Ways to have an ideal marriage(如何获得理想的婚姻)

Everyone wants to have a satisfied marriage. But things do not always turn out to be as good as we expect. Many examples show that people’s satisfaction is affected by many aspects, including people’s character, personality, life experience and many other things. As far as I am concerned, I think the most important factors are as follows.

First, I think if the couple wants to get on well with each other, both of them should be tolerant. As you can see, those who keep a good relationship with the other one often have the personality of forgiving others. When there are some arguments, these people may solve the problem with an optimistic attitude. A tolerant person usually has breadth of mind. He or she will treat his or her companion with a good attitude. That is why they get through the hard days between each other.

Second, the couple should trust each other. When there is suspicion, you can not expect good relationship. Husband and wives should be open and sincere to each other and express their true feelings so that little disagreements will not become more and more serious.

Last but not the least; patience is also one of the most important qualities in an ideal marriage. If husbands or wives wait for a minute and listen to the other one, maybe there can be fewer arguments. So those who want an ideal marriage had better develop the personality of being patient to his or her companion.

It is easy for the two to fall in love. But it’s relatively hard to sustain the harmonious relationship. People should find ways to their ideal marriage. If every family can create a harmonious atmosphere, I am sure we can have a better society.