新编大学英语三口语考试topic

Unit 1

The reasons for shyness and the ways to overcome it

A: Well, many people are shy. If you are a shy person, don’t worry, we will discuss the reasons for shyness and the ways to overcome it.

B: Some people are shy because they seldom take part in social activities, they prefer to stay at alone, thus are not wiling to communicate with others. Other people are shy because they are not confident in themselves.

C: I agree with you. They regard themselves as short, shy, ugly, fat, or dull; therefore, they are afraid of being laughed at and dare not bravely express their opinions.

D: Yes, and what’s more, still others are shy because of certain experience of failure in life, they can not overcome the sense of failure therefore dare not do the things in their own ways.

B: OK, we have talked about the reasons for shyness. And how about the ways to overcome it? As far as I’m concerned, for many people, the key to overcome shyness is to build up self-confidence.

A: Let me give you some advice. Remember that everyone has weaknesses and every one experiences some failures, therefore, we should recognize our strengths and try our best to overcome shyness. For those who prefer to stay alone and dare not communicate with others, encourage yourself to take part in more social activities and try to make one or two friends each time.

D: Em, I also think the most effective ways are not making negative comments about yourself and remembering that everyone experiences some failures and disappointments, because they are the keys to achieve success.

C: First, you should believe in yourself. You have the ability to solve the problem and then try your best to do it.

D: And if you fail, regard it as learning experience and stepping-stone to success, do not blame too much on yourself, because many factors may lead to the failure, it’s not your own fault and does not show your incompetence.

C: I fully agree with you, your advice is acceptable and helpful. One more thing, there are great difference between modesty and shyness. Modesty is a good virtue that is cherished by many people.

B: While shyness is an uncomfortable or even destructive feeling one has in company of others. Shy people are always lack of self-confidence. They are reluctant to communicate with strangers or dare nor express their opinions bravely. Therefore, modesty is a good personality while shyness is not desirable in many cases.

A: Dear friends, we have discussed so much about the reasons for shyness and the ways to overcome it. Come on, please. Don’t be shy. Let’s be sunshine boys and girls.