TED励志演讲稿：二十岁一去不再来

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TED演讲稿-20岁光阴不再(中英互译)

When I was in my 20s, I saw my very first psychotherapy client. I was a Ph.D. student in clinical psychology at Berkeley. She was a26-year-old woman named Alex.记得见我第一位心理咨询顾客时,我才20多岁。

当时我是Berkeley临床心理学在读博士生。

我的第一位顾客是名叫Alex的女性,26岁。

Now Alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy top, and she dropped onto the couch in my office and kicked off her flats and told me she was there to talk about guy problems. Now when I heard this, I was so relieved. My classmate got an arsonist for her first client. (Laughter) And I got a twentysomething who wanted to talk about boys. This I thought I could handle.第一次见面Alex穿着牛仔裤和宽松上衣走进来,她一下子栽进我办公室的沙发上,踢掉脚上的平底鞋,跟我说她想谈谈男生的问题。

当时我听到这个之后松了一口气。

因为我同学的第一个顾客是纵火犯,而我的顾客却是一个20出头想谈谈男生的女孩。

我觉得我可以搞定。

But I didn't handle it. With the funny stories that Alex would bring to session, it was easy for me just to nod my head while we kicked the can down the road.但是我没有搞定。

(完整版)TED英语演讲稿：二十岁是不可以挥霍的光阴

TED英语演讲稿：二十岁是不可以挥霍的光阴5天内超过60万次浏览量的最新TED演讲“二十岁一去不再来”激起了世界各地的热烈讨论，资深心理治疗师 Meg Jay 分享给20多岁青年人的人生建议：(1)不要为你究竟是谁而烦恼，去赚那些说明你是谁的资本。

(2)不要把自己封锁在小圈子里。

(3)记住你可以选择自己的家庭。

Meg说：“第一，我常告诉二十多岁的男孩女孩，不要为你究竟是谁而烦恼，开始思考你可以是谁，并且去赚那些说明你是谁的资本。

现在就是最好的尝试时机，不管是海外实习，还是创业，或者做公益。

第二，年轻人经常聚在一起，感情好到可以穿一条裤子。

可是社会中许多机会是从远关系开始的，不要把自己封锁在小圈子里，走出去你才会对自己的经历有更多的认识。

第三，记住你可以选择自己的家庭。

你的婚姻就是未来几十年的家庭，就算你要到三十岁结婚，现在选择和什么样的人交往也是至关重要的。

简而言之，二十岁是不能轻易挥霍的美好时光。

”这段关于20岁青年人如何看待人生的演讲引起了许多TED粉丝的讨论，来自TEDx组织团队的David Webber就说：Meg指出最重要的一点便是青年人需要及早意识到积累经验和眼界，无论是20岁还是30岁，都是有利自己发展的重要事。

”When I was in my 20s, I saw my very first psychotherapyclient. I was a Ph.D. student in clinical psychology at Berkeley. She was a 26-year-old woman named Alex.记得见我第一位心理咨询顾客时，我才20多岁。

当时我是Berkeley临床心理学在读博士生。

我的第一位顾客是名叫Alex的女性，26岁。

Now Alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy top, and she dropped onto the couch in my office and kicked off her flats and told me she was there to talk about guy problems. Now when I heard this, I was so relieved. My classmate got an arsonist for her first client. (Laughter) And I got a twentysomething who wanted to talk about boys. This I thought I could handle.第一次见面Alex穿着牛仔裤和宽松上衣走进来，她一下子栽进我办公室的沙发上，踢掉脚上的平底鞋，跟我说她想谈谈男生的问题。

