失败其实并不可怕

失败其实并不可怕F•司各特•菲茨杰拉德(F. Scott Fitzgerald)曾经说过：“美国人的生命中没有第二幕。

”为数众多的企业家、投资者和高管肯定希望他是在胡说。

在过去的18个月中，许多人身败名裂，涌现了许多轰动一时的解雇事件，大量企业宣告破产。

我担心，在这个数字化的世界里，此类污名将被永远记录在案。

我们中间没有多少人能够毫发无损地避开这次经济衰退的打击——各种各样的错误已经被大量曝光。

因此我们都应该保持一种乐观的信念：这个世界比人们普遍认为的更为宽容。

失败后东山再起既困难又容易（后面一点有些奇怪）。

困难是因为你的履历上有了污点；容易是因为如果你以前成功过，你就知道如何才能成功。

尽管我们对遭受严重挫折的人持怀疑态度，但我们也对来之不易的经验表示尊敬。

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