英语：女方比男方收入高,你在意吗？
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In such diversifying society, ladies now can earn much more money than the gentlemen do. And it is especially not a unusual case between either lovers or couples. As to this, some complaints were formed from a few of female netizens. They, who is with independent economic excellent and is a reliable provider, really hope that their men can shoulder the vast majority of housework, since these income-maker have been fed up in the workplaces. However, the gentlemen don’t think so. They accused such requests from their women are nothing but tough tasks and hush crack down on their self-esteem. Hence, they created an ever-widing gap between each other, and led to the disharmony. Dear friends, if things like that happened on you, what is your first consideration?
I don’t think it is a big deal if a woman’s salary is more than her husband, but the reality is that most of the men in China hold the view of man is the leader of a family, especially in control the finance of a household, and such conception has already rooted in Chinese’s mind for more than thousand years. How can we overcome the traditional idea in a short term? Even their wives don’t care their spouses earn less than themselves, their husbands also can not stand the comments from others. It is not hard to imagine such a picture as this, it is normal for a man manages his wife to serve a cup of tea for him, but if his wife got home ask him to do something for her, the illusion would be another version, maybe the husband could think his wife treat him as a slave or his position becomes lower and lower than his wife just because of his income is less relative to his wife. I can tell that a large proportion of man can not accept their wives pay for the bills when they dinning out, and seldom man will ask his partner to lend him money though out the financial adversity. Is it tomes the bread winner of a family
My opinion is that a family’s harmony and stability are based on steady financial support. This steady income means coordinated income between the husband and wife.
Anyway if you want to create a harmonious family, as a high salary wife, you should not make yourself more dominating or make your husband more submissive, as for a husband who earns less than his spouse should not feel that yourt wife’s salary is more than yours is bruising your ego
Do you mind if your woman is a provider more reliable than you?
在这个多元化的社会，无论是情侣还是夫妻，女方比男方收入高的情况越来越常见。有女性网友抱怨：自己经济独立，收入比男方高，平时工作压力也大，所以希望男方能多承担些家务。但男方却认为女方对自己要求苛刻，自尊心受到打击，因此分歧不断，生活变得不再和谐。假如你遇到这样的问题，你是怎么看待的呢？
I don’t think it is a big deal if a woman’s salary is more than her husband, but the reality is that most of the men in China hold the view of man is the leader of a family, especially in control the finance of a household, and such conception has already rooted in Chinese’s mind for more than thousand years. How can we overcome the traditional idea in a short term? Even their wives don’t care their spouses earn less than themselves, their husbands also can not stand the comments from others. It is not hard to imagine such a picture as this, it is normal for a man manages his wife to serve a cup of tea for him, but if his wife got home ask him to do something for her, the illusion would be another version, maybe the husband could think his wife treat him as a slave or his position becomes lower and lower than his wife just because of his income is less relative to his wife. I can tell that a large proportion of man can not accept their wives pay for the bills when they dinning out, and seldom man will ask his partner to lend him money though out the financial adversity. Is it tomes the bread winner of a family
My opinion is that a family’s harmony and stability are based on steady financial support. This steady income means coordinated income between the husband and wife.
Anyway if you want to create a harmonious family, as a high salary wife, you should not make yourself more dominating or make your husband more submissive, as for a husband who earns less than his spouse should not feel that yourt wife’s salary is more than yours is bruising your ego
Do you mind if your woman is a provider more reliable than you?
在这个多元化的社会，无论是情侣还是夫妻，女方比男方收入高的情况越来越常见。有女性网友抱怨：自己经济独立，收入比男方高，平时工作压力也大，所以希望男方能多承担些家务。但男方却认为女方对自己要求苛刻，自尊心受到打击，因此分歧不断，生活变得不再和谐。假如你遇到这样的问题，你是怎么看待的呢？