20岁光阴不再来ted英文演讲稿

20岁光阴不再来ted英文演讲稿20岁光阴不再来ted英文演讲稿演讲稿的格式由称谓、开场白、主干、结尾等几部分组成。

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20岁光阴不再来ted英文演讲稿1When I was in my 20s, I saw my very first psychotherapy client. I was a Ph.D. student in clinical psychology at Berkeley. She was a 26-year-old woman named Alex. Now Alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy top(宽松的上衣), and she dropped onto the couch in my office and kicked off her flats(平底鞋) and told me she was there to talk about guy problems. Now when I heard this, I was so relieved. My classmate got an arsonist(纵火犯) for her first client. (Laughter) And I got a twentysomething who wanted to talk about boys. This I thought I could handle.But I didn't handle it. With the funny stories that Alex would bring to session, it was easy for me just to nod my head while we kicked the can down the road. "Thirty's the new 20," Alex would say, and as far as I could tell, she was right. Work happened later, marriage happened later, kids happened later, even death happened later. Twentysomethings like Alex and I had nothing but time.But before long, my supervisor pushed me to push Alex about her love life. I pushed back.20岁光阴不再来ted英文演讲稿2There are 50 million twentysomethings in the United States right now. We're talking about 15 percent of the population, or100 percent if you consider that no one's getting through adulthood without going through their 20s first.Raise your hand if you're in your 20s. I really want to see some twentysomethings here. Oh, yay! Y'all's awesome. If you work with twentysomethings, you love a twentysomething, you're losing sleep over twentysomethings, I want to see — Okay. Awesome, twentysomethings really matter.So I specialize in twentysomethings because I believe that every single one of those 50 million twentysomethings deserves to know what psychologists, sociologists, neurologists and fertility specialists(生育专家) already know: that claiming your 20s is one of the simplest, yet most transformative, things you can do for work, for love, for your happiness, maybe even for the world. 20岁光阴不再来ted英文演讲稿3Leonard Bernstein said that to achieve great things, you need a plan and not quite enough time. Isn't that true? So what do you think happens when you pat a twentysomething on the head and you say, "You have 10 extra years to start your life"? Nothing happens. You have robbed that person of his urgency and ambition, and absolutely nothing happens.And then every day, smart, interesting twentysomethings like you or like your sons and daughters come into my office and say things like this: "I know my boyfriend's no good for me, but this relationship doesn't count. I'm just killing time." Or they say, "Everybody says as long as I get started on a career by the time I'm 30, I'll be fine."But then it starts to sound like this: "My 20s are almost over, and I have nothing to show for myself. I had a better résumé the day after I graduated from college."And then it starts to sound like this: "Dating in my 20s waslike musical chairs. Everybody was running around and having fun, but then sometime around 30 it was like the music turned off and everybody started sitting down. I didn't want to be the only one left standing up, so sometimes I think I married my husband because he was the closest chair to me at 30."Where are the twentysomethings here? Do not do that.20岁光阴不再来ted英文演讲稿4At every stage of our lives we make decisions that will profoundly influence the lives of the people we're going to become, and then when we become thosepeople, we're not always thrilled with the decisions we made. So young people pay good money to get tattoos removed that teenagers paid good money to get.Middle-aged people rushed to divorce people who young adults rushed to marry. Older adults work hard to lose what middle-aged adults worked hard to gain. On and on and on. The question is, as a psychologist, that fascinates me is, why do we make decisions that our future selves so often regret?Now, I think one of the reasons -- I'll try to convince you today — is that we have a fundamental misconception about the power of time. Every one of you knows that the rate of change slows over the human lifespan, that your children seem to change by the minute but your parents seem to change by the year. But what is the name of this magical point in life where change suddenly goes from a gallop to a crawl? Is it teenage years? Is it middle age? Is it old age? The answer, it turns out, for most people, is now, wherever now happens to be. What I want to convince you today is that all of us are walking around with an illusion, an illusion that history.Let me give you some data to back up that claim. So here's astudy of change in people's personal values over time. Here's three values. Everybody here holds all of them, but you probably know that as you grow, as you age, the balance of these values shifts. So how does it do so? Well, we asked thousands of people. We asked half of them to predict for us how much their values would change in the next 10 years, and the others to tell us how much their values had changed in the last 10 years. And this enabled us to do a really interesting kind of analysis, because it allowed us to compare the predictions of people, say, 18 years old, to the reports of people who were 28, and to do that kind of analysis throughout the lifespan.Here's what we found. First of all, you are right, change does slow down as we age, but second, you're wrong, because it doesn't slow nearly as much as we think. At every age, from 18 to 68 in our data set, people vastly underestimated how much change they would experience over the next 10 years. We call this the "end of history" illusion. To give you an idea of the magnitude of this effect, you can connect these two lines, and what you see here is that 18-year-olds anticipate changing only as much as 50-year-olds actually do.Now it's not just values. It's all sorts of other things. For example, personality. Many of you know that psychologists now claim that there are five fundamental dimensions of personality: neuroticism, openness to experience, agreeableness, extraversion, and conscientiousness. Again, we asked people how much they expected to change over the next 10 years, and also how much they had changed over the last 10 years, and what we found, well, you're going to get used to seeing this diagram over and over, because once again the rate of change does slow as we age, but at every age, people underestimate how muchtheir personalities will change in the next decade.Favorite kind of music. People can name these things. We ask half of them to tell us, "Do you think that that will change over the next 10 years?" and half of them to tell us, "Did that change over the last 10 years?" And what we find, well, you've seen it twice now, and here it is again: people predict that the friend they have now is the friend they'll have in 10 years, the vacation they most enjoy now is the one they'll enjoy in 10 years, and yet, people who are 10 years older all say, "Eh, you know, that's really changed."。

