李开复给女儿的信
李开复写给女儿
1、永远不要让任何一个男人成为你生命的全部,要懂得投入越多,失去越多的道理。
2、不要为任何男人放弃自己的个性,其实并不是你迁就他,就可以让他觉得你多好,恰恰相反,男人更喜欢有自己个性的女人。
3、千万不可以为了爱情,放弃事业,很简单,选择爱情,一旦爱情没有了,你就什么都没有了,选择事业,即使爱情没有了,可是你还有本事赚钱养活自己,还有属于自己的生活。
4、不要企图依附男人生活,没有人会对寄生虫保持永远的热情。
5、不要过度的索取,如果你爱他,那么为了你们的将来,你应该珍惜他的收获,为你们的以后做好规划，如果你不爱他,迟早会离开他,那么不要在分手后,让他有机会在别人面前说你只是贪图他的钱。
6、不要在你的爱情遭遇第三者时,一味的妥协,原谅.要知道,有些事可以原谅,但有些事是一辈子的伤痕。
7、不要在生活的细节上计较那么多,要知道,大部分男人,是孩子,需要你的照顾。
8、不要在发现你的爱情没有爱了的时候,还固执的坚持,有时候,放手,不光是给他自由,还是给自己一条生路。
9、不要认为谁离开谁就活不下去,要知道,你的生命来自父母,除他们之外,没有任何人值得你付出生命的代价,而你的父母只会希望你快乐平安。
10、不要把你所有的钱花在他身上,女人该对自己好点。
11、不要为任何人打扮自己或把自己搞得不修边幅,要每天都把自己装扮的干干净净,漂漂亮亮,美丽,只为自己。
12、不要为任何人放弃你的朋友,忽视你的家人,要知道,如果有一天爱情不在了,真正在你身边支持你的不是那个曾经的山盟海誓,而是这些人。
13、不要把世事看得太重,我们生活在这世界上,都是戏子,台上的演,台下的看,所以,演得时候认真,看得时候就不要太认真。
14、不要总是用眼泪去打动去挽留,有时侯你的眼泪适得其反,微笑,一定要自信的微笑着面对一切!15、不要看低自己,每个人都有自己的优秀,他不懂珍惜,就找懂珍惜你的,他不会欣赏,就找欣赏你的!错过这一站,只因为最好的那个在下一站等你。
李开复给女儿的信
Dear Daughter,As we drove off from Columbia, I wanted to write a letter to you to tell you all that is on my mind.First, I want to tell you how proud we are. Getting into Columbia is a real testament of what a great well-rounded student you are. Your academic, artistic, and social skills have truly blossomed in the last few years. Whether it is getting the highest grade in Calculus, completing your elegant fashion design, successfully selling your painted running shoes, or becoming one of the top orators in Model United Nations, you have become a talented and accomplished young woman. You should be as proud of yourself as we are.I will always remember the first moment I held you in my arms. I felt a tingling sensation that directly touched my heart. It was an intoxicating feeling I will always have. It must be that "father-daughter connection" which will bind us for life. I will always remember singing you a lullaby while I rocked you to sleep. When I put you down, it was always with both relief (you finally fell asleep!) and regret (wishing I could hold you longer). And I will always remember taking you to the playground, and watching you having so much fun. You were so cute and adorable, and that is why everybody loved you so.You have been a great kid ever since you were born, always quiet, empathetic, attentive and well-mannered. You were three when we built our house. I remember you quietly followed us every weekend for more than ten hours a day to get building supplies. You put up with that boring period without a fuss, happily ate hamburgers every meal in the car, sang with Barney until you fell asleep. When you went to Chinese Sunday school, you studied hard even though it was no fun for you. I cannot believe how lucky we are as parents to have a daughter like you.You have been an excellent elder sister. Even though you two had your share of fights, the last few years you have become best friends. Your sister loves you so much, and she loves to make you laugh. She looks up to you, and sees you as her role model. As you saw when we departed, she misses you so much. And I know that you miss her just as much. There is nothing like family, and other than your parents, your sisteris the one person who you can trust and confide in. She will be the one to take care of you, and the one you must take care of. There is nothing we wish more than that your sisterhood will continue to bond as you grow older, and that you will take care of each other throughout your lives. For the next four years, do have a short video chat with her every few days, and do email her when you have a chance.College will be the most important years in your life. It is in college that you will truly discover what learning is about. You often question "what good is this course". I encourage you to be inquisitive, but I also want to tell you: "Education is what you have left after all that is taught is forgotten." What I mean by that is the materials taught isn't as important as you gaining the ability to learn a new subject, and the ability to analyze a new problem. That is really what learning in college is about – this will be the period where you go from teacher-teaches to master-inspires, after which you must become a self-learner. So do take each subject seriously, and even if what you learn isn't critical for your life, the skills of learning will be something you cherish forever.Do not fall into the trap of dogma. There is no single simple answer to any question. Remember during your high school debate class, I always asked you to take on the side that you don't believe in. I did that for a reason -- things rarely "black and white", and there are always many ways to look at a problem. You will become a better problem solver if you recognized that. This is called "critical thinking", and it is the most important thinking skill you need for your life. This also means you need to become tolerant and supportive of others. I will always remember when I went to my Ph.D. advisor and proposed a new thesis topic. He said "I don't agree with you, but I'll support you." After the years, I have learned this isn't just flexibility, it is encouragement of critical thinking, and an empowering style of leadership, and it has become a part of me. I hope it will become a part of you too.Follow your passion in college. Take courses you think you will enjoy. Don't be trapped in what others think or say. Steve Jobs says when you are in college, your passion will create many dots, and later in your life you will connect them. In his great speech given at Stanford commencement, he gave the great example where hetook calligraphy, and a decade later, it became the basis of the beautiful Macintosh fonts, which later ignited desktop publishing, and brought wonderful tools like Microsoft Word to our lives. His expedition into calligraphy was a dot, and the Macintosh became the connecting line. So don't worry too much about what job you will have, and don't be too utilitarian, and if you like Japanese or Korean, go for it, even if your dad thinks "it's not useful". Enjoy picking your