别人帮助在西方常是令人难堪的事。
在中国，主动帮助别人，给人以无微不至的体贴是一种美德。
Take the initiative to help others or accept others help is embarrassing thing in America. However, help others is a virtue.8. 在个性自由与团结协作上：美国人十分珍视个人自由，喜欢随心所欲，独往独行，不愿受限制。
中国文化则更多地强调集体主义，主张个人利益服从集体利益，主张同甘共苦，团结合作，步调一致。
On the personality freedom and cooperation, Americans cherish personal freedom and don't want to be limited. Personal interest obedience collective interests and cooperation were advocated in China.9. 美国家庭教育目的是把孩子培养成具有适应各种环境和独立生存能力的“社会人”；中国家庭教育的目的是把孩子培养成“才”，将来有出息，有个好职业，一生能在顺境中度过。
The education purpose of American family is to help children to adapt to the environment and improve the independent ability, and finally make children become a "social person". The education aim of Chinese family is to make children become a person with ability, and hope they can have ambition in the future, have a good career, life can be spent in prosperity.(You are very handsome! 或赞扬你Your English is very good时，中国人一般很谦虚地说：I do not think so! 或说 No ,no ,my English is poor. Thank you !; Have you had your meal? Where are you going? 他们则会认为你想请他吃饭或者干涉其私事，会引起误解。
美国人见面，通常打招呼道：Hello! How do you do! Nice to meet you.) （American culture：The main content of American culture is the emphasize on individuals' value, the pursue of democracy and freedom, the promotion of deploitation(开拓,经营) and competition and the need of realistic and practicality. Its core is individualism: self-first, personal need first, pursue of individual benefit and enjoyment, emphasize on achieving individual value by self-strive and self-design. This type of intentionally build up of personality and pursue customized individualism has its pros and cons, it gives incentives to people and make them exert on their potential and wisdom and as a result accelerate the development of the entire race and nation; on the other hand it is difficult to keep good relationship among people if everyone is egocentric thus make the entire society lack of unity. egocentric:.自我中心的,利己主义的American citizens emphasize on achievements and respect heroes. They have great sense in their hearts to praise success and heroes.Personal achievements are one of those with the highest value in Americans mind.Americans have very strong senses of success.Success is the pursuit of most Americans,it is their attractive future and the incentives for moving forward.They believe that one's personal value is equivalent to his achievements in his career.Some high achievers in their career such as entrepreneurs,scientists,artists and all kinds of super starts became modern heroes.The process and result of how they strived have become the frame of reference of social culture value and the real life text book for parents to educate their children.incentive:Serving to induce or motivate:American society has great movements within itself. These movements are shown in two aspects:movements amongst locations and movements inside the society.The United States are relatively more open and have more freedom.Developed transport and the tradition of adventure and sporty makes a lot of American migrate from countryside to cities,from downtown to uptown; and from north to the southern sunny land,from one city to another.Unlike European countries,the social classes in America is not so stable.Further more,with the advocation of public education,movements upwards along the social ladder have become possible.Many people living inthe states,no matter whether they are Native American or immigrants from overseas,have the same dream of changing their social class and make their lifetime dream come true through their own efforts.This is what they often called "American dream".1. Self-awareness and independent consciousness of Americans are very strong.2. In America, innovation often is encouraged and people often do something nobody has done.3. American education based on practice, pay attention to teaching form of creation.4. China's family structure is more complex, the traditional happy family is four generations.5. The Chinese marriage is relatively stable. Because Chinese people treat marriage as a serious moral problem, propensity or a third people involvement is considered highly unethical.6. The traditional manner, parent-child hierarchical remains entrenched in the Chinese mind.7. Take the initiative to help others or accept others help is embarrassing thing in America. However, help others is a virtue.8. On the personality freedom and cooperation, Americans cherish personal freedom and don't want to be limited. Personal interest obedience collective interests and cooperation were advocated in China.9. The education purpose of American family is to help children to adapt to the environment and improve the independent ability, and finally make children become a "social person". The education aim of Chinese family is to make children become a person with ability, and hope they can have ambition in the future, have a good career, life can be spent in prosperity.(You are very handsome! 或赞扬你Your English is very good时，中国人一般很谦虚地说：I do not think so! 或说 No ,no ,my English is poor. Thank you !; Have you had your meal? Where are you going? 他们则会认为你想请他吃饭或者干涉其私事，会引起误解。