TED励志演讲稿：二十岁一去不再来

TED励志演讲稿：二十岁一去不再来这段关于20岁青年人如何看待人生的演讲引起了许多ted粉丝的讨论，来自tedx组织团队的davidwebber就说：meg指出最重要的一点便是青年人需要及早意识到积累经验和眼界，无论是20岁还是30岁，都是有利自己发展的重要事。

”30岁不是一个新的20岁，生活决定权在于你自己。

我记得在我20多岁的时候遇到了我的第一位咨询客户。

当时，我是伯克利临床心理学的博士生。

我的第一位顾客是一位名叫亚历克斯的26岁女子。

我们第一次见面时，亚历克斯穿着牛仔裤和衬衫进来。

她突然倒在我办公室的沙发上，踢掉了平底鞋，告诉我她想谈谈男孩。

当时我听到这个之后松了一口气。

因为我同学的第一个顾客是纵火犯，而我的顾客却是一个20出头想谈谈男生的女孩。

我觉得我可以搞定。

但是我没有搞定。

亚历克斯一直在谈论有趣的事情，但我只能简单地点头同意她说的话，自然而然地陷入了一致的状态。

“30是新的20，”亚历克斯说是的，我告诉她“你说得对”。

现在工作、结婚、生孩子甚至死亡还为时过早。

像亚历克斯和我这样的20多岁的人除了时间什么都没有。

但不久之后，我的导师就要我向alex的感情生活施压。

我反驳说：“当然她现在正在和别人交往，她现在和一个傻瓜男生睡觉，但看样子她不会和他结婚的。

”而我的导师说：“不着急，她也许会和下一个结婚。

但修复alex婚姻的最好时期，是她还没拥有婚姻的时期。

”这就是心理学家所说的“顿悟”。

就在那时，我意识到30岁并不是新的20岁。

的确，和以前的人相比，现在人们更晚才安定下来，但是这不代表alex就能长期处于20多岁的状态。

更晚安定下来，应该使alex的20多岁成为发展的黄金时段，而我们却坐在那里忽视这个发展的时机。

从那时起我意识到，这种善意的忽视，确实是个问题，它不仅给alex本身和她的感情生活带来不良后果，而且影响到处20多岁的人的事业、家庭和未来。

现在在美国，有5000万20多岁的人，占总人口的15%，因为所有成年人都必须经历20多岁。

TED演讲20岁光阴不再来

TED演讲20岁光阴不再来第一篇：TED演讲 20岁光阴不再来When I was in my 20s,I saw my very first psychotherapy(心理诊疗)client.I was a Ph.D.student in clinical psychology(临床心理学)at Berkeley.She was a 26-year-old woman named Alex.Now Alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy(宽松的)top,and she dropped onto the couch in my office and kicked off her flats and told me she was there to talk about guy problems.Now when I heard this,I was so relieved.My classmate got an arsonist(纵火犯)for her first client.And I got a twentysomething who wanted to talk about boys.This I thought I could handle.But I didn't handle it.With the funny stories that Alex would bring to session,it was easy for me just to nod my head while we kicked the can down the road.“Thirty's the new 20,”Alex would say,and as far as I could tell,she was right.Work happened later,marriage happened later,kids happened later,even death happened later.Twentysomethings like Alex and I had nothing but time.But before long,my supervisor(导师)pushed me to push Alex about her love life.I pushed back.I said,“Sure,she's dating down,”(她的对象很差劲)she's sleeping with a knucklehead(傻瓜),but it's not like she's going to marry the guy.“And then my supervisor said,”Not yet,but she might marry the next one.Besides,the best time to work on Alex's marriage is before she has one.(结婚之前)“That's what psychologists call an ”Aha!“moment(顿悟时刻).That was the moment I realized,30 is not the new 20.Yes,people settle down later than they used to,but that didn't make Alex's 20s a developmental downtime.(没错，现在人们结婚的年龄比以前大一些，但这并没有使Alex的20岁成为发展的搁浅期。

