婚姻不是爱情的坟墓—反方二辩陈词

There are other reasons for our point that ＂marriage is not the grave of love＂.

1.Get married is considered one of the things you must do in your whole life in many best-selling books, but also one of the recommendations to a healthy living.

2. Engels held that the core element of love is responsibility, the nature of love is to take responsibility, is to give. It is marriage that gives such rights and obligations to both parties of a couple.Marriage should be the home of the long-term love, it is a commitment that lovers make to each other, it is the witness of love.

3.Just like the song sings “love and marriage go together like a horse and carrige,you can't have one without the other”. Marriage without love is wrong, love without marriage is regret.

4.Qiong yao considers that the true love begin with the marriage.Marriage eliminated a number of freaky, stunted growth, and psychedelic love. Marriage to love, doesn’t mean choking but a test, a kind of purification.

5. “The success of marriage depends on two people, but only one person can make it fail",said by Stevenson.Marriage is practical and need you to run it sincerely. Marriage is not as simple as we take it for granted.When a lot of problems arise in marriage, love can not solve all of them, but love do give people the power to solve.Love is the foundation and reliance of a happy marriage.As Leonid Dova said, "Marriage is based on

love, intimacy, respect.”

6.＂Marriage is the tomb of love, but if you do not get married, love is dead without burial＂,it’s a classic declaration of love on the Tsinghua BBS. There is another interesting statement between the mass:The true love cannot be broken up,the true marriages cannot be destroyied. The other man or woman is nothing, the matter is someone who can not stand lure.

7.Moines，a famous Jurist in England，justified the point from a series of divorces that the rising divorce rate means the improvement of the marital quality in some degree.Recently the remarriage rate is about 70% or more in China.The fact indicates that rising divorce rate does not mean people should deny marriage itself.

8."Love" can complete itself only with constant motion and sublimation in love, marriage and family.Love as the feeling and emotion,is easy to change and move.In reverse motion, it will gradually die out, and even turn into hate, destroying itself .In forward motion, love will continue to sublimate, complete itself. From heart beat to the passion of love, to a family marriage,to bring up children, love is in constant motion and the process of sublimation.From the moment entering the marriage,love should not be capricious love, but elevated to the ethical love, and turn into family marriage finally. So don’t say love is the the grave of love, transformed into family love is the ideal ascription of love. Just like