dots, and be assured one day you will find your calling, and connect a beautiful curve through the dots.Do your best in classes, but don't let pressure get to you. Your mother and I have no expectations for your grades. If you graduate and learn something in your four years, we would feel happy. Your Columbia degree will take you far, even if you don't graduate with honors. So please don't give yourself pressure. During your last few months in high school, you were so happy because there was little pressure and college applications are finished. But in the past few weeks, we saw you are beginning to worry (did you know you bite your nails when you are nervous?). Please don't be worried. The only thing that matters is that you learned. The only metric you should use is that you tried. Grades are just silly letters that give the vain people something to brag, and the lazy people something to fear. You are too good to be either.Most importantly, make friends and be happy. College friends are often the best in life, because during college you are closer to them physically than to your family. Also, going through independence and adulthood is a natural bonding experience. Pick a few friends and become really close to them – pick the ones who are genuine and sincere to you. Don't worry about their hobbies, grades, looks, or even personalities. You have developed some real friendships in high school in your last two years, so trust your instinct, and make new friends. You are a genuine and sincere person –anyone would enjoy being your friend, so be confident, outgoing, and proactive. If you think you like someone, tell her. You have very little to lose. Give people the benefit of the doubt; don't stereotype and be forgiving. People are not perfect, so as long as they are genuine and sincere, trust them and be good to them. They will give back. This is my secret of success – that I am genuine with people andtrust them (unless they do something to lose my trust). Some people tell me that occasionally I would be taken advantage of. They are right, but I can tell you that that loss is nothing compared to what I gained. In my last 18 years leading people, I have realized that only one thing matters – to gain the trust and respect of others, and to do so, you need to trust and respect others first. Whether it is for management, work, or friendship, this is something you should ponder.Do keep your high school friends, and stay connected to them, but do not use them as substitutes for college friendship, and do not spend too much time with them, because that would eat into your time to make new friends.Start planning for your summers early –what would you like to do? Where would you like to live? What would you like to learn? What have you learned in college that might change your mind? I think your plan of studying fashion is good, and you should decide where you want to be, and get into the right courses. We of course hope you come back to Beijing, but you should go where you think is best for you.Whether it is summer planning, or coursework planning, or picking a major, or managing your time, you should take control of your life. In the past, I have helped you quite a bit, whether it is in college application, designing your extracurricular activities, or picking the initial coursework. I will always be there for you, but the time has come for you to be in the driver's seat – this is your life, and you need to be in control. I will always remember the exhilarating feeling in my life – that I got to decide to skip kindergarten, that I got to decide to change to computer science major, that I got to decide to leave academia for Apple, that I got to decide to go to China, that I got to decide to go to Google, and most recently, that I got to decide to start my own business. Being able to decide means you get to live the life that you want to. Life is too short for you to live the life others do or others want you. Being in control feels great. Try it, and you'll love it!I told your mom I'm writing this letter, and asked what she wanted me to say. She thought and said: "just ask her to take care of herself." Simple but deeply caring –that is how your mother is, and that is why you love her so much. In this simplesentence is her hope that you will become independent in the way you take care of yourself –that you will remember to take your medicine, that you will get enough sleep, that you will have a balanced diet, that you will get some exercise, and that you will go see a doctor whenever you don't feel good. An ancient Chinese proverb says that the most important thing to be nice to your parents is to take care of yourself. This is because your parents love you so much, and that if you are well, they will have comfort. You will understand this one day when you become a mother. But in the meantime, please listen to your mother and take care of yourself.College is the four years where you have:•the greatest amount of free time•the first chance to be independent•the most flexibility to change•the lowest ris k for making mistakesSo please treasure your college years – make the best of your free time, become an independent thinker in control of your destiny, evolve yourself into a bi-cultural talent, be bold to experiment, learn and grow through your successes and challenges.When I faced the greatest challenge and opportunity in my life in 2005, you gave me a big hug and said "bonne chance", which means "good luck" and "good courage". Now I do the same for you. Bonne chance, my angel and princess. May Columbia become the happiest four years in your life, and may you blossom into just what you dream to be.Love,Dad (& Mom)。
李开复写给女儿的信Letterto+Daughter