TED演讲稿-20岁光阴不再(中英互译)

When I was in my 20s, I saw my very first psychotherapy client. I was a Ph。

D. student in clinical psychology at Berkeley。

She was a 26—year-old woman named Alex.记得见我第一位心理咨询顾客时，我才20多岁.当时我是Berkeley临床心理学在读博士生。

我的第一位顾客是名叫Alex的女性，26岁.Now Alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy top, and she dropped onto the couch in my office and kicked off her flats and told me she was there to talk about guy problems. Now when I heard this, I was so relieved。

My classmate got an arsonist for her first client。

(Laughter) And I got a twentysomething who wanted to talk about boys。

This I thought I could handle。

第一次见面Alex穿着牛仔裤和宽松上衣走进来，她一下子栽进我办公室的沙发上，踢掉脚上的平底鞋，跟我说她想谈谈男生的问题。

当时我听到这个之后松了一口气。

因为我同学的第一个顾客是纵火犯，而我的顾客却是一个20出头想谈谈男生的女孩.我觉得我可以搞定。

But I didn't handle it。

With the funny stories that Alex would bring to session, it was easy for me just to nod my head while we kicked the can down the road。

TED演讲稿-20岁光阴不再(中英互译)

When I was in my 20s, I saw my very first psychot herapy client. I was a Ph.D. student in clinical ps ychology at Berkeley. She was a26-year-old woman named Alex.记得见我第一位心理咨询顾客时，我才20多岁。

当时我是Berkeley临床心理学在读博士生。

我的第一位顾客是名叫Alex的女性，26岁。

Now Alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy top, and she dropped onto the couch in my office and kicked off herflats and told me she was there to talk about guy problems. Now when I heard this, I was so relieve d. My classmate got an arsonist for herfirst client. (Laughter) And I got a twentysomething who wanted totalk about boys. This I thought I could handle.第一次见面Alex穿着牛仔裤和宽松上衣走进来，她一下子栽进我办公室的沙发上，踢掉脚上的平底鞋，跟我说她想谈谈男生的问题。

当时我听到这个之后松了一口气。

因为我同学的第一个顾客是纵火犯，而我的顾客却是一个20出头想谈谈男生的女孩。

我觉得我可以搞定。

But I didn't handle it. With the funny stories that Alex would bring tosession, it was easy for me just to nod my head w hile we kicked the can down the road.但是我没有搞定。

(完整版)TED演讲稿-20岁光阴不再(中英互译)

When I was in my20s,I saw my very first psychotherapy client.I was a Ph.D.student in clinical psychology at Berkeley.She was a26-year-old woman named Alex.记得见我第一位心理咨询顾客时，我才20多岁。

当时我是Berkeley临床心理学在读博士生。

我的第一位顾客是名叫Alex的女性，26岁。

Now Alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy top,and she dropped onto the couch in my office and kicked off her flats and told me she was there to talk about guy problems.Now when I heard this,I was so relieved.My classmate got an arsonist for her first client.(Laughter)And I got a twentysomething who wanted to talk about boys.This I thought I could handle.第一次见面Alex穿着牛仔裤和宽松上衣走进来，她一下子栽进我办公室的沙发上，踢掉脚上的平底鞋，跟我说她想谈谈男生的问题。

当时我听到这个之后松了一口气。

因为我同学的第一个顾客是纵火犯，而我的顾客却是一个20出头想谈谈男生的女孩。

我觉得我可以搞定。

But I didn't handle it.With the funny stories that Alex would bring to session,it was easy for me just to nod my head while we kicked the can down the road.但是我没有搞定。

