风雨哈佛路作者演讲-中英对照稿

I don’t know how long can you know that there is something bigger for you, and yet you ignore that.
我不知道你要多久才能知道，你可以做到更重要的事，但你却忽视了它。

But I swore I have later, and I pushed that out so much. Have you ever heard a saying what a man can be he must to be? See, before she passed away, I thought I have all the time in the world. But then I was back to my neighborhood, and hung out with my friends. I thought life could be the same. But when she wasn’t there any more, this amazing thing happened to me transform the person I am. I have no longer have tolerance for the stagnation in my life.
因为我保证我会有“以后”，我却把它延后太久了。你是否听说过一条谚语，说“每个人都将成为他自己？”所以，在她去世之前，我以为在这世上，我拥有所有的时间，我回到邻居家，和朋友一起出去，我以为生活能够像往常一样。但她不在了，这件惊人的事改变了我。我已经不能再允许生活的停滞不前。

But you what I do have? Two hands and two feet. I have a brain in my head and air in my lungs. And what else do I really need? Like what else you really need to begin today to lead the life you know you are might to lead. You in your heart what it is. You know and what’s more you need to change before you step into that. I stood up and I looked at them. And then next feeling which has been the biggest resource in my life sense, gratitude.
但是我拥有什么？双手双脚，脑袋里有头脑，肺里有呼吸。那么还有什么是我真正需要的？就像还有什么是你在开始新的一天时真正需要的？去把握你的生活，而你知道你可能会被生活控制。你心里知道你想要什么，在达成之前还要做出哪些改变。我站起来，看着他们，接下来我的感受、后来成为了我生活中最强大的品质：感恩。

You can either pick one thing in life, resentment or gratitude. Get on the side, I promise you. I looked that moment, I realize that I mean haven’t my mother ever again. But I had these resources. I had myself and I could go forward.
你可以选择愤恨或感恩来度过你的生活，务必选择一个立场。那一刻，我意识到我再也没有妈妈了，但我有这些品质，我有自己，我还可以继续向前走。

I remembered that the feeling inside of me needing to change my life that voice in the back of my head. It took on the specific question. And the question was “What if?” You know that voice in your back of your head that says “What if?” What if I tried that much harder? What if I pushed one more time? “What if?” It’s the part of those your dreams.
我记得当时内心的感受要求我改变我的生活，有一个声音响在我的脑后，形成一个明确的问题。问题就是“如果…会怎样？”。你能体会脑后一直响着一个声音说“如果…

会怎样”吗？如果我更努力的话、如果我再试一次会怎么样？“如果…”它成为你梦想的一部分。

I was coming in every single day and I used all the energy in my body to produce in to get things done. Because that vision that I have for myself, this bigger life that I was stepping into, that became my commitment instead of my excuses.
从此的每一天，我都用全部力量去做这些事。因为我的梦想、我步入更广阔的生活，那是我的承诺，取代了我的借口。

You know you were at the moment, you just see in yourself. There is empowering choice. There is disempowering choice. And you got to pick one. Here’s what holds us back from having what we want to have….And tragedy gives myself excuse to being in disempowered conversation and give up. And I knew that I could really make this choice, but I so want to give up. And I could have woken up my friends “Hey, guys. Let’s up. I should do anything.” And they go “Yeah! Let’s…” You know they will agree with me. You wanna be careful while you get your agreements in your life. I have lots of agreements around that.
在那一刻，你只能看到你自己。有效选择，或无效选择，你要作出选择。这就是阻碍所在，阻挡我们获取想要得到的事物…生活中发生的悲剧给我借口，使我身处在无效对话中，然后选择放弃。我知道，我完全可以作出选择，可我又那么想放弃。我还可以叫醒我的朋友：“嘿，伙计们，起来了，我需要做些事情。”他们会说：“好啊！”他们会赞同我。生活中在你受到赞同的时候，你要小心。我就有得到过很多像这样错误的赞同。

But here’s difference. A disempowering conversation will do a couple of things. It will look for blame and it is concerns with the past. It will go “What happened before? Why didn’t it work out?” It will account what’s not there. That’s what disempowering conversation will do and it searches for blame. And empowering conversation is unconcerned with blame. It simply says “What’s next?” And it steps forward with the willing next to be responsible for what happens next. That’s difference between empowering and disempowering conversation.
而这是两类对话的不同。无效对话会做两件事。它会寻求责备，关注过去。它会说：“过去发生了什么？为什么之前没有奏效？”它考虑的不是那里（正前方）。这是无效对话的结果，寻找责备。有效对话则与责备无关，它只是简单地说：“接下来怎么做？”并且富有责任感地步入接下来发生的事。这是有效对话和无效对话的区别所在。

What transforms a life? One empowering choice after the next overtime.
是什么改变生活？在拖延之后作出有效选择。

And you realize, really, there’s no difference between you and someone else. All you need to do is the work

.
你会意识到，真的，你和其他人没有什么不同。你需要做的只是努力工作。

Sometimes when you don’t know what it is and you’re not supposed to be able to do, you will go right ahead to do it. And I did.
有时你不知道那是什么，也不确定是否有能力做成，你一定要去做。我就是这样做的。

You don’t have to be stuck in the situation that you’re in. If there is something in your life that is holding you back, you have to identify what that is. Because I promise you there is a way to break and pass it.
你不必困于现在的处境。如果在你的生活中有些东西使你停滞不前，去认清那是什么。因为必定会有一条出路来突破并跨过它，我向你保证。

There is some vision you have felt life. Where are you in your vision in your career? Where are you in your relationship? There’s something you have going on in your heart and you know in your heart there is so close to stepping into it. I want you to identify the voice inside yourself and begin to trust it. Ask yourself what is it that has been my way and hidden way to block that. Deep dig inside. Because you know all things my mother told me and my later this, later that. Life does not wait for anyone.
你对生活怀有憧憬。在你的梦想中，你的事业是怎样的、你的人际关系如何？这些愿景在你的心中持续，而且你知道通往它的路途并不遥远。我希望你认清自己内心深处的声音，然后开始去相信它。问自己：“是什么阻碍我的路？”，并且深入内心挖掘。因为我的母亲让我懂得，我总是拖延这个、拖延那个。生活不会等待任何人。

Life doesn’t wait for anyone and your life isn’t later. Your life is right now.
生活不会为任何人而等待。你的生活是在现在，而不会发生在以后。

Ask yourself “what if?” Identify what’s in the way and realize that life doesn’t wait for anyone and your life is right now.
问自己：“如果…会怎样？”，认清是什么阻碍你，并且意识到生活是不会等待任何人的，你的生活就是现在。