Letter to DaughterOct. 9, 2009 Dear Daughter,As we drove off from Columbia, I decided to write you a letter to tell you all that is on my mind. First, I want to tell you how proud we are. Admission to Columbia is a real testament to your academic, artistic and social abilities. Whether it was getting the highest grade in Calculus, completing your elegant fashion design, successfully selling your painted running shoes, or becoming one of the top orators in the Model United Nations, you have become a talented and accomplished young woman. You should be as proud of yourself as we are.I will always remember the first time I held you in my arms. I felt a tingling sensation in my heart tha t must have been our “father-daughter connection” which will bind us for life. I remember singing you a lullaby while I rocked you to sleep. You have been a wonderful daughter ever since you were born, always quiet, empathetic, attentive, and well-mannered. I remember my daughter of three following us around every weekend to get building supplies. You put up with that boring period without a fuss, happily eating hamburgers in the car and singing with Barney until you fell asleep. You even went to Sunday Chinese school and studied hard even though it was no fun for you. I cannot believe how lucky we are as parents to have a daughter like you.You have been an excellent elder sister. Sometimes the two of you argued, but in the last few years you have become best friends. Your sister adores you and looks up to you as her role model. As you saw when we departed, she will miss you so much. There is nothing like family, and other than your parents, your sister is the one person who you can always confide in. There is nothing we wish more than that your sisterhood will continue to bond as you grow older, and that you will care for each other throughout your lives. While you are at college, do have a short video chat with her or email her every few days.College will be the most important years in your life. You often question “what good is this course”.While you should remain inquisitive, always remember that “education is what you have left after all that is taught is forgotten”.In college you will move from being teacher-taught to master-inspired, after which you must become a self-directed learner. Please take each subject seriously, for evenif what you learn isn’t critical for your life, the skills of learning will be something you cherish forever.Do not fall into the trap of dogma. There is no single simple answer to any question. Remember your high school debate class, when I told you to argue the side that you did n’t believe in I did that to show you things are rar ely “black and white”, and a problem can always be looked at from different perspectives. This is “critical thinking”, and it is the most important skill you need in life. You must also become tolerant and supportive of others. I remember when I proposed a new dissertation topic to my . advisor. He said “I don’t fully agree with you, but I’ll support you.”I have come to learn this isn’t just flexibility but is supportive of critical thinking. This is an empowering style of leadership that I try to follow. I hope you will too.Follow your passion in college and take courses you will enjoy. Steve Jobs said when you are in college, your passion will create many dots, and later in your life you will connect them. In his great commencement speech at Stanford, Jobs spoke of his calligraphy class, and how a decade later it became the basis for the beautiful Macintosh fonts, which later ignited desktop publishing and brought fabulous tools like Microsoft Word to our lives. His expedition into calligraphy was a dot, and the Macintosh became the connecting line. Do not worry excessively what career you will have, and don’t be too utilitarian. If you like Japanese, go for it, even if your dad thinks “it’s not useful.” Enjoy picking your dots, and be assured one day you will find your calling, and connect a gorgeous curve through the dots.Exert yourself in classe s, but don’t let pressure upset you. Your mother and I have no expectations for your grades. If you graduate and educate yourself in your four years, we will feel happy. Your Columbia degree will take you far, even if you don’t graduate with honors.The only thing that matters is that you have learned and the only metric you should use is that you have tried. Grades are just silly letters that vain people brag about, and lazy people dread. You are too good to be either.Most importantly, make friends and be happy. College friends will be the best in your life because they are not only physically closer than your family but the bonds will be strong as you gain independence and enter adulthood together. Choose friends who are genuine and sincere to you. Don’t worry about their hobbies or even their personalities. Be self-assured, outgoing and proactive. Keep your high school friends and stay connected to them, but do not use them as substitutes for college friendship. You have chosen wonderful friends from high school, so trust your instincts. Give people the benefit of the doubt; don’t stereotype and alwaysforgive. People are imperfect, so as long as they are genuine and sincere, trust them and be good to them. This is my secret of success –I am genuine with people and trust them (unless they do something to lose my trust). Sometimes I am taken advantage of by dishonest people but that loss is nothing compared to what I have gained from being open. Whether it is for management, work, or friendship, this is something you should ponder.Whatever decisions that confront you, you must take control of your life. I used to help you, whether it was in extracurricular activities or your college application. I will always be there for you, but the time has come for you to be in the driver’s seat. I remember the exhilarating feeling when I took real control of my life by deciding to leave academia for Apple, and then go to China and work for Google. Later I decided to start my own business. Being able to decide means you get to live the life you want to.I told your mom I’m writing this letter, and asked what she wanted me to say. She thought and