TED英语演讲稿二十岁是不可以挥霍的光阴

TED英语演讲稿：二十岁是不可以挥霍的光阴5天内超过60万次浏览量的最新ted演讲二十岁一去不再来激起了世界各地的热烈讨论，资深心理治疗师meg jay 分享给20多岁青年人的人生建议：(1)不要为你究竟是谁而烦恼，去赚那些说明你是谁的资本。

(2)不要把自己封锁在小圈子里。

(3)记住你可以选择自己的家庭。

meg说：第一，我常告诉二十多岁的男孩女孩，不要为你究竟是谁而烦恼，开始思考你可以是谁，并且去赚那些说明你是谁的资本。

现在就是最好的尝试时机，不管是海外实习，还是创业，或者做公益。

第二，年轻人经常聚在一起，感情好到可以穿一条裤子。

可是社会中许多机会是从远关系开始的，不要把自己封锁在小圈子里，走出去你才会对自己的经历有更多的认识。

第三，记住你可以选择自己的家庭。

你的婚姻就是未来几十年的家庭，就算你要到三十岁结婚，现在选择和什么样的人交往也是至关重要的。

简而言之，二十岁是不能轻易挥霍的美好时光。

这段关于20岁青年人如何看待人生的演讲引起了许多ted粉丝的讨论，来自tedx组织团队的david webber 就说：meg指出最重要的一点便是青年人需要及早意识到积累经验和眼界，无论是20岁还是30岁，都是有利自己发展的重要事。

when i was in my 20s, i saw my very first psychotherapy client. i was a ph.d. student in clinical psychology at berkeley. she was a26-year-old woman named alex.记得见我第一位心理咨询顾客时，我才20多岁。

当时我是berkeley临床心理学在读博士生。

我的第一位顾客是名叫alex的女性，26岁。

now alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy top, and she dropped onto the couch in my office and kicked off her flats and told me she was there to talk about guy problems. now when i heard this, i was so relieved. my classmate got an arsonist for her first client. (laughter) and i got a twentysomething who wanted to talk about boys. this i thought i could handle.第一次见面alex穿着牛仔裤和宽松上衣走进来，她一下子栽进我办公室的沙发上，踢掉脚上的平底鞋，跟我说她想谈谈男生的问题。

TED英语演讲稿：二十岁是不可以挥霍的光阴

(2)不要把自己封锁在小圈子里。

(3)记住你可以选择自己的家庭。

Meg说：“第一，我常告诉二十多岁的男孩女孩，不要为你究竟是谁而烦恼，开始思考你可以是谁，并且去赚那些说明你是谁的资本。

现在就是最好的尝试时机，不管是海外实习，还是创业，或者做公益。

第二，年轻人经常聚在一起，感情好到可以穿一条裤子。

可是社会中许多机会是从远关系开始的，不要把自己封锁在小圈子里，走出去你才会对自己的经历有更多的认识。

第三，记住你可以选择自己的家庭。

你的婚姻就是未来几十年的家庭，就算你要到三十岁结婚，现在选择和什么样的人交往也是至关重要的。

简而言之，二十岁是不能轻易挥霍的美好时光。

”When I was in my 20s, I saw my very first psychotherapy client. I was a Ph.D. student in clinical psychology at Berkeley.She was a 26-year-old woman named Alex.记得见我第一位心理咨询顾客时，我才20多岁。

当时我是Berkeley临床心理学在读博士生。

我的第一位顾客是名叫Alex的女性，26岁。

Now Alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy top, and she dropped onto the couch in my office and kicked off her flats and told me she was there to talk about guy problems. Now when I heard this, I was so relieved. My classmate got an arsonist for her first client. (Laughter) And I got a twentysomething who wanted to talk about boys. This I thought I could handle.第一次见面Alex穿着牛仔裤和宽松上衣走进来，她一下子栽进我办公室的沙发上，踢掉脚上的平底鞋，跟我说她想谈谈男生的问题。

