虎妈战歌中文版论文

虎妈战歌论文

其实读这本书是因为我根本不相信简单而粗暴的方法能够培养出优秀的人才，我相信这本书一定会为我展示不同教育理念下的冲突和实践。虎妈确实很粗暴，但很精明！

虎妈没有让人失望，在这本书的最后，更加明确而清晰的阐述了她的观点，还举了一个有趣的例子。她认为：西方父母对孩子的自尊担忧太多，但是作为父母，最不利于保护孩子自尊心的行为，就是你眼看着他们在困难面前放弃努力而不付出实际行动。

而她在教育小女儿学习弹奏《小白驴》这首曲子时，由于曲子的难度超过了小女儿当时的水平，因此需要经过非常艰苦的练习才能完成，但因为她的大女儿当时能够完成，因此虎妈坚信同年龄的小女儿一定也能做到。于是，她采取了几乎所有的办法，包括不吃饭，将撕坏的琴谱重新黏好，并采用多种多样的方式来进行练习，于是，到了最后，小女儿终于取得了突破，完成了这首曲子，母女重归于好，小女儿自信满满。

虎妈粗暴吗？相当粗暴，非常粗暴，但她很能干！

针对这个案例，我们来分析一下她的不一样的成功之处。

1. 她没有针对小女儿进行指责和批评，而是针对所设定的目标给出具体的、明确的练习要求。没有因为小女儿不想练习就采取简单的体罚，比如打手心、罚站等做法，却只是要求其坚持在钢琴旁边进行练习，不能不集中精力而去干别的事情或做出消极的抵抗。就这方面而言，显而易见，她的做法与某些中国父母看到孩子成绩不理想就暴打一顿的做法有着本质上的区别。

2. 在整个过程中，她保持了耐心、克制、冷静、理智，以及敢于承担责任的勇气。当小女儿失去信心，放弃努力，想找各种理由推辞而不愿练习时，虎妈没有失去耐心和冷静，而是目标明确的加以坚持和引导。例如，当小女儿因为反复练习却不能突破，因为要放弃努力而不被允许时，愤怒地将琴谱撕毁，但是虎妈没有因此被激怒，而是将琴谱重新黏好并装在塑料袋中以防再次被撕毁。从这当中，我们可以看出虎妈允许小女儿发泄对自己的不满，但小女儿发泄完了之后还是要继续练习以达到事先设定的目标。当她的丈夫也提出反对意见的时候，她也努力的去说服丈夫，深刻地指出她并不想让女儿成为一个独特的失败者，并表示她愿意独自担当一个“被孩子憎恶的恶人”。

3. 虎妈有足够的知识、技能和办法。强制小女儿去反复练习也要讲方法，要有正确的办法。虎妈自身有一定的音乐素养，并且陪着女儿去听了每一节钢琴课，不仅有指导大女儿学钢琴的经验而且还帮忙举办了大女儿的几场音乐会，因此具备了指导小女儿进行练习的能力，在练习中不是简单的要求小女儿反复练习，而是采用多种练习方式并变换使用，或者分解练习，或者综合演练，逐步推进，在小女儿难以坚持的时候，或者顾虑、或者强制，最终使得小女儿取得突破，并且在随后的公开演奏中取得了成功。

对于这个问题还要多说几点，钢琴演奏技巧，本质上说也是一种动作技能的学习，而人类习得和掌握动作技能的过程既有基本的发育规律，也确实存在不同的天赋，因此如果没有充分的把握，不要轻易拔苗助长。在体育运动训练中，就强调不要过早的进行专业化训练，要在运动员身体素质达到一定程度后再加大强度，否则虽然能够较早的取得较好的运动成绩，但由于伤病等原因，潜力也就没了。

我猜想音乐演奏的技能，认知和学习，逻辑思维的发展，都有着自身的规律。在教育儿童的过程中应该遵循这样的规律，可以适度超前，但不宜超前太多。这就需要教育者对这些规律有一些基本的认识。

再举一个例子，当年马俊仁在训练女子中长跑运动员的时候，常常天不亮就要开始越野长跑训练，有的小运动员跑着累了就放慢速度，脱离了大队人马，于是马俊仁就躲在暗处学狼叫，小运动员听到后吓得赶紧加快速度跟上了大队。但如果这个小运动员这个时候

确实已经体力不支了，恐怕这一声狼叫一阵猛加速就会导致训练过度，受伤，等等。

最后想说的是，虎妈教育女儿所取得的“成功”或许还需要时间的考验，但她的“成功”是很难被他人模仿的。

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I read this book because I don't believe in simple and crude way to cultivate outstanding talents. I believe this book will show me the different education under the concept of conflict and practice. Tiger mother really rude, but very smart!