said: “just ask her to take care of herself.” Simple but deeply caring –that is how your mother is. In this short sentence is her hope that you will become independent in the way you look after yourself – whether it be getting sufficient sleep, following a balanced diet, taking some exercise, or seeing a doctor whenever you are ill. An ancient Chinese proverb goes that the best way to be nice to your parents is to take care of yourself. This is because your parents love you so much, and that if you are well, they will have comfort. You will understand this one day when you become a mother. But in the meantime, please listen to your mother and take care of yourself.College is the four years where you have:• the greatest amount of free time• the first chance to be independent• the most flexibility to change• the lowest risk for making mistakesSo please treasure your college years – make the best of your free time, become an independent thinker in control of your destiny, evolve yourself into a bi-cultural talent and be bold to experiment, learn and grow through your successes and challenges.When I faced the greatest challenge and opportunity in my life in 2005, you gave me a big hug and said “bonne chance”, which means “good luck” and “good courage”. Now I do the same for you. Bonne chance, my angel and princess. May Columbia become the happiest four years in your life, and may you blossom into just what you dream to be.Love,Dad (& Mom)。
英语短文-英汉英语美文：李开复写给女儿的一封信(英汉双语美文)
英语短文英汉英语美文：李开复写给女儿的一封信（英汉双语美文）亲爱的女儿: dear daughter,当我们开车驶出哥伦比亚大学的时候，我想写一封信给你，告诉你盘旋在我脑中的想法。
as we drove off from columbia, i wanted to write a letter to you to tell you all that is on my mind.首先，我想告诉你我们为你感到特别骄傲。
进入哥伦比亚大学证明你是一个全面发展的优秀学生，你的学业、艺术和社交技能最近都有卓越的表现，无论是你高中微积分第一名，时尚的设计，绘制的球鞋，还是在“模拟联合国”的演说，你毫无疑问已经是一个多才多艺的女孩。
你的父母为你感到骄傲，你也应该像我们一样为自己感到自豪。
first, i want to tell you how proud we are. getting into columbia is a real testament of what a great well-rounded student you are. your academic, artistic, and social skillshave truly blossomed in the last few years. whether it is getting the highest grade in calculus, completing your elegant fashion design, successfully selling your painted running shoes, or becoming one of the top orators in model united nations, you have become a talented and accomplished young woman. you should be as proud of yourself as we are.我会永远记得第一次将你抱在臂弯的那一刻，一种新鲜激动的感觉瞬间触动了我的心，那是一种永远让我陶醉的感觉，就是那种将我们的一生都联结在一起的“父女情结”。
【处世之道】李开复写给女孩儿的话：献给单身好女孩
【处世之道】李开复写给女孩儿的话：献给单身好女孩【处世之道】李开复写给女孩儿的话：献给单身好女孩你必须找到除了爱情之外，能够使你用双脚坚强站在大地上的东西。
你要找到谋生的方式。
现在考虑不晚了。
我从来不以为学历有什么重要，天才都不是科班，但，不是科班，连龙套都跑不了。
你必须把那些浮如飘絮的思绪，渐渐转化为清晰的思路和简单的文字。
华丽和漂浮都不易长久。
你要知道，给予文字阅读快感不够的，内容，思想，境界，灵魂，精神和智慧，这些才重要。
不要多看那些和你一个路数的女作家的文字。
不要琐碎，无病呻吟。
不要想到什么就写。
不要流于小感伤和小感动。
我要你相信温暖，美好，信任，尊严，坚强这些老掉牙的字眼。
我不要你颓废，空虚，迷茫，糟践自己，伤害别人.我不要你把自己处理得一团糟。
节制自己的感情。
不是任何人都能要。
体验生活，是另外一回事，并不意味着堕落和放纵。
千万不要认同那些伪装的酷和另类。
他们是无事可做的人找出来放任自己无事可做的借口。
真正的酷是在内心。
你要有强大的内心。
要有任凭时间流逝，不会磨折和屈服的信念。
不是因为在象牙塔中，才说出我爱世界这样的话。
是知道外面的黑，脏，丑陋之后，还要说出这样的话。
好好去爱，去生活。
青春如此短暂，不要叹老。
偶尔可以停下来休息，但是别蹲下来张望。
走了一条路的时候，记得别回头看。
时不时问问自己，自己在干吗。
伤心和委屈的时候，要嚎啕大哭。
哭完洗完脸，拍拍自己的脸，挤出一个微笑给自己看。
不要揉，否则第二天早上会眼睛肿。
给自己一个远大的前程和目标。
记得常常仰望天空。
记住仰望天空的时候也看看脚下。
任何时候，任何人问你，有过多少次恋爱，答案是两次。
一次是他爱我，我不爱他。
一次是我爱他，他不爱我好的爱情永远在下一次。
别给同一个男人两次伤害你的机会。
相信我，男人多的是，比三条腿的青蛙多得多。
别轻易说出“爱”。
相信你的直觉。
不要招惹别人的男人除非你非常非常爱他，并且，他非常非常值得爱。
不要招惹寻找与前女友相似，和他母亲，姐姐相似女人的男人。
李开复写给他女儿的一封信
李开复写给他女儿的一封信Dear Daughter:As we drove off from Columbia, I wanted to write a letter to you to tell you all that is on my min d.First, I want to tell you how proud we are. Getting into Columbia is a real testament of what a grea t well-rounded student you are. Your academic, artistic, and social skills have truly blossomed in the last few years. Whether it is getting the highest grade in Calculus, completing your elegant fashion d esign, successfully selling your painted running shoes, or becoming one of the top orators in Model United Nations, you have become a talented and accomplished young woman. You should be as prou d of yourself as we are.I will always remember the first moment I held you in my arms. I felt a tingling sensation that dire ctly touched my heart. It was an intoxicating feeling I will always have. It must be that ―father-daug hter connection‖ which will bind us for life. I will always reme mber singing you lullaby while I roc ked you to sleep. When I put you down, it was always with both relief (she finally fell asleep!) and regret (wishing I could hold you longer). And I will always remember taking you to the playground, and watching you having so much fun. You were so cute and adorable, and that is why everybody loved you so.You have been a great kid ever since you were born, always quiet, empathetic, attentive, and well-m annered. You were three when we built our house. I remember you quietly followed us every weeken d for more than ten hours a day to get building supplies. You put up with that boring period withou t a fuss, happily ate hamburgers every meal in the car, sang with Barney until you fell asleep. When you went to Sunday Chinese school, you studied hard even though it was no fun for you. I cannot believe how lucky we are as parents to have a daughter like you.You have been an excellent elder sister. Even though you two had your share of fights, the last few years you have become best friends. Your sister loves you so much, and she loves to make you lau gh. She looks up to you, and sees you as her role model. As you saw when we departed, she misse s you so much. And I know that you miss her just as much. There is nothing like family, and otherthan your parents, your sister is the one person who you can trust and confide in. She will be the one to take care of you, and the one you must take care of. There is nothing we wish more than th at your sisterhood will continue to bond as you grow older, and that you will take care of each othe r throughout your lives. For the next four years, do have a short video chat with her every few days, and do email her when you