TED励志演讲稿：二十岁一去不再来2篇

TED励志演讲稿：二十岁一去不再来 (3) TED励志演讲稿：二十岁一去不再来 (3)精选2篇（一）尊敬的评委、亲爱的观众们：大家好！我今天要和大家分享的主题是“二十岁一去不再来”。

二十岁，对于很多人来说，是一个充满活力和激情的年纪。

这个阶段，我们正处在青春的盛世，仿佛有着无限的可能性。

我们怀揣着追求梦想的勇气，对未来充满期待。

但是随着时光的流逝，二十岁只是一个片刻，它一去不再来。

小时候，我们总是希望快点长大，拥有自己的自由和独立。

然而当我们真正进入了成年的行列，才发现成长并不是我们想象中那样简单。

面对现实的压力和责任，我们开始渐渐迷失了自己。

事业、家庭、社会等各种因素不断地限制和塑造着我们的生活。

我们为了生活而努力，却渐渐忘记了当初那个积极向上、懵懂无知却又满怀冲劲的自己。

二十岁，是一个可以追逐梦想的年纪。

那时的我们有着一颗不屈不挠的心，敢于挑战世界，敢于做梦、敢于追求。

然而在岁月的沉淀和现实的冲击中，我们开始渐渐变得趋于安稳和安于现状。

我们害怕失败、害怕被批评、害怕寂寞。

我们放弃了曾经的梦想，迎合社会的大众化需求，迈向了舒适的生活。

但是我们是否想过，当我们老去时会否会后悔当初的选择？我们是否能够对得起曾经那个年轻的自己？二十岁，是一个可以培养自己的年纪。

那时的我们拥有时间和精力去学习和成长。

却经常浪费在各种琐事上，无所事事地虚度光阴。

我们追求刺激快乐，追求即时满足，却忽略了长远的价值。

我们忽视了个人发展的重要性，忽视了培养自己的能力和自信心。

当我们回首往事时，会不会发现我们虽然活了二十年，却没有在这段时间里取得多少进步？尊敬的评委、亲爱的观众们，我希望通过今天的演讲能够唤醒我们内心深处那个被岁月遗忘的自己。

即使已经过了二十岁，我们依然可以追逐梦想，坚持不懈地追求自己心灵的声音。

我们应该珍惜时间，不被琐事所困扰，而是投入到学习和成长中去。

我们要鼓起勇气，跨出舒适区，追求我们真正想要的生活。

二十岁一去不再来，但是我们有未来的日子可以执着追求。

TED英语演讲稿：二十岁是不可以挥霍的光阴

(2)不要把自己封锁在小圈子里。

(3)记住你可以选择自己的家庭。

Meg说：“第一，我常告诉二十多岁的男孩女孩，不要为你究竟是谁而烦恼，开始思考你可以是谁，并且去赚那些说明你是谁的资本。

现在就是最好的尝试时机，不管是海外实习，还是创业，或者做公益。

第二，年轻人经常聚在一起，感情好到可以穿一条裤子。

可是社会中许多机会是从远关系开始的，不要把自己封锁在小圈子里，走出去你才会对自己的经历有更多的认识。

第三，记住你可以选择自己的家庭。

你的婚姻就是未来几十年的家庭，就算你要到三十岁结婚，现在选择和什么样的人交往也是至关重要的。

简而言之，二十岁是不能轻易挥霍的美好时光。

当时我是Berkeley临床心理学在读博士生。

我的第一位顾客是名叫Alex的女性，26岁。

Now Alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy top, and she dropped onto the couch in my office and kicked off her flats and told me she was there to talk about guy problems. Now when I heard this, I was so relieved. My classmate got an arsonist for her first client. (Laughter) And I got a twentysomething who wanted to talk about boys. This I thought I could handle.第一次见面Alex穿着牛仔裤和宽松上衣走进来，她一下子栽进我办公室的沙发上，踢掉脚上的平底鞋，跟我说她想谈谈男生的问题。

