灵通英语1

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Remember
though
forget
连接词 conj. 1. 虽然;尽管 Though he is rich, his life is not happy. 他虽然很有钱,但生活并不幸福。 副词 ad. 1. (一般放在句尾)然而,还是 It was a hard job, he took it though. 这是份苦差事,可他还是接受了。
Impression benfit sympathy acceptance timing
印象/印记 好处 同情心 接受/赞同 时间的掌握/定时
“He never listens to me.” “She never stops talking.” “He never talks about anything except football.” “She talks about a million things at once.” Have you ever wondered how men and women can be so different and still be in the same species? Men and women, though both human, clearly have different ways of thinking, different goals, and, obviously, different methods of communication.




1. What is the first step in successful communication with the opposite？ Simply to realize that men and women communicate differently. 2. How do men usually like to speak about things? In a very direct, factual manner. 3. Why do women like talking? Because for women, talking is a way to express feelings. Main idea: Men and women communicate differently.
The first step in successful communication with the opposite gender is simply to realize that men and women communicate differently. Men usually like to speak about things in a very direct, factual manner, while women, on the other hand, like to talk on and on, exploring a given topic. Men usually see a goal in sight and want to solve a problem.
1)I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you. 我爱你，不是因为你是一个怎样的人，而是因为 我喜欢与你在一起时的感觉。 2)No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won„t make you cry. 没有人 值得你流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。 3) The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can„t have them. 失去某人，最糟糕的莫过于，他近 在身旁，却犹如远在天边。
So, how do two very different genders communicate successfully? First, understand and accept each other. Men and women can’t change each other. They can only change their own attitudes and responses.. Second, respect each other’s ideas and feelings, and, before getting angry with the other person, make sure that they really understand the ideas and feelings being communicated.
Understanding, acceptance, respect, and the right timing will go a long way toward solving miscommunication between the genders.
Further Practice——Translation
8. 对……有益处，对……帮助 很大


确保关灯
make sure that you turn off the lights


go a long way toward(s) doing sth.
对获得成功很有帮助 go a long way toward achieving success
In general, give each other the benefit of the doubt. Finally, of course, if there is something important to talk about, choose an appropriate time. Men can usually do only one thing at a time. If he’s watching basketball game, she should wait until later to talk.. If she’s having a bad day, he should save the issue for later---and offer some sympathy.
1. 1.有效的交流
3. 寻求帮助
2.

effective communication
成功的交流 successful communication 2. 而不去寻找解决问题的方案 rather than searching for a solution


ask for assistance
5. 独自，单独 7. 给某人留下印象 sb. 第一印象 leave an impression on


on one‟s own
独自完成任务 complete the task on
one‟s own
6. 确信，确保 make sure

the first impression
征求意见 ask for advice change one‟s own
4. 改变自己的态度
attitude
对……持否定态度 have a negative attitude on …

而不寻求他人帮助 rather than seeking help from others
Further Practice——Translation
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world. 对于世界 而言，你是一个人；但是对于某个人，你是他的 整个世界。 Don„t waste your time on a man/woman, who isn„t willing to waste their time on you. 不要为那些不愿在你身上花费时间的人而浪费你 的时间。 Don„t try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to. 不要着急，最 好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。 /question/103496999.html?an=0&si=10

史玲丹 杨梦君 陈彩虹ize/realise Topic Solve Issue Immediate Solution Willing Direction Attitude Respones
相反的/对面的 认识到/实现 话题 解答 问题/发行(书刊的)期号 直接的/立即的 解决/溶解 乐意的 指示/方向 态度 响应
Be simply to 简单地去 Talk on and on 不停的说 See sth in sight 看得到；看见
Women, however, like to discuss the issue from many different perspectives, rather than searching for an immediate solution. For women, talking is a way to express feelings. Men would rather figure out a problem on their own without help, but women are usually more willing to ask someone for assistance. We all know men never like to ask for directions!