have a chance.College will be the most important years in your life. It is in college that you will truly discover wh at learning is about. You often question ―what good is this course‖. I encourage you to be inquisitive, but I also want to tell you : “education is what you have left after all that is taught is forgotte n‖. What I mean by that is the materials taught isn’t as important as you gaining the ability to learn a new subject, and the ability to analyze a new problem. That is really what learning in college is about –this will be the period where you go from teacher-taught to master-inspired, after which you must become self-learner. So do take each subject seriously, and even if what you learn isn’t critical for your life, the skills of learning will be something you cherish forever.Do not fall into the trap of dogma. There is no single simple answer to any question. Remember dur ing your high school debate class, I always asked you to take on the side that you don’t believe in?I did that for a reason —things rarely ―black and white‖, and there are always many ways to loo k at a problem. You will become a better problem solver if you recognized that. This is called ―critic al thinking‖, and it is the most important thinking skill you need for your life. This also means you need to become tolerant and supportive of others. I will always remember when I went to my Ph.D. advisor and proposed a new thesis topic. He said ―I don’t agree with you, but I’ll support you.‖ Af ter the years, I have learned this isn’t just flexibility, it is encouragement of critical thinking, and an empowering style of leadership, and it has become a part of me. I hope it will become a part of y ou too.Follow your passion in college. Take courses you think you will enjoy. Don’t be trapped in what oth ers think or say. Steve Jobs says when you are in college, your passion will create many dots, and l ater in your life you will connect them. In his great speech given at Stanford commencement , he ga ve the great example where he took calligraphy, and a decade later, it became the basis of the beauti ful Macintosh fonts, which later ignited desktop publishing, and brought wonderful tools like Microsof t Word to our lives. His expedition into calligraphy was a dot, and the Macintosh became the connec ting line. So don’t worry too much about what job you will have, and don’t be too utilitarian, and if you like Japanese or Korean, go for it, even if your dad thinks ―it’s not Enjoy picking your dots, and be assured one day you will find your useful.‖ calling, and connect a beautiful curve through t he dots.Do your best in classes, but don’t let pressure get to you. Your mother and I have no expectations f or your grades. If you graduate and learn something in your four years, we would feel happy. Your Columbia degree will take you far, even if you don’t graduate with honors. So please don’t give you rself pressure。
李开复写给女孩子们的
你必须找到除了爱情之外，能够使你用双脚坚强站在大地上的东西。
你要找到谋生的方式，最重要是能让自己开心的方式，现在考虑不晚了。
你必须把那些浮如飘絮的思绪，渐渐转化为清晰的思路和简单的文字。
华丽和漂浮都不易长久，你要知道，给予文字阅读快感不够的，内容、思想、境界、灵魂、精神和智慧，这些才重要。
不要多看那些和你一个路数的女作家的文字。
不要琐碎，无病呻吟。
不要想到什么就写。
不要流于小感伤和小感动。
我要你相信温暖、美好、信任、尊严、坚强这些老掉牙的字眼。
我不要你颓废、空虚、迷茫、糟践自己、伤害别人。
我不要你把自己处理得一团糟。
节制自己的感情。
不是任何人都能要。
体验生活，是另外一回事，并不意味着堕落和放纵。
千万不要认同那些伪装的酷和另类。
他们是无事可做的人找出来放任自己无事可做的借口。
真正的酷是在内心。
你要有强大的内心。
要有任凭时间流逝，不会磨折和屈服的信念。
不是因为在象牙塔中，才说出我爱世界这样的话。
是知道外面的黑、脏、丑陋之后，还要说出这样的话。
好好去爱，去生活。
青春如此短暂，不要叹老。
偶尔可以停下来休息，但是别蹲下来张望。
走了一条路的时候，记得别回头看。
伤心和委屈的时候，要嚎啕大哭，哭完洗洗脸，拍一拍，挤出一个微笑给自己看。
不要揉，否则第二天早上会眼睛肿。
给自己一个远大的前程和目标。
记得常常仰望天空，尤其是晚上清澈的星空。
记住仰望天空的时候也看看脚下。
不要相信在恋爱上用手段的人。
分手时不要口出恶言。
吸取教训，但不要后悔。
后悔没有用。
别干撕照片、烧信、撕日记这样一类三流爱情电视剧中才有人干的事。
如果真的有什么想要忘记的话就随它去吧。
不在乎自然就会遗忘。
相信爱情，相信好男人在茫茫人海中终会寻觅到你。
找不到答案的事情就不要再想，不要自己给自己忧伤的陷阱。
不可以恨这个世界。
因为你那么爱它它不会让你失望的。
爱物质，适当地。
永远知道精神更重要。
比那些名表、名牌、时装，更加美丽的是你自己。
再精致的妆容也比不上健康纯真的微笑。
李开复写给女儿的信
你必须找到除了爱情之外，能够使你用双脚坚强站在大地上地东西.你要找到谋生地方式，最重要是能让自己开心地方式，现在考虑不晚了.你必须把那些浮如飘絮地思绪，渐渐转化为清晰地思路和简单地文字.华丽和漂浮都不易长久，你要知道，给予文字阅读快感不够地，内容、思想、境界、灵魂、精神和智慧，这些才重要.不要多看那些和你一个路数地女作家地文字.不要琐碎，无病呻吟.不要想到什么就写.不要流于小感伤和小感动.我要你相信温暖、美好、信任、尊严、坚强这些老掉牙地字眼.我不要你颓废、空虚、迷茫、糟践自己、伤害别人.我不要你把自己处理得一团糟.节制自己地感情.不是任何人都能要.体验生活，是另外一回事，并不意味着堕落和放纵.千万不要认同那些伪装地酷和另类.他们是无事可做地人找出来放任自己无事可做地借口.真正地酷是在内心.你要有强大地内心.要有任凭时间流逝，不会磨折和屈服地信念.不是因为在象牙塔中，才说出我爱世界这样地话.是知道外面地黑、脏、丑陋之后，还要说出这样地话.好好去爱，去生活.青春如此短暂，不要叹老.偶尔可以停下来休息，但是别蹲下来张望.走了一条路地时候，记得别回头看.伤心和委屈地时候，要嚎啕大哭，哭完洗洗脸，拍一拍，挤出一个微笑给自己看.不要揉，否则第二天早上会眼睛肿.给自己一个远大地前程和目标.记得常常仰望天空，尤其是晚上清澈地星空.记住仰望天空地时候也看看脚下.不要相信在恋爱上用手段地人.分手时不要口出恶言.吸取教训，但不要后悔.后悔没有用.别干撕照片、烧信、撕日记这样一类三流爱情电视剧中才有人干地事.如果真地有什么想要忘记地话就随它去吧.不在乎自然就会遗忘.相信爱情，相信好男人在茫茫人海中终会寻觅到你.找不到答案地事情就不要再想，不要自己给自己忧伤地陷阱.不可以恨这个世界.因为你那么爱它它不会让你失望地.***质，适当地.永远知道精神更重要.比那些名表、名牌、时装，更加美丽地是你自己.再精致地妆容也比不上健康纯真地微笑.别瞧不起劳动人民，不要为劳动羞耻.土地不脏，汗味也不难闻.请尊重那些似乎生活状况不如你地人，因为这样才是尊重自己.永远体恤那些生活在底层地人们，因为我们地亲人就是在这些人群中.我们不娇贵.不要小看一分钱.不妨自己去挣挣看.被朋友伤害了地时候，别怀疑友情，但提防背叛你地人.原谅，但并不遗忘.做人存几分天真童心，对朋友保持一些侠义之情.有小心机地女生是可爱地，但别把这种心计用在勾心斗角上，那样会很累.喜欢不喜欢不是嘴说就能证明什么，因为它存在于我们地内心.纵使嘴里说“不喜欢”并不能阻挡爱本身.所以有些事情不要去强求说出口才行地话语.做人不要太高调，高调容易招惹是非.但也不能太低调，该强悍时则强悍，但切不可咄咄逼人.同情那些比你可怜弱小地人，乐于助人，永远心存善念，怜悯，会使你高贵.宽待自己，也宽待别人.当你不会因为小小地不如意小小地事而生气或难过地时候，你会轻松很多.要原谅这世界和自己.要告诉自己，我值得拥有最好地一切. 要快乐，要开朗，要坚韧，要温暖，这和性格无关.。
李开复写给失恋女儿的一封信
李开复写给失恋女儿的一封信
亲爱的女儿，
我知道你现在心情很低落，失恋让你感到痛苦和伤心。
作为你的父亲，我希望能够给你一些支持和鼓励，帮助你走出这段困境。
我想告诉你，失恋是每个人都可能经历的一段经历。
它并不是你个人的问题，也不代表你不够好。
爱情是一种复杂的情感，它的产生和结束都是自然而然的事情。
无论怎样，你都应该相信自己，相信你值得被爱。
失恋虽然痛苦，但也是一个成长的机会。
通过这次经历，你可以更好地认识自己，了解自己的需求和价值观。
你可以反思这段感情，看看其中的不足之处，为未来的感情积累经验。
在这个过程中，你需要给自己一些时间来疗伤。
不要强迫自己忘记或者重新开始，因为这需要时间。
你可以找一些方式来舒缓自己的情绪，比如与朋友聚会、听音乐、看电影等等。
同时，也要学会接受自己的情绪，不要压抑或者逃避，因为这样只会让你更加痛苦。
我希望你记住，爱情不是生活的全部。
虽然失恋会让你觉得生活失去了意义，但实际上生活还有很多其他的美好。
你可以关注自己的事业、学业、兴趣爱好，让自己的生活变得充实起来。
这样不仅能够分散你的注意力，还能够让你更加独立和自信。
我要告诉你，我永远都会在你身边支持你。
无论你经历什么困难和挫折，我都会一直支持你，为你加油。
失恋只是人生中的一个小插曲，你还有很长的路要走，还有更多的机会等待着你。
亲爱的女儿，抬起头来，挺起胸膛，相信自己，你一定能够走出失恋的阴影，重新找到属于自己的幸福。
记住，爸爸永远爱你。
李开复_给女儿的一封信
李开复：给女儿的一封信Dear Daughter:亲爱的女儿：As we drove off from Columbia, I wanted to write a letter to you to tell you all that is on my mind.当我们开车驶出哥伦比亚大学的时候.我想写一封信给你.告诉你盘旋在我脑中的想法。