TED励志演讲稿：二十岁一去不再来

TED励志演讲稿：二十岁一去不再来Hello everyone,I'm here to talk about one of the most precious things that many of us take for granted: our twenties. It seems like just yesterday that I was twenty-one, fresh out of college and ready to take on the world.But now, as I approach thirty, I realize just how quickly time flies. Our twenties are a time of discovery, growth, and adventure. It's during these years that we often discover who we really are and what we're passionate about, and it's a time when we have the energy and enthusiasm to chase our dreams.But here's the thing: our twenties come and go in the blink of an eye. Before we know it, we're looking back on those years with regret, wondering where all the time went. That's why it's so important to make the most of your twenties while you can.First and foremost, take risks. Your twenties are the perfect time to be bold, try new things, and take risks. You have fewer responsibilities, more freedom, and fewer consequences if things don't work out. Don't be afraid to try that new job, move to a new city, or start your own business. These are the kinds of risks that can lead to great rewards and set you on a path for success. Secondly, invest in yourself. Your twenties are the time to build a strong foundation for your future, both personally and professionally. Take classes, learn new skills, and invest in your education. This will set you on a trajectory for a successful career and provide you with the tools you need to achieve your dreams.Thirdly, work hard. Your twenties are the time to hustle, work hard, and build your career. Don't expect success to come overnight –it takes hard work and dedication to achieve your goals. Be willing to put in the time and effort needed to achieve success, and don't be discouraged by setbacks. Learn from your mistakes, keep pushing, and success will come.And finally, enjoy the journey. Your twenties are a time to have fun, make memories, and enjoy the journey. Don't get so focused on your goals that you forget to enjoy the ride. Make time for your friends and family, travel to new places, and pursue your passions. These are the experiences that will stay with you for the rest of your life.In conclusion, your twenties are a precious time that will never come again. So make the most of your youth, take risks, invest in yourself, work hard, and enjoy the journey. And remember, the best is yet to come.Thank you.。

TED演讲稿-20岁光阴不再(中英互译)

When I was in my 20s， I saw my very first psychotherapy client. I wa s a Ph.D。

student in clinical psychology at Berkeley。

She was a26-year-old woman named Alex。

记得见我第一位心理咨询顾客时，我才20多岁。

当时我是Berkeley临床心理学在读博士生.我的第一位顾客是名叫Alex的女性，26岁。

Now whe n I heard this, I was so relieved. My classmate got an arsonist for her first client. （Laughter) And I got a twentysomething who wanted to talk about boys. This I thought I could handle。

第一次见面Alex穿着牛仔裤和宽松上衣走进来，她一下子栽进我办公室的沙发上，踢掉脚上的平底鞋，跟我说她想谈谈男生的问题.当时我听到这个之后松了一口气。

因为我同学的第一个顾客是纵火犯,而我的顾客却是一个20出头想谈谈男生的女孩。

我觉得我可以搞定。

But I didn't handle it。

With the funny stories that Alex would bring to session， it was easy for me just to nod my head while we kicked the can down the road。

TED励志演讲稿：二十岁一去不会再来

TED励志演讲稿：二十岁一去不会再来这一段有关二十岁年轻人怎样看待人生道路的演说造成了很多TED粉絲的探讨，来源于TEDx机构精英团队的David Webber便说：Meg强调最重要的一点就是年轻人必须尽早意识到积累经验和见识，不论是二十岁或是三十岁，全是有益自身发展趋势的关键事。

