改变心态——员工

The strength of the strength mindset of the mindset
女儿向父亲抱怨，事事都很艰难。

The daughter complains toward the father, everything is all very difficult. 她不知如何应付生活，好像一个问题刚刚解决，新的问题又会出现，她有些厌倦。

She hards put to cope with a life, seem a problem just resolve, the new problem appeared again, she was some tired.
父亲是一位厨师，把她带进厨房。

The father is a cook, bringing in the kitchen to her.
他先往三口锅里倒入一些水，然后放在旺火上。

He goes toward first to pour into some waters in three people's pot, then puts on the prosperous fire.
不久，水开了。

Soon, boiling.
他往第一口锅里放一些胡萝卜，第二口锅里放入鸡蛋，第三口锅里放入碾成粉末的咖啡豆。

He goes toward an one mouthful to put some carrots in pot, putting into the egg in the second pot, putting to become the coffee bean of the powder into the 碾in the third pot.
20分钟后，父亲把火关了，把胡萝卜捞出来，放入一个碗内，把鸡蛋捞出来，放入一个锅内，然后把咖啡舀到一个杯子里。

20 after minute, the father closed fire, getting out carrot, putting to go into
a bowl, getting out an egg, putting to go into a pot, then ladling up the coffee to a cup.
父亲转身问女儿：
The father turns round to ask a daughter:
“孩子，你看到了什么？
"Kid, what do you come in sight of?
”“胡萝卜，鸡蛋，咖啡。

""Carrot, egg, coffee.
”她说。

"She say.
他让她靠近一些，摸摸胡萝卜。

He lets her close to some, touch carrot.
她注意到他它们变软了。

She takes notice of him them to become soft.
父亲又让女儿拿一个鸡蛋，打破它，剥掉壳，这是一个煮熟的鸡蛋。

The father lets the daughter take an egg again, breaking it, shelling hull, this is a cook of egg.
最后，父亲让她喝了一口咖啡。

End, the father lets her drink an one mouthful coffee.
尝到浓浓的咖啡，女儿笑了，怯声问道：
Taste to the very thick coffee, the daughter smile, the 怯 voice asked a way: “父亲，这意味着什么？”
"Father, what does this mean?"
父亲说，三样东西面临同样的逆境——煮沸的开水。

The father says three kind things face same adverse circumstances-boil of boiled water.
但其反映各不相同。

But its reflection is each not same.
胡萝卜入锅前是强壮的、结实的，放进开水，它变软了、变弱了。

The carrot goes in to be strong and fructify before the pot, putting into the boiled water, it become soft,become weak.
鸡蛋原来是易碎的，薄薄的外壳保护着液态的内脏，开水一煮，内脏变硬。

The egg is originally crumbly, the very thin outer shell protects the internal organs of the liquid, once the boiled water cook, the internal organs become hard.
粉状咖啡豆则很独特，进入沸水，它们便改变了水。

The powder form coffee bean then is very special, entering boiling water, they changed a water then.
在艰难和逆境前，可以学胡萝卜、鸡蛋和咖啡豆，可以屈服，也可以变得更坚强——甚至，可以改变环境。

Canned learn the carrot,egg and coffee bean before the difficulties and adverse circumstances, can accept defeat, can also become stronger-even can change environment.
父亲说：
The father say:
你改变不了环境，但可以改变自己；
Your change not environment, but can change an oneself;
你改变不了事实，但可以改变态度；
Your change settle a dispute actually, but can change an attitude;
你改变不了过去，但可以改变现在；
Your change not past, but can change now;
你不能控制他人，但可以掌握自己；
You have no command over others, but can control an oneself;
你不能预知明天，但可以把握今天；
You can't predict tomorrow, but can hold today;
你不能样样顺利，但可以事实尽心；
You can't be everything smooth, but can be devote with fact;
你不能左右天气，但可以改变心情；
You can't or so weather, but can change a mood;
你不能改变容貌，但可以展现笑容；
You can't change facial appearance, but can emerge smiling face;
是的，心态有时比什么都重要。

Yes, the mindset sometimes compares what all important.
快乐人生指南
Happy life guidebook
一发现错误，立即改正。

Correct immediately while discovering mistake.
牢记自己喜爱的诗词歌赋。

The poem phrase song that keeps firmly in mind oneself's fancy endow with. 不要打断别人对你的称赞。

Don't interrupt the other people's compliment to you.
多读些书，少看些电视。

Read some books more, watch some televisions less.
意见不合，可据理力争，但不可辱骂对方。

The opinion be unsuited to, can argue by reasoning, but can't insult and humiliate the other party.
谨记：
Bear in mind:
伟大的爱和卓越的成就都需要冒极大的风险。

The great love needs to emit tremendous risk with outstanding achievement all. 尊重别人，尊重自己，为自己的行为负责。

Respect other people, respect an oneself, be responsible for own behavior. 如果失败了，千万不要忘记失败的教训。

If fail, never forget the precept of[with] failure.
过快乐及有尊严的人生，那么，当你回想过去的岁月时，就可以再一次快乐地享受人生。

While being you to remember past years so over the life of[with] the happiness and the dignity, can enjoy life again and happily.
多与别人分享你的思想和知识，是达到不朽的途径之一。

The thought and knowledge shared you with other people much, is attain immortal of one of the path.
规则要懂，但不要死守，要学会变通。

The rule want to understand, but don't defend to the death, master to improvise. 你的性格就是你的命运。

You of the personality be you of destiny.
用付出的代价去衡量成功。

Measure success with the price of pay.
微笑着接听电话，对方会感到你的微笑。

Smile to connect to hear a telephone, the other party will feel you of smile. 随时准备接受新事物，但不要丢弃应珍惜的东西。

Prepare to accept new thing at any time, but don't throw away the thing that should cherish.
专注自己的事务。