读大学前全家福First, I want to tell you how proud we are. Getting into Columbia is a real testament of what a great well-rounded student you are. Your academic, artistic, and social skills have truly blossomed in the last few years. Whether it is getting the highest grade in Calculus, completing your elegant fashion design, successfully selling your painted running shoes, or becoming one of the top orators in Model United Nations, you have become a talented and accomplished young woman. You should be as proud of yourself as we are.首先.我想告诉你我们为你感到特别骄傲。
进入哥伦比亚大学证明你是一个全面发展的优秀学生.你的学业、艺术和社交技能最近都有卓越的表现.无论是你高中微积分第一名.时尚的设计.绘制的球鞋.还是在“模拟联合国”的演说.你毫无疑问已经是一个多才多艺的女孩。
李开复给女儿的一封信
李开复给女儿的一封信文/李开复亲爱的女儿：我想写一封信给你，告诉你盘旋在我脑中的想法。
我想告诉你我们为你感到特别骄傲。
进入哥伦比亚大学证明你是一个全面发展的优秀学生。
大学将是你人生最重要的时光，在大学里你会发现学习的真谛。
我希望你理解，最重要的不是你学到的具体的知识，而是你学习新事物和解决新问题的能力。
大学学习的真正意义是，你从被动学习转向自主学习的阶段，之后你会变成一个很好的自学者。
就算学习的技能你会忘记，学习的能力是你将受用终身的。
不要被教条所束缚，任何问题都没有一个唯一的简单的答案。
还记得当我帮助你准备高中的辩论课程时，我总是让你站在你不认可的那一方来辩论吗？我这么做的理由就是希望你能够理解：看待一个问题不应该非黑即白，而是有很多方法和角度。
这就是“批判的思维”——你需要包容和支持不同于你的其他观点。
我永远记得我去找我的博士导师提出了一个新论题，他告诉我：“我不同意你，但我支持你。
”多年后，我认识到这不仅仅是包容，而是一种批判式思考，更是令人折服的领导风格，现在这也变成了我的一部分。
我希望这也能成为你的一部分。
在大学里你要追随自己的激情和兴趣，选你感兴趣的课程，不要困扰于别人怎么说或怎么想。
史蒂夫•乔布斯在他著名的斯坦福毕业典礼演讲中，提到一个例子：他在大学里修了看似毫无用处的书法，而十年后，这成了苹果M acint osh里漂亮字库的基础，然后才带来了桌面出版和今天的办公软件(例如微软Of fice)。
他对书法的探索就是一个点，而苹果Mac intos h把多个点串结成了一条线。
在功课上要尽力，但不要给自己太多压力。
你妈妈和我在成绩上对你没什么要求，最重要的是你在学习，你需要的唯一衡量标准是你的努力程度。
9位名人写给子女的信
9位名人写给子女的信扎克·伯格：发掘人类潜力促进人类平等今天我和你的母亲竭尽毕生，以自己的绵薄之力来帮助解决这些问题。
我会在接下来的很多很多年里仍然担任Facebook的CEO，但是这些问题太过重要，时不我待。
在现在这样一个年轻的年纪开始，我们希望在余生中可以见到所产生的好处。
鉴于你开启了陈-扎克伯格（Chan Zuckerberg）家族的下一代，我们也要开始陈-扎克伯格倡议（Chan Zuckerberg Initiative）：为了下一代的孩子，参与全世界的人们一起发掘人类潜力和促进人类平等。
我们倡议的领域会着重在个性化教育、治疗疾病、连接人们和创建强有力的社区。
我们会在接下来的人生中捐出Facbook99%的股份（现市值450亿美元，约2879亿人民币）来完成我们的使命。
（以上内容节选自扎克·伯格写给女儿麦克斯的信。
为了让女儿生活得更好，他和妻子没有把巨额财富留给女儿，而是留给了女儿来到的这个世界。
给女儿一个更加美好的世界，这就是给她最好的礼物。
）杨澜：学会忍耐与宽容学会忍耐与宽容。
因为可能有些时候就因为你的计较会让你失去自尊,成为被人指责的没有教养的女人。
给那些不友好的人善意的微笑，即能够让对方无地自容，也能够给别人留下大度且善解人意的好印象。
忍耐并不是懦弱，也不是伤自尊，而是宽容美。
生活里会遇到很多不公平的事情，也会遇到很多让你无法接受的人，我们不能试着去改变别人，与其非常愤怒的大声指责别人的行为，不如怀着理解的心态给对方一个微笑，任何一个人都不会去伤害一个善良的人。
让美貌成为你的资本。
在适当的时候让你的美貌掌握着足够的发言权。
漂亮的外貌并不是每个女孩都拥有的，让漂亮的外貌成为你的资本，在需要的时候用使用一下，它可以开启你人生中的很多困境，虽然有时候有人说漂亮的女孩都是花瓶，但是花瓶如果摆在了合适的位置，它就是艺术品。
有着美丽的外表又有着智慧的内在才是优秀的女人。
（以上内容节选自：《思维与智慧》2011年第16期。
李开复_给女儿的一封信
李开复：给女儿的一封信Dear Daughter:亲爱的女儿：As we drove off from Columbia, I wanted to write a letter to you to tell you all that is on my mind.当我们开车驶出哥伦比亚大学的时候.我想写一封信给你.告诉你盘旋在我脑中的想法。
读大学前全家福First, I want to tell you how proud we are. Getting into Columbia is a real testament of what a great well-rounded student you are. Your academic, artistic, and social skills have truly blossomed in the last few years. Whether it is getting the highest grade in Calculus, completing your elegant fashion design, successfully selling your painted running shoes, or becoming one of the top orators in Model United Nations, you have become a talented and accomplished young woman. You should be as proud of yourself as we are.首先.我想告诉你我们为你感到特别骄傲。
进入哥伦比亚大学证明你是一个全面发展的优秀学生.你的学业、艺术和社交技能最近都有卓越的表现.无论是你高中微积分第一名.时尚的设计.绘制的球鞋.还是在“模拟联合国”的演说.你毫无疑问已经是一个多才多艺的女孩。
李开复 给女儿的信
在大学里，你要追随自己的激情，选择自己感兴趣的课程，不要被别人的想法或说法所困扰。史蒂夫?乔布斯曾说过，在大学里，你的激情会创建出很多的“点”，而在你后来的人生中你会把这些“点”串联起来。在他著名的斯坦福大学毕业典礼演讲中，他举了一个很好的例子：在大学里他曾修了书法课，十年后，这成了苹果机漂亮字库的基础，也因为此，才有了后来的桌面出版系统，才有了我们日常使用的像微软Word这样出色的工具软件。他对书法的探索就是一个“点”，而他创建的苹果电脑就是连接线。所以，不必过分担心将来会从事什么工作，也不要过于急功近利。假如你喜欢日语或者朝鲜语，那就去学，就算爸爸认为“那没用”。尽情地去选择你的“点”吧，你要坚信有一天你会发现自己的使命，并用这些“点”勾勒出一条美丽的曲线。
大学时光将是你人生中最重要的时光，你会在大学里真正发现学习的真谛。你经常问“学这个课程有什么用”。我鼓励你保持好奇心、善疑善问，但是我想告诉你的是：“所谓教育就是忘记你在学校所学的一切之后所剩下的东西。”我的意思是说，重要的不是你要学到的知识，而是你学习新事物、分析新问题的能力。这才是大学里真正要学的东西——这将是你从被动学习向自主学习转换的阶段，从那之后你将会变成一个自学者。所以，就算你所学的并不是你生活所需，你也要认真对待每一门功课，因为学习的能力将是你受用终身的宝贵财富。
在大学里，最重要的是要广结善缘、乐观向上。大学的朋友往往是你一生中最好的朋友。因为在大学里你和他们朝夕相处，而且，你们一起学会独立，一起长大成人，这是一种源自自然和天性的经历，这种经历将会把你们紧紧相连。选几个真挚诚恳的朋友，跟他们成为密友，别在乎他们的喜好、学业、长相甚至性格。在高中的后两年你交了一些真心朋友，所以相信自己的直觉，去结交新朋友吧。你是一个真挚诚恳的人，谁都会乐意跟你做朋友的，所以自信起来、外向一点、主动一些，如果你喜欢谁，就告诉她。即使她拒绝了，你也没什么损失。要为他人排忧解难，不抱成见，体恤他人。更何况人无完人，只要他们真挚诚恳，你就要信任他们，对他们以友好示之，而他们也会回报于你。这也是我成功的秘决——以诚相见，诚信待人，除非他们做了失信于我的事。有人告诉我，偶尔我会被别人占便宜。他们说得对，但是我可以告诉你：那点损失和我所得到的相比根本不算什么。在我过去18年的领导生涯中，我意识到只有一件事非常重要——那就是要想得到他人的信任和尊重，你需要首先去信任和尊重他人。无论是管理、工作，还是交友，这一点你应该好好思量一下。
李开复写给女儿的信Letterto Daughter
Letter to DaughterOct. 9, 2009Dear Daughter,As we drove off from Columbia, I decided to write you a letter to tell you all that is on my mind. First, I want to tell you how proud we are. Admission to Columbia is a real testament to your academic, artistic and social abilities. Whether it was getting the highest grade in Calculus, completing your elegant fashion design, successfully selling your painted running shoes, or becoming one of the top orators in the Model United Nations, you have become a talented and accomplished young woman. You should be as proud of yourself as we are.I will always remember the first time I held you in my arms. I felt a tingling sensation in my heart tha t must have been our “father-daughter connection” which will bind us for life. I remember singing you a lullaby while I rocked you to sleep. You have been a wonderful daughter ever since you were born, always quiet, empathetic, attentive, and well-mannered. I remember my daughter of three following us around every weekend to get building supplies. You put up with that boring period without a fuss, happily eating hamburgers in the car and singing with Barney until you fell asleep. You even went to Sunday Chinese school and studiedhard even though it was no fun for you. I cannot believe how lucky we are as parents to have a daughter like you.You have been an excellent elder sister. Sometimes the two of you argued, but in the last few years you have become best friends. Your sister adores you and looks up to you as her role model. As you saw when we departed, she will miss you so much. There is nothing like family, and other than your parents, your sister is the one person who you can always confide in. There is nothing we wish more than that your sisterhood will continue to bond as you grow older, and that you will care for each other throughout your lives. While