”三十岁并不是一个新的二十岁，日常生活决策权取决于你自己。

还记得见我第一位心理辅导消费者时，.我20几岁。

那时候我是Berkeley 临床心理学在学博士研究生。

我的第一位消费者是名字叫做Alex的女士，二十六岁。

第一次见面Alex衣着牛仔裤子和比较宽松上衣外套走入来，她一下子栽倒我公司办公室的沙发上，踢出去脚底的平跟鞋，告诉我她想谈一谈男孩子的难题。

那时候我听见这一以后松了一口气。

由于我同学们的第一个消费者是纵火犯，可是我的消费者则是一个20左右想谈一谈男孩子的女生。

我认为我能拿下。

可是也没有拿下。

Alex不断讲有意思的事，可是我只有简易地点点头认可她常说的，很当然地就深陷了附合的情况。

Alex说：“三十岁是一个新的二十岁。

”没有错，我告诉她“你是对的”。

工作中还早，完婚还早，生小孩还早，乃至身亡也早着呢。

像Alex与我那样20几岁的人，啥都没有但時间多的是。

但没多久以后，我的老师就需要我向Alex的情感生活施加压力。

我辩驳说：“自然她如今已经和他人相处，她如今和一个傻子男孩子入睡，但看来她不容易和他完婚的。

”可是我的老师说：“不着急，她或许会和下一个完婚。

但修补Alex婚姻生活的最好是阶段，是她还没有有着婚姻生活的阶段。

”这就是心理学专家说的“领悟時刻”。

恰好是那个时候我意识到，三十岁并不是一个新的二十岁。

确实，和之前的人对比，如今大家更晚才稳定出来，可是这并不意味着Alex 就能长期性处在20几岁的情况。

更晚稳定出来，应当使Alex的20几岁变成发展趋势的金子时间段，而大家却坐着那边忽略这一发展趋势的机会。

从那以后我意识到，这类真诚的忽略，的确是个难题，它不但给Alex自身和她的情感生活产生不良影响，并且危害四处20几岁的人的工作、家中和将来。

TED演讲：二十岁是不可以挥霍的光阴

TED演讲：二十岁是不可以挥霍的光阴下面我给大家共享TED演讲：二十岁是不行以挥霍的光阴，欢迎阅读：TED演讲：二十岁是不行以挥霍的光阴5天内超过60万次阅读量的最新TED演讲“二十岁一去不再来”激起了世界各地的热情探讨，资深心理治疗师 Meg Jay共享给20多岁青年人的人生建议：(1)不要为你原委是谁而苦恼，去赚那些说明你是谁的资本。

(2)不要把自己封锁在小圈子里。

(3)记住你可以选择自己的家庭。

Meg说：“第一，我常告知二十多岁的男孩女孩，不要为你原委是谁而苦恼，起先思索你可以是谁，并且去赚那些说明你是谁的资本。

现在就是最好的尝试时机，不管是海外实习，还是创业，或者做公益。

其次，年轻人常常聚在一起，感情好到可以穿一条裤子。

可是社会中很多机会是从远关系起先的，不要把自己封锁在小圈子里，走出去你才会对自己的经验有更多的相识。

第三，记住你可以选择自己的家庭。

你的婚姻就是将来几十年的家庭，就算你要到三十岁结婚，现在选择和什么样的人交往也是至关重要的。

简而言之，二十岁是不能轻易挥霍的美妙时间。

”这段关于20岁青年人如何看待人生的演讲引起了很多TED粉丝的探讨，来自TEDx组织团队的David Webber就说：Meg指出最重要的一点便是青年人须要及早意识到积累阅历和眼界，无论是20岁还是30岁，都是有利自己发展的重要事。

”以下是Meg的演讲：TED演讲：二十岁是不行以挥霍的光阴以下是Meg的演讲内容：When I was in my 20s, I saw my very first psychotherapy client. I was a Ph.D. student in clinical psychology at Berkeley. She was a 26-year-old woman named Alex.记得见我第一位心理询问顾客时，我才20多岁。

当时我是Berkeley临床心理学在读博士生。

TED演讲稿-20岁光阴不再(中英互译)

When I was in my 20s, I saw my very first psychotherapy client. I was a Ph.D. student in clinical psychology at Berkeley. She was a 【1】26yearold woman named Alex.记得见我第一位心理咨询顾客时，我才20多岁。

当时我是Berkeley临床心理学在读博士生。

我的第一位顾客是名叫Alex的女性，26岁。

Now Alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy top, and she dropped onto th e couch in my office and kicked off herflats and told me she was there to talk about guy problems. Now when I heard this, I was so relieve d. My classmate got an arsonist for herfirst client. (Laughter) And I got a twentysomething who wanted totalk about boys. This I thought I could handle.第一次见面Alex穿着牛仔裤和宽松上衣走进来，她一下子栽进我办公室的沙发上，踢掉脚上的平底鞋，跟我说她想谈谈男生的问题。

当时我听到这个之后松了一口气。

因为我同学的第一个顾客是纵火犯，而我的顾客却是一个20出头想谈谈男生的女孩。

我觉得我可以搞定。

But I didn't handle it. With the funny stories that Alex would bring tosession, it was easy for me just to nod my head while we kicked the can down the road.但是我没有搞定。

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