Tiger mother did not disappoint, at the end of the book, clearer and clearly explained her point of view, but also gives an interesting example. She thinks: the Western parents of the child's self-esteem worry too much, but as parents, the most detrimental to the protection of the

child's pride, you see them give in to difficulties to not pay real action.

In her little daughter playing " The little White Donkey" this song, the song difficulty exceeded little daughter was level, therefore require very strenuous exercises to complete, but because her daughter was able to complete, so tiger mother firmly believe that with the age of the youngest daughter must also do. So, she took almost all the way, including don't eat, will tear us afresh sticky, and adopt a variety of ways to practice. So, in the end, young daughter finally made a breakthrough, performed this song together, mother and daughter, daughter of confidence.

Is tiger mother rude? Very rough, very rude, but she is very capable!

In this case, we will analyse her different success.

1 she did not aim at young daughter to blame and criticism, but the goal is clear, specific training requirements. Not because of the small daughter did not want to practice to take simple corporal punishment, such as playing the palm of the hand, standing practices, she only requires its adherence in piano practice, can't concentrate to do other things or make a negative resistance. In this regard, obviously, her practice with some Chinese parents see their children the result not to be ideal that is a good beating practices have substantially distinction.

2 in the process, she remained patient, restraint, calm, rational, and dare to take responsibility. When the little girl lost confidence, give up, looking for a variety of reasons to refuse to exercise, tiger mother didn't lose patience and calm, but targeted to hold and guide. For example, when a little girl because of repeated practice but can not break, because

of the need to give up and not be allowed, angrily the tablature tear, but tiger mother not so enraged, but will be free to viscosity and packed in plastic bags to prevent further torn. From this, we can see that tiger mother allow small daughter to give vent to their discontent, but the youngest daughter vent finished or to continue to practice in order to achieve the preset target. When her husband objected her, she also tried to persuade her husband, profoundly that she does not want to let her daughter to become a unique loser, and said that she would bear a child alone "is the villain abomination ".

3 tiger mother has sufficient knowledge, skills and methods. Forced young daughter to practice to speak, we should have a correct approach. Tiger mother has certain qualities of music, and with his daughter went to a piano lesson. Not only did she guide the daughter to learn piano experience but also helped organize the daughter of several concerts, it has guiding small daughter practice ability, in practice is not a simple request daughter repeatedly exercise, but using a variety of exercises and transform using decomposition, or practice, or drill, step by step, in a small daughter to adhere to it, or worry, or forced, ultimately makes the little girl made a breakthrough, and in the subsequent public performance was successful.

For this problem but also say a few more points, the piano playing skills, essentially is a kind of motor skill learning, and human learning and master sports skills process both the basic development law, and there are different talents, so if not fully grasp, do not easily spoil things by excessive enthusiasm. In sports training, emphasize not premature specialization training, the athletes' physical quality to a certain extent to increase strength, otherwise, although earlier achieved better performance, but due to injuries and other reasons, there is no potential.

I guess the music performance skills, cognitive and learning, logical thinking development, has its own laws. In the education of children in the process should follow the rules, may be appropriate, but not too far ahead. This requires the educators to these laws have some basic knowledge.

Another example, when Ma junren in the training of female middle distance runner in time, often just before dawn to begin roadwork, some small athletes running tired slowed down, broke away from the group, and Ma junren hiding in the shadows of the wolf, little athletes after hearing frighten hurry to speed up the brigade. But if this little athletes at this time was already exhausted, I'm afraid of the wolf's voice suddenly accelerated will lead to overtraining, injury, etc.

Finally, I want to say that tiger mother educating her daughter and having achieved "success" may also need the test of time, but her "success" is very difficult to be imitated by others.