you are at college, do have a short video chat with her or email her every few days.College will be t he most important years in your life. You often question “what good is this course”. While you should remain inquisitive, always remember that “education is what you have left after all that is taught is forgotten”. In college you will move from being teacher-taught to master-inspired, after which you must become a self-directed learner. Please take each subject seriously, for even if what you learn isn’t critical for your life, the skills of learning will be something you cherish forever.Do not fall into the trap of dogma. There is no single simple answer to any question. Remember your high school debate class, when I told you to argue the side that you did n’t believe in?I did that to show you things are rarely “black and white”, and a problem can always be looked at from different perspectives. This is “critical thinking”, and it is the most important skill you need in life.You mustalso become tolerant and supportive of others. I remember when I proposed a new dissertation topic to my Ph.D. advisor. He said “I don’t fully agree with you, but I’ll support you.”I have come to learn this isn’t just flexibility but is supportive of critical thinking. This is an empowering style of leadership that I try to follow. I hope you will too.Follow your passio n in college and take courses you will enjoy. Steve Jobs said when you are in college, your passion will create many dots, and later in your life you will connect them. In his great commencement speech at Stanford, Jobs spoke of his calligraphy class, and how a decade later it became the basis for the beautiful Macintosh fonts, which later ignited desktop publishing and brought fabulous tools like Microsoft Word to our lives. His expedition into calligraphy was a dot, and the Macintosh became the connecting line. Do not worry excessively what career you will have, and don’t be too utilitarian. If you like Japanese, go for it, even if your dad thinks “it’s not useful.” Enjoy picking your dots, and be assured one day you will find your calling, and connect a gorgeous curve through the dots.Exert yourself in classes, but don’t let pressure upset you. Your mother and I have no expectations for your grades. If you graduate and educate yourself in your four years, we will feel happy. Your Columbia degree will take you far, even if you don’t graduate with honors. The only thing that matters is that you have learned and the only metric you should use is that you have tried. Grades are just silly letters that vain people brag about, and lazy people dread. You are too good to be either.Most importantly, make friends and be happy.College friends will be the best in your life because they are not only physically closer than your family but the bonds will be strong as you gain independence and enter adulthood together. Choose friends who are genuine and sincere to you. Don’t worry about their hobbies or even their personalities. Be self-assured, outgoing and proactive. Keep your high school friends and stay connected to them, but do not use them as substitutes for college friendship. You have chosen wonderful friends from high school, so trust your instincts. Give people the benefit of the doubt; don’t stereotype and always forgive. People are imperfect, so as long as they are genuine and sincere, trust them and be good to them. This is my secret of success – I am genuine with people and trust them (unless they do something to lose my trust). Sometimes I am taken advantage of by dishonest people but that loss is nothing compared to what I have gained from being open. Whether it is for management, work, or friendship, this is something you should ponder.Whatever decisions that confront you,you must take control of your life.I used to help you, whether it was in extracurricular activities or your college application. I will always be there for you, but the time has come for you to be in the driver’s seat. I remember the exhilarating feeling when I took real control of my life by deciding to leave academia for Apple, and then go to China and work for Google. Later I decided to start my own business. Being able to decide means you get to live the life you want to.I told your mom I’m writing this letter, and asked what she wanted me to say. She thought and said: “just ask her to take care of herself.”Simple but deeply caring – that is how your mother is. In this short sentence is her hope that you will become independent in the way you look after yourself –whether it be getting sufficient sleep, following a balanced diet, taking some exercise, or seeing a doctor whenever you are ill. An ancient Chinese proverb goes that the best way to be nice to your parents is to take care of yourself. This is because your parents love you so much, and that if you are well, they will have comfort. You will understand this one day when you become a mother. But in the meantime, please listen to your mother and take care of yourself.College is the four years where you have:•the greatest amount of free time•the first chance to be independent•the most flexibility to change•the lowest risk for making mistakesSo please treasure your college years – make the best of your free time, become an independent thinker in control of your destiny, evolve yourself into a bi-cultural talent and be bold to experiment, learn and grow through your successes and challenges.When I faced the greatest challenge and opportunity in my life in 2005, you gave me a big hug and said “bonne chance”, which means “good luck” and “good courage”.Now I do the same for you. Bonne chance, my angel and princess. MayColumbia become the happiest four years in your life, and may you blossom into just what you dream to be.Love,Dad (& Mom)。
李开复给女儿的一封信
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【摘要】@@ 新爱的女儿:rn当我们开车驶出哥伦比亚大学的时候,我想写一封信给你,告诉你盘旋在我脑中的想法.rn首先,我想告诉你,我们为你感到骄傲.进入哥伦比亚大学证明你是一个全面发展的优秀学生.
