英文读后感

Impression after reading<> This is a practical book written by Dale Carnegie. A unique book full of truth and is easy for us to comprehend .

So what contain in this hot book? Most of content tell us how to communicate and get along with oth ers. Carnegie’s words combine his own experience、art of communication and psychology together, so you will find what he said is reliable and reasonable .

There several classics advices given by him.

First, what will attract a person most? Is you won the lottery or had changed a girl friend? No! most of us only are interested in waht touches our benefit or will bring happiness to us. This is a common phenomenon in our daily life, just recall, when you talk with your roommate about your hometown or what you had experienced ,in most case, your roommate would not keep his eyes on your body. That is not complex , will you put your time on what you are not familiar with or not suit your case? Of course not, so if you want to keep a long talk and you hope your relation with listener will gets promoted after that ,trying to find the topics that other person are interested in ,what’s, remember most of time what you ought to do is to keep silence and be a good listener.

Then, how to comfort a person? It is terrible to figure the mistake he or she had made, it only will make he fell more guilty. Unfortunately , a large part of our parents had did so. The right steps is to be a gentleman first , you should be kind ,the tone must be gentle and the speech ought to be slow. In fact, what he wants is just a jar that can receive his sadness and will reply once in a while. In the ordinary course of events, after not more than 1-3 hours’ (depend on how sad he is)talk, he will be positive again , and always makes a plan for the future. You will find you had done nothing except kept your patience .

The book is so splendid that I had read it for 2 times up to now. Every time I recalled it , I will gain new knowledge , this is the power of the book.

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