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优秀作文英语2【美文欣赏】【美文欣赏】李开复给女儿的信，教育了多少人！Dear Daughter:亲爱的女儿：As we drove off from Columbia, I wanted to write a letter to you to tell you all that is on my mind.当我们开车驶出哥伦比亚大学的时候，我想写一封信给你，告诉你盘旋在我脑中的想法。
First, I want to tell you how proud we are. Getting into Columbia is a real testament of what a great well-rounded student you are. Your academic, artistic, and social skills have truly blossomed in the last few years. Whether it is getting the highest grade in Calculus, pleting your elegant fashion design, successfully selling your painted running shoes, or being one of the top orators in Model United Nations, you have bee a talented and acplished young woman. You should be as proud of yourself as we are.首先，我想告诉你我们为你感到特别骄傲。
进入哥伦比亚大学证明你是一个全面发展的优秀学生，你的学业、艺术和社交技能最近都有卓越的表现，无论是你高中微积分第一名，时尚的设计，绘制的球鞋，还是在“模拟联合国”的演说，你毫无疑问已经是一个多才多艺的女孩。
李开复给女儿的一封信
李开复给女儿的一封信作者：李开复来源：《领导文萃》2010年第07期亲爱的女儿:当我们开车驶出哥伦比亚大学的时候,我想写一封信给你,告诉你盘旋在我脑中的想法。
首先,我想告诉你我们为你感到特别骄傲。
进入哥伦比亚大学证明你是一个全面发展的优秀学生,你的学业、艺术和社交技能最近都有卓越的表现,无论是你高中微积分第一名,时尚的设计,绘制的球鞋,还是在“模拟联合国”的演说,你毫无疑问已经是一个多才多艺的女孩。
你的父母为你感到骄傲,你也应该像我们一样为自己感到自豪。
我会永远记得第一次将你抱在臂弯的那一刻,一种新鲜激动的感觉瞬间触动了我的心,那是一种永远让我陶醉的感觉,就是那种将我们的一生都联结在一起的“父女情结”。
我也常常想起我唱着催眠曲轻摇你入睡,当我把你放下的时候,常常觉得既解脱又惋惜,一方面我想,她终于睡着了!另一方面,我又多么希望自己可以多抱你一会儿。
我还记得带你到运动场,看着你玩得那么开心,你是那样可爱,所有人都非常爱你。
你不但长得可爱,而且是个特别乖巧的孩子。
你从不吵闹、为人着想,既听话又有礼貌。
当你三岁我们建房子的时候,每个周末十多个小时你都静静地跟着我们去运建筑材料,三餐在车上吃着汉堡,唱着儿歌,唱累了就睡觉,一点都不娇气不抱怨。
你去上周日的中文学习班时,尽管一点也不觉得有趣,却依然很努力。
我们做父母的能有像你这样的女儿真的感到非常幸运。
你也是个很好的姐姐。
虽然你们姐妹以前也会打架,但是长大后,你们真的成为了好朋友。
妹妹很爱你,很喜欢逗你笑,她把你当成她的榜样看待。
我们开车离开哥大后,她非常想你,我知道你也很想她。
世界上最宝贵的就是家人。
和父母一样,妹妹就是你最可以信任的人。
随着年龄的增长,你们姐妹之间的情谊不变,你们互相照应,彼此关心,这就是我最希望见到的事情了。
在你的大学四年,有空时你一定要常常跟妹妹视频聊聊天,写写电子邮件。
大学将是你人生最重要的时光,在大学里你会发现学习的真谛。
你以前经常会问到“这个课程有什么用”,这是个好问题,但是我希望你理解:“教育的真谛就是当你忘记一切所学到的东西之后所剩下的东西。
李开复写给女儿的话
李开复写给女儿的话（一）女人一生千万不要做的几件事 ---李开复写给女儿的话1：永远不要让任何一个男人成为你生命的全部，要懂得投入越多，失去越多的道理。
2：不要为任何男人放弃自己的个格，其实并不是你将就他,就能够让他感觉你多好，恰恰相反，男人更喜爱有自己个性的女人。
3：千万不可认为了爱情，放弃事业，很简单，选择爱情，一旦爱情没有了，你就什么都没有了，选择事业，即便爱情没有了，可是你还有本事赚钱养活自己，还有属于自己的生活。
4：不要企图依附男人生活，没有人会对寄生虫保持永久的热情。
5：不要过度的索取，如果你爱他，那么为了你们的将来，你应该珍惜他的收获，为你们的以后做好规划；万一你不爱他,迟早会离开他，那么不要在分手后，让他有时机在别人面前说你只是贪图他的钱。
6：不要在你的爱情遭到第三者时，一味的妥协，原谅，要知道，有些事可以原谅，但是有些事是一辈子的伤痕。
7：不要在生活的枝节上计较那么多，要知道，大部分男人，是孩子，需要你的照顾。
8：不要在发觉你的爱情没有爱了的时候，还倔强的保持，有时候，放手，不光是给他自由，还是给自己一条活路。
9：不要义为谁离开谁就活不下去，要知道，你的生命来自父母，除他们之外，没有任何人值得你付出生命的代价，而你的父母只希望你平安快乐。
10：不要把你所有的钱花在他身上，女人该对自己好点。
11：不要为任何人打扮自己或把自己搞得不修边幅，要每天都把自己装扮的干干净净,漂漂亮亮,美丽，只为自己。
12：不要为任何人放弃你的朋友，忽略你的家人，要知道，如果有一天爱情不在了，真实在你身边支持你的不是那个曾经的山盟海誓，而是这些人。
13：不要把世事看得太重，我们生活在这世界上，都是戏子，台上的演，台下的看，所以，演得时候认真，看得时候就不要太认真。
14：不要总是用眼泪去触动去款留,有时侯你的眼泪事与愿违,微笑,必定要自信的微笑着面临一切！15：不要看低自己，每个人都有自己的优秀，他不懂珍惜，就找到珍惜你的，他不会欣赏，就找欣赏你的！错过这一站，只因为最好的那个在下一站等你。
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不要被教条所束缚，任何问题都没有唯一的简单的答案。看
待一个问题不应该非黑即白，而是有很多方法和角度。这就是“批判的思维”——你的一生都会需要的最重要的思考方式。
在大学里你要追随自己的激情和兴趣，选你感兴趣的课程，不要困扰于别人怎么说或怎么想。
最重要的是，在大学里你要交一些朋友，快乐生活。你应该挑选一些真挚诚恳的朋友，跟他们亲近，别在乎他们的爱好、成绩、外表甚至性格。只要他们很真诚，就信任他们，对他们友善。他们将给你相同的回报，这是我成功的秘密。
不管是暑假计划、功课规划，抑或是选专业、管理时间，你都应该负责你的人生。有能力进行选择，意味着你会过上自己想要的生活。
（《广州日报》11.19 李开源自文）